´T Paperke BLAD DER PSYCHO EN PEDA
Total Page:16
File Type:pdf, Size:1020Kb
Load more
Recommended publications
-
Bdsm) Communities
BOUND BY CONSENT: CONCEPTS OF CONSENT WITHIN THE LEATHER AND BONDAGE, DOMINATION, SADOMASOCHISM (BDSM) COMMUNITIES A Thesis by Anita Fulkerson Bachelor of General Studies, Wichita State University, 1993 Submitted to the Department of Liberal Studies and the faculty of the Graduate School of Wichita State University in partial fulfillment of the requirements for the degree of Master of Arts December 2010 © Copyright 2010 by Anita Fulkerson All Rights Reserved Note that thesis work is protected by copyright, with all rights reserved. Only the author has the legal right to publish, produce, sell, or distribute this work. Author permission is needed for others to directly quote significant amounts of information in their own work or to summarize substantial amounts of information in their own work. Limited amounts of information cited, paraphrased, or summarized from the work may be used with proper citation of where to find the original work. BOUND BY CONSENT: CONCEPTS OF CONSENT WITHIN THE LEATHER AND BONDAGE, DOMINATION, SADOMASOCHISM (BDSM) COMMUNITIES The following faculty members have examined the final copy of this thesis for form and content, and recommend that it be accepted in partial fulfillment of the requirement for the degree of Master of Arts with a major in Liberal Studies _______________________________________ Ron Matson, Committee Chair _______________________________________ Linnea Glen-Maye, Committee Member _______________________________________ Jodie Hertzog, Committee Member _______________________________________ Patricia Phillips, Committee Member iii DEDICATION To my Ma'am, my parents, and my Leather Family iv When you build consent, you build the Community. v ACKNOWLEDGMENTS I would like to thank my adviser, Ron Matson, for his unwavering belief in this topic and in my ability to do it justice and his unending enthusiasm for the project. -
My Father's Secret
WhatIMeant. Prt 2 95-222 24/08/2005 3:22 pm Page 129 David Hayes ’ First the snapshots. In this one, my father, then twenty-eight years old, is sitting in a Plymouth roadster convertible, beige with a red pinstripe along the side. It has red leather upholstery, including the rumble seat. My father was, according to my mother, a rakish bachelor who lived with a gang of fellows in a house in St. Catha- rines, nicknamed “the homestead.” His friends called him “Hurry- Up Hayes” because he walked purposefully, with short, quick steps, as though there were important things ahead. My mother was a tall, leggy brunette with an angular face who looked like a great, noble, WhatIMeant. Prt 2 95-222 24/08/2005 3:22 pm Page 130 | wading bird. She had her pick of eligible men, and chose my father. Later, when he infuriated or disappointed me, I would remind myself of this past life of his, the easy grace with which he carried himself, defining for me the idea of unforced masculinity. I believe to this day that he was more self-possessed, more relaxed with who he was than I was at his age, or, for that matter, later. Here he’s sitting, obviously posed but looking most at ease, every inch the successful executive: the double-breasted chalk-stripe suit, the dark tie with bold diagonals, the half-Windsor knot. It’s the mid-s and he is now in senior management at Abitibi’s head office on University Avenue in Toronto. Look at his steady gaze into the camera, as if to say, I am a man both comfortable and successful in this masculine world. -
Themes of SM Expression Charles Moser and Peggy J
3 Themes of SM Expression Charles Moser and Peggy J. Kleinplatz SM (also known as BDSM, i.e. Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission and Sadism and Masochism) is a term used to describe a variety of sexual behaviours that have an implicit or explicit power differential as a significant aspect of the erotic interaction. Of course there are other sexual interactions or behaviours that have an implicit power differential, but that power differential is not generally eroticized in non-SM interactions. Sex partners may even disagree if a particular interaction or relationship constitutes SM, each seeing it from a different perspective. The boundaries between SM and non-SM interactions are not always clear, which is why self-definition is crucial for understanding SM phenomena. Colloquially the set of SM inclinations has been referred to deris- ively as an interest in ‘whips and chains’, but is much more complex and varied than suggested by that description. Practitioners use both numerous academic terms and jargon (e.g. S/M, B/D, WIITWD [i.e. what it is that we do], D/s, Bondage, Leather, Kink) to refer to these interests. They have been labelled controversially in the psychiatric liter- ature with diagnostic labels such as paraphilia, sadomasochism, sexual sadism, sexual masochism and fetishism. There is no evidence that the descriptions in the psychiatric literature resemble the individuals who self-identify as SM participants or that SM participants understand the implications of adopting the psychiatric terms as self-descriptors. Judging from the proliferation of SM themes in sexually explicit media, references in mainstream books, film and the news media, as well as academic studies and support groups, it is reasonable to conclude that SM is an important sexual interest for a significant number of indi- viduals. -
Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, and Sadomasochism (Bdsm)/Kink
BONDAGE AND DISCIPLINE, DOMINANCE AND SUBMISSION, 6 AND SADOMASOCHISM (BDSM)/KINK Brian is a white gay man of 55 who has been working with you in therapy for several sessions on the panic attacks and nightmares he has been expe- riencing following witnessing a person committing suicide at a tube sta- tion some months ago. For a couple of weeks you have sensed that there are some aspects of his life that he hasn’t been completely open about with you. At the end of a session he looks uncomfortable and says that there is something he has to tell you which he hopes won’t influence your opinion of him but which has been holding him back from talking about all aspects of his life. He says that he is in a 24/7 BDSM relationship as a slave for his partner, Jordan. Think about: • What is your formulation/understanding of the key issues for Brian? • What themes can you imagine emerging as you continue? • What assumptions might you bring to this? • How would you proceed? Being a kink-aware professional you let Brian know that you have some understanding of BDSM practices and relationships. He has probably already seen SM 101 and Powerful Pleasures on your bookshelf, and that probably helped him to tell you about this aspect of his life. Like many people, the idea of ‘24/7’ BDSM is one that you find difficult to understand, so you note your negative gut reaction as one you want to bracket as much as possible and explore in supervision. -
Bdsm, Kink, and Consent: What the Law Can Learn from Consent-Driven Communities
BDSM, KINK, AND CONSENT: WHAT THE LAW CAN LEARN FROM CONSENT-DRIVEN COMMUNITIES Mika Galilee-Belfer* Millions of Americans participate in consensual, mutually agreed-upon activities such as bondage, dominance, and submission—collectively referred to as BDSM or kink—yet the relationship between individual consent to such participation and consent as legally understood and defined is imperfect at best. Because the law has not proven adept at adjudicating disputes that arise in BDSM situations, communities that practice BDSM have adopted self-policing mechanisms (formal and informal) aimed at replicating and even advancing the goals and protections of conventional law enforcement. This self-policing is particularly important because many jurisdictions hold there can be no consent to the kind of experiences often associated with BDSM; this is true in practice irrespective of the existence of statutory language regarding consent. In this Note, I compare legal communities and BDSM communities across three variables: how consent is defined, how violations are comparably adjudicated, and the types of remedies available by domain. In the process, I examine what norm-setting and rule adjudication look like when alternative communities choose to define, and then operate within, norms and controls that must be extra-legal by both necessity and design. TABLE OF CONTENTS INTRODUCTION ..................................................................................................... 508 I. CURRENT ISSUES AT THE INTERSECTION OF BDSM AND THE LAW .................. -
BDSM Culture and Submissive-Role Women Lisa R
Student Publications Student Scholarship Spring 2015 Liberation Through Domination: BDSM Culture and Submissive-Role Women Lisa R. Rivoli Gettysburg College Follow this and additional works at: https://cupola.gettysburg.edu/student_scholarship Part of the Gender and Sexuality Commons, Social and Cultural Anthropology Commons, and the Women's Studies Commons Share feedback about the accessibility of this item. Rivoli, Lisa R., "Liberation Through Domination: BDSM Culture and Submissive-Role Women" (2015). Student Publications. 318. https://cupola.gettysburg.edu/student_scholarship/318 This is the author's version of the work. This publication appears in Gettysburg College's institutional repository by permission of the copyright owner for personal use, not for redistribution. Cupola permanent link: https://cupola.gettysburg.edu/student_scholarship/ 318 This open access student research paper is brought to you by The uC pola: Scholarship at Gettysburg College. It has been accepted for inclusion by an authorized administrator of The uC pola. For more information, please contact [email protected]. Liberation Through Domination: BDSM Culture and Submissive-Role Women Abstract The alternative sexual practices of bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, and sadism and masochism (BDSM) are practiced by people all over the world. In this paper, I will examine the experiences of five submissive-role women in the Netherlands and five in south-central Pennsylvania, focusing specifically on how their involvement with the BDSM community and BDSM culture influences their self-perspective.I will begin my analysis by exploring anthropological perspectives of BDSM and their usefulness in studying sexual counterculture, followed by a consideration of feminist critiques of BDSM and societal barriers faced by women in the community. -
Sadomasochist Role-Playing As Live- Action Role-Playing: a Trait-Descriptive Analysis
International Journal of Role-Playing - Issue 2 Sadomasochist Role-Playing as Live- Action Role-Playing: A Trait-Descriptive Analysis Popular Abstract - This article describes sadomasochist role-playing which is physically performed by its participants. All sadomasochist activities have a role-playing component to them. It is a form of role-playing where people consensually take on dominant and submissive roles, for the purpose of inflicting things such as pain and humiliation, in order to create pleasure for all participants. In some cases, participants agree to emphasize those roles, or make them fetishistically attractive, by adding complexity and definitions to them, and then act them out in semi-scripted fantasy scenes. This paper examines that activity, commonly called “sadomasochistic role-play”, as opposed to the more generic “sadomasochism” of which it is only one facet. Furthermore, the article compares this form of play with live-action role-playing (larp). Its main emphasis is on the question of how closely related the two activities are. To determine this, the article examines sadomasochist role-playing as being potentially a game, the question of its goal-orientation and the issue of whether or not it contains a character in the sense of a live-action role-playing character. Based on this process, it comes to the conclusion that sadomasochist role-playing is not a separate type of role-playing, but rather one kind of live-action role-playing. As its theoretical framework, this text utilizes studies done on both live-action role-playing games and on sadomasochist role-playing. Reliable material on the latter being quite limited, descriptions have been gathered from both academic works and practical manuals. -
Negotiation Sheet
Basic Negotiations ❖ Circle or highlight things that you both want. https://www.dragonstailalc.com ❖ Cross out the things that are not to be done in this scene. ❖ SAFE WORDS: Red=Stop, Yellow=Slowdown/Check-in, Green=Keep going, (Talk about non-verbal options in case someone finds themselves unable to talk for any reason.) Top Bottom Switch For this Scene, is a…. Serious Playful Sexy Dominant Submissive Masochistic Sadistic And I want to feel... Energetic Cathartic Overwhelmed Beautiful Degraded Peaceful For this Scene, is a…. Top Bottom Switch Serious Playful Sexy Dominant Submissive Masochistic Sadistic And I want to feel... Energetic Cathartic Overwhelmed Beautiful Degraded Peaceful Stingy Whips Spanking Canes Pummeling (Punching) Impact Play Heavy Paddles Flogging Thuddy Light Rope Leather/Cuffs Mental Restrictive Decorative Cages Bondage Suspension Collar/Lead Gags Floor Work/Bondage Playing with Hair Pressure Points Biting Licking Tickling Sensation Play Hair Pulling Human Furniture Scratching Electricity Kissing Sensory Deprivation Blindfolds Hoods Earplugs Mind Games Mind Fucks Exhibitionism Fear Play Cuddles Talking/Socialize Food Water Coffee Hot Chocolate Aftercare Blankets None needed Check in Tomorrow ❖ What are things you would like to be called? ❖ What are things you are not to be called? ❖ Any Medical Conditions? ❖ Are you into humiliation? Explain what kind/what you like. ❖ Feel free to talk about things not covered on this sheet. ❖ If at an event, talk to the DM’s if your planning a non-con scene ❖ Not everything is listed- feel free to use your imagination. Everyone holds the right to say no to anything. Mark no touch area on figures above Tampa Bay Phoenix Club Tips on Negotiating a Scene ❖ Negotiating a scene is different than negotiating a relationship. -
Marilyn Monroe's Star Canon: Postwar American Culture and the Semiotics
University of Kentucky UKnowledge Theses and Dissertations--English English 2016 MARILYN MONROE’S STAR CANON: POSTWAR AMERICAN CULTURE AND THE SEMIOTICS OF STARDOM Amanda Konkle University of Kentucky, [email protected] Digital Object Identifier: http://dx.doi.org/10.13023/ETD.2016.038 Right click to open a feedback form in a new tab to let us know how this document benefits ou.y Recommended Citation Konkle, Amanda, "MARILYN MONROE’S STAR CANON: POSTWAR AMERICAN CULTURE AND THE SEMIOTICS OF STARDOM" (2016). Theses and Dissertations--English. 28. https://uknowledge.uky.edu/english_etds/28 This Doctoral Dissertation is brought to you for free and open access by the English at UKnowledge. It has been accepted for inclusion in Theses and Dissertations--English by an authorized administrator of UKnowledge. For more information, please contact [email protected]. STUDENT AGREEMENT: I represent that my thesis or dissertation and abstract are my original work. Proper attribution has been given to all outside sources. I understand that I am solely responsible for obtaining any needed copyright permissions. I have obtained needed written permission statement(s) from the owner(s) of each third-party copyrighted matter to be included in my work, allowing electronic distribution (if such use is not permitted by the fair use doctrine) which will be submitted to UKnowledge as Additional File. I hereby grant to The University of Kentucky and its agents the irrevocable, non-exclusive, and royalty-free license to archive and make accessible my work in whole or in part in all forms of media, now or hereafter known. -
The Use of Gender in the Interpretation of BDSM
Article Sexualities 0(0) 1–26 The use of gender in the ! The Author(s) 2017 Reprints and permissions: interpretation of BDSM sagepub.co.uk/journalsPermissions.nav DOI: 10.1177/1363460717737488 journals.sagepub.com/home/sex Brandy L Simula Emory University, USA J Sumerau University of Tampa, USA Abstract In this article, we explore the ways BDSM practitioners negotiate gender. Based on 32 in-depth interviews with BDSM practitioners and thousands of message board posts from the then-largest online BDSM community in the USA, we explore the explanatory frameworks BDSM practitioners use to (1) downplay and (2) emphasize dominant notions of gender to make sense of BDSM practices and experiences. In so doing, we discuss some ways BDSM practices and interpretations may both challenge and reproduce broader societal patterns of gender inequality. In conclusion, we draw out implications for understanding (1) variation in the utilization of gender beliefs and assumptions within BDSM cultures, and (2) the consequences these patterns have for the reproduction of gender inequality. Keywords BDSM, gender beliefs, interpretive frameworks, kink, social psychology In the contemporary USA, gender is one of three primary person categories (along with race and age) people consistently and continually rely on to interpret the bodies of others and guide interactions with one another (e.g. Brewer and Lui, 1989; Fiske, 1998; Ridgeway, 1991, 2009). Ridgeway (2009, 2011) explains that sex category and gender work together as a primary frame for interaction through which people make themselves intelligible to others. As a primary person category and primary frame for interaction, gender is a social system that all individuals in the contemporary USA must negotiate daily. -
BDSM from a to Z: Consent As a Tool Against Pathologization in Internet BDSM “Handbooks”
BDSM from A to Z: consent as a tool against pathologization in internet BDSM “handbooks” Bruno Dallacort Zilli CLAM. 2013. Sexuality, Culture and Politics - A South American Reader. Pp. 685-705. ISBN 978-85-89737-82-1 Sexuality, culture and politics A South American reader Although mature and vibrant, Latin American scholarship on sexuality still remains largely invisible to a global readership. In this collection of articles translated from Portuguese and Spanish, South American scholars explore the values, practices, knowledge, moralities and politics of sexuality in a variety of local contexts. While conventionally read as an intellectual legacy of Modernity, Latin American social thinking and research has in fact brought singular forms of engagement with, and new ways of looking at, political processes. Contributors to this reader have produced fresh and situated understandings of the relations between gender, sexuality, culture and society across the region. Topics in this volume include sexual politics and rights, sexual identities and communities, eroticism, pornography and sexual consumerism, sexual health and well-being, intersectional approaches to sexual cultures and behavior, sexual knowledge, and sexuality research methodologies in Latin America. BDSM from A to Z: consent as a tool against pathologization in internet BDSM “handbooks”* Bruno Dallacort Zilli** Introduction1 The acronym BDSM encompasses a variety of erotic activities. B stands for “bondage”, often with ropes or handcuffs. The pair B and D stands for “bondage and discipline”, the use of erotic fantasies of punishment, while D and S represent “domination and submission”. These are fantasies where one “surrenders” to a sexual partner, role- playing humiliation and abuse. -
RPG Consent Checklist: Bondage
RPG Consent Checklist: Bondage This is a supplemental consent checklist that provides greater precision for its particular subject matter and does not cov- er all bases by itself. It is intended to be used in conjunction with other consent tools. At this time the built-in colorblind accessibility and print-friendly design does not display properly in Acrobat Reader. GM Name: _____________________________________ Player Name (optional): __________________________ Planned Game Theme: ____________________________________________________________________________ If this game were a movie, its movie rating would be: PG-13 R NC-17 Other: ____________________ Mark the option which best matches your comfort level as a player with each subject matter, story element, or theme. Green = Completely fine with this. Blue = I’m fine with this in the game, just not for my character(s). Yellow = Okay if it is offstage or veiled; more would require discussion ahead of time; or uncertain. Red = No, hard limit. Bondage Focus Onlookers Veiled ....................................................................... Eager ................................................................ Explicit .................................................................... Embarrassed but Willing............................. Gratuitous .............................................................. Reluctant/Unwilling ...................................... Dominant Types NPC ......................................................................... Hogtie .....................................................................