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RPG Consent Checklist: Bondage RPG Consent Checklist: Bondage This is a supplemental consent checklist that provides greater precision for its particular subject matter and does not cov- er all bases by itself. It is intended to be used in conjunction with other consent tools. At this time the built-in colorblind accessibility and print-friendly design does not display properly in Acrobat Reader. GM Name: _____________________________________ Player Name (optional): __________________________ Planned Game Theme: ____________________________________________________________________________ If this game were a movie, its movie rating would be: PG-13 R NC-17 Other: ____________________ Mark the option which best matches your comfort level as a player with each subject matter, story element, or theme. Green = Completely fine with this. Blue = I’m fine with this in the game, just not for my character(s). Yellow = Okay if it is offstage or veiled; more would require discussion ahead of time; or uncertain. Red = No, hard limit. Bondage Focus Onlookers Veiled ....................................................................... Eager ................................................................ Explicit .................................................................... Embarrassed but Willing............................. Gratuitous .............................................................. Reluctant/Unwilling ...................................... Dominant Types NPC ......................................................................... Hogtie ...................................................................... PC ............................................................................ Predicament Bondage ......................................... Known to Submissive .......................................... Stress Positions .................................................... Unknown to Submissive ..................................... Public Bondage Known to Onlookers ............................................ Hidden or Subtle ........................................... Unknown to Onlookers ....................................... Obvious............................................................ Submissive Decorative Bondage NPC ......................................................................... Human Furniture .......................................... PC ............................................................................ Living Sculptures .......................................... Known to Dominant ............................................. Ritual Bondage ...................................................... Unknown to Dominant ........................................ Beneficial/Technological Bondage (e.g. Magic Known to Onlookers ............................................ collar that allows silent spellcasting) ........... Unknown to Onlookers ....................................... Self Bondage NPC ......................................................................... PC ............................................................................ Extent & Duration Known to Onlookers ............................................ Symbolic (Does not Hinder) Unknown to Onlookers ....................................... Momentary (Less than 1 Hour) .................. Onlookers Brief (Less than 1 Day) ................................ NPC ......................................................................... Days ................................................................. PC ............................................................................ Weeks .............................................................. Known to Dominant ............................................. Months ............................................................. Unknown to Dominant ........................................ Years................................................................. Known to Submissive .......................................... Indefinite/Permanent ................................... Unknown to Submissive ..................................... Light (Some Tasks Made Inconvenient) Enthusiasm (In-Character) Momentary (Less than 1 Hour) .................. Dominant Brief (Less than 1 Day) ................................ Eager ................................................................ Days ................................................................. Surprised but Willing ................................... Weeks .............................................................. Embarrassed but Willing............................. Months ............................................................. Reluctant/Unwilling ...................................... Years................................................................. Submissive Indefinite/Permanent ................................... Eager ................................................................ Moderate (Most Tasks Difficult, Some Are Surprised but Willing ................................... Impossible) Embarrassed but Willing............................. Momentary (Less than 1 Hour) .................. Reluctant/Unwilling ...................................... Brief (Less than 1 Day) ................................ Copyright 2020 Malachite Idol. Permission Granted to Reproduce For Personal Use. Days ................................................................. Bodysuit/Vacsuit ................................................... Weeks .............................................................. Blindfold ................................................................. Months ............................................................. Collar ....................................................................... Indefinite/Permanent ................................... Hearing Obstruction ............................................ Heavy (Most Tasks Difficult or Impossible) Nose Devices ......................................................... Momentary (Less than 1 Hour) .................. Mouth Restraints/Gags ....................................... Brief (Less than 1 Day) ................................ Arm Restraints ...................................................... Days ................................................................. Wrist Restraints .................................................... Weeks .............................................................. Hand Restraints .................................................... Months ............................................................. Finger Restraints .................................................. Years................................................................. Leg Restraints ....................................................... Indefinite/Permanent ................................... Ankle Restraints ................................................... Extreme (Few or No Actions Possible) Foot Restraints ...................................................... Momentary (Less than 1 Hour) .................. Toe Restraints........................................................ Brief (Less than 1 Day) ................................ Posture Devices .................................................... Days ................................................................. Corsets .................................................................... Weeks .............................................................. “Chastity” Devices ................................................ Months ............................................................. Insertions (Alone or Held in Place by Another Device) Years................................................................. Oral .................................................................. Indefinite/Permanent ................................... Anal .................................................................. Materials Urethral ........................................................... Rope ........................................................................ Vaginal ............................................................. Chain ....................................................................... Intrauterine .................................................... Leather .................................................................... Stone ....................................................................... Metal ........................................................................ Fantasy Materials ................................................. High Tech Materials ............................................. Magical or High Tech Energy Fields ................ Intelligent Magic Items ........................................ Living Organic Devices ....................................... Notes or Additional Topics Mental Blocks ........................................................ Closure Mechanisms Tied Knots .............................................................. Buckles ................................................................... Would you like the GM to follow up with you about any of Simple Latch ......................................................... these, and if so, which? Puzzle/Combination Lock .................................. Key Lock ................................................................. Keycard/RFID/Sensor Lock ............................... Exotic Lock (Released by Alchemical substance, etc) ..................................................
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