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March 2012 • BRONX/RIVERDALE FAMILY 5 Parenting Babies & nutrition Navigating what baby should eat isn’t easy

y husband came down on me the other day for M “still giving the baby that crappy formula.” We had agreed to start feeding her pureed fruits and mommy 101 vegetables to supplement her milk, angelica seradova which I’ve been doing, but on this particular day, I admit, I was lazy and didn’t feed my 5-month old anything but formula. I felt guilty and I knew that my hus- band was right. If he knew that some- times I even give her bottled baby food, he’d die. Growing up in Slovakia, he was used to home-cooked meals made with vegetables picked from the garden. Eating out was unheard of or, “for people who don’t want to cook,” according to him, and he and his sis- ter only drank soda at Christmas, as a special treat. It wasn’t until he came to the U.S. that he had his first fast-food meal and he wasn’t impressed. Fast food, for him, is just a convenience, and he would never actually crave McDon- ald’s. My parents, however, would bribe me with a Happy Meal whenever I needed to behave and, to this day, I love the fries (and hash browns … and apple pies). But he loves home cooking and wants our daughter to feel the same. I get it, so I’ve really started look- ing at how we’re going to nourish her and, more importantly, get her to understand the difference between nutritious food and food that’s not so great. We started read- ing health journals and watch- ing documentaries on nutrition, the links between diet and most preventable diseases, and the epi- demic of obesity in this country. We got a lot more than we bargained for, and the result was a total nutrition overhaul. I guess that’s an We’re still in the early stages We immediately read all the labels added role of being a of our new way of life and I hope in our pantry and threw out every- parent — being a nutri- we stay in it for the long-term. Still, I thing with chemicals, leaving us with tionist as well. The good news is that can’t help but wonder what my hus- nothing but a few spices. Dramatic, our daughter is still a baby and we’re band eats at work or when I’m not but inspiring. The sad part is that we willing to make the changes now so around. As for me, maybe I won’t rush eat relatively “healthy” by New York she can grow up enjoying healthy off to buy my daughter a Happy Meal standards, and yet, we’re not con- foods and, hopefully, she’ll get a bet- any time soon, but I can treat myself scious of the food we’re putting into ter understanding of how important it to some fries every now and then, our bodies. is to eat right. can’t I?

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March 2012 • BRONX/RIVERDALE FAMILY 7 Home front For women, an unfinished revolution By Risa C. DoheRty women’s movement created a clear coordinating their families’ ever-com- One mother road map for women who joined the plex schedules. The study also indi- grew up in a changing world. In ranks of working mothers. Nonethe- cated that the work-family conflict is wonders: Has the 1960s and ’70s, women were less, we knew back in 1990 that em- traditionally framed as a challenge I no longer expected to stay home ployers expected fathers to focus all only to women. This conclusion is re- to care for the house and children, of their energy on their careers, even flective of the continuing stereotype the women’s but were told they could have it all: at the expense of their home lives. of the working mother as the parent the fulfilling career and the family. Women are under closer scrutiny to summon in a childcare crisis, while The one thing that no one ever ex- than men for skipping work for a fathers are generally believed to be movement plained, though, was how it would school function. Further, according free of such distractions at work. all work. to author Gail Collins, most work- failed us at Twenty-one years later, I am re- ing women end up second-guessing expectations and flecting on the factors that influ- themselves every time they pick behavior enced me when I first became a work over family, or vice versa. When I contacted Hochschild re- home? mother. Women fortunate enough to So, some women, like me, choose cently, she told me that she believes have a choice between working or to stay home, knowing that they that the mothers of my generation staying home make a difficult, life- would otherwise be responsible for have retreated in the battle for equal- changing decision, and their consid- “the second shift,” while others re- ity in the home front out of fear. erations have an impact on the lives main at work, but take on the major- “In the 1970s, working women often of all women in the workplace. ity of childcare for the family. Either married men who were unprepared way, the dream of having the perfect for the new demands, and they took ‘the Second Shift’ career and equality on the home jobs traditionally designed for men,” When my husband and I were front is still out of reach. she explained. These women strug- growing up, our mothers were wait- gled for parity at work, enduring long ing at home after school. We watched Stressed moms hours at the office, and their mar- Carol Brady, Wilma Flintstone and In a 2011 study in the American riages took the hit. She told me that Samantha Stevens happy at home, Sociological Review, Dr. Barbara not much has changed for my genera- raising the children, since there were Schneider of Michigan State Uni- tion, except that both marriages and no married, working mothers on TV. versity and Dr. Shira Offer of Bar jobs have become less secure. So, while the gender revolution raged Ilan University found that working I believe, to some extent, it is outside, inside our homes, role mod- women spend 10 hours more per a matter of expectations. In “The els had traditional duties. week than working men multitasking Second Shift,” Hochschild recog- Even my parents, who paid my housework and childcare. nized that many young women do way through college and law school, In contrast, the fathers’ multitask- not speak to their husbands about had their stamp of approval ready ing usually involved playing with the shared responsibility for child care if I decided to stay home with my children, while interacting with the and housework before it becomes children. After all, like me, they were office. The study analyzed data gath- an issue. But she thinks it goes well products of a traditional family envi- ered between 1999 and 2000 from beyond the issue of expectations. ronment. 500 families in middle-class subur- “It’s also a matter of behavior,” Arlie Hochschild’s “The Second ban and urban communities. Hochschild says, in that many men Shift,” hit the shelves in 1989, less The mothers found their multi- are fearful of being branded as less than a year before I got pregnant. tasking experiences more stressful committed to their careers if they In the book, Hochschild revealed than the fathers’, and reported that it spend more time with their children. that many working mothers came often led to domestic disputes. Collins notes that, as a result, home to face the “the second shift” The stresses from the home front many well-educated, high-achieving — and had to take on the majority of and the workplace cause a work- women who decided to stay home housework and childcare not equally life imbalance, leading to decreased were accused of surrendering. Their shared by their husbands. psychological well-being, according critics were concer ned that this could This concept was eye-opening to to the study. These stresses include ultimately have an adverse effect me, because I presumed that the mothers’ “mental labor” involved in on hard-won academic and work-re-

8 BRONX/RIVERDALE FAMILY • March 2012 made within the home go hand-in- hand with the changes that need to A recent study be made at the office. found that working Hochschild looks forward to the day when we will catch up with Euro- women spend 10 pean progressive policies, citing Nor- way’s wonderland of limited hours and hours more per family-friendly benefits. She believes many Americans resist government week than working help in this area, until they think about men multitasking the possibilities for paid family and medical leave; affordable, subsidized housework and childcare; government incentives for flex-time; and job shares. childcare. One organization that is hoping to ensure that family life takes priority in the workplace is A Better Balance: I realized that young, sin- The Work and Family Legal Center in gle women entering the New York, a legal team that says it is workforce now may “fighting to give American workers have an understand- the time and flexibility they need to ing of how far we care for their families.” It hopes to have come, but transform the American workplace often have no and elevate the job of caregiving by sense of how far pushing family-friendly policies like we need to go. the New York State Fair Pay Act and paid family leave. The future for Co-President Dina Bakst recently working mothers testified before the New York State So, what is the outlook for my Assembly concerning discrimination daughter’s generation? Hoch- against pregnant women and moth- schild told me that our retreat ers in the workplace, and inequitable may become “a cautionary pay for part-time workers (predomi- tale to [the] next nantly women). generation,” and Legal analyst and author Lis women’s pay- Wiehl suggests that an overwhelmed checks may be- mother make a list of household come even more tasks, discuss it with her husband, critical to the and tell him she needs help, thereby family budget. giving him the opportunity to pitch in Schneider said and put the whole picture into focus. lated opportunities for women. Col- meals and emotional engagement that it would not be To me, though, the idea of merely lins concluded that such accusations with family is the root of a successful any different for the next generation pitching in seems to defeat the goal were unfounded despite this trend, gender revolution. — unless we do something about it. of re-directing the full responsibility because more women realized that “Without our noticing, over time, She believes we need to recognize for some tasks to a husband. they could not afford to stop work- American capitalism embraced em- that there are still gender biases in • • • ing, and because businesses were powerment, and it sidetracked care,” the workplace and in social situa- Change can come, but it will take starting to make changes to accom- she said. Men hand the caretaking tions, and that gender expectations time before more workplaces become modate working mothers. duties over to women, who then pervade every aspect of our lives. fully supportive of working mothers. hand them over to paid caregiv- We need to wake up and realize We still have a long way to go before Men needed at home ers, who, in turn, hand their own that gender bias, which seemed to all new mothers feel as though they So, has the women’s movement children over to others for care. have been taken care of, is not re- need not sacrifice their careers, their failed us? Hochschild, Schneider and Hochschild concluded that the big ally a thing of the past. We need to home lives, or their sanity as they Offer agree: it did not fail, it stalled. challenge is to “value and share the once again open a discussion and join the ranks of working mothers. We After all, women joined the ranks of duties of caring for loved ones.” obtain a more nuanced view of fam- need to begin thinking beyond our men in numerous fields previously When I spoke with Schneider by ily life, to better understand gender current limitations and understand off limits, and men now participate phone, she implied that the revolu- inequalities in the home. Schneider the possibilities of reawakening a dor- in child rearing more than ever. Dads tion, on its face, seems to have been was mindful of the need to raise mant vision for the future. have stepped up, says Schneider, won, but has many layers. many fathers’ levels of engagement Risa C. Doherty practiced law from and their roles have changed. “For ordinary persons, things with their children and told me that 1986 to 1990 and has been a freelance Still, when Hochschild shared with are the same [as they have always until we pay closer attention to the writer since 1995. She received a Silver me her new afterward for the 2012 been],” she explains, as we often do mom’s burden, the quality of family Award for Investigatory Reporting in edition of the “The Second Shift,” she not pay attention to “hidden inequal- time is at risk. March 2011 from the Parenting Media stressed the need to place a deep ities” in the home. So, it appears as though the be- Association. Read more at www.risa­ value on care, noting that loving When speaking with Schneider, havioral changes that need to be doherty.com.

March 2012 • BRONX/RIVERDALE FAMILY 9 Parenting Rockabye baby By Belinda Mooney Babies are adjusting to their new life have been met can prevent sleep Getting your in the world, and this includes adjust- issues. A full tummy, clean diaper, hen you have a newborn ing to sleeping. and appropriate clothing for the baby to sleep baby, getting her to sleep Most babies will sleep from two to temperature can make a big dif- W through the night seems four hours at a time, even at night. As ference at bedtime. If your baby is like a monumental hurdle. In the your baby gets older, the sleep time cold, she will not sleep. The same through the quest to get baby to sleep, parents at night will get longer. Even though goes for babies who are overheated. turn to a variety of sources, like you don’t want to hurry the process, A chilly, wet baby is definitely not a retail stores that offer a seemingly there are things you can do to help happy baby. night endless variety of items that prom- your baby understand what bedtime ise to put their babies to sleep. is all about. Be creative They have everything from cradles If what you are doing is not solving that rock themselves to blankets establish a routine the problem, get creative. If you have that have an audible heartbeat. Al- Most adults have certain things been simply covering your baby with though these items seem like the they do at night to wind down and a blanket, try swaddling her. Some only solution, the key to getting get ready for bed. You can teach babies love to be tightly swaddled. your baby to do the If rocking her to sleep isn’t working, same thing. Your per- try walking with her or laying her in sonality and schedule her bed and patting her back. Just as will determine your ba- you have likes and dislikes, so does by’s nighttime routine. your baby. Take the time to learn Give your baby a from your baby and cater to her likes warm bath before and dislikes. she goes to bed every night. A warm bath is Little things that can soothing at any age and help helps the baby relax. To make bedtime as easy as pos- Doing it every night sible, you need to set the stage. Make establishes a routine. sure the baby’s room is dark at night. Establishing a pattern You want the room warm, but not prepares baby, men- stifling. Play with baby during the tally, for bedtime. Giv- day when she is awake and keep her ing a warm bath, nurs- stimulated. When she wakes at night, ing, and then tucking keep things calm. Feed or comfort baby in is an example her, keeping the lights off, and do of a patterned routine. whatever you normally do when put- ting her to sleep. Doing little things Know when like this can prevent sleep issues your baby is before they arise. really asleep your baby to sleep is understanding If your baby consistently cries Have realistic normal baby sleeping patterns and when you put her down, she may not expectations creating a routine to get your baby have been in a deep sleep. She may Keep your expectations realistic. ready for bed. have been in the early, light stage Don’t compare your baby to other ba- of sleep, when eyes flutter and she bies. Just because Sue’s baby sleeps How long should my smiles and often jerks. You want to eight hours straight doesn’t mean baby sleep? wait until baby is in what some doc- yours will — or should. Remember, Although the idea of a good night’s tors call the “limp limb” stage. In this stage won’t last forever, and sleep is appealing to both mom and this stage, she is completely relaxed your baby will sleep through the dad, it may not be realistic. Most new- and her limbs are limp and hanging. night eventually. When you are at borns and babies under six months Waiting until your baby is in this the end of your rope, remembering will not sleep through the night, be- stage can prevent baby from waking that your baby can’t do something cause they are actually not physically and crying. that’s physically impossible can help designed to sleep that long. Their calm your concerns. stomachs are not big enough to hold Make sure baby’s Belinda J. Mooney is a busy mom enough food to get them through the needs are met of seven. You can visit her at www.chil- night, especially if they are breastfed. Making sure your baby’s needs drensrecipes.com.

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By Denise yearian a soccer junkie doesn’t mean he participation in school, etc. A step-by- might not like — or won’t be good Above all, don’t let your own ap- ast summer, my kids did at — arts and crafts,” says Krakow. prehensions keep you from sending step process something they had never “Camp is a great place to try some- your child to camp. L done before: went to sleep- thing different, because everyone is “If you keep him home because away camp. You know, the kind having new experiences.” of your anxiety about separation, to getting the with cabins, canteens, and lots of Once your child has decided you’re short-changing him,” says bugs and dirt. I must admit, I was a upon the type of camp he wants, Krakow. “If your youngster is asking bit apprehensive about shipping all explore the options. Find out about to go away to camp, chances are he most out of three of them off at once. I mean, the various programs each one of- is ready.” what if they got homesick? What if fers and ask plenty of questions. On the first day of camp, help the summer I got “kid sick?” Nonetheless, they According to Krakow, most parents your child get settled, then leave. were begging — no, pleading — to find out whether there’s quality in- “Don’t stick around too long,” go, so we packed their bags and off struction and enough time for their says Krakow. “If you drive your they went — for seven whole days. child to participate in the said ac- child to camp, he may cling to you Did they get homesick? No! In fact, tivity, and stop there. But, he says, on the way up. Remember, this is they were having so much fun they parents should take a look at the something new, and it’s natural — didn’t want to come home! big picture. even for a veteran camper — to “Summer camp, especially sleep- “Probe to learn about other seg- be a little hesitant.” Once there, away camp, is often a wonderful, ments of the program,” he recom- however, many kids will shift from growth-filled, learning experience,” mends. “What concepts or philoso- clingy to embarrassed in front of said Doron Krakow, national direc- phy does the camp espouse? What their friends, and parents are often tor of Young Judaea Camp. Parents, type of child does it attract? What slow to pick up on this. however, often underestimate the will my child do through the course Even before you send your child benefits of camp and what it will do of a typical day?” If the camp has a to camp, mail him a letter. This way for their children. brochure, read it carefully. This way he’ll have something to open when “Some parents may think their you can match your agenda with the mail arrives on the first day. It money is better spent elsewhere that of the camp’s and provide the doesn’t have to be anything fancy than on camp fees, particularly if experience you want for your child. — a note saying you’re thinking of they themselves were not at camp Not sure if your child is devel- him and hoping he’s having a good as a youngster,” says Krakow. But a opmentally ready for camp? Have time will do. If you do not have time camp experience will provide your a trial run. Send him to visit a rela- to write every day, that is OK. Just child with invaluable life lessons, tive for the weekend. How did he try to write as often as you can. such as how to be responsible, do away from home? Did he sleep When my kids went to camp, I solve problems, and get along with well? Was he able to care for him- sent them notes every other day, others. self (brush his teeth, taking a bath, and included jokes and riddles. And So how do you go about finding change his clothes)? Did he adjust their father, who is a great cartoon- the right camp? First, talk it over to new or different foods? These ist, drew pictures with captions for with your child. What are his in- and other questions will help you them, too. terests? Does he like softball? Soc- decide if your child is ready for Although I was faithful at letter cer? Music? The performing arts? camp. writing, my kids weren’t. All week Finding a camp with activities your Even if your child did well on a long I waited for something — any- child will enjoy is important. At the trial run, spend a few minutes talk- thing — but received nothing. same time, encourage him to try ing with the camp director. Tell him “If your child is a poor corre- new things. about your child — how he inter- spondent, don’t take it personally,” “Just because [your child] is acts with other children, his level of says Krakow. “Camp is a full-time 12 BRONX/RIVERDALE FAMILY • March 2012 job for kids. Some may be inclined they can attract bugs, raccoons, on time, and come prepared with Not sure if your child is to share it all with their parents, and other outdoor creatures. a few extra plastic bags. You may others will get so caught up in the When preparing to send your need them, especially if your child developmentally ready for moment that promises to write are child to camp, avoid purchasing has wet clothes or muddy shoes camp? Have a trial run. forgotten.” new clothes unless he really needs that need to be transported. A good rule of thumb is, “No them. Chances are, they’ll get On the ride home, listen to news is good news.” In other words, soiled, stained, or mildewed be- your child. More than likely he’ll if you don’t hear from your child, it fore they get home — if they even be eager to share his experiences probably means he’s having a great get home! Economically speaking, with you — who he met, what he time and enjoying his newfound you’re better off rounding up old did, and the funny things that hap- freedom. clothes and shoes (towels and wash pened. And if you look real close Whether your child goes to camp clothes, too) and saving the new you may find that he’s grown a lit- for one week or the whole summer, items for after camp. tle. Not just in height, but in depth send a care package. Chances are, Several weeks before your child of character. Camp has a way of the other kids will get one and you attends camp, keep his schedule helping kids grow — by boosting don’t want your child to feel left out. open and stress-free. This will their self-esteem, increasing their The package doesn’t have to be ex- allow him plenty of time to relax sense of responsibility, and helping travagant, just something to let him and prepare for the big event. If, for them mature in their relationships know you’re thinking of him. Items example, your family comes back with others. could include: a yo-yo, his favorite from a vacation on Friday and you Who knows? Your child may even magazine, a pack of gum, candy, scoot your child off to camp on greet you with the same words mine or some other goodie. Just be sure Sunday, he may experience some did: “Hey, Mom! Camp was so much that if you’re sending food items, anxiety and tension. A better idea is fun. Can I go again next year?” you know what the rules are about to plan major summer events with a Denise Yearian is the former editor food in cabins. Camps often don’t break in between. of two parenting magazines and the allow food in the cabins because On the last day of camp, arrive mother of three children.

March 2012 • BRONX/RIVERDALE FAMILY 13 Bronx House School for Performing Arts Camp/Programs 2012 Directory

Bronx House School for Dream Makers Performing Performing Arts Arts Musical Theater Summer Program 3432-10 East Tremont Avenue 990 Pelham Parkway South 347-691-3177 or www. 718-792-1800 ext. 235 [email protected] www.bronxhouse.org Dream Makers Performing Arts offers SUMMER MUSICAL This new program is for kids who love Broadway Summer Intensives in Voice, to sing, dance, or perform! Included Acting and all genres of Dance. Train THEATER PROGRAM are 4 hours a day of instruction in sing- with Broadway professionals and become For children entering 1st grade – 4th grade ing, dancing and acting, and classes in a True Triple Threat! Summer intensive theater games and improv. Instructors classes are available from ages 8 to are trained professionals who are also adult. The studio also offers a Little accomplished educators. Two three-week Stars program ages 2 1/2 to 5. Program Cinderella Kids sessions culminate in musical theater pro- is tailored to each student. Full, half ductions for family and friends. day and single classes are offered for Also included is a trip to a Broadway or our summer program. Classes fill up off-Broadway production and swim in quickly! Audition for our National Award the indoor pool. Winning Competition Teams and Show Choir! Home of the Grand National The program is open to any child with Champions!! an interest in the performing arts who is entering 3rd to 8th grade in September Frost Valley YMCA 2012. All skill levels are welcome, no pre- 845-985-2291 Ext 301 or www. vious experience is necessary, however a frostvalley.org or campdirector@ passion for the arts is required. Parents frostvalley.org must provide daily lunch. Our Catskill Mountains summer camp unites traditional camping with innova- Bronx House Day Camp tive programs, focusing on building Monday through Friday, July 2, 2012 - July 20, 2012 (closed July 4) 990 Pelham Pkwy South; 718-792- and maintaining healthy lifestyles, and Performance Dates: Friday, July 20 & Saturday, July 21 1800 ext. 0, www.bronxhouse.org reflecting the interests and needs of a 9:00am – 4:00pm with early drop off & extended day Bronx House Day Camp is located at dynamic camp community – an excit- a beautiful 120 acre campground in ing mix of cultures, backgrounds, and options for an additional fee. Rockland County. Transportation is abilities. Activities are designed to build provided with full and half day sessions trust, teamwork, and mutual under- Singing, Dancing and Acting are available. The Fun Bunch Day Camp standing. Exiting “Teen Adventure Trips” is for children entering Kindergarten are offered. Our 6,000 acres are ideal leading to a full production of a shortened through 3rd grade. Explorer Camp is for for the ultimate camp experience. We children entering 4th – 6th grade. A Teen focus on building strong character values version of the Cinderella story created Travel Camp is also available for children through outdoor activities in a natural entering 7th – 10th grade. There is also environment. Serving 35,000 visitors especially for young people to perform. a Summer Fun at Bronx House program annually through our conference facil- for 3 and 4 year olds. Transportation is ity (for families / groups), environmental provided and scholarships are available. education for students, and 20 summer OTHER ACTIVITIES INCLUDE Please call for more information. camp options. ★ Trip to a Broadway or off-Broadway production ★ Swim in our indoor pool Children’s Bible Hostos Community ★ Arts and crafts activities related to the production Fellowship Camp Joy College Continuing 250 Nimham Rd., Carmel, 845 225- Education 2005 x212 or www.cbfny.org 500 Grand Concourse, 718-518-6656 Camp Joy provides a safe, fun and or www.hostos.cuny.edu/contedu SUMMER MUSICAL THEATER spirit filled camp experience for children If you want your children to stay sharp 10% OFF PROGRAM – PART 2 and youth. We are located in beautiful in their studies during the summer Carmel NY, just 50 miles North of the and, yet, want them to have a learning Early Bird Special Enroll in Our SUMMER MUSICAL Bronx. At $65 per session, you will not experience that is fun, enroll them in If You Register be sorry and your children will thank you Hostos Community College’s College for By April 1, 2012! THEATER PROGRAM & the for all the fun and memories that they Kids Summer Academy. This Summer Additional Limited Second Session of Bronx House receive. Register online or call for open- Academy provides a diverse, unique and Financial Assistance ings. Transportation from Manhattan affordable opportunity for children to Is Available Day Camp & Get a $200 Discount provided. improve, excel and experience a variety of programs designed to motivate and Off the Session 2 Day Camp Fee! Children’s Bible encourage them. Fellowship Teen Camp Whether through Academics, The Arts, 845-225-2005 EXT 207 or www. and Health and Fitness, the Academy Call 718-792-1800 ext. 236 cbfny.org 2012 focuses on educating and elevating for prices and further information Camp Joy has been working with chil- students through a range of instructional dren and teens for over 60 years. We and recreational activities. The College’s Bronx House offer a great camping experience for facilities which include an indoor swim- 990 Pelham Parkway South • Bronx, NY 10461 the inner-city youth. Challenging truth, ming pool, dance studio, gymnasium, engaging fun and a life time of memo- computer labs, and art studio in air-con- 718-792-1800 ext. 236 • 718-792-6802 fax ries! Register online or call for open- ditioned buildings that are safe and clean www.bronxhouse.org ings. Transportation from Manhattan allow the Academy’s staff to provide a provided. Continued on page 16 14 BRONX/RIVERDALE FAMILY • March 2012 Special Advertising Section Mosholu NEW! Day Camp

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PERFORMING ARTS Continued from page 14 guide the children through their daily holistic educational encounter for kids. activities. BRINGING BROADWAY TO THE BRONX Children, ages five to fourteen, develop Riverdale Temple also offers Nursery their literacy and social developmental School classes for 2-4 year-olds, 2,3 or skills in a college setting. The Summer 5 days a week and extended days for Academy also provides supervised activi- 3’s and 4’s. Our certified, experienced ties that teach core values, conflict reso- teachers have a themed curriculum lution and leadership skills. Kids have fun that encourages natural creativity and while developing new skills, building self- curiosity. DANCE confidence, appreciating teamwork and Please call 718-796-0335, or 718-548- VOCAL becoming more self-reliant while making 3800 ext 0, for more details about the new friends. nursery school and summer programs. Mosholu Day Camp YMCA of Greater New • Newly installed Spring Floors Mosholu Montefiore Community York Day Camps • Classes for ages 2 to Adult Center 3450 Dekalb Ave. Bronx 10467 Catalpa Center YMCA 69-02 64th • State of the Art Sound Equipment 718-882-4000 or www.mmcc.org Street, Ridgewood; 718-821-6271 or • 2 NEW 2000 Square Foot Studios ACTING We Make Memories! www.ymcanyc.org/catalpa Cross Island YMCA 238-10 Hillside • National Award Winning Competition Team This summer Mosholu Day Camp offers children from kindergarten through Avenue, Bellerose; 718-479-0505 or • Train with Professional Dancers and Singers sixth grade a fantastic opportunity to www.ymcanyc.org/cross • Monthly Master Classes available with NYC Top Agents, become a part of the greatest sum- Flushing YMCA 138-46 Northern mer ever! At our new campgrounds in Boulevard., Flushing; 718-961-6880 Performers, Make-up Artists & Photographers Harriman State Park, campers will make or www.ymcanyc.org/flushing LISA MAIETTA RYBACKI - ARTISTIC DIRECTOR new friends, play, learn and swim, while Jamaica YMCA 89-25 Parsons building self-esteem and making memo- Boulevard, Jamaica; 718-739-6600 or DANCE CAPTAIN FOR “GREASE” ON BROADWAY ries that will last a lifetime. Third grade www.ymcanyc.org/jamaica through sixth grader campers even Long Island City YMCA 32-23 Queens 3432-10 EAST TREMONT AVENUE • BRONX, NEW YORK 10465 take part in day trips to Ball Games, Boulevard., LIC; 718-392-7932 or 347-691-3177 • [email protected] Amusement Parks and Beaches. 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Special Advertising Section March 2012 • BRONX/RIVERDALE FAMILY 17 Parenting www.nyparenting.com My teen’s aversion to school photo day

was going through pictures of his Sasquatchian paw, and the rest puter, a notebook, a day-timer, and my son the other day, meaning are tiny portraits dominated by the a watch, I never know it’s Picture I I was thumb scrolling on my inside of his mouth, the cover of a Day until Sasquatch is getting out of Death by cellphone through a nearly infinite book, or his shirt pulled over his the car, whereupon he will lean in, collection of perfect portraits of his nose. And in a single unadulterated as if to say something sweet, as if ChilDren hands, and remembered that I don’t head shot, it is painfully obvious to offer me a bon mott, a fist bump Chris GarlinGton have one good photo of him. he’s farting. — anything — but merely alerts me He hates getting his picture taken. My only hope has been Picture to the fact that he is not adequately I have exactly seven blurry snap- Day. And as I am a diligently or- dressed for the occasion. shots of his face: in one, his face is ganized parent with a Smart- Imagine: framed in the window half obscured by phone, a com- with the sun behind him like a halo, his “Legalize It” T-shirt hanging in a stained, pouchy slouch; a tiny smear of grape jelly trailing off toward his ear; his unruly Aboriginal dome wrapped in greasy fur, as if his head is being raped by a grizzly — and he says: “Oh yeah, it’s Picture Day.” Merde! Fantastic. I will add this new abomination to the growing ag- gregation of legendary school por- traits wherein Junior appears… • To have been dragged back- wards through a bush • U n d e r anesthesia • Infused with pure, unadulterated evil • Over-caffeinated I could scrapbook a three-inch brick of Disney pictures of our fam- ily smiling with the radiant intensity of an Osmond wedding, and in each of them, there will be a perfect pic- ture of Connor’s hand where his head should be. He has perfected the spontaneous photo bomb. My only clear picture of his countenance Where every family matters and where new york shows him slumped face first into the couch, his nose bent sideways parents find help, info and support. in a puddle of drool (I assume), with the dog Frenching his ear. I can only hope, as he enters high school, that he will start combing his hair and washing his face on the Great articles, a happening calendar, morning of Picture Day after discov- ering that girls might want a pic- informative directories and ticket give-a-ways. ture of his actual face. I mean, he’s a good-looking kid. I think. I don’t Everyone’s a winner. Log-in, enter & find out. know; all I see is hair. Until that time, like every other parent of a teen boy, I lurk in the liv- ing room until I hear snoring, tiptoe into his room, peel back his hideous nyparenting Media/CnG mop, gaze into his face and think to myself: yes, that’s him, thank God. [email protected] • 718-260-4554 18 BRONX/RIVERDALE FAMILY • March 2012 www.nyparenting.com

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By Sandra Gordon College in Massachusetts, who au- as, “I’d like you to take your dirty thored the study. dishes into the kitchen before going hen Allison Carter, an or- Sound familiar? At my house, I to bed, so we don’t come down to a ganization coach, got tired often find myself setting the table messy living room in the morning.” W of doing the endless piles while my kids do their homework, If dirty dishes are still there in the of laundry her family generated, she which just feels, well, wrong. Isn’t morning, let them pile up, even if didn’t hire a housekeeper. Instead, setting the table a kid’s job? It sure several days’ worth amasses. she taught her 9-year-old son and was when I was growing up. And I Consistency is key. Whatever you 12-year-old daughter to wash, fold, had a paper route, too. do, don’t touch the dishes, no mat- and put away their own clothes. Not Of course, chores aren’t some- ter how much they bother you. only has this step lightened Carter’s thing that you can expect your kids Then, just keep stating the rule, amount of housework, but it has also will want to do. Even you probably emphasizing that, as a family, you been good for the kids. don’t look forward to scrubbing all need to do your part to keep “If you run a full-service house- the toilet or taking out the trash. the house neat. When kids finally hold, your kids may never learn But because doing them fosters so get the message (and they will), how to do practical things like laun- much more than just getting a job reinforce that behavior with praise, dry or pick up after themselves,” done, they’re worth incorporating as in, “Thank you for bringing your Carter says. into your child’s busy schedule. dirty dishes into the kitchen. I love Indeed, studies show that hav- Here are five ways you can help how clean the living room is.” In ing children pitch in around the your kids learn to clean up their act time, picking up will become as house provides an opportunity for — and also teach them invaluable much of a habit for them as expect- them to learn about responsibility, life lessons. ing you to do it once was, Klapow organization, regard for others, and says. a general sense of being a capable Stop being a pick-up human being — all of which can artist Focus on the serve them well throughout their A natural place to start with outcome lives. household chores is teaching your Meanwhile, you can also encour- Still, a recent Wellesley Univer- kids to pick up after themselves, age your kids by offering an incen- sity study found that parents now which likely means resisting the tive to clean up. For example, tell typically only give their kids trivial urge to do the tidying. them that once they’ve picked up jobs, such as putting dishes in the “Every time you pick up after ev- their toys, they can go to the play- dishwasher. Schoolwork is their eryone, you reinforce the behavior ground. Or, once they’ve cleaned main task. and condition them to keep clutter- the den after their slumber party, “Although homework and aca- ing,” says Josh Klapow, PhD, a clini- then you can all go shopping. Or, demic curriculums can be much cal psychologist at the University of once they’ve emptied the dish- more demanding than in the past, Alabama at Birmingham School of washer, then they can go to their children may not be doing enough Public Health. Your kid learns that friend’s house. That’s not bribing. to help around the house to de- if he leaves his stuff around, you’ll Rather, it makes them understand velop a sense of competence,” says bail him out. that completing chores makes other Markella Rutherford, assistant pro- Instead, teach them to keep the fun activities possible. fessor of sociology at Wellesley house clean by stating a rule such Keep it positive by focusing on 20 BRONX/RIVERDALE FAMILY • March 2012 how clean the playroom, or Rotate chores as much as pos- When kids finally get whatever room they’re tack- sible, given your children’s ages, ling, will look when they’re so that no one gets stuck with the the message (and they done. Concentrate on public same job. One idea? Put all the areas in your house, the common chores that need to be done into a will), reinforce that ground you all inhabit, where kids hat. Whatever gets drawn is your get the greatest sense that child’s job for the week. You can behavior with praise. “we’re all in this together,” also encourage your kids to work and consider letting them together, which fosters cooperation do what they want with and problem solving. their bedroom. “See if they can sort the tasks out “Short of breeding by themselves,” says Vicki Panac- MRSA, I think a child’s cione, PhD, president of the Better bedroom should be Parenting Institute in Melbourne, off limits to house- Fl., as in ‘you dust the furniture keeping rules,” says while I pick up the dog’s toys.’ That Carleton Kendrick, teaches another life skill: team- a family therapist in work.” Millis, Mass. Don’t be a nag Assign tasks If you’re always reminding your based on kids to do their chores, they’ll learn your child’s to depend on you for that cue. In- age stead, help them remember to do It’s never too early tasks without prodding by teaching to enlist your child’s them to evaluate their own work. assistance. Even pre- “If you go into the bathroom schoolers can put nap- and see the towels on the floor kins on the table, help again, for example, instead of say- match the socks, put ing, ‘Pick up the towels,’ ask your their toys away, and help child: ‘What’s wrong with this pic- you look for specific items ture?’” Panaccione suggests. An- at the supermarket from other option is to assign your kids their perch in the shopping to their own designated towel. If cart. From preschool to the it ends up on the bathroom floor lower elementary grades, again, so be it. That’s what they get you’ll need to do the task to use next time, which is a logical with them until they’re old consequence for not hanging the enough to do it themselves. towel up. Even a first grader isn’t likely to clean the living room Pile on the praise solo. Emphasize, “We’re doing “Giving lots of praise, especially this together,” without getting in the beginning, for every helpful angry. Over the years, you can thing your child does, even if it’s expect kids to do more with- small, helps reinforce the behav- out your support or reminding. ior,” Panaccione says. Eventually, the process will be- But rather than, “You’re the great- come ingrained and your kids est laundry folder in the world,” you will tidy up automatically. might say, “Oh, wow! You’re doing Based on your child’s age and such a great job folding all the laun- stage, the tasks he can be ex- dry. I’m so proud of you for helping pected to handle (from toddlers out.” to teens) might include putting “Make your accolades authentic,” his toys away, putting his back- Panaccione says. “Kids love it when pack away after school, putting you recognize their contribution his clean clothes in his dresser and honestly express gratitude; drawer, loading and emptying it’s a competence and confidence the dishwasher, taking out booster.” the garbage, setting the Sandra Gordon is a journalist and table, vacuuming and dust- author of “The Reunion Diet” and “Con- ing, mowing the lawn, wash- sumer Reports Best Baby Products.” E- ing the car, doing the laundry, mail her at [email protected]. making dinner and, later, doing For more, visit www.sandrajgordon.com, household errands around or her blog at www.shopsmartmag.org/ town with the family car. sandra-gordon/index.html.

March 2012 • BRONX/RIVERDALE FAMILY 21 HealtH Preventing sports injuries this spring pring is not only marked by its budding flowers and warmer S temperatures, but also by the HealtHy resurgence of our kids’ team sports. Many of our children are coming off living of competitive fall seasons and gear- Danielle Sullivan ing up to tackle another. While it’s well documented that sports provide children with a wealth of benefits, such as discipline, team- work, and physical fitness, when do they become too much? We’ve all seen those over-the-top little league parents screaming at their kids to perform and do better, to suck it up, and walk it off. It’s a fact that many children who suffer injuries have not been properly con- ditioned or have simply been pushed too far. With signs-ups and tryouts in full swing, here are some helpful tips to remember when your child joins the baseball, softball, or soccer team. For starters, it’s important to vary your child’s regimen. As an attend- ing orthopedic surgeon at the Hos- pital for Special Surgery, specializing in knee and shoulder surgery and sports medicine with special exper- tise in pediatric and adolescent knee problems, Dr. Robert Marx has seen his share of childhood injuries. Marx him be outside a lot, running around early, but let them be kids.” Empha- says that the most common injuries and enjoying some daily free play, size skill building, discipline, and are overuse injuries. so the whole body is exercised. This teamwork; make sure they are drink- “One cause is due to the increase not only allows him to use all of his ing plenty of fluids and getting plenty of ‘early specialization,’ which is when muscles — without concentrating on of sleep; and treat injuries with RICE a child specializes in a single sport just a few repetitive motions — but it (or Rest, Ice, Compression and El- as early as 7 years old,” he explains. also lets him enjoy childhood. evation). “Early specialization causes their bod- Marx, also a professor of orthope- “Their bodies are just as young as ies to submit to wear and tear from re- dic surgery and professor of public they are. They can’t train like profes- petitive stress of a constant athletic health at the Weill Medical College of sional athletes,” says Marx. “Kids are motion. In the spring, kids should be Cornell University, agrees. being pushed much too hard at too enjoying the outdoors — whether it’s “Staying active, in moderation, early of an age. Even worse, these on the playground or on a field, not throughout the year is extremely injuries are preventable.” still in the gym or indoor track as important for their overall health. Danielle Sullivan, a Brooklyn-born they’ve been using all winter.” By all means, let them run, play and mom of three, has worked as a writer Other common injuries are or- enjoy themselves, but keep in mind and editor in the parenting world for thopedic knee problems, such as — playing different sports through- more than 10 years, and was recently osteochondritis dessicans; pain and out the year can better help their honored with a Gold award for her mechanical symptoms associated muscles develop and not become health column by the Parenting Media with discoid meniscus; and anterior overly fatigued.” Association. Sullivan also writes for cruciate ligament (ACL) injuries. So what can parents do to help Babble.com. Find her on Facebook and The best way to keep your child prepare kids for spring sports? Marx Twitter @DanniSullWriter, or find her at active and healthy is to simply let recommends enforcing “good habits JustWriteMom.

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The whole family creates personal- Wild Ocean: New York Hall of Sci- ence, 47-01 111th St., at Avenue of ized masks using a molding of their Science; (718) 699-0005 X353; www. face. nyscience.org; Fridays, 3:30 pm, Satur- Ruffling some feathers Arts and crafts: Wave Hill, West days and Sundays, 1:30 and 3:30 pm, 249th St. and Independence Ave. (718) Now – Sat, March 31; $6, ($5 children, he Black Swan herself can’t the lavishly costumed Moscow 549-3200; www.wavehill.org; 10 am–1 students and seniors, plus museum hold a feather to this pro- Festival Ballet will kick up their pm; Free with museum admission. admission). duction of “Swan Lake,” heels to Pyotr Tchaikovsky’s en- Science themed 3-D show about the T Papermaker Randy Brozen shows to be performed by the Moscow chanting score. This classic is a ocean and ecosystem. The movie is how to sculpt blue birds and nests approximately 30 minutes long and is Festival Ballet on March 18 at the must-see for the entire family. from paper pulp and confetti. suitable for children 6 years and older. Lehman Center for the Perform- “Swan Lake” at the Lehman Cen- ing Arts. ter for the Performing Arts [250 Bed- Storytime: Barnes & Noble Bay Plaza, “The Amazing Max and the Box 290 Baychester Ave. (718) 862-3945; One of the world’s greatest bal- ford Park Boulevard West, (718) 960- of Interesting Things”: The MMAC barnesandnoble.com; 11 am; Free. lets, it will be performed by stars 8833] on March 18 at 4 pm; tickets Theater, 248 W. 60th St. between Am- For all ages. sterdam and West End avenues; (212) from Russia’s Bolshoi and Kirov are $25-$40 and $10 for children 239-6200; www.telecharge.com; Sat- ballet companies. Under the artis- under 12 for any seat. For more, visit urdays, 4:30 pm, $29.50 ($49.50 VIP tic direction of Sergei Radchenko, www.LehmanCenter.org. Sun, Feb. 26 seating). Arts and crafts: 10 am–1 pm. Wave The magic show with a mind of its Hill. See Saturday, Feb. 25. own. Magician Max Darwin makes ob- Teen advisory group: Kingsbridge Sat, March 3 – Sun, May 27; $5 ($3 stu- jects appear out of thin air. Library Center, 310 E. Kingsbridge Rd. dents/children and seniors). Survival workshop: Van Cortlandt Nature Center, (VCNC), W. 246th St. at Read aloud: Kingsbridge Library Cen- at Briggs Ave. (718) 579-4244; www. Visit the home of Edgar Allen Poe; nypl.org; Friday, March 2, 4 pm; Friday, Broadway; (718) 548-0912; www.nyc. ter, 310 E. Kingsbridge Rd. at Briggs the restoration of his cottage is com- March 16, 4 pm; Friday, March 23, 4 gov/parks/rangers; 11 am; Free. Ave. (718) 579-4244; www.nypl.org; plete and open for a guided tour. Wednesday, Feb. 29, 4:30 pm; Wednes- pm; Friday, April 6, 4 pm; Friday, April Do you know how to take care of day, March 7, 4:30 pm; Wednesday, 13, 4 pm; Friday, April 20, 4 pm; Friday, The Orchid Show: New York Botani- yourself out in the wilderness? Urban April 27, 4 pm; Friday, May 4, 4 pm; March 14, 4:30 pm; Wednesday, March cal Garden, 200th St. and Kazimiroff Park Rangers will show you the way. 28, 4:30 pm; Free. Friday, May 11, 4 pm; Friday, May 18, 4 Blvd. (718) 817-8700; www.nybg.org; Stories for children 5-12 years old. pm; Free. Children 13 to 18 lend their voices to Tuesdays – Fridays and Sundays, 10 Mon, Feb. 27 Craft day: Charles A. Dana Discovery library topics. am–6 pm, Sat, March 3 – Sun, April 22; PJ Night: Kingsbridge Library Center, Center, Central Park; (212) 860-1370; $20 ($18 seniors/students; $8 children www.nycgovparks.org; Fridays, 3–4:30 House tour: Edgar Allen Poe cottage, 310 E. Kingsbridge Rd. at Briggs Ave. 2-12). pm, Now – Fri, March 30; Free. 2640 Grand Concourse at E. Kings- (718) 579-4244; www.nypl.org; 5 pm; Create a different nature inspired bridge Rd. (718) 881-8900; http:// Patrick Blanc’s vertical garden is on Free. masterpiece every week. Families only, www.bronxhistoricalsociety.org; Satur- display. A blooming spectacle of tropi- For children 5-7 with parent or care- no groups. days, 10 am–4 pm, Sundays, 1 –5 pm, cal life of exotic fragrances and colors. giver; stories, crafts and refreshments. 26 BRONX/RIVERDALE FAMILY • March 2012 Going Places Thurs, March 1 tells folktales from around the world celebrating the strength and smarts of Game on: Kingsbridge Library Center, women and girls. Suitable for children 310 E. Kingsbridge Rd. at Briggs Ave. 5 and older. (718) 579-4244; www.nypl.org; 4–5 pm; Free. Game on: 4–5 pm. Kingsbridge Li- Children 13-18 years old show off brary Center. See Thursday, March 1. their skills with controller and challenge Lecture series: Bartow-Pell Mansion your friends to a game. Museum, 895 Shore Rd. (718) 885- Lecture series: Bartow-Pell Mansion 1461; www.bartowpellmansionmu- Museum, 895 Shore Rd. (718) 885- seum.org; 7:30 pm; $10 ($7 seniors and 1461; www.bartowpellmansionmu- students; Free for members). seum.org; 7:30 pm; $10 ($7 seniors and The history of City Island: From Mul- students; Free for members). berries to Minesweepers. The history of the Lorillards and the Bronx Botanical Gardens. Fri, March 9 “The Wizard of Oz”: 7 pm. The Fri, March 2 Bronx House. See Friday, March 2. “The Wizard of Oz”: The Bronx House, 990 Pelham Pkwy S. (718) 792- Sat, March 10 1800; www.bronxhouse.org; 7 pm; $10. Bird Walks: 8 am. Van Cortlandt Bronx House School for Performing Nature Center, (VCNC). See Saturday, Arts and Riverdale Children’s Theatre March 3. present the classic story of Dorothy, the Family Art project: Wave Hill, West Tin Man, Scarecrow and the Cowardly Time to return to ‘Oz’ 249th St. and Independence Ave. (718) Lion. Don’t forget Toto too! h no, Toto! We’re not film starring Judy Garland. They 549-3200; www.wavehill.org; 10 am–1 Spirit of Uganda: Jack H Skirball in Kansas anymore.” invite everyone to join them on pm; Free with museum admission. Center for the Performing Arts, 566 La- It’s okay, Dorothy, their walk along the Yellowbrick Take an ordinary terra cotta pot and Guardia Pl. at Washington Square; (212) “O embellish it with stones, beads and ce- you’re at the Bronx House. Along Road, to visit with the wonder- 352-3101; www.skirballcenter.nyu.edu; ramic tiles. 8 pm; $20-$32. with the Scarecrow, Tin Man, the ful wizard, if ever there was a Storytime: Barnes & Noble Bay Plaza, Dance extravaganza, features a cast Cowardly Lion, and the Wizard, wizard, the wonderful wizard 290 Baychester Ave. (718) 862-3945; of performers eight to eighteen years Dorothy is in Oz and only wants of Oz. barnesandnoble.com; 11 am; Free. old. Appropriate for children eight and to find a way back home. “The Wizard of Oz” at The Bronx For all ages. older. The young actors at the Riv- House [990 Pelham Pkwy. South in erdale Children’s Theatre and Bronxdale, (718) 792-1800] on March Garlic Mustard pull: Van Cortlandt Sat, March 3 the Bronx House for the Per- 2, 3, 9, and 10 at 7 pm and March 4 Nature Center, (VCNC), W. 246th St. at forming Arts are presenting the and 11 at 2 pm; $10. For more, visit Broadway; (718) 548-0912; www.nyc. Bird Walks: Van Cortlandt Nature gov/parks/rangers; 11 am–2 pm; Free. classic story, based on the 1939 bronxhouse.org. Center, (VCNC), W. 246th St. at Broad- Pull out the mustard plants around way; (718) 548-0912; www.nyc.gov/ the park - counts for community ser- parks/rangers; 8 am; Free. vice for students. Enjoy the feathered friends of the and view the mysteries of the night sky. Take a nature hike and explore the park. hidden gems of the forest. Wear com- Nature hike: River Run Playground, “The Wizard of Oz”: 7 pm. The fortable shoes, pack water and a light 83rd St. and Riverside Drive; (212) 628- Family Art project: Wave Hill, West 2345; www.nycgovparks.org; 11 am; Bronx House. See Friday, March 2. snack. 249th St. and Independence Ave. (718) Free. 549-3200; www.wavehill.org; 10 am–1 Concert: Lehman Center for the Per- “The Wizard of Oz”: 2 pm. The Wear comfy shoes, pack water and pm; Free with museum admission. forming Arts, 250 Bedford Park Boule- Bronx House. See Friday, March 2. a snack and join with the Urban Park Get tips from Paul Deo and design vard West; (718) 960-8833; www.Leh- Rangers to explore the forest. your own ideal landscape with color, manCenter.org; 8 pm; $45-$60. Ballet Folklorico: Lehman Center light, and collage. Forever Freestyle 6 celebrates 25 for the Performing Arts, 250 Bedford Family Art project: Wave Hill, West Park Boulevard West; (718) 960-8833; 249th St. and Independence Ave. (718) Storytime: Barnes & Noble Bay Plaza, years of Freestyle Fever; featuring Ste- vie B; Corina; Safire; Cyntia; Noel; Nay- www.LehmanCenter.org; 6 pm; $25- 549-3200; www.wavehill.org; 1–4 pm; 290 Baychester Ave. (718) 862-3945; $40. Free with museum admission. barnesandnoble.com; 11 am; Free. obe: Coro; Fascination; Strafe; and Teh Vargas. The amazing troupe from Colombia;. Make a block print inspired by plants For all ages. and flowers in the Marco Polo Stufano Night Sky: Belvedere Castle Central Survival workshop: Inwood Hill Spirit of Uganda: 8 pm. Jack H Skir- Conservatory. ball Center for the Performing Arts. See Park, 79th St. Transverse and Central Nature Center, 218 St. and Indian Rd. Park West; (212) 628-2345; www.ny- “The Wizard of Oz”: 7 pm. The (212) 304-3401; www.nycgovparks.org; Friday, cgovparks.org; 7 pm; Free. Bronx House. See Friday, March 2. 1 pm; Free. March 2. See the wonders of the universe and Learn what to do if you find yourself discover the stars. stranded in the woods. Recommended Sun, March 4 Sun, March 11 for children 8 and older. Family Art project: 10 am–1 pm. Family Art project: 10 am–1 pm. Thurs, March 8 Wave Hill. See Saturday, March 10. Starry night: Pellham Bay Ranger Wave Hill. See Saturday, March 3. Station (PBRS), Pellham Bay Park, Bruck- Storytelling: Kingsbridge Library Family Art project: 1–4 pm. Wave ner Boulevard and Wilkinson Avenue; Orienteering: Crotona Nature Cen- Center, 310 E. Kingsbridge Rd. at Briggs Hill. See Saturday, March 10. (718) 885-3467; www.nyc.gov/parks/ ter (CNC), Charlotte St. & Crotona Park Ave. (718) 579-4244; www.nypl.org; 4 rangers; 7 pm; Free. East; (718) 378-2061; www.nyc.gov/ pm; Free. “The Wizard of Oz”: 2 pm. The Join with the Urban Park Rangers parks/rangers; 1 pm; Free. Girls are Heroes Too - Regina Ress Continued on page 28 March 2012 • BRONX/RIVERDALE FAMILY 27 Going Places Continued from page 27 bronxmuseum.org; 6–9 pm; Free. soccer, basketball and volleyball clinics; Wed, March 21 Bronx House. See Friday, March 2. En evening of storytelling, music, po- mentorship and motivational speeches. etry and dance. “Dragons”: Nassau Veteran’s Memo- St. Patrick’s day: Van Cortlandt Na- rial Coliseum, 1255 Hempstead Turn- Thurs, March 15 ture Center, (VCNC), W. 246th St. at pike; (516) 794-9300; www.Ringling. Sat, March 17 Broadway; (718) 548-0912; www.nyc. St. Patrick’s Day: Chess and Check- com; 7:30 pm; $20- $150. gov/parks/rangers; 1 pm; Free. ers House, Center Drive and 65th Street Family Art project: Wave Hill, West Come and celebrate this once in a Transverse; (212) 794-4064; www.ny- 249th St. and Independence Ave. (718) Children do eco-friendly crafts. millennium show honoring the Year of cgovparks.org; 2–4 pm; Free. 549-3200; www.wavehill.org; 10 am–1 the Dragon. Ringling Bros. and Barnum Create a shamrock pinwheel in pm; Free with museum admission. Sun, March 18 and Bailey Circus present the Shao- honor of the wearing of the green. Create a sock critter puppet with a lin Kung Fu Warriors, Cossack riders, lonely sock or mitten. Scavenger Hunt: Belvedere Castle, Asian elephants, tigers and the Globe Arts and crafts: Kingsbridge Library 79th Street Transverse and Central Park of Steel. Center, 310 E. Kingsbridge Rd. at Briggs St. Patrick’s Day Parade: Manhat- West; (212) 628-2345; www.nycgov- Ave. (718) 579-4244; www.nypl.org; tan, 44th Street and Fifth Avenue; 11 park.org; 2 p m; Free. 4–4:30 pm; Free. am– 5 pm; Free. The Urban Park Rangers lead children Thurs, March 22 Children 5-12 create a St. Patrick’s The annual event begins at 11 am on a merry hunt for treasures. “Dragons”: 10:30 am and 7:30 pm. day project. and winds it’s way along Fifth Avenue Nassau Veteran’s Memorial Coliseum. Family Art project: 10 am–1 pm. and passes the American Irish Historical See Wednesday, March 21. Game on: 4–5 pm. Kingsbridge Li- Society at 83rd Street, and then ends Wave Hill. See Saturday, March 17. brary Center. See Thursday, March 1. Marvels of Motion: Kingsbridge Li- at the Metropolitan Museum of Art at Exploring clouds: Van Cortlandt brary Center, 310 E. Kingsbridge Rd. at Lecture series: Bartow-Pell Mansion 86th Street. Nature Center, (VCNC), W. 246th St. at Briggs Ave. (718) 579-4244; www.nypl. Museum, 895 Shore Rd. (718) 885- Broadway; (718) 548-0912; www.nyc. Storytime: Barnes & Noble Bay Plaza, org; 4 pm; Free. 1461; www.bartowpellmansionmu- 290 Baychester Ave. (718) 862-3945; gov/parks/rangers; 1 pm; Free. Children 5 and older learn about seum.org; 7:30 pm; $10 ($7 seniors and barnesandnoble.com; 11 am; Free. Children learn all about the weather. the laws of physics, engineering and students; Free for members). For all ages. The history of New Rochelle. “Swan Lake”: Lehman Center for the math. Presented by Mad Science of National Girls and Women in Performing Arts, 250 Bedford Park Bou- Westchester and Manhattan. levard West; (718) 960-8833; www. sports day: West Bronx Recreation Game on: 4–5 pm. Kingsbridge Li- Fri, March 16 LehmanCenter.org; 4 pm; $25-$40 Center, Shakespeare Ave. and Jesup brary Center. See Thursday, March 1. 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The YMCA has two fun ways to fulfill your child’s summer wishes at YMCA Summer Camp. At DAY CAMPS in NYC’s five boroughs, our caring staff helps kids grow in self-confidence, while exploring new friendships and the world around them. Through an emphasis on summer learning, campers have the chance to build academic skills while experiencing all the enjoyment of summer camp.

Our sleepaway NEW YORK YMCA CAMP, introduces kids to a whole new world of adventurous learning and exciting experiences, just 87 miles northwest of New York City.

Either way, YMCA SUMMER CAMP is the perfect place to meet new friends, participate in sports and creative arts, explore science and technology, swim, go on field trips, learn about nature, build core BRONX YMCA values, appreciate culture and diversity, and—of course—have fun. (718) 792-9736 REGISTER FOR YMCA DAY AND SLEEPAWAY CAMP TODAY. YMCANYC.ORG/BRONX IT’S NOT TOO EARLY TO REGISTER BUT SPACE IS FILLING FAST!

10% EARLY BIRD AND SIBLING DISCOUNTS AVAILABLE FINANCIAL ASSISTANCE IS AVAILABLE

VISIT OUR OPEN HOUSE AT ALL BRANCHES SATURDAY, MARCH 3RD, APRIL 28TH AND MAY 19TH 10AM-4PM 32 BRONX/RIVERDALE FAMILY • March 2012