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PrettyPretty TGirlsTGirls MagazineMagazine Featuring An Interview with Melissa Honey December 2008 Issue Pretty TGirls Magazine is a production of the Pretty TGirls Group and is intended as a free resource for the Transgendered community. Articles and advertisements may be submitted for consideration to the editor, Rachel Williston, at [email protected] . It is our hope that our magazine will increase the understanding of the TG world and better acceptance of TGirls in our society. To that end, any articles are appreciated and welcomed for review ! Pretty TGirls Magazine – December 2008 page 1 PrettyPretty TGirlsTGirls MagazineMagazine December 2008 Welcome to the December 2008 issue … Take pride and joy with being a TGirl ! Table of contents: Our Miss 2008 Cover Girls ! Our Miss December 2008 Cover Girls Cover Girl Feature – Melissa Honey Editor’s Corner – Rachel Williston Ask Sarah – Sarah Cocktails With Nicole – Nicole Morgin Dear Abby L – Abby Lauren TG Crossword – Rachel Williston In The Company Of Others – Candice O. Minky TGirl Tips – Melissa Lynn Traveling As A TGirl – Mary Jane My “Non Traditional” Makeover – Barbara M. Davidson Transgender Tunes To Try – Melissa Lynn Then and Now Photo’s Recipes by Mollie – Mollie Bell Transmission: Identity vs. Identification – Nikki S. Candidly Transgender – Brianna Austin TG Conferences and Getaways Advertisements and newsy items Our 2008 Calendar! Magazine courtesy of the Pretty TGirls Group at http://groups.yahoo.com/group/prettytgirls Pretty TGirls Magazine – December 2008 page 2 Our Miss December 2008 Cover Girls ! How about joining us? We’re a tasteful, fun group of girls and we love new friends! Just go to … http://groups.yahoo.com/group/prettytgirls Pretty TGirls Magazine – December 2008 page 3 An Interview With Melissa Honey Question: When did you first start crossdressing? Melissa: Early teens, I found a pair of nylons and thought what the heck lets try them on! I was always interested in looking at women's legs and loved the look of nylons. Well after putting on the nylons I found them to feel soft, slinky and quite sexy. I was hooked! I began with the Legg's Brand then onto Hanes! I would wear them whenever I could, I was so lucky not to get caught.....I think. I also remember enjoying watching Tina on Gilligan' Island! She was so attractive and I loved her gowns and heels. I can always remember dreaming of getting a chance sometime to dress just like her! Question: Describe your early experiences dressing as a girl. Melissa: Initially, I thought it was all about nylons. I would wear them to school or out among my friends. The feeling of them would drive me crazy! I first tried my Mom's lipstick when I was about 14, thought I'd died and gone to heaven. Just the outline, making a little pout! What fun. Then it was onto a Teddy, sneaking one from my Mom's dresser for sleeping in. What a sensation, lying in bed with nylons and a teddy on! Sleep no way! Fantasy dreams heels and hose! I loved looking thru the Sears Catalogue with all the dresses and skirts and lingerie! In my late teen years I purchase my first outfit that was all red. High Heels..Red! A see thru Teddy, with garter belt and panty all in red. Long red nylons! It was a present to myself for Valentine's Day! That was such a high getting all dressed in that outfit and standing in front of the mirror for the first time in my own lingerie and heels! Pretty TGirls Magazine – December 2008 page 4 An Interview With Melissa Honey … continued Question: At what age did you start using make-up and wearing wigs? How did you learn how to apply make up? Any tips for other TGirls? Brand of make up you use? Melissa: In my early twenties I began trying makeup! Typically it was around Halloween when I could get away with having some fun. I would draw on the dark liner and eyes! The more color the better! Bright red lips! Dark shadow! Smokey and sexy as can be! I soon met a person who was kind to the TG community. Often you think your the only one! But she was very helpful in the service industry and provided a guidance for crossdressers. She keep a supply of wigs, makeup and clothes. I will always remember the first time I donned a wig and looked into the mirror after she did my makeup. I almost cried I was so happy, finally I realized, this is what I am all about. To me makeup is the artist tools. Your face is the page on which to create something of interest to yourself! The most important thing is to enjoy who you are! There are so many web sites out there for info on makeup and application. You should try on different faces, color and have some fun. Pic a style that suits you most. I would recommend a visit if possible with a Makeup artist. Its well worth the money and will save you time and money in the long run. I prefer the talented individuals at M.A.C. Cosmetics. The are great! My two choices for makeup are MAC and Lancome. The quality and the colors are exceptional. Pretty TGirls Magazine – December 2008 page 5 An Interview With Melissa Honey … continued Question: If you had your choice, what do like wearing the most when being a girl? Melissa: All of the them! I start from the inside and work outwards. Its a slinky pair of panties. I prefer a thong. Nylons, black is my choice of color with a sandle toe. I use a push up lacy bra with 36B breasts. I top this with a Black teddy. I then return to finishing my makeup! Line my lips and add color to them! Today its a High waisted Black A-line Skirt. The new blouse is Turquoise feminine with light lace on the collar and sleeves. Large Hoop silver earrings are next. Adding a pearl necklace sets of your face and keeps the eyes guessing. A few rings on your fingers and bracelets finish the preparation. What wig shall I go for, Auburn, Blonde or Dark Brown? I often try on several wigs until I get the look I want for the outfit. Finally I have chosen the one. Its Blonde, long with highlites. Now I am ready for the day........or evening! Pretty TGirls Magazine – December 2008 page 6 An Interview With Melissa Honey … continued Question: Now a bit of personal information ... What is your marital status? A sensitive area for some girls, but ... how old are you now? Does anyone know you are a TGirl? What country do you live in? Melissa: Yes I am married, she is an exceptional person. I am 39 (smiling). Yes a few people know I am a TGirl. I live in Canada and am lucky in doing so. Question: Do you have a website and/or email you’d like to share with us? Melissa: [email protected] www.flickr.com/photos/melissahoney/ Pretty TGirls Magazine – December 2008 page 7 An Interview With Melissa Honey … continued Question: Have you ever gone out as a girl? If so, tell us what the first time is like and how you feel being out in the world as a girl. Melissa: I have gone out many many times as a girl! The first time your heart is on your mouth. You can't breath and you think everyone is looking at you. How narcissistic! Really, no one truly is concerned or cares as much as you think they do! I was in Vancouver at an event and was able to escape to get out for the evening. I got dressed to the nines and went to a local place known for Tgirls. I drove and parked my car as close as I could. I had worn 4 inch heels, my god I must be crazy! Nope your there, go for it, I said to myself. This is the point of it all to get out there and be the girl you want to be! I could hear the click click click of my heels as I walked on down the sidewalk. Oh my god, there was a couple coming the other way, I would have to walk past them, what would happen? I nearly froze but thought what could I do now turn the other way. the opening to the club was closer than the car so I kept walking, I walked past them and no response, no looks, no laughs. Hey this is fine I am going to make it, the Night club was less than a block away. Finally I made it to the club door and walked in. There was a Night club fee but to my surprised they did not charge Tgirls! The girl at the door smiled and said "Hey Girl you look awesome"! I just smiled for the rest of the evening. I had a fun time! Pretty TGirls Magazine – December 2008 page 8 An Interview With Melissa Honey … continued Question: Have you ever gone through a purge of your female clothing? If so, can you tell us why? How did it make you feel? How long before you went back to being a girl? Melissa: All Tgirls purge! Its for personal reasons. You question yourself, your direction and pursuit of finding something your not comfortable with but inside you know you are truly happy. You love the feeling,the illusion. You question how can this feel so good but screw up your life so badly if somebody (your partner, friends, family) find out.