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Introduction Your Results Introduction Answering the quick-fire questions below will create a PDF of your limits. This is by no means an exhaustive list but a great tool to start the conversation with your partner (or prospective dom/sub) about your limits and interests. It is important to review these limits regularly... you may find something you thought you'd enjoy becomes a hard limit and vice versa! A hard limit is something you do not want to try under any circumstance. This can be for any reason. A soft limit is something you do not think you want to do but would be willing to try with the right partner or scenario. Your Results Question Your Answer Oral sex giving Yes Oral sex receiving Yes Vaginal sex (penetration) Yes Anal sex (penetration) Yes Double Penetration (oral and anal) Yes Double penetration (anal and vaginal) Yes Hand jobs giving Yes Hand jobs receiving Yes Massage (giving) Yes Massage (receiving) Yes Rimming giving (i.e licking the anal area) Yes Rimming receiving (i.e licking the anal area) Yes Facesitting Yes Swallowing semen No Spitting Yes Blindfolds Yes hand cuffs Yes Plugs (i.e butt plug) Yes Vibration on genitals Maybe nipple play Yes Question Your Answer spanking Yes Paddling Maybe Flogging Yes Wooden Paddles Maybe Strapping Yes Caning Yes faceslapping Yes Punishments Yes Abrasion (i.e using an abrasive item like a brush to sensitize skin) Yes Wax play (i.e the dripping of hot wax onto the skin) No Electro stimulation No Forced Orgasms No Biting Yes Hair Pulling Yes Orgasm denial/control or edging No Arm binders Yes Leg Binders Yes Bondage (soft) Yes Bondage (heavy) Maybe Ropes Yes Nipple clamps Yes Breast Bondage Yes Breath play (soft) Yes Breath play (hard) Maybe Choking Yes Question Your Answer Pain (mild) Yes Pain (strong) Maybe Strapons (wearing) Yes Strapons (penetrated by) No Strapons (sucking) Yes Cock worship Yes Pussy worship Maybe Clothes pegs No Collars Yes Examination (physical) Yes Public exposure Maybe Fantasy Rape Yes Following orders Yes Foot Worship Yes Forced dressing Maybe Forced masturbation Maybe Forced nudity (private) Yes Forced nudity (public) Maybe Forced servitude Yes Full head / isolation hood (i.e a mask covering the entire head) No Gags (i.e gag in the mouth) Maybe Given to others (i.e to be used sexually) Yes Watching partner with others Yes Outdoor sex Yes Group sex No Question Your Answer Sex in public Yes Humiliation (private) Yes Humiliation (public) No Humiliation (verbal) Yes Washing mouth out with soap No Infantalism Yes Ice Play (i.e using ice for sensations) Yes Kidnapping scenes Yes Interrogation scenes Yes Kneeling Yes Standing in the corner Yes Proscribed postures Yes Begging Yes Speech restrictions (when, what, who) Yes Bathroom restrictions Yes Medical scenes Yes Mummification/saran wrapping (i.e the whole body wrapped) No Pussy whipping Yes Chastity devices No Testicle weights No Nipple weights Yes Shaving (i.e body hair) Yes Sensory deprivation No Speculums (vaginal) No Speculums (anal) No Question Your Answer Religious Scenes Yes Spreader bars Yes Used as furniture Yes Suspension (i.e being suspended with rope/other) Yes Cages (i.e being locked inside) Yes Straight Jackets Yes Uniforms Yes Recording Scenes (i.e video) Yes Being photographed Yes Voyuerism (i.e watching others) Yes Tickling Yes Whipping Yes Swinging (i.e swapping partners) No Catheterization No Figging (insertion of ginger rectally) No Enemas Yes Branding Yes Brown Showers / Scat Maybe Golden Showers Yes Chosen Food Maybe Chosen Clothing Yes Cutting No Dilation (anal/vaginal) Yes Fire Play (i.e a candle flame or similar near the skin) No Fisting (anal) No Question Your Answer Fisting (vaginal) No Human Puppy Play Yes Injections No Knife/edge play Maybe Piercing No Pony Play Yes Tattoos Yes Ball stretching No Castration fantasy No Harems (i.e serving with others for one partner) Yes Uretheal sounds (i.e metal rods in uretha) No Cock and ball torture No Cucking No.
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