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BUFFALO, ISRAEL & THE JEWISH WORLD WWW.BUFFALOJEWISHFEDERATION.ORG FEBRUARY 2021 SHEVAT-ADAR 5781 The New Buffalo Jewish History Center ( 6 ) CEO/Executive Director...... Rob Goldberg President...... Shelly Yellen Editor...... Ellen S. Goldstein

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Presorted STD. Presorted January, the Bills are in the playoffs, and our nation has just Federation Jewish Buffalo (11) (13) (20) Creative Director...... Jean-Pierre Thimot experienced a horribly wrenching week. AND…the days are [email protected] getting longer, our community is staying strong and the Lead Designer...... Kimberly Miers Bills are still in the playoffs! Yes, the world is difficult and [email protected] painful. And yes, we are hanging in, hanging on and making Senior Graphic Designers...... Josh Flanigan, Adam Van Schoonhoven, Nicholas Vitello lots of lemonade together! 3 Message from the President by Shelly Yellen Director of Advertising...... Barbara E. Macks I love the cover photo of the 1968 Temple Shaarey Sales Director...... Cynthia Oppenheimer Zedek groundbreaking on Getzville Road in 1968.However, 4-5 By the Numbers- Part 2 [email protected] we are not able to identify all of the people in it. If you 6 On the Cover - The Jewish Buffalo History Senior Account Executives....Terri Downey, Keren Green, Mary Beth Holly, can recognize your dad or grandpa, let us know who they Center Caroline Kunze, Robin Lenhard, Rachel Wasserman are and where they are in the photo (see page 6.) And this 7 Super Sunday is February 28 Proofreader...... Amy Goldstein picture is just the tip of the iceberg of the new Buffalo 8 JCRC: Not in Our County! BUFFALO SPREE PUBLISHING, INC. Jewish History Center website as you will see when you read 9 Israel Startup Nation is February 23 President & CEO...... Sharon C. Levite Dr. Chana Kotzin’s story on page 6. Publisher/Chief Revenue Officer...... Barbara E. Macks And hey, Super Sunday is still happening but virtually 10 Buffalo Jewish Film Festival offers Chai Flicks in February Associate Publisher/Editor-In-Chief...... Elizabeth Licata this year on February 28. That means that you can help to Vice President/Administrative & Finance...... Michele Ferguson raise much –needed funds for our Jewish community from 11 TBT Features Rabbi Klein Lectures each Corporate Counsel...... Timothy M. O’Mara, Esq. the comfort of your own home—even in your jammies, if Saturday you wish. Check out the story on page 7, and be sure to call 12 CJEL: A New Model for Jewish Buffalo Members of Stacey Block if you want to volunteer, or plan to make your by Rob Goldberg and Miriam Abramovich 2021 gift to the Campaign for Jewish Buffalo that day. 13 CJEL: Belonging Purim is at the end of this month, February 25-26, and 14 Winter Roots Series it will be celebrated in many different ways. But plans for Submissions: Submit editorial stories, photos, and calendar items by the 1st of the most Purim celebrations were not solidified by the time we 15 5 Things You Can Do to Repair the World in February preceding month of issue to [email protected]. went to press, so you will have to contact your synagogues To Advertise: and agencies directly to find out what’s happening, how Where in Jewish Buffalo To advertise, call Cynthia Oppenheimer at 716-783-9119 x2240. you can participate, and where the best hamentaschen are Special Advertising Supplement: Purim 16-17 Ad space & materials are due by the 10th of each month prior to baked! 18-19 Organizations & Synagogue Listings publication. For a rate card and any additional information, please Finally, a huge and warm “thank you” to the donors to 20 TBZ Welcomes Rabbi Sobel email Cynthia Oppenheimer [email protected] the 2020 Campaign for Jewish Buffalo who are listed on Rabbi Rich Elected to National Cabinet or Barbara Macks [email protected]. pages 22-26. You are the people who ensure that Jewish To Subscribe: Buffalo continues to thrive and endure in good times and 21 Special Advertising Supplement: Dining To subscribe to the Jewish Journal, please email info@ in tough times. You are our community heroes. Thank you! 22-26 2020 Honor Roll of Donors buffalojewishfederation.org. Free for Western New York area Todah! Stay safe and 28-29 In Loving Memory residents and donors to the Campaign. well this month, and The Challenge of Saying Goodbye During The Jewish Journal of WNY (JJWNY) reserves the right to cancel any advertisement at stay in touch. any time. The Buffalo Jewish Federation and Buffalo Spree Publishing, Inc. are not the Pandemic by Rabbi Alex Lazarus-Klein liable for the content or errors appearing in the advertisements beyond the cost of the space occupied. The JJWNY does not assume responsibility for the of any product or service advertised in this paper. Editorials, columns, advertisements, Ellen Goldstein - Editor agency reports and other outside articles do not necessarily represent the views of the newspaper or the Buffalo Jewish Federation, but rather express the view of the writer.

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2 www.buffalojewishfederation.org | February 2021 MESSAGE FROM THE NEW FEDERATION PRESIDENT COMMUNITY

Komm-Chief Creative Officer, and Mandy Thanks for your kindness Weiss-Director of Planning and Overseas, for creating this page. In this edition of The Jewish Journal, we recognize and thank our many donors Thanks as well to Randi Morkisz- to the Federation’s Campaign (see pages 22-26 for Honor Roll listings). Thank you Assistant Executive Director, and the for generously contributing your time and gifts in support of our mission on local, Annual Campaign team led by Howard national, and international levels. Your kindness, commitment, and dedication Rosenhoch and Joni Shatkin. The new page to helping others is inspiring. This is especially true given the real suffering and helps us all to visualize in a transparent hardships COVID has caused for so many across the globe. and informative way how donor dollars are invested. It is probably no surprise to many of organization to one that provides services Also, thanks to the efforts of Debbie you that donors who repeat gifts to an and Jewish experiences. I mentioned in Pivarsi-CFO, and Margie Bryen-Treasurer, organization often believe in the mission, the January Jewish Journal that the BJF has Shelly Yellen our budget process aligns with the Impact trust the organization’s leadership, have a defined success and created Impact Areas Areas, providing the Board of Directors personal connection to the organization, to support our mission. Fluid and evolving, update of the BJF website (and included with the right information to ensure the want to be part of something bigger than there are currently six Impact Areas: in this month’s Journal as well on page priorities we set are consistent with Jewish themselves, and are hungry to see the • Jewish Experience, Engagement 4-5), you can see exactly how each area is Buffalo needs. impact their dollars make. Consider this and Learning defined, details of the community services Not a donor or want to learn more when you are reflecting on your gift or • Caring For Jewish Buffalo and programs provided by each impact area, about how you can have an impact in reading the names of others on the list. • Promoting a Civil and Just Society important links to partners, and how your the community? Please reach out to Rob Conversely, top reasons why donors stop • Connection to Israel and gifts are funding each area. All are available at [email protected] or giving is they do not know how their gift is Global Jewry as well by visiting buffalojewishfederation. Randi at randi@buffalojewishfederation. being used or they are not convinced their • Preserving our Legacy org/making-an-impact. This is a powerful org and they will welcome a conversation gift is having an impact. • Sustaining and Securing our page on the website allowing you to drill with you. Once again, thank you to all our Making an impact on our community Community down from a very high level from specific donors for all that you have done and will and feeling that you are having an impact The services, programs, agencies, and Impact Areas to the specific agencies, continue to do for Jewish Buffalo. Please are fundamental for the Buffalo Jewish other community activities supported services, and programs that are impacted share your thoughts with me at shelly@ Federation (BJF). As part of this, BJF has by your gifts are part of one or more of by your dollars and your volunteer time. buffalojewishfederation.org. evolved from primarily a fund-raising these Impact Areas. Now, through a recent Thank you to Rob Goldberg-CFO, Jill With much admiration, Shelly.

February 2021 | www.buffalojewishfederation.org 3 COMMUNITY BY THE NUMBERS: Federation Makes An Impact Part 2

As referenced by Federation Shelly Yellen on page 3, the Buffalo Jewish Federation has changed from primarily a fund-raising organization to one that provides an array of services and programming with our mission and goals aligned with six Community Impact Areas:

• Jewish Experience, Engagement and Learning • Caring for Jewish Buffalo • Promoting a Civil and Just Society • Connection to Israel and Global Jewry • Preserving our Legacy • Sustaining and Securing our Community

In crafting Federation’s operating budget and determining grants for our local and overseas partners, Federation’s leadership connects the resources we raise from thousands of donors (listed on page 22-26) to each impact area so that we and our partners can build a more connected, caring and vibrant community in Buffalo and around the world.

Jewish Experience, Engagement and Learning Promoting a Civil and Just Society

Nurture relationships that connect, Cultivate and foster meaningful and engage, and enrich all Jews and their loved collaborative relationships with other ones and those exploring Judaism. Promote faith and ethnic groups and cultural community engagement through activities, communities with the goal of educating, experiences and learning. Amplify the advocating and building a more civil and work of and promote collaboration between just society. Combat hate, anti-Semitism traditional institutions and innovative Jewish and discrimination in all forms; teach groups, including synagogues, minyans, the lessons of the Holocaust through agencies, schools and affinity groups. effective education and programming; highlight Upstanders as role models; and provide support to individuals and PARTNER GRANTS communitiesPARTNER in GRANTStimes of crisis. (totaling $827,300): (totaling $102,600): PARTNER GRANTS • Center for Jewish Engagement & Learning JCRC (Jewish Community Relations Council) • JCC of Greater Buffalo (totalingHolocaust Resource $102,600): Center • The Park School/Kadimah Scholars Hillel of Buffalo • Ohr Temimim Jewish Heritage Day School • JCRC (Jewish Community Relations • Hillel of Buffalo Council) • Chabad of Buffalo • Holocaust Resource Center • Holocaust Resource Center • Hillel of Buffalo

Caring for Jewish Buffalo

Ensure that care and support is available for Jews and their loved ones facing financial, emotional, physical or spiritual needs.

PARTNER GRANTS (totaling $138,750):

• Jewish Family Services of WNY • Hebrew Benevolent Loan Association (HBLA)

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Connection to Israel and Global Jewry The Bonnie Advocate on behalf of, and Clement Team develop connections to, the State of Israel and the Jewish people around the world.

PARTNER GRANTS (totaling $214,300):

• The Jewish Agency for Israel (JAFI) • American Jewish Joint Distribution Committee (JDC) • Partnership 2Gether Western Galilee Central Area Consortium (P2G) • World ORT • Hand in Hand • ALMA: Pre-Military Academy for Female Leadership • Galilee Medical Center • OneFamily • Krembo Wings • Ethiopian National Project

Preserving our Legacy

Celebrate and honor our rich heritage, collective history and enduring faith by curating and promoting Jewish wisdom, cultural arts, Mary Hutton, Bonnie Clement, Lisa Levin, history, communal celebrations and memorials. Sheryl Martin, Beth Joseph

PARTNER GRANTS (totaling $201,600): BONNIE CLEMENT • Public Relations Licensed Associate Real Estate Broker • Cemetery Corporation • Jewish Buffalo History Center • Holocaust Resource Center Cell: 716.553.8384 [email protected] | BonnieClement.com HUNT ERA Williamsville Village Branch: Sustaining and Securing our Community 5570 Main Street, 1st Floor, Williamsville, NY 14221

Create and strengthen the structure necessary to support a strong and vibrant Psychological Health - Jewish Buffalo. Cultivate investments The Best Way to Celebrate ANY Holiday to support the current and long term financial, and facility needs of the entire Dr. Amy Beth community. Develop human capital to Ask ensure innovative and responsive leadership Everyone else does! by both professional and volunteer leaders. • Evening & Weekend Appointments Foster collaboration and partnership among • Therapy, Workshops, DWI Evaluations Court-Ordered Assessments community partners through convening, PARTNER GRANTS Experience - Professionalism - Sensitivity planning, and shared services to optimize (totaling $513,000): our collective resources. Lastly, invest in Dr. Amy Beth Taublieb security measures and coordinate with all New York State Licensed Psychologist • Fundraising/Security levels of law enforcement to enhance the • Talent & Leadership 1006 Niagara Falls Boulevard, Tonawanda safety and well-being of Jewish Buffalo at • Planning 716-834-1505 places of worship and community gathering. www.dramybeth.com

February 2021 | www.buffalojewishfederation.org 5 COMMUNITY ON THE COVER Celebrating our culture, sharing our stories: a look into the history of Jewish Buffalo BY CHANA REVELL KOTZIN, PH.D.

This month, Federation is launching an exciting new community resource, one that seeks your participation to be part of history making! The Jewish Buffalo History Center website, powered by the Buffalo Jewish Federation, is an evolving gathering point for community-based history. From synagogues to agencies and organizations, to family and businesses, the website includes a selection of materials from resources generated over the last decade including the illustrated history of Jewish Buffalo released through Arcadia Publishing (Jewish Community of Greater Buffalo, 2013) and the image collection available online through New York Heritage (https://nyheritage.org/collections/jewish-buffalo-image-collection). These images came out of the work of the Jewish Buffalo Archives Project, supported by the Foundation for Jewish Philanthropies. With the launch of Jewish Buffalo History Center website (https://jewishbuffalohistory.org) our goal is to expand upon these materials collaboratively. We hope to provide a place where evolving stories of organizational, commercial, civic and family histories can grow with your help.

Current features of the website attachments, past and present, in this place include institutional, biographical and we call home. Hebrew Benevolent Loan Association, Officer Pins, photograph created by Izon Productions- thematic sections that explore stories and This content-rich website highlights Don Dannecker, 2013. Courtesy of the Foundation for Jewish Philanthropies. experiences of Jewish Buffalo from the these themes as it explores streams of nineteenth century to more recent times. Jewish religious groupings practiced Touching directly on international, national and supported over time. It outlines the and local experiences that have animated histories of agencies, synagogues and Jewish life in America over the last two voluntary organizations created by Jews centuries and more, it explores stories in Greater Buffalo, and it pairs these with of diversity, mobility, connection and biographies of Jewish individuals, past community. These themes are especially and present, who have impacted Buffalo relevant to the broader Buffalo region through their creative works, science, which has served as a crossroads and nexus arts, culture, volunteerism, leadership point across much of its histories. As an and philanthropy. Future plans include Hadassah Follies Buffalo’s First Family of Sol Messinger aboard the SS St Louis international port, a manufacturing base, online exhibitions and an expansion of Show, Fundraiser Fashion, LL Berger Marketing with his parents. Courtesy of Sol Program Cover, 1955. Brochure,1980s. Courtesy Messinger, MD. a city of culture, and as an ever-evolving the Made in Buffalo series that showcases Courtesy of Hadassah of Marcia R. Frankel/ TBZ metropolitan region, its vital mix of the contributions of Jews who have “cut of Greater Buffalo Cofeld Judaic Museum. communities old and new, both ethnically their teeth” in Buffalo whether born and and religiously diverse have made it a place raised here, attended school or begun their You can also check back of connection and reinvention. careers here in Buffalo. monthly in The Jewish Being Jewish in the Buffalo region has We are very grateful for the many Jewish Journal for developing changed over time too, as Jewish residents organizations that have shared their stories and updates to have worked to maintain traditions, to materials with us, particularly when most the website, beginning fashion new identities and to participate collections in our local archives have been with helping us to match in a variety of Jewish religious streams, inaccessible during the pandemic. We also some names and faces on or none. Jews in Buffalo have created an thank the individuals and families that have our feature photograph array of diverse local institutions and been willing to share their family histories, above. Avy Sterman and organizations, businesses and initiatives. and we look forward to highlighting many Nathan Kornmehl are In communities and social networks more. Please help us grow this website at the center, and Rob within Jewish families and beyond them, further! Goldberg’s grandfather, Louis A. Goldberg, is second from the left in this in organizations and outside of them, and You are invited to explore the website iconic image by local photographer Frederic Marschall from the ground- in ties within non-Jewish communities, and immerse yourself in our region’s breaking ceremonies at the site of Temple Shaarey Zedek in 1968, part of a Jewish Buffalonians have shaped events, diverse Jewish histories and heritages, and move to suburbia. Can you help us identify who else is in the picture from built and maintained communities, faced follow links to participate. left to right? Please email Chana at [email protected], challenges and catalyzed social and Dr. Chana Revell Kotzin is Director of the with your answers! Looking forward to celebrating our culture and sharing cultural change, producing an array of deep Jewish Buffalo History Center. our stories with you!

The new Jewish Buffalo History Center website was designed and built by Telesco Creative Group. We are especially grateful for the work of Mike Telesco, President and Creative Director, and Kim Stacy, Art Director, who have transformed our ideas and content into a wonderful place to explore. Telesco is located at 344 Delaware Ave, Suite 250, Buffalo, NY 14202 and you can find them on the web at https://telescocreativegroup.com.

6 www.buffalojewishfederation.org | February 2021 COMMUNITY “Virtual” Super Sunday is NEW: JRT Theatre for February Covid-19 related challenges have resulted in updates to the Jewish Repertory Theater’s season line-up and schedule. Exquisite Potential, originally January 7 – February 28 27 has been rescheduled for April, 2021 – dates TBA. The Year My Mother Came What do you get when you combine an Back, a world premiere, will replace An Unexpected Life, also written by award- exciting, popular community fundraising winning Alice Eve Cohen, February 4 – 24. event that brings community together on behalf of Jewish Buffalo with the worst pandemic in the last 100 years? VIRTUAL SUPER SUNDAY 2021! Yup! Super Sunday is still taking place—and it’s happening Sunday, February 28 whatever the weather, because it’s virtual this year! You Merredith and Ken Levin can be a part of it right from the comfort of The Year My Mother Came Back is a and found, Alice finds her mother and your own home. Merredith and Ken Levin are Or, if you are unable to pick them compelling story. Thirty years after her rediscovers herself. A love story. A ghost this year’s chairs and we are working towards up during that time, let us know death, Alice’s mother appears during story. A contemporary tale that reaches raising $50,000 with your help! Look forward and they will be delivered to you. the hardest year Alice has had to face. back through generations. to fun Zoom training, surprise appearances Then, on Sunday, February 28, join She learns that she must walk in her Thank you for your patience and entertainment to make it a great day! us for a Zoom Welcome and Worker mother’s shoes in order to understand as we keep theatre alive in this “We are delighted to be part of this year’s Training before your desired shift. As her, forgive her, and rediscover her love unprecedented year! Tickets and info at Super Sunday,” said the Levins. “During such you make your calls, you will be able for her. In this story of a parent lost www.jewishrepertorytheatre.com. a challenging time, this is a great opportunity to submit your results and pledges to connect with people throughout the Jewish through a new online form. community. Although we will be engaging with the other volunteers virtually this year, WHAT IS THE FEBRUARY 28 Legislator Vinal Secures we are looking forward to sharing some laughs SCHEDULE? and joining together to celebrate and support The day begins with a Zoom Funding For The JRT Jewish Buffalo.” Welcome and Worker Training at Hon. Jeanne Vinal, Esq. has lived but also from providing the fellowship, 9:00 a.m. and noon. When you sign in the town of Amherst with her community, support, and fun of being HOW? up, you will get the Zoom link the family for the past twenty years. together enjoying a performance. In That’s easy! There will be two shifts of week of Super Sunday. There will be a Vinal was elected to serve as Erie addition, membership outreach which is callers this year, one at 9:00 a.m. and one at variety of gift certificates and prizes County Legislator for District 5, always necessary in any group, has also 12:00 noon, calling community members in from local companies. Randi Morkisz which contains about 75 percent of faced setbacks with the pause on large Jewish Buffalo to be Super Heroes and donate and Stacey Block will be available the Town of Amherst and includes groups meeting in person. to the 2021 Campaign for Jewish Buffalo. by zoom or by phone from 9:00 a.m. Eggertsville, Snyder and the Village The funds will be used at the -2:00 p.m. for Super Sunday support. of Williamsville. In her first year discretion of the Theatre’s board, and DO YOU WANT TO VOLUNTEER? as Legislator, Vinal secured $5,000 Legislator Vinal plans to attend the next That’s easy, too. If you make a gift to the HOW DO I REGISTER? worth of funding for Jewish Repertory meeting to answer any questions and Campaign for Jewish Buffalo, you are eligible You can register online at Theatre. to speak on the budget and the state to volunteer. First, you need to register to https://bit.ly/2021SUPERSUNDAY Legislator Vinal said, “It was a priority of the county. This season, under Saul make phone calls, deliver volunteer materials, or call Stacey Block at 716- to get funding for Jewish Repertory Elkin’s artistic direction, the Jewish or make Thank You and check in-calls to 861-0018 or e-mail Stacey@ Theatre because I know how important Repertory Theatre is presenting Five community members. Next, you need to buffalojewishfederation.org and you community groups such as this one Staged Virtual Readings. Find more schedule a time to pick up your volunteer will get a volunteer confirmation are.” The pandemic and shutdowns information, the schedule and tickets at packets on Friday, February 26 between form. have strained community groups from www.jewishrepertorytheatre.com. 9:00 a.m.-12:00 noon at the Benderson JCC. both working toward their mission,

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February 2021 | www.buffalojewishfederation.org 7 COMMUNITY JCRC Not in Our County: Defending Dr. Gale Burstein and Mark Poloncarz Thirteen (13) Buffalo Jewish Impact Award, has worked tirelessly and We are blessed in Erie County to have of Jews as collective — such as, especially organizations and synagogues along with professionally during the pandemic, never someone who is at the top of her game, not just but not exclusively, the myth about a world the Town of Amherst rapidly signed- focusing on the antisemitic tropes aimed in New York State, but also in the entirety of the Jewish conspiracy or of Jews controlling the on to a Jewish Community Relations at her. country. Dr. Gale Burstein has truly gone above media, economy, government or other societal Council (JCRC) and Holocaust Resource In addition, the Buffalo Jewish Federation and beyond, working round the clock with little institutions. Center (HRC) opinion article published (at the recommendation of the HRC and the in the way of complaint or celebration. Having We fully support our government leaders in The Buffalo News this past December JCRC) adopted the International Holocaust aggressively tackled the opioid crisis, saving who work passionately each day to help defending Commissioner of Health Dr. Remembrance Alliance working definition countless lives along the way, she is a seasoned contain this COVID-19. While we acknowledge Gale Burstein and County Exec Mark of antisemitism, which ran last month in professional who works out of a sense of deep frustration at not being able to run businesses, Poloncarz against antisemitism and hate. The Jewish Journal. Over 35 nations, several duty to the public who she serves. pray with fellow congregants in churches, They include: Buffalo Hadassah, states, cities and universities have also What she does not deserve is the endless mosques, gurdwaras, temples or synagogues, Congregation Beth Abraham, Congregation adopted the definition to use an educational stream of what Erie County Executive Mark we are committed to following the direction Shir Shalom, Foundation for Jewish tool. Examples of antisemitism definition Poloncarz called “very serious, antisemitic from medical experts, scientists and political Philanthropies, Hillel of Buffalo, Jewish are cited in the op-ed below, which was attacks” in a Sunday, December 13th Buffalo leaders. Community Center of Greater Buffalo, Jewish originally signed by the JCRC, HRC, National News article. We support Mr. Poloncarz as a current day Discovery Center, Jewish Family Services Federation of Just Communities of WNY, and Violence against Jews is at a historical Upstander – one who did not ignore or look the of Western New York, Jewish Federation the Network of Religious Communities. level. The Anti-Defamation League reports other way at the explosion of hate towards his Cemetery Corporation, Kehillat Ohr Tzion, The following is the text of the op-ed that American Jewry is experiencing the highest staff or himself. During the Holocaust, Nazi Open Door Judaism, Temple Beth Tzedek which appeared in “Another Voice” in The rate of antisemitism since it started collecting Germany systematically murdered six million and Temple Beth Zion. Buffalo News December 16, 2020. data in the 1970s. The language used against Jews and five million other peoples (including County Executive Mark Poloncarz The job of a county health commissioner our local officials is age-old antisemitism that a member of Mr. Poloncarz’s family). If more publicly denounced strong antisemitic and is one of the most thankless in all of local has led to violence against Jewish communities people had been Upstanders, not bystanders, hate attacks toward Commissioner of Health government, particularly during a global around the world. We need to stop this rhetoric this atrocity could have been prevented. Dr. Gale Burstein and himself in response pandemic. It requires hours and hours of before it becomes lethal. Mr. Poloncarz refused to stand by, calling to COVID-19 safety protocols issued by the educating the public, sitting in administrative Like all antisemitic attacks, the attack out hate and reminding our community of county. Dr. Burstein, who is a member of the meetings, attending press conferences, and on Dr. Burstein consisted of, mendacious, its democratic values. Again, we join Mr. Jewish community and the recent recipient attending the seemingly endless crisis we have dehumanizing, demonizing, or stereotypical Poloncarz and remind community members, of the Ann Holland Cohn Community faced the past nine months. allegations about Jews as such or the power “We must do better. We can do better.”

8 www.buffalojewishfederation.org | February 2021 COMMUNITY Israel Startup Nation (Version 20.21)

The Baltimore/Buffalo/Rochester office of Israel Bonds, in partnership with Buffalo Jewish Federation and the Jewish Federation of Greater Rochester, invites you to an exciting virtual event:“Israel Startup Nation” Tuesday, February 23 from 5:00-6:00 p.m. There is no cost and registration is required.

Al Kinnel, President and Founder of Strategic Interests, a company that focuses on transforming healthcare through innovation, will moderate a conversation featuring CEOs of three of Israel’s most exciting healthcare start-ups: Shani Toledano of HTBioImaging, Eran ORR of XRHealth, and Uri Bettesh, of Datos Health. The program will also include special guest, Inon Elroy from the Israel Economic Mission. At the close of the one-hour event, every individual will have an opportunity to purchase Bonds.* To register or for questions, please email Federation CEO Rob Goldberg at [email protected]. *Development Corporation for Israel: This is not an offering which can only be made by prospectus. Read the prospectus carefully before investing to fully evaluate the risks associated with investing in Israel Bonds. Member FINRA

February 2021 | www.buffalojewishfederation.org 9 COMMUNITY Buffalo Jewish Film Festival Offering Chai Flicks Film and Talkback Series BY RICK KOLLINS as the “Jewish Netflix.” were part of the virtual film festival in Chai Flicks was created by executives August, viewers are able to register for Following the success of the past from Menemsha Films, the California- the Zoom discussions through a link year’s Virtual Buffalo International based distributor of Jewish-themed that will be provided. Each discussion Jewish Film Festival, the Festival entertainment operating since 1998. will be led by a member of the Festival Committee and JCC of Greater Previously, Menemsha distributed its Committee. The regular Buffalo Buffalo are presenting a special Film films exclusively through Netflix, as well International Jewish Film Festival will and Talkback Series featuring four as to Jewish film festivals across North once again be virtual this year and run movies that were screened and well- America and Europe. However, when from April 24 through May 15. For more received at previous festivals. These Netflix began to focus on producing its information, contact Katie Kwzontek at films are available online through own films, there was need for another [email protected]. Chai Flicks, the streaming platform their homes,” said Katie Wzontek, Director of outlet for Jewish content, especially Rick Kollins is a member of the Film launched in August to bring Jewish- Cultural Arts at the JCC. “Once people have once the COVID pandemic closed down Festival Committee. themed movies to audiences a subscription to Chai Flicks, they can watch theaters. everywhere. Each of the four films our four featured films and more than 150 Similar to the Tuesday Talkbacks that will be followed by a discussion on other selections whenever they wish.” Zoom. Subscriptions to Chai Flicks (chaiflicks. “Since we received so much com) cost $5.99 a month or $65.99 a year, positive feedback for our virtual and can be canceled at any time. In addition Chai Flicks Film and Talkback Series festival in August, Chai Flicks to feature films from Israel and around FEBRUARY 2 -23, 2020 presented a perfect opportunity to the world, the streaming service offers offer more films that people can documentaries, TV series, music, sports and The Testament (Israel 2017) watch and discuss in the comfort of instructional videos, and is being described Drama/Thriller | Hebrew, German, English (with English subtitles) | 94 minutes Yoel, a meticulous historian leading a significant debate against Holocaust deniers, discovers that his mother carries a false identity. A mystery about a man who is willing to risk everything to discover the truth. Zoom Talkback: Tuesday, Feb 2, 2021 @7pm

The Rape of Europa (USA 2006) Documentary | English | 117 minutes For 12 years, the Nazis looted and destroyed art on a scale unprecedented in history. But heroic young art historians and curators from America and across Europe fought back with a miraculous campaign to rescue and return the millions of lost, hidden and stolen treasures. Zoom Talkback: Tuesday, Feb 9, 2021 @7pm

Once in a Lifetime (France 2017) Drama | French (with English subtitles) | 105 minutes A French high school teacher enters her inner city students in a national competition on the child victims of Nazi concentration camps. The project is initially met with extreme resistance, until a face-to-face encounter with a Holocaust survivor changes the students’ attitudes dramatically and they begin to see one another – and themselves – in a whole new light. Zoom Talkback: Tuesday, Feb 16, 2021 @7pm

Fanny’s Journey (France/Belgium 2016) Drama | French (with English subtitles) | 105 minutes Based on true events, this is an epic tale of bravery, strength and survival, as 13-year old Fanny and her younger sisters escape from the Nazis and make their way on their own from a Jewish foster home in Italy to freedom in Switzerland. Zoom Talkback: Tuesday, Feb 23, 2021 @7pm

10 www.buffalojewishfederation.org | February 2021 COMMUNITY THE SOUND Temple Beth Tzedek to Hold Rabbi Klein OF THE CITY Lecture Every Saturday This Month Dr. Raphael Medoff, the founding will address prominent non-Jews in his presentation of director of the David Wynman Institute “Babe Ruth and the Holocaust: Unlikely Allies of the for Holocaust Studies, will be the TBT Jews, Then and Now.” Scholar in Residence every Saturday in February 27: The focus will be on a multi-media February at 7:00 p.m. as part of Temple presentation, “Cartoonists Against the Holocaust.” Beth Tzedek’s Rabbi Isaac Klein Month. Dr. Reservations for these free and virtual events can be Medoff will connect America’s response to made at [email protected]. Donations can be the Holocaust with today’s world for these made to the Klein Fund at Temple Beth Tzedek, 1641 North ••••••••••••••• lectures, whose theme is “How America Dr. Raphael Medoff Forest Road, Williamsville, NY 14221. Responded to the Holocaust,” and will explored, and Dr. Medoff Thanks to the staff of the Buffalo Jewish Federation The GREAT AMERICAN be virtual and free of charge. will also discuss his recent for providing tech support, and the following patrons for SONGBOOK February 6: Dr. Medoff will present research about the 1948 making the Rabbi Isaac Klein Scholar in Residence Month “FDR and the Holocaust.” His recently presidential contest possible: ••••••••••••••• published book, The Jews Should Keep Quiet, between President Harry Anne Bernstein Memorial Fund addresses the American government’s Truman and Republican In Memory of Louis Blitz unwillingness to undertake serious rescue candidate Thomas Dewey. Mr. Albert J. and *Ursula Brunn efforts and the deep divisions within Dr. Medoff’s presentation Colman & Bluma Hesch Endowment Fund American Jewry at that time. will challenge the *Mrs. Jeanette Lansky February 13: Dr. Medoff will discuss conventional wisdom of Miss Muriel L. Segal Featuring: “The Jewish Vote: Myth and Reality.” The Jewish voting patterns in Drs. Saul and *Miriam Klein Shapiro behind the scenes efforts by Republicans that race with important *Virginia and *Charlie Yaeger Sara Vaughn and their Jewish allies to woo Jewish voters implications for Jewish The Generous Donors of the Heritage Stained Glass away from President Roosevelt during voting trends today. Window in Memory of Rabbi Isaac Klein. Ella Fitzgerald the 1944 presidential election will be February 20: Dr. Medoff *of blessed memory Lena Horne Nat King Cole Frank Sinatra

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February 2021 | www.buffalojewishfederation.org 11 COMMUNITY CJEL From Engagement to Investment: A New Model for Jewish Buffalo BY ROB GOLDBERG AND MIRIAM ABRAMOVICH

More than five years ago, the Buffalo Jewish Federation began to lay the groundwork for a new model of Jewish communal infrastructure, one best suited to an American Jewish community of our size. This effort began by creating a culture of engagement and receptiveness to new perspectives and ideas and took a significant leap forward through the first-ever ENGAGEMENT CONFERENCE and MADE IN BUFFALO featuring Seth Godin. Building upon our learnings, the Federation created opportunities and paths for new leadership through: Task Forces, Community Leadership Gatherings, the Council of Synagogue Presidents, and the leadership councils of the Center for Jewish Engagement and Learning (CJEL) and Jewish Community Relations Council (JCRC.) We worked towards a state of collective responsibility and collaboration through the establishment of the Secure Jewish Buffalo Fund and most recently the Community Compassion Fund, consolidation of historic agency infrastructures, and reimagining the Federation’s primary mission from a fundraising organization to Rabbi Adam J. Rosenbaum one focused on building a more robust, caring and connected 21st century Jewish Buffalo. Rabbi of Temple Beth Tzedek and Jewish Educator with the CJEL Our work is far from complete. However today, Jewish Buffalo, now Born in Winnipeg, Canada, Rabbi more than ever, operates collaboratively Rosenbaum grew up in Denver, Colorado and engages Jewish Buffalo’s leadership and attended Northwestern University beyond the walls of respective agencies or before his ordination by the Jewish synagogues. We are proudly a community Theological Seminary in 2005. Upon where both professionals and volunteers ordination, Rabbi Rosenbaum served work across institutional lines to address as Temple Beth Shalom’s Assistant the fundamental questions of individual Rabbi for four years. Rabbi Rosenbaum engagement and building and sustaining joins Temple Beth Tzedek (TBT) from Jewish communities, in a coordinated Synagogue Emanu-El in Charleston, SC, and consultative fashion. where he was their spiritual leader for As part of this new communal model, the past 11 years. The Rabbi is the proud the Federation launched a new lively father of three children: Shoshana, experiment which builds upon both the Jonathan, and Eliana. Beginning last idea of collective responsibility and the month, Rabbi Rosenbaum has been understanding that exceptional Jewish Rabbi Ori Bergman Rabbi Alex Lazarus-Klein working part-time as an Educator with professionals and synagogue rabbis Rabbi of Kehillat Ohr Tzion Rabbi of Congregation Shir Shalom the Center for Jewish Engagement and are crucial partners in our work. As a and Jewish Educator with the CJEL and Rabbinic Consultant for the JCRC Learning (CJEL), focusing primarily in pilot project for 2021, the Federation the Belonging and Adult Engagement is providing grants to three local Rabbi Ori Bergman arrived at Rabbi Alex Lazarus-Klein is a 2004 space. synagogues to enable their rabbis to Kehillat Ohr Tzion (KOT) in 2017. Prior graduate of the Reconstructionist embed themselves in specific Federation to finding his passion in serving the Rabbinical College. He also holds This is the beginning of our projects, taking on these part-time roles Jewish community, Rabbi Bergman Masters and Bachelor Degrees from the efforts to reimagine and re-engineer in addition to their congregational roles began a career as an Immigration Jewish Theological Seminary, as well a communal infrastructure for the and pulpit responsibilities. Lawyer in Toronto, Canada. In addition as a Bachelors degree from Columbia future. By linking our organizational In partnership with leadership at to his work at KOT, Rabbi Bergman has University. Before coming to Buffalo in arms and investing in our community’s Kehillat Ohr Tzion, Congregation Shir taught at Kadimah Academy, provided the Fall of 2008, he served as rabbi of rabbinic talent, we hope to create a Shalom and Temple Beth Tzedek, this kosher supervision through the Buffalo Temple B´nai Abraham in Bordentown, fully integrated community, and in novel investment deepens Federation’s Vaad HaKashrus (BVK), and taught New Jersey, and directed the Community so doing to fully realize the Talmudic commitment to communal collaboration, numerous classes to congregants and Partnership Program for the Jewish creed - Kol Yisrael Aravim Zeh LaZeh - assists in retaining exceptional rabbinical the community. Rabbi Bergman and his Federation of Greater Philadelphia. Rabbi All of Israel is tied to one another. talent here in Buffalo, and helps to offset wife Nora, are parents to four children: Alex and his wife, Ashirah, are parents to costs borne by each synagogue. Here is a Ruvi, Simcha, Devorah Leah, and three children: Jarah, Boaz, and Noam. Rob Goldberg is CEO of Buffalo little more about the three Rabbis who Zusha. As the earliest participant in In addition to his congregational work Jewish Federation. Miriam Abramovich are a part of this pilot project, and the the pilot project, Rabbi Bergman has as rabbi of Congregation Shir Shalom, is Federation’s Chief Experience Officer. communal projects on which they are been working part-time as an Educator last month Rabbi Alex began as the They offer many thanks to Rabbi Alex focused. with the Center for Jewish Engagement Rabbinic Consultant for the Jewish Lazarus-Klein for his input in writing this and Learning since the summer; his Community Relations Council (JCRC) article. portfolio includes designing and serving in various roles including facilitating Jewish learning experiences building relationships from the JCRC to with teens and young adults through the greater Buffalo faith community and the Buffalo Jewish Teen Initiative and engaging in programming around issues Nickel City Jews. of racial justice.

12 www.buffalojewishfederation.org | February 2021 CJEL COMMUNITY BELONGING The Center for Jewish Engagement and Learning (CJEL)’s Belonging Initiative leads Jewish living and learning gatherings for residents of Buffalo’s Women’s Jewish Group Home and future residents of Buffalo’s Men’s Jewish Group Home. Group homes are residences in a community where adults with disabilities are able to live together with peers, while receiving the daily supports that they need.

Reflections on Miriam’s Well gatherings over Singing with the Residents of the Future Zoom with residents of the Jewish Women’s Men’s Jewish Group Home

Group Home BY ZACK STEINBERG

BY DR. YONINA FOSTER Since last May I’ve had the pleasure Stories, songs, laughter, come to of working with the Center for Jewish mind as I reflect about working with Engagement and Learning to provide the women and families of the Jewish virtual musical programming for the Women’s Group Home. Stories? Song? men and families of the future Men’s Laughter? How, amidst the challenges Jewish Group Home. The Men’s Jewish of Coronavirus, could this be? I Group Home is a residence that Janet reviewed my file and notes to ensure Gunner is working tirelessly to bring that my mind wasn’t playing tricks. to fruition for men with differing Here are the people that I remember: abilities that will allow them to live independently and provide support J with her kindness and reference to for one another. candles together for Chanukah), a whole her Mom and dog. That same turning, becoming a dreidl, Over the years I’ve had countless lot of rock and roll (including Cody’s J with her unique laughter. we reflected upon earlier in the Fall for positive experiences singing with people favorite request “Star Spangled Banner” K with her special singing. Sukkot. I ask what turns? How do we turn of all different backgrounds, including in which I try to do my best Jimi Hendrix S reminding us of angels. Jewishly? The season and here we are at people with differing abilities. Going impression on acoustic guitar), 70’s L with artwork and thoughtful ideas. Sukkot, and Simchat Torah. We turn our virtual over Zoom was a different and soul, some Matisyahu raps, and plenty Sometimes other special adults tuning Torah back….and Mike shares a Torah exciting experience. I didn’t know quite of the campfire songs that are sung at in from homes around the area. being returned from those last words of what to expect. I always love hearing Jewish summer camps around the world. Torah, “Kol Yisrael,” “of all Yisrael,” back people sing, and feeling the energy that I’ve had fun taking our virtual sessions And Moms, Dads, families, popping to the beginning for “B’reishit,” the first creating musical experiences with other with me on my phone, playing at the in from wherever they were, sometimes word, as we KNOW we are ALL people of people can bring. Over Zoom, the only campgrounds of Camp Centerland, my visiting family in New Mexico. Mike with Israel. thing I hear while playing songs is my parents’ backyard in Williamsville, and his Power Point contributions when I’d The last letter, “lamed,” to the first, own voice and guitar. It could feel a lot my apartment in the Elmwood Village. say Chanukah blessings. People dancing. “Bet.” Put them together? “Lev.” Heart, like singing into a void. Throughout this We always sign off our Sunday morning And remember, please, some folks in saying to us in our heart of hearts, “We year, I’ve been encouraging everybody programs with an enthusiastic “Go Bills!” wheel chairs and multi colors, all for our are all the people of Israel, whatever the on my musical video chats to sing their I hope that we keep our spirits going for JEWISH programs. abilities of our bodies, minds, spirits.” hearts out anyways. I can tell how happy the months to come, and that sometime What I used to do in person, we now And we teach Jewishly. everybody is when, after each song, this year we can finally sing together in share over Zoom: Dr. Yonina Foster serves as a Jewish everyone is “unmuted’’ and we all laugh, a place that we’ll all call home. Let’s turn around….Well, spin…a Educator for the Center for Jewish clap, and get back to our conversations. Zack Steinberg serves as a music dreidl. You can turn in your chair, with Engagement and Learning, The Federation During these past months, we’ve sung educator for the Center for Jewish your finger, or your arm, maybe your Apartments and synagogues throughout through a wide variety of music. We sang Engagement and Learning, Temple Beth body. Let’s go. Western New York. Jewish folk songs for holidays (and lit Zion and the Jewish Community Center.

Miriam’s Well Community Member Reflection

BY OZ ABRAMOVICH we did it together at the house Seeing my friends J, J, K, S and L from with buckets and the Jewish Women’s Group home is not watering cans. really the same over Zoom but I still get a I poured water happy feeling being with them. I didn’t get slowly over K’s to visit the house very often, but especially hands so she could now with COVID, Zoom is better than feel it and do not seeing them. My favorite time was Taschlich with me. It is great to hang out last year when we went to the house to with people who are always happy. celebrate the High Holidays. We couldn’t Oz Abramovich is in 5th grade at Casey take everyone to a river for Taschlich, so Middle School. February 2021 | www.buffalojewishfederation.org 13 COMMUNITY

Beets, carrots, parsnips and turnips are among those vegetables commonly known as root crops. They offer a prolonged harvest season, a long storage life, produce a large amount of food in a small amount of space and are staples in an Eastern European diet. The Buffalo Jewish Federation’s Winter ROOTS Series pays homage to these staples, appreciating the sustenance they bring during a long winter season. In that spirit, ROOTS co-chairs, Leslie Shuman Kramer and Rise’ Kulick, invite you to join them for two more engaging virtual sessions, one this month and March 9. “Our goal is to connect Jewish Buffalonians with their genealogical roots in Eastern Europe, with a particular focus on Ukraine,” Rise’ explained. “Each of our sessions take their inspiration from the root crop cycle,” added Leslie. “The first program in the series was held January 25 and featured a conversation between Charlie Shuman and his son, Rabbi Dan Shuman. Details on the two experiences are below. For more information, please contact Joan Kwiatkowski by emailing her at [email protected].

Weed and Feed: Sunday, February 21 at 12 - 1 p.m. We’ll discuss Ukraine today featuring Rabbi Julia Gris of Congregation Shirat ha-Yam in Odessa and her daughter Izolde. Hosted by Jim Lodge, Senior Development Officer, ORT America.

Eat and Enjoy Tuesday, March 9 at 5 - 6 pm We’ll explore Eastern European food and culture with a number of special guests.

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Temple Beth Tzedek will present Rabbi Klein Memorial lectures during February. Dr. Raphael Medoff, the founding director of the David Wynman Institute for Holocaust Studies will be the TBT Scholar 3» in Residence every Saturday in February at 7:00 p.m. This year’s theme is “How America Responded to the Holocaust,” and will be virtual and free of charge. Make your reservation for these events at KleinSpeaker@ btzbuffalo.org.

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Hebrew Union College-Jewish Institute Temple Beth Zion Welcomes of Religion in New York, in May, 1989 and was awarded her honorary doctorate for Interim Senior Rabbi Sharon L. Sobel 25 years in the rabbinate from HUC-JIR in 2014. She received her undergraduate BY JODY GOLDSTEIN of the Union for Reform Judaism (URJ) degree in Mass Communications from in Canada. She has knowledge, skills and Boston University’s School of Public Temple Beth Zion has announced specialty training in crisis management, Communications. In her spare time, that Rabbi Sharon L. Sobel is board and leadership development, Rabbi Sobel loves to write, read, travel, currently Interim Senior Rabbi at organizational behavior, strategic and cycle, run, entertain, garden and cook. the synagogue through June 2022. long-range planning, and system theory. You can read more on her personal Rabbi Sobel is a second-generation Rabbi Sobel’s responsibility as the website: “Food for Mind, Body & Spirit” Reform rabbi who grew up with TBZ Interim Senior Rabbi is to facilitate at www.rabbisharonsobel.com. the synagogue as her second home. community-building and enable an We are extremely grateful to our Her parents and grandparents were atmosphere where strong, healthy Search Committee led by Kenneth ardent Zionists and instilled within relationships thrive and grow at Temple Graber and Eric Snitzer for their hard her a strong sense of ahavat Yisrael Beth Zion. It’s her goal to make sure that work in finding and bringing Rabbi Sobel – love of Israel. Their passion and people feel their voices are heard, their to our community. We look forward to Rabbi Sharon L. Sobel commitment for Judaism, Israel, and voices matter and that the community the next eighteen months of working the larger Jewish community inspired is richer, healthier and stronger through one another.” This Talmudic teaching together at Temple Beth Zion to build her to study for the rabbinate and their participation and presence. exemplifies who she is as a rabbi, as a a greater sense of trust, community, pursue a career as a Jewish communal For Rabbi Sobel, Judaism is about Jew and as an individual. spirituality, and joy. professional. community and building relationships, The daughter of a Reform rabbi (Rabbi Jody Goldstein is a Vice President She comes to Temple Beth Zion with relationships between all types of Richard J. Sobel, z”l, from Glens Falls, of Temple Beth Zion, and head of its more than 30 years in the rabbinate, people and each other and relationships NY), Rabbi Sobel was ordained from Engagement Committee. working with congregations both large between people and God. She has and small. She has served both as a dedicated her professional life to the congregational rabbi, and also for the Talmudic teaching “Kol Yisrael arevin broader Reform movement as the head zeh lazeh” – all of Israel is responsible for Rabbi Sara Rich Elected to Hillel Directors Cabinet The Holocaust Resource Center of Buffalo, in conjunction with Erie 1 and Erie 2 Chautauqua-Cattaraugus BOCES, are proud to present: Hillel of Buffalo Executive Director Rabbi Sara Rich has been elected to A Conference for Educators the Hillel International Directors Cabinet. The cabinet is comprised of Americans and the Holocaust a group of directors of local Hillels This conference will look at America’s response to the Holocaust with a focus on the War Refugee Board and the Emergency Refugee Shelter in Fort Ontario. This conference will also explore the to foster collaboration and best History Unfolded project, which allows students and teachers to learn what Americans could have practices between campuses and known about the Nazi threat by examining local newspapers from the 1930s and 1940s. Hillel International’s Schusterman International Center, the organization’s headquarters in Washington, D.C. Serving a two-year term, Rabbi Rich represents Hillels with two to four staff members serving public universities. Rabbi Sara Rich She was installed during the 2020 Hillel International Global Assembly, the tenth anniversary in the Hillel movement movement’s annual conference. The this summer, has strived to expand Global Assembly also included a workshop opportunities for every student in Dr. Barry Trachtenberg Dr. Rebecca Erbelding Eric Schmalz on Herd Community, Hillel of Buffalo’s Buffalo to learn about Judaism, make a Wake Forest University United States Holocaust United States Holocaust Memorial Museum Memorial Museum initiative to foster community among difference on campus and in the local students during COVID-19. The workshop community, and explore their connection Monday, March 15, 2021 was co-led by Director of Engagement to Israel. Since joining Hillel of Buffalo 6:00 – 8:00pm ET Logan Woodard and Springboard in 2017, she has brought a number of Innovation Specialist Macie Clawson. Hillel International initiatives to Buffalo, Zoom This role will further the partnership including the Jewish Learning Fellowship This conference is designed for middle and high school teachers in English Language Arts, Media Studies and between Hillel of Buffalo, Hillel and the Organizational Design Lab, a user- Social Studies. Attendees will receive two hours of professional development. The registration fee is $20. International, and the 550 local Hillels centric approach to student engagement. Information and Registration at www.e1b.org serving communities around the world. In addition to her Hillel work, Rabbi Rich Questions? 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February 2021 | www.buffalojewishfederation.org 21 2020 Honor Roll of Dr. Steven Awner *** Mrs. Julie C. Kweller Dr. Howard W. Benatovich *** $1,800-4,999 Dr. Jeffrey Lackner Mrs. Lana D. Benatovich ***, * and Dr. Ann Marie Carosella Donors Women’s individual gift of $1,800+ Mr. James R. Biltekoff *** Mr. Jeffrey Lapides ABC-Amega, Inc. Mrs. Joanne Biltekoff *** Steven Yellen and Karen Leeds The Buffalo Jewish Federation thanks and honors all of Miriam and Samuel Abramovich Dr. Joel Levin Mrs. Joan Cohen Dr. Frank J. Altman our donors to the 2020 Campaign for Jewish Buffalo. Mrs. Antoinette B. Dauber Bruce Levine Mrs. Jessica Meyers Altman and Corey Wolffe Levine Because of their generosity, our local and national agen- Mrs. Marsha A. Dautch ** Dr. Michael Altman Mr. Irving Levy cies are able to provide much-needed services to ensure Robert and Eileen Fine Mr. and Mrs. Stuart H. Angert Mrs. Dana R. Lewis Mr. Lawrence C. Franco vibrant Jewish life here in Western New York, in Israel Judy Babat Donald and Susan Lubick and around the world. The following names are people Mr. Arthur M. Gellman *** Jordan and Nikki Balsom Mrs. Marian B. Lustig who have contributed to the 2020 Campaign through Mrs. Bodil K. Gellman ** Dr. Joel M. Bernstein Cathy Shuman Miller Mrs. Susan Gellman *** Stacey E. Block 1/10/2021. If you have any question or your name is not and S. David Miller Stuart A. Gellman, Esq. Dr. Drucy Borowitz Mrs. Shelley K. Miller listed, please contact Stacey Block at 716-861-0018 or Jay and Ronna Gershberg Marjorie Bryen Mr. Barry A. Muskat e-mail her at [email protected]. Patty Glick Mr. David N. Bunis Cantor Penny Myers Mr. Arnold N. Kahn Dr. Irwin L. Burstein Dr. Charles R. Niles Mrs. Rise’ P. Kulick Mr. Philip Celniker Mrs. Cheryl Orlick Mr. Frederick B. Cohen Drs. Carlos and Luisa Kurek Mr. Todd Joseph $250,000+ $10,000 – 17,999 Dr. Michael E. Cohen Mrs. Beverly R. Levin and Cantor Barbara Ostfeld International Leadership Joshua Society (JS) The Late Ann Holland Cohn Reunion (ILR) Any individual or family Mrs. Karen Baker Levin Ms. Janet Gunner and Glenn Pincus Jane Cole Godin Fund Mrs. Deborah Pivarsi Any individual or family giving giving $10,000-24,999 The Late Larry and Sharon Levite * Dr. Gregory Daniels Dr. Robert and Dr. Tova Ablove Mr. and Mrs. Edwin Polokoff $250,000+ Mrs. Arlyne G. Levy Dr. Iris Danziger Peter and Judi Biltekoff Mrs. Zhanna Racine The Benderson Family Mrs. Susan L. Levy Dr. Kenneth M. Dauber The Late Dr. Melvin M. Brothman Mr. Eric L. Recoon Warren Lippa Albert and Estelle Deemer Fund Capital Realty Group Professor Robert I. Reis*** $100,000 – 249,000 Mr. Steven Lustig Mrs. Mindy A. Doerfler Prime Minister’s Council Bonnie Clement * Mrs. Roberta Rifkin Markel Family Fund Mr. David Doran Hon. Lisa Bloch Rodwin Any individual or family Mrs. Janet Desmon * , ** Randi L. Morkisz Mrs. Rivona Ehrenreich Mr. Kenneth A. Rogers giving $100,000+ Rose and Bud Frank Fund Mrs. Sandra G. Morrison Dr. Eli Farhi Mr. Richard A. Romer Weiss Family Philanthropic Fund * Rob and Shira Goldberg Mrs. Ellen L. Niles Eve Y. Feigelis Dr. Alan R. Saltzman Grant Golden and Deborah Goldman Northtown Companies Jo Nasoff-Finton and Eugene Finton Stuart Scheff and Lori Morreale Gretchen Gross $25,000 – 99,999 Dr. Arthur E. Orlick Dr. Jane Vogel Fischman Mr. Blaine S. Schwartz King David Society (KDS) Mr. Eduardo P. Heumann ** Dr. Stuart Lee Fischman Steven and Susan Schwartz Any individual or family Mrs. Amy Heumann** Mrs. Ellen S. Reis ***,* Mr. Peter Fleischmann Scott L. and Deborah L. Shiffner giving $25,000+ Mrs. Roberta S. Joseph ** Dr. Ellen P. Rich *** Mrs. Ilene Fleischmann Mr. Paul R. Shine Delaware North Companies, Inc. Jerald and Terri Katz Kasimov Mrs. Sylvia L. Rosen Howard and Laurie Foster Dr. Amy Ludwig Shuman*** Mr. George I. Gellman Jordan A. Levy ** Dr. Laurie Sadler Mrs. Florence Fox Mrs. Chaya Shuman Mr. Michael L. Joseph Dr. Sol Messinger Mr. Ronald Schreiber *** The Late Mr. Leonard J. Freed Rabbi Daniel Shuman Leslie Shuman Kramer * Sandra B. Rifkin Mrs. Sheryl Gutman Schreiber *** Dr. Emily S. Friedan Mr. Mitch Steinhorn and James S. Kramer and Michael Mesirov Mrs. Joanne M. Shatkin *** Mr. and Mrs. Kenneth P. Friedman Judi and Mont Stern Mrs. Stanford Lipsey Mr. and Mrs. Hyman Scheff Mrs. Leslie Shatkin *** Dr. Irwin Gelman Dr. Herman Stone Sanford M. Nobel The Late Mr. Sheldon Schneiderman Dr. Samuel Shatkin, Jr. *** Mr. and Mrs. Warren B. Gelman Mrs. Sheila Trossman* Eric and Cara Reich Dr. Maxine Seller Mrs. Marilyn Shine Dr. Philip Glick Mrs. Ellen Warner Marilyn C. Shuman* Dr. Todd Ellis Shatkin Mr. James L. Shuman Byron and Dorothy Goldman Mr. Gene Warner Bruce and Marianne Wisbaum Mr. and Mrs. Charles Benjamin Smith Charitable Fund Memorial Fund Mr. Neil Weinberg Howard and Leslie Zemsky and Penelope Shuman * Dr. Eric L. Snitzer *** Alan and Marcia Goldstein Mr. Peter Allen Weinmann Anonymous (2) Mr. Kenneth Shuman Mr. Robert B. Sommerstein Ellen Goldstein and Mitch Flynn Mr. Sidney N. Weiss Avrom and Viola Sterman Mrs. Cheryl Stein Dr. and Mrs. Andrew Green Jack and Barbara Yellen Haskell and James Stovroff $18,000 – 24,999 Mrs. Linda E. Steinhorn Mrs. Carin Greenfield Mr. Sheldon Yellen Joshua Society (JS) Memorial Fund Mr. Joseph Sterman Ms. Sharon Greenfield Mrs. Heidi Yellen Any individual or family Ms. Anne M. Virag * Mr. Douglas P. Stiller Harold and Susan Halpern Mr. Richard A. Zakalik giving $10,000-24,999 Mrs. Janet K. Wisbaum * The Hon. Kathleen Anonymous (18) Judith and Joel Brownstein Dr. Gil Wolfe Moises and Steny Sudit Peggy Sullivan and William Hocul Mr. Lawrence Dautch** Mr. Melvyn L. Hurwitz Mrs. Marilyn Sultz *** $1,000 – 1,799 Mr. David H. Desmon** $5,000 – 9,999 Dr. and Mrs. Brian S. Joseph Michael B. Berger, Esq. Mr. Irving Sultz *** Holly W. Levy * , ** Lion of Judah Mr. Gary A. Joseph Mr. and Mrs. Richard Bergman Mrs. Hannah R. Weinberg M & T Bank Women’s individual gift of $5,000+ Jeffrey H. Katz Mr. and Mrs. Marc Bernstein Margery S. Nobel * , ** Altman Dental Mrs. Julie A. Weinberg Mrs. Susan Katz Mr. Alan L. Bernstein Howard Rosenhoch Joan B. and David H. Alexander Ms. Amelida Ortiz Weinmann Dr. Elias J. Kaufman Mr. Jack Bibas Michael and Heather Weisman Mrs. Susan K. Altman Mrs. M. Kim Yonaty *** and Dr. Madeleine Kaufman Dr. Richard and Mrs. Lauren Mrs. Maxine Awner ***, * Mr. Stephen L. Yonaty *** The Doctors David and Emily Kaye Bloomberg Rabbi and Mrs. Pinny Young Mr. Daniel Kester Mr. Jeffrey Blum * Lion of Judah Endowment (LOJ) ** King David Society *** Joshua Society Shirley Zemsky Fund Mrs. Gunilla Kester Mr. David I. Blum Anonymous (2) Mr. Donald M. Kohnstamm Stacey Spokane and David Capretto 22 www.buffalojewishfederation.org | February 2021 Mr. and Mrs. Edward M. Case Rabbi Moshe Silbershein Dr. Carolyn P. Dukarm Mrs. JoAnne Nover Mr. Robert Alt Mrs. Maura Cohen Mrs. Patricia L. Simonson Mr. and Mrs. Jonathan Mr. and Mrs. Jeffrey D. Oshlag Mrs. Beth Alt Jonathan and Ofir Danziger Lillian Schwartz Endowment Fund and Judith Epstein Mrs. Frances L. Paskowitz Mr. Robert E. Altman Dr. Neil Dashkoff Craig Small Jane Epstein Mr. Steven B. Perelstein Mr. Richard Amdur Susan DeMari Mr. Irving Stein Dr. Howard S. Faden Mr. Milton Pitterman Mrs. Carol Amsterdam Mr. and Mrs. Howard B. Epstein Dr. and Mrs. Theodore Steinberg Mr. Gabriel J. Ferber Mrs. Rosalind Podolsky Dr. Alan Antfleck Dr. and Mrs. Marshall D. Fagin Dana and Michael Stoffman Edward J. Fine, M.D Mrs. Merle Pranikoff Mr. Irving Atlas Andrew Feldman Dr. Janice R. Sufrin Stephen Fogel Dr. Shalom Press Corey and Megan Auerbach Brenda and Eric Feldstein Richard Tobe and Susan Bring Tobe Mrs. Deborah Franco Mr. Val S. Racine Mrs. Janice Friedman Axelrod Mark Finkelstein Mrs. Kenneth E. Wagner Hon. Brenda Freedman and Mr. Larry and Marcy Raines Mrs. Gertude Bacol and Marina Maulucci Finkelstein Victor Wagner Memorial Fund Martin Mutka Dr. Phillip Recoon Dr. Sophia Balderman Mrs. Ellen C. Freed Mr. Mark S. Wallach Rabbi Jonathan and Ginny Freirich Mrs. Susan E. Recoon Ms. Tina Ball Dr. Anthony Freundel Dr. Michael B. Weinberg Mr. Sidney Friedman Mindy Robins-Reis and Shawn Reis Mr. Eric Balsom Mr. and Mrs. Scott Friedman Michael and Gina Weiner Shawn and Kathie Frier Mr. Edward C. Robinson Mr. Wolis Barback Mrs. Sue S. Gardner Bernard and Helen Weinstein Robin Raphael and Alan Gellin Mrs. Rosalie Rosenband Mr. Seymour Baren Mr. and Mrs. Jonathan Gellman Aaron and Wendy Weisbrot Dr. Lisa Gelman-Koessler Dr. Robert L. Rosenthal Ms. Carol Barenholt Dan and Sharon Gerstman Mrs. Helen Weiser Mr. and Mrs. Lawrence Gersh Mr. Laurence K. Rubin Dr. Stephen B. Bellus Mrs. Charlotte Gendler Dr. and Mrs. Barry N. Winnick Mrs. Marlene Glickman Mr. Lawrence Sadkin Mr. Michael Bendes Mrs. Claire Goldberg Mr. and Mrs. Howard Wiseman Mrs. Zella M. Glickman Mr. Harvey Sanders Mrs. Lea Bendes Mr. Steven D. Goodwin Sandra Gross Wolchok Mr. Michael F. Godshaw Mr. Scott M. Schwartz Mr. and Mrs. Michael Berg Mrs. Esther M. Greene Mr. and Mrs. Martin P. Wolpin Dr. Kenneth T. Goldstein Dr. Jeffrey Schwartz Hon. Jacqui Berger Donna Hirsh Mr. and Mrs. Bruce S. Zeftel Mrs. Janice Goldstein Dr. Susan Schwartz Dr. Roseanne Berger Fredric Hirsh Mr. Arnold Zimmer Mr. Leslie M. Greenbaum Mr. Matan Schwartz Dr. Robert Berger Mr. Jeffrey Hirschberg Anonymous (22) Dr. Bianca Guttman-Weinstock Dr. Morton H. Sclair Mr. Richard Berger Mr. Fred and Mrs. Barbara Holender Mrs. Harriet Halpern Morton and Elinor Shaevel Mrs. Benis Berger Mrs. Alice Isenberg $500 – 999 Mrs. Babette O. Hirschorn Mr. Evan Shussett Mr. Robert J. Berkman Jacobowitz Family Fund Mrs. Frima Ackerhalt Miriam Treger-Honig and Eli Honig Mr. Sanford Silverberg Mrs. Mary H. Berlow Robert I. Jadd, Esq. Mr. Scott M. Allen Mrs. Lisa M. Hotung Mr. and Mrs. Marc Slonim Mr. Stephen L. Berman Mr. Mark Karlin The Hon. Rosalie Bailey and Mr. Mr. Andrew B. Isenberg Mr. Carl E. Snitzer Mrs. Ellen R. Bernstein Dr. Todd and Josie Koch Thomas Bailey Mr. Fred Isenberg Mrs. Lynne C. Sommerstein Mr. Patrick A. Bielecki Mr. Cyril and the Drs. Judith Baron and Steven Stone Mrs. Jennifer Isenberg Bernice Stern Keith Birzon Late Mrs. Berna Koren Mrs. Suzanne J. Barney Mrs. Beth Ann Joseph Temple Beth Tzedek Mrs. Dawn Birzon Dr. Karen L. Krutchick Mrs. Susan Beiter Mrs. Marlene A. Joseph Mrs. Lillian C. Ungerleider Ms. Susan Black Alon Kupferman Dr. Gerald Berkowitz Mrs. Elaine B. Karlin Joseph Volpe Mr. Lincoln Blaisdell James and Veronica Kushner Mr. Ernest Berman Mr. Jacob Katz Mrs. Cookie Weil Mrs. Annette Blanchard Howard and Mary Kushner Mrs. Ellen Berman Dr. and Mrs. Kenneth A. Kellick Mrs. Margit Weinmann Mrs. Sharla Bleichfeld Gail Kushner Mrs. Sheila J. Bernstein Richard and Ann Kellman Iris and Ken Weinstein Dr. Bruce Bleichfeld Rion Kweller Mrs. Lisa Bibas Mr. and Mrs. Larry Kerman Mr. Erwin Weinstein Mr. Michael M. Blinkoff Mr. and Mrs. John M. Laping Mr. Robert Andrew Biltekoff Mr. Louis S. Kimmel Mrs. Evelyn Weinstein The Late Dr. Melvin G. Block Mr. Allan M. Lewis Nancy and Lawrence Birzon Mrs. Donna M. Klein Dr. Arie Weinstock Mrs. Joyce Block Lawrence Lewis and Judy Jack Lewis Mr. Neil Block Mr. Mark S. Klein Mort and Ellen Weintraub Mr. Edward S. Bloomberg Mr. and Mrs. Joel Lippes Sandra A. Block Mr. Dan D. Kohane Mrs. Sheila J. Weisman Mrs. Leah Blum Nina Lukin and Elliot Gabelnick Mr. and Mrs. Peter Bloom Jill and Michael Komm Mrs. Linda C. Weiss Mrs. Eva Blum Mrs. Lori Morrison Mrs. Barbara Blotnik Leon and Cynthia Komm Mrs. Sylvia Weiss Tara and Kenneth Blumberg Mr. James I. Myers Mr. David and Mrs. Hadar Borden Mrs. Tova Kristal Mr. Ronald Willig Mr. Stuart Bogom Dr. Jan M. Novak Mr. James Braun Rabbi Alex Lazarus-Klein Mrs. Ronna Wiseman Mr. Loran Martin Bommer Barbara Oliver Dr. Martin Brecher Dr. K. Nicholas Leibovic Mr. Steven G. Wiseman Mrs. Maxine R. Bommer Mr. and Mrs. Randolph C. Mr. Samuel M. Bronsky Dr. and Mrs. Richard Lepie Mr. Wayne R. Wolchok Mrs. Doris Bookbinder Oppenheimer Mrs. Ronald Bronstein Mr. Kenneth Levin Mr. Sanford Wolffe Mrs. Linda Boxer Mr. Michael Paskowitz Mr. Phillip Brothman Mr. Lawrence H. Levin Mrs. Karen L. Zakalik Dr. Laurence Boxer Mr. Harvey Podolsky Mrs. Elaine Brothman *** Mrs. Cookie Levin Ms. Judy Sally Zeckhauser Mr. Harold B. Brody Mr. and Mrs. Kenneth T. Polk Mr. Marc Brown and Dr. Shira Brown Mrs. Merredith Levin Ms. Margery Zeckhauser Mr. Irving Brody Dr. Stephen B. Pollack Mr. David Buch Dr. Sanford H. Levy Mr. and Mrs. Bruce S. Zeftel Mrs. Jill Bronsky Mr. Paul Polokoff The Late Mrs. Audre Bunis Mr. Steven B. Levy Mrs. Piera Zeplowitz Mrs. Judy Brothman The Late Mr. Louis Pozarny Ms. Molly Carr Mrs. Faye S. Levy Lynn Zeplowitz The Hon. Deborah Bruch Bucki Mrs. Rolene Pozarny Mrs. Judith E. Carrel Mr. and Mrs. Leonard G. London Anonymous (26) Mrs. Freda Brummer Dr. Kevin Pranikoff Dr. Mark D. Chazen Mrs. Wendee G. Lorbeer Mrs. Gail E. Buch Dr. Deborah Raiken Ms. Debra L. Chernoff Mrs. Barbara E. Macks $100- 499 Mrs. Pamela J. Buehler and Mr. Charles Korn Mrs. Evelyn Cohen Mr. and Mrs. Morton J. Merowitz Ms. Patricia L. Abeles Rusty Buehler Rabbi Sara and Mr. Ezra Rich Ms. Deborah Di Matteo Mr. Paul J. Michaels Betsy Abramson and David Reisman Dr. Ruthellen Bunis The Late Mr. Jay N. Rosenthal Mr. Richard Dopkins Mrs. Barbara Moser Dr. Robert Ackerhalt Dr. Arlene Burrows Dr. Ronald J. Sadler Mr. Robert A. Doren Dr. Robert Moskowitz Mr. and Mrs. Arthur H. Ackerhalt Dr. Ronald Burrows Mr. and Mrs. Harvey Schiller Mrs. Shelley C. Drake Dr. Bennett Myers Mr. Marc Alan Adel Dr. Gale Burstein and Dr. Peter Bloom Dr. Steven and Sara Schultz Ms. Jean Dubow Dr. and Mrs. Jeff Neu Mr. Bruce S. Ader Mrs. Roberta Burstein-Markel Karen and Bruce Sckolnick Mr. Samuel Z. Dudek Ms. Monica Neuwirt Mrs. Rosalyn L. Algase Mr. and Mrs. Alan Camhi Mr. Harvey F. Siegel Dr. Patricia K. Duffner John and Esther Northman Mr. Michael Alpern Mr. Jed L. Carrol February 2021 | www.buffalojewishfederation.org 23 2020 Honor Roll of Donors

Dr. Stephen R. Cavior Mr. Alan E. Freedman Dr. Jill E. Hamilton Mr. Robert Krohn Dr. Michael Mogerman Mrs. Marnie Cerrato Mr. Bernard B. Freedman Mrs. Janet Harris Kronick Family Charitable Fund and Carol Froehlich Sherry Chase and Ben Fitt Mr. Robert K. Freeland Dr. Linda Harris Ms. Joan M. Kronman Mr. Robert Louis Monin Mr. Edward L. Chassin Mrs. Brandia Joy Freiman Dr. Cheryle Hart-Grossman Jennifer Stein Kumble Ms. Gail A. Morgan Mrs. Diane Church Mr. David Freiman Ms. Reine Hauser Dr. Sara Kunkes Lori and Armand Morrison Mr. Jeffrey Clark Mrs. Shoshanna Zucker Freundel Mr. Robert Hausmann Martha and Bob Kupczyk Mr. Tom Moscato Mr. and Mrs. Warren E. Clark Ms. Hannah Friedler Mr. Barry Heitner Dr. Sharon Kuritzky Stephen Moscov and Elizabeth Dr and Mrs. Christopher Irwin and Iris Friedman Mrs. Robin Helak Ms. Francine V. Kurtz Kyger and Julia Cohan Mr. and Mrs. Danny Friedman Mrs. Judy Henn Mr. Charles Kushner Mr. and Mrs. Reuven Moser Mr. Lawrence M. Cohen Dr. Michael H. Frisch Mrs. Renee Herman Mrs. Sharon Kushner Rabbi Moshe and Mrs. Rivka Gurary Ann Burstein Cohen Drs. Michael and Laura Garrick Mrs. Ilene Herr Mrs. Ruth F. Lansing Mrs. Eileen Mullaney Mr. David G. Cohen David S. Garson, M.D. Mr. Philip Herzbrun Dr. Richard S. Laub Mrs. Toby W. Muskat and Dr. Norah Lincoff Dr. Samuel Gelfand Mrs. June Iris Hesch Mrs. Shoshanna Laub Mr. and Mrs. Ira Nadel Ms. Michelle Cohen-Monte Dr. Alexander Gelfer and Dr. Frida Mr. Alan S. Hoffman Ms. Brenda Lehrman Mrs. Joan Nemirov Mrs. Norma K. Cohen Gelfer Mrs. Kathi B. Hoffman Dr. and Mrs. Alan J. Lesse Rich and Lori Newberg Mr. Robert B. Cohen Mr. Ryan L. Gellman and Dr. Wendy Dr. Jody Holmlund Donald and Betsy Lesses David and Julie Newberger Mr. Ronald Cohen Gellman Mr. Morris L. Horwitz Miss Holly L. Lesses Mrs. Debra Ann Newman Mr. Ronald S. Cohen Ms. Linda E. Gellman Leah and Raymond Hughes Mr. Paul T. Levine Phil Niles Congregation Beth Abraham Ms. Judith M. Gerber Mrs. Zana S. Hyman Mr. Louis Levinsky Mrs. Sharon Nisengard Mrs. Kathy Corff Rogers Gesher Religous School Mrs. Beverly Isenberg Mrs. Donna Levy Phil and Nicole Nobel Mr. Bruce Corris Andrew and Pamela Gewurz Mr. and Mrs. Lawrence Itzkowitz Mr. and Mrs. Jeff Levy Dr. and Mrs. Allyn Norman Dr. Michael J. Cowen Dr. A. Donald Gilden Mrs. Tracy Jacobowitz Mr. Mitchell Levy Mr. Gerald Nover Mrs. Leslie Cownie Ms. Roberta Giller Michel Jacobs Michael and Dene Lewin Mrs. Susan D. Nusbaum Ms. Ellen Daly Mrs. Barbara Ginsberg Mr. Stephen Fey and Ann Jacobs-Fey Mr. and Mrs. Martin Lewin Mrs. Amy O’Donnell Barbara and Errol Daniels Mr. Herman J. Ginsburg Mr. Symond Jacobson Dr. and Mrs. Fred Lewis Mr. and Mrs. Randall M. Odza Bruce and Teresa David Mr. Stephen R. Ginsburg Mrs. Susan Joffe Mrs. Dawn Lewis Ms. Judith Olin Mr. Henry L. Davis Mrs. Thelma Glaser Mrs. Maxine K. Johnson Mr. Harvey Lichtblau Dr. Benjamin D. Oppenheimer Mrs. Judith S. Davis Eric L. and Bonnie L. Glazer Dr. Larry E. Jones Dr. William Lin Ms. Dara Biltekoff Ordon Mrs. Marlene DeCarlo Mrs. Margot V. Glick Mr. Lawrence D. Joseph Mickey Osterreicher Joseph Lipsitz and Shannon Pass Dr. Roy R. DeFrancis Mr. Stephen M. Glick Mr. Michael Alan Kadish Ms. Ellen Goldberg Palmer Ruth Lipsitz Mr. Robert Dekoff Ms. Shelly Glick Gryfe Mr. Dale S. Kadish Dr. Mindy C. Paticoff-Weinman Mr. Art Lorbeer Andrew Deyell Mr. Joseph L. Glickman Mrs. Candace Kadish Ms. Jennifer Patrick Ms. Karin Lowenthal Elka Dintcheva Mrs. Halli Glina Dr. Kenneth R. Kahn Mr. Paul D. Pearson Mrs. Sandra J. Ludwig Cheryl Finton DiVita Mrs. Sylvia G. Gold Mrs. Linda A. Kahn Mr. Paul Peck Ms. Nina Lukin Mrs. Vicki P. Dorin Mr. Ari Goldberg Mrs. Kristie Kantor Elizabeth Blazey-Pennel Mr. Sheldon Aaron Macks Mrs. Ruth Dressler and Dr. Kelly Norman Dr. Robert E. Kaplan and Joshua Pennel Mr. Samuel D. Magavern Mr. Edward Drozen Mrs. Sue Goldberg Mrs. Michelle B. Kaplan Mr. Sanford R. Perlmuter Dr. Annette M. Magid Ms. Louise Dumain Mr. and Mrs. Richard S. Goldman Mrs. Sylvia N. Kaplan Mr. Gregory P. Photiadis Dr. Hillel Magid Dr. Sanford Eisen Ms. Kitty Goldman Diana and Hiram Kastenbaum Ms. Ann L. Pikoff Mr. Larry Magil Susan J. Elkin Dr. Scott M. Goldman Mr. and Mrs. Richard Kayton Mrs. Gail Pitterman The Late Mr. Bernard M. Engel Ms. Amy Goldstein Mrs. Alison Keane Mrs. Shirley Magil Mrs. Janie Polk Mrs. Nancy Enis Mr. Kenneth Goldstein Martin and Shelley Kerker Mrs. Agi L. Maisel Mrs. Sharon Pollack Mr. Joseph Enis Mr. Robert M. Goldstein Mr. and Mrs. Martin Kerker Mrs. Karen Maislin Hon. Mark C. Poloncarz Dr. Barry M. Epstein Dr. Gail R. Goodman Mrs. Helene G. Kershner Mrs. Shelly Malinowski Mr. and Mrs. Robert J. Portin Dr. Murray J. Ettinger The Late Mrs. Muriel M. Goodman Ms. Shiri Kester Mr. Lance J. Mark Mr. Laurence Posses Mrs. Pepy Ettinger Mr. Kenneth Graber Mrs. Edna Kielar Barbara Markel Mr. Menahem Ari Potash Mr. and Mrs. Herbert R. Falk Mrs. Adrienne J. Rothstein-Grace Mrs. Ruth G. Kirstein Mrs. Rachelle Marks Mrs. Carla Press Ms. Cynthia Falk Mrs. Noa Grant Mrs. Renee Klein Joanne Marquisee Ms. Janet Presser Dr. Alexander Farkash Mr. David Grayck Mrs. Lynn W. Klein Ms. Linda Marsh Mrs. Wendy Pressman Mrs. Joy A. Feldman Dr. and Mrs. Alex Green Mr. Robert Jay Klein Mrs. Sheryl Martin Dr. Polina Purizhansky Mr. Marwin L. Feldman Dr. Fred Greenberg Mrs. Lauren Klenofsky Mrs. Lenore Marx Mr. Edward Purizhansky Ms. Judy Feldman Mrs. Laurie S. Greenspan Mr. Lynn Alan Konovitz Daniel and Orna McNamara Ms. Alissa Rabach Mr. Alan Feller Ms. Karen M. Greenspan Mrs. Paula Kopstick-Ames Mr. and Mrs. Ronald L. Meer Mr. Charles L. Raderman Mr. Paul Fineberg Mrs. Andrea Griebner Dr. Sara Koritz Mrs. Karen Meltser Barry Radlin and Kirstie Henry Dr. Jeremy D. Finn Mr. and Mrs. Ilya Grinberg Mr. Ronald A. Korman Dr. and Mrs. Joseph M. Merrick Hon. Michael Ranzenhofer Mr. and Mrs. Willard A. Finton Mr. Eric B. Grossman Mrs. Betty F. 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Kaplin Mrs. Jackie Smuckler Matheny Mrs. Helen Rosen Mrs. Bernadine Strauss Mr. Harvey Kardaman Mr. Jim McCabe Ms. Rachel Roth Mrs. Annette Strauss * Lion of Judah Endowment (LOJ) Mrs. Deana Kardaman Mrs. Esther Melzer Mrs. Carol Roy Mrs. Inge Strauss ** King David Society Mr. Joseph C. Karg Dr. Larisa Meras Steven and Susan Rubinstein Samantha Sugarman *** Joshua Society 26 www.buffalojewishfederation.org | February 2021 COMMUNITY Ice Designs Howard Wolf Publishes New Novel BY ELIZABETH BERGMAN Howard R. Wolf, Emeritus Professor Wolf has lectured throughout the and Senior Fellow in the Department world as an Americanist, creative writer, In the middle of winter of English at University at Buffalo and literary journalist. One of Buffalo’s It’s as cold as can be recently announced the collaborative few Jewish American writers of fiction, But I look out my window publication of two novellas–Chris Howard is widely published, pursuing an And what do I see? Helvey’s Behind The Eight Ball and his interest in personality in memoir form novel Of Two Lives On The Lower Golan– (Forgive the Father), the novel (Broadway Icicles fringing the rooftops as one volume: Echoes of Loss and Serenade), drama (Home at the End of the Melting and shining in the sun Belonging. This innovative publication Day), and short fiction. I open my window brings together two authors with For the past fifteen And take, oh, just one vastly different backgrounds whose years, he has I reach out again two novellas reveal deep and shared created a To take only one more perceptions about the quest for character, “Ludwig But I stop and think “belonging.” Their protagonists-Earl Fried,” in twenty Just what are they for? Turner and Ludwig Fried, the former stories who, living a Kentucky police officer, the later in the shadow of the They are to be admired a displaced Manhattanite living in he earned a B.A. He then Holocaust and various Not to be taken away Israel – both look for a place to went to Columbia where kinds of displacement, They come only in winter belong in communities where they he earned his masters struggles still, often in And are not here to stay are outsiders; life in Kentucky and and The University comic terms, despite loss, Israel echo each other as Earl and of Michigan for his to belong somewhere. There is ice coating everything Ludwig try to integrate their origins Ph.D. He was a full- Mazal Tov to Howard on his Forming all sorts of designs and possible destinations. time professor at the lifetime of achievement and Dripping from roofs and treetops Born in 1936, Howard attended the University at Buffalo’s his most recent publication Hanging off of street signs Horace Mann School in New York City English department for 40 years, which is available through Some icicles are only one inch before attending Amherst College where from 1967 to 2007. Amazon in print and kindle. Others are five feet If I take this one inside It will melt in the heat

I pull my hand in With the only one I took And I run downstairs Where no one will look

I put it in the basement freezer Behind the roast beef So I’ll have my own private icicle For only me to keep!

The late Elizabeth Bergman wrote this poem when she was 12 years old. Her parents, Susan and Jerry Bergman, sent it to The Journal as a remembrance during winter.

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February 2021 | www.buffalojewishfederation.org 27 IN LOVING MEMORY In Remembrance The following individuals in our community passed away during the period The Challenge of Saying from December 19, 2020- January 15, 2021*. May their memories forever be a blessing, and may their loved ones be comforted among the mourners of Goodbye During the Zion. R. Bruce Baum F. Warren Kahn Pandemic Bernice Berger Frederic Kasimov BY RABBI ALEX LAZARUS-KLEIN Bernard Engel Estelle Lenard Herbert Feder Henry Mann The call came in from the family to visit their relative at a suburban Anne Haber Annette Masling hospital. I knew the congregant well Mark Hyman Joseph Masling and was devastated to learn she was dying. I was even more devastated Natalie Miller to learn it was from COVID. Visiting Thelma Perlow would be out of the question. The woman, a 98-year-old, died the next Richard F. Pierce day. Her family decided to postpone Ellen Pine any memorial until we could gather again in person. Professor Ronald P. Rubin Of all the many indignities of the Mona Schwartzberg pandemic, not being able to say goodbye to congregants is one the harshest. As Rabbi Alex Lazarus-Klein Helene T. Smallen a rabbi, I have been trained to offer offering the words of our central prayer, Lola Swede comfort to those nearing life’s final door. the shema. We pray for the soul to make The prayer itself is called the vidui or a safe passage back to God. If we inadvertently missed printing the listing of your loved one, please write to confessional prayer. It involves asking The vidui is meant to be offered every [email protected]. and we will include the name next month. forgiveness from any past wrongs and day of our lives, and is the centerpiece of the Yom Kippur holiday. But, like so many things in life, human beings often wait until the last moment to have the words uttered. Baring our souls, we beg God, “..May it be Your will that You heal me with total recovery, but, if I die, may my death be an atonement for all my wrongdoings… Master of the Universe may my passing be in peace.” While some may shy away from these moments, I find them beautiful. I am grateful for whatever measure of support I can offer to both the individual and family. I am there both to pray with them and just to witness all they are going through. Watching the body calm into its peaceful final trance is the closest I will get to God before it is actually my turn to exit this world. For the past ten months I have not even been inside a hospital, let alone offered any final prayers. What once was a routine trip to visit with the many congregants in need, now seems like a perilous journey into the dangerous and unknown. Every week when we receive the hospital census, my heart breaks just a little knowing there is so little I can do to help. Life and death, though, have continued as normal, now mostly behind the veil of computer and telephone screens. I have conducted conversions on my iPhone, while sitting under the shade of a tree 28 www.buffalojewishfederation.org | February 2021 of a cemetery, blessed wedding couples and he to share what was in his. outside of a retirement center while I told him that I loved him and the couples’ grandparents looked on appreciated all he done for me over from the windows of the facility, and the years. I voiced the words of the welcomed babies to the world over a Deuteronomy: Hear O Israel the Lord Zoom screen hundreds of miles away Our God, the Lord is One, and asked from my own. None of these moments forgiveness for anything that had been were ideal, but I felt fortunate to be left undone. present at all, even virtually. The moment was so preciously This past week a dear congregant lay painful. I could not even begin to dying in the hospital. He was only in his imagine what his spouse and family seventies, a vibrant, loving soul, who had were going through. Afterwards, one navigated years of health challenges. His of the nurses, who happened to be a wife of only a few years was by his side, congregant, texted to let me know how a blue mask covering the majority of peaceful the man had gotten after our her face. Despite all the two had gone conversation. A few hours later he was through, she had remained steadfastly gone. by his side. As I stood at the cemetery a few The staff at our local trauma center days later with the meager crowd of had gone above and beyond to contact ten we were permitted (all masked, of me and set him up with a Google course), tears welled up in my eyes, Duo device in order for us to talk. My not just for this congregant, but for all congregant’s face was frail, with tubes the moments stolen from us by this extending out of his throat to help him insidious virus, for the lesser world into breath. I barely recognized that it was which we would eventually return, and the same person. for the overwhelming grief of not being He nodded his head and mouthed able to properly say goodbye. words to communicate and I tried my Rabbi Alex Lazarus-Klein is rabbi of best to express what was in my heart, Congregation Shir Shalom.

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