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ROUGH BS & Kinky y/n/m BDSM pre-negotiation tools ROUGH BS is a preliminary BDSM pre-negotiation tool used to outline RESTRAINED limits and determine compatibility between potential scene members. This system also helps the Dominant construct a scene geared toward OWNED the submissives needs and desires. USED Go through each category to the left and determine how much you enjoy engaging in that activity as a submissive. Use a 1-10 scale with 1 GIVEN AWAY being the least and 10 the greatest. HUMILIATED To determine specific interests and limits, go through the items below BEATEN responding to each in a Yes/No/Maybe format. Have all parties discuss their responses to each item. Be sure to also take into account any SERVE allergies, medical conditions, triggers or aftercare concerns. Kinky yes/no/maybe list Abduction play Exhibitionism/public play Phone sex Age play Eye contact restrictions Pain (mild to severe) Anal sex Face Sitting Piercing Anal rimming Face slapping Pet Play Anal plugs Feeding Pinching Anonymous sex Felatio (Giving/Receiving) Pornography (Watching/making) Balloons Financial Pregnancy Beating (Hands, Implements) Fisting (Anal/Vaginal) Prolapse Being sexually serviced Flogging Punishment Scene Bisexuality Following orders Pussy/cock whipping/spanking Biting Food play/Sploshing Rape play Blindfolds Foot worship Riding crops Blood play Furry fetish Taboo play Bondage, Suspension/Heavy Gags (race/religion/etc.) Bondage, Shibari/decorative Group sex/gang-bang Saline injection Branding Hair pulling Scat Breath Play Hairbrush spankings Scratching (Giving/Receiving) Breeding Hand jobs (Giving/Receiving) Serving as a maid/butler Bruises Heterosexuality Shaving Bukkake High heels Shoe/boot worship Cage Confinement Hook suspension Sissification Caning Human furniture Skinny-dipping CBT (Cock & Ball Torture) Humiliation (verbal/physical) Slutty clothing (private or Chains Ice cubes public) Chastity Intercourse Spanking Clothespins Intimidation Spitting/saliva Clown play (physical/emotional) Spreader bars Cock rings/straps Kissing Standing in corner Cock worship Kneeling Stocks Collar & leash Labia Torture Strap-on play Corsets Lactation Swallowing semen Costumes/lingerie/fetish wear Leather restraints Swapping/Swinging Cross-dressing Mani/Pedi (Giving/Receiving) Tattooing Crushing Marks (Giving/Receiving) Teasing Cuckold Massage (Giving/Receiving) TENS Unit Cuffs Master/slave Tickling Cunnilingis (Giving/Receiving) Material/fabric (latex, rubber, Triple Penetration Dacryphilia (Crying fetish) leather, etc.) Urine play Daddy/Mommy Medical Play Violet Wand Diapers Military style interrogation Vomit/rainbow play Dildos/vibrators Mummification Voyeurism Dirty talk Nipple play/torture Water Double penetration Objectification Whips Enema play Orgasm denial Wooden paddles Erotic dancing Outdoor sex Wrestling Erotic photography/video Over-the-knee spanking © 2012 SunnyMegatron.com .

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Signature Redacted for Privacy. Abstract Approved: Arol Sisson
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