Rabbi Dr. Janet B. Liss Student Cantor Jenna Mcmillan
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1 TempleTemple FamilyFamily NewsNews North Country Reform Temple ~ Ner Tamid Rabbi Dr. Janet B. Liss Student Cantor Jenna McMillan Phone: (516) 671-4760 • Fax: (516) 676-9180 • E-mail: [email protected] • Web: www.ncrt.org November/December 2019 Cheshvan/Kislev/Tevet 5780 2 A Message From Our Rabbi I like this time of year when we see the changes in the color of the leaves, the weather cooling down and we look forward to getting together with our families for Thanksgiving and the winter holidays. Each week in our Shabbat Services, we recite a prayer of Thanksgiving to God. The Modim prayer acknowledges the role of God in our lives, morning, noon and night, and by recit- ing this prayer, we acknowledge God and say thank you for all we have in our lives. For those of us who are regular Shabbat attenders, this is part of our weekly routine. How many of us take the time to pause, think about all we have that fulfills us and makes living worthwhile and say thank you? On Shabbat, the liturgy tells us that we do not seek to acquire or to gain, we pause to count our blessings. Many of our congregants come to be with us only on the holidays and an occasional Shabbat. Shabbat Services are so much less formal than the High Holidays and they can pro- vide you with an opportunity to take a step back from the rest of the week. You can put your busy lives and smartphones down for an hour or so and relax. I invite you to join us if you can. Make a commitment to coming even once a month and experience our Shabbat warmth and prayer as a community. So the concept of saying Thank You for Jews does not happen only once a year. The concept of getting together with family does not happen just once a year. Shabbat was created thousands of years ago to fulfill those purposes. The American tradition of coming together to celebrate Thanksgiving; a harvest holiday based on the fall holiday of Sukkot is a time when we do get together for family time, feasting, annual traditions, football watching, shopping and the like. We also have a religious component to the holiday. The Annual Interfaith Thanksgiving Service will be hosted at NCRT on November 24th at 7 p.m. We welcome clergy from the North Shore area and their congregants to this annual event. Please come. Please bring food with you for the I.N.N. and donations collected during the service go to the North Shore Shelter pro- gram. Please join us as we welcome the wider Glen Cove community into our congregation. There are a number of special programs coming up including a special speaker on No- vember 15th Shabbat Services where we will observe Kristallnacht, the Night of the Broken Glass, commemorating the beginning of the Holocaust in 1938. Ruth DeBeer will be speaking about her experiences growing up in Tost, Germany. The Service begins at 7:00. Join us for an adult ed program, a social event, a movie night, a Havdalah program, Shabbat Services, the Interfaith Thanksgiving Service, the Shabbat Hanukkah program, etc. all programs you will hear more about as we get closer to the dates. Looking forward to seeing you and celebrating with you. Rabbi Dr. Janet B. Liss 3 Student Cantor Jenna McMillan Shalom NCRT! “Hinei Mah Tov Umah naim shevet achim gam yachad! How good it is, How sweet it is, to be together on this day!” I can’t help but to think of the words of Elana Arian’s version of Hinei Mah Tov coming off of a wonderful and meaningful High Holy Day season at North Country Reform Temple. This time of year is usually spent in our various communities that we choose to dwell in, whether it be having dinner with our families on Erev Rosh Hashanah, spending time with friends in the sukkah, or coming to synagogue and enjoying a Shabbat as a community. I cherish all of the communities that I am a part of, and lately I have been especially thinking about the kehillah kedoshah, or holy community that we have created at NCRT in these past weeks of Rosh Hashanah, Yom Kippur, Sukkot, and Simchat Torah. What we have here at NCRT is truly special, and every person that chooses to come and be a part of it is crucial and important to the whole. I also think about our concept of L’dor V’dor, passing Judaism from generation to generation, and how the future of this community depends on it as I looked into the community at our children’s services. There were so many new, young families that it gives me hope and promise for the future of our religion. May we be able to focus on building our community, strengthening and fortifying it in order to help our tradition live on for generations to come. Student Cantor Jenna McMillan 4 5 Scenes from our beautiful & inspiring High Holiday Services….. Our wonderful choir, in perfect harmony with the magnificent voice of Cantor Jenna and led by our musical director, Zvi Klein. Shofar? So good! The Fierstein women demonstrate how it’s done L’Dor V’Dor!! And thanks to Lori Kotkin for creating another scrumptious Break the Fast! 6 EREV ROSH HASHANAH SERMON by Rabbi Dr. Janet B. Liss On the High Holidays, we are called to take a Chesbon Hanefesh, a spiritual accounting of our souls by reviewing the past year, and seriously considering how we want to move forward differently in the New Year. When I look back at what has hap- pened in America in the last year, it makes me want to cry. I cannot believe there were two synagogue shootings: at the Tree of Life Synagogue in Pittsburgh and in the Poway Chabad synagogue. During the Civil Rights Movement era, The Temple in Atlanta was bombed, other southern congregations found faulty bombs before they were detonated and others were threatened. No one was in the synagogue when it was bombed. For years, we have witnessed the horrors of mass shootings in churches, black churches, in mosques and in Sheikh Temples. When will we see any evidence that anyone with the power to stop this cares? We had a couple who started coming to Shabbat Services regularly last fall and making friends. They were invited to a Bat Mitzvah here, and then, after the Pittsburgh shooting they disappeared. I called them a few weeks later and told them we missed seeing them. I asked why they stopped coming. Their answer was they were afraid to come back after the shooting. I explained that while I understood their fear, I thought that we were safe at NCRT. Their response saddens me. It saddens me that we have mass shooting after mass shooting in America and our government, who is elected to protect us, sits on the sidelines and does nothing. In August, Grace and I went to San Miguel De Allende, Mexico and met the Kolberts there. Ana’s extended family was spending a week together leading up to their nephew’s wedding. Ana’s family comes from Quarez, Mexico; the town that bor- ders El Paso, Texas. The Walmart shooting took place 2 days after the wedding. We spent a week getting to know Ana’s family. Hearing that yet another mass shooting took place right after meeting people from Quarez, people who routinely cross the border to go shopping, personalized that shooting for me. Those victims could have just as easily been Ana’s family or their friends. We read in the beginning of the Book of Deuteronomy after the Children of Israel had been wandering for 38 years that Moses explains to them that because of the rebel- lious reaction of their fathers, when 38 years earlier the spies returned from scouting the 7 land and reported that giants inhabited Canaan, their fathers complained that they wanted to go back to Egypt. Their punishment was their generation was forbid- den entry to the Promised Land. Their children were promised entry in the Land of Israel if they did not follow in their fathers’ footsteps and rebel against God. Their fa- thers forfeited their right to enter Israel because of their lack of faith in God. The new generation only had to learn the lesson of history as they stood on Israel’s threshold. Think about this: the old generation forfeited their right to enter Israel because of their actions and the new generation, only had to learn the lesson of history to be able to reap the benefits of a bright future. I have been thinking a lot about this message after reviewing this past year in America. How many generations of American children have been raised with the knowledge of mass shootings in this country? What was the greatest danger you faced when you went to school as a child? I remember getting in trouble if you forgot your homework or were caught chewing gum. Being afraid to go to school, having to pass through security apparatus, buying and owning bullet proof backpacks were some- thing we could have never imagined. So today I wonder, how many more years will have to pass until some lucky generation reaps the benefits of what we are experienc- ing today because gun violence will one day be a few dark pages in American history books. In the Holiness Code, chanted beautifully by our past president, Paula Frome, every Yom Kippur afternoon, we read about the concept of justice.