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Outdoor classroom environment she’s always dreamed model advances early of. educational learning “I’ve always embraced the natural world,” Sender said. “We’ve By Leah Vann always done a lot outside; we just Playing outdoors isn’t just recess haven’t done almost everything time for kids at Temple Emanu-El; outside.” it’s actually their classroom now The school, which educates too. kids from infancy to age 6, went Since the COVID-19 pandemic online initially in March. While sent kids to learn at home in the teachers put forth their best March, schools have tried varying efforts, it didn’t feel like the right degrees of hybrid, online and in- way to continue, Sender said. person classroom experiences. “I personally feel like the Most, including Temple Emanu- children need to be in a social El’s Early Childhood Education environment where they are Center, were online for the learning to share and how to face remainder of the spring. Over the confl ict,” said Mercedes Macedo, Photo: Courtesy Temple Emanu-El summer, Shelly Sender, senior who teaches 3-year-olds. “This Taylor Yoss leading the Keshet class in yoga director of Early Childhood social development happens when Education, saw an opportunity we are all together in one space.” is limited when the kids are to interact and just kind of and fi elds with picnic benches, to create the outdoor learning Plus, the ability to explore peering through a screen. Temple engage with the outdoor things milk crates, tree limbs and logs for Emanu-El takes a Reggio-inspired that are not toys,” Exum said. children to make pathways, bunks approach to its curriculum, where “There is an eye toward the and hiding areas. children’s curiosity shapes the integration of materials in While the kids are outdoors, NOW OPEN! curriculum and the classroom their own creative minds and where the risk of spreading the plays a role in that, Sender said. imaginations.” virus is low, they still wear their Having school outside was The Temple grounds had masks. Teachers help facilitate Wednesdays – Sundays 10:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m. an option Natalie Exum, who ample room for 20 designated the use of bathroom facilities has three kids in the program, outdoor classroom spaces for its indoors so that they are properly brought to Sender’s attention back 250 students, and Sender decided distanced. in March. As an environmental there was no bad weather for a day Liz Chalfant, who has two health scientist for Johns Hopkins at the outdoor classroom. Kids kids in the program, said that she University specializing in infectious dress prepared for any weather, felt uneasy at fi rst sending her diseases, she said that COVID-19 and tarps are used for shelter kids back to in-person schooling. does not survive as well as other when rain threatens the day. The She hadn’t taken them to see any viruses in outdoor spaces, so she classes rotate spaces every four family members or even taken wasn’t nervous at all about sending weeks. them with her to the supermarket her children back to school The school includes a teaching in six months. Their only social Get tickets at DHHRM.ORG outdoors. In fact, it could be better. kitchen garden, tables for kids to interaction was occasionally with “I feel like there’s a freedom write, access to an amphitheater neighbors outside. But with the school requiring masks in addition to being outdoors, she felt more at GROWING BUSINESSES Jewish War Veterans of the USA ease. A Jewish voice for Veterans; a Veteran’s “Graham, my 2-year-old, wears Audit · Tax · Consulting his mask all the way up over his voice for Jews since 1896 nose, all day long, which I was 214.346.5800 | Top 20 CPA Firm We are committed to upholding America’s skeptical that you would ever be able to do,” Chalfant said. “But democratic traditions and fi ghting prejudice, Shelly always said, ‘You’ll be Service delivered by partners you know and trust. injustice, & discrimination of all kinds surprised by the teachers here and what we’ll be able to get your kids **Learn More & Join Us** to do,’ and he wears his mask all day.” Chalfant recalls the early days Veterans, regardless of wartime service, of the pandemic, when she had

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Exum says that her kids have it,” Exum said. “Those are often a newfound appreciation for the experiences you can get being natural world after searching for outside.” earthworms, building materials Sender recognizes that this ARNIE SWEET SCHOLAR IN RESIDENCE out of logs and growing a variety model wouldn’t work everywhere, of vegetables that they use to since many states have harsh make healthy meals. In addition, winters that wouldn’t allow for safe RABBI ED FEINSTEIN her sons will bring home craft outdoor spaces year-round. But projects, such as acorns to make Sender hopes Temple Emanu-El is necklaces for their friends. It’s the able to continue this year’s model VIRTUAL little things that can lead to an indefinitely. January 28,29 & 30, 2021 enhanced education in the long “The kids are thinking out of run. the box and analytically,” Sender RSVP now at anshaitorah.org or 972-473-7718 “Children love to read when said. “Children are kinetic learners they have experiences in their and I look at this and I think: lives that make them understand ‘What a silver lining.’” 5501 WEST PARKER ROAD PLANO, TEXAS 75093 MEMBER USCJ 4 | December 17, 2020 HANUKKAH 2020 Hanukkah lights brighten Arabian nights

First-ever menorah The pace of growth of Jewish lighting in UAE life in the UAE has multiplied since the Sept. 15 signing of the historic By Dovid Margolin Abraham Accords normalization (Chabad.org/News via JNS) For agreement between the Emirates the first time in history, a giant and Israel as part of U.S.-brokered Jimmy Wisch public menorah has been raised in negotiations. It has also allowed Publisher & Editor | 1947-2002 the United Arab Emirates. The 12- for an immediate influx of Israeli foot metal menorah was designed tourists, expected to hit 40,000 Rene Wisch and constructed locally and stands travelers by the end of the year. Publisher & Editor | 1947-2010 at the foot of the Burj Khalifa, the The agreement has likewise made tallest building in the world, for it simpler for Duchman to bring PUBLISHER & EDITOR all eight nights of Hanukkah. in Jewish entertainment: Israeli Sharon Wisch-Ray “The menorah is an age-old singers Yishai Lapidot, Moshe [email protected] symbol of religious tolerance Louk, Chaim Yisrael and Ruli Photo: Yehuda Lavi/JCC of the UAE on Chabad.org/News The first-ever public Hanukkah menorah-lighting in the United Arab Emirates, and a beacon of hope for all Dikman are headlining the string led by Chabad-Lubavitch Rabbi Levi Duchman VP SALES & CIRCULATION of humanity,” says Rabbi Levi of Hanukkah concerts. Susan Wisch Duchman, director of Chabad- The events are being held [email protected] Lubavitch of the UAE and the under the auspices of the Jewish country’s rabbi since arriving Community Center (JCC) of the VP SALES & MARKETING in 2015. “There is no more UAE, led by Duchman and hosted Amy Doty appropriate sign of the respect the at the Armani Hotel’s glatt-kosher [email protected] Jewish community of the UAE KAF restaurant. As Hanukkah has received here, as well as this approached, they actively prepared PAGE DESIGNER country’s spirit of coexistence, to serve guests. Chad Austin than the menorah, so this is “We’ve shechted 20,000 kosher [email protected] exciting for all of us here.” chickens just over the last few The desert country has in recent days,” reports Duchman, whose AD REPRESENTATIVES decades transformed from a sleepy Emirates Agency for Kosher Nancy Sadicarios backwater into a sleek metropolis, Certification (EAKC) oversees [email protected] with gleaming new towers, glass KAF in Dubai, as well as — Judy Wisch malls and a string of artificial working in partnership with the Photo: Yehuda Lavi/JCC of the UAE on Chabad.org/News Each night of Hanukkah features a holiday concert, where, on the first ight,n islands (including the world’s Abu Dhabi Department of Culture Rabbi Duchman lit a smaller menorah, joined by singer Yishai Lapidot. COPY EDITORS/PROOFREADERS largest) rising from the turquoise and Tourism — the Armed Forces Phyllis LaVietes, Susan Wisch waters. Gaining inspiration Officers Club and Hotel in the says Rabbi Levitin. “Our goal is to parents of the country’s Talmud from the modern marvels that capital. help the light of Hanukkah extend Torah, which was established in COLUMNISTS/CONTRIBUTORS surround them, the UAE’s Perhaps most exciting for the throughout the year.” 2016 and is the UAE’s only Jewish Rabbi Yerachmiel Fried, Harriet P. Gross, Jewish community is planning fledgling Jewish community is They already have their hands educational institution. Rabbi Dan Lewin, Laura Seymour, Deb nightly Hanukkah concerts and news that this Hanukkah, they full: Chabad of the UAE has “I am moved that my daughter Silverthorn, Jerry Kasten, Rabbi Benjamin celebrations, each evening topped are being joined by the newest imported 2,000 menorah and Sara will experience a true Sternman and Rabbi Yogi Robkin off with the lighting of their new Chabad couple, Israeli-born Rabbi candle kits to be distributed to any Hanukkah here in the UAE,” says menorah. Some 500 Jews — both Levi and Nechamy Levitin, whom Jew who does not have a menorah Emilie, a Talmud Torah parent. MULTI-MEDIA INTERN locals and tourists alike — were Duchman has appointed to work of their own. Aside from the “For her to be able to grow up Hannah Simon expected to join the celebrations with the exploding number of concerts, Hanukkah events are in the desert with such Jewish each night, which are taking place Israelis. taking place in both Dubai and pride is a modern-day miracle.” EDITORIAL ASSISTANT at the Armani Hotel adjacent to “My wife and I are excited to Abu Dhabi, including a holiday Reprinted with permission from Daniela Appel the Burj. join this amazing community,” program for the children and Chabad.org/News. AD DESIGN FOR SALE Chad Austin [email protected]

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DALLAS — The Jewish Highlights include her role as chief Federation rededicates Federation of Greater Dallas development offi cer for the Jewish (JFGD) has appointed Donna Federation of San Diego County, Jacob Feldman Building Ostrower as chief development executive director for the Israel After almost 14 months of complete interior renovation, the Jewish offi cer. A seasoned fundraising Cancer Research Fund, and most Federation of Greater Dallas received its certifi cate of occupancy last professional, Ostrower joined recently, west coast director and week and is ready to move back into its permanent home. The Oct. 20, the Federation team on Dec. 1, national director of foundation 2019, tornado decimated the interior of the Jacob Feldman Building. fi lling the vacancy left by Mariam relations for the American Society Shpeen Feist, who was promoted of the University of Haifa in Los Before the pandemic, Federation staff members worked temporarily to president and CEO in August Angeles. from the Mankoff Center on the second fl oor of the Jewish Community 2019. “I view my work as a passion, Center. Since COVID-19, staff has worked remotely, albeit not missing Drawing on her 30-year career not as a job,” said Ostrower. a beat when it comes to serving the Greater Dallas Jewish community. in philanthropic management, “My grandmother Lena, a Lion On Tuesday, just before press time, Federation past chairs, board Ostrower will drive the of Judah, introduced me to the members and staff joined via Zoom to rededicate the building. organization’s annual community power of philanthropy, and I look Donna Ostrower Board Chair A.J. Rosmarin noted the appropriateness that the building campaign, build relationships forward to honoring her legacy was being rededicated on the sixth night of Hanukkah. with major donors, and develop by using my expertise to help the experience leading development “The parallels are worth noting. First, the word ‘Hanukkah’ means endowment giving opportunities Dallas Federation continue to teams to success and producing ‘dedication.’ — in support of 75 essential fi nd innovative ways to change results in a variety of urban Jewish “Just as the Hanukkah menorah is a guiding light and tribute when organizations that touch the lives lives — on my team and in the communities.” there was darkness in the Temple, to provide hope and comfort, so of Jewish community members in community.” Ostrower holds a B.A. in Dallas, in Israel and around the Partnering with community education and special education is the Jewish Federation of Greater Dallas and its mission of caring world. stakeholders, donors, volunteers from Goucher College and for those in need. And while the Maccabees overcame the obstacles Having spent time in Houston, and staff, Ostrower is poised to an M.Ed. in administration presented to them, so has the Federation — especially you the Ostrower is new to Dallas, but she lead the Federation’s efforts to and supervision from Virginia professional staff , the board, past board chairs here today via Zoom, was attracted to return to Texas achieve and, perhaps, exceed its Commonwealth University. She and all other volunteers — by meeting the challenges of the tornado after 14 years in California to seize $10.5 million annual campaign arrives on Dec. 17, and after a two- and now the pandemic head-on. It’s all about resilience in the face of the Federation opportunity — goal — in an exceptionally week COVID quarantine, she and adversity that keeps us going.” even in the middle of a pandemic. challenging year ahead. her dog, Bella, are looking forward Rabbi Mordechai Harris, executive director of the Federation’s Center for She brings an impressive “We are thrilled to add Donna’s to exploring Dallas. Jewish Education, affi xed the mezuzah on the Federation’s entry door. resume of accomplishments fundraising knowledge to the —Submitted by in nonprofi t, education and Federation family,” said Shpeen Elaine Gantz Wright, The TJP will cover the JFGD’s building renovation in more depth in next week’s issue. Jewish organizations nationwide. Feist. “She brings a wealth of JFGD marketing manager

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“They understand middot, the as receiving gifts. local police and fire departments, responsibilities we carry, and The family instituted a “give paid for orders of pizza and drinks we’re very proud.” and get” Hanukkah. Each year to IDF soldiers in Israel, donated Ten years ago, Mara Cohen the children receive a present for clothing and toys to those in need was inspired by a lecture called four nights while the other four and much more. December Dilemma. She believed nights are reserved for giving to The family’s “give and get” it was important to make sure others. spirit creates a holiday of sharing the concept of giving during the Over the years, the children have and caring, shining all eight holidays was at least as significant baked cookies and brownies for nights and all year long. How's your financial outlook?

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FIRST PERSON had been untouched for decades. much less playing with, collector Each doll was a gift from little dolls. Alice’s blonde hair spilled By Hollace Ava Weiner Pauline’s great-grandmother and down her back. The cameo at My daughter’s text message namesake. Scarlett O’Hara’s bodice looked arrived on April 1, but it was no No one had ever played with prim and proper on Snow White. April Fool’s prank. Two weeks them. The Tin Man’s heart, a gift from into the coronavirus lockdown, “Take them out,” my the Wizard of Oz, looked even her 5-year-old was going stir- granddaughter squealed. “Take better dangling from the Queen crazy. off Scarlett’s bonnet and put it of Hearts’ neck, for it matched “Mom, please video chat with on Alice in Wonderland. … Take her costume. Pauline,” she wrote. “Read her off Heidi’s aprons and tie them Playing with collector dolls some books. It’s been hard to around Snow White. … Untie the was fun. And daring. entertain her.” blue ribbon in Alice’s hair.” Feeling emboldened, I Glad to oblige. But a children’s Did I dare? These were introduced Pauline to Jackie storybook takes at most fi ve collector’s dolls, meant to be seen, Kennedy, part of Madame minutes. I was determined to keep not touched, tousled or trifl ed Alexander’s First Lady series. my granddaughter’s attention for with. Yet I was desperate to keep I pointed out Jackie’s lustrous an hour while her mother, who my granddaughter engaged for pearl earring, only to realize with lives 1,600 miles away in Jackson the next hour. alarm that there was no matching Heights, Queens, the country’s Would Madame Alexander ear bob on her other lobe. Over fi rst COVID-19 epicenter, made understand? the years, the glue had dried. The dinner. Despite the pretentious title, matching pearl had fallen off and With my granddaughter on Madame Alexander was the nom rolled into oblivion. FaceTime, I wandered through de plume for Beatrice Alexander And then I picked up the ice- my house in Fort Worth, aiming Behrman, a Jewish mother, a skating doll, whom we named the phone’s camera at souvenirs bubbie like me with a Russian Sasha Cohen, after the 2004 and tchotchkes until I came immigrant father. She believed Olympics silver-medal winner. to her mother’s collection of dolls play a role in a child’s As I lifted the skater, the blades 17 Madame Alexander dolls. educational development. on her white leather boots Photos: Courtesy Hollace Weiner Arranged inside a glass-doored Desperate to keep my jangled onto the shelf. Just as Pauline Siff and her grandmother Hollace Weiner enjoyed music from the cabinet, these dolls with tailored granddaughter engaged, I broke with Jackie’s earring, the glue “Nutcracker,” while Pauline played with her ballerina doll. dresses, bonnets, and aprons the taboo that bars touching, had dried out. In dollhouse terminology, dolls, Beatrice — whose given Although these dolls looked these dolls needed to be “re- name was Bertha — began Rent what youy need from pristine, after 40 years behind a strung.” Their shoes and earrings making cloth dolls with painted glass door they needed repair and needed a dab of Super Glue. faces. The fi rst was a Red Cross care. When Pauline instructed Madame Alexander knew all nurse. That doll proved so me to take off Rhett Butler’s about the ailments and fragility popular, she recruited her sisters, EQUIPMENT COMPANY, INC. jacket, his arms came off with of dolls. Her father had operated Jennie, Flora and Rosie, to help. the sleeves! A teeny elastic — the country’s fi rst doll hospital Each doll had a profession, a story resembling an orthodontic in a building on the Lower East or a history. A cottage industry We have EVERYTHING you’ll need rubber band — connected Rhett’s Side. 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So, thanks to Amazon.com, I found a book with a blonde Heidi and ordered two copies — one sent to Pauline in Queens and the other to me in Fort Worth. When the books arrived, we continued turning the pages together. It was easy to bring two more characters to life: Snow White and Alice in Wonderland. Pauline was already familiar with them, and she eagerly memorized the names of the dwarves, calling them “doorfs” as she tried to match SENIOR December 17, 2020 | 9 each with his image in the Little Madame Alexander would African American orphan who Golden Book delivered to her have beamed. According to broke the color barrier at New door. My daughter complained “Jewish Women in America: York City ice rinks. The story, by that Snow White’s story is sexist. An Historical Encyclopedia,” Rosa Vina, so absorbed Pauline “Who wrote that?” she asked. Beatrice Alexander (1895- that she asked for a coloring book “Why, the Brothers Grimm. It’s 1990) created dolls drawn from about ice skaters. a classic,” I answered. It will give literature, music, art, film, and As the days in quarantine her something to rebel against, by historic events to provide an stretched into weeks and and by. interdisciplinary approach to months, Pauline and I turned Alice proved a more complex learning. Already, Pauline and I our focus to Aladdin, a doll who character. Lewis Carroll wrote had been humming Tchaikovsky’s clutches a magic lamp and is the book in 1865. It continues music from “The Nutcracker robed in Chinese silk pants. The to charm and challenge readers, Suite” to accompany a ballerina book I selected with Aladdin’s directors and illustrators. Our on the shelf. tale begins with a preface pre-K curriculum was about to The dolls also provided about Scheherazade. She’s the lead us through the looking glass. contemporary learning opportuni- storyteller who spins a story I discovered a British rendition, ties about female empowerment and within a story, night after night, published by Igloobooks, in which racial equality. to beguile a powerful sultan. He Alice wears the familiar blue dress, As we played with Jackie beds a new bride each night and blue headband and white apron, Kennedy and read the kid-lit orders her death in the morning. but she has the face of an ornery biography “Just Being Jackie,” The clever Scheherazade told the little girl. The White Rabbit by Margaret Cardillo, Pauline sultan stories until daybreak and looks agitated. The Mad Hatter was enthralled. When Jackie falls then stopped with a cliffhanger Pauline Siff and her grandmother Hollace Weiner have enjoyed exploring “Heidi” resembles a nefarious character off a horse and into the mud on so he would allow her to live together during long-distance quarantine video chats. out of “Oliver Twist.” Pauline the first page, my granddaughter another day to finish the tale. loved these illustrations. “They sounded out the words, “She Scheherazade’s stories are COVID-19 may present diffi cult circumstances for your loved one look like real people,” she said. dusted herself off and got right endless. Her tales would keep Who next beckoned from back on.” I was so proud. Pauline and me moving forward Apple Care & Companion is here for you the doll shelf? The Betsy Ross There is no kid-lit book through the duration of the doll and a book that led us to a about Sasha Cohen, the Olympic lockdown. Short-term or long-term breakthrough. 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Use your long-term care insurance Marc Liebman, a retired U.S. to pay for in-home care. Navy captain, will publish his latest novel next month, the debut of his Derek Almer Series, “Flight of the Pawnee.” Liebman’s most recent leading character hunts terrorists, puts drug dealers out of business and holds corrupt government and 972.938.0703 industry officials accountable. www.customcaregivers.com “I have worked to develop a style that is conversational and also technically and operationally accurate and still tell a good story,” said Liebman, publisher of seven titles in the Josh Haman series about a hero who flies combat search-and-rescue and special-operations missions. Another character, Jaco Jacinto in the Age of Sail Series, follows the careers of an S  A. G American in the Continental Navy and an Englishman in the M P / P Royal Navy, whose careers and lives intertwine and test their friendship. “Most of my books have 13101 Preston Road t: 214-276-0808 elements of flying, of history, Suite 400 f: 214-276-0809 food and firearms and weapons Dallas, TX 75240 toll free: 888-269-5876 history,” said Liebman. “Each www.gswealthmgmt.com [email protected] book also includes at least one Jewish character, enabling me to cover interesting aspects Registered Representative of and securities off ered through Berthel Fisher & Company Financial Services, Inc. (BFCFS) Member FINRA/SIPC Investment Advisory Services off ered through of Jewish history and some Photos: Courtesy Marc Liebman BFC Planning. GS Wealth Management is independent of BFCFS and BFC Planning. element of antisemitism. The Marc Liebman debuts his Derek Almer Series “Flight of the Pawnee” next month. research helps me understand my heritage.” People refer to what Liebman is a decorated U.S. we do as a mitzvah. Navy aviator combat veteran. His 26-year Navy career We consider it an honor. included multiple deployments and combat tours all over the FAITH PRESBYTERIAN HOSPICE is the world, which provided him with most comprehensive not-for-profit hospice plenty of raw material for his provider in Greater Dallas. FAITH is writing. dedicated To make each moment matter Liebman is the son of Rhea for those we serve. FAITH provides and Sy, of blessed memory, and hospice care in the home, nursing homes, Elise Power brother of Scott and Jonathan, hospitals, assisted living communities Jewish Hospice the latter of blessed memory. and in our inpatient hospice center, Community Liaison He was born in New York City located in the T. Boone Pickens Center, and spent most of his school-age north of Medical City Dallas. FAITH’S years in Wiesbaden, Germany, compassionate end-of-life care supports where his U.S. Air Force father life and hope, and the values of Jewish was based. tradition. We work closely with Rabbi A number of Liebman’s Howard Wolk, Community Chaplain characters are based on people Marc Liebman, retired U.S. Navy captain, former businessman, now a speaker of Jewish Family Service. FAITH is from his childhood, including and author Accredited by the National Institute for Louis Fuhrmann, who survived military, civilian fixed and A resident of Savannah in Jewish Hospice, which means that we are Auschwitz by singing for rotary wing aircraft. After his Denton County, Liebman first sensitive to the needs of Jewish patients, the Nazis and later served military service, he was CEO moved to the Dallas–Fort Worth their families and the Jewish Calendar. as the cantor of Liebman’s of an aerospace and defense area in 1978 to work with Piper

National Institute Rabbi Howard Wolk congregation; and Emma Hartz, manufacturing firm, associate Aircraft. He and his wife, Betty, for Jewish Hospice Community Chaplain the family’s housekeeper. editor of a national magazine are the parents of Seth (Tamara) Liebman flew just under and an advertising copywriter. and Michelle (Paul) Hille, and ACCREDITED 5,000 hours as pilot-in- He published his first book, “Big the proud grandparents of seven. To contact Elise, dial 214-505-7234. For referral information, dial 972-239-5300. FAITHPRESHOSPICE.ORG command or co-pilot in tactical Mother 40,” in 2013. Liebman, a member of the SENIOR December 17, 2020 | 11 Floridians can now ‘Stand with Israel’ on license plates

(JTA) — Floridians can now stand release. form of a tropical leaf, represents with Israel even while stuck in traffic. The bipartisan slate of four the Florida-Israel relationship and A graphic designer from Boca lawmakers who initiated the law the fruit this partnership bears, Raton has come up with the passed this year launching the ultimately benefiting both states. The winning design in a contest to create competition, along with Gabe symbol interacts with the two waves a specialty license plate saying that Groisman, the mayor of Bal Harbour, on top and bottom giving a nod to “Florida Stands with Israel.” Daniel served as the judges. the Israeli flag, Florida’s sandy tourist Photo: Courtesy Ackerman’s blue, white and orange “The concept focuses on Florida’s destinations, and Israel’s deserts in Florida license plate; one will soon design was chosen among more than state flower, the orange blossom,” bloom.” feature a boost to Israel, December 2020. 100 submissions in a competition Ackerman said in the release. “The The plate will go into production sponsored by the Israeli-American beauty of this flower, contrasted once 3,000 applicants have paid for part to Hatzalah of Miami-Dade, an Council, the group said in a news against the Star of David in the presale vouchers. Proceeds will go in organization of volunteer paramedics.

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Jewish War Veterans and its Dallas Harvey Bloom Post 256, is a docent and restoration team member at Addison’s Cavanaugh Flight Museum. He enjoys sharing at speaking engagements, now online, about his writing, business and leadership, foreign affairs and living history. In November, Liebman was featured online at Congregation Anshai Torah’s HAZAK-sponsored Veterans Day event, discussing how Jews have changed the way the U.S. military operates. “We were honored to hear of Marc’s experiences as a combat naval aviator,” said Phil Balis, president of HAZAK. “His skills as an author made the stories of American Jews, who made significant contributions to the American military throughout history, that much more poignant.” Liebman is also working on a compilation of anecdotes, “Gold Huge savings. and Silver Wings: Tales from Three Generations of Military Aviators,” a collection based on Limited time offer. his own experiences and those of his father and son, now a U.S. Navy Reserve commander. The Reserveyour Assisted Livingor Memory Supportresidence before December 31, 2020, trio represent pilots flying from to qualify for our exceptional Willow Bend Fall Benefits. Limited availability. 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90-year-old newlyweds raising four children, she honor of becoming the oldest By Marilyn Murray Willison worked as a biology professor person ever to graduate from at Orange County Community Mount St. Mary College, in (Creators.com) — Here’s a College in Middletown and Newburgh, New York. The story to help you feel young at started the first training college also awarded him an heart no matter how old you program for electron microscopy honorary doctorate earlier this happen to be. technicians. year. Here’s the kicker: At 93 While I was paging through When she reached the age years of age, he drove 80 miles The New York Times a few years of retirement, she entered round-trip twice a week for over ago, an article by Vincent M. politics instead and eventually two years in order to accumulate Mallozzi really impressed me. became the first female mayor the 30 credits he needed to earn It was about an elderly man and of Middleton. She served two the history degree he’d first woman who had fallen in love consecutive terms and, while in started working toward back in and decided to get married. You office, spearheaded the creation the 1970s. And today, Mann’s may find this hard to believe, of a modern library for the neighbors are even more Photo: Creators.com/Courtesy of Christian Bowen Gertrude Mokotoff and Alvin Mann’s love story will help you feel young at heart but the bride was 98 years old; town. In 2002, after 61 years of amazed that he still drives his no matter how old you happen to be. the groom was 94 years old; marriage, her husband died. old Ford tractor, chops down and they had met 11 years ago Alvin Mann’s story is trees, cuts grass and stacks his while working out at the gym — completely different but equally own firewood. where they still exercised twice impressive. In 1943, when Mokotoff’s maid of honor Live for Today a week. he was 19, he was a second was her 71-year-old daughter. Protect them for the future It was hard to figure out engineer on a variety of ships Mann’s best man was his what was most surprising about during World War II. In 1947, he 71-year-old son, and Mokotoff these senior citizen newlyweds. married and began a secretarial walked down the aisle to a Was it the fact that they had service business in Manhattan, guitar rendition of “Somewhere fallen in love around the age even though he hated big-city Over the Rainbow.” “Age of 90? Was it the fact that they life. In 1960, he bought a home doesn’t mean a damn thing to had each lived such full and in Cuddebackville, New York, me or to Gert,” says the groom. accomplished lives? Or was near the Catskill Mountains. “We don’t see it as a barrier. We it the fact that they were so But after 20 years, his marriage still do what we want to do in healthy and spry while most ended in divorce. The couple life. ... We do not let anything people their age tend to be had one son. He then married we cannot control bother us in infirm, in a nursing home or in an art historian and artist the least.” • Trusts & Trust Administration pain? Let me tell you a little bit from Great Neck, New York, Editor’s note: Gertrude F. about Gertrude Mokotoff and a marriage that gave him two Mokotoff passed away Oct. 27, • Asset Protection 5400 LBJ Freeway, Ste 1200 Alvin Mann, who were married stepdaughters. In 2007, she 2018, at age 100. at the city hall in Middletown, died after 45 years of marriage. Marilyn Murray Willison’s • Wills & Probate Dallas, Texas 75240 New York, on Aug. 5. So far, there’s nothing truly column, “Positive Aging,” can 972.773.9095 Mokotoff was born in remarkable about Mann’s life, be found at www.creators.com. Brooklyn, New York, in 1918. right? • Business Representation www.colinsmithlaw.com She graduated from Brooklyn But in 2016, he earned the COPYRIGHT 2020 CREATORS.COM College and earned a master’s degree in biology from Columbia University. In 1941, when she was 23, she married a cardiologist. They lived in Manhattan, New York, until 1952, when she persuaded her husband to relocate to Middletown. In addition to

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Asks Jews to leave half like Charles Bronfman, Bernie with the Jewish Federation of charitable dollars to Marcus, Julie Platt and Tom of Greater Atlanta, where it Jewish, Israeli causes Stern. garnered its first batch of But this is no billionaires’ hundreds of signatures, also By Eliana Rudee club, Holtz told JNS. Every Jew securing partnerships with (JNS) A newly launched can take part, even with small a range of other Jewish and nonprofit is calling on worldwide dollars. “We built the State of financial organizations across Jewish donors, young and old, Israel on nickels and dimes,” she the United States. The Jewish to allocate at least half of their remarked. Federation of Greater Dallas will charitable dollars transferred at Explaining how the allocation roll out its partnership with the death to Jewish and Israel-related works, Holtz posed, “I am JFP next month. causes. leaving X amount of charitable JFP leadership decided to Philanthropist and entrepreneur dollars for my kids, and the only proceed with their national Michael Leven and longtime parameter is that 50% of those launch despite the coronavirus Jewish executive Amy Holtz dollars need to be for Jewish pandemic. “We must navigate launched the Jewish Future giving. I can choose to leave this crisis without losing sight Pledge (JFP) initiative in May, the money to specific charities of the future. The challenges Photo: Hadas Parush/Flash90 during Jewish Heritage Month, or the kids can decide where to of this moment illustrate the People at Bugrashov Beach in Tel Aviv watch the military airshow on Israel’s 71st with the aim of securing a give.” importance of planning for the Independence Day, May 9, 2019. vibrant Jewish future and “You don’t need to be a unknown,” said Holtz. “COVID Sparking conversations, but wisdom, values and life inspiring the next generation of millionaire or have a family fund highlights need that we need along with donations lessons,” said Holtz. “The pledge Jews to help support it. to participate,” said Leven in a to act now and plan for (the) is saying to the next generation: According to the organization, letter to his fraternity brothers unknown.” With three simple steps — ‘We believe in your generation.’ Jewish donors are estimated at Alpha Epsilon Pi (AEPi), Jewish Future Pledge chairman “Sign it, seal it and share it” With the risk that kids are to transfer $1.26 trillion to a partnering organization. Mark Silberman, who previously — the pledge is not only about turning away from Judaism, charitable causes in the next 25 “This is not a fundraiser. It is a served as chair of the Jewish giving, but about sharing their and may not be as connected years; JFP hopes to direct half of monumental chance to sustain Federation of Greater Atlanta, pledge with friends and family, as the previous generations, that, or $630 billion, to Jewish the financial future of the Jewish added, “We are in an existential which will spark conversations we are combining tremendous causes. The Pledge, which was people, and to ensure that our moment. Perhaps more than about the importance of opportunity with risk.” inspired in part by Bill Gates’ values and wisdom endure for ever before, people are thinking donating, ensuring Jewish life “I wanted to start a and Warren Buffett’s “Giving generations.” about what’s important in life for generations to come and conversation with my family Pledge,” has already been signed The nonprofit had a soft and what legacy they will leave imparting one’s values. by notable Jewish philanthropists launch in Atlanta in partnership behind.” “It is not just sharing money, see PLEDGE, p.26

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Contact us to learn how at [email protected] or 214.615.9351. 22 | December 17, 2020 JEWISH FOODIE Bagel Lady finds community in Rockwall

An everything life

By Deb Silverthorn By day, Revi Shababo- Menasche is known as “The Bagel Lady” of Rockwall, the purveyor of the city’s only bagel and deli- style shop. “There’s a doughnut shop on every corner in Rockwall but bagels, we’re it, and with a mezuzah on the door at that!” Outside of her work, she’s also a minyan maker, a Hanukkah parade float decorator and more — all aspects of the Jewish life she treasures. “God has a lot to Photo: Laurel Pyle do with everything in life and I Revi Shababo-Menasche, far right, owner of The Bagel Lady, was the founder of Chabad of Rockwall County. On Dec. 13, Shababo-Menasche joined, from know it every day,” said Shababo- Photo: Courtesy The Bagel Lady of Rockwall left, Rabbi Moishy Kesselman, Sammy Shababo and Gary Freedman at the first Menasche. Revi Shababo-Menasche with her brother Sammy Shababo, who works with her lighting of a menorah at The Harbor in Rockwall. in the business The small shop, located five minutes from the harbor in Daniel, Elie, Jacqueline and Leya. As her business began to build togethers at her home. When Shababo-Menasche is now a downtown Rockwall, is open six Her brother, Sammy Shababo, and she got busier, the commute she realized there were no shops proud founder of the Chabad of days a week and sells 12 varieties of also helps out in the shop. loomed large and Shababo- nearby selling bagels, she decided Rockwall County. Rabbi Moishy bagels that are traditionally boiled In 2019, Shababo-Menasche Menasche found herself missing to bake her own. As the popularity and Chana Kalmenson have made and baked, as well as sandwiches, told Beaubien she was ready for out on a local community. of the gatherings and her bagel it their home and community to salads, coffees and more. The a move and that Texas was on In December 2019, with business swelled, it outgrew her serve. restaurant is open Sunday through her bucket list. They visited for Hanukkah decorations showing home, and The Bagel Lady’s “We couldn’t be more thrilled Friday, 6:30 a.m. to 3 p.m., and her birthday, made their way to up at local craft stores, Shababo- business and storefront were born. to have Chana and Rabbi Moishy closed on Shabbat, says Shababo- Rockwall, which she’d heard of, Menasche figured there must Fans of The Bagel Lady include here, to have our community grow Menasche. “There’s no bracha and as the couple drove across be more Jewish families than the Rockwall Women’s League, and to feel a part of something when you make money on Shabbat the Lake Ray Hubbard Bridge, she her own nearby. She posted to for whom she has catered, as well as special as all of this is,” said and I want my community to exhaled. the Rockwallian Facebook page, as customers at Wells Cattle Co., Shababo-Menasche. “Where there is know we are Jewish. It’s who and She was able to transfer her with more than 37,000 members, which offers her bagels on their community, Jews flock. Whether what I am, and so is my business.” position with a life insurance and then created her own Jews menu. people come to visit The Bagel Born in Israel to Lillian and company and Beaubien made the of Rockwall County Facebook This summer, as the number Lady, to visit our shul to pray or Mordechai Shababo, and sister Dallas–Fort Worth area home to group. Before the weekend was up, of Jews in Rockwall and its to celebrate, I’m grateful to help of Levana and Sammy, Shababo- his FixxDis handyman business. she had dozens of responses and surrounding cities grew to 150, Rockwall be the Metroplex’s Menasche moved to New York Once they were settled, she she had found a community. Shababo-Menasche contacted Block, newest ‘not-so-new’ home, for us as a child. In 1988, she moved to found Rabbi Menachem Block of Shababo-Menasche began to saying Rockwall needed its all.” Hollywood, Florida, where she Chabad of Plano/Collin County get to know the community by own shul and rabbi. In a matter The Bagel Lady (thebagellady. met her husband, Alan Beaubien. and she made the commute for a hosting a Purim party, Shabbat of months, introductions and com) is located at 316 S. Goliad St., Together they are parents of few months and many holidays. potluck dinners and other get- commitments were made and Suite 201, in Rockwall. Soul-warming flavors to usher in winter

Staff Report onion soup? However, making it oil in a crockpot; stir to combine. There are many great kosher can be time-consuming, as you have cookbooks available and from to sauté the onions for a long time 2. Add flanken to the crockpot; cover time to time, we will share some while stirring them. This recipe al- with onion mixture. Cover; cook on recipes from them. With the lows you to skip the sautéing, as your high for 4-5 hours, until onions are weather turning colder of late, crock pot does all the work for you. golden brown. here are two recipes from “Perfect Flavors: Creative, easy-to-prepare Ingredients: 3. Add broth, wine, and miso paste; recipes inspired by my family and • 12 onions, sliced into half-moons stir to combine. Cook on high for an travels” by Naomi Nachman. • 1 tablespoon kosher salt additional hour. Nachman’s first book “Perfect • ½ teaspoon freshly ground black Meat — yields 8 servings — for Pesach” was a hit. “Perfect pepper freezer friendly Flavors” is her second installment • ¼ cup canola oil with beautiful photography by • 2 pounds bone-in flanken Cook’s Tip: Miriam Pascal. It is published by • 4 cups beef, chicken, or vegetable ArtScroll Mesorah and available broth Miso paste is a paste made from on Amazon for $34.99 new. Other • ¾ cup red wine fermented bean curd. Used primarily resellers may have it for less. • ¼ cup red miso paste in Japanese cooking, it adds umami, depth of flavor, to the dishes. Miso Crockpot Onion and Flanken Soup Method: paste is available in a variety of colors; Photo: Miriam Pascal Crockpot Onion Flanken Soup Who doesn’t love a big bowl of 1. Combine onions, salt, pepper, and see FOODIE, p.27 SIMCHAS December 17, 2020 | 23

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When your family issues become legal issues • Divorce • Child custody • Property and and Visitation Asset Division • Child support • Premarital and • Mediation Have a simcha Post-marital • Collaborative agreements Law you want to see • Enforcement Holly Friedman Biederman, Attorney in the paper? of Orders and 214-265-6572 Modifications BIEDERMAN LAW, PLLC [email protected] www.biedermanfamilylaw.com Email: 10440 N. Central Expressway, Suite 800 5700 Tennyson Parkway, Suite 300 [email protected] Dallas, Texas 75231 Plano, Texas 75024 *by appointment *by appointment 24 | December 17, 2020 In their words . . . What do G-d’s names mean? Columnists, opinion from the TJP Dear Rabbi Fried, it going.” Thanks for your explaining the existence of various This is a name which we don’t names of G-d, which makes it easier to focus knowing actually pronounce, but when it they’re all referring to various character traits of the is written with the letters Yud- Got a Jewish same G-d. I would appreciate if you could elaborate Hey-Vov-Hey, we nevertheless on what those traits are that we are referring to when pronounce it like the previous we mention those names. name, Ado-nai. question? Rabbi Thanks again, ASK THE Only in the days of the Tem- Harvey L. ple, during the Temple wor- Dear Harvey, RABBI ship, was this name actually We can try to touch on the very basic meaning pronounced by the Cohanim/ Jack answers of some of the more commonly mentioned Names. By Rabbi Priests. This is due to the Name’s [Allow me to preface this by saying that many Yerachmiel profound holiness. In our times, D. Fried As we light the last candles of but is not with- readers may wonder why I always hyphenate the it is never pronounced, and the Hanukkah and prepare to bid the out humor as it name G-d in the columns. This is to avoid the Name, Talmud says this will be the case holiday goodbye for another year, nears its end by even in English, to be desecrated inadvertently, such until Messianic times. I recommend that you promise referencing the as if the paper is thrown into the trash or brought (When we use the alternative pronunciation, yourself one final gift: a new book material Rabbi into a restroom, both places that would constitute there are differing opinions among the Kabbalistic sharing the two virtues of knowl- Jack has already a desecration of the Name of G-d. I will likewise be masters whether one should have in mind the Name edge and readability. My promise: provided: “So, hyphenating any names we discuss for this reason, one is pronouncing, or the one we are referring to. It will be worthwhile for you in all for a variety of although it is spelled out completely in the Siddur Sephardic custom is to have in mind both, reflected your own Jewish years yet to come, IN MY reasons, DNA and other holy books which don’t get desecrated.] in their Siddur where the two names are actually and to share with the younger gen- MIND’S I is not consid- 1. Ado-nai: This is the most commonly used written with both intermingled together. I would eration of Jews in your own family, ered a halachic Name of G-d. This name means “Master of all,” or suggest doing what you feel most comfortable with.) because I have the book, and have By Harriet ‘slam dunk’ …” as some will translate it, “Master of the universe.” This is the name most associated with G-d per- read it, and do not hesitate to urge P. Gross The book 2. Y-H-V-H: (This is spelled in Hebrew as Yud – forming acts of loving kindness and compassion in you to do so yourself. is divided into Hey – Vov – Hey.) This name means, “He was, He the world. The book is “Ask Rabbi Jack.” 10 sections covering a variety of is and He will always be, the Master of the universe Its author is Jack Abramowitz, topics that include some to be ex- Who brought everything into existence and keeps see FRIED, p.26 who has spearheaded educational pected, including History or Holi- initiatives over many years for all days, but some more surprising, streams of Judaism. His ability to such as Science Fiction and Fan- reach every one of us is beyond tasy or Men, Women, Appearance Who is wise, strong, question. And here, in less than and Deportment. The final section 300 pages, he answers many ques- carries the current pandemic’s tions actually asked by many peo- name as its title and deals at some ple who came to him from many length with Judaic implications rich, honored? backgrounds. He answers all with inherent in COVID-19. This ends a richness of knowledge combined both chapter and volume with Dear Families, Why does learning from with simplicity, plus a welcome a version of Rabbi Jack’s briefer, Most of us cannot imagine studying Talmud but every person make you wise? touch of humor in many of his re- more humorous style in contrast it really is possible today (you can even find a study What does it mean to be sponses. to the lengthy example of DNA group online). The best tractate to study is Pirke Avot, strong? Is it about having Rabbi Jack never sets himself up immediately above. The book’s fi- Chapters of the Sages. Pirke Avot is comprised of six strong muscles or something as a guru; he frequently advises his nal question: “What is the Torah chapters and over 150 mishnayot or teachings. Each different? What would that be? readers to enlist real-life spiritual perspective on wearing a mask and mishnah has many lessons for us to learn how to live What does it mean to con- leaders of their own to approach social distancing?” The answer: an ethical life. It would be wonderful if we could just trol your “passions”? Why for more information. What he “That you should do it.” read the “saying” and then would know just what to SHALOM does that take strength? does provide are answers born in This book is an effective com- FROM THE do. However, it takes a little more work and study, but SHABBAT LADY How do you use your inner Bible, Torah, Talmud and other bination of real knowledge and each of us can do it — even our youngest campers. strength to control your- sources that go to the heart of their a lighthearted approach to it, a Spend time each Shabbat talking about the mish- By Laura self? questions; each gets an answer de- meshing and melding of proven nah using the questions below as guidelines. Begin Seymour How many different ways signed to tell truth and correct fact with well-researched personal by reading the words, then breaking down the parts, are there to be rich? What misconceptions through an easy- opinion. Its style may have partic- and trust in the fact that even young children can does it mean to you to be rich? to-read, personal response. ular appeal for the younger ones add their thoughts to the discussion. Remember Is it easy to be happy with what you have? Why or Here’s one example to tempt among us — I would assume that that after we have begun to understand the mish- why not? Why does that make you rich? you: The question is, “What’s the many of its questions have been nah, we must then work to understand how to apply Finally, what does it mean to be honored? How Jewish view of the Devil?” The an- posed by young adults as well as the learning to our lives. do you honor other people? How do they show they swer begins: “That’s easy. There’s the less scholarly of all ages. But Pirke Avot 4:1 — Ben Zoma says: honor you? Why does honoring others make you no such thing.” But then it goes on: I would not discount the Judaic Who is wise? He who learns from every person. honored? “Now, if you had asked me about knowledge and personal love of Who is strong? He who controls his passions. Are one of these qualities more important than Satan, it would be another story.” everything Jewish that Rabbi Jack Who is rich? He who is happy with his lot. the others? Why are they in the order above? Which And of course, Rabbi Jack does go displays in his fact-packed answers Who is honored? He who honors others. is most important to you? on to tell that story: “A day when to all questions, which provide How can we apply this mishnah to our lives ev- the sons of G-d came to present value to everyone. Questions to talk about ery day? themselves before Hashem, and “Ask Rabbi Jack,” published by If you are looking for a book to buy, get a copy of Satan was among them…” Kodesh Press, is now available in What does it mean to be wise? Is being wise dif- Pirke Avot. There are so many different ones with Or here’s a question on a more paperback at $17.95 in bookstores ferent than being smart? How? Do you need to be different commentaries to help you study. Even contemporary issue: “Can DNA and online. Give yourself a belated old to be wise? Why or why not? Amazon has lots of choices. Use it for family dis- testing prove Jewish identity?” Hanukkah present; it will shine How can you learn from everyone? What if they cussions — it is a much better topic than politics This calls for a much longer an- for you as brightly as this year’s are younger than, or not as smart as, or very differ- although our sages do have plenty to say about the swer — actually several pages — candles! ent than, you? politics of their day! In their words . . . December 17, 2020 | 25 EDITORIAL SCOTUS should allow survivors’ claims to be heard

Last week, the Supreme Court heard for about 35 percent of its market value in favor, the claimants cases will be returned of virtually all of Europe’s Jews. Then, with arguments on whether United States 1935. The artifacts were depicted in the film, to the trial court where they will have the brutal efficiency, Hitler’s Reich proceeded federal courts can hear cases for property “The Monuments Men.” Göring, a notorious opportunity to prove their claims. to confiscate property of Jews, from their damages brought by survivors of genocide hoarder of fine arts, delighted in going Two different panels of judges of the federal precious treasures, like the Guelph Treasure, against foreign nations that have committed through the motions of sham negotiations. Court of Appeals for the District of Columbia down to their eyeglasses and gold fillings. systematic crimes that violate the fundamental He solicited sales prices of countless Jewish ruled that the systematic financial exploitation At its core, the Supreme Court must decide laws of human decency. art dealers and owners but bought at a huge of Jews in both cases was a form of genocide, if Hermann Göring’s coerced purchase of the The lawsuits were brought by Holocaust discount. He took full advantage of the illegal under international law. Based on these Guelph Treasure for a fraction of its value survivors in two separate cases in the federal Holocaust’s pressures on Jewish art dealers findings, the Court of Appeals ruled that the was part of Nazi Germany’s genocide of the district court in the District of Columbia. and collectors. separate cases against Hungary and Germany Jews. The High Court may also decide if In Republic of Hungary v. Simon, et al, Göring gave the valuables to Hitler as should proceed at the trial court level and cases arising from genocide may be heard in 14 survivors, four of whom are American a surprise present, one of many gifts he claimants in both cases should be provided an American courts. citizens, sued Hungary and its national bestowed on Hitler to maintain his position opportunity to prove their cases. At oral argument last week, the justices, railroad. During 1944, the Hungarian in the Third Reich. The 42 remaining pieces Curiously, the Trump administration filed through their questions, appeared wary of the railroad transported hundreds of thousands of the Guelph Treasure are presently housed briefs and argued that claims in both cases many ripple effects of a favorable ruling for of Hungarian Jews to Nazi death camps. in the Museum of Decorative Art in Berlin. should be dismissed because of our national the claimants. Once American courts open In the aftermath of the Second World War, Hungary and Germany have asked the interest in protecting international comity, their doors to cases claiming horrific property the railroad has flourished as an artery for Supreme Court, and lower courts, to dismiss or harmony, in international relations; that damages because of genocide, a flood of new transportation in Hungary. This case was filed all claims of Holocaust survivors by invoking is, the United States should respect the rights cases could emerge. as a class action seeking compensation for the the Foreign Sovereign Immunities Act. As of Hungary and Germany to determine these The Supreme Court should open the “wholesale plunder” of property owned by a general rule, this law provides that foreign matters, and, in return, those nations should door wide enough for the claims against survivors prior to their deportation. governments are immune from suit in respect the exclusive role of American courts Hungary and Germany to be determined in The second case is Federal Republic of American courts. to decide disputes of our own citizens. American courts. A German government Germany v. Simon. This case was filed by However, lawyers for the Holocaust In understanding the background of agency determined that Göring’s purchase Holocaust survivors who claim they are claimants argued that an exception to the these cases, it is vital to remember that a of the Guelph Treasure was “a voluntary, owed just compensation for a coerced sale general rule applies where property has been primary motive of the Holocaust was the fair-market transaction.” Such a finding is at a discount price of a fabulous collection expropriated “in violation of international Nazis’ systematic stripping of wealth and inconsistent with American norms of justice, of Christian religious artifacts known in law.” The crime of genocide clearly violates property from Europe’s Jews. As Edwin and the Supreme Court should carefully craft German as the “Welfenschatz” or Guelph international law. One form of genocide Black, the eminent historian, proved in his a narrow exception to allow these cases to be Treasure. Today’s market value of the treasure recognized under international law is the chilling account of the extent of the Nazis’ determined on their merits. has been estimated at $250 million. It is systematic confiscation of the property of organizational skills, IBM produced special undisputed that the Nazi warlord Hermann a religious group, ethnic group or cultural punch cards for the Nazis so that they could A version of this editorial appeared in the Jewish Herald- Göring negotiated a sale of the collection minority. If the Supreme Court rules in their collect detailed data on the financial holdings Voice. It is reprinted with permission. Jewish organizations are in danger It’s a wise idea to plan Our legacy planning may no longer believe Jewish people through ahead and prepare should make sure that being Jewish is a our pledges and our they survive magical way of moving philanthropic gifts. We in our world. Many may spoke to our children Whenever I’m going the first but they were thin By Mike Leven not share my conviction about our Jewish values to teach something based and withered. The seven that Judaism gives us and about what matters on history rather than thin and withered ears of ATLANTA (JTA) — My library all a vital set of values, a most to us. the stories we grow up grain devoured the good has the popular book “21 Lessons deep sense of community OP-ED But we haven’t always with, I always start off by and healthy ears of grain. for the 21st Century,” in which and a powerful pride that done that in the context asking if they really want Pharaoh again woke up Yuval Harari — a Jew, an Israeli comes with being part By Mike Leven of charitable giving. to know because once from his nightmare. and an acclaimed author — states of an extraordinary and In the coming decades, we know something, we D’VAR To me, the interpretation that the Jewish people don’t have a ancient people. I fear that these our children and grandchildren can’t unknow it. This of the dreams is obvious reason to exist anymore. They’ve trends put the Jewish future at risk. will soon receive the single largest week’s Torah portion TORAH because I’ve already read finished what they had come here I was raised in a Modern transference of wealth that the is a good example of ahead and know the By Rabbi Ben to do by contributing to a range of Orthodox home and remained American Jewish community an inability to unknow interpretation as given Sternman fields, from philosophy and ethics observant through college, but has ever experienced. They also something. In Mikeitz, later in the portion. I to science and the arts. after that I became secular. It may have different feelings about the portion opens with Parashat Mikeitz can’t unknow what I’ve Harari consistently downplays wasn’t until my early 50s that I Jewish life and Israel from the Pharaoh having two already learned and the role that Jews have had in reengaged deeply with Jewish life. people who are leaving them that disturbing dreams. In the first, he it’s hard for me to put myself in shaping the world. Since then, I have become involved money, as has been documented in dreamed of seven fat and healthy Pharaoh’s shoes to understand “Jews may be a very interesting with an array of organizations, recent studies like the renowned cows arising from the Nile River, how frightening, how unsettling, people,” he writes, “but when you from Birthright to the Jewish Pew Report from 2013. where they began to graze among how confusing these two dreams look at the big picture, you must Federation wto the AEPi Fraternity The Holocaust and its shadow the reeds. Then seven gaunt and must have been. You too would be realize that they have had a very Foundation. did not shape them the way it repulsive cows rose out of the disturbed if you dreamed about limited impact on the world.” In the past two decades, I have shaped us, despite the rise of water and they ate the fat, healthy carnivorous cows, but didn’t This message counters how I been part of a range of projects in antisemitism today. Politics cows. Pharaoh woke up from his know how it was going to turn was raised, how I live my life, and the Jewish world alongside some of have negatively shaped the nightmare but went back to sleep. out. how my wife and I raised our three our community’s most significant relationship that our children and He dreamed a second time about Since Pharaoh couldn’t sons, who are now adults with donors and organizations. My grandchildren have with the State seven good and healthy ears of interpret the dream for himself, children of their own. But Harari generation gave back, to the best grain growing from a single stalk. was right in stating that many Jews of our ability, to Israel and the see LEVEN, p.26 Seven more ears of grain grew after see STERNMAN, p.26 26 | December 17, 2020 Israeli Deni Avdija shines in 1st NBA preseason game

‘It’s the mensch off the is Jewish, after Avdija hit an off- he took, including three three- stands at 6-foot-9, is a native of bench on Hanukkah!’ balance shot to score two of his 15 pointers, resulting in 15 points in northern Israel who lives in the points. Color commentator Drew 24 minutes of playing time. coastal town of Herzliya, near Tel (JTA) — The play-by-play an- Gooden added “Shalam,” a genu- Before the game he also hugged Aviv. He holds dual Israeli and nouncer of Sunday night’s NBA ine attempt at saying “shalom.” his former Maccabi Tel Aviv team- Serbian citizenship, as his father, preseason game between the Kutcher was referencing the mate Amar’e Stoudemire, who Zufer, a Muslim Serbian-Israeli Washington Wizards and the Mensch on a Bench toy, a Jewish is now an assistant coach for the citizen, played for his native Yu- Brooklyn Nets was so impressed take on the popular Elf on a Shelf Nets. The Wizards posted a photo goslavia’s national basketball with Israeli basketball star Deni toy, and the fact that Avdija, who of their reunion on their official team as well as several Israeli pro Avdija’s performance that he the Wizards drafted in the first Instagram account with an Israeli teams in the 1990s. His mother, made one of the more memora- round of the recent NBA draft, flag emoji. Sharon Artzi, is a Jewish Israeli ble Jewish sports puns in recent had recently come off the bench. The team on Friday had and former track and field athlete. memory. Kutcher had earlier said “Hap- launched a Twitter feed in He- In May, Kutcher spoke to stu-

“It’s the mensch off the bench py Hanukkah!” after Avdija made brew for its new Israeli fans fol- dents online at the Charles E. Photo: Source: Screenshot on Hanukkah!” said the Wizards his first shot. lowing their native son. Smith Jewish Day School in Rock- Israeli Deni Avdija speaking to the announcer Justin Kutcher, who In total, Avdija hit all six shots Avdija, who is just 19 and ville, Maryland. media after his Washington Wizards preseason debut.

belief system is very different (to choose against the powers of conjunction with G-d expressing cording to the Kabbalists, is the FRIED from that of many religions who evil), and that He controls all the trait of strict judgment in the first of the “13 attributes of kind- continued from p.24 believe that multiple powers, such such powers. world. ness” which form the foundation as the power of evil, run contrary G-d will also, at the time He 4. E-l: This is a very common of our Yom Kippur services. 3. Elo-him: The meaning of this or are at war with their god(s). sees fit (when they have run their name which refers to G-d’s sus- There is much more to elabo- is “Master of all the powers of the Our belief is that G-d created all course and finished their pur- taining the world with His kind- rate on and there are more Names universe,” hence it is written in the powers that exist for reasons of pose), eradicate the powers of evil ness, providing food for us and the as well. I hope this brief discussion plural. tikkun, giving us something to from the world. animal kingdom. helps you find meaning for the ma- This name teaches us that our “fix” in the world, and free choice This is the name used most in It also is the Name which, ac- jority of the service.

— charitable investment accounts of our philanthropic funds will what commitments you can make this remarkable project that we LEVEN that have added tax benefits. While I go to Jewish causes. I started the to help Jewish life continue for have sustained for thousands of continued from p.25 was creating my own donor-advised Jewish Future Pledge to invite generations to come. years. We will need funds to run funds for my sons, my wife wisely others — not only Warren Buffet’s As the COVID-19 pandemic schools, synagogues and camps; asked, “How do you know they are billionaires — to pledge that upon has made clear, no one can to support advocacy organizations of Israel. Many of my friends who going to spend this Jewishly?” It their passing, they leave at least predict what challenges the Jewish and strengthen Israel; to connect have given decades of volunteer hit me like a bolt. I never thought 50% of their assets for charitable community will face or what needs our young people to their past and service to the Jewish community about what was going to happen to purposes to continue to support it will have. As our world changes, link them to our future. And if we have children who are barely my donor-advised funds after I die. our people. so too will Jewish philanthropy. don’t worry about how to sustain interested or affiliated. This reality Our children don’t have to support We are in an existential Some organizations and initiatives this future, who will? will have a significant impact on the same Jewish causes we do, but moment. Perhaps more than ever will close as new ones emerge. Jewish philanthropy tomorrow. they should continue the legacy we before, people are thinking about Yet one thing is certain: The The views and opinions expressed in this article Many friends in the started. what’s important in life and what Jewish people and the State of are those of the author and do not necessarily philanthropic community choose to I went back and put a clause legacy they will leave behind. Now Israel will continue to require reflect the views of JTA or its parent company, give through donor-advised funds in our funds stating that 75% is the time to be thinking about significant resources to continue 70 Faces Media.

followed by seven years of famine. country for the trials ahead. was seen as a liar and a madwoman. of completely avoidable tragedy. STERNMAN Further, if Pharaoh didn’t prepare, Compare Pharaoh to the Greek When she accurately foresaw the fall The Pharaoh who listened to continued from p.25 then catastrophe would strike the myth of Cassandra the Trojan and destruction of Troy at the hands Joseph averted catastrophe for land. Pharaoh looked at Joseph, prophetess. Cassandra bargained of Greeks hiding within a wooden himself and his country. Ignoring he consulted experts. But no said that it looked like Joseph was with the Greek god Apollo to be horse, nobody believed her. I have Cassandra only led to the Trojans’ matter how obvious it seems to the man for the job and set him up given the gift of accurate prophecy, to wonder, though, if she was the own downfall. The comparison is us in hindsight, they too couldn’t to prepare Egypt for the famine to but after receiving the gift, she one who was cursed because no one instructive. interpret the dreams for Pharaoh. come. It was good leadership that reneged on her side of the bargain. listened to her. Perhaps it would be Only the Hebrew slave, Joseph, Pharaoh didn’t try to interpret his Outraged, Apollo cursed her to more accurate to say that the people Rabbi Ben Sternman is the spiritual leader of was able to interpret the dreams dreams for himself and looked to always give accurate prophecies, but who ignored her prophecy were Adat Chaverim in Plano and the vice-president that seven years of plenty would be Joseph’s expertise to prepare the to never be believed. As a result she cursed because they became victims of the Rabbinic Association of Greater Dallas.

generation passes about why the phenomenal across the board, with Pledge not only honors our Pi is to develop the future of PLEDGE Jewish future matters.” people and organizations showing ancestors who sacrificed and the world’s Jewish communities continued from p.14 Each individual who signs the their support for this simple but suffered through exile and and we see the Jewish Future pledge, affirmed Holtz, should powerful concept,” maintained Holtz. oppression, but it is a gift to my Pledge as a big part of that,” Jim about the importance of securing speak to a lawyer about how to AEPi (of which Leven is an children to ensure the strength of Fleischer, CEO of Alpha Epsilon the Jewish future,” added Leven. legalize their pledge in their estate. Alumnus Brother) and NCSY are klal Yisrael, the Jewish people, and Pi International, told JNS. “I see an enormous opportunity JFP has also started a pledge for among the partners of the youth the State of Israel,” Jeff Jacobson, “Sustaining and growing our to help spark thousands, even the younger crowd, partnering with pledge, with many more to be the fraternity’s international Jewish institutions for generations millions, of similar conversations major Jewish youth organizations. announced shortly. president told JNS. to come is integral to the future of around Jewish tables before my “So far, the response has been “Taking the Jewish Future “The mission of Alpha Epsilon the world’s Jewish communities.” OBITUARIES December 17, 2020 | 27

Michael Blanc achievements, he mostly Aug. 2, 1931, and married Herbert Stefani Eisenstat in the mountains. enjoyed tinkering in Epstein on Oct. 16, 1949. Bev and Stefani was born Michael Blanc, his personal time with Herb lived in Detroit and Atlanta Family and friends in 1967 and grew 91, died peacefully building new rooms onto before settling with their family of are deeply saddened up in Dallas. After from complications his house and rebuilding four children in Dallas in 1965. They at the loss of Stefani graduating from The of COVID-19 on Nov. car engines. had been married for 66 years before Silverberg Eisenstat, Greenhill School, she 16, 2020, after a very He loved a good poker Herb’s passing in 2015. who passed away Dec. then obtained her brief illness. Mike, who Michael Blanc and blackjack game. He Beverly is survived by her 5, 2020, at the age of Stefani Eisenstat bachelor’s degree in was born on Dec. 24, took up painting, which children Linda Biderman of Austin, 53, following her fierce finance from The 1928, leaves behind his son Steve, he really enjoyed much into his Janice Leventhal of Richardson, battle with lung cancer. University of Texas in 1989. She daughter Sara, daughter-in-law later years. Bruce Epstein and Shari Caudron Beloved wife and devoted received her J.D. in 1993 from Phyllis, grandson Scott and his He joins his beloved Helen, and of Boulder, and Mark and Jane mother, daughter, sister and the SMU Dedman School of wife Lana, along with his two was no doubt happy to celebrate Epstein of Albuquerque; her aunt, Stefani was a highly Law and then practiced civil great-grandchildren, Sebastian their wedding anniversary over wonderful grandchildren Andrea respected lawyer, active litigation with several Dallas and Charlotte. the Thanksgiving holiday. He will and Matt Silverman, Zach and community leader and frequent firms. Stefani held leadership Mike will always be be sorely missed by family and Annie Biderman, Keith and Sivya volunteer. She was generous positions in various civic and remembered for his kindness, friends alike. Leventhal, Julie Leventhal and with her love, time, attention religious organizations and outgoing and likable personality Mr. Blanc’s family entrusted his Eric Thiemann, Gavin Epstein and and expertise. was honored with special and genuine love for both his care and services to E. C. “Trey” Jeremy Epstein; and her precious Stefani was supported by recognition for her professional family and friends. Harper III and Robertson Mueller great-grandchildren Elliot and many friends from all walks and volunteer activities. Though a modest man on many Harper Funerals, Cremations & Hattie Leventhal, Alexa, Sammy throughout her whole life. She was beautiful inside and levels, Mike quietly designed some Life Celebrations. and Casey Silverman and Davie Stefani touched many lives with out and touched many lives in aerospace engineer protocols that Biderman. She is also her compassion, warmth, kind a deep and profound way with positively impacted mankind on Beverly Epstein survived by her sister Lois smile, generous heart, sweet her kind and genuine spirit. a global scale. This included his Asher of Atlanta. disposition and charm. She Stefani is survived by her accomplishments on the Apollo Beverly Schecket A private graveside loved spending time with her husband Gary Eisenstat and space program, which landed him Epstein, 89, of Dallas, service was held on Dec. immediate and extended family, daughters Lauren and Kara, her recognition in the Smithsonian. He passed away peacefully 4 at Sparkman-Hillcrest/ and was always present at the devoted dog Toby, her parents also was instrumental in designing at her home on Dec. 3, Hillcrest Memorial Park many events, performances and Rena and Bud Silverberg, her the robotics system to place rivets 2020, in the presence with Rabbi David Stern activities for her children and brother Dr. Kaylen (Carol) into commercial airliners’ wings, of her loving family, officiating. nieces and nephews. Silverberg, and her sister Andra Beverly Epstein savings hundreds of man-hours due to complications of Donations can be made Stefani enjoyed travel and Litman. She is also survived and millions of dollars. endometrial cancer. to Scottish Rite Hospital (https:// exploring new places. She loved by loving extended family and Even with all of his professional Beverly was born in Detroit on scottishriteforchildren.org/). walking the beach and hiking friends.

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