St. Ambrose Parish

St. Monica Church ! ! ! !

! The parish office is located at 30 Caputo Rd., North Branford ! Office Hours: Monday, Wednesday, Thursday & Friday 9 AM 1 PM Tuesday 9 AM 6 PM ! 203 484 0403 ! ! MASS TIMES ! Saturday Vigil: 4pm St. Augustine, 5:30pm St. Monica! Sunday Mass: 9am St. Monica, 11am St. Augustine ! Daily Mass: Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Friday, Saturday 9am St. Monica ! 24th Sunday in Ordinary Time ! ! ! September 15, 2019 ! WeWe’’’’rere glad you joined us! ST. AMBROSE PARISH

Adoration of Our Lord 5-6 PM St. Monica every Monday & Tuesday First Fridays from 6am—1pm St. Augustine Chapel “Be still and know that ! I am God”… Psalm 45 ! Stop in anytime and spend some quiet time just being in the presence of Jesus!

! Put First Sunday’s 9am Mass on Your Calendar ! ! ! Weekly Support ! Beginning October 6 ! Actual Offertory Collected: $11,006.00 ! join us on Actual Budgeted Need: $8,022.00 ! First Sundays This Week: over (short): $2,984.00 ! THANK YOU FOR YOUR GENEROSITY! ! in the church hall following the 9am Mass for a bite to !"#$%& Pastor, Rev. Robert L. Turner ! eat, some coffee [email protected] ! and fellowship! Deacon, Dcn. Joseph Marenna ! [email protected] ! Ministries Next Week NThank you for your time & service ! to our Lord and our parish! !

! St. Augustine: September 21 M 4:00 PM Lector: Kathy Mychajlowskyj Altar Servers: Shane & Mason Esposito, Nicky Konesky alk ! EMHC: Drew Ackerman, Mary Ann Forbes ! St. Monica: September 21 5:30 PM Lector: Karyl Morton ! Altar Server: Johnny Six Understanding ! The Mass ! St. Monica: September 22 9:00 AM More Deeply ! Lector: Ann Raymond Altar Servers: Maiah and Ava Raymond Your votes on the Sunday Survey helped us St. Augustine: September 22 11:00 AM to chose the September Faith Talk topic: ! Lector: Amanda Couture Understanding the Mass More Deeply ! Altar Servers: Ava, Sophie and Lilah Gambardella : ! EMHC Fran Consiglio, Marie Frosolone Please join Fr. Turner on ! SUNDAY, SEPTEMBER 29 @ 7pm ! St. Augustine Chapel ! All are welcome! ! SAVE THE DATE! OCTOBER 5th 8AM to 4PM ! (Last drop of dates: Sept. 17, 4 6p & Sept. 21, 3 4p St. Augustine Hall) ! 24th Sunday in Ordinary Time ! ! ! September 15, 2019

! ! Welcome and God Bless ! This week the tabernacle light burns ! at St. Augustine in honor of Bryce Richard Miller who wad Baptized this weekend ! Evelyn Surprenant at St. Ambrose Parish. ! on her 100th Birthday

PLEASE REMEMBER THE SICK OF OUR COMMUNITY IN PRAYER!

Dick Bartholomew, Jean Bartholomew, Bill Ceder, Chad, Bea Charbonneau, Monica Cucchiarelli, Paulie Civitelli, Judy Clearwater, Carrie Louise Conte, Terri Esposito, Eno Kraft, Flo Langdon, Leslie Lippman Jim Loughlin, George Lussier, Gloria Martino, Frank Paolercio, Patricia Paolercio, Donald Petrow, Mylissa Quagliano, Arthur Riccio, Jr., Edna Rourke, Fred Schiavo, Karen Seifort, Thomas ! NOTE: Our parish family is very happy to pray for all who are experiencing illness or are in need of special prayer. !

DATE CHURCH MASS TIME INTENTION REQUESTED BY MONDAY ! St. Monica 9:00 AM † John Rak 9/16 ! TUESDAY ! St. Monica 9:00 AM A Mass of Thanksgiving for the Wee Tim Wee 9/17 ! Family WEDNESDAY ! St. Monica 9:00 AM † Jean & Bill Stanek ! Genevieve Karbowski 9/18 ! THURSDAY ! No Mass ! 9/19 !

FRIDAY ! St. Monica 9:00 AM † John Pogwizd Genevieve Karbowski 9/20 ! SATURDAY ! St. Monica 9:00 AM No Intention 9/21 ! St. Augustine 4:00 PM † Salvatore J. Calabro Severino Family St. Monica 5:30 PM † Vivian Massey Massey Family † Shirley Palasiewski Fusco Family † Carmela Marenna Baker Family SUNDAY ! St. Monica 9:00 AM † Filomena Lavorgna Fusco Family 9/22 ! † Anna Turek Daughter † Billy Richardson Palmieri Family St. Augustine 11:00 AM Parishioners of St. Ambrose

! ! ! ! ! Please join us on ! ! ! ! Please join us for CGS material Wednesday, Sept 18 ! making session on Wednesday, ! 9:45a St. Monica Church Hall ! ! ! ! September 18 from 3 5p at St. ! Our book selection is ! ! ! Augustine Parish Center . We will “Where the Crawdads Sing” be painting, coloring and cutting authored by Delia Owens. We look as we lovingly create materials forward to an hour of stimulating to build our Level II Atrium for discussion and fellowship. our 6 9 year old children that will All are welcome! begin in October. 24th Sunday in Ordinary Time ! ! ! September 15, 2019

Dear Brothers & Sisters in Christ: ! ! Although Tertullian (b.160A.D.) left the church formally just prior to his death forming a sect [many of whom were reconciled to the th church by St. Augustine in the 4 century], his early writings are a brilliant and beautiful exposition of what the disciples in the second century believed and held. One such work, “On Repentance” describes the nature of penitence and conversion both for one who is to be baptized and also for those who having been baptized have nevertheless lost their baptismal grace due to subsequent sin. Thus Tertullian: ! ! “We have escaped once. Let us not place ourselves in danger again, even though it seems that we shall again escape. Most men who are saved from shipwreck divorce both ship and sea from that time on, and they show their appreciation of the gift of God, that is, their salvation, by remembering their peril. I praise their fear and I appreciate their timidity. They are unwilling, a second time, to burden the mercy of God. They are afraid that they may seem to trample under foot that which they have re- ceived. Assuredly it is with a wise solicitude that they avoid chancing a second time something which they have once learned to fear. Thus in checking their presumption they give proof of their fear, and man’s fear is God’s glory” (Tertullian, On Repent- ance, 7). ! ! In the early church sometimes even those who believed in Christ would postpone their baptism for fear that having been reconciled to God, having been made a new creature, they would go back to their old ways and offend the majesty, mercy and justice of God. It was felt that if one sins post baptism, they in some way trampled upon the goodness and mercy of God, who had given them the power to overcome all temptations. Thus, famously we think of the Emperor Constantine who, although he converted to Christ Je- sus much earlier, waited until his deathbed in 337 to be baptized. ! ! What about those who unfortunately, due to sin, lose their original baptismal innocence and grace? How do they recover what was lost? Tertullian continues: ! ! “Whom are we to understand by that father? God, of course! No one is so much a father. No one is so devoted. Therefore He will take you back as His son, even though you will have wasted what He gave you. Even though you come back stripped of all things, He will receive you Nprecisely because you have come back. He will be happier over your return than over another’s self control, but only if you repent from the bottom of your heart, only if you contrast your hunger with the repletion of your father’s servants, only if you abandon the filthy herd of swine, only if you seek out your Father, even though He be offended, and say to Him: Father, I have sinned and I am no longer worthy to be called Thine. Confession lightens an offense as much as concealment aggravates it, for confession is counseled by satisfaction and concealment by impeni- tence” (Tertullian, On Repentance, 8). ! ! Jesus, like us in all things but sin, knows the weakness of humanity. After his resurrection but before his ascension, he gave to the apostles and their successors (bishops) and coworkers (priests) the capacity to not only preach the word which calls one to repentance but also to reconcile (either “first penance” baptism or “second penance” the sacrament of penance and reconciliation). The priest has the gift and responsibility to serve humanity by reconciling them to God! This is done by baptism but also for those who have lost their baptismal grace due to sin by what we colloquially term “confession.” ! ! In our Lord’s pastoral ministry people would come to him to be unburdened and to have their sins forgiven. For those who have sinned post baptism, they experience this today in the sacrament of penance and reconciliation. The priest, as one who is con- formed to Jesus to continue his pastoral ministry, is called to serve as the instrument whereby people can receive the forgiveness of sin and be reconciled to God in just the same way they were two thousand years ago with the Lord himself. In confession the sinner speaks to God, but through the priest (he’s like a telephone). Through the priest the sinner receives the assurance their sins are forgiven and that they can begin anew. ! ! The elements of a good confession are: (1) an examination of conscience aided by the Ten Commandments, the Beatitudes, Pre- cepts of the Church, and other means guided by the light of the Holy Spirit; (2) true sorrow for having offended God; (3) the confession of sin to the priest Nwith specificity and directness: indicating the species (kind) of sin and the number of times it has been committed; (4) accepting the penance assigned by the priest with a firm purpose of amendment to sin no more; and finally (5) the absolution by the priest. After a good confession, the soul is restored in friendship to God and is given a fresh start. ! ! Fr. Ratzinger (later Pope Benedict XVI) while preaching on the occasion of a first Mass of Thanksgiving in 1962 said of confession: ! ! “T he reception of the sacrament of Penance has become less frequent. But that changes nothing of the fact that sin exists even today and that we need forgiveness even today. What does it mean if we know that man can repent. That now and then in the course of the year he is obliged, not to shift blame onto others, but to reflect on himself. To accuse himself. To see and confess his sin. To acknowledge he is guilty. That he has made mistakes. And what does it mean to know that there is forgiveness. That I can make a new beginning. That there is an authority that can say: Go, your sins are forgiven. From God’s forgiveness, however, we ourselves should learn again and again to forgive, for a world without forgiveness could only become a world of mutual destruction. The privilege of pronouncing the word of forgiveness is one of the most difficult and most beautiful tasks of the priest: often it is oppressive to be the place where all the filth of mankind is laid down. And, nevertheless, it is at the same time an activity full of hope: to know that everything can be transformed, that a person is allowing himself to be transformed.” ! ! May the Lord bring to fulfillment the good work he has begun in us. !! ! !!!!!!!!!! In Christ, Fr. Turner ! 24th Sunday in Ordinary Time ! ! ! September 15, A Walk Through Genesis ! Walking with Purpose ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! Men’s Program NBegins on October 2 ! ! Women’s Program NBegins on October 2 Genesis is foundational to the whole Bible, and to eve- ! ry human life. Genesis tells us who God is, who we Walking with purpose is the modern woman’s guide to are and Gods plan of salvation. All men of the parish the bible. Are you stretched and would like a way to are invited to this program this fall. We will meet in the refuel and be refreshed while making authentic con- hall at St. Monica for a light dinner on Wednesday nections with others? Would you like a better under- evenings at 6pm followed by a talk and small groups. ! standing of your faith and learn more about God? ! ! ! We’ll delve into some great topics. ! We’ll help you slow down and give a little time to your The nature of “time” [how do we use our time, heart and spiritual life. We’ll meet on Wednesday eve- ! what’s important to us, if time is a gift, how can nings at 6pm in the hall at St. Monica for a light dinner ! teach our children to spend time wisely] ! followed by small group discussion. Together we’ll Creation [why does God create, does God reveal share everyday challenges in an atmosphere of hon- ! his love for us in creation, how can we experi esty and authenticity, accepting each other for who we ! ence God’s love in creation] ! are beloved daughters of God. ! The Human Person [what does it mean to be made ! ! in God’s image, what is our intellect and will, In our small group discussions we’ll cover many topics ! how do we love like God, what is our life ulti such as. ! ! mately !about] ! Why is Jesus interested in a friendship with me. ! The nature and conditions of “dominion,” [what is What does the Eucharist have to do with Christ’s ! ! the nature of work, care for the environment, ! Friendship with me. ! ! role of !dominion in family life] ! What does Penance have to do with Christ’s friend ! What does it mean to be fruitful, [children, co ! ship with me. ! ! create !with God, image the creator by cultiva What are the limits of Christ’s forgiveness. ! ! ting the world, how do we do this] ! How can I conquer my fears. ! What is the meaning of the sabbath rest, [how do Can God really change me or is that wishful ! ! we do this as a family, what does “rest” really ! thinking. ! ! mean, why do we need rest, how do we rest, What is the role of suffering in my life. ! ! what is the ultimate, eschatological rest which What does Mary have to do with my relationship ! ! awaits us] ! ! With Christ. ! The nature of the “good.” [themes of relativism, na What is grace and what difference does it make. ! ! ture, how does truth, freedom, and goodness How can I conquer my fears. ! ! interrelate] ! ! ! ! ! We’ll cover these topics, talk about Jesus, the Holy This is just the first chapter! We will cover many topics Spirit, how we pray and much more! The program will as we walk through Genesis together. Join us to slow run at the same time as the men’s program for 11 down, give a little time to your spiritual life while mak- weeks in the fall and 11 weeks in the spring. $40 per ing some authentic connections with other men in the person. If you have a spouse who is attending the parish. ! men’s program then the cost is $55 per couple. ! ! ! Call or stop by the parish office to register. ! Jesus wants your friendship and your focus on him $40 per person. If you have a spouse attending the this year! Join us. Register by stopping by or calling Women’s program ‘Walking with Purpose’ which the parish office. Register soon Nspaces are limited. ! meets the same time then the cost is $55 per couple. Register soon Nspaces are limited. ! ! ! followed by some great talks on

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! ! O “Let the children come to me, and do not hinder Sept. 16 Adoration 5:00 6:00 pm Location: St. Monica Church them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to Sept. 17 ! Legion of Mary 9:30 am such as these." R Mahew 19:14 Location: St. Monica Education Center Do you love children? Are you looking for a way to serve in Faith Sharing Groups 9:30am Location: St. Monica Education Center our parish? Have you been searching for a way to give back Bible Study with Deacon Hart 1pm to others, to lighten someone's load, to make another Location: St. Augustine Parish Center woman’s life just a lile bit easier? ! Tag Sale Drop Off (clean items please) ! We are oﬀering Catholic Bible studies, Walking With Pur- Location: St. Augustine Hall 4 6pm ! pose and A Walk Through Genesis, to the women and men Adoration 5:00 6:00pm Location: St. Monica Church of the parish this fall. Men and women will come together Sept. 18 ! Book Club 9:45am in the hall for a light dinner and then break into their Location: St. Monica Hall group. We are seeking to build a child care ministry to Ladies Guild Meeting 6:30pm make our program more accessible to parents with young Location: St. Monica Hall children. We are praying for a few women to serve once a Sept. 20 ! Youth Choir Practice 4:30pm week by providing childcare, giving the children dinner, Adult Choir Practice 5:30pm Bible story me, and indoor play. This beauful opportuni- Location: St. Augustine Church Rosary 7:00pm ty will allow the mothers and fathers of our parish the me to receive the love and care they so very much need given Location: St. Monica Church Sept. 21 ! Discipleship Retreat Osee information below. to them through the wrien Word of Christ and the fellow- Last Tag Sale Drop of 3 !4pm ship of other women and men in our parish. Your YES to Location: St. Augustine Hall this role will be the answer to a parent's prayer! All that is needed is an outpouring of love for children and the desire N ! to build up God’s Kingdom by serving the ones who belong Discipleship Retreat Open to All to heaven. ! Join us on SEPTEMBER 21 ! Perfect for older moms who miss holding their babies, !! teens and college Raged young adults looking for service Jesus calls us to be his disciples. ! hours, or the experienced mother who can recall those "in What does it mean to be a disciple? ! the trenches" years and would love to reach out and help! How do we embrace this new life? ! Please prayerfully consider and call or email the par- What holds us back and how can we find ! ish oﬃce for details. ! the peace and joy of God in discipleship? ! !! Join Father Turner for a retreat on ! RCI@ Saturday, September 21st ! Are you or someone you know thinking about becoming St. Monica Hall. ! Catholic? !Have you been Baptized but need additional Retreat will begin following morning Mass ! Sacraments? ! ! and will conclude at 2:00pm. ! ! Lunch will be provided. ! RCIA (Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults) will begin on th Open to all Men and Women of the Parish. ! September 26 in the chapel at St. Augustine at ! 7pm. ! Invite your family, your neighbor or a friend. Please call the office to register, spaces are limited. Through RCIA you will learn about the faith, about church teachings, about the Mass and the sacraments and then HELP WANTED NOCTOBER 5th become members of the church. The RCIA process is open to: ! ! ● Adults who are not baptized and are interested in learning We would like to be able to more about the Catholic faith ! offer breakfast and lunch at ● Adults baptized in another Christian church and might be the tag sale on Saturday, ! interested in becoming a Catholic October 5th. If your willing ● Adults baptized Catholic but have yet to receive the Sac- to cook or help in the kitch- raments of Confirmation and Eucharist. ! M en or lend a hand with ta- There is no commitment come to the RCIA intro- bles, please let us know. ! ! ductory meeting and see if RCIA is for you. ! PORTO FUNERAL HOMES 234 Foxon Road (Rt. 80) / East Haven • 203-467-3000 Offering assistance with PRE-planning and PRE-financing • Burials ~ Cremation DIRECTORS: ANNE MARIE PORTO DELUCIA / CLEMENT L. DELUCIA, ALBERT M. DELUCIA 830 Jones Hill Road, West Haven, CT 06516 • (203) 934-5000

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