Typecasting Why Both Introverts and Extroverts Make Good Leaders COME for the NEXT 3 YEARS, PREPARE for the NEXT 30
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NAVIGATING CHANGE | WHY WE LOVE BAD STATS | MINISTRY GRID: ONLINE TRAINING Facts &Trends WINTER 2014 Typecasting Why both introverts and extroverts make good leaders COME FOR THE NEXT 3 YEARS, PREPARE FOR THE NEXT 30. MIDWESTERN BAPTIST THEOLOGICAL SEMINARY exists for the Church. From start to finish, Midwestern Seminary strives to dramatically transform students by renewing their minds with biblical truth, igniting their hearts with ministry passion, and enriching their souls with deepened Christ-likeness. mbts.edu We are growing the future leaders of the church who are whole-heartedly dedicated to fulfilling the Great Commission as they go forth into all the world. 800-944-MBTS Complete your degree online or on campus. Kansas City, MO Contents COVER STORY 14 Typecasting Whether you are an introvert or an ex- trovert, your personality type influences everything from how you make decisions to how you communicate and interact with others. It even affects how you lead. Understanding and identifying your own personality type can help you maximize strengths and pinpoint areas of weakness. COVER SECTION FEATURES IN EVERY ISSUE 16 I’m Not Shy 22 False Facts 4 From the Publisher Pastor Ron Edmondson shares the Why we love bad stats. By Bob 5 Inside F&T secrets of being an introverted Smietana 7 From My Perspective leader—the misconceptions, 28 Turning Tables Thom Rainer: Seven Tips for challenges and strengths. Flipping the rap conversation Introverted Leaders He also offers several to the gospel. By Aaron Earls tips on how to be an 8 Facts and Trends effective ministry leader 32 Navigating Change Beliefs, issues and trends impacting as an introvert. the church and our world A Q&A with pastor Carey Nieuwhof on guiding your 26 Technology 19 I Need Help, Too church through transition. Church training for the Seminary professor Alvin Reid By Bob Smietana digital age discusses the strengths and weak- 35 52 Ideas for 27 Calibrate nesses of extroverted leaders and Your Church Creating a culture of generosity gives six lessons he’s learned from A fresh idea for every week of the introverts. 46 On Our Radar year. By Diana Davis Relevant and practical 40 W edding Under resources the Bridge for you and your Couple shares special day with church homeless friends. By Grace Evans 50 The Exchange 42 Doubting God Ed Stetzer: Tips Real questions people ask. for Extroverted By Mary Jo Sharp Leaders Facts&Trends • 3 FROM THE PUBLISHER LifeWay Christian Resources Ministry Grid Transformational Groups Developing lead- In Transformational Groups, Ed Stetzer ers in your church and Eric Geiger provide a map to trans- just got a whole lot formational success for your church’s easier. Ministry Grid groups ministry. 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BibleStudiesforLife.com/smallgroups BHPublishingGroup.com LifeWay Church Ordering The new LifeWay Church Ordering system, powered by BUILD-IT, allows churches to easily browse the online catalog and customize their order. Churches will find options for selecting a particular Bible study starting point, age group, translation, and print or digital delivery format. Order Bible studies, magazines, bulletins and select music resources. LifeWay.com/churchordering LifeWay Resources LifeWay.com/PastorsToday • MinistryGrid.com • BHPublishingGroup.com LifeWayResearch.com • LifeWay.com/DigitalChurch • LifeWayWorship.com 4 • WINTER 2014 Facts&Trends INSIDE F&T Volume 60 • Number 1 • WINTER 2014 Facts&Trends is designed to help pastors, church staff and denominational leaders navigate the issues and trends Playing to type impacting the church by providing information, hen you meet new people, do you clam insight and resources for effective ministry. up and retreat to the other side of the room? WOr do you converse with them like a long lost Production Team friend? After church, are you out the door at the strum of the Editor | Carol Pipes invitation’s last chord? Or do you linger and visit until the last light Online Editor | Aaron Earls is turned off? Do you process information internally or externally? Senior Writer and Content Editor | Bob Smietana What drains you: being with others or being alone? Graphic Designer | Katie Shull In this issue of Facts & Trends, we take a look at the differences LifeWay Leadership between introverts and extroverts. You’ll hear from Christian leaders President and Publisher | Thom S. Rainer on both ends of the spectrum. Authors Ron Edmondson and Alvin Executive Editor | Ed Stetzer Senior Editor | Marty King Reid examine the strengths and challenges of their respective person- Contributors ality types and how they adapt to be better leaders. Diana Davis, Ron Edmondson, Grace Evans, Alvin Reid, God has created each of us as a unique blend of personality, tal- Mary Jo Sharp and Sam Warner ents and skills. As comfortable as we may be functioning within our Advertising: unique personality patterns, God often calls us to stretch a bit outside Rhonda Edge Buescher, director, Media Business Development our comfort zones, especially when leading others. Scott Hancock, advertising production Send advertising questions/comments to: Whether you are an introverted or extroverted leader, you’re inevi- One LifeWay Plaza, MSN 136, tably going to lead people with the opposite personality type at some Nashville, TN 37234 time or another. The more you understand your own personality Email: [email protected] type and that of those around you, the better leader you will be. It’s Media kits: LifeWay.com/mediaoptions This magazine includes paid advertisements for some products important that we learn to value, appreciate and serve one another. and services not affiliated with LifeWay. The inclusion of the As you read the cover section (pages 14-21) and columns by Thom paid advertisements does not constitute an endorsement by Rainer (page 7) and Ed Stetzer (page 50), ask yourself: Where do I LifeWay Christian Resources of the products or services. find my energy? How do I process information? How do I commu- Subscriptions: nicate? What about the people I work with and lead? For a free print subscription to Facts&Trends, send your name, address and phone number to [email protected]. Also in this issue: Permissions: Pastors, pundits and reporters like to quote statistics that fit their Facts&Trends grants permission for any original article (not narrative. A sermon on divorce includes the statistics that Christians a reprint) to be photocopied for use in a local church or divorce as much as anyone else. A conference about the church’s fu- classroom, provided copies are distributed free and indicate ture hypes the latest “news” that everyone under 20 is abandoning Facts&Trends as the source. the church. In “False Facts” (page 23), Bob Smietana debunks several Scripture: bad stats about Christians and the church. He explores their appeal Unless otherwise noted, all Scripture quotations are taken from the Holman Christian Standard Bible®, copyright 2009 and why they persist. by Holman Bible Publishers. Used by permission. Contact Us: Facts&Trends One LifeWay Plaza Nashville, TN 37234-0192 Carol Pipes, Editor [email protected] [email protected] FactsandTrends.net P.S. For a free subscription to Facts&Trends, send your name, address, phone Facts&Trends is published quarterly by LifeWay Christian number and email address to [email protected]. 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