Temple Adath Yeshurun Bar / Bat Mitzvah Participation and Timing within Service

October, 2016 revision

Presentation of Tallit: After Shaharit, right before Torah service begins the Tallit is presented by parents, grandparents, or other relative. Child rises and says brakha. Those giving the tallit drape it over the child’s shoulders. Rabbi announces start of Torah service – page 394. Child, family members and all those participating in opening part of Torah service ascend the bimah at this time. Parents take the 7th aliyah. Let Rabbi Drazen or Barbara know if you would like our instructions about how to take aliyah. Hatzi Kaddish is said. Child has maftir aliyah. When the child has completed her/his aliyah, parents say the barukh shepetaranu prayer after bar/t mitzvah completes the brakha for the aliyah, but before the haftarah. Read both the Hebrew and the English. There is a sheet with wording provided on the pulpit and you will get a card as well. ברוך שפטרנו מעונשו שלזה .For boys: barukh shep’ta-ranu may onsho she la ze ברוך שפטרנו מעונשה שלזו .For girls: barukh shep’ta-ranu may onsha she la zo Immediately after haftarah – Rabbi and Ba’alat Tefilah recite mi-sheberakh for bar/t mitzvah. After Ashrei, the service continues on page 422, with the service to return the Torah to the ark. Those participating in closing part of Torah service ascend the bimah at this time. Family members join the processional. After Torah is returned to ark:  Child gives devar Torah.  Rabbi speaks to Bar/t Mitzvah. At the end of his remarks, the rabbi calls on the family to rise and say shehehiyanu.” Cards with blessing provided.  Sermon At the end of Musaf – after aleinu and kaddish, page 512, but before Adon Olam Parent message to child* 2-3 minutes (optional). Rabbi reviews remarks before. Presentation of gifts to child “donor” gives gift: Sisterhood, USY, Epstein have representative giving gift

Saturday Morning SERVICE FLOW SHEET – Standard Shabbat

p. 10 Birkhot Hashachar; top of 12 conclude section. p. 17-19 Section of study and Kaddish Derabbanan p. 50-52 Psalm 30 Hebrew; p. 52 Mourner’s Kaddish p. 54 Baruch She’amar p. 76-82 Mizmor shir l’yom hashabbat - Ashrei; p. 88 Psalm 150 p. 334 Nishmat through Barchu - p. 342 Eil Adon through Shema etc. p. 354 Amidah (out loud through Kedusha) p. 362 Sim Shalom p. 392 Kaddish Shalem p. 32 Psalm for Shabbat; Mourners’ Kaddish [52]

Tallit presentation. Close with Service to take out the Torah, p. 394 Family comes forward – ANNOUNCE Torah Service begins on p. 394 p. 394 Torah Service English reading before Bei Ana Racheitz board member p. 398 Bei Ana Racheitz p. 398 Shema etc. to end of page

Torah Reading 4th aliyah – simha aliyah – Rabbi reads prayer for simha aliyah Mishebeirach for sick - ask congregation for additional names – 5th aliyah – yahrzeits After haftarah, special mi sheberakh for b/mitz p. 415 Prayer for congregation and Prayer for country in English p. 416 Prayer for Israel - song p. 420 Ashrei p. 422 Service for returning Torah to the Ark

B”Mitz speech – rabbi “charge” for BMitz – family rises for she-he-hiyanu - Sermon p. 428 Chatzi Kaddish p.430 Musaf Amidah (out loud through Kedusha) p. 438 Sim Shalom p. 506 Kaddish Shalem p. 508 Ein Keloheinu p. 510 Aleinu; read Yahrzteit list and Mourner’s Kaddish

Announcements Gifts to BMitz. Parent speaks p. 514 Adon Olam p. 734 Kiddush