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Instructions: For each Kink indicate with an 'x' whether you have or haven't tried the Kink, and where it falls in your limits. Green being a Kink that you are whole heartedly okay with participating in, Soft being a Kink that you are curious about, but would only want to try under the right circumstances, and Hard being a Kink that you are wholeheartedly NOT okay with participating in. If you are unsure of what a Kink is either ask your partner or go online (or wherever) and research it. If there are any notes that you would like to make on any of the Kinks (ex. Experience you had etc.) there is a notes page at the end. Once both you and your partner have completed your lists use this as a tool to start the an indepth conversation of the Kinks that you and your partner are going to be participating in once you start playing. It is okay if you and your partner disagree on certain Kinks, not everyone is going to like the same things in life and that especially goes for peoples Kinks. There are numerous Kinks out there, and while I would like to include everyone of them, almost anything can be turned into a kink so this list does not contain every single kink out there. Kink Tried- Yes Tried-No Interested Green Soft Hard 24/7 Dynamic Adult Baby Diaper Lover (ABDL) Abduction Play Abrasion Play Age Play Anal Fisting Anal Play Anal Plugs Anal Sex Anal Training Asphyxiation Play Ball Gags Bare Bottom Spanking Bare Handed Spanking Bathroom Use Control Beastiality Behaviour Modification Biting Blindfolds Blood Play Boot Blacking Boot Worship Branding Breast Bondage Breast Spanking Breast Torture Breeding Caging/ Confinement Caning Cock and Ball Torture (CBT) Chains (as bondage material) Clamps and Clips Clit Torture Clothespins Cock Torture Cock Worship Collars Concenseual Non Concent Play (CNC) Corporal Punishment Corsets Corset Training Cuckolding Cunnilingus Degradation Domestic Servitude Double Penetration Edge Play Elecytrical Play Face Fucking Face Sitting Face Slapping Feet Worship Figging Fingering Fire Play Gangbangs Gorean Group Sex Hair Bondage Hair Pulling Handcuffs High Protocol Human Ashtray Human Furniture Humiliation Impact Play- Crops Impact Play- Dragon's Tail Impact Play- Flogger Kinbaku (type of Japanese Bondage) Knife Play Light Bondage Masochism Master/slave Dynamic Medical Play Medieval Devices Military Interrogation Mistress/ slave Dynamic Mummificati on Mutual Masturbation Needle Play Nipple Clamps Nipple Play Nipple Torture Nun/Priest Play Nyotaimori (Body sushi) Obedience Training Objectificatio n Online Play Ordered to Masturbate Orgasm Control Orgasm Denial Outdoor Bondage Outdoor Sex Pegging Pet Play Phone Sex Polyamory Posture Collars Primal Play Queening Restraints Rimming Road Head Role Play Rope Bondage Rough Sex Sadism Scarf Bondage Sensation Play Sensory Deprivation Service- oriented submission Sex in Public Sexual Slavery Shackles Shibari Sissification Slavery Slave Bells Slave Tattoos Sounding Speech Restrictions Spitting Spreader Bars Suspension Bondage Swinging Tease& Denial The no Panties Rule Total Power Exchange Triple Penetration Verbal Humiliation and Degredation Waterboardin g Wax Play Notes: .

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