Introduction

Answering the quick-fire questions below will create a PDF of your . This is by no means an exhaustive list but a great tool to start the conversation with your partner (or prospective dom/sub) about your limits and interests.

It is important to review these limits regularly... you may find something you thought you'd enjoy becomes a hard limit and vice versa!

A hard limit is something you do not want to try under any circumstance. This can be for any reason.

A soft limit is something you do not think you want to do but would be willing to try with the right partner or scenario.

Your Results

Question Your Answer

Oral sex giving Yes

Oral sex receiving Yes

Vaginal sex (penetration) Yes

Anal sex (penetration) Yes

Double Penetration (oral and anal) Yes

Double penetration (anal and vaginal) Yes

Hand jobs giving Yes

Hand jobs receiving Yes

Massage (giving) Yes

Massage (receiving) Yes

Rimming giving (i.e licking the anal area) Yes

Rimming receiving (i.e licking the anal area) Yes

Facesitting Yes

Swallowing semen No

Spitting Yes

Blindfolds Yes

hand cuffs Yes

Plugs (i.e butt plug) Yes

Vibration on genitals Maybe

nipple Yes Question Your Answer spanking Yes

Paddling Maybe

Flogging Yes

Wooden Paddles Maybe

Strapping Yes

Caning Yes faceslapping Yes

Punishments Yes

Abrasion (i.e using an abrasive item like a brush to sensitize skin) Yes

Wax play (i.e the dripping of hot wax onto the skin) No

Electro stimulation No

Forced Orgasms No

Biting Yes

Hair Pulling Yes

Orgasm denial/control or No

Arm binders Yes

Leg Binders Yes

Bondage (soft) Yes

Bondage (heavy) Maybe

Ropes Yes

Nipple clamps Yes

Breast Bondage Yes

Breath play (soft) Yes

Breath play (hard) Maybe

Choking Yes Question Your Answer

Pain (mild) Yes

Pain (strong) Maybe

Strapons (wearing) Yes

Strapons (penetrated by) No

Strapons (sucking) Yes

Cock worship Yes

Pussy worship Maybe

Clothes pegs No

Collars Yes

Examination (physical) Yes

Public exposure Maybe

Fantasy Rape Yes

Following orders Yes

Foot Worship Yes

Forced dressing Maybe

Forced masturbation Maybe

Forced nudity (private) Yes

Forced nudity (public) Maybe

Forced servitude Yes

Full head / isolation hood (i.e a mask covering the entire head) No

Gags (i.e gag in the mouth) Maybe

Given to others (i.e to be used sexually) Yes

Watching partner with others Yes

Outdoor sex Yes

Group sex No Question Your Answer

Sex in public Yes

Humiliation (private) Yes

Humiliation (public) No

Humiliation (verbal) Yes

Washing mouth out with soap No

Infantalism Yes

Ice Play (i.e using ice for sensations) Yes

Kidnapping scenes Yes

Interrogation scenes Yes

Kneeling Yes

Standing in the corner Yes

Proscribed postures Yes

Begging Yes

Speech restrictions (when, what, who) Yes

Bathroom restrictions Yes

Medical scenes Yes

Mummification/saran wrapping (i.e the whole body wrapped) No

Pussy whipping Yes

Chastity devices No

Testicle weights No

Nipple weights Yes

Shaving (i.e body hair) Yes

Sensory deprivation No

Speculums (vaginal) No

Speculums (anal) No Question Your Answer

Religious Scenes Yes

Spreader bars Yes

Used as furniture Yes

Suspension (i.e being suspended with rope/other) Yes

Cages (i.e being locked inside) Yes

Straight Jackets Yes

Uniforms Yes

Recording Scenes (i.e video) Yes

Being photographed Yes

Voyuerism (i.e watching others) Yes

Tickling Yes

Whipping Yes

Swinging (i.e swapping partners) No

Catheterization No

Figging (insertion of ginger rectally) No

Enemas Yes

Branding Yes

Brown Showers / Scat Maybe

Golden Showers Yes

Chosen Food Maybe

Chosen Clothing Yes

Cutting No

Dilation (anal/vaginal) Yes

Fire Play (i.e a candle flame or similar near the skin) No

Fisting (anal) No Question Your Answer

Fisting (vaginal) No

Human Puppy Play Yes

Injections No

Knife/edge play Maybe

Piercing No

Pony Play Yes

Tattoos Yes

Ball stretching No

Castration fantasy No

Harems (i.e serving with others for one partner) Yes

Uretheal sounds (i.e metal rods in uretha) No

Cock and ball torture No

Cucking No