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´T Paperke BLAD DER PSYCHO EN PEDA ´t Paperke BLAD DER PSYCHO EN PEDA UITGAVE MAART ‘15 - SCHAAMRODE EDITIE SCHAAMRODE - UITGAVEEDITIE ‘15 MAART 2 WOORD VOORAF HELDEN STRIPPERS DER VPPK Oplage 500 exemplaren Gras verspreid in de FPPW Uitgegeven door VPPK Maandelijkse uitgave Druk ACCO Gent Juno K7W7YW7` Sint-Pietersnieuwstraat 105, Saartje V` 37` BG7 9000 Gent Philippe S7W7` Redace Als we de confessions van Bent u klaar om zich als Juno K7W7YW7` de afgelopen examen- lezer in te laten met de periode mogen geloven is meest ludieke, som geen soort zo bronsg als schrijnende maar tevens Medewerkers de student. Ook wij hartverwarmende Juno K7W7YW7` scriptoren mochten dit gedachtenspinsels der Lisa D7 P-G7 aan der lijven onder- Gentse psycholoog en Saartje V` 37` B-G7 vinden in het Gentse pedagoog in spe? Philippe S7W7` walhalla der testosteron Kimberly L7-Y7 en oestero-geen waar Waag u dan aan de Jasper D7 C`13 onze funce wel eens rollercoaster van emoes Eva P`W misverstaan wordt als doorheen wijze Nikolaas R.L. Z7BG7 strippers der VPPK. getuigenissen, uiteen- Philippe O7YYJ,`3 lopende voorkeuren en Altuïssch als we zijn stromen van liefde omvat bundelden we onze in dit Paperke. Cover kennis, ervaringen en Juno K7W7YW7` levenswijsheden der liefde en seksualiteit in deze schaamrode edie van ‘t Paperke. 3 INHOUD DUNANTIA ♣ Queen with atude 4 ♣ Jij + ik = PPSR? 5 ♣ Door het oog van de lens 6 VAKKUNDIG ♣ Ak-toe-wa?! 8 ♣ Experimenten der liefde 10 ♣ Eenzaamheid in jden van liefde 12 ♣ Man, I feel like a woman 15 ♣ Seks voor iedereen 18 ♣ Uitzonderlijke fesjisme top 10 20 BLIKPUNT ♣ Zij & Hij 22 ♣ Walk of Shame 24 ♣ The Sex Talk 26 ♣ Tussen laken en leer 28 ♣ Gardenia: Before The Last Curtain Falls 31 ♣ Ook getest op schachten: koopwijzer der condooms 32 ♣ Ode aan het ijssalon 34 ONTSNAPPING ♣ De voorspelling van de maand 36 ♣ Wablief?! 38 ♣ Bezighoudstherapie 39 ♣ Wedstrijd 43 SCHIJNWERPER 4 DUNANTIA Queen with atude Het is weer van dat. Je laat uw scriptoren Ben jij echter bereid om je seksuele zelf te een thema kiezen en het gaat hier weer delen met de openbare maatschappij? Of over seks. We zijn nog maar kort geleden blijkt het taboe enigszins nog te bestaan geconfronteerd geweest met Valenjn en en is de hele vrije visie over seks niet zo Fi y Shades of Grey. And here we go maximaal als we denken? again... Waar vroeger seksuele voorkeuren en Doorloop samen met ons dit Paperke interesses niet verder kwamen dan de waarin enkele sensueel gente zaken aan slaapkamer, worden vandaag de dag de belicht zullen worden, mogelijks met rode deuren opengegooid. Het hele taboe rond oortjes of rode wangetjes tot gevolg. - JDC seks wordt vaak in vraag gesteld. Veel mensen lopen er tegenwoordig eerder mee te koop dan het te verbergen. ‘T PAPERKE VPPK FEB. ‘15 — SCHAAMRODE EDITIE DUNANTIA 5 DUNANTIA Jij + ik = PPSR? Waarschijnlijk heb je ons al wel eens op Met jullie stem kunnen WIJ onszelf laten een poster zien verschijnen, herinner je je gelden als student! Zonder student is een ons als ‘die in de resto met hun heerlijke faculteit, en zijn ook wij echter niets en chocoladeace’ of ken je ons volledig niet. daarom zijn jullie van groot belang! Al je ideeën, opmerkingen, grote plannen,… Bij deze lichten wij onszelf even toe: omtrent de faculteit zijn meer dan welkom. WIE ZIJN WE Gewoon studenten zoals iedereen, maar Contacteer ons via [email protected] enkel en alleen hebben we de funce of houd onze facebookpagina in de gaten gekregen die ons in staat stelt om samen voor meer nieuws (facebook.com/ iets beter van deze faculteit te maken. UGentPPSR). WAT DOEN WE Wij representeren als het ware het woord Veel succes in jullie tweede semester! van de student en staan in rechtstreeks contact met het ‘orgaanstelsel’ van onze faculteit. Zo hebben we aandeel in het reilen en zeilen van onze faculteit. Er is echter nog slechts een ding dat ontbreekt, jullie stem! DUNANTIA FEB. ‘15 — SCHAAMRODE EDITIE ‘T PAPERKE VPPK 6 DOOR HET OOG VAN DE LENS ‘T PAPERKE VPPK FEB. ‘15 — SCHAAMRODE EDITIE DUNANTIA 7 DUNANTIA FEB. ‘15 — SCHAAMRODE EDITIE ‘T PAPERKE VPPK 8 VAKKUNDIG Ak-toe-wa?! The duty of journalists is to tell the truth. Journalism means you go back to the actual facts, look at the documents, you discover what the record is and you report it that way. – Noami CHOMSKY. ‘T PAPERKE VPPK FEB. ‘15 — SCHAAMRODE EDITIE VAKKUNDIG 9 VAKKUNDIG FEB. ‘15 — SCHAAMRODE EDITIE ‘T PAPERKE VPPK 10 VAKKUNDIG Experimenten der liefde Liefde als pijnsller Terugblikken naar een prille verliefdheid Dit resultaat suggereert dat de acvae van de zorgt er al voor dat je een beetje begint te neurale beloningssystemen via non- pharmaceusche middelen de ervaring van pijn zweven. Er verschijnt spontaan een kan verminderen, en dat een verliefdheid glimlach op je gezicht en de komende 5 hiervoor kan zorgen.Hou dus maar voor de minuten kan niemand je uit je posieve zekerheid een foto van je geliefde dicht bij je, sfeer halen. Neuroimaging gaat nog een je weet maar nooit! stapje verder en toont aan dat de liefde je niet alleen goed kan laten voelen, maar ook je pijn reduceert. Wanneer iemand immers naar zijn/haar partner kijkt, worden de beloningsgebieden van het menselijke brein geacveerd en vermindert je pijn. Vij ien individuele proefpersonen, elk in de eerste n egen maanden van een liefdevolle relae, werden jdens dit onderzoek in een fmri-scanner gelegd. Aan hun linkerhand bevesgde men een elektrode die constant van temperatuur veranderde: van aangenaam warm tot Symmetrie zit opgeslagen in de lichaamsgeur pijnlijk heet. Ondertussen moesten ze drie taken verrichten: foto’s van hun partner Het is algemeen al bewezen en geweten bekijken, foto’s van kennissen bekijken die dat niets zo aantrekkelijk is als symmetrie. even aantrekkelijk en vertrouwd zijn als Mensen die een symmetrisch gezicht hun partner en woordassociaes maken of hebben, worden aantrekkelijker bepaalde aangeboden woorden met gevonden. Aangezien symmetrie moeilijk elkaar verbinden. waar te nemen is met het blote oog, onderzocht een Amerikaanse antropoloog Zowel de partner taak en de woordassociaes hoe men symmetrie dan wel kan taak verminderden de gerapporteerde pijn. opsporen. Er werd ondervonden dat Alleen de partner taak acveerde echter beloningsgebieden in de hersenen, de informae over de symmetrie van woordassociaes taak verminderde de pijn iemands gezicht opgeslagen zit in de doordat het de proefpersonen afleidde. lichaamsgeur. ‘T PAPERKE VPPK FEB. ‘15 — SCHAAMRODE EDITIE VAKKUNDIG 11 Een aantal vrouwen werden gevraagd om aan bezwete t-shirts van verschillende mannen te ruiken en te oordelen bij welk t -shirt de knapste man hoorde. Vruchtbare vrouwen vonden de t-shirts van mannen met veel symmetrie in het gezicht het meest preg en sexy ruiken. Niet- ovulerende vrouwen konden minder goed een onderscheid maken, voor hen waren de preg geurende t-shirts niet gelinkt aan symmetrie. Spannende situaes leiden tot ‘verliefdheid’ Nood aan inspirae voor dat eerste Uit de resultaten bleek dat de mannen op afspraakje? Leef je uit met een gezamelijke de ‘gevaarlijke’ brg heel anders reageerden parachutesprong of ga lekker op de vrouw dan de mannen op de bungeejumpen! Het is bewezen dat stabiele brug. Zij verzonnen namelijk samen op avontuur gaan, één van de verhalen met een sterke seksuele lading en manieren is om opgewonden te raken. Het toonden veel interesse in haar. Ook belden gevoel van verliefdheid ontstaat immers negen van de achen deelnemende voornamelijk jdens ‘spannende’ situaes. mannen haar op in tegenstelling tot twee Dat blijkt uit een onderzoek waarin een van de zesen mannen op de andere brug. vrouw op pad wordt gestuurd naar een Verklaring voor deze resultaten wordt naonaal park in Canada. Haar doel: gevonden in het feit dat de mannen op de mannen werven voor het onderzoek. Na spannende brug hun nervositeit het aanspreken van de mannen gaf zij hen toeschreven aan de vrouw, en niet aan de haar telefoonnummer. Dit ‘werven’ deed wankele brug. De mannen denken dan zij op twee verschillende plekken in het verliefd te zijn, maar eigenlijk zijn zij park: op een stabiele, brede brug die drie gewoon nerveus. - LDP meter boven een rivier hing of op een brug die zich 150 meter boven diezelfde rivier begaf met een lage reling. Deze laatste brug zwiepte ook nog eens over en weer door de aanwezige wind. VAKKUNDIG FEB. ‘15 — SCHAAMRODE EDITIE ‘T PAPERKE VPPK 12 VAKKUNDIG Eenzaamheid in jden van liefde Nu Valenjn reeds enkele weken geleden liefde ligt om de hoek, met vrienden zijn entree maakte in de straten van Gent, pintelieren lijkt de essene van de dag en de winkelstraten een roze revolue naar de les gaan is pure bijzaak. prediken en de naderende première van ‘Fi y Shades of Grey’ de hormonenspiegel Anno 2015 zit ongeveer de hel van alle bij de Vlaamse vrouwen gevoelig doet studenten in de Arteveldestad op kot. Hoe sjgen, hervat onze Alma Mater zijn ervaren zij hun passage aan hogeschool of acviteiten. Het is in het kader van deze universiteit? Uitgebreide onderzoeken omstandigheden dat onze geliefde naar het algemene welzijn van studenten studentenvereniging de Henri Dunantlaan neigen echter niet in de richng van wat voorziet van een nieuwe edie van het algemeen aangenomen wordt. Vele Paperke. studenten kampen jdens hun studies met eenzaamheid en zelfs één op drie In al deze Valenjnsgekte is het geen studenten zal jdens zijn studies slecht idee voor eens sl te staan bij de verwikkeld geraken in een depressie. Dit keerzijde van de roze medaille. De vaak onderbelichte aspect van het studentenjd wordt door velen studenkoze leven wordt vaak verkondigd als een periode van weggelachen: “Eenzame studenten ongebreideld plezier, vrije liefde en de meneer? Zo ben ik er nog geen meest onwaarschijnlijke verhalen.
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