ALUMNI Volume 3 | No 1
MagnificatSaint Mary’s College Preparatory High School Alumni Association Magazine | Spring 2009
IN THE SPOTLIGHT The Siedlick Challenge Concludes Gaels Society Members Silvana Scotto Zangri ‘88 & John Idol ‘76 SCHOOL NEWS Student Profiles Windows on Saint Mary’s contents
Saturday, September 19, 2009 sections 60th Anniversary Celebration 11:00 AM-4:00 PM Marist Hall
Alumni Soccer Reunion Game alumni association 12 Noon | 5 Denihan Field Class of 1959 50th Reunion student profiles | 10 7:00 PM-Midnight The Roslyn Claremont Hotel 1221 Old Northern Boulevard in the spotlight | 6 & 13 Roslyn, New York $105 per person
Sunday, September 20, 2009 school news | 26 Annual Alumni Memorial Mass 10:30 AM Church of Saint Mary gaels parents’ association | 18 Thursday, September 24, 2009 17th Annual Don Monti networking | 33 Golf Classic & Fall Alumni Reception Plandome Country Club in memorium Plandome, New York | 34 Saturday, October 10, 2009 Class of 1969 40th Reunion 7:00 PM-Midnight The Roslyn Claremont Hotel 1221 Old Northern Boulevard On the Cover: Tom DiBlasi ‘09, Anna de Venoge ‘09, Bishop William Roslyn, New York Murphy, Tyheisha Roach ‘09 and Dan Rivera ‘09 accepted the $105 per person generous donation from Larry Siedlick ‘68 on behalf of the students, administration and alumni of Saint Mary’s. For story, see page 6. Saturday, October 17, 2009 Class of 1984 25th Reunion On the Web! 7:00 PM-Midnight Please visit the high school website www.stmary.ws/highschool The Roslyn Claremont Hotel 1221 Old Northern Boulevard for the Fall Athletic schedule. Alumni are invited to attend night Roslyn, New York games and BBQs to reconnect and see the current teams in action! $105 per person
Alumni Updates Wanted... Saturday, October 24, 2009 We are currently restructuring our Gael Winds section. We would love Class of 1989 20th Reunion to hear from you and publish your news and photos in the next issue 7:00 PM-Midnight of the Alumni Magnificat. Please submit your entries to Strathmore -Vanderbilt Country Club [email protected]. All digital photos must be 300ppi (hi-res) 260 Country Club Drive Manhasset, New York for quality printing. $110 per person Visit our website for the latest updates, news, and events for the For more information, please Alumni Association and Saint Mary’s College Preparatory High School contact the Office of Alumni at www.stmaryalumni.ws or call the Office of Alumni Relations Relations at 516 627 4605 or visit at 516 627 4605. www.stmaryalumni.ws calendar of events in this issue MagnificatALUMNI EDITORIAL Editor in Chief | Kristin Lynch Graham ‘88 Editor | Jay McDonnell Creative Director | Eileen Symmons ‘86 Contributing Authors feature stories Eileen T. McMahon Mary Cornell The Siedlick 6 Challenge Concludes 9 Sports Night 2009 ADMINISTRATION Pastor | Rev. Msgr. John J. McCann ‘57 Student Profiles Principal | Dr. Kevin McBride Director of Development | Kristin Lynch Graham ‘88 Director of Alumni Relations | Jay McDonnell 10 Director of Communications | Eileen Symmons ‘86 Saint Mary’s Where You Live SAINT MARY’S ALUMNI ASSOCIATION OFFICERS President | Andrew DellaRatta ‘88 11 Vice President | Thomas Smyth ‘86 In the Spotlight Secretary | Janet Barth McHale ‘69 Treasurer | Robert Pennachio ‘86 Chaplain | Sr. Marylin Grosselfinger, IHM ‘61 13 Moderator | Sr. Mariette Quinn, IHM Athletic Excellence BOARD Robert Anastasia ‘71 Alice Phillips Belmonte ‘84 16 Judi Annibale Betts ‘59 Thomas Clifford ‘99 Gaels Parents’ Association Robert Dunphy ‘93 Steps Out in Style Melissa DeRosa Johnston ‘94 Gary Leli ‘00 18 George Shaughness ‘68 Inaugural Alumni Lacrosse MaryBeth Welsh ‘84 Game & Barbeque GAELS SOCIETY 20 Chairperson | Sr. Barbara Jablonski, IHM ‘59 Chairperson | Br. John Klein, FMS ‘65 Co-Chairs Anthony Bonomo Francis J. Coughlin, Jr. ‘73 Donald Denihan ‘79 2009 Hall of Fame Induction Margaret Grace Stephen Hannan ‘80 John Idol ‘76 23 Rev. Msgr. John J. McCann ‘57 Windows on Saint Mary’s Daniel Nolan Arthur & Caroline Monti Saladino Silvana Scotto Zangri ‘88 26 Top Honors 32 www.stmaryalumni.ws | 3 office of development
Dear Fellow Alumnus,
I want to make a unique appeal to you. Please consider making a gift of $10 or more to Saint Mary’s before August 31st.
In these challenging economic times, it is tempting to withhold making a gift of any size. In reality, these are the times that St. Mary’s needs our generosity the most. It is tempting to think that we will only make a gift when we can make a big gift. In reality, a gift of any size makes a big difference. A gift of $10 or more allows us to count you as a donor and raises our participation level. It sends a message that you are grateful for your St. Mary’s education and that you want to be part of the cycle of generosity.
To date, 33% of our gifts this year are from first time donors. This is an exciting new trend. Whether you are a past donor and just have not made a gift to date, or are thinking about making a gift for the first time, every gift of any amount increases participation and supports St. Mary’s future. Can we count on you?
Please consider making a gift of $10 or more to St. Mary’s before August 31, 2009. You can make a gift online at www.stmaryalumni.ws by phone at 516 627 4605 or send your gift to St. Mary’s Alumni Association 51 Clapham Avenue, Manhasset, New York 11030. Your gift makes at difference at St. Mary’s.
Thank you in advance for your support.
Kristin Lynch Graham ‘88 Director of Development ✁ Year End Annual Appeal Name Class Year Spouse’s Name Class Year (if alum) Address City State Zip Phone E-mail Company Name Address City State Zip Phone E-mail Enclosed is my gift to St. Mary’s in the amount of $ Please make checks payable to St. Mary’s Alumni Association Please charge my credit card: ❏ American Express ❏ MasterCard ❏ Visa Number Exp. Date Signature
Gifts can be mailed to: Saint Mary’s College Preparatory High School ATTN: DEVELOPMENT OFFICE 51 Clapham Avenue, Manhasset, New York 11030
You can make an online gift at www.stmaryalumni.ws alumni association
Dear Fellow Alumnus,
The Saint Mary’s High School Alumni Association completed another successful year of accomplishments critical to the success of our school.
After the annual Don Monti Golf Classic, small groups of alumni gathered in Manhattan for a breakfast reception and in Garden City for an evening reception. These were informal gatherings that enabled alumni to network with one another and to receive an update on our school. In February, alumni were treated to a special networking event at Bar Nine in Manhattan. Kieran Blake ‘89 and manager of Bar Nine, worked with Director of Alumni Relations, Jay McDonnell, to put this event together. It was a very successful evening and Jay is already hard at work for a similar reception to be held during the summer in Manhattan.
We have just come off of our flagship event, the Hall of Fame and Annual Spring Alumni Reception at the New York Athletic Club in Manhattan. It was a warm picturesque evening when alumni of various years gathered to mix and mingle on the Club’s ninth floor terrace with views of the Manhattan skyline and Central Park. Our 2009 Hall of Fame honorees were Sister Barbara Jablonski, IHM ‘59, Brother John Klein, FMS ‘65, Lee Hayes ‘62, and Rosemary Hoban ‘81.
Honoring Sister Barbara and Brother John was not only a testament to their success and distinguished religious careers, but also what alumni have achieved due to the guiding principals taught to us by the Sisters, Servants of the Immaculate Heart of Mary and the Marist Brothers. Lee Hayes has succeeded in business while taking the time and energy to give back to a number of charitable causes, especially his Alma Mater. And Rosemary Hoban has succeeded in the medical field by serving the less fortunate in third world countries in the midst of disease and political strife. All four of our Hall of Fame honorees are role models to us and the students of St. Mary’s. They represent What Is St. Mary’s.
In closing, I would like to welcome into our ranks the newest class of alumni, the Class of 2009. I congratulate them on their hard work and achievements in completing a rigorous and challenging academic program and wish them success in the next chapter of their lives.
I extend to you and your family best wishes for a restful and safe summer and I look forward to meeting you at our upcoming events.
With best wishes,
Andrew F.J. Della Ratta ‘88 in the spotlight
The Siedlick Challenge Concludes
Last year, 3% of St. Mary’s alumni made Mary’s this year. If you believe St. Mary’s helped you in your contributions to the Annual Fund which life, you can now help secure St. Mary’s future is well below the national average of 18% Mr. Siedlick is the CEO of Sunrise Medical by being part of this unique opportunity. for other Catholic schools. In preparing Laboratories, which is recognized as one of Make a gift of any size to Saint Mary’s today! for his 40th class reunion, Larry Siedlick ‘68 the most successful regional laboratories Contact the Development Office at 516 challenged his classmates and ultimately in the United States. His responsibilities 627 4605 or visit www.stmaryalumni.ws to all St. Mary’s alumni to do better. He include strategic planning, mergers make an online gift. generously agreed to match any gift to and acquisitions, regulatory issues, and Saint Mary’s dollar for dollar up to $100,000 compliance. He is a resident of Rockville as part of the “Siedlick Challenge”. Larry Centre. said, “The size of your gift is less important than your participation. Give what you can, but please give something. Every gift is important to St. Mary’s future.”
St. Mary’s alumni responded to the challenge. As of the time of printing, St. Mary’s alumni had already met Mr. Siedlick’s $100,000 goal with the class of 1968 raising over $20,000 toward the goal. With 3 months remaining in the fiscal year, we look forward to setting new fundraising records. Please see the Appeal on page 4. Michael Gerasimou ‘10, Dennis Latos ‘10, Mr. Siedlick presented the $100,000 check Brandon Gonzalez ‘10 and Larry Siedlick ‘68. to St. Mary’s students at an assembly with Bishop Murphy on April 27th. His gift will be used to ensure St. Mary’s education for future generations of students. In his remarks to the students he stressed how doing good also has personal benefits. Siedlick encouraged students to “do good with what you know.” He said that today’s 24/7 news coverage which usually presents us with the worst in human behavior, it’s sometimes hard to see how much good is really being done. Being a good person is really much simpler than we are led to believe. The size of your good deeds doesn’t matter because big or small, they all count Tom DiBlasi ‘09, Anna de Venoge ‘09, Bishop Murphy, Tyheisha Roach ‘09 and towards a happier life. He challenged each Dan Rivera ‘09 accepted the generous donation from Larry Siedlick ‘68 on student to make a gift, of any amount, to St. behalf of the students, administration and alumni of St. Mary’s.
www.stmaryalumni.ws | 6 Photos by Eileen Symmons Photos by Eileen Symmons sports night
Sports Night 2009
By Mary Cornell Jasmine Kerby. Fire breathers, jugglers moves. Next, Aerobics roared in the gym; and acrobats entered the tent during White lions were followed by the clapping Although March began with a spring the entrance. Having chosen “Blue-r-Us” Blue monkeys. The Rhythmics captains snowstorm that blanketed Long Island with as their theme, the Blue Team was led chose White clowns and Blue Raggedy fourteen inches of snow, the weather was into the toy store by Gabriella Brusca and Ann and Andy dolls for their routines which unable to dampen the spirits of the Blue Jessica Cambeiro. Teddy bears, Barbie dolls included formations and the use of props. and White Teams. Comprised of all junior and Etch-a-Sketch toys enlivened their Highly energetic dance performances and senior girls, the teams prepared for the entrance. concluded the major events. In between 51st Annual Sports Night competition held the major events, the girls played crabsoccer in the Brother Kenneth Robert Gymnasium Following the colorful entrances was and cageball. They also participated in the in Marist Hall on March 6 and 7. Karaoke during which each team chooses very popular buddies relay race. one song to sing while performing dance The Sports Night process began in On Saturday evening, the results were October with a breakfast introducing read and congratulations bestowed the girls to their teammates. The upon “White at the Circus” for their process continued with senior voting, narrow victory over their opponents. the captain workshop, tryouts, music As the moderator, I consider the event selection, and the creation of routines. to be helpful to these young women Numerous practices were chaperoned in setting and achieving goals while by supportive parents and guardians. working with many different types of Throughout, the girls were required people. In addition, the leadership maintain their grades and work and cooperation skills will serve the schedules. By their participation, girls well as they go through life and the girls learned time management enter the workplace. skills, teamwork, cooperation, and leadership skills. Mary Cornell is the Assistant Athletic Director, Phys Ed Instructor and Sports The overall ringmasters for “White Night Moderator at St. Mary's. at the Circus” were Jenica Llanos and
www.stmaryalumni.ws | 9 student profiles
Scholar Service Students Tom DiBlasi ‘09, Anna de Venoge ‘09 and Juliette de Venoge ‘11 by Eileen T. McMahon Honor Society. He also volunteers in his local parish and elementary school and President of the Student Council, Tom continues as an altar server. One of our DiBlasi was moved by the plight of families students living out the Gospel values, during these ecomonic hard times. For the Tom’s tireless efforts on behalf of the third year, his Scholar Service Institute (SSI) hungry on Long Island have been sorely project has been to collect donations of needed and greatly appreciated. canned food at King Kullen in Manhasset. His mother, Linda, and siblings, Christopher, Service is a family tradition for Anna Daniel, Nicholas and Jillian, have all been and Juliette de Venoge, daughters of supportive and inspired by his efforts. Tom Marc and Mary Lou. Inspired by their has seen people begging on the streets and parents and their older sister, Sarah Juliette de Venoge '11 (center) (’06), a member of the first group of Plandome Road, Memorial Place, Manhasset Scholars, Anna and Juliette keep the and Hillside Avenues, the gazebo parking tradition alive. This year, they joined lot and the Manhasset Train Station. forces for their Scholar Service Institute project, choosing to clean up a park Anna plays lacrosse and volleyball and in Manhasset. First, they secured the also works in Publications. She is a approval and help of Manhasset Park National Honor Society officer and recently District Commissioner, Bernie Rolston. participated in two majors for the Blue Then they organized a group to do Team in Sports Night. Her previous SSI the work, making sure they had the projects have included collecting medical necessary equipment and keeping supplies for Rotacare, and advocating for mindful of the need to take safety Tom DiBlasi ‘09 increased attendance at the Manhasset precautions, such as the use of gloves. Veteran’s Day parade. She hopes to attend anticipated what the economic crisis would SUNY Binghamton after graduation. mean for families who were affected. The results of their work included solving a drainage problem that had affected The park cleanup was Juliette’s first project neighbors of the Maple Place Garage. In This year, he was able to collect 7 carts although she has participated in some of addition to the park, they cleaned parts of of food which he divided between the her older sister's projects over the years. Campus Ministry Food Drive benefitting She plays lacrosse, soccer and basketball. St. Mary’s and the food pantry at his Both girls attend the Bible Club and are home parish of Sacred Heart in Bayside. lectors at St. Mary’s Church. Juliette was Tom retained his composure and good recently awarded first prize in poetry at nature despite glitches and obstacles that the Diocesan Respect Life Youth Awards occurred during his collection. ceremony at Kellenberg Memorial High School. In addition to SSI and the Student Council, Tom finds time to participate in Campus Eileen T. McMahon is the Director of the Ministry, the Drama Club, Varsity Track, Scholar Service Institute and teaches English Varsity Cross Country and the National and Religion at St. Mary’s. Anna de Venoge '09 www.stmaryalumni.ws | 10 alumni events
Saint Mary ’s Where You Live
In an effort to expand our alumni outreach, and welcoming site for the 25 alumni who friends, and children’s parents. Many in the Office of Alumni Relations is beginning gathered. It was great to welcome people attendance that night certainly were. to host receptions in neighborhoods where who spontaneously joined on their way there are significant numbers of alumni home from the train as well as those who St. Mary’s lives where you are – please help living. The first regional event was held had made special arrangements to attend. us to share the St. Mary’s pride. in Garden City, New York at the home of Kristine Krizan Henry ‘91 and Debora Kathleen and John Spellman. There are Davidson Farley ‘79 worked hard to spread over 200 alumni living in the Garden City the word to their neighbors and friends zip code (11530), making it the largest living in the area. concentration of alumni outside of the Clockwise: Kristin Lynch Graham ‘88, Larry Siedlick ‘68 and Marc de Venoge. Manhasset/Port Washington area. These regional events are intended to bring St. Mary’s to the communities where you Jeff Henry, Kristine Krizan Henry ‘91 and Richard Bellofatto ‘90. Sr. Mariette Mrs. Spellman is a Saint Mary’s faculty live and work, and raise your families. You Quinn and Phyllisann Kalenka ‘83. member who generously agreed to open might be surprised to know that you share Eileen Hoban, Tom Hoban ‘76, Kathleen her home for the event. It was a warm a St. Mary’s connection with neighbors, Spellman and Jonathan Kramer ‘92. Photos by Symmons Eileen
12 R.s.v.p. | Registration Save the Date! 17th Annual Don Monti Memorial Golf Classic & Fall Dinner Reception
Thursday, September 24, 2009 • Plandome Country Club
17th Annual Name: Class: Don Monti Address: Golf Classic City: State: Zip: Phone: & Fall Dinner E-mail: ❏ I will Sponsor/Underwrite $ Reception ❏ Golf Foursome (list names below) $ 1,400 ❏ Golfer (Single) $ 400 ❏ Golfer (Young Alumni ‘98-‘09) $ 280 ❏ Cocktail Hour/Dinner (guests welcome) $ 100 Thursday, ❏ Cocktail Hour/Dinner (Young Alumni ‘98-‘09) $ 80 September 24, 2009 ❏ Tee Signs $ 250 ❏ Sorry, I can not attend, 10:00 AM but I have enclosed a contribution $ Registration & Brunch Please make checks payable to St. Mary’s Alumni Association 12:00 Noon or provide your credit card information below: Shotgun Start ❏ ❏ ❏ ❏ 6:00 PM Credit Card info: Amex M/C Visa Discover Card #: Cocktails & Dinner Expires: Name on card:
Send to: Plandome St. Mary’s Alumni Association 51 Clapham Ave., Manhasset, NY 11030 Country Club For further information, please contact Jay McDonnell, Director of Alumni Relations at 516 627 4605 or E-mail at [email protected] Golf Information ❏ Please assign me to a foursome Don’t miss it! ❏ Our foursome is listed below Call for sponsorship 1. opportunities & 2. 3. ticket information 4.
516 627 4605 or visit Invitations & Sponsorship Opportunity Information www.stmaryalumni.ws to follow via US Mail over the summer. in the spotlight Gaels Society Members Silvana Scotto Zangri ‘88 and John Idol ‘76 are Helping to Make Tomorrow Possible, Today. It is not surprising that Silvana Scotto Christmas spirit to underprivileged children Isabella (2). She is passionate about raising Zangri was a St. Mary’s Girls’ High School every year by underwriting a celebration independent women who know how candy drive legend. Silvana has an in their honor at the Watermill every to adapt to different life situations. As innate entrepreneurial spirit. She says Christmas Eve. They are also involved with evidence, you need look no farther than she is always developing new business the fight to cure cancer through the Don Silvana’s 2 year old, who independently ideas in her head. Her parents nurtured Monti Memorial Research Foundation and locates her sippy cup and juice and entrepreneurship in her at an early age. the American Cancer Society. And, as the confidently presents them for filling. It is An entrepreneur himself, her father was mother of girls, she has proudly served as clear there is another generation of candy particularly influential in raising strong a Girl Scout leader since 2003. Silvana also drive legends in training. minded daughters. Today, Silvana nurtures serves as a co-chairperson of the St. Mary’s that spirit in her five daughters. High School Gaels Society. John D. Idol is the Chief Executive Officer of Michael Kors (USA), Inc. Michael Kors is In 2000, she turned a scrapbooking hobby Her family’s involvement in the restaurant recognized as one of America’s into a major business when she and her business prepared her well for a family pre-eminent designers for luxury sister, Monica Scotto-Bruton, started a of seven. She says she runs her kitchen sportswear. The company, established paper company on a whim that they like a restaurant, and still keeps a hand in 1981, currently produces a range of appropriately named Serendipity. At in the business as well. She has owned products including women’s and men’s their first trade-show, they sold $180,000 the Watermill Caterers in Smithtown in paper orders for a business they did since 1996. Together with her family, not even own at the time. Serendipity they own and operate Blackstone ultimately moved to a 10,000 square Steakhouse in Melville, Boulder Creek foot warehouse and became the largest Steakhouses, Sagamore Steakhouse distributor of acid-free and lignin-free in Woodbury as well as the Chateau paper on the east coast, and was used Briand Caterers in Carle Place, Fox exclusively by Martha Stewart for craft Hollow Caterers and the all-suite hotel, projects featured in her magazine and the Inn at Fox Hollow in Woodbury. television show. Together, they published a “how to” book on quilling and invented Silvana says that St. Mary’s High School tools to make the craft easier for children. was the best experience of her life and Silvana ultimately sold Serendipity to be cites it as a real turning point for her. home full time with her family. “The education made a real difference for me. It allowed me to be less self She jokes that her life is a full time candy conscious and just have the most fun drive today. She dedicates most of her with my friends,” she says. Silvana still time to raising awareness and funds for enjoys lifetime St. Mary’s friends. She causes that are important to her and her and Evelyn Giacobbe Ferguson ‘88 are John D. Idol ‘76 family. She and her husband, Joseph, host in daily touch and fondly remember an annual event called Sweet Dreams their St. Mary’s days. An all girls’ education ready to wear, women’s accessories and to benefit the Cody Center for Autism also proved to be a good foundation for shoes, a line of fragrance and home and Developmental Disabilities at Stony parenting five daughters: Gianna (19), collection products. Michael Kors Brook University. They help to bring the Valentina (12), Marina (10), Sofia (5) and
www.stmaryalumni.ws | 13 in the spotlight
products are sold throughout a network spearheaded a vigorous turnaround, company. After graduating from St. Mary’s, of company-owned stores, on the Michael creating a global operation with a he received a B.A. in history and political Kors.com website, and in shop-in-shop balanced mix of, wholesale and company science in 1980 from Mount Saint Mary’s environments at leading retailers globally. owned retail sales. After successfully College. His prior position was Chairman and Chief repositioning the company, Donna Karan Executive Officer of Kasper A.S.L. Ltd., the International was sold to LVMH Moet Mr. Idol is a member of the St. Mary’s Hall holding company for the Albert Nipon, Hennessy Louis Vuitton, the European of Fame and serves as a co-chairperson Anne Klein and Kasper brands of apparel luxury goods conglomerate. of the St. Mary’s Gaels Society. He also and accessories. In this role, Mr. Idol serves on the Villanova University School successfully led a corporate restructuring Prior to joining Donna Karan, Mr. Idol of Business Dean’s Advisory Council and and brand repositioning to increase the spent thirteen years at Polo Ralph Lauren is Co-Founder of Helping Out - Kids with shareholder value and bring the company Corporation. There he served as Group a Purpose, a non-profit organization back to profitability within two years. The President and divisional Chief Operating encouraging young adults to become company was successfully sold to Jones Officer, responsible for the Ralph Lauren involved in charity for underprivileged Apparel Group. Clothing Company, Ralph Lauren Home children. Mr. Idol acts as an Advisor Furnishings and Product Licensing. to Tuesday’s Children, a non-profit Mr. Idol was formerly Chief Executive foundation, supporting 9/11 victims’ family Officer of Donna Karan International, Mr. Idol began his career at J.P. Stevens and needs. Inc. During his four year tenure, he Co., a home fashion consumer products Anniversary The Gaels Society
Inaugurated in 2007 as the most prestigious donor recognition society of St. Mary’s High School, the Gaels Society recognizes our most generous benefactors with cumulative lifetime giving of $25,000 or more to St. Mary’s High School. Members receive private school mailings, invitations to exclusive events, and special public recognition. Celebration
The leadership of the society encourages other benefactors to join the cycle of generosity at St. Mary’s High School.
Chairpersons Donors Benjamin & Irene Denihan The Sauvigne Family Sr. Barbara Jablonski, IHM ‘59 Daniel Amoruso Laurence Denihan ‘82 Arthur & Caroline Monti Saladino Br. John Klein, FMS ‘65 Anthony & MaryEllen Bonomo James A. D’Orta, MD ‘69 Lawrence Siedlick ‘68 Brooke Barrett ‘67 Maureen Ferrari ‘73 Eugene Sullivan Co-Chairpersons Thomas Burke ‘81 John Foerst Mary Jane Surgala Daniel J. Cahill ‘80 Raymond Gentile ‘76 Timothy J. Welsh ‘79 Anthony Bonomo Richard F. Chapdelaine J. Peter & Margaret Grace Francis J. Coughlin, Jr. ‘73 Roger Coleman ‘78 Stephen Hannan ‘80 The above represents a working Donald Denihan ‘79 Francis J. Coughlin, Sr. John Idol ‘76 list of donors to St. Mary’s College Preparatory High School. We Margaret Grace Francis J. Coughlin, Jr. ‘73 John Iskyan apologize in advance for any Stephen Hannan ‘80 Robert E. Coughlin ‘80 Rev. Jeffrey Johnston ‘69 inconsistencies or omissions. If you John Idol ‘76 Timothy Coughlin ‘76 The Family of John Marshall have feedback or comments, please Rev. Msgr. John J. McCann ‘57 Hank and Ann Z. DeCarlo Joseph & Tita Monti contact Kristin Lynch Graham ‘88, The Family of Enriquetta DeGalle Richard Monti Director of Development at 516 627 Daniel Nolan Daniel Denihan ‘61 Donal Murphy ‘54 4605 or via E-mail at kgraham@ Arthur & Caroline Monti Saladino stmary.ws. Donald Denihan ‘79 Eugene F. Murphy Silvana Scotto Zangri ‘88 John DiStefano ‘97 Daniel Nolan The 2009-2010 school year marks the 60th Anniversary of the founding of St. Mary’s College Preparatory High School.
When the Class of 1953 entered as freshmen in 1949, the legacy of St. Mary’s High School education began. Sixty years later, St. Mary’s continues to provide excellent and accessible Catholic education to young men and women.
Plan to join us for a year of anniversary celebrations.
Homecoming Celebration Saturday, September 19, 2009 11:00 AM - 4:00 PM | Marist Gym Join us for a carnival of fun with air castles, games and booths complete with prizes, clowns, magicians, face painters and balloon artists. Past and present faculty and administrators will be in attendance. Prizes will be awarded to the family with the most family members in attendance, classes with the 60th highest attendance, and the oldest and youngest alumni in attendance. A special tribute will be paid to the Class of 1959 who are celebrating their 50th Anniversary reunion. A band specializing in music from the 1950s and 60s will provide entertainment for all. Memorabilia from past generations will be displayed and food and beverages will be served. Student teams and organizations will host tables. Saturday, Celebration September 19, 2009 Alumni Soccer Reunion Game 12 Noon | Denihan Field All alumni soccer players are invited to participate in a friendly but competitive game on Denihan Field. School Tours 11:00 AM - 4:00 PM Joyful, Loving Service Both Marist and Immaculata Halls (the former boys’ and girls’ high school buildings) will be open for To Jesus, through Mary student guided tours. If you have a piece of St. Mary’s history to share, please contact the Office of Alumni Relations at 516 627 4605. All stories, photos Saint Mary's and memorabilia are welcome. College Preparatory High School ✟ Founded 1949 athletic excellence Danny Green ‘05 NCAA Champion
In Danny Green’s senior year as a starting similar visit. Coincidentally, guard-forward for the University of North they had already scheduled a Carolina (UNC), two St. Mary’s families trip to UNC for a college tour ventured to Chapel Hill to watch him and a visit to see Tom’s sister play his final season as a Tar Heel. Their Rosemary ‘81, who is radio experiences will make you proud of Danny personality for the National Green, the NCAA National Title winner as Public Radio affiliate at UNC TJ Hoban ‘11 and Danny Green ’05 well as Danny Green the person. and an inductee into this year’s following a UNC game. St. Mary’s Hall of Fame. She and all his friends from St. Mary’s. He then Marc and Vincent de Venoge have been offered them her season tickets tried to convince TJ to attend UNC (which fans of Danny Green, ‘05 since he played for a UNC vs Virginia game. for Coach Cluess. They were not surprised was not too hard), gave us his autograph, to see Danny announce his acceptance The Hobans were on a mission to see if and posed for pictures. Most importantly, to play for the University of North he gave us his E-mail address to stay in Carolina, one of the best college touch with him during March Madness teams in the country. and in the future.”
Marc recounts, “My son, Vincent, Both families left thinking, what a is one of Danny’s biggest fans. wonderful young man and terrific role He was wearing an original #14 model for our current students. What St. Mary’s basketball jersey when they did not know at the time was that Danny stopped to greet young Danny and his teammates would go on fans on his way to play against to win the NCAA National Championship. Rutgers on December 28, 2008 Danny Green’s future as a promising at the Dean E. Smith Center on basketball player is all ahead of him, but the campus of University of North his past as a St. Mary’s alumnus who Carolina. Danny was one of only Vincent de Venoge with Tarheels fans. people are very proud is already a signed deal. three players who took the time, made the Danny would be interested in being a effort, and stood with young fans before future Hall of Fame inductee. Athletic the game. I had just driven over 1,300 Director Jack McArdle gave miles to see Danny play. So watching them all sorts of St. Mary’s him stop and autograph my son’s cap and apparel, including Danny’s basketball jersey was a great thrill for us old Gaels jersey for TJ to wear both and proof of Danny’s compassion. before the game. When Danny When a big time college basketball star saw TJ wearing his old jersey it takes the time to sign autographs and say made him laugh out loud. hello to young fans before a big game, you have to smile and think, now there goes a really great person, someone that really Tom remembers, “He met us cares!” after the game and asked how we got the jersey. He The de Venoge’s experience inspired Tom asked to be remembered to Danny Green ’05 signing autographs Hoban ‘76 and his son, TJ ‘11, to make a Mr. McArdle, Brother Kenneth, before a UNC game. www.stmaryalumni.ws | 16 athletic excellence Matt Gilroy ‘03 Signs with New York Rangers
After helping the St. Mary’s hockey team in 145 consecutive games, had eight same year. Matt’s mother, Peggy, said her win four state titles, Matt Gilroy had great goals and 28 assists, was the top scoring son gave three reasons for wanting to plans for his future. He was accepted to defenseman in Hockey East and ranked return to BU for his senior year: he wanted Boston University (BU), but deferred to third among all defenseman in the nation. to graduate, he wanted to play with his work on his hockey skills. After two years, As the crowning jewel in his college younger brother, Kevin, and he felt he had Matt attended Boston University and career, Matt had the final assist with 17 unfinished business at BU. His reasons played as a walk on for the BU Terriers. seconds remaining in an amazing come were certainly justified in an outstanding from behind victory (4-3) to take the NCAA season. Upon completing his junior year, it was Hockey Championship from Miami of Ohio rumored that Matt would be headed to University on April 11, 2009. With an amazing season behind him, Matt the National Hockey League (NHL). There just signed a two-year contract with the were many teams interested in signing Matt was awarded the College Hockey New York Rangers. St. Mary’s alumni are Matt, but he stayed on for his senior year, News Player of the Year Award and the looking forward to watching our fellow and what a year it turned out to be. Matt Hobey Baker Memorial Award, becoming Gael at Madison Square Garden next captained the BU Terriers to a 36-6-4 record just the fifth player in NCAA history to win season. while attaining a number one overall the Hobey Baker Memorial Award and seed in the NCAA tournament. He played the NCAA Hockey Championship in the
Saint Mary’s College Preparatory High School extends congratulations to Matt Gilroy ‘03 Recently signed to the New York Rangers and Danny Green ‘05 NBA Draft Prospect on their outstanding athletic achievements. May your days at St. Mary’s remain close to your hearts, as you will remain close to ours.
You are in our prayers always, the Parish, Administration, Faculty, Students, Alumni
As reprinted from Newsday (5/2/09) from Newsday As reprinted and the Gaels Parents’ Association Gaels Parents' Association Gaels Parents’ Association Makes a Stylish Statement On March 19th, over 230 members of day, as well as supplying pom-pomless important part of the cycle of generosity the St. Mary’s community gathered at cheerleaders with 52 new pieces of that is fast becoming a valued St. Mary’s Leonard's of Great Neck for the 13th Ladies’ equipment. They repeatedly respond to tradition. Their support makes a statement Night Out, the Gaels Parents’ Association critical unanticipated needs throughout about their confidence in the excellent annual fundraiser. This year, current senior the year. education their children receive at St. girls modeled fashions from Shoe Style, Mary’s and insures the continuance of that including hair styles and make up by Sorell Under the leadership of President Mrs. education for future generations. Salon. Both stores are located in Roslyn. Alice Evans (mother of Joe ’03, Paul The boys wore tuxedos by Victor Talbots ’05, Brittany ’09 and Olivia ’11) and Mrs. As in past years, the Gaels’ Association of Greenvale. There were fabulous raffle Jennifer Accardi (mother of Joe ’06 and also reached out to alumnae to join the prizes, opportunities to shop for St. Mary’s Jenna ’11), the Association has grown to current parents for a mini reunion, of Gaels merchandise, and music provided by include the support of both current and sorts. Jennifer Ewing Pierce ’91 had seen alumnus, Kenny McCrorie ‘05. The Angelo alumni parents. St. Mary’s parents are an the event advertised in alumni material Gerasimou Family (Michael and met up with classmate ’10 and Stacey ’12) donated Melissa (Missy) Larson the grand prize of a trip Llewellyn at the event. to Aruba which was won by freshman parent Sandy “We had a great time, the Miller. evening was elegant and fun. If you want to see old The event netted $35,000, all teachers and friends, why of which directly supports not do it here where the student needs. This event atmosphere is exquisite and is one of the many ways the food delicious? It just in which the Gaels Parents’ makes it better that St. Mary's Association enriches is benefiting from your the St. Mary’s student evening. Unless there is a experience. Their hard work problem with the date, we're has generously funded both planning on being new sections of the Denihan there again next year.” Field bleachers, added to the ever increasing technology Look for next year’s save the needs, supported the needs date in the Winter issue of the of countless student clubs, Alumni Magnificat and on the including sponsorship of a alumni website and consider two day journalism seminar at joining the fun, all the while Columbia University, the two day giving back. Model UN trip to Yale, the Math and Science Olympiads, the If you would like to know more underwriting of the presentation about how you can support of Grassroots Films – “The Human the work of the Gaels Parents’ Experience”– for freshman spirit Association, E-mail [email protected] www.stmaryalumni.ws | 18 Mrs. Mary Ellen Forde, Eileen Forde Rivera ‘85, PAR ‘09 and Dan Rivera ‘09
Jennifer Ewing Pierce ‘91 and Missy Larson Llewellyn ‘91
Mrs. Edythe Phelan, Mrs. KathleenPowers and Nancy Alexander PAR ‘01 & ‘04
Dianne Szwed ‘86, Eileen Symmons ‘86 and Cynthia Lynch ‘86
Gina Ciffichiello PAR ‘03, Liza Dillon, Lori DiCerbo and Deborah Nick Meyer ‘75 PAR ‘99, ‘01, ‘03 and ‘06 Photos by Symmons Eileen
Christopher Poris ‘09, Alexandra Martinez ‘09 and Mike Guzowski ‘09 Alumni Events Inaugural Alumni Lacrosse Game & Barbeque On a hot and sunny April afternoon that Mary’s Athletic Director, Jack McArdle. Several of the former girls lacrosse players felt more like August, with temperatures commented that they would like to see a in the 80s, the Saint Mary’s Alumni After the game, families enjoyed a similar event. We look forward to including Association held the inaugural alumni barbeque and shared stories of St. Mary’s. both the girls and boys teams in future lacrosse reunion and barbeque. Over John Nicholas ’88, a representative events. 60 alumni lacrosse players, from all for Anheuser-Busch, donated all the over the country and all different class Anheuser-Busch products. Some current years returned to catch up with former faculty members also returned to catch up Photos-opposite page teammates, coaches and friends and to with former students and their families. Mr. Clockwise: Mike Magas '03, Bruce lace up their cleats for a game of lacrosse. Vincent Gschlecht, Director of Guidance Phelan '03 and John Filardo '01. Rich Teams were divided based on graduation commented, “It was clear to me that their O'Hara '75 and Bob Gross '75 years, and players took turns subbing in (the alumni) memories were not of the Maureen Brady '93 and Brendan Brady and out of the game. The present Varsity bricks and mortar of buildings but of the '98. Bill Wrensen, Patty McHale, Dan coaches, Matt Panetta and Pat Welsh, personal experiences they had at Browne and Mary Mackey Gross. Joe organized the on-field game along with St. our school”. Carro ‘01 and Jack McArdle. Photos by Eileen Symmons by Photos
coming home Do What You Love-The Rest Will Follow Rosemary Hoban ‘81 Shares Career Stories with Seniors
Rosemary Hoban had one condition give people a sense of ownership in their pleasing yourself”. The students were before accepting the induction into the lives and communities. She reiterated engaged and interested, including T.J. Hall of Fame. She wanted to be able to the theme of her acceptance remarks the Hoban ’11, Rosemary’s nephew, who was meet and talk to students. She felt that prior evening, saying, “You can really have allowed to join the group for obvious sharing her work with students might give an interesting life by serving others and reasons. them the opportunity to consider different career paths. She did just that.
On the Friday morning following the Hall of Fame Induction, Rosemary spoke to a group of seniors as part of their final Scholar Service Institute (SSI) meeting. In an interactive presentation featuring slides and interesting questions from the students, she shared her experiences while working with Doctors Without Borders in refugee camps in Indonesia and opened their eyes to a world of opportunities.
She told students that the most important thing you can do in community work is to Photos by Kristin Lynch Graham Kristin Lynch by Photos www.stmaryalumni.ws | 17 Hall of Fame 2009 Hall of Fame Induction On April 23rd, the St. Mary’s Alumni to remember where they were from and continued to stress the importance of hard Association held the Fourth Annual Hall said, “St. Mary’s is also clearly where I am work, dedication and giving of yourself. of Fame Induction and Spring Alumni from - both in the elementary school Reception at the New York Athletic Club. and, especially in the high school. I was The final honoree, Rosemary Hoban ’81, Approximately 200 alumni and friends fortunate to have wonderful teachers. said she was very humbled to receive gathered to honor the evening’s four They challenged and encouraged me and the honor. She stressed how she always inductees: Sr. Barbara Jablonski, IHM ’59, helped create an environment that enabled just did “what made her happy”. Before Brother John William Klein, FMS becoming the health reporter ’65, Lee Hayes ’62, and Rosemary for North Carolina Public Radio Hoban ’81. This year’s honorees, in Durham in 2005, she served as like the 19 others they join, are an International Jesuit volunteer representative of the over 13,000 where she spent two years in St. Mary’s College Preparatory Micronesia, teaching at a trade High School alumni. school. From there, she went to Thailand for a year where Their contributions in religion, she worked with orphans and education, medicine, not for profit refugees and returned to the organizations and the public refugee camps and spent time sector exemplify the values of teaching community health a St. Mary’s education. These workers, and working with Rev. Msgr. John J. McCann ‘57 opened the Hall of Fame individuals are real examples of children with behavioral problems. ceremony with a prayer. what service through faith looks Before leaving active nursing altogether, like in our world. However, this year’s class me to grow and, in some ways, even Rosemary worked for a year with Doctors of inductees share a unique distinction. flourish. Much of who I am was formed in Without Borders in Indonesia on a project They are all former students of both St. class and on the track team and the other providing basic health services and Mary’s Elementary School and High School. extracurricular activities and in the many monitoring disease outbreaks for about They all have the benefit of 12 years of St. friendships that I formed. Most importantly, 20,000 people who had fled from ethnic Mary’s education. St. Mary’s was the source of my vocation as violence in their province. She chose some a Marist Brother.” of the toughest places in the profession to Monsignor John J. McCann ’57, a 2008 Hall work, during a time when the profession of Fame inductee, opened the induction Dennis Lee Hayes ’62 spoke about the was in turmoil, and she credits much of ceremony with a prayer and Andrew Della value of a Catholic education and the her success to the education she received Ratta ’88, Alumni Board President, served important role it played in his life. Lee and the examples of leadership she as the emcee for the evening. All of the said, “Through eight years in St. Mary’s experienced during her time at St. Mary’s. inductees gave inspirational remarks Grammar School, the nuns were persistent and strict, always intent on developing focused on the influence St. Mary’s had on Following the inductions, alumni from all respect for the teachers and the Church. their lives. generations, including current students, And then the Marist Brothers at St. Mary’s rekindled old friendships and shared good Sister Barbara commented about the High School carried on, assisting us on memories of St. Mary’s. The Hall of Fame thrill of returning to St. Mary’s in an the way to maturing and becoming good Induction Ceremony and Spring Alumni administrative position later in life and students and serious citizens. While there Reception has quickly become a signature having the chance to offer some “tough were other role models too numerous to event for the St. Mary’s Alumni Association. love” to her students, many of whom were mention, Brother Kenneth Robert comes In 2010, we look forward to incorporating present and stood to applaud. Brother to mind as a mentor, both in sports and a celebration of St. Mary’s College John William Klein, FMS ‘65 emphasized academics. Things I learned from him I Preparatory High School’s 60th Anniversary the impact his family had on his life. He often emulate when helping other young into this event. stressed how it was important for a person people just starting out in their lives.” Lee www.stmaryalumni.ws | 23 2009 Honorees Sister Barbara Jablonski, IHM ‘59, Brother John Klein, FMS ‘65, Lee Hayes ‘62 and Rosemary Hoban ‘81
Jennifer Accardi PAR '06, '11, Dan Nolan PAR '01, '03, Melissa DeRosa Johnson ‘94, Deidre Connolly Janet Barth McHale ‘69 , PAR '96, '99, '03 Robson ‘69 and Sharon Sager Swasey ‘69 and Alice Evans PAR '03, '05, '09, '11
Anne Hunt ‘84, MaryBeth Welsh ‘84, and Gregory Welsh ‘72
Kristin Lynch Graham ‘88, Brother John Klein, FMS ‘65 and Andrew Della Ratta ‘88 Tricia Shackel ‘75, Gus Nuzzolese, Patty McHale ‘75, Sr. Didi Madden ‘75 and Mary Lynch Nuzzolese ‘75
Ed O’Connor, Linda Jablonski O’Connor ‘65, Terry McCormick Fegan ‘68, seated: Maggie O’Connor Andrade, Rev. William Jablonski ‘55 and Christina Jablonski Brady ‘68
Ann LoLordo ‘73, Bob Furlong and Chris Kelly Fabbri ‘72 Photos by Ted Roeder
Judi Annibale Betts ‘59 Sue Symmons ‘82 and Sister Barbara John Hoban ‘72 and Eileen Symmons ‘86 Jablonski, IHM ‘59 and Thomas Klein ‘72 school news Windows on Saint Mary’s Spring 2009 Highlights
Senior Prom The day began at St. Mary’s Church The St. Mary’s Senior Prom took place with 6:00 AM Mass celebrated by Father Following the march, Bishop John Dunne on April 30th. Always a well-attended Allan Sikorski. Afterward, students and led all Long Island participants in a prayer event, attendance topped 318. In chaperones boarded the bus and headed service. Jasmine Kerby ‘09, was very gorgeous gowns and tuxedos, the seniors south, stopping in Bellerose to pick up moved by this experience: “While behind arrived at the Crest Hollow Country a group from St. Gregory’s parish. The the Lincoln Memorial for the rally, I saw a Club in Woodbury. After being sign that read, ‘Look behind you: photographed in their formal attire, you’re not alone.’ That’s when it they gathered in the ballroom for dawned on me that we’re never dinner and an evening of dancing. alone - not only in our pro-life stance, but in every situation of Trip to Ireland our lives.” Staunchly pro-life, Jillian Nineteen lucky juniors and seniors Sucato ‘10 attended the march spent February break in Ireland with for the first time and remarked, chaperones, Mr. Vincent Gschlecht “The rally in DC really moved me. I and Mrs. Cheryl Prochilo. After think the March for Life is a great landing in Dublin, their whirlwind experience for anyone. I hope to tour included visits to: Kilmainham attend next year and to continue to Gaol, Trinity College, the Rock of stand up for what I believe in.” Cashel, the Cliffs of Moher, the Dingle Peninsula, Bunratty Castle and Thoor Model UN Ballylee. On January 22nd, twelve members of the St. Mary’s High School Model No trip would be complete without a UN Club traveled to Yale University climb to the top of Blarney Castle for to participate in the thirty-fifth a kiss of the Blarney Stone and a wish annual Model UN Conference. The for the gift of eloquence. A festive purpose of the conference was to dinner at the Merry Ploughboys Pub give the students the opportunity followed by an evening of Irish music to simulate the workings of the and dancing rounded out the trip to five-hour journey was broken up by United Nations. Each school the Emerald Isle. a communal recitation of the Rachel attending the conference represented a March for Life Rosary, a special intercessory prayer nation of the United Nations. This year, St. Mary’s students represented Austria. On Thursday, January 22nd, twenty St. for victims of post-abortion syndrome, The students were placed on various Mary’s High School students joined written by St. Mary’s religion teacher, Mr. committees that discussed international thousands of Americans in Washington, Larry Kupferman, and led by John Tansey issues such as disarmament, the rights DC, for the annual March for Life. Thirty- ’09. Upon arrival, the school banner was of migrant workers, climate change and six years after the Roe vs. Wade decision unfurled and carried by Colin Skarka transboundary pollution. Each committee was handed down by the Supreme Court, ’10. After many stirring speeches and adopted resolutions offering approaches the conscience of America is still being prayers, the St. Mary’s group marched toward solving these complex issues. prodded by these dedicated souls who up Constitution Avenue, past the Capitol brave the elements and speak up for those Building, and ended their journey at the The conference included students from who cannot speak for themselves. Supreme Court Building.
www.stmaryalumni.ws | 26 Living Stations of the Cross portayed by the students
Senior Prom www.stmaryalumni.ws | 27 across the country and around the world. represented the student reporter and for her concern about people and for her In fact, one in five of the participants was tried to demonstrate that he had acted fashion sense, and appreciated that the an international student. All were able reasonably and had sufficiently researched First Couple emerged from their limousines to explore and enjoy the beautiful Yale the facts to justify the inferences. to enable people to see them better. In campus and to interact with the student the evening, Tharaleisha attended a ball body. St. Mary’s enjoyed lunch with a Under the supervision of Mrs. Kathleen with students from around the world. She group of Yale undergraduates who gave Spellman, excellent performances were greatly enjoyed meeting new people and them an idea of what life at Yale both offers turned in by trial attorneys Tyheisha learning about other cultures. and demands from its students. Roach ‘09, Natalie Monroe ‘11, Stanford Mendenhall ‘11 and the other team A connection through the Frederick The participants and their chaperones, members who served as witnesses. All of Douglas Academy brought Scholar Service Mrs. Anita Didora (club moderator) and the students were highly commended by Institute member, Stanford Mendenhall ‘11, Mrs. Kathleen Spellman, agreed how the judges before whom they appeared to the Inauguration. He found President worthwhile the experience was and are for their professionalism, preparation and Obama “eloquent” and his speech, “well- already planning to participate next year. court etiquette, all of which was duly written and organized.” Stanford admires The twelve students who attended were: noted on the record. Through these the way the President speaks and the way John D’Olimpio, Kieran Doyle, Daniela trial experiences, each member of the he reacts to pressure. He noted that the Jimenez, Christopher Johanson, Tae Jun team learned a great deal about legal crowd was mixed by race as well as by age Kim, Briana Lestage, Stanford Mendenhall, procedures and practices, as well as about and gender, but they were united in their Noemi Saldivar-Torres, Sebastian Sulit, values which can be carried on for life. hope for change. Saju Samuel, Andrew Vatier and Angelica Academic Awards and National Villegas. Inauguration of President Barack Obama Honor Society Mock Trial A number of St. Mary’s students attended In May, St. Mary’s High School held its Once again, the Mock Trial Club the Inauguration of our 44th President, annual Academic Awards Ceremony for participated in the New York State Barack Obama, on January 20th in the freshmen, sophomores and juniors. At competition in which they scored an early Washington, DC. this time, the outstanding achievements victory in the classroom. The three-month in academics, service and leadership series of trials dealt with a civil defamation Dayna Smith ‘09, who is interested in are celebrated and recognized. The top lawsuit in which a popular high school pursuing international law in college, went ten students in each grade level receive principal prepared to retire and run for to the Inauguration with a program called medals for General Excellence followed by political office. This political path was Lead America. She participated in one First and Second Honors. Subject Awards derailed by a school newspaper reporter of the program’s seminars last summer are presented to the top student in each who discovered that after receiving at Georgetown University. Dayna had subject area. Based upon cumulative a political contribution, the principal decided to attend the ceremonies no rank from freshmen through junior changed a student’s grade, giving him matter what the outcome. She found it years, the Immaculate Heart of Mary and an edge for valedictorian. Forbidden by “breathtaking” to be in the new President’s Marist Outstanding Academic Awards are the school newspaper’s moderator from presence and to watch “history happen”. presented. She also enjoyed the welcome ceremony printing the story, the reporter circulated At the same ceremony, seventy flyers and forwarded a copy to the local at the Lincoln Memorial featuring Tom Hanks and Bono. sophomores and twenty juniors were newspaper, thus ending the principal’s inducted into the National Honor Society, political career. Tharaleisha Laurent ‘12 previously attended an organization nationally recognized by In one trial, the Mock Trial team a National Young Leaders Conference high schools and colleges. The National represented the principal and tried to in Washington, and was also going to Honor Society is based upon the qualities show that the student reporter had acted attend the Inauguration no matter what of scholarship, character, service and maliciously and recklessly in writing the outcome. She intends to tell her leadership. All administrators and faculty and publishing the accusations against grandchildren about this great historical are proud of all of our students’ the principal. In the next trial, the team moment. She admires the new First Lady www.stmaryalumni.ws | 28 accomplishments. The Magnificat, while enjoying the led the freshmen in prayer and small collegiate atmosphere of this Ivy League group discussions under the supervision Living Stations of the Cross campus. of the faculty. A special lunch served St. Mary’s students entered into Holy Week in Immaculata gym featured food from by gathering for a prayer service based Sponsored by the Columbia Scholastic various cultures. The spirit of oneness upon the Stations of the Cross. An eagerly Press Association, the conference draws created by these activities set the stage for anticipated annual event, this prayer students from all corners of the United the film. service features a company of twenty-one States to share ideas and samples of their students who present each of the Stations publications. Staff writer Melissa Cortes The power of "The Human Experience" in costume and as a tableau. ‘10 observed, “The ideas and final products quickly engaged all present. The that we heard about and saw were experiences of the young men from St. As the service begins, the church is in impressive. They inspired me to step up Francis House living among the homeless semi-darkness, creating an appropriately in New York City, serving somber mood. A spotlight abandoned and abused illuminates the actors for children in Peru, and visiting each Station while an an African leper colony were unseen narrator offers a unforgettable and dramatically brief meditation. One of the underlined the theme for characters then comes to life Spirit Day: human life and and offers a further reflection hope and love are the most or song. The congregation powerful forces in the world; participates by joining in a forces shared by all people. prayer intention to conclude The forty-five minute question- each Station. and-answer session with the movie’s director, Joe Campo, Our tradition is to have seniors and two of the film’s stars, Jeff portray Jesus and Mary; John Azize and Mike Campo, moved Tansey and Stacey Valcourt and challenged the audience. enacted these roles this year. Also featured were solos by Mike Guzowski my game and to strive toward higher goals A memorable and moving day like this ‘09, Chanelle Hill ‘09, Ambyr Williams ‘10 for the school paper.” makes St. Mary’s a special place, one that and Ilena Lech ‘11. Diana Kang 11 played challenges our students to grow in all the violin during the service and Campus Spirit Day 2009 dimensions of their lives. Ministry Coordinator, Mr. Larry Kupferman, Why do we wake up in the morning? the guitar. Spring Lacrosse Jamboree Where do we find hope? "The Human On Friday, April 24th, St. Mary’s once Experience" , a film by Grassroots Films again hosted its annual Spring Lacrosse Journalism Staff Attends which was previewed for St. Mary’s on Columbia University Conference Jamboree. Festivities started with the January 30th, served as the centerpiece seventh and eighth grade boys’ team Sponsored by a generous gift from the for our third annual Spirit Day for the hosting Long Island Lutheran followed Gaels Parents’ Association, nineteen juniors freshmen class. by the Varsity Girls’ Team competing and seniors from the Journalism course against St. Francis Prep. To conclude the attended a two-day workshop at Columbia Spirit Day began as part of our Gospel event, the Varisty Boys’ Team hosted its University March 17-18th. Each young Values program, our vision to infuse rival, St. Dominic’s under the lights. The journalist attended four different seminars Catholic social teaching throughout event, which has been growing steadily over the course of the two days, providing our curriculum. This day addresses the in popularity over the years, would not insights and tips from experienced Gospel call to respect the sanctity of life be complete without the famous $1 journalists and professors from around the and the dignity of each person and to barbeque and the half-time festivities. ■ country. The students gathered numerous realize we are part of one human family ideas to improve the student newspaper, in solidarity. Trained juniors and seniors www.stmaryalumni.ws | 29 If you still haven’t registered on the Saint Mary’s Alumni Association’s website Do you know what you are missing?
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The Long Lost Ring by Carol Alutto McCarthy
In February 2009, Theresa Balos and her sister, Dorothy Pfrang came to the school with a unique alumni situation. They were cleaning out their late mother’s house, and stumbled upon a St. Mary’s Boys’ High School ring that their mother had found in St. Mary’s Church approximately 30 years ago. The only clue as to the ring’s rightful owner were the initials JRS and the inscribed class year of 1980. It was a long shot, but these two women were committed to having the ring returned to its rightful owner.
After a search through the 1980 yearbook, we narrowed the potential candidates down to Jeffrey R. Schaefer, the only 1980 graduate with the correct initials. We sent Mr. Schaefer a letter alerting him of the situation, and hoped for a good outcome. A month later, Mr. Schaefer called the alumni office to say that he believed the ring was his, even though he had not seen it for almost 30 years. After some coordination, Mrs. Balos and her sister ultimately met Mr. Schaefer’s father and returned his son’s ring. Against all odds, one proud St. Mary’s alumni had reclaimed his high school ring thanks to the determination and good deed of two very kind women.
Carol Alutto McCarthy is the Administrative Assistant in the Alumni Relations and Development Office Legacy Families
If two generations of your family have graduated from St. Mary’s, you are a legacy family. We are in the process of identifying this unique constituency so that we can celebrate your special relationship with St. Mary’s in more effective ways such as identifying your parent relationship with our new PAR legend seen throughout this issue.
Please visit www.stmaryalumni.ws to complete the form below or print and mail the information to St. Mary’s Alumni Association 51 Clapham Avenue Manhasset, New York 11030
If you have questions, please contact Kristin Lynch Graham ’88, Director of Development
ST. MARY’S LEGACY FAMILIES
1st Generation Parent/Grandparent Name(s) Class Year Address City, State, Zip Phone Number E-mail Address
2nd Generation Child Name (s) Class Year ✁ Address City, State, Zip Phone Number E-mail Address
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Grace F. Chao ‘09 Selected as a 2009 Presidential Scholar Finalist
The White House Commission on hopeful about life. Effecting change, she Presidential Scholars has selected Grace says, “is about using one’s God-given talents F. Chao ‘09, from Saint Mary’s College to share with others.” Preparatory High School, Manhasset as a 2009 Presidential Scholar Finalist. She was In addition to the Presidential Scholar one of 560 Semifinalists in the country recognition, she has also received a selected by the Commission. There were National Merit Scholarship, President’s 121 Finalists, and Ms. Chao is one of two Volunteer Service Award, AXA Achievement Finalists selected on Long Island. Community Scholarship, TD Bank American Dream Scholarship, Washington University The United States Presidential Scholars Ervin Scholar, Washington University- Program was established in 1964, by University Scholar – Medicine, Vanderbilt Executive Order of the President, Lyndon B. University Achievement Honor Scholarship, Johnson, to recognize and honor some of Washington & Lee University Johnson the Nation’s most distinguished graduating her class and has taken the initiative to Scholarship, Stony Brook University high school seniors. Appointed by the start several clubs such as the Asian Club Presidential Recognition Scholarship, President, members of the White House and the Chamber Music Ensemble. The Lehigh University Dean’s Scholar, Calvin Commission on Presidential Scholars Asian Club is important to Grace because College Mosaic Award, Calvin College include the National Teacher of the Year of the large population of international National Merit Scholarship, Chen-Pai Lee as well as leaders in medicine, law, social students at St. Mary’s. The club assists new Memorial Scholarship, Tainan High Schools services, business, and other professions. students in meeting others, contributes to Alumni Scholarship Award, Teachers their sense of belonging, and provides an Against Prejudice Essay Award, New York Application for the U.S. Presidential Scholars opportunity for cross-cultural learning. The State Education Dept Academic Excellence Program is by invitation only. Candidates Ensemble was second nature to her as well Scholarship, St. John’s University Presidential are identified based on SAT and ACT because she has been playing the violin Scholarship, and St. John’s University scores. (Chao was one of two New York since the age of four. She has also tutored Resident Scholar Grant. State students to earn a perfect score of at the Adventures in Learning program 36 on the September 2008 ACT Test). To be in Manhasset, through the high school’s Grace will travel to Washington, DC in considered further, the student candidates Campus Ministry program. June along with her parents, Dr. Chu-Liang must submit essays, self-assessments, and Soon-Eng Lim Chao, and her teacher secondary school reports and transcripts. Grace is actively involved in an organization Ms. Kathleen Smith to participate in the A review committee of experienced called “YouthAction” which is involved in Presidential Scholar Awards ceremony. secondary and postsecondary educators improving the New York City Public Schools. Chao nominated Ms. Smith for the Most evaluates candidates on their academic Here, she has learned how advocacy works, Influential Teacher Award which will also and/or artistic achievement, personal about the art of compromise, and the power be presented at the ceremony. Ms. Smith, a characteristics, leadership and service to effect change. “That sort of power is not 27-year veteran of St. Mary’s is the Science activities in school and their community, something most people are exposed to,” she Department Chairperson. Grace attributes and the quality and content of their essays. stated in a recent interview. One example much of her academic success to Ms. of the group’s work was lobbying to have Smith’s enthusiasm and passion as her A.P. Chao has a proven ability to combine students members of school boards. Biology teacher. academic excellence, volunteer work and advocacy through her membership in the On a personal level, Ms. Chao feels that her Ms. Chao will be attending Washington Scholar Service Institute. In her four years membership in the Reformed Church and University in the fall to pursue a career in at St. Mary’s, she has been at the top of her faith help her to be very positive and medicine. www.stmaryalumni.ws | 32 alumni events Matching Gift Companies New York City Alumni The following companies provided matching Networking Event gifts to the 2008-2009 Annual Fund: Barclays Capital Chevron On February 26, 2009, the St. Mary’s Alumni Association held its first alumni networking night Goldman Sachs at Bar Nine in New York City. Kieran Blake ’89, the manager of Bar Nine, graciously welcomed Marsh McLennan Company approximately 40 fellow alumni for a great night of networking and reminiscing. Mutual of America New York Life Foundation Many corporations offer matching gift Kieran has been the manager of Bar Nine for three years and is looking forward to hosting programs that increase the impact of their similar events for St. Mary’s in the future. With Kieran’s leadership and your continued employees’ charitable donations. If you or support we hope to increase the frequency of networking and social events for alumni. your spouse work for a company with a Everyone who attended commented that is was great time with personal and professional matching gift program, you can participate in the program on behalf of St. Mary’s College benefits. Plans are underway for another networking night this summer. As always, check Preparatory High School and significantly the alumni website for future events at www.stmaryalumni.ws. increase the total value of your gift. Clockwise: Bar Nine Manager Kieran Blake ’89 and Joy Cavanaugh '93. Andrew Della How do I know if my company has a Ratta '88 and Brian G. Flood '85. Melissa Tome ’97, Enid Viana ’97, and Peggy Molloy matching gift program? Your human Garte ’97 enjoy the St. Mary’s Alumni Networking Night. resources representative can tell you if your company has a matching gift program. You may also call the St. Mary’s Development Office or Alumni Relations at 516 627 4605.
How can I initiate a matching gift to St. Mary’s College Preparatory High School? Simply obtain a matching gift form from your company’s human resources office. It will provide information for initiating a matching gift from your company to St. Mary’s.
Is my matching gift tax deductible? Only your portion of the gift is tax deductible. You will not receive tax credit for your company’s matching gift. However, St. Mary’s will credit you with the combined contribution of your gift plus the match from your company. The total gift amount is considered when determining membership in such societies as the Sr. Theresa Maxis Duchemin, IHM and St. Marcelin Champagnat, FMS Society.
I have more questions about matching gifts. How do I get in touch with someone who can help me? In addition to your human resources representative, a member of the St. Mary’s Development Office or Alumni Relations Office is available to answer any question you may have. Please call 516 627 4605. in memorium
The St. Mary’s Alumni Association expresses its deepest sympathies to the families, friends, and classmates of the following deceased alumni whose deaths were reported to the Alumni Office as of April 7, 2009.
MARY GARVEY DENIG ‘53 –January 12, 2009
MARGIT ISTOK BOLLYKY ‘58 –November 20, 2008
SYLVAN MARGADONNA ‘68 –September 2008
SAL MILAZZO ‘58 –October 2008
MARY GIESEN CLEAR ‘65 –October 2008
KEVIN MORAN ‘80 –December 2008
Please contact the St. Mary’s Alumni Office at 516 627 4605 to report the passing of a St. Mary’s High School graduate. All deceased alumni are remembered at our Annual Memorial Mass.
Breakfast with St. Mary’s
Recognizing that a significant number of St. the same in the future. more about St. Mary’s amidst their busy Mary’s alumni live and work in Manhattan, schedules. and that time is your most precious The event featured a light breakfast, an resource, the Office of Alumni Relations opportunity of socializing, and an update began hosting breakfast receptions in the on the high school. To accommodate work City this winter. The first event was hosted schedules, the event began promptly at by school board president and parent, Marc 8:30 AM and concluded by 9:30 AM. In a de Venoge. In January, Marc graciously short amount of time, those in attendance opened his offices at the Surdna Foundation returned to their offices with a renewed to a group of St. Mary’s alumni who work in sense of St. Mary’s pride and a host of new the surrounding area. It was such a success relationships. It is a model that resonated that Alvaro Martinez-Fonts ’75 agreed to do with alumni who are interested in learning did you know?
The National Catholic Education Association Report on Catholic High Schools
Tuition Facts | 2009 Mean
Catholic High School Tuition: $8,182 Average Public School St. Mary’s: $8,275 Per pupil cost: $10,228 per Pupil Cost $9,138
The mean Catholic High School tuition is approximately Based on the public school cost, Catholic 80% of actual costs per pupil. schools provide $20 billion dollars a year in savings for the nation. At St. Mary’s, the difference between the per pupil cost and the tuition charged is obtained, primarily through alumni support and fund-raising activities.
75% of Catholic Schools have an Endowment
33% $3.4M: Average 2008 Endowment of students nationwide $45M: Highest reported 2008 Endowment request financial aid to attend Catholic Schools. $2.1M: St. Mary’s Endowment as of 29 May 2009
Average Catholic What About High School Annual St. Mary’s? The Cycle of Generosity Fund Information $100,759 St. Mary’s $451,831 average 2008 2008-09 Annual Fund Annual Fund Total for as of 29 May 2009* Private Religious Present Past Secondary Schools • 363 Donors Generation Generation • 129 New Donors 18% average 2008 Alumni • 3.36% Alumni Participation rate Participation *Fiscal Year: Sept 1 2008–Aug 31 2009 As reported by the National Center for Education Statistics, includes both elementray and secondary schools. (On average, secondary school costs are higher than elementary, but are not reported separately). secondary (On average, school costs are higher than elementary, both elementray and secondary schools. includes As reported by the National Center for Education Statistics,
Who among us had not been the beneficiary of generosity from the generation before us? Our responsibility is to be generous to the next generation. It is a way of giving thanks to God for all that has been given to us. Now that you are behind the scenes, we invite you to let God work through you and support St. Mary’s students in their journey to answer Jesus’ call selflessly in all that they do. 50th Anniversary 1959 Basketball League Championship The 1959 St. Mary’s High School boy’s basketball team returned to St. Mary’s on Friday, February 20, 2009 to celebrate the 50th Anniversary of their League Championship. Seven former players Carl Ludecke ‘59, Pat Doyle ‘59, Dick Cummings ‘59, Don Corrado ‘60, Charlie Martin ‘60, Tom Petrie ‘60, and Joe Rehing ‘60, along with their Coach Jerry Lorber and Brother Kenneth Robert FMS returned to watch the current varsity boys team defeat Kellenberg for the final regular season game. Before the game started the current team presented the 1959 team with a few mementos to take home including team shirts and gym bags. Both teams enjoyed spending time together sharing stories from the past and present.
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