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Win tickets to the Battle Proms page 5 Living Waters conference centre spread The Door changes page 15 God in the Life Of page 16 Keeping Christianity’s heritage alive by Jo Duckles Borough Council. Alongside this is the Hidden Abbey TWO major projects are set to keep Project which John started with his wife our region’s rich Christian history and Lindsay, Canon John O’Shea, priest of heritage alive for generations to come. St James’ and Philippa Langley, who A world class interactive exhibition telling discovered Richard III’s tomb in Leicester. the story of Christianity in Oxford could This is now a joint enterprise with soon be attracting thousands of visitors to Reading Borough Council and the Catholic St Aldate’s Church. Diocese of Portsmouth. Meanwhile, this month Reading Abbey An offshoot of this is the Hidden will open to the public, giving people the Abbey Stones scheme, which gives chance to discover Henry I’s burial site Reading people the chance to find out and learn about the influential religious what happened to the Abbey after its community that lived there until its dissolution. dissolution in 1538. The St Aldate’s idea came when leaders John Mullaney, who is behind the felt that rich faith strands had been Hidden Abbey project, says: “One factor airbrushed out of Oxford’s history on that I stress in my talks, and in what I hoardings that were installed around the write, is that we should not lose sight of Westgate Shopping Centre as it was being the Abbey’s spiritual significance. redeveloped. The Revd Canon Charlie Cleverly, the we should not lose sight Rector, said: “If you want to know about the Christian history of Oxford you have of“ the Abbey’s spiritual to go looking for it. We want to open the significance.” doors of our building, which is empty on weekdays. “We want this to be on a par with other “The restoration work is much more sites in Oxford. St Aldate’s is opposite the than the conservation of the stones and most visited cathedral site in the country.” flints that made up one the greatest Romanesque buildings of its day. It was a If you want to know place of Christian prayer and pilgrimage and the people who lived there for 400 about the Christian history “ Part of the ruins of the historic Reading Abbey Photo: Reading Museum. years dedicated their lives to this end.” of Oxford you have to go John, who worships at St James’ Church, the Roman Catholic Church in looking for it.” After receiving positive comments, church. “Our church budget is £1.5m per the Abbey grounds, added that the site St Aldate’s commissioned a feasibility year but we don’t want to detract from our may have been home to an earlier Saxon St Aldate’s leaders shared the vision study, by the same company that worked core business,” said Charlie. St Aldate’s or Norman monastery, meaning it could with key people in the city, including the on Bletchley Park museum — famous core ministries reach out to students as have been a place of Christian worship Dean of Christ Church, the Very Revd as the home of the Second World War well as many Oxford residents of all ages before 1121, when the Abbey was built. Martyn Percy, Cllr Bob Price, the leader codebreakers — and the Titanic museum from children to pensioners. It also has Several projects have been linked to of Oxford City Council, a Professor of in Belfast. specific ministries for the vulnerable, the conservation of the Abbey, including History from Oxford University and The result is an ambitious plan for a including ex-offenders and the homeless. Reading Abbey Revealed which attracted the Rt Revd Steven Croft, the Bishop of £3m exhibition that will be projected £2m Lottery Funding matched by Reading Oxford. onto the walls and pillars of the historic Continued on page 2... 2 News

Flourishing wildlife wins St Mary’s a top award AN OXFORDSHIRE church beat off competition from churches as far afield as Australia and Tenerife to win the third annual Animal Friendly Church Theresa May is quizzed by pupils. Photo: St Luke’s CE School Competition. St Mary’s, Launton, near Bicester won the award after the original entry was made by the former team vicar, the Revd Prime Minister’s Questions with a difference Rebecca Mathew, who has moved on to her new church in Derby. The announcement PRIME Minister, Theresa May visited St her if it was difficult to try and please politics to: “Watch the news, especially was delayed until the new incumbent, the Luke’s CE School in Maidenhead recently everyone and how she tried to do this. what happens in Parliament, and to Revd Peter Wright, was in post. as part of a school project on inspirational Mrs May explained that she had learn what politics is about and (most “Peter was delighted to accept the people. always wanted to go into politics and was importantly) to persevere as it can take award and carry on the good work started She spoke about her role locally inspired from a young age by her father to time.” by Becky and her team,” says Samantha and globally and answered a range of work hard and try her best. Mrs May ended by responding to a Chandler, secretary to the Anglican questions from the pupils. Mrs May She also offered advice to the year question about what she would like to be Society for the Welfare of Animals shared experiences from her own six children about their SATS tests, remembered for and she said introducing (ASWA). She praised St Mary’s, stating: school days and explained that her expressing the need to “get lots of sleep the Modern Slavery Act. “Wildlife is encouraged to flourish and favourite subject was maths and that and wake up fresh, to concentrate and do Amanda Hough, the headteacher, said: care of creation is very much a part she had always loved to read as a child – the best that you can.” “All of the pupils really enjoyed listening of the culture of the church. We were expressing the importance of reading a Taylor from year four asked how her to the Prime Minister and were very particularly impressed by their work with range of books to help us all to learn more. job affected those around her and Mrs excited to share the news of their special the Oxfordshire Bat Trust as the church André from year four asked her how May replied: “The job is my life... morning, visitor with their parents as they left at is home to both pipistrelle and long eared she felt when she got the job of Prime noon and evening.” the end of the school day.” varieties. A ‘Bat Night’ organised by the Minister and Camelia from year six asked She told those interested in going into Church was enthusiastically supported.” Peter said: “We are absolutely delighted to win this award. It is sometimes said that nature was God’s first Bible, and we are Strictly Come Haddenham pleased to offer a place for our community STAFF, children and professional dance which glorifies God in prayer, praise, celebrity Brendan Cole strutted their stuff welcome and respect for all of his creation.” at an energetic celebration of 150 years of The church was presented with a Haddenham St Mary’s CE Primary School. hamper full of environmentally friendly At the same event, last month, a new products and a brass plaque. wing of the school, complete with four ASWA encourages churches to apply new classrooms was opened. Karen for Animal Friendly Church status. All Collett, the headteacher, said: “We had a successful applications will be entered for wonderful time. We had lots of guests. We the next award – judging will take place in invited everyone involved in the build, January 2019. former staff and dignitaries.” Brendan, known for his role on the BBC’s Strictly Come Dancing, said: “I’m local to aswa.org.uk the area. We’ve had a lovely day with a bit of dancing and the atmosphere among the teachers and pupils is nice to see.” Congratulations to Toby See oxford.anglican.org/ Karen Collett and Brendan Cole cut the cake at the 150th celebration at St Mary’s. Photo: Jo Duckles Haddenham for more photos. CONGRATULATIONS to the Revd Toby Wright who was recently presented with an Keeping Christianity’s heritage alive award from the outgoing chairman of West Oxfordshire District Council. ...continued from page one it through headphones with the latest June. An ecumenical service, celebrating Toby, the Area Dean of Witney and Team The exhibition will be separate from technology. As well as history, there will the re-opening takes place in the afternoon Rector of the Witney Benefice, received all those ministries. “This will be open be stories of modern-day encounters with of Sunday 8 July at St James’ Church. the Chairman’s Award from Cllr Norman from Tuesday to Saturday. We hope it Christ and the opportunity for people to MacRae, for his contribution to the West will attract school trips, Oxford students, reflect on mindfulness/spirituality. Oxfordshire community. The story hit the residents of Oxford and tourists. They will Reading Abbey’s official re-opening readingabbeyhistory.com Oxford Mail newspaper in May. Read more walk in and look at at the story and hear takes place from 11am on Saturday 16 staldates.org.uk here: tinyurl.com/ycwv87y8 News 3 Pioneering scheme gets shortlisted Churches welcome ex- offenders

TWO churches in Newport Pagnell will be among the first to put into practice The Welcome Directory’s new training and resource packs for 2018. The Welcome Directory’s vision is to help faith communities become places where people who leave prison find acceptance; a place to belong that not only nurtures faith but also offers appropriate practical support. The Revd Nick Evans, the Rector of Newport Pagnell, said: “As in Matthew 25:36 we are encouraged to visit those in prison, so should our Christian outreach extend further to ensure our churches are places of welcome, hope and love for ex- offenders re-joining our communities after serving their sentences.” The Welcome Directory’s vision resonates strongly with the Oxford Diocese’s call to be Christ-like; compassionate, courageous and contemplative. St Peter & St Paul’s, and St Luke’s have responded with strong support to back this initiative to welcome and support ex-offenders. Several members will be taking part in training led by Revd Alan Hodgetts, Chaplain of HMP Woodhill, as well as attending parish-led sessions using the Welcome Directory materials.

St Mary’s, Iffley, after the conservation work. Photo: St Mary’s Iffley welcomedirectory.org.uk npparish.org.uk PIONEERING lime based conservation However, it has been widely replaced with accompanied the scheme, sharing the work earned St Mary’s Church, Iffley, a more modern products that experts say building and project with the community place in the shortlist for the 2018 John can seriously harm historic fabric. As a and the Living Stones programme that Bishop Steven in Betjeman Award. result, there has been a revival in lime in engaged children in learning about the While the Oxford church didn’t restoration projects. church and the skills used to care for it. The win, judges were impressed with the The repairs at St Mary’s, carried out John Betjeman Award, run by The Society the Financial Times conservation work carried out to the west last year, followed on from earlier work in for the Protection of Ancient Buildings, BISHOP Steven made the Financial front and south door. Lime was used in the 1980s. The judges were also pleased celebrates excellence in the repair of places Times business education supplement last the construction of most old buildings. to hear about the outreach activities that of worship in England and Wales. month in a piece about why leaders who fail to care for their own wellbeing are in no position to lead others. Bishop Steven was quoted following his keynote address From Grace the cow to an opera in a church to 500 Christian leaders at the 4th Forum BACK in 1992 dairy farmer and member of All Saints, Marcham, christlicher Führungskräfte in Fribourg, Neil Rowe walked Grace the cow into church one Sunday, with a Switzerland in March. Read the address suitcase and a map. on his blog here: blogs.oxford.anglican. He challenged the congregation to raise £2,500 as a Lent org/adventurous-and-courageous- project to send Grace to Uganda with the newly formed Send leadership/ or see page 14. a Cow. In those days, the charity was literally sending cows to Uganda to lift people out of poverty. Two weeks later, £2,500 was raised and Grace left for Uganda. Years later she had provided milk and many calves which in turn provided many families with a way Nessa ordained in out of poverty. This led to the formation of Marcham’s Mission Partners’ team which worked with Send a Cow and other charities Abingdon including Didcot’s Balsam Family Project. THE Revd Nessa Watts was ordained a The Mission Partners team have put on many events including deacon by Bishop Steven during a lively an opera in a cowshed, a talents for talents challenge that grew service at Christ Church, Abingdon recently. £4,000 out of £400 and relationships have been built with four Nessa is an Oxford University physics charities which have also included many trips to Moldova, graduate. Before training for ordination, she Mozambique & Ethiopia. worked as an IT consultant, whose clients The fundraising projects have seen positive relationships grow included the Diocese of Oxford. with the charities, businesses and volunteers. Neil says: “Each Nessa is married with two teenage time we set ourselves a challenge to do something difficult or big children and in her spare time enjoys sailing and thought we had taken a step too far, God has intervened and or anything that involves being on the blessed our slog.” water. She is enjoying serving her title at On Friday 22nd June at 7.30pm Marcham Mission Partners Christ Church. “I’m absolutely delighted. are planning their fifth event with Opera Anywhere, a company They are such a great church and it’s really founded in 2000 to provide accessible entertainment for all great to be here with them,” she says. ages. This time they are putting on Gilbert & Sullivans’ Pirates of Penzance, in Marcham Church to raise funds for the Balsam Family Kate Jackson is organising the concert with Neil Rowe, founding project. Tickets at operaanywhere.com/events/ or 0333 666 3366. member of the Mission Partners at Marcham. the Door, Summer 2018, page 4 Advertisement Feature TOGETHER WE’RE STRONGER THAN THE STORMS

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fit into your bag or pocket. Lots of quirky, the courage it had taken him to meet me.” lively illustrations simply and graphically Bishop Steven writes in the Exploring the emphasise the points being made. And Beatitudes booklet that “we do not find those points are derived from personal courage easy.” That is clearly true for experience and scientific research. forgiveness too, as the book makes clear. Each opinion, each result is here What the book does not consider at simplified in such a way that you are given all is why Christians should forgive; why the crux of the finding, though you may we do forgive. Christians are quoted in feel the need for more information. the book, but that they are Christian is, seemingly, incidental. One is the South ...it does provide so much African Anglican priest, Father Michael Lapsley, who declared: “I believe I’ve on“ the topic of forgiveness in gained (by leaving resentment behind). a cheery, accessible way.” I realise that I can be more of a priest with no hands than with two hands.” A powerful example of both forgiveness But the aim of the book, it would and courage. It is part of the nature of appear, is to highlight the benefits – and the book that more information is not the downsides – of forgiveness. The provided. What happened to Father final pages give a Forgiveness Toolbox Lapsley? Did he ask why he was targeted? with pithy instructions on, for example, Has he met his assailants? Has he how to be curious. As the authors write: really forgiven them? Does he hold God Forgiveness is really strange: “Forgiving people tend to be broad, responsible? Masi Noor and Marina Cantacuzino flexible thinkers.” They also report the Of course, I forgive the authors for Jessica Kingsley Publishing research that tells “the more you forgive not answering these questions, and the New Pilgrim routes £9.99 the longer you may live.” Hooray. The other questions that the book prompts. by the Revd Tony Lynn authors recommend, when forgiving, that But the book is recommended because around scenic Cotswold you are courageous, so matching perfectly it does provide so much on the topic of one of Bishop Steven’s watchwords for forgiveness in a cheery, accessible way. villages orgiveness is really strange is a the diocese. The example quoted is of Jo strange little book. It’s about the Berry who met the former IRA activist The Revd Tony Lynn has permission to LOOKING for something to do this summer? thickness of a mobile telephone, who killed her father. As she has said: “I officiate in the Dorchester Archdeaconry. Why not try out some of the Pilgrim Paths but twice as wide: it would easily was terrified, but I wanted to acknowledge in the Chipping Norton Deanery in the F picturesque Cotswolds? During 2017 the churches in Chipping Norton, Hook Norton and Charlbury developed the 10 paths, varying in length from three to seven miles. Profe ssionally produced booklets accompany each path, including suggestions for prayer and meditation reflecting the surrounding landscape. There is also a Walking the Beatitudes pilgrim companion and an Adventure Notebook containing creative ideas for families and children to enjoy. These can be used on all the paths. The walks are designed to be enjoyed by independent groups, but a series of guided pilgrimages will be taking place throughout the summer.

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THE winners of the prize draw in May’s edition of the Door are Karen Anne Bis of Milton Keynes, Beryl Clements of Abingdon Prom goers wave flags at a recent event. Photo: Battle Proms. and George Pulford of Kidlington. They will each receive a copy of Reimagining Britain by Win tickets to a spectacular Battle Proms Picnic Concert! Justin Welby. BLENHEIM Palace will once again play parachute team, a WWI cavalry display Are you ready to pack up the hampers host to an expected crowd of around and ground shaking live fire from over and champers and enjoy an unforgettable 8,000 happy picnickers, when the Battle 200 cannons. Battle Proms concerts are night? For the chance to win simply Proms returns for the 14th annual open-air still believed to be the only opportunity answer the following question: how many concert on Saturday 21 July. in the world to see their signature Napoleonic cannons will be providing a We have a pair of tickets to give away to piece – Beethoven’s Battle Symphony – thunderous percussion for Beethoven’s this spectacular highlight of the summer performed as he composed it: with 193 Battle Symphony? Send your answers to calendar, which takes place in the Palace live firing Napoleonic cannons providing a [email protected] or to Battle parkland overlooking the iconic Column of thunderous percussion. Proms competition, The Door, Church Victory. This party in the park also features House Oxford, Langford Locks, Kidlington, The concert includes classical musical firework displays, culminating OX5 1GF. The closing date for entries is music from the 60-piece New English in a flag waving, sing-a-long, firework Friday 6 July. Concert Orchestra complemented by spectacular including all the Last Night toe-tapping vintage vocals, a Spitfire of the Proms finale favourites such as display to Elgar’s Nimrod, a sensational Jerusalem, Rule Britannia and Land of Hope battleproms.com freefall demonstration by The Red Devils and Glory. the Door, Summer 2018, page 6 Advertisement Feature

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7 How Al-Anon and the Church can change lives Much is written about the impact of alcoholism and drug abuse on the individuals it affects, but the consequences for those closest to them are just as devastating. Al-Anon is a spiritual fellowship - run along the same lines as Alcoholics Anonymous - specifically for the families and friends of problem drinkers and addicts. Here, two from the Thames Valley region describe how their lives have changed, thanks to Al-Anon. Rosemary’s story

An unexpected bonus of my journey through Al-Anon is the opportunity it’s given me to reconnect with God as, over the years, we had become somewhat estranged. I was desperately seeking something or someone to help quiet the incessant noise in my head when I walked into my first Al- Anon meeting four years ago. I was like a washing machine stuck on the spin cycle, obsessing constantly about my alcoholic husband’s drinking, wondering what I was going to do about it, as if it were my job to fix him. With a strong sense of shame and no-one to confide in, I felt I was quietly going insane. In Al-Anon I quickly learned that I did not cause the alcoholic’s drinking, I cannot control it and I can’t cure it. The Three Cs (cause, control and cure) were a huge comfort to me as I let go of my false notion of responsibility for an unmanageable situation. Accepting my powerlessness made it easier for me to hand over my desire to control and my fears and worries to a Higher Power — the God of my understanding — who is so central to the Al-Anon 12 step programme. Over time, my interpretation of my Higher Power has changed. I first regarded the meetings, my fellow members and their collective support as my HP. Now I accept my HP is an actual God. I align him more with the religious God that I grew up with. I went to a clergy orphan school. Morning and evening prayers took place in Chapel every day and I rebelled at the strictures of it all, refusing to be confirmed, to my parents’ dismay. God and I never really saw much of each other down the years, except at the occasional wedding or funeral. But that has changed now. Thanks to Al-Anon I am comfortable to explore my faith. I attend church, read daily Bible verses (thanks to my phone app), pray on my knees and wear a crucifix. Most importantly, I put my trust in God and he guides me daily in ways I never imagined Photo: Shutterstock possible.

me to church one Easter Sunday. I wasn’t day in the church was so powerful and discern God’s will for me and to have faith Sebastian’s story aware of the presence of God in Holy I felt the pull from heaven to receive in my decision making. My situation is Communion and how it is believed that the communion. This was the day my beyond complicated but I feel I am now I discovered Al-Anon as the adult child of bread and wine actually turn into the body relationship with God the Father began. able to manage and to cope with it daily. an alcoholic and embarked on a spiritual and blood of our Lord Jesus Christ. Since then I have joined my local church (Names have been changed to protect journey through the 12 steps. The After drinking the non-alcoholic wine where I play guitar and sing in the worship anonymity.) literature states that: “we will be amazed I experienced a feeling of Jesus’ blood band. I’ve been on a pilgrimage and spent before we’re half way through, we are entering my heart and purifying it from all time with Christian monks. I also joined going to know a new freedom and a new sin. Driving home from my Dad’s that day a church mission to Romania which was There are Al-Anon meetings happiness.” I had no idea that, through my tyre burst and I remember standing on absolutely life changing. I attend church throughout Oxfordshire, looking at my own life with the help of the motorway bridge and feeling like I had with my aunt during Easter and Christmas. Buckinghamshire and Berkshire. a sponsor (who guided me through the met God. His love just poured over me and My relationship with Jesus is For further information call the steps), I would achieve such freedom and his presence was undeniable. The miracle undeniable and I often feel the Holy national helpline on 020 7403 0888 happiness. had finally happened. Spirit and meet people along the way. The from 10am – 10pm daily, or visit During this process my Dad, The twelve steps have taken me on Al-Anon fellowship and my relationship al-anonuk.org.uk spontaneously and out of character, invited a journey to spiritual awakening. That with God have given me the ability to help Advertising WE CAN 8 Living Waters conference leaves clergy refreshed and inspired EZEKIEL’S vision of living water flowing from event. The Rt Revd Oswald Swartz, the Bishop aims to help clergy to thrive by developing DESIGN the threshold of the temple (see Ezekiel of Kimberley and Kuruman, preached at the resilience they need for the challenges 47) was the theme for our recent clergy Wednesday’s Eucharist. of ministry in modern-day parishes. It points conference. Day two focused on courageous, with to an array of resources they can use to help His Eminence Archbishop Angaelos giving them live out their callings effectively. PRINT ORE THAN 320 CLERGY flocked a moving talk on the persecuted Church. Of the many sessions and workshops, the to the Hayes Conference Centre Archbishop Angaelos spoke about the witness Epiphany musicians were inundated with DISTRIBUTE Min Swanwick, Derbyshire, taking a of Christians in the Middle East, particularly clergy wanting to do their ‘sound portrait’ welcome break from busy parish life for some Coptic Orthodox Christians in Egypt. sessions. The group use improvised music as much-needed rest and refreshment. Following Moving into day three the theme of a means of creating a ‘sound portrait’ of the the theme of the three Cs (contemplative, compassion took centre stage with a moving people they are playing for. YOUR compassionate and courageous), the keynote speech from Loretta Minghella, the Clergy headed home after lunch on the event started with a day focusing on the First Church Estates Commissioner and former Thursday after one final worship session and contemplative with a keynote speech from Chief Executive of Christian Aid. the opportunity to hear reflections on the LEAFLETS the Revd Dr Rachel Mash, the environmental Part festival, part retreat, the conference conference from Rachel Mash. coordinator for the Anglican Church of included a host of workshops, giving clergy AND MORE Southern Africa. Rachel spoke on hearing the the chance to try their hand at photography, Photos: Jo Duckles voice of God in creation, particularly focusing circus skills, laughter yoga and learn more on the sacredness of water. about the practical implications of living out Inspiring materials from the Representatives of our link dioceses of the three Cs to become more Christ-like. conference available to download: • Design Växjö in Sweden, and Kimberley and Kuruman Our Flourishing in Ministry booklet was tinyurl.com/y7bj2ewe in South Africa, travelled to Swanwick for the launched during the conference. The booklet Our talented designers can give your business or event a great look. We can source images and proof read your print media. • Print

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or me, education is about more than just academia: of equal if not greater importance is the development of a child’s personal Fcapabilities and the growth of attributes for life. The question of coping in ‘the real world’ mustn’t be deferred until the security of school life ends and adulthood looms. Instead this question must direct and inform our teaching decisions from the earliest stages of a child’s time in education. In a society that is making such rapid technological advances it is no wonder that PopUk2016: Curly Clare leads the singing and dancing during the summer session in 2016. Photo Jo Duckles we feel an increasing sense of doubt about what knowledge and skills our children truly need to prepare them for a successful For the past 12 years I have been future. Our five-year-olds of today will welcomed into schools across the country step onto the brink of independence and to provide pupils with an inclusive social, adult life in 2028: What will the world emotional, spiritual and moral learning of work demand then? How will people experience through music and song. Its communicate and interact? What media success has been two-fold. Primarily, the pressures will young adults face? core values of the project: combining high Yet from this uncertainty comes status and high aspirations for personal even greater strength in the ‘timeless’ development has no doubt elevated attributes: integrity, humility, self- achievement. Yet music and song have awareness, resilience, respect and provided the key. Through this medium, compassion to name a few. And across my connections are made, self-expression teaching career I have learnt that just like is championed, minds are engaged and any skill these too must be taught, taught spirits are uplifted. What better grounds explicitly and taught well. My passion is for social, emotional, personal and moral music and this has become the vehicle development? by which I am able to engage children in And from this enabling foundation learning about such life skills. our song lyrics become so much more. They come to encourage reflection, begin Any teacher will know that school to stimulate questions and discussion, budgets are extremely tight. PopUK is help to broaden minds and promote a asking churches to consider sponsoring a positive mentality. The lyrics have been project at their primary school. There is: written carefully to maintain a Christian • A five-day project: during the first distinctiveness yet being able to be sung three days the whole school learns by children of all faiths or none. a set of punchy pop songs. Day 4 is Self-confidence, creativity and pride Children in costume celebrate Christmas with Pop UK in December 2017. Photo: Standlake CE Primary School. recording day. The following week evidently emerge and thrive through the a concert is held at the local church learning, rehearsal and performance of involving the entire school. Cost: communal song: it would be hard to beat It is hopeful for the future where the like the school would not have had £1,200 standing in a church packed with parents, well-rounded individuals can, with before. The children inevitably take that • A three-day project: teaching and relatives, staff and the wider community self-awareness and self-confidence, care excitement home and it is picked up on recording squeezed into 2 days, who have gathered to celebrate the CD beyond themselves and show respect and by families. By the time it comes to the concert at church. Cost: £695 the school has just produced, and to hear compassion to those around them. concert everyone is in eager anticipation • A one-day project for KS2 only - the children singing their hearts out… PopUK has visited Standlake CE of the event. There are not many school Concert at school - Cost: £395 ‘We can make a difference in this big Primary School in Oxfordshire twice, once events that get the entire community crazy world!’ knowing that back in school during the 2016 summer term and more together singing, having a little bop For further information contact: Andy they’ll be using the song as a springboard recently in the run-up to Christmas 2017. and then leaving the church with happy Silver - [email protected] 07980 to explore practical ways in which they Andrew Denham, the headteacher, smiles and a warm feeling in their tummy, 692688 really can make a difference to the lives of says: “PopUK makes a difference in every knowing they were part of something other people. way. It raises the energy, enthusiasm and very special. It’s such a fabulous feeling.” Watch a short video of Standlake Especially today, seeing children engagement throughout the community. CE Primary School’s summer 2016 actively learning clear Christian values – For a whole week the children are totally performance here: oxford.anglican. to value others, respect differences and motivated with the songs, the strong PopUK.org org/popuk/ celebrate diversity – is both inspiring and social and moral messages given and the hopeful. thought of building up to a concert of the Door, Summer 2018, page 12 Advertisement Feature

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et me tell you about the most challenging sermon I ever heard. I was 37 and a vicar. I had far too much to do. LAt the parish weekend away the preacher took some words from Jeremiah as his text. It was as though he was speaking straight to my heart. Jeremiah has an honest relationship with God. The context here is Jeremiah’s complaints. “Life is very difficult, God. Why don’t you do something?” God replies: “If you have raced with foot- runners and they have wearied you, how will you compete with horses? And if in a safe land you fall down, how will you fare in the thickets by the Jordan?” (Jeremiah 12.5). God is challenging Jeremiah. In my case: “If you find this one challenge difficult, how will you cope when the responsibilities become greater?” In the beginning, I found the words difficult to receive. Over time, I didn’t hear them as harsh but as gentle: an encouragement to see the wider horizon. I was overstretched by the way I was inhabiting my responsibilities. The sermon reminded me that there might be yet further challenges to come and they would probably be more difficult and require greater capacity and love and courage and Bishop Steven shows off his L plates as he meets school children at his inauguration in 2016. Photo: KT Bruce endurance. Part of my calling in watching over myself was to see my capacity for leadership grow so that I was ready and and then murder and division in his family We would grow into the jacket. There domains and see where the focus of your prepared for whatever might come. and civil war. Solomon begins well, but was no need to buy an expensive new one energy lies and especially which area you surrounds himself with people who lead every year. may be neglecting at the expense of the Leadership is difficult his heart away from God. Every transition in my leadership has others. We may be familiar with leadership felt like putting on a jacket which is several insights from the social sciences and Watch over your inner life sizes too big. Shadow side the business schools. We may not be as Leadership is very difficult and The temptation when we assume a There is, as we know, a shadow side to aware of the older and deeper tradition demanding. Acts 12-20 is an account new responsibility is always to exude leadership. As I have become more senior of leadership in communities. I use the of Paul and his companions planting confidence. I have found it is much better in leadership I have become more aware of picture of a deserted mine shaft, in the churches. At the end Paul makes a speech to put on my L Plates. the challenge to continue to grow in the shadow of the business school. It’s deep to the ministers and leaders. He says: exercise of leadership. I have become more and goes back more than 3,000 years. “Keep watch over yourselves and over Four domains aware of two groups of people who do not The Judaeo-Christian tradition is the all the flock of which the Holy Spirit has I’ve worked with the following model for do this. The first neglect to watch over longest continuous tradition of reflection made you overseers” (Acts 20.28). around 14 years now in three different themselves and so become overwhelmed on leadership in the history of human Paul’s words shape the tradition roles: by the storms and the crises of different culture. on leadership in the early Church. For 1. Watching over myself is the heart of kinds, in Gregory’s picture. The shaft is broad. At its base, in the hundreds of years, Pope Gregory’s Pastoral the Christian tradition of leadership: The second group are those who become scriptures, there is law here and story and Rule was at the foundation of reading and ensuring that the leadership I offer has so overwhelmed they step back and resign history. The tradition is built around the reflection on leadership. integrity and balance. themselves to inaction. truth that leadership is difficult. If we Here is one of Gregory’s metaphors: 2. The leadership I bring and the Those are the leaders addressed in God’s understand this then we have made a good influence I offer is put into effect in my words to Jeremiah with which I began. beginning. Unless we grasp this, we will “And indeed, what else is power in the post leadership of individuals and teams. Our calling is to live in good rhythms of continually struggle and fall. of superiority but a tempest of the mind, 3. The third is the leadership I offer prayer and rest and work and community. The insight is foundational to the wherein the ship of the heart is ever shaken across the organisation through the But our calling is not to quiet lives. Our stories of biblical leaders. We are not by hurricanes of thought is ceaselessly development of vision and strategy and calling is to love God’s world and seek presented with heroes but anti-heroes. driven to and fro until, by sudden good stewardship of resources. transformation and to turn the world Even Abraham and Moses are imperfect. excesses of words and deeds it founders on 4. The fourth is outward facing upside down as our forebears have done. Many of those who begin well are confronting rocks” (1.9) leadership. I am continually called For this we need to hear God’s call to corrupted and distorted by power and to look beyond the organisation I am adventurous and courageous leadership. responsibility. Saul attains the kingship. How not to be overwhelmed leading to the wider world and to God’s His insecurities are exposed. His court is When I was 11, I was offered a place at purposes within the world. Read a fuller version of this piece at corrupted by jealousy. No sooner has David grammar school. One of the challenges blogs.oxford.anglican.org become established in the kingdom than was the cost of the uniform. Our parents It is a helpful exercise to map the his desire for Bathsheba leads to adultery would buy a jacket several sizes too large. leadership you offer onto those four Comment15 letters 15 The first The Door it is a changing earthbound robots By Jo Duckles media channels in a way that is more joined-up? These are all questions I’ll be Re - the Door, May 2018 God in the Life of HE Door is changing. Following considering with the communications Professor Nigel Crook, artificial intelligence our recent survey into what team and others across the diocese. expert. you – our readers – want, the The reduced frequency will give me the Nigel doesn’t think robots will ever communications team is now chance to produce more online materials take over the world. He is of course talking Tconsidering the shape the diocesan – video and audio – as well as a better about 2nd generation robots, for God (Gen publication will take in the future. quality online diocesan newsfeed. It’s all 1: v27- 8), created the first Earthbound To give us the chance to really plan about changing with the times. There robots (humans) and gave them (us) just the best print product possible we are is still a need for print and we want to that authority. Salvation is the means of reducing the frequency of the Door for continue to deliver a high-quality print changing our robotic inner being, our the rest of 2018. After this, the next product. But it’s vital we stay abreast of soul. Our robotic frame is changed in that newspaper will be our autumn edition, out changes in society, with changes in ways moment, in the twinkling of an eye. We in September. people communicate and the rise of the then are no more robots, but become as our Don’t fear – reducing the frequency internet. (The internet is now widely- Creator, joint heirs with Christ, adopted into won’t give me time to slack off having used enough that the term ‘new media’ the family of God. produced 11 editions a year for the last is extremely old hat.) Even when I first Geoffrey Morgan, Hungerford. decade, (the Door was launched in 1989 started at the diocese, looking at Facebook and I took over as the editor in August during the working day would have been Lay ministers too 2008). The six-month, round-the-world considered decadent. Now monitoring and trip I was considering will have to wait keeping our social media feeds up to date I was pleased to see the feature on for a few more years. (Sigh.) Instead I’ll be is a major part of my job. changed drastically during my professional the Blessing of Oils service in Oxford. This using the time to think hard about those And for fans of the Prayer Diary and career. is a time when all of us, lay and ordained, survey results so that we can make sure Doorpost, these will continue. We will have It’s a fast-moving and evolving world are invited to renew our commitment to we give you the publication you want. an online events guide on the diocesan and I’m excited to see what shape our ministry, so it is a pity that the many photos There will no doubt still be quality website. The Prayer Diary will be available publication and our web presence takes in the Door only showed clergy. Many features, theological reflections and online with a PDF available. People without over the next couple of years. robed LLMs were present, but I saw no photography. But will it be a paper computers or printers can obtain a copy blue scarves in the pictures either. Many lay publication or a glossy magazine? Exactly by calling Ruth Hamilton-Jones on 01865 Jo Duckles is the Editor of the Door and a church ministers were there too, but you how many pages will it have? How will we 208225. press and media officer for the Diocese of would not know this from the pictures. Can link the content to our website and social The world of communications has Oxford. we have more inclusive photos next year? Maureen Lampard, All Saints, High Wycombe

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...continued from page 16 Nigel’s career has included working with victims of domestic violence, and with addicts. He now works with the elderly, particularly those needing end of life care. He began studying pioneer ministry with the Oxford-based Church Mission Society last year and has found the last liturgical year to be phenomenally rich. “I was reading the story of the burning bush the other morning. I could hardly read it, it’s all so fresh and relevant to my current context. It’s a remarkable place to be and I don’t know where I’ll end up when I finish. I may end up working for the Church. The vocational call is to be who we are created to be and that’s true for all of us looking forward.” Nigel had explored his vocation, getting as far as appointments with the ordination team in Stepney, but twice abandoned the process. “As a nurse I believe a diaconal ministry could be developed in the UK, a diagram of social support and the Church could step into that,” he says. He is excited about his role on the ministry team in Witney, working with the Revd Toby Wright as this year marks the 775th anniversary of the town’s Charter. “The missional opportunities are phenomenal,” says Nigel. “We are looking to deepen relationships in the town and have events that will see tens of thousands people coming to the Church.”

Editor: Jo Duckles Tel: 01865 208227 Deadline for Autumn 2018: Monday 20 August 2018 Email: [email protected] Published: 3rd September 2018 Audio version Editorial Assistant and distribution: Ruth Hamilton-Jones Tel: Sight impaired people can get a free audio 01865 208225 Email: [email protected] The Door is published by Oxford Diocesan Board of Finance (Diocesan Secretary Mrs Rosemary Pearce). The registered office is version of the Door. Call 01865 208227. Advertising: Glenda Charitos Tel: 01752 225623 Church House Oxford, Langford Locks, Kidlington, OX5 1GF. Email: [email protected] Tel: 01865 208200. While every care is taken to ensure the reliability Editorial Support Group Chair: The Revd Graham Sykes of our advertisements, their inclusion in the Door does not guarantee it or mean that they are endorsed by the Diocese of Oxford. Email: [email protected] 16 God in the life of… NURSE Nigel Chapelle tells JO DUCKLES Common Prayer and some good advice, and his story from growing up in a pub to I then took my brother’s ashes to India.” studying pioneer ministry. It was shortly after Edward’s death that Nigel had what he describes as a ‘road to rowing up in Coventry in the Damascus’ experience. “I was staying at 1960s, Nigel’s dad was a publican my brother’s house, praying in the evening and he never saw him enter a and heard someone call my name. I looked church, but his mum did have up and saw Jesus crucified. He came off Ga church background. Sunday School the cross and and came closer and closer provided a sanctuary from the busy home until I was enveloped. It was ecstatic, environment with its focus on hospitality. perfectly calm, perfect love. I have no idea Moving to Banbury in Oxfordshire in if it lasted two seconds or two hours.” the 1970s, Nigel’s Dad took on the White Lion Hotel. It was his school teachers that It was ecstatic, perfectly encouraged Nigel and his peers to attend Banbury Baptist Church. calm,“ perfect love.” “In Warwickshire I’d been in a middle of the road church and in Banbury I Nigel went to see a Mother Superior at was submerged in a charismatic, fairly a nearby convent, to seek advice. “She said evangelical churchmanship.” During his I wasn’t losing my mind and that it had all full immersion baptism service, the church the marks of a genuine revelation.” leader’s word had an impact on Nigel. “Just Nigel also sought wisdom from Father imagine that Jesus was God and what the Michael Hollings, a Roman Catholic priest cross means in the context that the man who he described as “luminous with who died on the cross was God,” were the wisdom.” Father Michael died in 1997 but minister’s words. But it was Nigel’s school was involved in television, wrote many music teacher who was one of the earliest books and worked for much of his life as a strong influences on his faith. “She really priest in London. communicated the love of God and and the The death of his parents was also nature of Christ to me,” says Nigel, who devastating for Nigel, but as a Eucharistic would later go and stay with that teacher, assistant he could at least administer Holy Jan and her husband Paul, when they Communion by extension during their moved to Uganda. last days. Beginning nurse training in “After the death of my father I felt like Whitechapel in 1983 and qualifying in the gates of hell had been unleashed on Nigel Chapelle. Photo: Jo Duckles 1987, Nigel lived in the multi-cultural me,” says Nigel, who sought help from a Bethnal Green for nearly 30 years. “I specialist in transactional analysis, a form and terrorised me was recognising that “What I experienced in South East Asia didn’t put down roots in a church and of counselling used to promote personal the dysfunction and vulnerability of those in Buddhist settings were some of the was partying too much,” he says. “I was growth and change. young men who blew up other people was most gracious and friendly expressions outside of the church but not outside of “I got through this period because of the same as my own. That was a shocking of godliness. I was interested in Eastern God’s family for a while,” he says. that transactional analysis and because of reflection. We so easily find scapegoats philosophy, practised meditation in a The murder of Nigel’s brother Edward, my early spiritual formation,” says Nigel, and transfer blame,” he says. Buddhist context and saw how God was at 20 years ago, was clearly a devastating whose church in London provided a venue By this time Nigel was licensed to work outside the Christian world. experience. “The most extraordinary for a Russian Orthodox congregation. “I preach in Great Tew, in West Oxfordshire. “I recognised there was still something thing was that the last time I saw him was became interested in Orthodoxy, soaking “I was preaching the following Sunday and quintessential in the Christian message of three months earlier and he predicted his in the liturgy and using their services as didn’t know what I was going to say. It was universal importance but didn’t know what death. After the verdict was delivered in an opportunity for prolonged prayer.” on Isaiah, where it talks about turning that was.” However, Nigel recognised that court I was the only member of my family Another pivotal moment came during spears into plough shares,” he says. in those Eastern philosophies there still not baying for blood. the time of the July 7 bombings in 2007, It was then that Nigel decided it was seemed to be a focus on making sacrificial “Edward had been following a Hindu when Nigel was praying in Southwark time to sell his flat and spent three years offerings, on good and bad luck, and on guru and wanted a Hindu cremation,” he Cathedral. “A man came in screaming travelling, visiting South East Asia, karma, where Christianity relies on grace. says. “My parish priest in Bethnal Green about bombings over the city. Afterwards Australia, Spain and France. was brilliant, and gave me a Book of I spent all day crying. What had terrified …continued on page 15

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Hope is at a Premium

By the REVD GRAHAM SYKES

ope is at a premium. This century has seen the fracturing of a former sense of security. Old orders fall away daily. Hope Hgenerated by the end of the Cold War has evaporated. Forces of darkness and war loom over every continent. Poverty caused by multiple wars, terrorism, systemic corruption and long term economic mismanagement on a global scale has meant that millions of displaced people hopelessly sojourn in lands not their own. Global government agendas, even the United Nations, offer no real solutions to human turmoil and suffering. In the UK confidence is eroded in every single one of our great national institutions, whether it be because of safeguarding, austerity or dishonesty about policies. The Church of England is not exempt as we face the revelation of the sins of past and present. Hope is corroded on all sides. Hope is at a premium in the work of a hospice chaplain, daily facing the deep crisis of hope in patients’ families and visitors. It is at a premium among staff employed by the NHS. Many wonder how chaplains not only survive but love the job. This is where Bishop Steven’s three Cs: contemplative, compassionate and courageous are helpful. They are a tool not only to become more Christ-like but also to become a better disciple and a more effective minister. They can apply in parish, work place or place of leisure. All are places where suffering is experienced and the existential questions of life surface. seek the ‘Good News’ in Photo: Shutterstock every“ situation.” born out of the hopelessness and despair Compassion is when despair is trumped of Good Friday exploding into the light of by hope born out of contemplation When hope is at a premium the Resurrection of Easter Day. Disciples that knows that God does not will this God’s love conquers all contemplation on the situation, on are equipped by hope in every situation. suffering but that he feels it. Becoming suffering“ and death.” scripture and, most importantly, on the more Christ-like is about seeing, feeling, nature of God is absolutely essential. A God never gives up on experiencing and dwelling in the place as good methodology is to seek the ‘Good God does. I am mystified by the response of many News’ in every situation. Many things are the“ world. The calling of Contemplation and compassion breed of the people I have helped through my coming to light that have been for too long disciples is to go and do the courage not to rush in with words but work. By dwelling with them and speaking hidden in darkness. Know the truth and it to sit and dwell, to listen and absorb, to out of contemplation just a few words will set you free. Revelation of corruption likewise.” be undefended in whatever response a have made an enormous difference to in all its forms is good news. Though suffering person may throw at you. To live them and restored hope. My theory is painful to live with it gives us a chance to Compassion is born out of the hope with anger, frustration, tears and pain that the very process of a contemplative, address it. Jesus was born into a hopeless that is sustained, regenerated and grown filled silence. The sin of Job’s comforters compassionate, courageous presence with situation under Roman occupation through contemplation. Compassion is that their lack of contemplation left them brings them a glimpse of the love of and oppression. His three years of enables disciples to absorb and hold them compassionless and wanting to God. That is ‘Good News’ when hope is at public ministry was spent reaching despair without denial or platitudinous fix the unfixable. They missed two deep a premium. out to hopeless people, healing them, attempts to negate it. Compassion sits mysteries: that the existence of freedom rehabilitating them into the family of God with suffering and feels it, contemplates in the world means that suffering happens The Revd Graham Sykes is a team chaplain and restoring hope. God never gives up on it and wants to fix it but feels the pain of and that God’s love conquers all suffering at the Oxford University Hospitals NHS the world. The calling of disciples is to go knowing it can’t be done – not by human and death. Foundation Trust. and do likewise. Hope is a gift from God beings anyway. There is no quick fix. Advertising June prayer diary The following is for guidance only; please feel free to adapt to local conditions and, if you wish, produce your own deanery prayer diaries.

Our purpose is to create a caring, and Janet Northing. That God will build large parish of around 50,000 people. sustainable and growing Christian and equip his church and that through Christ the Sower Ecumenical Primary presence in every part of the Diocese the ministry of Stony Stratford with School. of Oxford. Calverton, Christ will be made known within the parish. Give thanks for the FRIDAY 8 Wolverton: Gill Barrow-Jones new homes in the parish and pray that and Ann Kember. For Tuesday Time, our The Lord is near. Do not worry about as residents settle in the Lord will draw ministry with children and families. anything, but in everything by prayer them to himself and bless them. St Mary For our continuing work with Saturday and supplication with thanksgiving let and St Giles School, Stony Stratford. Breakfast and food bank. your requests be made known to God. TUESDAY 5 Walton, Milton Keynes: SATURDAY 9 Woughton: Ian Herbert, Philippians 4: 5–6 Matt Trendall, Keith Straughan and Ruth Paul Norris and Heather Pollard. For Maxey. For our ministry to the large new the retired clergy and the lay ministers Pray to the Father through the Son in Eagle Farm development in Wavendon. from our four denominations who give the power of the Spirit for: For the continuing growth of the Go4th their time and use their gifts to lead outreach project at All Saints; that it will worship and support the ministry team FRIDAY 1 Milton Keynes Mission engage with the local community. For the and congregations; give thanks for their Partnership: John Robertson, Ann successful appointment of a minister for commitment and generosity. For the Holy Harris, Katharine Crowsley and Stephen Christ the King Community Church. St Spirit’s guidance as our congregations and Norrish. For guidance for the Celebrate Mary’s Primary School, Wavendon. church councils develop and implement and Bless Milton Keynes initiative so their vision statements and mission that we can make a long term sustainable WEDNESDAY 6 Water Eaton: Catherine plans within the overall context of the difference to both the church and the Butt. For the ministry of Crosslinks, the ecumenical partnership. city. For the forthcoming prayer breakfast umbrella charity for community projects with civic leaders, a new initiative being delivered by St Frideswide’s and Spurgeon’s MONDAY 11 Claydon Deanery: David sponsored across the ecumenical diversity Baptist Church, as they engage with Meakin, Peter Hill and Ben Whitaker. For of the city. local people in lots of different ways. For the ongoing search for a Lay Chair. That wisdom and an awareness of God’s timing we might identify and support together a SATURDAY 2 Milton Keynes Christian as we discern together God’s vision for St deanery project. Foundation: Stephen Norrish. For young Frideswide’s over the coming years. adults with whom we work, with their TUESDAY 12 Schorne: David Meakin, many barriers to achieving independence: THURSDAY 7 Watling Valley, Mary Cruddas, Stephen Flashman, Janet Blessed is the man mental well-being; learning difficulties; Milton Keynes: Michael Morris, Bayly and Jacqueline Dove. That we who walks not in the housing problems and missed education. Sharon Grenham-Thompson, Adedayo may find the right replacement for the For those within our ‘successful economy’, Adebiyi, Derek Martin, Ben Haslam and outgoing Chair of the team, as we wish counsel of the wicked, the 25 per cent of Milton Keynes’ children Barry Lotz. Give thanks for the close him well in his new life in Devon. For living in what the Government describes relationship we have with most of the the preparations being made to launch nor stands in the way as poor households. 20 schools we have in the parish; for the a dementia café, Zest, later in the year. of sinners, nor sits in continuing development of this work. North Marston Primary School, Quainton MONDAY 4 Stony Stratford with For a strengthening of our lay leaders as School, Waddesdon Church of England the seat of scoffers; but Calverton: Ross Northing, Tunji Adebiyi we seek to grow more teams to serve this School and Westcott School. his delight is in the law of the Lord, and on his law he meditates day and night. He is like a tree planted by streams of water that yields its fruit in its season, and its leaf does not wither. In all that he does, he prospers. The wicked are not so, but are like chaff that the wind drives away. Therefore the wicked will not stand in the judgment, nor sinners The River Thames, between Reading and Sonning. 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Bishop Andrew confirming at Queen Anne’s School, Caversham. Coming and Goings WEDNESDAY 13 The Claydons and The Revd Canon John Salter, Vicar of Patrick Hobson; The Revd Anne Swan: David Hiscock and Angela Mann. Wantage, is retiring; The Revd Alison Heywood; The Revd Christopher For Revd Wendy Callan, former team Finch, Vicar of High Wycombe, has Murray; The Revd Jan Henderson; vicar, who had to take early retirement retired; The Revd Louise Brown, Vicar The Revd Michael Johnson; The Revd last year because of ill health, and for the of All Saints, Dedworth, has retired; The David West; The Revd Jane Nash; The process of appointing her successor. For our Revd Tracey Williams has resigned Revd Andrew Symes; The Revd Tracey communities greatly affected by plans for from the post of Associate Minister, Williams. HS2, especially in the parishes of Chetwode, Sunninghill and South Ascot; The Revd Twyford and The Claydons, and for the Kenneth Campbell has been appointed We recall with sadness the death of The 10 Meeting Rooms many residents whose lives have already Rector of Appleton with Besselsleigh. Revd Roger Blankley. Roger died in 31 Beds been devastated. Marsh Gibbon School, East February. Chapel and Oratory Claydon School and Twyford School. The following have been given 01483 766498 permission to officiate: The Revd Canon www.stcolumbashouse.org.uk THURSDAY 14 Winslow with Great [email protected] Horwood and Addington: Andrew Lightbown. For our summer choral WEDNESDAY 20 St Peter, Earley: Philip Jones, Heather Harper, Dan Bright, Registered charity in England and Wales No. 240675 evensong with guest preachers Joanna Hobday, Hannah Hobday and Elaine Watts. Philip Giddings, Christine Ledger, John Collicutt, Alan Wilson and Michael For our new curate, Phil Price, and his Ledger, Dennis Parker and Fiona Pollard. Sadgrove. For a deepening of prayer life family as they join the parish this month. For the equipping of the congregations The Hospital of St Cross across the benefice. Winslow Combined For staff and pupils of our church school at Greyfriars and New Hope through our & Almshouse of Noble Poverty School and Great Horwood Combined as the Multi-Academy Trust continues to preaching and teaching, pastoral work, ‘England’s Oldest Almshouse’ School. develop. St Peter’s Primary School. small groups and theological studies. For the congregations of Greyfriars and New Vacancies for Brothers FRIDAY 15 Reading Deanery: Graeme THURSDAY 21 Trinity, Earley: Hope to be bold and courageous in the way Fancourt, Mark Hinckley, Neil Warwick, Jonathan Salmon, Ann Baker and Sam they share their faith with those they meet The Hospital, founded in 1132, Jo Williams, David Walker and Alison Ruck. For our ministry to the community. through school, university, work and the is home to 25 retired Johnson. For the deanery as we seek to find places where we live. laymen (‘Brothers’) and ways to resource mission, especially in areas FRIDAY 22 St Barnabas, Emmer applications are welcomed. of new housing. For our Try Something New Derek A registered Charity with a Green with Caversham Park: WEDNESDAY 27 Holy Trinity, Reading: Christian foundation, the initiatives as parishes engage in innovative Chandler. For the continuing growth of lay Martyn Griffiths and Andrew Day. For Hospital is situated a mile ways to reach people they have previously leadership in both churches. For increasing this small inner city congregation looking south of Winchester. Each struggled to connect with. engagement between the churches and forward to the future in faith and hope. For Brother lives independently the communities they serve. For vision for the Romanian Orthodox congregation who and occupies a flat which SATURDAY 16 St Andrew, Caversham: serving the benefice for the future. share our building and for Father John, he furnishes himself. Nigel Jones. For an end to arguments about their priest. Further information and an the new school site. For a greater sense that SATURDAY 23 Loddon Reach: Paul application form are obtainable from: St Andrew’s Church is for the whole parish. Willis, David Little, Chris Leslie, Cath THURSDAY 28 St Agnes with St Paul, Clerk to the Trustees Spence and Michael Dexter-Elisha. For the Reading and St Barnabas: Vernon Orr, Hospital of St Cross MONDAY 18 Caversham Thameside further development of our benefice wide Leon Collyer, Susan Cady, Indy Nottage, Winchester, SO23 9SD and Mapledurham: Mike Smith, Penny Bridge Building plans (otherwise known Suzanne Knight, Richard Christopher and Tel: 01962 878218 Cuthbert, Rachel Ross Smith, Judith as mission), as we raise God consciousness Anika Parker. For the successful launch E-mail: [email protected] www.hospitalofstcross.co.uk Ryder and Philip Blackburn. For our three within our rapidly expanding community. of the next phase of the parish Apostolic Registered Charity No.202751 churches, St Margaret’s, St John’s and St For an increasing, all-encompassing Strategic Plan, which includes prayer Peter’s, as we come to the end of the taught spiritual awareness of God’s presence, evangelism. For God’s person to take over part of Partnership for Missional Church and a fuller appreciation of the inclusive from Vernon Orr when he leaves towards and we seek a renewed vision as a parish impetus of God’s wisdom. Grazeley the end of this year, after 17 years. COMMUNION LINEN following where God is leading us. For St Primary School and St Mary’s, Shinfield John’s Church during a time of change and Junior School. FRIDAY 29 St Giles, Reading: David The finest purificators, palls, lavabo renewal, as it begins Café Church and a new Harris, Andrew Day, Stephen Cousins, towels, corporals – at affordable prices service using contemporary worship: that MONDAY 25 Christ Church, Reading: David Smith and Chris Kinch. For our Old people might be excited and not threatened. Peter Day and Elizabeth Ratcliffe. For Wine Philosophical Dinner Party initiative Made by Zimbabwe Mothers’ Union Liz, our curate, and her family as she for university students. For our new youth In support of its outreach work in TUESDAY 19 St Nicolas, Earley: Neil prepares to move on to the next stage of choral scholarship programme. the Anglican church there. Warwick, Libby Newman, Benjamin her ministry. For continued growth and MATABELELAND CHURCH LINENS Kautzer and Emma Major. For our brand development in our ministry and mission SATURDAY 30 St John the Evangelist, 11 Margetts Close,Kenilworth,CV8 1EN new St Nicolas Centre to be a go-to place as an inclusive church. New Christ Church Reading: Vincent Gardner, Gary Collins, Email: [email protected] for the whole community. That the centre, Primary School. Hamish Bruce, Richard Croft and Jeremy with worship space and community space Thake. St John’s Primary School. flowing into one another, may help people TUESDAY 26 Greyfriars, Reading: to know that God is with them. David Walker, Joy Atkins, Sarah Eden- Our Bishops on Links The Prayer Diary Sundays continues SUNDAY 3 Bishop Colin confirming in Prayers from Christian Concern for One AS our diocesan publication changes, Thame. World: the Prayer Diary will no longer be www.ccow.org.uk/weekly-prayer- printed in the Door. It will continue to SUNDAY 10 Bishop Andrew confirming email appear on the diocesan website: oxford. Blessed are at St Andrew’s, Sonning and Greyfriars, anglican.org/prayer-diary. If you do Reading. Topical prayers from the Church of not have access to a computer or printer the peacemakers, England: and would like a printed version, please for they will SUNDAY 17 Bishop Colin confirming at www.churchofengland.org/prayer- contact Ruth Hamilton-Jones (ruth. Cogges and Chipping Norton. worship/topical-prayers.aspx [email protected]. be called org or 01865 208225). SUNDAY 24 Bishop Colin confirming at children of God. Christ Church, Abingdon. Matt 5:9 Advertising thedoorpost Events in June

The Doorpost is a free service for churches to advertise their events. Doorpost is to be replaced by an online events guide at www.oxford.anglican.org/churchevents. Please email details of events to ruth.hamilton- PASTORAL ASSISTANTS [email protected] or post them to Ruth Hamilton-Jones, Church House Oxford, Langfor d Locks, The Society of the Sacred Mission (SSM) is a religious order in the Church Kidlington, Oxon OX5 1GF. of England. SATURDAY 2 JUNE Based in Milton Keynes, the religious community at St Michael’s Priory has a life centered on daily Eucharist and prayer. Our community life Chinnor: Start of weekend is inclusive, and our mission and ministry with local churches and other Flower and Crafts Festival with organisations are central to the daily life of the Priory. the theme ‘What’s on TV?’ Building on the success of our previous years, SSM is seeking to recruit St Andrew’s Church, 1-6pm. Pastoral Assistants (PA) to help with the life and mission of the Priory. We Flowers will depict a very encourage applications from those who might be interested in religious varied selection of television life, ordained or lay ministry, or who simply wish to learn by sharing the programmes from current to old life of the community. We provide a stipend, good accommodation, meals favourites, including children’s and will support relevant education and training. programmes. In addition the St Michael’s Priory, The Well, church will be supporting the Newport Road, Willen, Milton Keynes, MK15 9AA. Chinnor Open Gardens and artists Telephone 01908 241974, email [email protected] and crafters will share their skills. Cream Teas.

Witney: The Lower Windrush Choral Society perform Handel’s Judas Maccabaeus at the Methodist Church, 40 High St, www.stmichaelspriory.org.uk • ssm-europe.org Three members of the Moonrakers band (www.moonrakers.net). Moonrakers perform in OX28 6HG, 7pm. Tickets £12 Prestwood on 8 June. (£13 on the door), under 18s free, from St Andrew’s Bookshop, High Street, Witney. Also available Rachmaninov’s Second Piano Kidlington: Giving Conference online at www.ticketsource.co.uk/ Concerto in aid of The Porch. at Church House Oxford, lowerwindrush (small booking Tingewick Hall, John Radcliffe Langford Locks, OX5 1GF, fee applies). Enquiries to 01865 Hospital, 7.45pm. Tickets £10 9.00am – 12.30pm. Excellent 300625. (£8 concessions, under 16 free) speakers, sessions on legacy available from The Porch or the giving, capital appeals, the Parish SUNDAY 3 JUNE Cairns Library at the JR Hospital Giving Scheme, Digital Giving and also on the door. For booking and Giving and Young People. West Challow: Gardens Open information ring 01865 728545 or For further information contact Sunday, 2.30–5pm in aid of St email [email protected] Julie Jones, julie.jones@oxford. Laurence Church. Teas at Manor anglican.org or 01865 208200. Farm. Adults £5, children free. SATURDAY 16 JUNE Free tickets from Eventbrite.co.uk.

MONDAY 4 JUNE Winslow: Sing to the Lord a New SUNDAY 24 JUNE Song: Introducing Psalms for the ST. MARY’S CONVENT WANTAGE Reading: Café Théologique: Common Era. Part of St Laurence Newton Longville: The five Creativity, Spirituality and Festival Week (9–17 June), churches of the benefice invite St Mary’s Convent offers a variety of facilities and fl exible Mental Health. The speaker is 9.45am–4.15pm. For more details you to 24 hours of prayer at the accommodation for Group Quiet Days and Group Retreats. Revd Dr Joanna Collicutt, Karl see psalmsforthecommonera.com. Free Church, MK17 0AX, starting Also, Conference facilities and private stays. Jaspers Lecturer, Psychology and at 7pm. Explore different ways of Everyone is welcome at the Eucharist and Daily offi ce in Spirituality. Zero Degrees Bar Wantage: Academy Brass Concert praying. Drop in and stay as long St Mary Magdalene’s Chapel. (Bridge Street RG1 2LR), 7.30pm. at St Michael and All Angels’ as you want. 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