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A guide to building your ultimate professional .

By Tory Hoen & Sarah LaFleur You can have anything you want in life if you for it.

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4 8 Introduction

14 Philosophy: Create Your Uniform In which you’ll learn the secret of efficient dressing.

22 Step 1. Envision Your Perfect In which you’ll set the mood for your professional style.

28 Step 2. Organize & Edit In which you’ll tame the beast that is your current closet.

40 Step 3. Plan & Budget In which you’ll map out your future.

50 Step 4. Invest & Build In which you’ll learn how to shop with purpose.

76 On the Job In which you’ll learn to avoid faux pas and look impeccable every day.

84 A First Job Checklist In which you’ll ensure that your look is on point before you get to work. — A Guide to Building Your Ultimate Professional Uniform Ultimate Professional Your Guide to Building A — Wear to Work Wear

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8 8 9 Let’s be clear: isn’t everything. Your intelligence, Hey, you. your skills, your grit—these are the things that determine the course of your career. But it doesn’t hurt to be well-clad when you’re taking over the world. No matter what your office , we firmly believe that thoughtful self-presentation Yes, you— is a crucial (and creative) tool in your arsenal. A great outfit can set the tone for your day, and when you’re confident that you look impeccable, you can turn your attention to what really matters: your work. In this guide, we’ll explore with the job. the big questions: How do you want to look and feel at work? What message do you want your clothing to convey? How can you achieve a look that reinforces your professional identity? And the little questions: Does this work with this ? What the heck does “” really mean? How much should I spend on work clothes? Do this dress fit me right? What should I wear today, and how is it already 8:30?!?! We wrote this guide for all women of purpose. Like you, we know how hard it can be to shop for work and to balance personal style with the sartorial expectations of the workplace. But can we let you in on a secret? It doesn’t have to be so hard. In fact, it should be a pleasure to develop and pursue your own weekday style. So let’s create a new paradigm for how professional women think about their clothes. After all, you — A Guide to Building Your Ultimate Professional Uniform Ultimate Professional Your Guide to Building A — likely spend most of your waking hours at the office, so your professional style is your style. Embrace it, love it, and by all Wear to Work Wear means, work it. 10 11 In these pages, we give you a no-nonsense four-step system for cultivating a career-making wardrobe.

In Step 1, you’ll envision and define your ideal closet. In Step 2, we’ll help you make sense of your current work wardrobe and make room for new office-ready pieces. In Step 3, we’ll map out a plan for filling up your hangers based on what you need and how much you want to spend. In Step 4, we’ll divulge our go-to items, and we’ll coach you on how to assess quality and make savvy shopping decisions. From there, we’ll steer you around potential On the Job pitfalls. And for those just entering the workforce, our First Job Checklist will help you prep with confidence.

By the time you put this book down, you’ll understand the power of self-presentation, and you’ll know exactly how to build and maintain your ultimate work wardrobe. You’ll even be excited about the process—we promise. But first, let’s get philosophical. — A Guide to Building Your Ultimate Professional Uniform Ultimate Professional Your Guide to Building A — Wear to Work Wear

12 13 PHILOSOPHY: CREATE YOUR UNIFORM

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14 15 Learn the secret to efficient dressing (no matter what your style). What do Christine Lagarde, Steve Jobs, Vera Wang, Barack Obama, Get a and Carolina Herrera all have in common? Yes, they’re successful professionals who all reached the pinnacle of their respective fields. But more specifically: They did so wearing their signature “.” These uniforms vary from one to the next: Christine’s is a crisp dress and a ; Steve’s was his famous black-turtleneck-and-dad- combo; Vera’s is head-to-toe black; Barack’s is gray or navy ; uniform. and Carolina’s is an impeccable white shirt and full skirt with heels. They don’t look like each other, but they each look unapologetically like themselves. Why do they dress this way? Because they’re busy, and consistency creates efficiency. In a 2012 Vanity Fair article by Michael Lewis, then-president Obama said: “You’ll see I wear only gray or blue suits. I’m trying to pare down decisions. I don’t want to make decisions about what I’m eating or wearing. Because I have too many other decisions to make.” Guess who else has too many decisions to make? You! Save your mental energy for the important stuff, and do yourself a favor:

Of course, adopting a uniform is more straightforward for men. Gray or navy ? Jeans or… jeans? There are only so many combinations to consider, and in many industries, most men effectively all wear the same thing. Women face a much more complicated sartorial puzzle. Often, there is no clear precedent for how we should dress (especially if we work in a male-dominated environment). And while our array of options might feel like freedom of choice, it’s also a recipe for ongoing confusion and

— A Guide to Building Your Ultimate Professional Uniform Ultimate Professional Your Guide to Building A — early-morning angst. Our solution? Take a cue from Christine, Steve, Vera, Barack, and Caroline:

Wear to Work Wear Find your uniform and commit to it.

16 17 A uniform? That sounds oppressive!

Fair point. Back in the ’70s and ’80s when women were fighting to get a foothold in the corporate world, many of them adopted what was the equivalent of a feminized men’s suit. This is not what we’re advocating when we say you should create your own uniform; nor are we suggesting that you break out the old prep-school kilt. An effective uniform is merely a means of streamlining your many options and refining your style story, and there’s scientific research that explains why this is a smart strategy. Have you heard of the chocolate experiment? In 2000, psychologists Sheena Iyengar and Mark Lepper randomized individuals into two groups: The first could choose from six types of chocolate, while the second could choose from 30. In , those with 30 choices ended up being less satisfied with their decisions than those who only had six options. Whether it’s chocolate or pencil , too much choice leads to stress.

Everyone’s doing it.

We already mentioned some noteworthy uniform-wearers, but there are many more. Even some of fashion’s most powerful figures—people who could wear anything—elect to keep their looks consistent. Karl Lagerfeld always wore a black suit with his signature wide tie, fingerless gloves, and black . Anna Wintour is most often seen in an elegant shift dress with a classic or . Michael Kors is eternally in a black crewneck T-shirt, and Tom Ford is always in a sharp black suit. These folks don’t dress this way by chance. They do so to minimize decision-making so they can get to work. You should too. — A Guide to Building Your Ultimate Professional Uniform Ultimate Professional Your Guide to Building A — Wear to Work Wear

18 19 Shop with your head, not with your heart.

We know, we know. It sounds cold, but trust us, your life will be immeasurably easier if you have a closetful of useful items, rather than drawers full of never-worn “going-out tops.” In this guide, we’ll help you pinpoint exactly what you need to succeed. No more, no less—no matter what your dress code. The key to building your uniform is clear-headed, laser-focused, hyper-calculated decision- making. Learn to plan ahead; do not buy on impulse or at the last- minute.

But the heart wants what it wants!

Indeed it does. So let’s compromise: You can indulge your heart when you shop for off-duty clothes—just not when you’re shopping for work.

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Wear to Work Wear started. 20 21 STEP 1 — ENVISION YOUR PERFECT WARDROBE

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22 23 “I have nothing to wear.” It’s time Can we please do away with this phrase, once and for all? We utter these words way too often, when what we really mean is: “I have nothing I want to wear.” When it comes to dressing for work, the feeling grows exponentially, as does the angst that goes along with it. Don’t waste another minute feeling this way. Instead, resolve to to show eliminate stress by simplifying and streamlining your decision-making process. The first step is to envision a closet that has everything you need, and your closet nothing you don’t. Get inspired.

Yes, you’ll need to be clear-eyed and decisive in order to create the perfect work wardrobe. But even so, there is room to be yourself and who’s boss. carve out your own professional persona.

Create a Mood Board! Before you edit your closet or even think about going shopping, let your imagination run wild. Bust out the glue stick and create a mood board that taps into your professional personality and look (or create a digital version on Pinterest or Tumblr). As you collect ideas, notice which images inspire you: Claire Underwood? Olivia Pope? A wild-eyed fox? Scandinavian architecture? Nothing is off limits. — A Guide to Building Your Ultimate Professional Uniform Ultimate Professional Your Guide to Building A — Wear to Work Wear

24 25 Describing your style. Unfussy Confident Authoritative Now that you’ve matched some images to the vision, find a few words and concepts that reflect how you want to look and feel at work. Without over-thinking it, circle the words below that most appeal to Dark Bright Floral your professional sensibility. Sharp Polished Structured

Strong Easy Preppy Black Sleek White Modern Classic Relaxed Unique Daring Competent Luxurious Romantic Traditional Colorful Muted Neutral Simple Edgy Breezy Patterned Tailored Curvy

Loose Fitted Comfortable

Pretty Sexy Powerful

Cozy Effortless Cool

Elegant Trendy Creative — A Guide to Building Your Ultimate Professional Uniform Ultimate Professional Your Guide to Building A — Which words did you choose?

Wear to Work Wear Exotic Basic Organized Keep them in mind as you build your new work wardrobe.

26 27

STEP 2 — ORGANIZE & EDIT

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28 29 Think like an editor. Break out the red pen. 3. Expire & Retire If we shop wisely, some of our clothes may last a lifetime. But some have Best-selling author Stephen King often cites the famous mantra: “Kill a shelf life, amd that’s okay. Buy them with thought, handle them with your darlings.” care, and make repairs when necessary. And accept the fact that they What he means is: Don’t get sentimental about things that don’t serve will have to be retired one day. your greater purpose. For the writer, that’s a sentence (or a page, or Dry-cleaners and tailors can work wonders to resuscitate a piece, but a chapter) that doesn’t enhance the larger narrative. For the working don’t hang on to anything that is: woman, it’s those clothes that you’re attached to, but never wear. × Permanently stained When it comes to your professional wardrobe, there’s a fine balance. You need to have enough clothes to meet the demands of your lifestyle; × Ripped beyond repair but if you have too many options, you’ll get . Below, we present three × Missing crucial buttons that you can’t replace rules to help you edit like a pro. × Perpetually wrinkled or messy-looking × Threadbare or frayed 1. Separate Work & Play Your first mission: Separate your “play” clothes from your “work” clothes. Depending on your dress code, some pieces may work for both, but in-closet differentiation is still helpful. Once you’ve decided what is workwear versus leisurewear (we love that word), create dedicated space for each. If you can swing two separate closets, we’re impressed. If not, divide your closet in two, and be rigorous about storing clothes on their designated sides. Tailored pencil skirts should not fraternize with leather hot pants!

2. Be Ruthless You have room to be sentimental, but you must also learn to edit decisively. A few cherished pieces may last a lifetime, but that wine- stained must go, no matter how many memorable nights you’ve spent in it. Remember the mood board you created? And the word cloud? Adhere to that vision as you make the tough decisions. If you’re going for a sleek, sophisticated wardrobe, it’s time to bid adieu to that ruffled dress you haven’t worn in years. — A Guide to Building Your Ultimate Professional Uniform Ultimate Professional Your Guide to Building A — Wear to Work Wear

30 31 To keep or to toss? If you still can’t decide, ask yourself:

1 — Have you worn it in the past year ?

YES? Keep it! NO? Kick it to the curb.

2 — Whether or not you consider yourself to be an adult, decide: ‘‘Is this something an adult would wear?’’

YES? Keep it! NO? See ya! — A Guide to Building Your Ultimate Professional Uniform Ultimate Professional Your Guide to Building A — Wear to Work Wear

32 33 Time to make a list.

It sounds dorky (okay, it is dorky), but taking a detailed inventory of what’s in your closet is the best way to keep track of your evolving wardrobe. That way, you can figure out what you’re working with each morning, notice any gaps, and keep track of items that have fallen out of rotation or need replacing.

Using the chart on pages 36 and 37, write down every item in your closet that you deem “work appropriate.” Next, see how many outfits you can make from these items. (You’ll map them out on pages 38 and 39.) × In the following chapters, we’ll help you figure out how to fill the holes until you have a complete—and inspired—wardrobe.

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34 35 My current work wardrobe.

Style Color Brand Style Color Brand Tops Knits Skirts Pants Accessories — A Guide to Building Your Ultimate Professional Uniform Ultimate Professional Your Guide to Building A — Wear to Work Wear

36 37 How many outfits can you make?

Dress, Skirt, or Pants Top or Blouse Knit or Jacket Shoes Dress, Skirt, or Pants Top or Blouse Knit or Jacket Shoes Outfit 1 Outfit 6 Outfit 2 Outfit 7 Outfit 3 Outfit 8 Outfit 4 Outfit 9 Outfit 5 Outfit 10 — A Guide to Building Your Ultimate Professional Uniform Ultimate Professional Your Guide to Building A — Wear to Work Wear

38 Don’t worry if you can’t create ten work outfits yet. We’ll get there! 39 STEP 3 — PLAN & BUDGET

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40 41 Now that you’ve taken stock of what’s in your closet, it’s time to make a plan. The success of your work wardrobe ultimately “I could hinges on three key factors: vision, time, and money. You’ve got the vision (check that mood board!). Now, do you have realistic expectations about the time it will take to realize this vision? Are you investing wisely and strategically happily wear to achieve it? Once you can answer “yes” to these questions, you’ll be well on your way. everything Slow and steady wins the race.

Rome was not built in a day—and neither was the ultimate work wardrobe. Though it might seem fun, going on a single no-holds-barred shopping spree is no way to outfit yourself for a career. Put your credit card on temporary and take some time to strategize. Your in here.” style evolution is a marathon, not a sprint. Plan accordingly. Keep in mind that you are not merely acquiring clothes; you are forming smart shopping habits. Individual pieces will come and go, but if you learn to make savvy choices, your wardrobe will always reflect and enable the lifestyle you want. The goal is to someday gaze into your closet and say: — A Guide to Building Your Ultimate Professional Uniform Ultimate Professional Your Guide to Building A — Wear to Work Wear

42 43 But, let’s not get ahead of ourselves. Fiscal outlook: If your take-home is $2500/month, put aside $125-$250 each month for workwear. Shop seasonally, rather than every month, so you’ll have $375-$750 to spend per season. Not bad! And if you don’t First things first: How do I budget for clothes? use up all $750, keep it on hand for when you stumble upon that too- amazing-to-pass-up item. Better yet: Invest it, and your fashion fund grow over time. Just as you set aside money for rent or entertainment every month, create a clothing budget that will help you make conscious decisions about what to buy. You don’t have to blow your savings to create a wardrobe that makes you feel in charge. You simply have to invest wisely and build thoughtfully. As a general rule, plan to spend 5-10% of your monthly take-home If you are returning to the workforce after income on clothes. What’s your take-home income? The part of your salary that ends up in your bank account after taxes, retirement savings, grad school... and any other deductions. Depending on whether you’re changing industries now that you have Here’s how that might pan out at different phases of your career. a graduate degree, you might not need to do much shopping—or you may have to start from scratch. First, check yourself out—and be honest. Are you the same size you were before graduate school? If not, it’s no big deal—just resist the urge to squeeze into an old pair of pants that no longer fit. Say goodbye to If you just graduated from college... your favorite work cardigan if you’re swimming in it. You don’t want to feel uncomfortable or frumpy when you start your new gig. Remember the list you compiled of your current wardrobe? If you’ve Then, do a careful inspection of all your pieces before you decide never worked (or never worked in the environment you’ll soon be whether to wear, repair, or toss them. Check for moth holes, pills, and working in), that list probably contained only a few appropriate items. tired fabrics. Finally, consider organizing a “workwear swap” with your As your start date approaches, the “I have nothing to wear” feeling will classmates. Some of you are switching industries, and what you wore set in. to your last job is no longer appropriate for your new one. In these cases, one professional woman’s trash is another professional woman’s Don’t despair—everyone feels this way. Breathe, strategize, prioritize. treasure. Don’t buy things just because they’re cheap, and don’t buy party or weekend clothes right now. You’ll soon spend 70% of your waking hours Fiscal outlook: Stick to spending 5-10% of your monthly income on at your job, so focus your attention (and your money) on this area of clothes. As you earn more, that percentage should move closer to 5%. your life. Break it down: Put aside $1,000 to get yourself started (use savings, get a freelance gig, or borrow from someone). Do not buy cheap stuff— stay away from low-quality fast fashion. Instead, focus: Buy five quality outfits. These might consist of three good dresses ($450), three basic — A Guide to Building Your Ultimate Professional Uniform Ultimate Professional Your Guide to Building A — knits ($250), and two pairs of office-appropriate shoes ($300). These items will get you through your first two months on the job. Wear to Work Wear

44 45 If you get a raise... If you’ve been promoted or are taking on a more

High five! As far as your wardrobe goes, it’s time to live a little. Buy visible position... that piece you’ve been eyeing, and forever associate it with the fact that It’s time to step it up! You’ve earned your new title—now dress for it. you’re on your way. Then, reassess your clothing budget and proceed You don’t need to overhaul your entire look, but you should reward responsibly. You might be richer, but you should still be strategic about yourself with a few head-turning pieces that show off your power and how you spend. competence. Now that you’re big-time, having two or three go-to outfits Fiscal outlook: Just because you’re earning more money doesn’t mean you for important meetings, presentations, and speaking engagements will need to spend more on clothes. Rather, consider how you’re allocating make your life infinitely easier. your clothing budget. If you’ve already got a solid foundation for your Fiscal outlook: Spend ~$1,000 on strategic statement pieces (a sharp wardrobe, now might be a time to spend more on statement pieces or blazer, chic shoes, a perfect presentation dress). Then add a few pieces high-quality accessories. each season (spending 1-3% of your income) to keep your look fresh.

If you’re changing careers or returning to work after significant time off…

Go you. Depending on how big of a change you’re making (or how long you’ve been out of the workforce), you may have to start from scratch, go more casual/formal, or adjust to a change in body shape. No matter what industry you’re entering or role you’re playing, think in terms of creating that uniform. If you can create five versatile outfits, that’s a good start. Fiscal Outlook: Rebuilding the foundation of your wardrobe requires an upfront investment. Depending on how much of your current wardrobe is wearable, spend $1,000-$3,000 on new staples (a few versatile dresses, a blazer, pants, great shoes), and then build strategically over time.

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46 47 Create a Budget!

Monthly Take-home (after taxes, retirement savings, and any other savings) =

5-10% of Monthly Take-home =

Seasonal Budget (5-10% of monthly take-home × 3 months) =

Pieces to prioritize this season:

Pieces to prioritize next season:

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48 49 STEP 4 — INVEST & BUILD

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50 51 Now that your funds are in order, let’s get down to business! Part 1: And by business, we mean shopping. Start with the “Perfect Ten.”

When it comes to the breakdown of a wardrobe, every woman’s needs What to Buy are slightly different. Depending on your office dress code, lifestyle, and body type, you may gravitate to certain styles over others. As a baseline, we think these ten staples provide a solid foundation for a work wardrobe.

A versatile black pant. For days when you’re running around. Bonus points if it’s machine washable.

A wear-everywhere dress. An easy-care, travel-friendly dress that you can wear any day of the week.

A show-stopping dress or suit. For those big moments when all eyes are on you.

A cocktail outfit. For when work carries over into the evening hours.

A tailored . Because a blizzard is no excuse not to look chic.

An elegant white shirt. Under a suit or tucked into jeans—the classic white shirt does it all.

A luxe . For long flights and late nights in the office.

A walkable pump or flat. A comfortable that goes with everything is the professional woman’s greatest ally.

A sharp blazer. Dress up jeans or complete your suit with a crisp, classic blazer.

An easy . Tucked into a skirt or under a jacket, you’ll wear this piece multiple times a week. — A Guide to Building Your Ultimate Professional Uniform Ultimate Professional Your Guide to Building A — Wear to Work Wear

52 53 Time to make your shopping list! Items I still need to create my work uniform.

First, review the outfit list you created on page 38. Style Color Brand Now, create a shopping list . While you work, consider: × What are the holes in my closet?

× What do I still need to achieve my Perfect Ten? Item 1 × Does what I own correspond with my office dress code? Item 2 Item 3 Item 4 Item 5 Item 6 Item 7 Item 8 — A Guide to Building Your Ultimate Professional Uniform Ultimate Professional Your Guide to Building A — Item 9 Wear to Work Wear Item 10 54 55 Where to invest (and where to fake it).

When you’re first building your work wardrobe, it’s all about prioritizing. There’s a commonly held myth that you should splurge on bags and shoes and skimp on the rest of your wardrobe. We beg to differ. A pair of $700 stilettos is not going to make your workday any easier; but having an array of high-quality pieces in neutral colors will definitely simplify your life.

Invest ($250+)

Black day-to-night dress Versatile blazer Tailored pants or skirt Elegant (but not flashy) bag

Spend Moderately ($100-$250)

Knits Silk blouse Shoes (that you can walk in!)

See What You Can Get Away With (Under $100)

Tank tops T- Accessories / statement pieces that you might get tired of

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56 57 Anh Abra Sundstrom Belke

When it comes to great office style, we’re always inspired by For professional style advice, the ladies of Washington D.C., blogger Anh Sundstrom of 9 to 5 Chic (9to5chic.com). Here, she look to blogger Abra Belke (a.k.a. Belle) from The Style Edit shares the pieces that anchor her work wardrobe. (thestyleedit.com). Here, she dishes on the pieces she wears again and again.

My all-time best buys. My all-time best buys.

1. A black blazer. 1. A Malene Birger reverse-leopard-print . “Nothing ties it all together like a blazer. It’s also the perfect piece to “I actually picked this piece up on eBay. It adds a bold accent, and I wear take your outfit from casual to business-casual. And it doesn’t hurt to it with all of my black separates during the colder months.” leave one at the office for those meetings that pop up out of nowhere.” 2. My black Akiko dress from M.M.LaFleur. 2. A navy . “I bought this dress to wear to the office, but I find myself wearing it “Navy is a classic color, which makes it a perfect match for the classic everywhere. I’ve added a sequin for cocktail parties; I’ve worn it sheath. I can dress it up or down, layer over or under, or wear as is. A with rolled and a stack of bracelets; and I pair it with red flats sheath dress should fit perfectly—not too tight and not too loose—and for conferences when I don’t want to wear heels.” it should hit right above the knee.” 3. Pops of color. 3. Black pumps. “When I’m stressed and haven’t slept well, I like to wear bright colors “I’m a fan of single-sole, pointed-toe pumps, and I wear them constantly! as a pick-me-up. My bright-pink pencil skirt from L.K. Bennett and my — A Guide to Building Your Ultimate Professional Uniform Ultimate Professional Your Guide to Building A — The key is to find a heel height that works for you. I have 4-inch heels yellow blazer from Nanette Lepore are my go-to pieces for days when I for my power days, and 3-inch heels for days when I’ll be doing more need my wardrobe to convey brightness and liveliness.”

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58 59 Part 2: Assess Your Options — A Guide to Building Your Ultimate Professional Uniform Ultimate Professional Your Guide to Building A — Wear to Work Wear

60 It’s almost time to hit the stores, but before you storm the STITCHING gates, make sure you have your priorities straight. × Stitches should have a × A higher density of stitches consistent, even length. usually means the garment will be sturdier. × They should be taut, but Treat your wardrobe like an asset. shouldn’t pull the fabric or × Look for individual stitch cause it to pucker. length; shorter stitches tend You wouldn’t invest in a car, a home, or a mutual fund without giving to be stronger and less likely × Stitch lines should be clean it serious thought. Apply this same rigor when building your wardrobe. to break. and even, with no doubling Whether you’re buying a camisole or a cashmere coat, take a moment to back or loose threads. assess how it fits in with what you already own. Will it strengthen your overall “portfolio” in the long run? Or are you giving in to a fleeting trend or momentary impulse? HAND FEEL × Scrunch up the fabric in × Your fingertips are intuitive your hand to get a feel for its and will indicate how a garment Invest in quality. Wait, what is quality? weight, texture, and how it will feel against your skin all moves. day. They’ll also help you Don’t just shop for style. A piece should move well and make you feel understand whether a garment × To judge how a garment will polished, but it should also have integrity—yes, integrity—in and of has structure, is durable, or feel on your body, rub it on itself. How do you judge quality? We’ve got it down to a science. will wrinkle. the inside of your wrist (a Here’s what to look for : particularly sensitive area).

HEMS & SEAMS BREATHABILITY

× Hems and seams should be × If the garment has a pattern × Fact: Humans sweat. In order × It’s often smart to choose a straight and clean with no or stripe, it should intention- for you to stay cool and blend of a natural fiber with a puckering or bunching around ally align at the seam. comfortable in your clothes, percentage of nylon or poly- the stitches. × If there are pockets, they they need to breathe. ester, which help garments × If it has a fragile fabric or should be real and accessible hold their shape and go the × Natural fibers (wool, cotton) there are areas of heavy use (rather than just illusion distance. usually breathe well, but they (pockets, zipper), a quality pockets). can wear out sooner than × Be on the look-out for a piece will include reinforce- synthetic fibers. High-quality brand’s “signature fabric.” ments like facing, lining, and synthetic fibers tend to stay There’s a reason they use it binding in those areas. fresh-looking for longer. season after season: Customers keep coming back for it. × The days of “polyester = bad” — A Guide to Building Your Ultimate Professional Uniform Ultimate Professional Your Guide to Building A — are over, and some of the most comfortable and breathable

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62 63 LINING Quality Calibrator × There’s a misconception that × When lining is used, check Quality is a complex subject. Not only does it describe how a garment lined garments are good to make sure that it comple- looks, fits, and feels—but it also indicates how long it will last. Don’t quality and unlined garments ments the weight, stretch, judge a dress by its price. Do the math to figure out its long-term value. are cheap. This is not always and drape of the outer layer. the case. The lining should never be visible or shift around within × Depending on stretch and the garment. weight, some fabrics look and feel best without lining; others (like those with intricate Retail Price Life Span Price per Wear seams or textured fabrics) require it.

Fast-fashion Dress $49 3 wears $16.33 STRETCH × We’re fans of fabrics that × If the fabric has stretch, pull it contain stretch, because it for half a second to see how it means the garment will move recovers. A quick and thorough with your body. To see if a recovery means it will last garment has stretch, check the longer and hold its shape Lower-end label. If it says “EA” (Elastane throughout the day. If it doesn’t Contemporary / Lycra / Spandex) or “PA” snap back immediately after Brand Dress $99 12 wears $8.25 (Polyamide / Nylon), there’s a you release it, the garment good chance the fabric will may leave you with - stretch well. butt by noon. Not a great look.

High-end Contemporary Brand Dress $250 50 wears $5

Luxury

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64 65 Don’t worry about size; worry about fit. Hey there, tailor.

When it comes to size, the principle of “separate work and play” Back in the day, you might have hired Coco Chanel or Elsa Schiaparelli continues to apply. You have two clothing sizes: your size for play to customize your clothes. Nowadays, it’s a ready-to-wear world, but clothes and your size for work clothes. Don’t assume the two will be the that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t put your local tailor to work. same, especially if you like your weekend clothes to be body-hugging Some people have a knack for finding their size right off the rack, but or oversized. depending on your proportions, getting a perfect fit can be tricky. This Remember: Size is just a number. It’s also a fairly arbitrary (and often is what tailors are for. There’s nothing wrong with buying a dress that’s inconsistent) number. You may be an 8 or a “Medium” in one brand slightly too big in a certain area (bust, hips, length) and having it taken in and a 12 or a “Large” in another, so it makes more sense to focus on fit. so it fits you to a T. If you’re between sizes, always opt for the larger size. Regardless of how you like to dress on your own time, there is a Remember: When it comes to looking chic and confident, fit is everything. Goldilocks-like code for workwear: not too loose, not too tight, but There’s no need to compromise, no matter what your size. just right. So how do you know what’s “just right ”? Use these tests for a work-friendly fit:

1. The VPL (Visible Panty Line) Test Wear underwear (not a !), and try on your outfit. Turn your back to the mirror. Move your hips, bend over, twerk if you like. If you can see your underwear lines, your outfit is too tight.

2. The Bow Test Wear your normal work . Stand in front of a mirror and bow deeply. When you reach a 90° angle, look up at the mirror while holding your bow. If you can see your cleavage or any part of your bra, the cut of your top is too low.

3. The Taxi Test Simulate stepping into a cab by lifting your leg. Can you manage to lift it comfortably without stressing any seams? If not, your outfit is too tight, and more importantly, impractical. You’re on the go! Make sure you can move in your clothes.

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66 67 Part 3: Navigating the Office Dress Code — A Guide to Building Your Ultimate Professional Uniform Ultimate Professional Your Guide to Building A — Wear to Work Wear

68 Let’s begin by acknowledging: Dress codes are tricky. Whether they’re mandated or not, there are often subtle sartorial codes that you’ll only learn once you’re on the job. (We once heard a managing director at a bank explain that wearing your hair up was okay in her office—depending on the exact height of the ponytail.) And on top of that, the workplace is constantly changing. Women are entering industries that used to be do- minated by men, and they’re rewriting the rules as they go. Still, it helps to understand the broad strokes of various dress codes as they stand today. Here’s how we define the big three: business formal, business casual, and creative casual.

Business Formal

Quintessential outfit: The skirt or pant suit.

Also common: A dress and matching blazer, closed-toed shoes, understated accessories.

Vibe: Power, authority.

Colors: Darks (navy, black, gray) and neutrals (ivory, beige, olive).

Have fun with: Fabrics (wool, silk, synthetics) and textures (wovens, knits).

Typically seen in: More traditional industries (law, finance, consulting, politics) and settings (in court, the boardroom, at a business conference, etc.).

Your male co-workers are probably wearing: Suits, ties, and dress shoes. — A Guide to Building Your Ultimate Professional Uniform Ultimate Professional Your Guide to Building A — Wear to Work Wear

70 71 Business Casual

Quintessential outfit: A skirt with an elegant top.

Also common: Various combinations of pants, dresses, , blazers, heels, flats, sophisticated , interesting accessories.

Vibe: Clean, competent.

Colors: Neutrals (black, white, navy) mixed with occasional flashes of color and pattern.

Have fun with: Non-traditional shapes and proportion play.

Typically seen in: More relaxed industries (real estate, non-profit, education, medicine) and settings (hospitals / medical offices, schools, some law offices.

Your male co-workers are probably wearing: Pants and button-ups. — A Guide to Building Your Ultimate Professional Uniform Ultimate Professional Your Guide to Building A — Wear to Work Wear

72 73 Creative Casual

Quintessential outfit: A casual dress or jeans and a blazer.

Also common: Tailored pants, T-shirts, skirts (knee-length, midi-length), sweaters, , even , pullovers, heels, cool , exciting accessories.

Vibe: Comfortable, conversation-starting.

Colors: Anything goes, as long as it’s not totally distracting.

Have fun with: Unexpected combinations (e.g., stripes on stripes) and interpretations (a dress that doubles as an outer layer).

Typically seen in: Newer and more creative industries (tech, media, film, publishing, fashion, hospitality, the arts).

Your male co-workers are probably wearing: Jeans and T-shirts or sweaters. — A Guide to Building Your Ultimate Professional Uniform Ultimate Professional Your Guide to Building A — Wear to Work Wear

74 75 O N THE JOB

In which you’ll learn to avoid faux pas and look impeccable every day. — A Guide to Building Your Ultimate Professional Uniform Ultimate Professional Your Guide to Building A — Wear to Work Wear

76 77 Once you’re working, you’ll learn a ton by observing how your BEAUTY / GROOMING coworkers, superiors, and clients dress. There are examples Chipped manicure. Nothing screams unprofessional like a two-week-old manicure. As soon as it starts to chip, remove it. Clean, bare nails are of what to do (and what not to do!) all around you. Take perfectly fine if you don’t want to bother with nail polish. mental notes, and don’t be afraid to ask others about their Too much makeup. The more formal your work environment, the more style tricks. natural your makeup should be. No makeup. Even if you keep it minimal (a slick of mascara, a hint of lip When it comes to looking sharp and setting yourself up for color), a bit of makeup shows that you’re making an effort. success, we swear by the following rules. Forgive us if some of Wet hair. Get a blow-dryer or shower at night, but don’t show up to the them seem obvious, but we can all use a reminder once office looking like you just got caught in a downpour (unless you did, in in a while. which case, you’re excused). Too-cute hairstyles. Pigtails have no place in a formal environment. Ticketing bracelets or entry stamps. Your coworkers want to hear how Avoid these common faux pas: awesome the music festival was, not see evidence of it. Grab a loofah and scrub that ink off before you leave for work.

CLOTHES Too-low neckline. If you’re bordering on cleavage, retreat and reassess. Too-short skirt. It may sound old-school, but the corporate world looks down on skirts that hit much above the knee. Visible bra straps. Some things—like the color of your —should Commit these faux pas and you’ll not only look unprofes- remain a mystery to your coworkers. sional, but you’ll probably feel uncomfortable. Discomfort Pilling knitwear. A sweater comb will do wonders to bring your worn-in leads to distraction, and you can’t build your empire when cardigan back to life. you’re distracted. Heels over four inches. If you’re teetering or can’t walk by the end of the day, they’re too high. A good rule of thumb: Once you put your clothes on in the Shirts with slogans or words. Your outfit should make a subtle statement— morning, you shouldn’t need to adjust them or think about not a literal one. them for the rest of the day. Runway trends like thigh-high . We think they’re cool, but your super- corporate clients probably won’t. Banged-up shoes. Shoe shining is not just for the gents. Get your heels

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78 79 Time to play. 12 things to have on hand.

Once you’ve been at your job for a few months, you’ll naturally get a feel Murphy’s Law applies to the office environment, too. Given the for both the explicit and implicit dress code of your office. Take cues elements you might be up against (unexpected blizzards, ice-cold air- from your coworkers about when you can get creative, and when you conditioning, exploding ink cartridges, last-minute meetings), it’s best should keep it conservative. Observe for a few weeks before you decide to be prepared for anything and everything. how daring you want to get with: Keep the following items in your desk:

× Nail color × Travel that can fit in a bag × Statement jewelry × “Desk sweater” that lives on the back of your chair × Open sandals × Thread and needle × Boots × Stain remover pen (try Tide To Go) × Loud prints / bright color × Lip balm × Lip color × Concealer and powder × Tampons × Band-aids × Deodorant × Dental floss × Hairspray (for static cling) × Pen and notebook — A Guide to Building Your Ultimate Professional Uniform Ultimate Professional Your Guide to Building A — Wear to Work Wear

80 81 Bonus! Two things to always have at home :

1. Iron / board It’s important to have an iron for major wrinkle situations or to create neat creases in pants and shirts.

2. Handheld steamer Perfect for quickly eliminating wrinkles from silks and lighter fabrics. — A Guide to Building Your Ultimate Professional Uniform Ultimate Professional Your Guide to Building A — Wear to Work Wear

82 83 A FIRST JOB CHECKLIST

In which you’ll ensure that your look is on point before you get to work. — A Guide to Building Your Ultimate Professional Uniform Ultimate Professional Your Guide to Building A — Wear to Work Wear

84 85 Starting your first job? Go you. One month out:

The run-up can be a little nerve-wracking, so you’d best keep × Get in touch with your company’s HR department to get the lowdown on the dress code. Don’t be afraid to ask specific ques- busy. Channel your energy into making sure your closet is tions: Are heels the norm for women? Can you go sleeveless equipped for your first few months. Beyond that, it’s all about in the office? Do you have “casual Fridays,” and do people actually observing those around you and slowly building a wardrobe go casual? × Take stock of what’s currently in your closet. Create a list of the that will work for you. items that are office-appropriate. × Create “work” versus “play” sections in your closet. × Buy an iron and a steamer.

Three weeks out:

× Come up with a vision for how you want to dress. It’s mood board time! × Based on this vision, buy your first few staples. Eventually, you’ll work your way up to the Perfect Ten. × Assess whether any items (old or new) need tailoring, and take them in for alterations.

Two weeks out:

× Buy some versatile accessories (shoes, knits, , jewelry) that you can use to spice up the staples you’ve already bought. × Spend a few full days in your new shoes to break them in and make sure you can comfortably get through the day. × Shop for a basic or tote that fits whatever you’ll need at work (a laptop, a notebook, a tablet). — A Guide to Building Your Ultimate Professional Uniform Ultimate Professional Your Guide to Building A — Wear to Work Wear

86 87 One week out:

× Try on your outfit for Day 1 to make sure it fits, feels good, and is clean and wrinkle-free. Wear it with the underwear you plan to wear, and check for visible bra straps or VPL. × If problems arise, buy seamless underwear and a t-shirt bra that’s undetectable under your clothes.

One day out:

× Lay out or hang up your outfit for Day 1. Iron or steam as necessary. × Plan your outfits for Days 2-5. The first week at a new job can be exhausting, so do your styling ahead of time.

Three months in:

× Now that you’ve had time to soak up the office atmosphere, fill in holes in your wardrobe. Can you get a bit bolder with accessories? Do you need a suit? × Shop for two or three new outfits to add to your rotation.

Six months in:

× Buy two or three additional outfits. Voilà! You have a fully functional (and fabulous) work wardrobe.

From here on out:

× Now that you’ve got the foundation of your wardrobe, start to experiment with statement pieces like a pair of graphic heels, a beautifully tailored coat, or a silk blouse in a bright color. — A Guide to Building Your Ultimate Professional Uniform Ultimate Professional Your Guide to Building A — Wear to Work Wear

88 89 Damn, you look good.

That wasn’t so hard, was it ? When all is said and done, outfitting yourself in the morning should feel fun, easy, and even a bit indulgent. Pour some coffee, blast some music, and psych yourself up for the day ahead. You can’t always control what’s coming your way, but you can control how you look and feel as you face whatever pops up. As Edith Head suggested: Your outfit sets the tone for your day, and creating a wardrobe you love is an important part of going after the career you want. So whether you love your current job or have your sights set on bigger and better things, never underestimate the importance of a power wardrobe. And more importantly, never underestimate the woman who’s wearing it.

91 On that note, enough about clothes.

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92 93 About the Authors

Sarah LaFleur

A Tokyo native and Harvard College graduate, Sarah LaFleur is the Founder and CEO of M.M.LaFleur, a professional womenswear and styling company. As a former management consultant and finance professional, she knows all too well what it’s like to gaze into a closet full of blah-feeling . But these days, you’ll find her happily wearing M.M.LaFleur from head to toe.

Tory Hoen

A graduate of Brown University, Tory is a Brooklyn-based writer and editor. She spent five years as the Creative Director of Brand at M.M.LaFleur before returning to her freelance roots, and she has written and edited for — A Guide to Building Your Ultimate Professional Uniform Ultimate Professional Your Guide to Building A — outlets including Fortune, New York Magazine, Condé Nast Traveler, and Bon Appétit. Although she could spend most days in a , her preferred

Wear to Work Wear uniform is jeans and an M.M.LaFleur blazer.

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