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KY VELOCITY | courier-journal.com/features THE COURIER-JOURNAL | FRIDAY,APRIL 6, 2012 | D11 Woman misses bond with sister DAILYCROSSWORD Across 47 __ center 18 Avoid restaurant 39 Words that 1TWA rival 50 Get useful crowds, perhaps replace details Dear Annie: For 20 years, He is on disability now and is 6Med. care material from 19 It may be 40 Place to relax I’ve considered my sister, waiting for housing in an apart- providers 51 Lyric poem half-baked 42 Coquette’sasset “Trina,” my best friend. Acouple ANNIE’S ment complex for the disabled, 10 Frequent ESPN 54 Bit of style in 23 Prado pictures 43 Rare clock of years ago, she was trans- MAILBOX but Ihave no idea how long it subject one’sblood? 24 Lock inserts number ferred into avery difficult work Kathy Mitchell will take. The stress of him being 14 Amtrak express 57 Venetian arch 25 Sonya’suncle, in 44 Govt. notes position. Trina has had ahard here and all the junk he’saccu- 15 Four-star shape an 1899 Moscow 47 Fiscal execs Marcy Sugar 58 City SSW of premiere life, and Iwanted to be there for mulated is wreaking havoc with 16 Bee, for one 48 Milan meat sauce Moscow 26 Maker of some her through thick and thin. my respiratory system and tak- 17 Pricewaterhouse- 49 “So that’s 59 Toss out drivers However,when Ineeded ing atoll on my mental health. Coopers, e.g.? how it is” 60 Goes after 27 Muslim emotional support from her this On top of that, Iwould like to 20 Fitting 50 Video CD file move on. Trina has asked me to leaders year,itwasn’tthere. Ishared care for my 3-year-old grandson 61 Unlikely track format come for our annual summer 21 Hops heater winners 28 “Casablanca” how hurt Iwas, but apparently I while his parents are at work. I 51 Big name in visit, but Idon’tfeel comfortable 22 Tweaks, say 62 Hamburger actor chemicals wasn’ttactful enough. Trina felt can’tdeal with both a50-year-old pretending there’sarelationship 23 Aqua Velva helper’sreward? 29 Strawberry, e.g. Iwas criticizing her.Now we and atoddler.How can Iget my 52 House addition when one no longer exists. How alternative 30 Pigeon tail? don’ttalk on the phone anymore. son to leave? 53 Room addition do Ihonor Trina’sfeelings and 24 German GM Down 31 Range rover She says she is “busy.” Instead, —Tired of Mothering Him subsidiary 55 Gp. with many also my own? 1Out-of-favor 35 English court arms we exchange brief emails. When Dear Tired:Ifyour son is 25 Original Roanoke —Former Sister sunscreen attire 56 “On the Itext, she replies aday or two waiting for housing, it could take settlement? Dear Sister:Trina avoids you ingredient 36 Singled out Waterfront” Oscar later,saying, “Sorry,Ididn’tsee awhile. In the meantime, talk to 31 Football Hall of now because she recognizes that 2Lingerie size 37 Big-eyed winner __ Marie your text.” She has walled her- his doctor and local social ser- Fame locale Saint she has disappointed you. And 3Robin’sdigs birds self off and tells me, “Just accept vice agencies to see what help is 32 Title acquired at she’sright about one thing: You 4Ring icon YESTERDAY’S SOLUTION me as Iam.” available right now.Then set a church, perhaps have to accept her as she is. 5Graham, for one The problem is, Ifeel used. I time limit, and tell your son he 33 Losing line Please visit her this summer. 6__II: 1961-’99 was her rock all those years, has until then to find other 34 Reacted to a She’syour sister.We’re sure she Moroccan king with long, encouraging calls, accommodations. dealer’srequest has many good qualities, so try 7Almost all helping with finances, taking Perhaps his siblings, rela- 35 Used to be to focus on those. Youcan still 8Mich. neighbor trips to support her.Idon’tneed tives or friends will lend ahand 36 “It Wasn’t enjoy her company if you under- 9Celestial her to reciprocate all of those until his housing options become All Velvet” stand her limitations. creatures things, but from time to time, I areality. autobiographer Dear Annie: My son recently 10 Incendiary gel long for alittle empathy. 38 Caustic stuff turned 50. First he lost his job, 11 “I Spy” co-star Idon’tknow how to deal with Kathy Mitchell and Marcy Sugar are long- 39 Goal and then he was in an accident. I time editors of the Ann Landers column. 12 “Joy is __ of love my feelings. Shall Ijust give up? 40 Blew up let him stay with me until he Email questions to by which you can The communication coming 41 Actress failing catch souls”: settled the accident lawsuit, but [email protected], or write to: from Trina is pretty clear.Ifit Annie’sMailbox, P.O. Box 118190, to live up to Mother Teresa he blew that money and is still expectations? were afriend doing this, Iwould Chicago, IL 60611. 13 Many “Suits” here. © Creators Syndicate 45 Gives support to characters: Abbr. 46 Toon wisecracker BRIDGE | Frank Stewart JUMBLE Lasting impressions Hoping to impress adate, Cy the Cynic took her to a classy Italian restaurant. She ordered lasagna while Cy scanned the menu and found something at the bottom that sounded good. “I’ll have the Giuseppe Tortelli,” he told the server. “That’sthe owner,sir.” Cy’sdate was about as impressed as his partners often are. When Cy was today’s declarer,hewon West’strump lead, led a diamond to dummy’sace and returned the queen of hearts. West took the king and led WONDERWORD |David Ouellet another trump, and the Cynic was doomed. Eventually,hehad to lead aclub from his hand, losing two clubs plus adiamond. Down one. 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