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Your Federation Supports: Female resistance is subject Jewish Education Food Pantry of Yom Hashoah keynote Friendship Circle By Amanda J. Hornberger is an unforgettable true tale of war, the fight Chevra A major myth of the Holocaust is that for freedom, exceptional bravery, female Community the Jews did not put up any resistance friendship and survival in the face of staggering to the Nazis. In “The Light of Days: odds. The book has been optioned by Steven Reading Jewish Film Series The Untold Story of Women Resistance Spielberg for a major motion picture. Fighters in Hitler’s Ghettos,” author Judy If you have a family member who PJ Library Batalion brings to light the extraordinary perished during the Holocaust and would Jewish Family Service accomplishments of brave Jewish women like their name read aloud during our who became resistance fighters — a group event, please email Amanda Hornberger Jewish Cultural Center of unknown heroes whose exploits have at [email protected] with the name, Lakin Holocaust Library never been chronicled until now. age and any other known details by April 5. The community is invited to gather together Learn more about this unknown Holocaust & Resource Center on Erev Yom Hashoah on Wednesday, April history when Batalion joins us for a discussion 7, at 7 p.m. to commemorate Yom Hashoah on Wednesday, April 7 at 7 p.m. on Zoom. & Overseas with Batalion. We will be joined by members Judy Batalion is the author of “White Camp Scholarships of the Bender JCC of Greater Washington for Walls: A Memoir About Motherhood, the keynote and candle lighting. Immediately Daughterhood and The Mess in Between.” Israel Trips following the keynote you are invited to stay She has written for The New York Times, for a reading of names of victims of the Vogue, The Washington Post and many Jewish Community Holocaust. other publications. Prior to her writing High School Witnesses to the brutal murder of their career, she was an academic and is fluent families and neighbors and the violent Judy Batalion in Yiddish and Hebrew. Emergency Support destruction of their communities, a cadre You can register by visiting our website: of Jewish women in Poland — some still German soldiers; bribed them with wine, https://readingjewishcommunity.org/home/ Lakin Preschool in their teens — helped transform Jewish whiskey, and home cooking; used their Aryan literatour Signed copies of the book will Richard J. Yashek Lecture youth groups into resistance cells to fight looks to seduce them; and shot and killed be available for purchase through the the Nazis. With courage, guile, and nerves them. They bombed German train lines and Literatour Berks official book vendor, Reads Transportation of steel, these “ghetto girls” paid off Gestapo blew up a town’s water supply. They also & Company of Phoenixville. guards, hid revolvers in loaves of and nursed the sick and taught children. Thank you to the sponsors and patrons Maimonides Society jars of marmalade and helped build systems Powerful and inspiring, featuring 20 black- of Literatour Berks for making this event Your Jewish Legacy of underground bunkers. They flirted with and-white photographs, “The Light of Days” possible.

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Pharmacist Tracy Rossi delivers a COVID-19 vaccination during a community clinic held at the JCC on March 7. She was one of the driving forces behind the event, which vaccinated 320 people. See Page 3 and Pages 10 and 11 for more on the event. Page 2 SHALOM April 2021 How each of us can make a difference

By Bill Franklin at home. You reassure extended family with JFS and Helping Harvest to feed more You can help make a difference. members who cannot be with their loved than 250 families each month at our two One way is to support the work of our ones here in Berks County. You ensure our Food Pantries. Federation supplements these Jewish Family Service. Carole, Sari, and community members receive services they groceries with donated items like children’s many volunteers work to give hope to both need. As our senior population ages, you books and school supplies. Our pantries are our Jewish and non-Jewish communities. enable JFS to offer ways they can remain “staffed” by 20 to 40 different volunteers, and Jewish Community engaged with the Jewish community. new volunteers are always welcome. Jewish Family Service (JFS) serves The Federation’s JFS, with your caring As Jews, we know we have an obligation families and individuals struggling with support, helps families and individuals with to care for one another. Ensure the safety physical or emotional issues of health, aging, basic everyday needs. We place a priority and health of those around you and the n t relationships or finances. You help people on food, health, and shelter by helping to needs of our Jewish community. If you can, live as independently as possible, ensuring close gaps in utility bills, monthly rent, and please help by giving to the Community our Jewish neighbors and friends do not medical expenses. Campaign today. become isolated. You help caregivers with Each of us can make a difference.

e Outside of our Jewish Community aging spouses or parents with adult children You supply the groceries in partnership Together we make change.

All-Star Passover Concert scheduled for April 1 m By Amanda J. Hornberger Musical Passover Seder on Thursday, Joanie Leeds and Rick Jewish Federation of Reading/Berks April 1 at 6:30 p.m. on Zoom. Recht! and PJ Library in Reading are incredibly The concert features Jewish kids You can register by

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PJ Library in Reading is generously sponsored by the Sue B. Viener Memorial Fund of Jewish Federation of Reading/Berks April 2021 SHALOM Page 3 From the President’s Desk Vaccination event brings sage Jewish wisdom to life

By William D. Franklin Jewish Federation, working with Reform Hispanic, Islamic, African-American, On Thursday, March 5, we received President Congregation Oheb Sholom, Kesher Zion and interfaith communities. As a result, them. We sprang into action. Our JFR Our great sage, and Chabad, developed a list of Jewish 160 members of their communities staff, Tracy Rossi, her pharmacy team Rabbi Hillel, is known community members in the 1A category received the other half of the 320 and 14 volunteers spent hours calling, for many wise sayings. for vaccination. Carole Robinson, Sari vaccinations administered by Tracy filling out required paperwork and One of his most Incledon and Brenda Seidel checked and her associates. We have received managing the logistics three days later, famous is: our community calendar directory and many thank-you notes and several on Sunday, March 7. “If I am not for the JFS client list to make the list as contributions from these very grateful We were able to follow Hillel’s myself, who will be for comprehensive as possible. Over 580 recipients. dictum, and because we were prepared me? If I am only for community members were contacted And last, “If not now, when?” We to perform the mitzvah “now”. The myself, who am I? If by e-mail or phone. We did not receive were told in early February that most clinic’s success was the result of the not now, when? “ replies from 216, and we learned 206 likely we would have 300 or more intense focus, preparation, and hard This is a prescription for ethical Jewish community members had received vaccines available but did not know work of many people. We are looking behavior, not only in its content but in its the vaccine. This left us with 160 Jewish when or exactly how many. We chose forward to working again with Tracy sequence. community members to vaccinate. Our to hold a clinic on a Sunday, put our and Eric Easterbrook and our other First, “If I am not for myself, who will be first concern was caring for our community. lists in order, ordered necessary community institutions to hold several for me? “In February, Tracy Rossi, working But “If I am only for myself, who equipment, and established and more vaccination clinics. And now that with Eric Esterbrook of West Reading am I?” With our extra vaccines we practiced procedures to efficiently we know what we are doing, we will be Drug Store and the Esterbrook Pharmacy, had the opportunity to share our good handle 300 people properly receiving ready to do it again. offered to provide and administer more fortune and perform a mitzvah. We vaccinations. On March 2, we were I am so proud of our volunteers and than 300 Covid-19 vaccinations. Our reached out to our partners in the advised that the vaccines had shipped. staff who made it a success. Thank you! Between Yom HaZikaron and Yom Ha’atzmaut

By Adi Shalev entertainment, colleges, stores, and most make such a sharp switch from sadness to hear the story of Guy Boyland Z”L, We experience 48 hours of yoyoing workplaces close early, so people have to joy? How do bereaved families, such who died during Operation Tzuk Eitan between sadness and pride, between time to attend a ceremony in the evening. as mine, manage to celebrate? Should (Operation Protective Edge), and we will difficulty and joy, between sad songs The unique atmosphere starts then and a weekday be between the two special bake his favorite dessert — and happy fireworks. Yom Hazikaron, continues throughout Yom Hazikaron. days to allow for recovery? cake. Memorial Day in Israel, is a special The air feels heavy, the radio plays only Many people say that this balance • Thursday, Yom Ha’atzmaut, day. Even if we do not know any of Yom Hazikaron-oriented songs, and between sadness and joy is what it is all April 15 between 4:30 and 7 p.m.: Yom the IDF’s fallen soldiers, and it seems on the TV there are only shows related about. There is an inseparable connection Ha’atzmaut drive-thru celebration with a that everyone knows someone, we all to Yom Hazikaron and to the soldiers’ between the sacrifice of the soldiers’ lives kosher Israeli food truck, Yom Hazikaron experience it with great force. stories. Every school holds a ceremony. and our lives in an independent state. This &Yom Ha’atzmaut exhibition, gift bag Erev Yom Hazikaron begins with Everyone stops what he or she is doing, connection symbolizes the complexity (pre-registration required) and Israeli a memory siren lasting one minute at even if driving, and stands while the siren of life itself, which naturally and often music! 8 p.m. and continues with memorial is on, to respect and remember. instantaneously moves between sadness • Sunday, April 18 at 1 p.m.: ceremonies in every city and TV programs After everyone is back from Yom and joy. “And in their deaths they ordered special Israeli baking class with the Israeli in memory of the fallen, one after the HaZikaron ceremonies, Yom Ha’atzmaut us to live,” as Haim Nachman Bialik said. Pastry chef Lior Mashiach, where we will other. Communal “singing evenings” celebrations start in the evening with the We honor, remember, and cherish them learn how to bake , a traditional with Yom Hazikaron songs take place Torch Lighting Ceremony broadcast from while doing our best to make our small Yemenite Jewish pull-apart yeast bread. everywhere. Sometimes it is hard to see Jerusalem This marks the closure of the Yom country a wonderful place to live. • Wednesday, April 21 at 7 p.m.: because of the tears, and sometimes you Hazikaron commemorations and the opening I do have some issues with the sharp special Israeli baking class with the cannot even sing along. of Independence Day celebrations. The transition from Yom Hazikaron to Yom Israeli chef Shay Golan (who won the My uncle Rafi, Zikhrono Livrakha, was ceremony is held at the burial site of Theodor Ha’atzmaut. I see how difficult and painful tv show “Bake-off Israel”), where we will an IDF officer. He died 33 years ago in a Herzl. The ceremony is designed to give it is to make that transition. On the other learn how to make , a chocolate- tragic car accident while on duty. Every the day a dignified but festive atmosphere. hand, I understand the unbreakable coated marshmallow treat that is popular year, on Yom Hazikaron, my uncle’s Twelve torches, symbolizing the Twelve connection between these two important in Israel (I LOVE Krembo and don’t know boarding school holds a ceremony in Tribes of Israel, are lit by people who are seen days, that in a lot of ways symbolize my anyone who doesn’t). memory of the fallen soldiers who attended to have made an outstanding contribution to country. • Sunday, April 25 at 1 p.m.: we the school. This is the place where we go society. This is the ceremony’s main highlight. I invite you all to attend our community will learn about the Good Neighbor to hear the siren and attend the ceremony. There are also music performances, dances, Yom Hazikaron and Yom Ha’atzmaut Directorate, how it affects the relationship On the day of Yom Hazikaron, most parades and fireworks. programs: with the Syrian civilians today and other people, including my family, go to a In addition to the official ceremony, • Tuesday, Erev Yom Hazikaron, current projects of the IDF. military cemetery. A two-minute siren at people get together in private parties or in April 13 at 7 pm: we will have a ceremony See Pages 8 and 9 for more 11 a.m. opens the memorial ceremonies parks and watch performances and more in honor of the fallen IDF soldiers and information. at each military cemetery. Tens of fireworks organized by each city. The next victims of terror. I invite you to join me to remember, thousands of people and masses of day, the 5th of Iyar, friends and families get • Wednesday, Yom Hazikaron, honor and celebrate, because this is Jewish Federation of Reading/Berks Non-Profit Organization Jewish Cultural Center, PO Box 14925 U.S. Postage PAID soldiers honor the memories of the fallen together, usually for BBQ, the world Bible April 14 at 7 p.m.: we will haveReading, aPA 19612-4925 “Taste what we do. Permit No. 2 readingjewishcommunity.org Reading, PA by placing memorial wreaths, saying quiz is broadcast on TV, the streets are of Memory” program where weChange Service will Requested get Hope to see you then. kaddish, and remembering them with decorated in blue and white, and everyone Enriching Lives Volume 47, No. 9 September 2017 Elul 5777-Tishri 5778 stories. 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By Amanda J. Hornberger She owns the only restaurant in Chelm. He’s the wisest man in the village of fools.

Together, they make an unlikely and lovable

pair. They’ve known each other forever. Finally they manage to connect.

This is not your grandfather’s village of Chelm. Yes, the people are often foolish, but

their hearts are in the right places. Chelm is

a vibrant community with vivid and colorful two dozen books and audio books for all

characters and problems thatMonday, are September relevant 9, 2019 at 7 generations.p.m. JCC and Exeter He Community tours Lithebrary world as a performer, Literatour Berks Preview Night today. transmitting the joy of story across boundaries. Come learn more about the 18 authors visiting Berks this year! Come and laugh and hear the joyful stories You can register by visiting our website: ______of Chelm with author Mark Binder on Thursday, https://readingjewishcommunity.org/home/ Monday, October 7, 2019 at 7 p.m. Exeter Community Library April 22, at noon on Zoom. We invite you to E.R.literatour Ramzipoor Signed copies of the book will be The Ventriloquists bring your lunch and join us for this funny and available for purchase through the Literatour Presented in partnership with the LGBT Center of Greater Reading.

lighthearted program! Berks official book vendor, Reads & Company Binder writes and tells stories for readers of Phoenixville. Wednesday, October 16, 2019 at 7 p.m. Location Provided Upon Registration and listen­ers of all ages. A finalist for the Angela HimselThank you to the sponsors and patrons A River be a Tree National Jewish Book Award for Family of Literatour Berks for making this event A program of Women’s Philanthropy of Jewish Federation of Reading/Berks. Mark Binder Literature, he is the author of more than possible. ______

Wednesday, November 20, 2019 at 7:30 p.m. Wachovia Theatre, Albright College Thomas Wolf Mossad rescue Themission Nightingale’s Sonata: featured in book program The Musical Odyssey of Lea Luboshutz 40th Annual Leo Camp Memorial Lecture

By Amanda J. HornbergerProgram includes Curtis Institute musicians performing César Franck’s “Sonata for Violin and Piano”. joining Mossad, he was an officer in the In the early 1980s, on a remote part Israeli paratroopers, and he fought in four Presented in partnership with the Camp family and Albright College. of the Sudanese______coast, a new luxury ______of Israel’s wars. He is a founder of the

resort opened for business.Monday, Catering December to 2, 2019 at 7 p.m. Exeter Community Library Nachshon School for Social Leadership and Tiffany Shlain divers, it attracted guests from24/6: around The Power of Unplugging One Day a Week is mapping emerging Jewish communities

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spies working for Mossad — the Israeli Raffi Berg is the Middle East editor of Wednesday, December 11, 2019 at 7 p.m. Location Provided Upon Registration secret service. Dawn Raffel the BBC News website and has extensive Written by longtime BBC Middle EastThe Strange Case of Dr. Couney: experience reporting on Israel and the wider How a Mysterious European Showman Saved Thousands of American Babies correspondent Raffi Berg, “Red Sea Spies: region. His article, scratching the surface of A program of Maimonides Society of Jewish Federation of Reading/Berks. The True Story of Mossad’s Fake Diving Raffi Berg and Dani Limor this story, was the most-read original feature Resort,” tells the true story that inspired discussion on Sunday, April 11 at 10 a.m. on in the history of the site, with more than 5.5 the recent Netflix drama “TheSunday, Red December Sea 15, 2019Zoom. at 4 p.m. Exeter Community Library million readers to date. Joni Klein-Higger and Barbara Sharf Diving Resort.” What began with oneBarnyard Bubbe’sBerg Hanukkah will be joined by Dani Limor, a You can register by visiting our website: cryptic message pleadingPresented for help by PJ Library turned of Reading memberwith support from ofthe SueMossad B. Viener Memorial who Fund was of active in https://readingjewishcommunity.org/home/ Jewish Federation of Reading/Berks. into the secret evacuation of thousands of this mission. Limor served 25 years in the literatour. ______Ethiopian Jews and the spiriting of them Mossad, with activities including leading the Signed copies of the book will be available to Israel. For More Informationsecret - 610-921-0624operation that evacuated Ethiopian for purchase through the Literatour Berks Center Jewish Cultural Learn more about thisTo amazing Register - ReadingJewishCo Israeli Jewsmmunity.org/home/literatour from Sudan to Israel at the command official book vendor, Reads & Company of 92nd St. Y Programs story when Berg joins Literatour Berks for a of Prime Minister Menachem Begin. Before Phoenixville.

Game Nights Community Shabbat Intergenerational story time for PJ Library kids Reading Jewish Film Series By Amanda J. Hornberger this intergenerational including “The Enchanted Snow Globe In “Sadie’s Shabbat Stories,” Sadie loves story time sponsored Collection: Return to Coney Island” and Great Decisions listening to Nana’s tales, especially about by PJ Library. “Sadie’s Shabbat Stories.” She has worked as Interfaith Mitzvah Day the traveling candlesticks, cup, and Grandkids invite a lawyer, freelance writer and early childhood cover they use every Friday night. your Bubbe and Zayde educator. Yom Ha’atzmaut Will Sadie ever be able to tell her own special to join you! You can register by visiting our website: Shab­bat stories, just like Nana? Based on Author Melissa https://readingjewishcommunity.org/home/ PJ Library true stories, this picture book celebrates family Stoller will be joining Melissa Stoller literatour Signed copies of the book will be PJ Our Way history and connections. us for this fun story available for purchase through the Literatour Grandparents are encouraged to invite out- time on Sunday, April 25, at 4 p.m. on Zoom. Berks official book vendor, Reads & Company Leo Camp Lecture of-town grandchildren to join them on Zoom for Stoller is the author of children’s books of Phoenixville.

Tech Tuesday Yom Hazikaron Child of Holocaust survivors to discuss memoir Art Exhibits The following was published at Rather than ignore the repressed horrors her journey to the jewishbookcouncil.org. This book will be relatives experienced, Foer chose to become genealogical — indeed Yom Hashoah featured in an April 5 Literatour Berks event. “the keeper of memory,” the collector of “shards geographic — core Annual Meeting and Picnic By Donald Weber of memory,” the historian investigating family of family trauma to “For much of my adult life I have been trauma. “Finding these links,” she writes, “is uncover mysteries Purim Carnival haunted by the presence of absence,” my calling.” buried in the mass confesses Esther Safran Foer at the end of “How do you remember someone who graves of an old-world Richard J. Yashek her deeply moving memoir, “I Want You to has left no trace?” Foer asks at the beginning shtetl. The memoir Memorial Lecture Know We’re Still Here.” Foer was born in a of her narrative. How exactly did he survive? concludes with a displaced-persons camp in Lodz, Poland, in What happened to his family — his first family, new-world birth — a Kristallnacht Remembrance 1946 to parents who had managed to evade which he had before he met Foer’s mother grandson who carries­ death — through sheer luck in the case of after the war? Foer family history Youth Events her mother, Ethel (“My mother spent the war Finding the answers involves both luck and in his name and on the run,” Foer recounts), and through endless detective work; she travels to Brazil, soul — symbolizing the Purim Masquerade Party Esther Safran Foer the brave actions of righteous gentiles, who Argentina, Israel, and Ukraine in order to seek promise of the next Bridge helped her father, Louis, escape invading out Holocaust survivors who might fill in gaps generation. In uncovering the past, Foer Nazis after they massacred most of the Jews in memory. The emotional core of I Want You demonstrates how memory can, therapeutically, Chevra living in his Ukrainian shtetl, Trochenbrod (an to Know We’re Still Here recounts Foer and fill an aching absence. Mahjong incident detailed by Foer’s son, Jonathan her journalist son Franklin’s pilgrimage to the *** Safran Foer, in his 2002 novel “Everything former shtetls of Kolki and Trochenbrod. Moth­ Hear about this lost family history when Trips to NYC/Philadelphia Is Illuminated”). er and son imagine the once vibrant life of her Esther Safron Foer joins Literatour Berks on Growing­ up in Washington, D.C., Esther parents’ and grandparents’ world in Eastern Monday, April 5, at 7 p.m. on Zoom. Lakin Holocaust Library Safran Foer felt the disabling weight of her Europe, before the Shoah. The result is a You can register by visiting https:// & Resource Center parents’ silence about the war. Above all, she poignant narrative of return and rededication, readingjewishcommunity.org/home/literatour was haunted by her father’s suicide, which a physical and spiritual teshuvah to the site of Signed copies of the book will be available Shabbat B’yachad happened in 1954, when she was a young girl. family origins. for purchase through the Literatour Berks “His death became part of the family canon I Want You to Know We’re Still Here is official book vendor, Reads & Company of Community Calendar of unspeakable stories” she tells the reader. a beautifully written account of a relentless Phoenixville. April 2021 SHALOM Page 5 Community spirit on display at big events

Community traditions remained very much alive in late February and early March thanks to a strong community effort. A drive-in Purim celebration was held at Chabad with involvement from the entire community. Our March Community Shabbat was reimagined with materials and meals for Friday night available to be picked up in advance and enjoyed at home. A service was held outside at 555 Warwick Drive, followed by a special online concert by Nefesh Mountain. Page 6 SHALOM April 2021 Lishmor Al HaOlam: Guarding the planet Let’s talk trash!

By Solange Israel-Mintz and Andi Franklin Whenever Bill Franklin takes out the trash, Andi always has to tell him, “That’s not recyclable …That is recyclable … You didn’t rinse the food out well enough!” Since he clearly did not understand the ins and outs, pardon the pun, of recycling, we thought we would do some research to educate him. But we were the ones who got educated. The first step was to talk to someone at Berks County Solid Waste Management. We were told that there are 73 municipalities in Berks County serviced by 25 haulers for their curbside pickups. Each of the haulers uses multiple pickup drivers and recycling plants. To make life more complicated, each of the plants has its own specific rules on what is and is not acceptable for recycling. The next step was to call J.P. Mascaro & Sons, one of the major haulers in our area. The first person said, ”We recycle everything!” Follow-up specific questions resulted in him saying that they recycled dirty pizza boxes, plastic grocery bags and even foam packaging. Knowing that this wasn’t right, we called back to speak to Pagea different  person. She replied “No” to all of the Shalom March 2010 above and more, then reiterated that it depends on the individual pickup driver and the recycling plant to which he or she takes the recyclables. It is also up to Community News the driver to decide whether to take it to a recycling plant or to landfill. Still hoping to get some clarity on the issue, we Obituaries contacted Wyomissing Borough Hall. The woman there laughed and said that they have guidelines, but Lucy Suzanne Knoblauch L. (Sulman) Moyer. He is also survived they often change.For example, they recently decided Zeidman, 96, Wyomissing. by his daughters, Aileen D., widow to accept flexible, plastic bags. But this is Surviving are a son, Bruce F., of Neal H. Endy, of Pennside, and E. experimental, and residents must first receive a letter husband of Geraldine L. Zeidman, of Roxanne, wife of Les Walker, of Batavia of notification. However, borough recycling pickup is Shillington; a brother, Harry Knoblauch, Ohio; sons, Stan B. , husband of Kristine only for single-family homes and buildings with four or • Clean and dry plastic containershusband of with Edith recycle Knoblauch, may of andReading; may notK. recycle. Moyer, Theof Sinking tremendous Spring number and Jay of less families. numbers 1 and 2 are recyclable. Thea sister, other Ruth numbers Balis of… Wyomissing; variables hasand createdH., husband confusion of Margaretamong conscientious R. 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Vieweg, of Las Vegas; grandchildren Barry ObituariesBoston, Mass. husband,husband Niall of Johna O’Donnell; Malamud, and Deborah son --- DanielBabbit-Malamud and his wife, and Chrissy. Sheri Malamud; Other All Around the Town______Eve David M. Pardo Moyer, 67,, 85, of Reading. Reading. Eve survivorsand great-grandchildren: include her two grandchildren Jessy Babbit, By Joan G. Friedman Badal, who has received the honor of He is survived by his wife, Marjorie Carly Malmud and Ian Malamud. A hearty Mazel Tov to Esther and Sid pursued art at William Smith College and a sister, Debbie. Congratulations to Korey Blanck being chosen as the Child Advocate of Bratt, who will be celebrating their 70th and spent a year abroad in Italy. 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A big crowd lines up outside the JCC for our March 7 COVID-19 vaccine clinic. v

r JFS, Federation mark COVID anniversary by hosting a vaccine clinic e By Carole Robinson It’s hard to believe that it has S been a full year since the world came to a halt and turned our lives upside down. The COVID-19 l y pandemic swept into Berks County i in March 2020, and on the anniversary of its arrival, I took a moment to pause and reflect on this tumultuous past year. What I’m particularly proud of is how the

m Jewish Federation rose to the challenge to help those who needed it the most. This past year, I have highlighted several new initiatives that Jewish Family Service a created and today, I wanted to share our latest program — a vaccine clinic. JFS recognized that we had a problem

F on our hands. Since the vaccine became available in January, JFS has been fielding desperate calls from community members anxious for the vaccine. Over 3.5 million h Pennsylvanians qualify to receive the vaccine in Phase 1A, but the rollout has been slow as the vaccine distribution has been limited and very chaotic. To compound the issue, older people who are not tech savvy or do not have access to the internet have been experiencing difficulties getting the vaccine, as available time slots quickly Michael Farrara gets his COVID-19 vaccine. fill up with those who are computer literate. Looking at the staggering data of how COVID-19 is affecting the elderly population — 98% of Pennsylvania deaths from COVID-19 (23,615 as of March) were of people 50 and older — the Jewish

ewi s Federation knew we had to help. Federation board member and pharmacist Tracy Rossi was unwavering in her determination to provide a vaccine clinic for the Jewish J elderly community, enlisting her employer, Esterbrook Pharmacy and the West Food Pantry Reading Drug Store, to provide the vaccine. The Jewish Federation quickly leaped Friendship Circle into action, forming a Vaccination Committee, headed by Jeff and Sheila Bornstein and Tracy Counseling Services Rossi. We had a month of organizational Transportation meetings, determining logistics, formulating lists of community members and praying the Financial Assistance vaccine would arrive as promised. Volunteers Jeff Bornstein assists Mike Pardo at the check-in desk. were enlisted to place phone calls to those Hospital and seniors without email, often calling repeatedly Home Visitations until they were able to speak directly to the appreciate the dedication of our clinic volunteers: .or phone. Unfortunately, some of our contact person. After contacting as many of our Sheila and Jeff Bornstein, Ann Marie Ferguson, information is out of date. Please make sure Living with Loss seniors as we could, we offered vaccines to Andi Franklin, Jennifer Koosed, Paul Missan, that we have your correct phone number and the Hispanic, Islamic, African American and Jim Rothstein, Nancy Russo, Pam Russo and email so that we can contact you quickly. If Information and interfaith communities, along with our fellow Sharon Scullin. Thank you to phone callers you have an unlisted number, we promise not Referral tenants at 1100 Berkshire Blvd. Sheila Bornstein, Sue Farrara, Haia Mazuz, be publish or share it; it will only be used for Our COVID-19 Vaccination Clinic was and Andi Wallach for their perseverance and to emergencies or special circumstances, such Case Management held on Sunday, March 7, from 9 a.m. to 4:30 photographer Michael Farrara. I would also like as a COVID vaccine clinic. p.m. We were able to provide vaccines for 320 to thank Brenda Seidel for her invaluable help As Duke Ellington said, “A problem is a Holiday Programs people, including seven shut-ins. This amazing making our clinic a success. chance for you to do your best.” I am proud event would not have been possible without We apologize if we inadvertently failed to be part of JFS and the Jewish Federation, our hard-working volunteers. Thank you to to contact you. This clinic reinforced the working with our team of volunteers to do pharmacists Tracy Rossi and Tom Mancuso, Dr. Federation’s need to have up-to-date contact our best to meet the needs of the Jewish Nicholas Rossi, Dr. Linda Bloom and Dr. Karen information. We did not have time to send out a community, as well as the larger Berks Wang for administering the vaccine. We also mailing and needed to contact people by email community during this pandemic. April 2021 SHALOM Page 11 Community expresses thanks for vaccine opportunity

Dear Mr. Franklin: Dear Mr. Franklin: Dear William, real tribute to your community outreach I was one of the people who received We wanted to thank you for offering Through your prompt and thoughtful and no doubt you scooped up many a COVID vaccine last Sunday at the COVID vaccines today. It was very kind of action. I am much relieved having gotten who would have had little luck getting Jewish Federation. i can’t tell you how you to open the vaccinations to workers the first dose of Moderna vaccine by the vaccine. relieved I was to get a phone call telling at 1100 Berkshire. Some feel that a huge the Esterbrook team at the JCC this I’ll be pleased to make a donation to me to come in and get the vaccine. weight has been lifted off our shoulders, afternoon. continue your good work. The friendliness and efficiency of your and we were on every list imaginable in It could not have been a better run Very grateful, volunteers were outstanding. the county. operation replete with entertaining Tim Flowers I have included a check for the Please accept the enclosed as a comments of applicants stumbling Federation in appreciation of your act token of our appreciation for your Cultural over the vaccine application question: Dear Carole and JCC staff: of kindness and help for the community Center. Thank you again to you and your “Are you pregnant?!” That would be a THANK YOU so much for all the in combatting this horrendous disease. staff. miracle was one response that made time and effort you put in to arrange Sincerely, Sincerely, me laugh. the COVID vaccine clinic for our Sheila Konczewski Alan and Susan Ehrlich My partner in line was a delightful community. octogenarian leaning on his cane, THANK YOU even more (and to yet stoic, and visibly relieved to be Tracy) for giving hope and solutions getting his vaccine today after, like to our homebound population. I me, turned away from countless don’t know if or how I would have other sites. been able to get my mom vaccinated It was such a diverse crowd brought without you! together under JCC’s roof today — a Andi

Dr. Linda Bloom and Dr. Karen Wang.

Kol HaKavod (Bravo) to RCOS Last shot of the day. Congratulations to Reform Congregation Oheb Sholom, which was recognized by the Berks County Commissioners for hosting a community COVID-19 testing event.

A sign in the waiting room expresses our thanks for the businesses that made our successful JCC vaccination clinic possible. Page 12 SHALOM April 2021 Museum to showcase women who helped build Israel

Israel21c.org Zvi, who taught Jerusalem women how known women, from architects to lawyers to on women in history and women in the How many “she-roes” of Israel can you to grow vegetables, milk cows and make choreographers, says founder Yael Nitzan. arts,” Nitzan explains. Women like Hannah name? Maybe you would start with Golda cheese so their husbands could go out A curator, art historian and TV producer, Maisel, who emigrated to Palestine Meir, Israel’s first and only female prime and build the state. Yael Nitzan has overcome many roadblocks in 1909 and founded the region’s first minister. Or the tragic and courageous These and many other women and setbacks in realizing her dream of agricultural training institute for women. spy Sarah Aaronsohn and paratrooper who played — and continue to play — opening Israel’s first museum dedicated And women like Rachel Roos Hertz Hannah Senesh. The list would include important roles in the history and culture to women. “It was a struggle,” she admits. (Harel), a Dutch Resistance fighter who physician Vera Weizmann, the first First of Israel will be immortalized this year “Now with corona, the world has everyone moved to Israel in 1950 and became Lady of Israel, who helped establish when the Israeli Women Museum opens sitting and listening, and in three months I active in the Women’s International Chaim Sheba Medical Center, now the in Haifa. accomplished what I could not accomplish Zionist Organization (WIZO). largest hospital in the Middle East; and The museum will showcase at least in the past six or seven years.” Artists to be included run the gamut second First Lady Rachel Yanait Ben- 100 noteworthy but not necessarily well- Nitzan gained help of the Haifa from Ziona (Siona) Tagger, one of the Foundation in raising funds for the most important female Israeli artists of project, and she was given the rights to the early 20th century, to contemporary a former private school building in which painter Haya Graetz Ran. the collections will be housed. “Women in Israel contributed greatly “There are currently about 45 women’s to the establishment of the state, museums in the world, the most famous contributed to the construction of the of which are the Women’s Rights Park in infrastructure of settlement, education, Seneca Falls, N.Y., and the Women’s Art defense, law, government, society, Museum in Washington,” she said. “The culture, cinema and theater,” Nitzan says. fundamental challenge in establishing a “But although they left their mark, they museum is not only in raising resources, did not receive proper recognition and but in creating a diverse and significant respect in building society. ” human and ideological infrastructure. The Nitzan invites anyone to contribute stories Israeli Women Museum must be a magnet or items relating to Israeli Jewish, Arab Druze, of significance to the whole, or at least to or Christian women, and even artists, poets large sections of, the population in Israel.” and leaders from the Holocaust era who did This will be Israel’s first museum not get to Israel. She can be reached through dedicated to the females responsible for the museum’s Facebook page or by email. weaving together its social, agricultural, Donations for the project are being funneled and business fabric. “Our museum will be through the Haifa Foundation.

A chance to meet the ‘Fauda’ team

Our community took part in a Zoom meeting featuring cast members from the hit Israeli TV show “Fauda,” which can be viewed on Netflix. April 2021 SHALOM Page 13 Page  Shalom March 2010 Poetry cornerJewish Family Service DiscussionHeads of addiction or Tails important to all Looking out no sun, the telephone’s By Sari Incledon, M. Ed. will not be limited to issues dealing with Others) provided the following statistics. For every person who has a theWe invitesky is the gray entire ringadolescents. will be Drugrung and alcohol abuse is According to Dr. Jay Holder, Medical substance abuse problem, several community to attend a a problem for all age groups, and we all Director and founder of the Exodus others are affected. Those affected programan effort Jewish to Family keep andneed talking to know Imore will about be with it. Treatment Center in Miami, chemical may be spouses, parents, children, Service is sponsoring: In a recent article, “Overcoming dependency is the number one secret siblings, grandparents – all are hurt “Whatsad Everythoughts Family at bay oneDenial” who (Na’amat might Woman be, as Winter I am 2009/10) in the Jewish community. Reportedly, in different ways. What can we as a Needs to Know about Barbara Trainin Blank wrote: “Alcohol and up to 50 percent of patient populations communal organization do to address Alcoholand so and to text Drug or phone drear,chemical and dependency I will offer don’t discriminate, in some residential treatment centers the problem? Awareness is an important Abuse & Addiction: An affecting Jews and non-Jews alike, and are Jews – as are 20 percent of those first step and we invite everyone in the Interactivea friend Dialogue(I say to myself) awomen bit of cheeras much — as men. Addiction calling national drug hot lines (yet Jews community to share questions and with David Rotenberg.” and alcoholism can be found in every comprise less than 3 percent of the U.S. concerns at our above mentioned Thisis programmuch the will better be held way Wednesday, to andsocioeconomic if not (I say) and religious segment of population). Chemical dependency is the program on April 28. April 28 at 7 p.m. at the JCC. the Jewish community”. third leading killer in the U.S. It is also an Our program is free, though beginDavid theis the tasks executive director of it willAn bearticle glad on the JACS Web unreported and/or unknown contributor reservations are requested. For more Adolescent Youth Services at Caron site (Jewish Alcoholics, Chemically to deaths caused by car accidents, heart information, call Sari at 610-921- Foundation,the ones howeverthat must his be presentation done theDependent other way Persons and Significant attacks, suicides and strokes. 0624.

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This year’s Literatour Berks brunch featured food for participants to take home and an online presentation by Jason B. Rosenthal, author of “My Wife Said You May Want to Marry Me,” on dealing with grief. Tracy Weiss, left, gets ready to share one of the special brunch baskets. At right, Mike and Sue Farrara enjoy the program and the meal. Comments from participants after the event: “it was amazing! Great presentation! I really enjoyed the conversation and incorporating audience questions smoothly into the presentation.” Special thanks to our Literatour Berks sponsors and patrons for supporting our second season!

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By David Harris a thunderous rejection, including denying any historical assured that lasting peace, not new phases in the CEO, American Jewish Committee Jewish connection with Jerusalem, accompanied by conflict, will be the outcome. Tellingly, few see that “If Only Israel (IOI) syndrome,” a term I began using the launching against Israel of a deadly wave of terror possibility on the horizon anytime soon, though when an several years ago, is the misguided notion, peddled attacks, which came to be known as the second intifada. opportunity came from the United Arab Emirates, linked in the name of Israel’s “best interests” by some in the And, not to be forgotten, a unilateral Israeli to Israel dropping any plans for annexation in parts of diplomatic, academic, and media worlds, that if only withdrawal from southern Lebanon also took place the West Bank, Israel quickly chose the UAE deal. Israel did this or that, peace with the Palestinians would during the Barak era. It was met by the entrenchment Israelis do not have to be pushed, prodded, nudged, be at hand. of Hezbollah, committed to Israel’s destruction, in the cajoled, or pressured to seek a comprehensive peace Poor Israel. If only it had the visual acuity of these vacated space. beyond the current treaties with Egypt and Jordan, “enlightened” souls, everything would be hunky-dory. Then, Prime Minister Ariel Sharon, who had also and now, notably, normalization agreements with the After all, according to them, Israel holds all the cards, earned the media’s label of “hardline,” defied his own UAE, Bahrain, Sudan, and Morocco. More than any yet refuses to play them. Likud Party — indeed, he left it to create a new political other nation, they have lived with the absence of true, The thinking goes: Why can’t those shortsighted bloc — and uprooted thousands of settlers to leave lasting peace for nearly 73 years, and know full well Israelis figure out what needs to be done — it is so Gaza entirely. It was the first chance for Gaza’s Arab the physical, psychological, and economic toll it has obvious to us in Brussels, Paris, Dublin and Stockholm, residents to govern themselves. Neither the occupying inflicted on the country. in our ivory towers from Cambridge to Berkeley, and as Egyptians nor Ottoman Turks had ever done this. Rather, they must be convinced the tangible rewards commentators on BBC and CNN — so the conflict can Had Gazans seized the opportunity in a constructive justify the risks for a small state in a tough area. Those at long last be brought to a screeching halt? manner, they might have created unstoppable rewards begin with acceptance of Israel’s rightful place in Thus, if only Israel stopped any settlement building. momentum for a second phase of significant Israeli the region as a Jewish-majority state living in secure and If only Israel understood that Gaza’s tunnel-diggers and withdrawal from the West Bank. Instead, Gaza quickly internationally recognized borders. And that, more than rocket-builders do not really mean it when calling for the turned into a terrorist redoubt. settlements, checkpoints, or any of the other items on the Jewish state’s extinction. If only Israel restrained itself Then, Prime Minister Ehud Olmert pressed hard for a IOI bill of particulars, gets to the essence of the conflict. rather than responding to terrorist attacks against Israeli deal with the Palestinians on the West Bank. According The 2005 Gaza disengagement, not to mention the earlier targets. If only Israel stopped assuming the worst about to the late Palestinian negotiator Saeb Erekat, the Israeli withdrawal from the vast Sinai Peninsula, demonstrated Iran, Hezbollah, and Hamas. If only Israel went the extra offer “talked about Jerusalem and almost 100% of the that settlements (and checkpoints) can be removed if mile with Palestinian Authority President Mahmoud Abbas. If West Bank.” Not only was it not accepted, but there was needed. But until the Palestinian side recognizes Israel’s only Israel got beyond its Holocaust trauma. If only Israel… no counterproposal from the Palestinian side. legitimacy, and stops viewing the Jewish state as an The point is, for the IOI crowd, it always seems to Netanyahu inherited a situation in which: (a) Hamas “interloper” that can be defeated militarily or swamped boil down to Israel. And the syndrome has only been holds power in Gaza, digging tunnels and amassing by “refugees”— who are in most cases third- and fourth- strengthened by its adherents’ assessment of the missiles to attack Israel, and teaches children to aspire to generation descendants of the original refugees from a war current Israeli government, of course. “martyrdom”; (b) Hezbollah continues to gain strength in started in 1948 by the Arab world — then whatever the IOI Many media outlets branded Prime Minister Lebanon, thanks to Iran, and has an estimated 100,000+ folks call for will be a secondary issue in the real world. Benjamin Netanyahu as “hardline,” or some variation missiles and rockets, which its leaders claim can reach any Until this recognition is reflected in Palestinian thereof, from the get-go. Their word choice simply point in Israel; (c) the Palestinian Authority has been AWOL textbooks, where children have been taught for reinforces the notion that the conflict is all about alleged for years from the negotiating table; and (d) Iran continues to generations that Israelis are modern-day “Crusaders” to Israeli intransigence, while avoiding any descriptive call for Israel’s destruction, while enhancing its own military be driven out, the hope for a brighter future, alas, is dim. judgment of a seemingly unassailable Mahmoud Abbas, capability, entrenching itself in Syria, and supporting Hamas. Until the Palestinian Authority succeeds in building other, perhaps, than “aging.” So, before Israel gets further lectures on what needs a serious and accountable governing structure, Israel It is important to underscore a few basic points too to be done, perhaps we should take stock of what is will have no choice but to operate in the West Bank to often lost in the din. First, the current Israeli government transpired — and why. prevent attacks against its civilian population. follows on the heels of previous governments that There have been several bold Israeli efforts since 2000 And until the forces seeking Israel’s annihilation can sought to achieve peace based on a two-state to create a breakthrough — and repeated failures. And that be contained, there will be a long shadow cast over the settlement with the Palestinians — and failed. Each of does not include Netanyahu’s unprecedented 10-month road to peace. Some argue this view gives the spoilers those governments went far in attempting to strike a settlement freeze and the Palestinian Authority’s refusal too much power. Rather, it simply acknowledges the deal, but, ultimately, to no avail. to seize this opportunity to break the stalemate. inescapable realities faced by Israel. Prime Minister Ehud Barak, joined by President Bill The vast majority of Israelis yearn for peace and Israel does not need still more lectures on the Clinton, tried mightily to reach a pathbreaking agreement understand the price the country will have to pay in importance of peace. Rather, it needs genuine partners, with PLO Chairman Yasser Arafat. As confirmed by territory and, presumably, displaced population. Poll starting in Ramallah. Without them, peace remains Clinton in his autobiography, the answer was, in effect, after poll proves their readiness, but only if they are elusive. With them, it becomes inevitable. 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Continued from Page 5 also that the students are genuinely On a wider note, there have justice and Holocaust remembrance today. silence is not the reason why survivors interested in hearing their stories. I know been many recent developments in I am heartened to hear that three additional are invited in. Instead, that factor is my students were genuinely interested in Holocaust education in Berks County schools in Berks County will be offering present because of the immense respect hearing Hilde’s story and many still talk and the surrounding areas. Within these courses for their students. students have for these individuals and about it now, several weeks later. the past month I have met with two Though the fourth quarter of the individuals who are in the process school year has begun, there are still of developing a Holocaust course to many additional opportunities that  be offered at their local high school. remain. I just spoke to an undergraduate  One gentleman was from Lancaster ethics class at Penn State Berks County. The other, Gerry Evans, is a regarding the ethical/moral implications teacher at Hamburg High School. I of the Holocaust. I found the students  have been in contact with two other to be receptive and inquisitive and local teachers, Pete Ruckelshaus at have been asked to deliver a similar  Twin Valley and Jim Konecke at Wilson program in the classes that the same  High School. Pete has resurrected a professor also teaches at Reading Area course on Holocaust Literature at Twin Community College.  Valley, and its first offering is during As mentioned above, Kim Yashek, the current fourth quarter. He is very daughter of the late local Holocaust excited about offering this course to survivor Richard Yashek, is speaking at  his students and has even lined up Twin Valley, Hamburg and Fleetwood.  several guest speakers including Rabbi Right now Albright College is hosting Brian Michelson, Kim Yashek and Hilde an exhibit titled, “Stories Among Us: Gernsheimer. Washington State Connections to the Jim Konecke is teaching at Wilson Holocaust, Lessons in Genocide.” The Central Junior High but will be moving up exhibit includes the stories of five Holocaust to Wilson High School at the beginning survivors and one liberator and has of next school year. He will be offering a received good reviews. It is definitely course on Nazi Germany. His students worth a visit! It will be at Albright’s Gingrich will be studying this period of German Library through May 10. history in depth, including a study of the *** rise of anti-Semitism, the initial period of Jennifer Goss teaches social studies the Holocaust and the Final Solution. The in the Fleetwood School District and latter part of the course will look at post-war specializes in Holocaust education. Plan for your Bar/Bat Mitzvah & Wedding Guests!

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Community youth practice Tikkun Olam at Opportunity House

As part of the Tikkun Olam program led by Adi Shalev, teens in grades 10-12 are making lunch for the people at Opportunity House. Participants in March were Harry, Will, Melanie, Joshua, Jecob, Sam and Ruby.

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