SIGNS OF BEING A VICTIM OF GASLIGHTING

You are constantly second-guessing yourself. You start to question if you are too sensitive. You often feel confused It is as if your personality was erased and and have a hard time darkness has taken over and surrounded making simple you. Your functioning self has been decisions. compromised so much so that you are not You find yourself certain of your own mental and physical constantly apologizing reality and accept the defective role the to the Narcissists. Narcissist has designed for you! You are You often make excuses for the living in a dense fog of constant uncertainty, Narcissist. vulnerability, confusion and fear, and there You feel like you can’t do anything right you will reside until the cycle of abuse is and everything is your fault. broken!" Greg Zaffuto You often feel like you aren’t good HOW TO DEAL WITH A enough. NARCISSIST AND THE FLYING You remember you used to be a more MONKEY'S confident, relaxed and happy person. keep it on the down-low "Gaslighting is very real and debilitating in get back-up an abusive dynamic with a narcissist. go no contact (if you can) Over time you are managed down and you may have to move manipulated into believing the atrocities protect yourself that are directed straight to your psyche preserve your rep NARCISSISTIC that you can't identify the real dynamic of be prepared for the worst this insidious abuse and just blame document everything ABUSE yourself. The gaslighting effect happens forgive yourself gradually and by the time you are so deep into the hideous manipulation you Join the cause and help allow it to define your reality and sanity. An evil unseen spread awareness. Consequently you are not the same www.wnaad.com. strong, confident or centered person you once were. created by: j.chenoweth This process is never accomplished by a NARCISSISTIC ABUSE BAITING AND BASHING single person, though. Smear Campaigns require a mob to finish the job the Narcissistic abuse is a type of emotional "Abusive people enjoy this framing game. ruormonger started and just like chickens and spiritual abuse that includes They provoke their chosen target for a in a coop, one hen is singled out and the gaslighting, power imbalance, baiting and reaction (target explodes), then claim it as others peek her to death. The originator, bashing, belittling, projection, evidence of mental instability, evil- who selected the target for destruction, can manipulation, hidden abuse, shaming, mindedness, demonic posession or sit back and enjoy the show while other smear campaigns, refusal to ever be something else that implies it is the target hens commit an atrocity." An online meme pleased, a false narrative (recreating the who is at fault. Diverting all attention away ~n-continuum.blogspot.ca/ narrative), diversion, distortion of from his own behavior, the bully seeks StopTheNarcissists Now/facebook conversations (twisting words) threats, support from others, turning them against word salad games, exploitative games, his target because they got upset etc. It At this point a false narrative is pushed reframing, witholding, circular can be devastating for an individual who forward and there is little the target can do conversations, refusing to have a normal already is suffering from mistreatment to be to prevent it. It is presented as fact and conversation and false accusations. blamed, slandered, rejected, and isolated, very few people question it. NARCISSISTIC ABUSE as well. The abuser enjoys the sense of SYNDROME power and control he derives from The Smear Campaign is often used to tormenting with impunity, and the positive prevent the truth from coming out. It may Narcissistic Abuse Syndrome (type of attention he gets from playing the victim also be used due to vindictiveness, PTSD) Is a condition that’s triggered by and fishing for sympathy. It is also an jealousy or sense of a threat. being in a warzone with a Narcisisstic effective method of intimidating his target personality in command (or multiple from attempting to speak up and expose THE ROLE OF STOCKHOLM ones). It is a hellish game of smoke the truth." SYNDROME and mirrors. It often causes victims to http://got.to.stop.psychopath.com feel defenseless, beaten down and at THE SMEAR CAMPAIGN One of the saddest things about fault for everything. Narcissistic abuse is how the target will Symptoms of Narcissistic Victim "An offensive tactic of the Narcissist is often protect or even cover Syndrome: Fog, depression, pacing, to use Smear Campaigns to malign, discredit for the Narcissist while the Narcissist(s) is confusion, panic attacks, difficulty and reduce targets to inferior trying to destroy her. At a later time the controlling anger, insomnia, weight gain or beings - to strip them of their power Narcissist will use this against the victim, weight loss, obsessive thoughts, rapid by derogating their character. This tactic especially if a Narcissistic injury has heart rate, There is often a fear of the also divides and conquers by piting occured. The Narcissist will use and Narcissist(s) annihilating you. The target people against a supposed "foe" Targets are exploit kinder or weaker people in order will appear as if they are either in a fog or stuck between a rock and a hard place, right to be admired and pitied by others. going crazy. Narcissistic abuse has often where narcissists like them to be: damned if they Even while a target is being exploited and been described by victims as a "soul defend themselves and damned if they don't. abused you may still hear her defend her rape". abuser(s).