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The John King Trophy and Gold Award Parish Best Magazine of the Year 2018 — 8.00am Holy Communion National Parish Magazine Awards Best Overall Magazine 2015 — Christian Aid Week, 7 Best Content 2016 Magazine Best Print 2018 Serving the communities of Charvil, Sonning & Sonning Eye since 1869 — New birthday card, 7 May 2019 — Rogationtide and Ascension — 10.30am Family Service — Meritorious swim, 7 — 6.30pm Choral Evensong — FoStAC AGM, 7 — Penny is overwhelmed, 7 Sunday 12 May — Making posies, 7 — 8.00am Holy Communion — 10.30am Parish Eucharist with — STAY, 9 the church of st andrew, SERVING THE COMMUNITIES OF CHARVIL, SONNING and sonning eye Sunday Club & STAY Church of St Andrew — Ascension Day, 11 Serving Sonning, Charvil & Sonning Eye — 3.00pm Messy Church in The Ark — From the editor’s desk, 11 — For your prayers, 11 Clematis Armandii in full bloom by a — The persecuted Church, 13 St Andrew's churchyard gate. This spring Sunday 19 May flowering clematis is named after Father — 8.00am Family Communion Armand David, a French missionary — 10.30am Parish Eucharist, features Catholic priest who worked in China and — 6.30pm Choral Evensong — Rogationtide, 15 was well known as a Victorian zoologist — Henley Arts Trail, 17, 19 and botanist. He discovered many new Sunday 26 May — Two Ark years, 20-21 species of plants and animals including the — 8.00am Holy Communion — Katmandu and beyond, 23 Giant Panda. Picture: Nigel Leviss — 10.30am Parish Eucharist with Sunday Club & STAY around the villages EDITORIAL DEADLINE — Best ever tea? 25 The editorial deadline for every issue — Charvil Caterpillars, 25 in 2019 is 12 noon on the sixth day — Sonning Art Group, 25 of the month prior to the date of — Spring drinks party, 25 publication. Hence, the deadline for — Can you foster?, 25 the June issue of The Parish Magazines — RNLI cheese and wine, 25 Weekly and — Elegant picnic, 25 is: Monday 6 May at 12 noon — Top rotary award, 27 monthly services — War graves talk, 27 The Parish Magazine online Every Wednesday in The Ark — Litter pickers, 27 — 10.00am Holy Communion This issue, as well as past issues dating — Why the Bull? 27 back to January 1869, can be viewed Sunrise of Sonning online. To view copies from April 2009 the sciences — Monday 6 May, Holy to the present day go to: — Love me to Pluto, 29 Communion at 11.00am — 50th moon landing, 29 http://www.theparishmagazine.co.uk The more recent issues stored there the arts also provide click-through links to websites of our advertisers where more — Art in the 60's, 31 Would you like to help — Book reviews, 31 information about their products and services can be found. produce this award health Earlier issues from 1869 to 2012 are winning magazine? — Dr Simon Ruffle writes, 32 stored in a secure online archive. If you — Stronger core? 33 wish to view these archives contact: We are seeking volunteers to join — Kick sugar habit, 33 [email protected] The Parish Magazine's publishing who will authorise access for you. team. One of the roles will be to home & Garden assist in the writing and design — Recipe of the month, 35 of the magazine, and the other to — In the garden, 35 The registers help liaise with our advertisers. No experience is required — we will Funerals train you and provide any software , 37 children’s page — Thursday 14 March, Gertrude you might need. What you will Mary Shearing at St Andrew's need is enthusiasm for printed information Church with burial in churchyard media and a desire to use it to — Church services, 3 — Tuesday 26 March, Anne Stella share God's word in our parish. To — From the registers, 3 Graham at Reading Crematorium find out more contact Bob Peters — Parish contacts, 38 — Thursday 28 March, Julian Albert [email protected] — Advertisers index, 38 Toms at Reading Crematorium CONTENTS

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Please mention The Parish Magazine when responding to advertisements TheThe Parish Parish Magazine Magazine - -March May 2019 5 The vicar's letter

The following are extracts from the vicar’s report for the recent parish annual parochial meeting I have always worked in a parish where the ministry team and administrator meet regularly to pray, plan and discuss current issues. I would not be being honest if I said that I had always looked forward to such gatherings over the last 21 years! I am therefore delighted to report that our monthly meeting is a real pleasure to be part of and I feel very thankful to work with Hilary, Kate, Bob and Chris. They each contribute so much to our parish life and we are greatly blessed by each of their ministries and work. In addition, we have been well served by our wardens and deputies and also by Sonia Boyles who has continued administering arrangements and acts as verger for weddings and funerals. The work of our pastoral visitors continued through 2018, usually quietly and behind the scenes, but nonetheless appreciated. Jean Tinson came to see me soon after I arrived to ask if we might begin this work and I readily agreed. Jean has faithfully served as coordinator of the group ever since and in October took the decision to step down from this role, remaining as a visitor. We warmly thank her for her prayerful service in this ministry and are so grateful to the other visitors who extend the hand of friendship and Christian love around our parish. Helen Leviss kindly agreed to take over the coordinating role for which I am also most grateful. FINANCIAL COMMITMENT

The PCC decided in 2018 to cease the traditional practise of taking the plate around during Sunday services to receive the offertory collections. This was primarily because it was felt that it was anachronistic, unwelcoming to visitors and because it is hoped that regular worshippers will make their offering via standing order. I think this has been a positive step forward in the long term, but we do need to all think about our commitment to resourcing the mission and ministry of our church. Those who have a standing order, and I include myself, need to prayerfully think each year about the amount we give. Our last stewardship campaign was in 2010 but since then a great deal has changed. We now have a paid director of music, a youth minister, The Ark, a Rendezvous lunch club which requires a PCC subsidy, a large and growing Sunday Club, Messy Church with 50 registered families, STAY youth club, a parish office, a junior choir, an organ scholarship, a universal delivery of the parish magazine to every house and much else besides. All these things have brought much to our church and community life, but they need to be properly resourced. In addition, we still have to heat, light, insure and maintain a large and ancient building and we send a very large amount of money (£80,000 in 2018) to the Diocese of Oxford to pay for clergy, central church costs and ordination training. I urge all those who feel themselves to be part of our church and who rejoice at what God is doing in our parish, to consider increasing their financial commitment to His work here.

WELL ON COURSE It has been good to see new home groups begin in the parish and we were all heartened to witness 17 of our own candidates confirmed by the Bishop of Reading in June. At their request, the seven adults have continued to meet with me on a monthly basis and nearly all of the young candidates have joined STAY or continue in Sunday Club. The Lent suppers of 2018 were a testament to the hard work and skill of our social committee and at the time of writing, the 2019 sessions are proving to be most worthwhile. It was great to learn of yet another national award for The Parish Magazine, this time the Parish Magazine Editor’s Gold Award. Not only do we believe the publication to be the oldest, continuously published parish magazine in the UK, it has also been judged to be the best on more than one occasion! Huge congratulations to Bob Peters, Gordon Nutbrown and the team. Bob has now been invited onto the national judging panel which is a well-deserved honour but sadly means we can’t enter the competition anymore! However, I am pretty confident that under his editorship, it will remain as number one, prizes or not! The PCC remains committed to its 20:20 Vision and I believe we are well on course to delivering all that we set out to during the five-year process. It will soon be time to think, plan and pray about the next stage! Jamie CONTENTS

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Please mention The Parish Magazine when responding to advertisements The Parish Magazine - May 2019 7 the parish noticeboard — 1 Notices Christian Aid Week 12-18 May All our offertory collections on Sunday 12May will be given to the Christian Aid Week appeal. Please give generously. New birthday card Children and young people who attend the first Sunday of the month Family Service are invited up to receive a card and gift on their birthday month. We are most grateful to Gem West for designing the new card on the right. Most meritorious swim Congratulations to our churchwarden, Stuart Bowman (right), for being awarded 'The 2018 Des Renford Award for the most meritorious Channel Swimming & Piloting Federation swim of the year by a man.' The swim in question was his second solo crossing of the English Channel made last August. It was described by one of his support team as: 'a characterful display of guts, determination and belief'. FoStAC annual general meeting The Friends of St Andrew’s Church AGM held on 22 March was well supported with 24 attendees. Trustees were re-elected as follows: chairman Bob Hine; treasurer Magnus Smyly; secretary Janet Giles; trustees; Keith Nichols, Sally Wilson, Paul Grist, and Liz Nelson. Wendy Williams was thanked for her considerable service Planning Your as a founding trustee and perpetual fund raiser with her sales of jams and preserves over many years. Wendy has Traditional Wedding? kindly offered to continue by taking orders on demand. A quiz and supper held after the AGM raised £345 for the Then you might like to church lighting. To find out more about FoStAC: Bob Hine: discuss the possibility of 0118 969 8653 [email protected] marriage in our ancient and beautiful parish church. Penny is overwhelmed If so, call the vicar, Jamie Home from hospital recovering from a serious bout of 0118 969 3298 pneumonia, Penny Feathers said: 'I am overwhelmed by the love shown to me by everyone. Please thank everyone for He will be pleased to help! their help and kindness.'

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More activities in future school holidays will be happening . . . watch this space! WESTY Saint Andrew's Youth Fierce Girls Conference therefore temptation isn’t a sin, but Westy’s wife, Gem, took some STAY falling into temptation is a sin. girls to Birmingham's Gas Street One example we looked at was Church, for the first, and amazing, when you feel tempted to leave Fierce Girls Conference. Gem said, 'We someone out at school because they’re had a brilliant day getting to know so irritating, but instead you decide to each other and God loads better. A girl, include them because that honours the who preached with a person and doesn’t embarrass them. severe stammer, had We want to be more ‘Jesus-like’ with courage and bravery people! that was tangible. This showed the STAY girls STAY on Friday Schools work that we mustn’t limit Plans are nicely coming together for I have continued to enjoy spending ourselves and with God our brand new Friday Night Youth time in all the local schools. From anything is possible!' Club. #stayonfriday @stayonfriday assemblies at the two primary schools, One of the STAY girls, Amelia, said, The donations are in, the equipment is to the Christian Union, lunch club and 'The Fierce Conference was really good. purchased, the volunteers are getting table tennis club at the senior schools. We listened to some talks, which were ready and the word is spreading! We My highlight so far has to be really good, and worshipped. I really kick the Youth Club off on Friday 26 joining in with the colour run at Blue enjoyed it and hope to go again.' April from 7-8.15pm and it’ll run every Coat School and being allowed to And Celeste added, 'It was super Friday in term time. If you’d like to throw powder paint at hundreds of fun and inspiring. They played a lot donate finances or time please get in primary and secondary aged children! of well known worship songs and the touch with me on: I was also privileged to speak at atmosphere was really relaxed and [email protected] the Charvil Piggott School Easter friendly. There were lots of people to Many thanks! assembly. My message was centred talk to and all of the other girls were around Easter being both the best and really nice. My favourite bit had to STAY on Sunday worst time in history. be the doughnut wall as it was really We have been looking at important Jesus didn’t do what the people cool and I think we should have one in aspects of Lent and what they mean expected, he didn’t overthrow the STAY on Friday.' for us. Including; incarnation, Roman Empire, he didn’t stand up to baptism and temptation. We will also those who whipped, cursed and spat Easter activities be looking at transfiguration and on him, then he died the most brutal With Easter celebrations and the resurrection in April. death! school holidays all happening in April So what does it mean that Jesus However, the grave could not hold we have planned some fun activities actually lived on earth as one of us? him, he defeated death, came back to for young people. On Tuesday 16, What does it mean to be a baptised life and now offers us life to the full Wednesday 17, and Thursday 18 April member of the church? And...what with him and our Heavenly Father we are planning on going ice skating, temptations do we face? As we saw, through the power of the Holy Spirit! and trampolining at Red Kangaroo, Jesus was tempted and didn’t sin, That’s the best news ever! Westy

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Please mention The Parish Magazine when responding to advertisements The Parish Magazine - May 2019 11 the parish noticeboard — 3 The 40th day of the risen Christ From For 40 days following Easter Sunday, the risen Christ appeared again and the again to his disciple before returning to his Father in heaven on Ascension editor’s Day, which this year falls on 30 May. The Gospels give us little of Christ’s desk teachings and deeds during those 40 Did you have a bizarre Easter Day? days but tell us that he was seen by According to the London Evening many of his disciples: on the road to Standard you might have done if you Emmaus, by the Sea of Galilee, and bought a certain type of Easter egg. In even in locked rooms. He strengthened an ecological friendly review of Easter and encouraged his disciples by eggs they gave the plastic free Real opening their eyes to all that the Easter Egg a great review but added: Scriptures had promised about the Bizarrely, it also comes with a 24-page Messiah. He also told them that as the story and activity book about Jesus to Father had sent him, he was now going 'celebrate the real meaning of Easter'! to send them — to all corners of the You would think that after earth, as his witnesses. Cadbury's created a nationwide outcry Surely the most tender, moving when they dropped the word 'Easter' ‘farewell’ in history took place on from its eggs two years ago, that Ascension Day. Luke records the story journalists on a reputable newspaper with great poignancy: such as the Evening Standard would not When Jesus had led them out to the make such a bizarre mistake. Sadly, like Christmas and Whitsun vicinity of Bethany, he lifted up his hands Chapel of Ascension at Bethany - and blessed them. (Pentecost to use its proper name), Easter is being distanced from its As Christmas began the story The disciples were surely the most Christian tradition by marketing of Jesus’ life on earth, so Ascension favoured people in history. Imagine people. One reason is thought to be Day completes it, with his return to being one of the last few on earth to be the Blair government's social equality his Father in heaven. His last act on face to face with Jesus, and have him policy that began in 1997. While social earth was to bless his disciples. He, look on you with love. No wonder that equality was needed for those who and they, had just lived through three Luke writes: lived on the margins of society, the tumultuous years of public ministry They worshipped him — and returned positive contribution to the world and miracles — persecution and death to Jerusalem with great joy. made by Christianity was sidelined to — and resurrection! And they stayed continually at the supposedly avoid favouring it. Just as we part from our nearest temple, praising God. As a result, two decades later, even and dearest by still looking at them (Luke 24:52,53) in some Church schools — not in with love and memories in our eyes, so They knew they would see Jesus our parish, I'm pleased to say — you did Jesus: again one day! will find that Christianity is taking While he was blessing them, he left them I am going to prepare a place for you... a back seat. More and more schools and was taken up into heaven.’ I will come back and take you to be with are not holding Christian assemblies, (Luke 24:50-1) me that you also may be where I am. partly because the latest generation of (John 14:2,3) Today, at Bethany on the Mount teachers have little understanding of In the meantime, Jesus had work of Olives, stand several churches of the faith. I suspect that this ignorance for them to do: to take the Gospel to different denominations reminding us of Christianity lay behind the silly every nation on earth. But first they that Jesus was not forsaking them: choice of the word 'bizarre' when had to wait a further 10 days for the I am ascending to my Father and to your describing the story of Jesus given Holy Spirit to empower them during Father, to my God and your God. away with the Real Easter Egg. Pentecost. (John 20:17) We can no longer rely on schools to teach our children how to live a For your prayers in May Christian life, which is why ministers dedicated to working with children — For the STAY on Friday open access youth club in its first weeks and young people are essential in our — For the work of Christian Aid society today. However, they can't do it all on their own. To ensure that — For those preparing for exams in local schools future generations won't find Jesus 'bizarre', it is up to every Christian to — For those selecting the new Bishop of Reading share the good news of Christ at every opportunity we have. CONTENTS

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Please mention The Parish Magazine when responding to advertisements The Parish Magazine - May 2019 13 the parish noticeboard — 4 The persecuted Church and how to support it A round-up of news items, features, and links by Colin Bailey. Please read for awareness, and support through prayer and any further support — financial or otherwise. This month his focus is on the theme of Departing and Returning, with a look at the work of Barnabas Fund, FRRME and Open Doors in respect of their work with displaced people in Iraq. 'You have three options: convert to Islam and get your properties back, leave the Islamic State for good and your properties will be owned by Islamic State, or be killed' This phone call was received by Rashel, a 59 year old Christian woman, in August 2014, as Islamic State (IS) St George’s Baghdad: children sing 'God gave me happiness that does not exist in the whole world' extremist fighters entered the small town in the Plains of Nineveh to which to go back, unable to settle, unable to in Iraq. FRRME welcome his words. she and her family had fled from Mosul. go on to a safe and permanent home. However, many Iraqi Christians, Rashel recounts how they fled again, Barnabas ask for help so they may keep including the 1,100 refugee families this time into Kurdistan. She describes helping faithful brothers and sisters to FRRME are helping in Jordan, are how this was a 'miracle from Jesus', find a safe haven. still reluctant to return. They fear the as they escaped unharmed amidst After the invasion of Iraq in 2003, resurgence of IS, Al Qaeda and their gunshots and falling mortars. Up to there was a rise in violent Islamist affiliates. IS continues to plague parts 200,000 Iraqi Christians fled before extremism in Mosul. Six years before of northern Iraq. the advancing IS troops that summer IS first appeared, Iraqi Christian, Saad, FRRME has visited the Nineveh and sought refuge in Kurdistan. along with thousands of others, fled Plains and heard from those who This is just one of a number of cases the city. Around 13,000 went to the have bravely moved back to their of the flight of Christians from IS in Nineveh Plains. devastated homes and communities. Iraq. After three years of waiting, a visa Saad made his way to Baghdad, They are struggling because they have to migrate to Australia was granted. hoping things would be better. Around no employment. FRRME has launched Barnabas Fund, who helped Rashel the time he arrived at St George’s in an initiative to get Christians back on with the visa application, have in place the capital, suicide bombers detonated their feet, Nineveh SEED (standing a project, Operation Safe Havens. bombs outside the church, killing 150 for Sustainable Enterprise Ecnomic Through this, the family’s airfare will and injuring 600. In the years that Development). This includes a range be paid. Operation Safe Havens is there followed, security in the city has slowly of programmes to revitalise the local to rescue Middle Eastern Christians improved. Saad says 'I ask the Lord to economy and create jobs. who can no longer face life in their bless the church every day and give me FRRME welcome donations at this beloved Middle East, due to anti- the strength to serve Him.' time to support their work. Christian pressure and persecution. FRRME, who St Andrew’s supports, Open Doors has a seven year Over 2,200 Christians from Syria and are the main supporter of St George’s campaign to mobilise Christians to Iraq have already resettled in Australia, — both the medical clinic and the bring hope for the Middle East. They with the help of Operation Safe Havens ministry. Saad has forgiven those who currently ask Christians to pray for: and thanks to the generosity of the persecuted him. He has found a new — Open Doors partners helping Australian government in giving visas. lease of life at St George’s in Baghdad. people rebuild their homes Hundreds more have gone to other The church is 'an oasis of grace in a land — International organisations to secure and free countries. riven by sectarianism'. provide more support to reconstruct Many thousands more Christian In March, Iraqi President Barham damaged infrastructure refugees are still in need, marooned Salih issued a statement encouraging — The reconstruction of churches in in countries such as Turkey, unable Christians to return to their homes Iraq that services can resume and Christians can come together again

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A Rogation Sunday service held at Sonning allotments in the 1930's after a procession through the parish led by the Sonning Silver Band Rogation means asking God for his who is thirsty come to me to drink'. He Silver Band for their help, and also to the blessing on the seeds and land for the used the water to illustrate that just member's of His Majesty's forces who took year ahead, writes Bob Peters. as water nourishes the seeds, he will their part in the playing of the hymns. In Roman times, a procession around nourish our spirit. Rogationtide services reflected the the cornfields, singing and dancing, By the turn of the century, needs of the people. When times were and sacrificing animals was thought to Rogationtide services had moved hard, more sought God's help. encourage pagan gods to drive out evil. inside the church and were less well The popularity of the outdoor About 465AD there were earthquakes, attended. Often the vicar, writing services peaked again after World War storms and epidemics, so the Bishop in this magazine, described the II when food was again scarce. Large of Vienne ordered that prayers be congregation as 'small', 'meagre' or numbers of parishioners and visitors said in the ruined or neglected fields 'scant'. However, a move was underway attended until the mid-1950's, after on the days leading up to Ascension. to return to the outdoors. which the numbers began to decrease. Thus, ‘beating the bounds’ became a OUTDOOR SERVICE By the 1970's the outdoor services were Christian ceremonial. becoming a memory and Rogation Rogationtide arrived in England The Rogation Days: May 1909 Sunday services had moved back inside in the early 8th century when people, These are the three days before Ascension with the occasional guest preacher carrying wands of willow, would Day when in the agricultural England connected with farming. march around the boundaries of the of Old Days great point was made of In June 1989, the editor of this parish led by a bishop or priest. At prayer for God's blessing on the fields and magazine, Armine Edmonds, wrote: bridges, stiles or ancient trees a litany gardens. Such prayer will be offered in our My pocket diary for 1989 carried a or 'rogation' was said, imploring God to church at the daily services of these days. reminder that Sunday April 3oth send seasonable wealth, keep the corn It is becoming common to have outdoor was Rogation Sunday, which revived and roots and boughs in good health, services at this time in many parishes, and memories of the procession ... headed and bring them to an ample harvest. our Bishop, at the desire of the Diocesan by the Sonning Silver Band. ... We were At one point, beer and cheese would be Conference, has lately put out a form of reminded by David Sims in his sermon of waiting to refresh the walkers! service to be so used. (From The Parish the significance that Rogationtide has for Before the availability of accurate Magazine May 1909). us today. maps, ‘beating the bounds’ was a Between the two world wars the It is a sermon I remember hearing! practical way of marking parish move outdoors, coupled with poor food Rogationtide remains a time to ask for borders and was common practise supplies, resulted in Rogation Sunday God's blessing on the land and for a until Victorian times when the services becoming more popular in good harvest to come. It's also a good Church encouraged rural parishes to this parish. Led by Mr Prior's Sonning time to remember that we live in a hold special services on the Sunday, Silver Band, a large number of boys delicately balanced world and history Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday and men from the church choir, the shows us that ample food supplies before Ascension Day to pray for God's Bishop, other church dignitaries and cannot always be taken for granted. blessing on fields and gardens. The guests, processed through the parish, Parish Magazine of May 1883 reported either to the allotments or the Reading Rogationtide an evening service on Tuesday 1 May University fields at Charvil Lane. The was held to: Ask God's mercy on giving us May 1941 parish magazine records: a good harvest time. Rogationtide always means much to This service has its roots in Biblical us who live in a country parish, but is times. In John's Gospel, chapter 7, has deeper meaning than ever this year Jesus attends the last day of the owing to the increased necessity of food Feast of Tabernacles when the Jewish production. So we were glad to see such people, having thanked God for the a very large company of parishioners, completed harvest, prayed for water friends, and children present at the for next year's crops. Jesus interrupts blessing of the crops on Rogation Sunday. the ceremony, shouting 'Let anyone We are very grateful to Mr Prior and the CONTENTS

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A rare opportunity to admire the work of dozens of local artists without having to travel far from our homes in Charvil, Sonning and Sonning Eye will products that she has been designing be happening on the May Bank Holiday Weekend, 4-6 May, during this year's and making for 30 years. Henley Arts Trail. Not far away at 'The Ramblers', Charvil Village Hall, Pearson Hall, which the map below was taken — by Beggars Hill Road, Charvil, RG10 and the Big Plant Nursery, together going to: 0UB you will find venue 22, the Esté with three other local studios, will be http://www.henleyartstrail.com/ MacLeod Studio. Here Esté, a colourist opening their doors — free of charge painter and designer, will be showing — between 10am and 5pm with In Charvil Village Hall, (venue new paintings, prints, textile products displays of original art work. 20) under the umbrella of Twyford including cushions and novelty tea This year's Arts Trail, the 14th and Studios, there will be paintings, glass, towels, and greetings cards. largest in the series, will feature the ceramics, silverware and jewellery She will also be holding a raffle work of nearly 300 artists at 33 venues from local artists who will be present in aid of Save the Children for a £250 in Henley, and the surrounding area to talk about their work and products. hamper of products featuring her from Bix in the north to Shurlock One of the organisers of the designs. Visitors who buy a greetings Row in the south. The best way to find exhibits in Charvil Village Hall is card designed to raise funds for Save out what is being shown where is to Jill Chadwick (below right) who will the Children can enter the raffle. download a free programme — from be displaying her handmade glass Continued on page 19

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Please mention The Parish Magazine when responding to advertisements The Parish Magazine - May 2019 19 feature — 3 From page 17 Even closer to Charvil Village Hall are two other venues to visit. At 16 The Hawthorns, Charvil, RG10 9TS Claire Burriss, Emma Boote and Robert Harrison will be displaying a range of their original artwork, ceramics, prints and cards available to buy. At venue 14, which is in walking distance of the Village Hall, is The Gables, 14 Park Lane, RG10 9TR where mixed media artist Linda 'Bee Eaters' by Saul (right) will be Claire Burrriss: 'The Angel on the Bridge' Robert Harrison Emma Boote: 'Sunset Wave' opening her home studio to show Just over the border of the parish of We featured one of the artists, JJ her paintings of St Andrew's Church heading towards Vizern, a children's book illustrator the coast and the Maidenhead on the A4 is the Big in our November 2018 issue when built environment. Plant Nursery — venue 16, Wargrave he illustrated Jane Gascoine's book, With her will be Road, Twyford, RG10 9PN — where Doggerel Days. Typical of his paintings Carole Pembrooke, 15 outdoor art and sculpture artists is Bastille Day at Sonning Lock (below). a painter and textile will be displaying their work in stone, Other Sonning artists include: artist whose work metal, wood and glass against an — Natalia Manley, an award-winning often reveals a environment of mature plants. Sarah textile artist whose work has been humorous side of Pye will also be demonstrating her featured in many international events. life. unique style of painting. Please note — Chris Hughesdons, a woodworker the slightly different opening times at who uses traditional hand-tools and the Big Plant Nursery: Saturday 9-5pm, century-old techniques. Sunday and Monday, 11am-5pm. — Diane Everitt, a mixed media artist In the centre of Sonning, nine who has recently moved into the world artists will be in Pearson Hall where of portrait painting. you can enjoy a glass of wine as you — Phil Parker, an experienced meet nine artists — all local villagers CAA licensed drone operator who — and view their original artwork specialises in aerial photography and and prints, quilted and embroidered aerial film making. textiles, hand-crafted willow baskets, Add to these, the basket making, local photography and individually more contemporary textiles and crafted wood-turned products. beautiful patchwork creations, and it There will also be demonstrations makes staying here in the parish over of willow basket-making during the the May bank holiday a great way to weekend. avoid those motorway traffic jams! Linda Saul

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It's hard to believe that it is two years since The Ark was officially opened by the Prime Minister on Sunday 7 May 2017. During that time it has become the home for many new initiatives serving every age group from young children, through teenagers, families, and the elderly of our parish and beyond, writes Bob Peters. I have been a member of St Andrew's Church since 1985 and I am now on my fourth vicar. It was not long before I became a member of the PCC and was party to discussions about the future of the church. There were always plans to reach out to the growing number of families, particularly in Charvil, and to provide facilities that enable the church to serve the elderly. One problem was that the only building available for hosting an activity close to the church was the Old Vicarage where the Sunday School met during services and the congregation gathered afterwards for tea and coffee. During an interregnum before Rev Canon Chris Clarke became vicar in 1997, the Church Commissioners decided to sell the Old Vicarage, which was over twice the recommended size of property for a vicar, and build a new one. To replace the spacious facilities in the Old Vicarage, the St Sarik Room was created in what The official opening of The Ark pictured from the top of St Andrew's Church tower on Sunday 7 May 2017 by Tom Farncombe was originally a morgue used to house bodies found floating in the Thames in years gone by. The St Sarik March 2000 issue of The Parish Magazinecarried the Nine years after Rev Jamie's appointment Room opened on 12 March 2000 but it was always following item regarding its size: The Ark was opened and now, two years later, the recognised as being too small to house anything A reminder that we open our new meeting room in original 'wish list' has not only been fulfilled, but but a few people, and a small Sunday School. The St Andrew's Churchyard after the 10.30am service on surpassed in many ways. Sunday 12th March and that you are invited to the The Sunday Club children were the first users, opening. The room, known as The St Sarik Room is not moving in before the official opening while last Rendezvous in The Ark month the STAY on Friday open access youth club SENIOR CITIZENS’ LUNCH CLUB very big in terms of getting everyone in at once and because of this some may prefer to come and have a cup of began. This grew out of the STAY on Sunday group CHRISTMASMAY RENDEZVOUS RENDEZVOUS: TUESDAY — 14 11th DECEMBER& 8 th 2 tea between 2.30 and 4.00pm that day so that they can that continues to grow stronger. ND FOURTH T ND A UES In between there is an impressive list of activities CO DA have a more leisurely look. SE Y E OF for which The Ark is 'home', including, of course, the H E Nonetheless, the St Sarik Room did provide for T V E N R fellowship that takes place every week following the O Y the first time in the history of St Andrew's a toilet N M O 10.30am service. Instead of the 20-30 people who O which provided much relief (ha ha!) for the ministry O N N T team, congregation and visitors. Today it is still crammed themselves into the St Sarik room after 2 H

1 providing valuable service for the junior and senior the service it is not uncommon to find up to 80 or choirs who use the room to store their robes and more adults, children and young people enjoying music, practice and gather before services. When Rev Jamie Taylor was appointed vicar in 2008, the PCC, of which I was still a member, presented him with a wish list for serving the children, young people, families and the elderly in All Senior Citizens are Welcome! Meet your friends and neighbours the parish. The list was basically an updated version over lunch made by Emma’s Kitchen of the discussions of the past 20 years. After a long and careful review of the church and the parish, Rev To book your place or for more information contact Hilary in Jamie concluded that a church centre with a modern the Parish Office on hall and good catering facilities, and a parish office [email protected] or 0118 969 3298 — which almost every thriving church in the country The home-cooked, subsidised has — was the only feasible solution that would two-course meal will cost £7 enable the wish list to become a reality. Children performing a Passover play in the Ark the church of st andrew, SERVING THE COMMUNITIES OF CHARVIL, SONNING and sonning eye Church of St Andrew Serving Sonning, Charvil & Sonning Eye CONTENTS CONTENTS The Parish Magazine - May 2019 21

REGULAR EVENTS HELD IN THE ARK — Sunday Fellowship, coffee, tea, biscuits and conversation every week after the 10.30am service — Sunday Club at 10.30am every 2nd, 4th & 5th Sunday — STAY on Sunday at 10.30am every 2nd, 4th & 5th Sunday — STAY on Friday, open access youth club every Friday at 7pm — Rendezvous Lunch Club, every 2nd & 4th Tuesday at 12 noon — Holy Communion Service 10am every Wednesday followed by coffee, tea and fellowship — Messy Church every second Sunday at 3pm with a meal OTHER EVENTS AND MEETINGS HELD IN THE ARK — PCC meetings — Ministry meetings — Annual Parish Meetings — Friends of St Andrew's meetings — Lent suppers — Passover meal — Easter BBQ — Summer BBQ — Fellowship after special services — Scarecrow weekend tea room — Children and young people's pizza and film evenings — Royal School of Music training meetings — All Sunday church services during February 2019

The official opening of The Ark pictured from the top of St Andrew's Church tower on Sunday 7 May 2017 by Tom Farncombe Nine years after Rev Jamie's appointment refreshments and fellowship in The Ark and the The Ark was opened and now, two years later, the gardens. original 'wish list' has not only been fulfilled, but While The Ark has given previously existing surpassed in many ways. activities such as Sunday Club and the after service The Sunday Club children were the first users, fellowship the much needed space to grow, there moving in before the official opening while last have been some new and exciting successes. month the STAY on Friday open access youth club One not on the wish list is Messy Church. This February Family Service in The Ark when the church was closed began. This grew out of the STAY on Sunday group was started and led by Rev Kate and last month that continues to grow stronger. celebrated it's first anniversary. Messy Church is executive, take it in turns to host our guests. While In between there is an impressive list of activities church but not as we have known it before. It is the food is enjoyed, Rendezvous members tell us that for which The Ark is 'home', including, of course, the attracting many newcomers to St Andrew's — and they really welcome the opportunity to go out for few fellowship that takes place every week following the to the church for the first time — giving families, hours and meet friendly people for chat. 10.30am service. Instead of the 20-30 people who young and old, an opportunity to explore their faith Above is a list of some of the notable events made crammed themselves into the St Sarik room after through craft and science, through story telling and possible by The Ark during its first two years. the service it is not uncommon to find up to 80 or music, prayer and a sharing a meal together. Watch this magazine for news of future ways that more adults, children and young people enjoying More than 50 families have registered with Messy we hope to serve our neighbours in The Ark! Church and between 60 and 80 people attend on every third Sunday afternoon of the month! A second exciting development, and one of the original reasons for building The Ark, is the Rendezvous Lunch Club for retired people. Held twice a month since October 2018, it regularly attracts about 50 to 60 people, many who don't attend church. The Christmas lunch saw almost 80 people sit down for a traditional meal, a glass of wine donated by The French Horn and Simon Darvall, and carol singing. The subsidised meals are provided and cooked by Emma's Kitchen and a team of about Children performing a Passover play in the Ark 30 volunteers, led by a retired professional catering Rev Kate preparing for a Messy Church in The Ark CONTENTS

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By Professor Alastair Driver The Kamali River As I write, the cold April rain is stair-rodding and my expedition to Bardia National Park in Nepal in the last two weeks of March already seems like a fading dream. Indian Roller I was part of a 20-strong multi-skilled team gathered by the Scientific Exploration Society with a mission: To continue the studies of the wild elephants, tiger and rhino of Bardia, list the other wildlife and provide aid for the local communities. The latter included dentistry — mainly tooth extractions — for the local communities, distributing spectacles, handing out previously-raised funds to deserving causes and visiting the local primary school for which we had funded a major Hanuman Langur refurbishment programme. My role was to lead the wildlife studies as requested by my dear old friend, the expedition leader and living legend, 82 year-old Col John Blashford-Snell CBE. Above: Col Blashford-Snell (left) with Alastair After a 24 hour stop-over in Kathmandu, still ravaged by the terrible earthquakes of 2015, we flew on by turbo-prop Right: Daily ablutions plane to the appropriately named rural town of Nepalgunj. Left: Golden Jackal From there we trundled by ancient bus for 3 hours to the edge of the 400 square mile wilderness of Bardia National Park in the lowland Terai region of South-West Nepal. At the edge of the park we transferred to jeeps for the final hour of the journey through dense forest to our tented camp on the banks of the Geruwa River, by now running very low as it was the middle of the dry season. Over the next nine days we undertook elephant safaris in the early morning and, in late afternoons, to track tigers, Gharial Crocodile rhinos, wild elephants and any other wildlife we came across. In between, we took long excursions by jeep into the Certainly every time I washed my Indian forest in search of an elusive elephant herd which was known clothes and myself in the river, I Softshell Turtle to contain the largest Asian elephants on record. Sadly the wished I had eyes in the back of my head! herd eluded us as they remained many miles away in another The variety of wildlife was truly stunning and thanks to part of the park, but we did encounter two large male our superb guides we identified over 150 species of birds, 20 'tuskers' who were roaming from the rest of the herd. mammals, and 10 reptiles. I also photographed numerous I was shocked to discover from our guides that wild butterflies and dragonflies which I am now identifying in elephants kill an average of 15 people a year in the small order to pass on the records to the park authorities, as little, villages scattered around the edges of the park, mainly when if any, work has been done on these species so far. they come in to the village areas in search of crops to feed on. The whole area receives very few visitors and has great I also heard of a couple of people killed by tigers, including capacity to become a high value eco-tourism destination — the brother of our senior guide and of a baby being snatched as long as numbers and activities are sustainably managed. by a mugger crocodile and then successfully rescued by the Much of the potential comes from the fact that you are family, but not before several of them had been badly injured. pretty much guaranteed to see tiger if you stay for a few days So spare a thought for these people when you next worry and have the right guides. about being stung by a wasp! Certainly for me, apart from some of the spectacular and rare birds, this was the undoubted highlight of the visit. I had visited two Indian national parks in recent years and 'blanked', but on this trip I saw three different tigers, with the final encounter of a large male rolling on its back, viewed from an inflatable raft at a distance of about 20 yards, giving me the 'photo-opp' of a lifetime! You can find out more about this amazing and barely Left: Jeep safari through the known corner of the planet when I give a lecture on the jungle and above: Alastair with expedition to the Sonning and Sonning Eye Society on his expert guide Ramshali Friday 11 October. CONTENTS

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Please mention The Parish Magazine when responding to advertisements The Parish Magazine - May 2019 25 around the villages — 1 rish Mag e Pa azin T e 1869 Charvil Caterpillars love pancakes Alongside free play, refreshments, 150 a story and singing, Charvil's YEARS S e e y Caterpillars enjoyed marking rv E in 2019 g g in Cha onn rvil, Sonning and S Shrove Tuesday with pancakes and then ending the term with an Easter Best ever tea? craft, bakes and an egg hunt. Tea parties have always been popular Caterpillars Club is for pre-school in the parish. The archives of The children and their carers and meets Parish Magazine record tea parties during term time at Charvil Village for a diverse range of reasons — Hall on Wednesdays, 9.45-11.30am. It Sunday Schools, choirs, national is a great way of meeting other families celebrations, Christmas, sports clubs, in the area, so if you are interested just go along, the summer term starts on etc. No special village event would Wednesday 1 May and runs each week until Wednesday 17 July. be complete without a cup of tea! In May 1889, for example, the opening Trying to be vibrant is not as easy as it looks of Pearson Hall resulted in what was When Sonning Art Group invited claimed to be the 'most extensive tea tutor Carol Stevens (left) to visit party that Sonning has ever seen.' them in Pearson Hall she brought From The Parish Magazine, May 1819 with her an array of fresh flowers OPENING OF THE PEARSON HALL. and vases for them to arrange and Our Pearson Hall, after many delays, is at last completed, and was formally opened paint. While Carol demonstrated in on Tuesday, April 23rd. The opening watercolours and inks, the members ceremonial commenced with a Parish used whichever medium they were Tea provided by the Ladies of Sonning. comfortable with. Her fresh vibrant As many as 230 cards of invitation had style looked deceptively easy to been issued and the Hall was quite full, an overflow meeting being held in the emulate — until the members tried! Girls’ School. After tea a few words Carol was generous with her time were spoken by the Archdeacon, and the advising members on the best way to Hall was declared open by Mr. Palmer, proceed and they agreed that it was under the title of the Pearson Hall. Mr. another informative session. Edward Pearson added a few words to his brother’s memory. The Hall will be under the joint control of Mr. Palmer and Spring drinks party Can you foster? the Archdeacon, and will be available for Saturday 11 May: The Sonning any “and" every purpose connected with and Warren Branch of Maidenhead Fostering network’s annual big the Parish. Conservative Association invite their push to raise the profile of fostering, In more recent times the archives members and guests to a spring drinks and to show how foster care can record the early days of the now party from 6 - 8pm. More details from: transform children’s lives is this very successful annual Charvil tea Lesley Barker on 0118 969 8521. month from 13-26 May. party and concert for the elderly. Foster Care Fortnight is the UK’s A Monday Club report by Zoe Feak RNLI Cheese and wine biggest foster carer recruitment for The Parish Magazine, April 1996: Saturday 15 June: The RNLI Sonning campaign. And the need is huge: On March 9 we had an invitation from Branch invites everyone to its 2019 thousands of new foster families Mr Paul Gregory and the Charvil Summer cheese and wine garden are needed every year to care for Village Society to tea and a concert in party at Brook House, High Street, the Charvil Village Hall; It was a most children in need — older children, delightful afternoon. A group of singers Sonning on from 6.30 – 8.30pm. sibling groups, disabled children and calling themselves 'The Nightingales' Tickets, £15, from Lynn Woodhouse even unaccompanied asylum-seeking had come all the way from London to on 0118 692 206. children. entertain us. They gave us a selection Do you have what it takes to be of popular songs and some Old Tyme Elegant picnic Music numbers. Then Richard Gobb - a a foster carer? As one experienced very talented young man - played well Saturday 29 June: This year's elegant fosterer says: 'It's not about age, known Ivor Novello tunes. 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Please mention The Parish Magazine when responding to advertisements The Parish Magazine - May 2019 27 around the villages — 2 Top Rotary award War graves talk for conductor Music consultant Clive Waterman was presented with Rotary’s top award, the Paul Harris Fellowship, at a Wokingham Area Schools Music Association (WASMA) concert in the Reading Hexagon. The award recognises his outstanding An illustrated talk by Fiona Smith on support to the community for the the work of the Commonwealth War last 40 years. A former Woodley Clive Waterman Graves Commission is taking place Southlake School headteacher, he has During the concert the Rotary in Pearson Hall on Friday 10 May, at produced and conducted the annual Club of Reading Maiden Erlegh 7.30pm. Organised by Sonning and concerts performed by local junior collected over £900 from the sale Sonning Eye Society, the tickets, £4 (£5 school children. of programmes and donations to non-members) including a welcoming At the latest concert, over 800 support Just Around the Corner drink, are available from Penny children from 15 primary and junior (JAC), a Berkshire based charity Feathers on 0118 934 3193. schools in the area performed committed to engaging with young beautifully in a concert with a theme people and their families, enabling rish Mag e Pa azin of 'Elementary my dear WASMA'. them to make positive choices, by T e 1869 It embraced the development of demonstrating love and acceptance science, included original singing according to Christian principles. 150 and dancing by the children. http://www.jacoutreach.org/Wp YEARS S e e y rv E in 2019 g g in Cha onn What a load of rubbish! rvil, Sonning and S Why The Bull? This extract from June 1884 in The Parish Magazine offers an answer . . . At Easter, 1615, Sir James [Whitelock] stood Godfather to a child of Mr Edward Nevill, brother of Sir Henry of Billingbear, and named him after himself. Sir Henry Nevill we have seen was Queen Elizabeth's Steward of the Manor of Sonning. He died 10th July, 1615, aged 52. “He was the most sufficient man for understanding of State business that was in this Kingdom, and a very good scholar, and a stout man — but was as ignobly and unworthilie handled as ever gentleman was” There is a very probable record of STAY young people (and Westy!) helped the Sonning litter pickers tidy up the village Sir Henry’s rule still remaining at Sonning. The Church House was no Traffic cones, a tyre, scooter and some fencing, plus longer needed for 'Ales' and festivals, a large pile of black bag rubbish was collected by 50 so the Vicar and Churchwardens volunteers in this year's Sonning village litter pick. acted with great prudence; instead of pulling it down, as was done in many After thanking everyone who turned up, Jan Fielder, places, or letting it fall into ruin, they from Sonning Parish Council, said: 'We would also let it as a respectable Hostelry, for like to thank The Bull, Coppa Club, Sabella Interiors the entertainment of man and beast, calling it the Bull. Why? Because the and Waitrose for the refreshments. bull is the cognizance of the Nevill They were very much appreciated family. and enjoyed by all.' There was one person in the village If you would like to adopt a who was shut out from being mine road in Sonning and become Host of the Bull—if he wished for that post—the Baker. In those days a regular village litter picker, horse bread was an item of regular contact Wokingham Borough consumption, and the law forbade Council, Highways Department on 0118 974 6000 anyone who dealt in wheat bread who will supply litter pickers, bags and high vis for general use, to sell, or make the waistcoats. inferior kind. CONTENTS

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Please mention The Parish Magazine when responding to advertisements The Parish Magazine - May 2019 29 the sciences Love me to Pluto and Cathedrals to mark 50th moon landing back? anniversary Space suits, meteorite fragments and a giant sculpture of the moon Dr Ruth Bancewicz, of The Faraday Institute for Science and Religion in Cambridge, are to be displayed in a Church of writes on the positive relationship between science and Christian faith. England’s ancient cathedral as part Do you know the story of little nutbrown hare? His father cared for him so of the celebrations to mark the much that the only thing big enough to describe his love was the enormous 50th anniversary of when the first distance between the Earth and the Moon — and back again. It’s a wonderful humans landed on the Moon on 2o story, but it pales into insignificance compared to the love that the Creator of July 1969 as part of NASA's Apollo the entire universe has for each one of us. 11 lunar mission. When Paul wrote to the Ephesians, he in our bodies. This long thin chemical A lit art installation, Museum of said that he prayed they would be able carries all the instructions needed the Moon, by artist Luke Jerram, 'to grasp how wide and long and high and for building and maintaining each with detailed NASA imagery of the deep is the love of Christ, and to know cell – every tiny building block – in moon’s surface, will be suspended this love that surpasses knowledge'. So your body. A human cell contains two from the nave of Ely Cathedral for a what sort of scale could you use to metres of DNA, coiled up very tightly. science festival on space exploration, capture the size of a love like that? If it were possible to take this long Artificial Intelligence and future I have heard professional thin molecule out of every cell, unroll technologies. astronomers say it is impossible to it, and line up every piece end to end, The festival at the cathedral will keep the enormous scales of our how far would it reach? include science-themed worship as universe in mind all the time and The average adult has about 3 well as lectures from high-profile keep functioning normally. But every trillion (3,000,000,000,000) DNA- figures including the Astronomer now and again it is worth trying containing cells in his or her body. Royal Lord Rees and lunar expert to wrap our heads around these Multiplied by two metres, that makes and broadcaster Dr Maggie Aderin- distances, and feel a sense of awe at around 6 billion kilometres of DNA, Pocock. our smallness compared to the vast which is immense compared to the There are also exhibits on show distances of space. distance to the moon. The sun is loaned from the Science Museum One way to connect more around 150 million kilometres from and the Institute of Astronomy in personally with astronomical scales is earth, so our DNA could take us there Cambridge. to consider the total amount of DNA and back many times. Pluto is, on Lichfield Cathedral in also average, around 6 billion kilometres mounting a spectacular display to away from Earth, so with our string mark the anniversary of the lunar of DNA we could take a one-way trip landing, with the nave floor is to to the very edge of the solar system. be transformed into a huge visual God is the Creator of the vast reproduction of the Moon’s surface. spaces of the universe, but when The cathedrals are among 14 Jesus described how God cares for us church projects receiving a total He said that ‘even the very hairs on of £70,000 from a Scientists in your head are numbered’. Congregations scheme to foster You could also say that He knows greater understanding about science every molecule of DNA in your body. and faith. Jesus’ death on the cross showed that Scientists in Congregations is part His love for each one of us is more of Equipping Christian Leadership unbreakable than the love of a parent in an Age of Science, a project run by for a child. the Universities of Durham and York So what might He say in today’s in collaboration with the Church of language - I love you to Pluto and England and funded by Templeton 3D illustration of a human DNA string back? World Charity Foundation. CONTENTS

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Please mention The Parish Magazine when responding to advertisements The Parish Magazine - May 2019 31 the arts Revolution in the Sixties By Robert Lobley who recalls the art of his youth Getting older I realise I have witnessed all sorts of amazing events and changes in society. I am one of a dwindling group of people who remember the war and its aftermath. I left school in the fifties and went on to art school at a time when the whole world was changing. St Martins School of Art had a very large and important fashion department which was both revolutionary and influential. Art was changing and all sorts of new ideas were being put forward. Popular Music was changing fast and new exciting bands were shocking the older generation. After Art School I took up art teaching and in the staff room of Chiswick School someone pointed out the older visitor in the corner, a tutor at a local college visiting the school and supervising a student teaching practice at Acton County teacher. 'Have you heard about his School. Two boys in the top end of son, he is a rather infamous young the school were John Entwistle and pop star?' The older tutor was Mr Pete Townsend. Later, when Pete Jagger senior! Townsend was at Ealing Art School, I did my teachers' training he and friends took up residence in a flat next door to where I was living. It was difficult to keep up with all We neighbours were all excited and the new and exciting ideas. Germaine Book review curious when they performed on Top Greer wrote about feminism. Hippies of the Pops with the Detours Band. started to appear and there were Resilience in life and faith By Tony Horsfall and Debbie Hawker, After the performance they huge pop festivals. Some people BRF, £9.99 disbanded. They then bought an old started to experiment with drugs. The authors encourage ambulance and painted The Who on There was an explosion of radical us to find strength in the side and the rest is history. magazines pamphlets and books all designed in new exciting ways God and to prepare EXTRAORDINARY for the challenges by young people coming out of art that life throws at Clothes and fashion became very school. us in an increasingly important and the girls started difficult world. wearing all the new fashions. EXPERIMENTAL Through biblical Clothes shops started to spring up Artwork became all important. psychological and with new exciting designs. Carnaby Record covers became an art form. wisdom insight, Street in London became well known they introduce five The Beatles led the way with the key areas on which and people took to the streets just famous cover for Sergeant Peppers resilience is built — the spiritual, to see all the new extraordinary Lonely Hearts Club Band, but physical, emotional, cognitive and clothes. bands battled it out with music and social domains. Biba opened a shop in Kensington artwork. Experimental films were This is illustrated from the lives of and hundreds of girls crowded into made. biblical characters and contemporary it, trying on the clothes with little There were huge demonstrations people. respect for privacy and buying all against the Vietnam War both This book will be a great resource before them. here and in America. It was an era for anyone coping with the pressures Mary Quant had a new hairstyle of political demonstrations and of modern living. and started selling her newly campaigning for gay rights and It will provide a great resource for designed clothes and became very counsellors, and those in leadership or women’s equality. It was an era of working overseas. successful. She was so successful that huge social change when young It will also help parents to develop at present there is a much acclaimed people took to the streets to show resilience in their children. exhibition of her fashionable their politics and beliefs and their Read this book if you want not only designs at in the Victoria and Albert new exiting clothes. to survive, but to thrive. Museum. It was an great time to be young! CONTENTS

32 The Parish Magazine - May 2019 health — 1 Dr Simon Ruffle raises awareness of mumps Let me do what the mainstream are overwhelmingly in support of Herd immunity is often cited media should be doing! I was made vaccination against allowing the wild as a reason not to have children aware of a Mumps outbreak in virus to infect the population. immunised. While I can understand the UK involving 220 students in In 1998 a study linking MMR the parental concern of the risk of Nottingham. vaccination and bowel disease was immunisation, relying on others Medical and mainstream media have published. It involved a study of only to act is akin to walking along the not reported this widely enough 12 children. street with your eyes closed or head for the nation to be aware. Let me The authors could not prove buried in your iPhone (other phones entertain you, or at least raise your causation and did not reject are available) with headphones awareness, of the issue while all of immunisation but suggested, in listening to I’m a believer and our news outlets are concentrating without good evidence, that the expecting everyone else to keep you on the ‘B’ word. vaccines should be given one year safe. apart and separately. Essentially, The herd immunity falls apart as this meant children would not be soon as you leave an area with high protected until the age of 8 years. immunisation rates. Single mumps vaccine covers Not immunised? Please do not only 65% of those receiving it. The travel outside of your community mainstream media leapt onto this and certainly not anywhere like flawed, and subsequently rejected, Africa, Far East and South America. work and splattered it across our Don’t go to college or university. front pages. Don’t pass go and collect £200, (sorry Immunisation rates fell to 79% wrong article.) during the subsequent years. The So why the big outbreak? Young Mumps is a virus that is only rates among the middle classes fell adults, living new lives, away from carried and spread by humans. the most. home, crammed into student It was first described by the father Studies from the US, Sweden and accommodation and the virus is of medicine himself, Hippocrates. Denmark all showed no link of MMR transmitted to and from the upper The infection presents as a flu like immunisation with bowel disease or airway. Need I say more? Oh but I illness, temperature, muscle aches, autism. will! What are the predominant years headache loss of appetite and upper of birth of the current University of respiratory symptoms similar to a Nottingham and Trent Uni students? cough and cold. Glands in the face 1997/8/9. These students should swell giving the illness its classical have received their immunisation look — think of a real hamster! in 1998/9 and 2000 and their second Other symptoms can develop, MMR in 2001/2/3. meningitis, pancreatitis, heart These are the years where MMR swelling — myocarditis — painful uptake was at it’s lowest. testicular swelling, ovarian swelling Causation or correlation? That’s and 1:10000 die from the illness. for you to decide. Boys can be rendered infertile after While science evolves and looks contacting the disease. to correct its wrongs, the media that Soldiers in the Peninsular, WWI caused a great deal of harm is not and WWII conflicts were affected widely reporting this outbreak and badly. The above graph show the reviewing its role in actively harming In 1988 the UK introduced the diagnosis of Autism against the our youth but are enjoying the bounty MMR (Measles, Mumps and Rubella) sale of organic foods from the US of the ‘B’ word. vaccine. Immunisation rates soared department of education. The 'MMRexit' is a stain on our to 92% of the population. Science This explains correlation and media, ineffective government policy doing its best to question and ‘out causation perfectly. Decreasing and lack of support at the time and is do itself’ followed up the immunised uptake in MMR is directly associated now coming to fruition. population. with rising cases of measles, mumps Let’s hope our students in In 1995 the strain of mumps and rubella. Increasing use sees the Nottingham get through this and virus used to create the vaccine was rate fall with no change in the rate we can see a 'Mumpsexit' from their changed due to side effects of the of diagnosis of bowel disease and community. vaccine. autism. Research Authors: This had no effect on the rates of I would suggest that if organic David Elliman - Great Ormond Street uptake and should be reassuring. sales in the US fell no change in the Hospital for Children and Helen Bedford The figures for death and rate of diagnosis of autism would Centre of Paediatric Epidemiology and complication from the vaccines follow. Biostatistics, Institute of Child Health. CONTENTS CONTENTS The Parish Magazine - May 2019 33 health — 2 Strengthen your core? Kick sugar habit! By Elizabeth Jones, Physiocare Unfortunately the phrase ‘strengthen my core’ continues to crop up most days in the clinic. Usually it's by somebody who gets back pain, or feels their tummy is a little large or maybe a young mum who has just started a family. But what exactly do we mean by the term ‘core strength’? More often than not we are referring to our By tummy strength or abdominal muscles. I’ve had a Emily recent run of patients telling me they work hard on Hyland their core so their episodes of back pain cannot be due to a core problem. Although the individual thinks they are We know too much sugar is bad for our health but exercising their core muscles, in reality they are probably not. we can’t stop eating it! Your body doesn’t need added Too often, exercises are contributing to the problem. sugar. That doesn’t mean you can’t have any though, When considering a good core it is not about how strong consuming small amounts now and then isn’t a problem. the muscles are but how well they function. The important thing to remember about the deep core muscles is that they There are many reasons why we crave sugar — poor should activate automatically just before movement occurs. nutrition, high-stress levels, not getting enough sleep, and They need to work for long periods at low effort loads so give sometimes, an imbalance of blood sugar levels. Too many the spine good control while allowing it to move freely. dips and rises in blood sugar levels can result in lethargy, The problem with many exercise programmes, gym classes sugar-cravings and hunger. and even Pilates classes, is that the exercises are aimed at Thankfully, there are things we can do to help: strengthening the tummy muscles. However, the common — Eat regular meals to help maintain energy levels. problem with core muscles is not that they are weak, indeed — Increase chromium-rich foods such as wholegrains, nuts most of us have no need for strong core muscles, but that and legumes to help regulate blood sugar balance. they are not activating properly. The connection between the — Include protein with every meal to helps to stimulate the muscles and the brain is faulty. feeling of fullness and help curb after dinner sweet-tooth. Despite their crucial role in protecting the spine, the core — Combat stress and increased cortisol levels that can lead to muscles will switch off for a variety of reasons. Pain is the sugar by doing things you enjoy. A walk in the countryside most common and even if the pain disappears the muscles or reading your favourite book can help. can remain switched off. Fear of pain alone can alter their — Incorporating healthy fats such as avocado, nuts and seeds function. These deep muscles will also become sluggish into your diet can help you feel full and reduce cravings. following abdominal surgery, pregnancy and throughout life — Swap refined carbohydrates - white bread, pasta and rice - if we don’t maintain adequate levels of activity. Without the for whole grain options. Refined carbohydrates act like deep core muscles working well, other muscles alter their sugar in the body, spiking blood sugar levels. roles to try and compensate for them. These are the larger — Fibre increases satiety and slows down the digestion of trunk muscles, including the tummy muscles associated with sugars resulting in less afternoon energy dips. Good a ‘six pack’. They are designed to produce movement and force sources of fibre include whole grains and legumes. so are not suitable for a stabilizing role. Exercises aimed at — Swap sugar-laden, processed desserts for fruit containing strengthening them tend to result in bracing and stiffening of natural sugars, fibre and other nutrients. Natural sugars the spine and this is probably the cause of ongoing back pain. are processed differently in the body to refined sugar and The essence of core training is less is more! may help to manage sugar cravings. — Learn to spot added sugars on ingredients labels. There are over 50 names for sugar, including maltose, molasses, cane juice, dextrose, maltodextrin and fruit juice concentrate. — If you keep high-sugar foods in the house then you’re more likely to eat them. Be mindful that there are hidden sugars in bottled sauces, salad dressings and ready meals. — Breakfast cereals are among the worst culprit for added sugar. In a recent study, a popular breakfast cereal contained over 12 tsps per serving, making it 88% sugar by weight! Try swapping high-sugar cereals for low or no sugar options such as porridge which is packed with vitamins, minerals and fibre. While reducing sugar can go a long way to improving your health it is also okay to treat yourself occasionally! http://www.omnomhealth.co.uk CONTENTS

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Please mention The Parish Magazine when responding to advertisements The Parish Magazine - May 2019 35 Home & garden Recipe of the month with the egg yolks, 1 tbsp fromage Spinach and red pepper roulade frais, flour and seasoning. From Emma's of Emma Kitchen, Twyford In a separate clean and dry bowl , Ingredients whisk the egg whites until stiff. Fold — 400g washed spinach them into spinach mixture and spread — 5 large eggs - separated onto the lined baking tray. Cook for 12- — 200g fromage frais (ideally not low fat) 15 mins until firm to the touch. — 3 tbsp self raising flour Blend the remaining fromage frais, — 150g cream cheese (can be flavoured) the cream cheese and pepper until — 2 roasted peppers* - remove skin smooth. and seeds When the spinach has cooled down, — Salt and pepper turn out onto another piece of baking paper on a flat surface. *You can swap the red peppers for any Spread the pepper mix over the cooked vegetable or smoked salmon. Cook spinach in microwave for about 2 whole thing and roll from the short Method minutes. edge. Set the oven to 1900C (170 fan0C) Gas 5 When the spinach is cool enough to Place on a large platter and serve. Line a 23 x 32 cm Swiss roll tin with handle, squeeze out as much liquid as If not serving immediately, wrap baking paper. possible. Blend it in a food processor tightly in cling film and chill. In the garden: the challenge of climate change By Bob Peters While scientists and politicians debate what is needed to be done about climate change, or indeed, if there is such a thing, you only have to look in your own backyard to see what is happening. It is becoming less predictable and, as some of the experts have warned us, we need to start responding to these changes sooner rather than later. There have been suggestions that in the near future we will need to grow plants that thrive in hot and dry weather. Last summer there was a spate of articles by garden experts about growing Mediterranean plants in pots on the patio. Eight years ago, I began creating a new garden in Charvil in which I would only grow plants mentioned directly, or indirectly, in the Bible. Many of these thrive in desert course, our climate has changed considerably since then! environments. Last year, for the first time, while my There are very few Bible gardens in the UK — I have never traditional English crops such as strawberries, raspberries, seen any others. There are a few in the grounds of churches rhubarb, gooseberries, potatoes etc were unusually poor, with a limited number of plants, and there is one large Bible both in quality and quantity, I was overwhelmed with figs garden in Scotland that covers many acres. But please don't and grapes, while the other Bible garden plants flourished. be put off by this. If you enjoy a challenge, are prepared to I am often asked about my Bible garden and some people be patient, and accept that some plants will fail, it is not have said they would like to create something similar, the impossible to grow a good number of them. problem is that the only books on the subject were written There are more than 100 plants and trees mentioned in about 50 years ago and are no longer in print — and, of the Bible and to date, I have grown over half of them. They include vegetables, fruit, flowers, herbs, shrubs and trees. In future issues of The Parish Magazine, I plan to write a MUCK ‘N’ MULCH series of articles about how anyone can start growing Bible THE LOCAL COMPOST COMPANY plants, whether it be in a few tubs on the patio, or if you have the room — and a very tolerant family! — to create you own Organic all purpose horse manure compost Bible Garden. Fully composted and milled to fine crumbly texture You may, of course, already be growing some of them in Clean and pleasant to handle — weed free & pet friendly your garden without realising it, so the first thing to do is to 10 BAGS MINIMUM DELIVERY draw up a list of the plants that qualify and create your own Half Pallet: 35 bags — Full Pallet: 70 Bags wish list. I will be happy to send you the list of the plants I FREE DELIVERY — SPREADING & MULCHING SERVICE AVAILABLE have grown so far — my contact details are on page 38. Next month I will be looking at planning a Bible garden. 24 hour: 0783 143 7989 T: 0179 357 5100 As well as the plants, there are other elements to take into www.muckandmulch.co.uk account such as rocks, stones, water and statues that I have found add considerably to the authenticity. CONTENTS

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38 The Parish Magazine - May 2019 information — 2 Parish contacts Advertisers index Ministry Team Abbey School 24 — The Vicar: Revd Jamie Taylor* AB Walker 10 The Parish Office, Thames Street, Sonning, RG4 6UR ACG Services Locksmith 36 [email protected] / 0118 969 3298 Active Hearing at Spire Dunedin Hospital 29 ADD Plumbing 10 *Day off Friday All Aspects Pest Control 10 — Associate Vicar: Revd Kate Toogood Alpha Windows 30 [email protected] / 0746 380 6735 Barn Store Henley 14 On duty Tuesday, Friday and Sunday Blandy & Blandy Solicitors 12 — Youth Minister: Chris West (Westy) Blinds Direct 22 [email protected] / 0794 622 4106 Blue Moose 8 — Licensed Lay Minister: Bob Peters Bridge House 39 Bridges Home Care 12 [email protected] / 0118 377 5887 Bright Horizons Nursery 28 Bull Inn 8 Children's Ministry Chimney Sweep, Thames 36 — Alison Smyly [email protected] / 0118 327 9667 Chiropody, Linda Frewin 36 Pastoral Visiting Chris the Plumber 30 — Helen Leviss [email protected] / 0779 074 1521 Clark Bicknell 36 Prayer Chain Computer Frustrations 36 — Pam Scoble [email protected] / 0118 926 5138 David Shailes Plumbing & Decorating 26 Design for Print 24 Churchwardens Distinct Events 34 — Perry Mills [email protected] / 0786 035 5457 Dunne & Co Builders 6 — Stuart Bowman [email protected] / 0118 978 8414 Electric Nick 36 Deputy Churchwardens Fields Pharmacy 28 — Molly Woodley [email protected] / 0118 946 3667 French Horn 40 — Mark Jordan [email protected] / 0118 940 1431 Gardiners Nursing 6 GD Evans Interiors 24 — Sue Peters [email protected] / 0118 377 5887 Graham Blake Soft Furnishing 6 Parish Administrator Grant & Stone Builders Merchants 22 — Hilary Rennie Great House Sonning 34 [email protected] / 0118 969 3298 Handyman, Decorating 36 Parochial Church Council Haslams Estate Agents 2 — Secretary: Hilary Rennie 0118 969 3298 Heron on the Ford Inn 18 — Treasurer: Richard Moore 0118 969 2588 Hicks Group 14 J & D Mooney Painter & Decorator 14 Director of Music, organist and choirmaster James Autos 36 — Chris Goodwin MA (Cantab), ARCO (CHM), ARCM, LRAM Jonathan Reeves Carpentry & Furniture 18 [email protected] Jones & Sheppard Stone Masons 30 Sacristan Just Brickwork 26 — Helen Goodwin 0134 462 7697 Kingfisher Bathrooms 16 Man with a Van 36 MC Cleaning 36 Parish Website: http://www.sonningparish.org.uk Miles & Daughters Funerals 28 Mill at Sonning 4 The Parish Magazine: http://www.theparishmagazine.co.uk M & L Healthcare Solutions 28 — Editor: Bob Peters Mortgage Required 16 [email protected] / 0118 377 5887 MPD Motor Services 36 — Advertising and Distribution: Gordon Nutbrown Muck & Mulch 35 Odd Jobs 36 [email protected] / 0118 969 3282 Physiocare 6 — Treasurer: Pat Livesey Portman Gardens 36 [email protected] / 0118 961 8017 Q1 Care 26 Reading Blue Coat School 16 Red Kite Electrical 14 Richfield Flooring 12 Sabella Interiors 18 Shiplake College 8 Signature Cliveden Manor Care Home 24 Sonning Golf Club 10 Sonning Scouts Marquees 34 Style by Julie 36 Sunrise of Sonning Senior Living 22 Tomalin Funerals 26 Urban Roofing 36 — The Parish Magazine is produced by St Andrew’s PCC and delivered Water Softener Salt 36 free of charge to every home in Charvil, Sonning and Sonning Eye. Window Cleaner 30 — The Parish Magazine is printed in the United Kingdom by Herald Woodley Décor 30 Graphics Ltd, Reading RG2 oBZ — The Parish Magazine is distributed by Abracadabra Leaflet Woodley Gardens 36 Distribution Ltd, Reading RG7 1AW Woodley Professional Footcare 36 — The Parish Magazine template was designed in 2012 by Roger Swindale [email protected] and David Woodward Please mention 'The Parish Magazine' when [email protected] responding to advertisements in this magazine CONTENTS

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