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The Parish Magazine December 2013December Advent and Christmas Advent issue the church of st andrew, SERVING THE COMMUNITIES OF CHARVIL, SONNING and sonning eye Church of St Andrew Serving Sonning, Charvil & Sonning Eye 2 The Parish Magazine Contents, services & registers 3 Contents for December 2013 Services at St Andrew’s the vicar’s letter, 5 local organisations, 31 Advent Sunday Sunday 1 December Parish noticeBoard the health & beauty page — 8.00am Holy Communion — Confirmation candidates, 7 — Dr Simon Ruffle writes, 33 — 10.30am Parish Confirmation — Toy service, 7 — Four seasonal tips, 33 with the Bishop of Reading — New outdoors crib, 7 — Crossword answers, 33 (with Sunday Club) — 6.30pm Patronal Festival Holy — 29 December services, 7 Communion (followed by — Christmas tree, 7 the sports pages, 34-35 reception in the Bull Inn) — Brass polishers wanted, 7 — RAMS clubhouse project, 34 — For your prayers, 7 — Wales youth caps, 34 Sunday 8 December — From the organ bench, 8 — England call-up, 35 — 8.00am Holy Communion — New building update, 8 — Olympic legacy tennis, 35 — 10.30am Family Toy Service — Open doors, 8 — 6.30pm Evening Prayer — Why go to church? 8 children’s fun page, 37 — 12 days of Christmas, 11 Sunday 15 December — From the editor’s desk, 11 — 8.00am Holy Communion Parish contacts — 10.30am Family Communion — St Andrew’s contacts, 38 — 6.30pm Choral Evensong features — Parish Magazine contacts, 38 — Storm blows over trees, 12 — Jubilee Hall information, 38 Sunday 22 December — Gold for bellringers, 13 — 8.00am Holy Communion — Advent: the second coming, 15 — 10.30am Parish Eucharist — What’s the history? 17 EDITORIAL DEADLINE — 6.30pm Festival of Nine — Advertising opportunities, 17 Editorial deadline, January issue: Lessons and Carols (followed — 100 years of crosswords, 19 12 noon, Tuesday 10 December by drinks and canapes) — Volunteer drivers needed, 19 — Reading Family Aid, 20-21 Christmas Eve FRONT COVER picture — 4.00am Crib Service Candlelit Nine Lessons and Carols around the villages — 11.30pm Midnight Mass at St Andrew’s by Keith Nichols — Rotary’ 40 year celebration, 23 — Charvil School in autumn, 23 Christmas Day — Sonning Flower Club, 25 — 8.00am Holy Communion — Pearson Hall, 25 From the registers — 10.30am Christmas Family — Sonning Village Show 2014, 25 Communion (Children invited Baptisms — Sonning Conservatives, 25 to bring a toy to show the vicar) —17 November, Jasper George — Charvil Village Society, 25 Dixon Sunday 29 December — Sonning Art Group, 25 —17 November, Benjamin Risdon — 10.30am Parish Eucharist — The parish walk, 25 Yates — St Andrew’s bell ringers, 25 Funerals Weekly and the home & garden page —21 October, Christina Monthly Services — Recipe of the month, 27 Witherington Every Wednesday — December in the garden, 27 —22 October, James Ritchie — 8.30am Morning Prayer — Debrett’s finger pie, 27 —30 October, Jack Barker — 10.00am Holy Communion in the St Sarik Room the arts page diary dates — The Madonna and Child, 29 Monthly at Sunrise of Sonning — Poetry corner, 29 1 February 2014 — Pub Skittles Evening MONDAY 2 DeceMber — Book review, 29 — 11.00am Holy Communion 4 The Parish Magazine Homes for Sale Haslams Estate Agents are specialists in the Reading area including Sonning. 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I gently explained, in a rather watered down way, the significance of the Fifth of November, with the rather nice local link that my predecessor in 1605, Robert Wright, was also chaplain to the then King, and was in attendance in Parliament, and therefore the vicar of Sonning was also spared being blown sky high on that historic day! I suppose the ‘elf and safety’ mafia have probably done for the traditional bonfire and home firework display, and perhaps this is the main reason why some children have lost sight of the historical link. Well, let us never allow such a muddle to befall the festival of Christmas so that children no longer hear of the wonderful message of the angels. Heaven only knows there are enough distractions in December which threaten to eclipse the birth of the Christ child, but year by year, churches around the world are filled to capacity with those coming to worship the new born King. From a Christian’s point of view, coming together for this celebration is a natural response, but any realist knows that at least some of those who join us for our main services in December are not regular churchgoers, and maybe some would not even regard themselves as Christians, and yet still they come. I am always delighted to welcome new faces to St Andrew’s and we are certainly blessed with lots and lots of them at Christmas. I suspect that one of the reasons for this is that coming to church is part of a traditional Christmas for many, with the (huge) tree, carols by candlelight, the crib, advent ring, bells, choirs, midnight mass and of course interesting and brief sermons from the clergy! Long may that continue, not just because it is the bread and butter of what the church does at this time of year, but also because it is part of this country’s heritage; of what makes us British, and arguably that Christian heritage is being marginalised as never before. Traditions and customs matter, not just in a faith, but also in the life of a nation, and we should cherish this major Christian festival, not just because of the precious gift of Christ, but because it is so much part of our nation’s culture. It has been really good to journey with our adult confirmation course members as they have explored the Christian faith, and it has been a pleasure to see the group grow and develop. When working with either adults or children in the field of teaching the faith, one is reminded of the centrality of Jesus in all that we believe as Christians. His birth at Bethlehem was an event which changed the world forever, and his teachings, if applied to our own lives, will transform us for the better. The gift of Christ, unlike all the other gifts of Christmas, will never be tired of, wear out, or let us down. That eternal gift is on offer to all, whoever or whatever we are. This year at St Andrew’s, as well as our charming nativity set inside the building, we will be transforming the south porch (nearest the St Sarik room) into Bethlehem’s manger. A large nativity set has been bought with a legacy in memory of baby Lewis Kettle, and so we shall transform that ideal space into an outside Christmas witness. Do come down and have a look. Weather permitting it will feature in the crib service on Christmas Eve as well. I do commend the use of nativity sets at home, especially homes with children, as a reminder of the reason for the celebration. They speak to us of the powerful message of God coming to live among us, in the most humble of circumstances, and they help concentrate the mind in the midst of the tinsel, turkey and trash on TV! Caroline, Alice and Annabelle join me in wishing you all a blessed Advent and a very happy Christmas, when it comes. Warm wishes. 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