Introduction
Answering the quick-fire questions below will create a PDF of your limits. This is by no means an exhaustive list but a great tool to start the conversation with your partner (or prospective dom/sub) about your limits and interests.
It is important to review these limits regularly... you may find something you thought you'd enjoy becomes a hard limit and vice versa!
A hard limit is something you do not want to try under any circumstance. This can be for any reason.
A soft limit is something you do not think you want to do but would be willing to try with the right partner or scenario.
Your Results
Question Your Answer
Oral sex giving Yes
Oral sex receiving Yes
Vaginal sex (penetration) Yes
Anal sex (penetration) Yes
Double Penetration (oral and anal) Yes
Double penetration (anal and vaginal) Yes
Hand jobs giving Yes
Hand jobs receiving Yes
Massage (giving) Yes
Massage (receiving) Yes
Rimming giving (i.e licking the anal area) Yes
Rimming receiving (i.e licking the anal area) Yes
Facesitting Yes
Swallowing semen No
Spitting Yes
Blindfolds Yes
hand cuffs Yes
Plugs (i.e butt plug) Yes
Vibration on genitals Maybe
nipple play Yes Question Your Answer spanking Yes
Paddling Maybe
Flogging Yes
Wooden Paddles Maybe
Strapping Yes
Caning Yes faceslapping Yes
Punishments Yes
Abrasion (i.e using an abrasive item like a brush to sensitize skin) Yes
Wax play (i.e the dripping of hot wax onto the skin) No
Electro stimulation No
Forced Orgasms No
Biting Yes
Hair Pulling Yes
Orgasm denial/control or edging No
Arm binders Yes
Leg Binders Yes
Bondage (soft) Yes
Bondage (heavy) Maybe
Ropes Yes
Nipple clamps Yes
Breast Bondage Yes
Breath play (soft) Yes
Breath play (hard) Maybe
Choking Yes Question Your Answer
Pain (mild) Yes
Pain (strong) Maybe
Strapons (wearing) Yes
Strapons (penetrated by) No
Strapons (sucking) Yes
Cock worship Yes
Pussy worship Maybe
Clothes pegs No
Collars Yes
Examination (physical) Yes
Public exposure Maybe
Fantasy Rape Yes
Following orders Yes
Foot Worship Yes
Forced dressing Maybe
Forced masturbation Maybe
Forced nudity (private) Yes
Forced nudity (public) Maybe
Forced servitude Yes
Full head / isolation hood (i.e a mask covering the entire head) No
Gags (i.e gag in the mouth) Maybe
Given to others (i.e to be used sexually) Yes
Watching partner with others Yes
Outdoor sex Yes
Group sex No Question Your Answer
Sex in public Yes
Humiliation (private) Yes
Humiliation (public) No
Humiliation (verbal) Yes
Washing mouth out with soap No
Infantalism Yes
Ice Play (i.e using ice for sensations) Yes
Kidnapping scenes Yes
Interrogation scenes Yes
Kneeling Yes
Standing in the corner Yes
Proscribed postures Yes
Begging Yes
Speech restrictions (when, what, who) Yes
Bathroom restrictions Yes
Medical scenes Yes
Mummification/saran wrapping (i.e the whole body wrapped) No
Pussy whipping Yes
Chastity devices No
Testicle weights No
Nipple weights Yes
Shaving (i.e body hair) Yes
Sensory deprivation No
Speculums (vaginal) No
Speculums (anal) No Question Your Answer
Religious Scenes Yes
Spreader bars Yes
Used as furniture Yes
Suspension (i.e being suspended with rope/other) Yes
Cages (i.e being locked inside) Yes
Straight Jackets Yes
Uniforms Yes
Recording Scenes (i.e video) Yes
Being photographed Yes
Voyuerism (i.e watching others) Yes
Tickling Yes
Whipping Yes
Swinging (i.e swapping partners) No
Catheterization No
Figging (insertion of ginger rectally) No
Enemas Yes
Branding Yes
Brown Showers / Scat Maybe
Golden Showers Yes
Chosen Food Maybe
Chosen Clothing Yes
Cutting No
Dilation (anal/vaginal) Yes
Fire Play (i.e a candle flame or similar near the skin) No
Fisting (anal) No Question Your Answer
Fisting (vaginal) No
Human Puppy Play Yes
Injections No
Knife/edge play Maybe
Piercing No
Pony Play Yes
Tattoos Yes
Ball stretching No
Castration fantasy No
Harems (i.e serving with others for one partner) Yes
Uretheal sounds (i.e metal rods in uretha) No
Cock and ball torture No
Cucking No