Non-profit Organization U.S. POSTAGE PAID Jewish Family Service has started 3 Permit # 428 a mentoring program, Achi, for Binghamton, NY teen boys.

The JCC will hold a six-week 4 healthy-living workshop for senior adults.

The film “Six Million and One” 5 will be screened as part of the community commemoration of Yom Hashoah.

may 2014/iyar-sivan 5774 a publication of United jewish federation of Volume 16, Number 4 Greater Stamford, New Canaan and Darien The Little Giant Collaborative Steps for Woman’s Philanthropy Spring Dinner Federations Features Dr. Ruth By Ellen Weber during which time Westheimer Greater Stamford and WWWN Move A sage once said that “Good will share her thoughts and things come in small packages.” her life story, beginning with Forward Together At 4 foot 7 inches tall, Dr. Ruth her birth in Germany, her By Sharon Franklin with presidents of the Federations Westheimer, a world-renowned time at a school in Switzerland The UJF board unanimously voted serving as ex-officio members, will media psychologist and the where she escaped from the on March 12 to establish a “Joint evaluate opportunities for cooperation guest speaker at this year’s Holocaust, her experiences as Committee” with UJA/Federation and collaboration, and will serve as a United Jewish Federation’s a member of the Haganah as of Westport-Weston-Wilton-Norwalk central coordinator for such activity. Women’s Philanthropy Spring a Jewish freedom fighter, her (WWWN) to pursue short-term and The agreement specifically calls for Dinner, can attest to that. immigration to the United long-term collaboration. The com- analysis as to how the two Federations On Thursday, May 15, Wes- States, and her success as both mittee, which will be comprised of can jointly fund-raise to support local theimer, known as Dr. Ruth, a nationally and internationally two lay leaders from each community, See “Federations” on page 2 will share her life experiences Dr. Ruth Westheimer syndicated radio personality. with attendees at Temple Beth A practicing therapist, El. The event will begin with a cocktail speaker and writer, having written 31 hour at 6:30 pm, followed by dinner, See “Giant” on page 2 JCC Tzahal Shalom: Making Connections to Israel A Negev Oasis of Jewish- During this year’s JCC Tzahal Shalom armed services, the officers are young program, the community is invited to men and women who embody commit- spend time with active-duty officers from ment, dedication, courage and leader- Bedouin Collaboration the Israel Defense Forces at a week of ship, and who daily risk their lives in the By Maayan Jaffe the Hura Municipal Council, the govern- community events scheduled for May defense of the Jewish state. JNS.org ing body of a local Bedouin township. 4-11. In cooperation with the IDF, the Scheduled events for the IDF officers Ozone depletion, climate change, soil The lab itself was set up to demonstrate Stamford Jewish Community Center will include meetings with Jewish war veter- erosion and joblessness. Those are the breakthrough approaches to sustainability welcome the officers for a cross-cultural ans, a meeting for and about women, a issues tackled by Dr. Michael Ben-Eli, practices, expanding prospects and pro- encounter in a variety of settings. presentation with the Jewish Historical with Israel’s Negev as his base. “The list ducing life-affirming impacts on people The primary goal of the program is to Society, a community Yom Ha’atzmaut of issues is long,” said Ben-Eli, citing “an and eco-systems in all parts of the world. strengthen the unity of the Jewish people. celebration and town hall meeting, a endemic failure of our social and eco- For now, though, Ben-Eli is focused on Americans and Israelis are given oppor- teen program, parlor meetings at pri- nomic institutions to address these issues the desert. And his partners are a motivated tunities to learn about each other and vate homes, lunch with senior adults effectively and in a timely manner.” combination of Muslim Bedouin and Israeli their societies, person-to-person, with and more. Ben-Eli is the initiator of project Wadi scientists. The concept for the project was the goal of participants building lasting On Saturday, May 10, at 9 pm, the JCC Attir, launched jointly by the Sustainability born in 2007 when Ben-Eli visited Ben- relationships and a sense of extended will host its second annual Cocktails and Laboratory, of which he is the founder, and See “Oasis” on page 19 family. Representing all branches of See “Shalom” on page 4 Candle 6 Better 11 Family 13 Adult 15 Voices & Bits & Pieces 6 Lighting Together Central Education Views 18

YLD Mission to Cuba Twenty-three members of the Young Leadership Division traveled to Cuba on March 6 under the auspices of United Jewish Federation of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and Darien. In back, l-r: Rachel (partially hidden) and Nimrod Dayan, Ricky Arbron, Melissa and Mark Bildner, Amy Grabine, Jill Kaplan, Mitchell Kaplan, Parry Berkowitz and Jon Eisenstein Middle: Aaron Klein, Andrew Banoff, James Cohen, Alix Field Eben, Tara Shapiro, Stephanie Bilenker and Richard Shapiro. Front: Miriam Klein, Amanda Shapiro, Lisa Cohen and Rebekah Raz. Not pictured: Meryl Japha and Elise Klein. See page 10 for story and more photos. 2 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ maY 2014 CEO’s Message In Praise of the “C Word” By James A. Cohen since I joined the UJF team, we are doing our best to ming. We hope do more. Additionally, our ongoing Today’s CEO message is brought turn the “C word” into a reality. The Letter of Agreement collaboration with WWWN on PJ Library and PJ Goes to you by the letter “C.” And so as signed between our Federation and our colleagues in to School, highlighted in previous editions of this not to keep you in suspense, the Westport-Weston-Wilton-Norwalk (WWWN) not only publication, demonstrates the programmatic benefit “C word” at the forefront of my establishes a joint committee to look at joint activities to working together. mind is “collaboration.” Our com- seriously and strategically, it also serves as a declaration, Collaboration is by no means limited to local activi- munity has been loud and clear in a loud and clear policy statement from our board, that ties. By partnering with Jewish Cuba Connection, we many forums and for many years we take collaboration seriously and will strive to seek were able to undertake our highly successful Young that they expect UJF to adopt a it out whenever possible. Leadership Division mission to Cuba (another a la mode more collaborative posture vis-à- It is important to note that this recent agreement C word!), which gave participants a true understanding vis working with our neighbors. is by no means the only collaborative exercise we of how our dollars and dedication help those in need What seems like an obvious thing James Cohen, are undertaking. On the home front, the April 2 overseas. And we should not forget the wonderful col- to do is often easier said then UJF CEO Women’s Education Symposium, co-sponsored with laborative activities taking place every day in our sister done, given factors of tradition, tastes, priorities and UJA Greenwich, the Greenwich JCC and WWWN city/region in Israel. political realities. Federation, is the perfect example of how by work- While we have only scratched the surface of poten- I’m happy to say that as reported on page 1 of this ing with other Federations, we are able to provide tial collaborative activities open to us, we are making edition of The New Jewish Voice, and through other means Fairfield County with richer, more robust program- progress, of which I think we can all be proud. Stamford Board Representative Goes to AIPAC UConn Judaic Studies Student By Rebecca Isenstein About his experience at AIPAC, Kolenberg grams, call 203-251-9525 or e-mail stamfordjudaicstud- The Center for Judaic and Middle Eastern said, “There were thousands of people attend- [email protected]. Studies at UConn-Stamford sent a student del- ing [the conference], some Republican, some The Center for Judaic and Middle Eastern Studies is a egate to the recent AIPAC Policy Conference Democrat, all pro-Israel. The way a single issue recipient agency of the United Jewish Federation of Greater in Washington, DC, on March 2-4. Delegate like that brings so many people together was Stamford, New Canaan and Darien, and is also supported Steven Kolenberg was the UConn-Stamford amazing to me.” by donations from individuals and foundations. representative, having been nominated by Dr. Having an interest in international rela- Nehama Aschkenasy, founding director of the tions, Kolenberg took advantage of the talks on Center, after taking several classes in Judaic Sunni extremism and China-Israel relations, Giant Continued from page 1 studies and showing an interest in Judaic stud- but said he was most impressed by the talks books, Westheimer will also sign copies of her books, ies, Israel and public service. Funding for the given by U.S. Secretary of State John Kerry and which will be available for sale at the event. trip was made possible through the generosity Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu. No prior minimum donation is required. The cover of Stephne and Kerrin Behrend, friends of AIPAC delegate and Kolenberg said he was also inspired by the charge for all women attending is $100 if registration the Center. UConn-Stamford lobbying experience, noting, “After all the occurs by Thursday, May 1, and $118 after that date. Kolenberg is currently a junior at UConn- student Steven speeches were finished, we went to Capitol Teenage women, ages 16-19, are welcome to attend and Stamford, majoring in history. He was born Kolenberg is also Hill to lobby our congressmen for Israel and will be charged $50 for the evening’s activities. and raised in Stamford and graduated from an elected official, later found out that our lobbying had made a Additionally, a pre-dinner cocktail reception will Trinity Catholic High School. Most recently, serving on the difference – many senators and congressmen take place at a private home, where attendees will have he ran for public office in the 16th District Stamford Board of signed legislation in favor of Israel.” an opportunity to speak with Westheimer. She will also and was elected to the Stamford Board of Representatives. When asked what he took away from the share some thoughts at that time. Lions and Pome- Representatives. He is a candidate for the conference, Kolenberg replied, “A deep sense granates (those donating a minimum of $5,000 and certificate in Judaic and Middle Eastern studies at of respect for the people of Israel and the ability for that $1,800 respectively), as well as event sponsors ($360), UConn-Stamford and is also a recipient of a scholar- issue to build consensus in an increasingly polarized are welcomed to attend the “Meet and Greet.” ship provided by the Center. America. I was also surprised it was not an exclusively The Louis J. Kuriansky Foundation is sponsoring Jewish lobby, as I met many of my fellow Catholics and Westheimer’s talk. Christians at the event.” All questions may be directed to Rebekah Raz, vice president For more information about the Center or its pro- of UJF, at 203-321-1373, ext. 102.

Federations Continued from page 1 social services. It also calls for the development of overseas priorities, while improving upon our out- joint projects related to Israel and international reach and engagement efforts.” Jewry. These projects could include fund-raising Former UJF President Nancy Mimoun, who initi- and outreach, as well as partnering together with ated the effort, said, “It is exciting to have a formal JCC Stamford to expand programming throughout structure in place for working closely together with both catchment areas. a sister Federation. Our community has been ask- The agreement builds upon successful collabora- ing for this, and I am proud that we listened and tions that have already taken place, most notably worked hard to make this a reality.” last year’s Israel at 65 event and joint activities Efforts are also well under way to bring together surrounding the PJ Library, and formalizes the UJA/Federation of Greater Westport and UJA/Fed- structure to ensure ongoing collaboration. Steven eration of Eastern Fairfield County, which incorpo- Friedlander, executive director of WWWN Federa- rates towns all the way to Bridgeport and Monroe. tion, said, “Our agreement with UJF Stamford estab- This effort, too, will serve to bring Fairfield County lishes a new level in our working relationship that Federations closer together. will deepen the fabric of meaningful service that News of the agreement was announced to Jewish we will provide to our connected Fairfield County professionals attending the recent Jewish Federa- Jewish community.” tions of North America Intermediate Executives UJF’s CEO James Cohen echoed that sentiment, Institute. JFNA’s Vice President for Consulting noting that, “We are focused on creating tangible and Community Development Becky Sobelman- Now serving the Stamford outcomes together. The agreement recognizes that, Stern said, “There are many ways for Federations as fund-raising organizations, our efforts should to collaborate. This is an interesting and exciting Jewish Community favorably impact fund-raising, for both local and model.”

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*Not affiliated with Leo P. Gallagher and Son* maY 2014 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 3 community news Book Signing at Agudath Rabbis Cohen and Walk Publish New Books By Michael Feldstein book, “Mining for Gold: Essays Exploring the Relevancy the secrets of turning fleeting moments into enduring The entire community is invited to a book signing of Torah in the Modern World.” The book contains memories, and leading a life of impact and legacy,” said and breakfast on Sunday morning, April 27, at 9:15 am, articles commissioned by Rabbi Cohen from 20 lead- Rabbi Cohen. “Ultimate wealth eventually is obtained at Congregation Agudath Sholom to mark the publica- ing rabbis in North America and Israel who reveal how not by money or material goods, but from possessing tion of two separate books authored by the synagogue’s the “gold standard” of living well can be reached in a good name and leading a life through the prism of clergy, Rabbi Daniel Cohen and Rabbi David Walk. the modern world. Torah values.” Rabbi Cohen will launch the publication of his new “In publishing this volume, I’ve attempted to share Rabbi Walk’s book, “Walkthrough the Parsha,” is a collection of some of his favorite articles that he has written each week on the Torah portion in the last 16 years. Rabbi Walk’s weekly commentary goes out to more Achi (My Brother) than 3,000 people via e-mail and this is the first time By Eve Moskowitz that his articles have been collected in one volume. The mission of Jewish Family Service includes the “Throughout history, Jews have lived their lives to effort to sustain families and individuals through all the rhythm of the weekly Torah readings,” said Rabbi of life’s challenges and build strong healthy commu- Walk. “When Reb Menachem Mendel of Kotzk was nities. asked about current events, he would respond with an Until now, there have been no programs available idea from that week’s parasha.” for Jewish teen boys to assist them in dealing with Both Rabbi Cohen and Rabbi Walk will speak briefly general hardships through high school years and fill about their book at the Sunday event. Following the this niche. presentation, copies of “Mining for Gold” and “Walk- Jewish Family Service of Stamford has introduced its through the Parsha” will be available for purchase. newest program, Achi, Hebrew for “my brother. “ Admission to the event is free, and the entire com- The inception of the program began with a young munity is invited. man who met the parent of an adolescent in the commu- Achi mentors during their training session. L-r: Brian Cahn, nity, who was concerned about her son. She described Matthew Greif and Gabriel Banschick him as bright and funny, but socially isolated, struggling to find his way in high school. The young man and the confident and constructive younger role model, outside Deadlines for adolescent boy met and formed an alliance that was of the family and its dynamics, can often give a child the cultivated by the parent and became a mentor/mentee guidance needed to develop self-esteem and maturity. relationship. After a year of “friendship,” involving As stated by Achi co-founder, Brian Cahn, “These rela- articles activities and guidance, the adolescent began to thrive tionships validate kids’ feelings, accomplishments and The deadlines for the next three issues of the with new found self-esteem and abilities to make friends experiences with a series of small, teachable moments new jewish voice are: and successfully began to plan for college. The parent that in the end, make all the difference. Monday, April 28...... June and the young man approached Jewish Family Service For further information about Achi, contact, Eve Tuesday, May 27...... July with the idea of a “big brother” program. Jewish Family Moskowitz, director of clinical services of at Jewish Monday, July 28...... September Service recognized a need in the community for such Family Service at 203-921-4161. Send New Jewish Voice article submissions to Sandy a program and developed Achi, a mentorship for teen By Eve Moskowitz is the director of clinical services at Golove at [email protected] marked “Stamford Voice” boys in need of such social guidance. Jewish Family Service. in the subject line. Expect an acknowledgement; Achi serves boys between the ages of 15 and 18, who Jewish Family Service is a recipient agency of United Jewish please re-send if you do not receive one. are not suffering from any major learning or spectrum Federation of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and Darien. disabilities, but battle with social skills deficits and/or bullying. The boys are matched to their mentors for an alliance of six to 12 months, and a commitment of bi-monthly meetings, under the guidance of JFS professional staff. Parents are involved initially to vet the mentor and then given updates regarding activi- ties and ongoing progress. Some of the activities being encouraged are bike rides, movies, dining out, dog arts ing He walking/dog parks, the beach, concerts and washing . Reach cars. All activities are parent approved. Teaching Minds Mentors are undergraduate or post baccalaureate (ages 19-25) from within the Jewish community. They are evaluated through applications, interviews and background and driving record checks, and go through a two-hour training, inclusive of safety parameters, the development of communication skills and sensitivity training. The emphasis of the relationship between the mentee and mentor is friendship in a non-authoritarian pairing that looks more like a positive “camp counselor” relationship. Consistency is key in order to build trust and ultimately make a difference. Research says that one person providing positive interaction for a child can have the power to immeasur- ably impact the direction of that child’s entire future. A

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Reaching Hearts 1500 ÊVisit www.ujf.org, facebook.com/stamfordFederation, or tweet UJF at ujfstamford 4 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ maY 2014 Women’s Auxiliary Luncheon Features Mentalist Oz Pearlman By Robin Friedson teractive experience that is Luncheon and Boutique, contact Dayna short-term rehabilitation facility has been The Women’s Auxiliary of redefining the very nature Hayden, director of development, at the serving the community for 40 years. Other Jewish Senior Services® has of a magic show...one that JHE Foundation Office at 203-365-6409 services provided include home care, hospice, announced that its Annual truly needs to be seen to be or [email protected]. Reservations day services, advocacy and education, and Spring Luncheon and Bou- believed!” range from $118-$250. long-term care protection. To find out more tique will take place on Mon- “We are looking forward Jewish Senior Services is a provider of about the services of Jewish Senior Services, call day, May 5, at The Waterview to connecting our multi-gen- senior care in Connecticut serving clients 203-365-6400 or visit www.jseniors.org. in Monroe, CT. Mentalist and erational audience through at its two Fairfield locations and in clients’ Jewish Senior Services is a recipient magician Oz Pearlman will laughter, warmth and shared homes throughout Fairfield and New Haven agency of United Jewish Federation of Greater be the featured entertainer. stories,” said Linda Lazinger counties. Its five-star skilled nursing and Stamford, New Canaan and Darien. Pearlman has entertained of Fairfield, co-president of audiences with his sleight- the Women’s Auxiliary. “This of-hand and mind-reading special day is a wonderful abilities for more than two opportunity for old and new New JCC Healthy-living decades. More than 300 guests friends from throughout are expected to attend. Peri Oz Pearlman, mentalist Fairfield County to enjoy a Workshop for Senior Adults Cook, of Trumbull, and Jodi and magician, will be fun, meaningful experience Mantell, of Fairfield, are co- the featured entertainer together. We appreciate the By Luisa Viladas subjects such as healthy eating, better chairs of the event. at the Women’s Auxiliary support from the community Live Well, a nationwide evidence-based balance, effective communication, medi- “We are thrilled to have Spring Luncheon on year-round that helps the health promotion program developed by tation, exercise, setting goals, decision Oz join us at the luncheon. Monday, May 5, at The Women’s Auxiliary carry out Stanford University, will be offered at the making, problem solving and more. You may recognize him from Waterview, Monroe, CT. our mission to enhance qual- Stamford Jewish Community Center on Live Well is sponsored by Southwest- frequent appearances on ity of life for the residents at six Fridays, April 25, May 2, 9, 16, 23 and ern Connecticut Agency on Aging, the television, a corporate event or a private the Jewish Home.” 30, from 9:30 am-noon. State Department on Aging and the party,” says Mantell. “His unique blend For further information about the Live Well is a free six-week workshop Department of Public Health, in partner- of magic and mentalism create an in- Women’s Auxiliary or the Annual Spring series designed for adults ages 60 and ship with the JCC. older who want to take charge of ongo- For more information or to register, ing health conditions such as diabetes, contact JCC Director of Senior Adult Jewish Women Connected Shabbat arthritis, high blood pressure, heart or Services Connie Cirillo Freeman 203-487- The Chabad House Stamford’s Women’s Shabbat, organized under Jewish lung disease, asthma, cancer, depression, 0983 or [email protected]. Women Connected, has grown in support and size over the past 12 years. Last anxiety and chronic pain. Caregivers are The Jewish Community Center is a recipient year’s Women’s Shabbat had close to 140 women in attendance for the dinner and also invited to join the workshop series. agency of United Jewish Federation of Greater to experience Shabbat with friends. Workshops are interactive and cover Stamford, New Canaan and Darien. This year’s Women’s Shabbat is being chaired by Alix Eben, Hillary Isaacs and Alisa Weisser, and will be held on Friday night, May 16, at Chabad House Stamford, 770 High Ridge Rd. The candle lighting and oneg will begin at 7 pm and the Shab- bat dinner at 7:45 pm. No Need to Retire While Shabbat is traditionally a family-oriented event, the Women’s Shabbat offers participants, all of whom experience different Shabbat observances, a way to get Jewish Home Residents Still at Work together and experience Shabbat with a fully cooked dinner, dessert and entertain- By Robin Friedson The Work Activity Center’s biggest ment. It is intended to be a time for participants to relax, recharge and reconnect Many of the residents of the Jewish customer is not Jewish Senior Services, as Jewish women, and to then take that experience back to their families. Home in Fairfield, a program of Jew- but outside organizations that hire the The cost to attend for early birds (before April 30) is $45, early bird JWC mem- ish Senior Services, continue to work residents to handling their mailing bers is $36 or advance reservations $54. To be a sponsor, the cost is $180; to be a well into their 80s and 90s. Neither needs. Organizations such as UJA Green- hostess the cost is $360. snow nor rain nor heat stop them wich, Congregation Rodeph Sholom and For more information, call 203-3CHABAD, ext. 418, or e-mail morahleah@ from their work, because they work Minute Man Press of Monroe use the chabadstamford.org. in the Work Activity Center at the center for large mailings. The residents Jewish Home, which is only one stop can handle large volumes of mailings, off the elevator, near the therapeutic turning around up to 15,000 pieces in recreation area. two days. They say they are grateful to The residents say they enjoy report- be kept busy. ing for work for several hours each and “They love what they do. They love keeping busy folding, stuffing, labeling, doing it together and look forward sorting and stamping the many pieces of to coming to work,” explains Josh mail that go through the center. They Garcia, coordinator of the Work Ac- earn a paycheck that they often use to tivity Center. shop at the gift shop in the lobby of the The Work Activity Center picks up Jewish Home. and delivers to clients or directly to the “I like it. It gives me something to Post Office. For information on mailing do and a sense of pride,” says resident services, contact Garcia at 203-396-1008 Helen Downs. or [email protected].

Shalom Continued from page 1 Comedy event to raise funds in support Goldblum, Wendy Handler and Jeannie of the Tzahal Shalom program. Kriftcher. For more information, contact There are numerous opportunities Nancy Schiffman at 203-487-0941 or for the community to take part in Tza- [email protected]. hal Shalom activities, many at no cost. The Jewish Community Center is a For a complete schedule, visit www. recipient agency of United Jewish Federation stamfordjcc.org. of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and Chairing this year’s visit are Risa Darien.

Visiting IDF officers participated in the JCC’s Tzahal Shalom program entertained local children during last year’s Community Ha’atzmaut Celebration. maY 2014 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 5 JCC Annual Spring Gala Watch the Film and Hear the For their commitment and connec- tion to the Jewish Community Center Filmmaker of Stamford, community leaders Jeannie and Brian Kriftcher were honored at the “Six Million and One” JCC’s annual spring gala on March 1 at The film “Six Million and One” will Joseph’s last couple of weeks at the Hyatt Regency Greenwich. Carla Bick be screened on Monday, April 28, at 7 Gunskirchen concentration camp were and Rebecca Isenstein served as event pm as part of the community commem- “an inhuman experience” that blocked co-chairs; Jeff Goldblum, Peter Gray oration of Yom Hashoah, Holocaust his writing. To find out what his father and Jeannie Kasindorf co-chaired the Memorial Day, at the State Cinema, failed to describe, David located Ameri- commemorative journal. Two hundred 990 Hope St., Stamford. Afterward, can veterans who liberated the camp. fifty people were in attendance. Proceeds the filmmaker, David Fisher, will talk The elderly soldiers said they are still from the event will be used to support Guests of honor Brian and Jeannie Kriftcher about the making of the film. The haunted and traumatized by the horrific JCC programs and services. at the JCC’s annual spring gala. evening is jointly sponsored by AJC sights they came across when entering and the Jewish Arts and Film Festival of the camp. Fairfield County. The Freedman family Through their journey, the Fishers and Garden Homes Management are become emblematic of the entire second providing the State Cinema. generation who are still grappling with The film has been called “an elo- the experience of their survivor parents. quent, intense and surprisingly humor- David said, “For me, this isn’t a film about ous portrait” of Fisher and his three the Holocaust because we (me and my siblings, as they retrace the footsteps siblings) spent most of our time laughing of their late father, Joseph Fisher, a and there is nothing funny about the Ho- Hungarian Jew and a Holocaust survi- locaust. It’s about a rare kind of intimacy vor. While imprisoned, Joseph kept a and brotherly bond that replaced pain memoir that was discovered 12 years with bitter-sweet humor.” after his death. His children refused David has been called one of Israel’s to confront it, except for David. When leading documentary filmmakers and David found his father’s survival story is the director general of the New Fund unbearable, he convinced his brothers for Cinema and Television, which funds and sister to join him in the hope that many of the new films and television this would also release the tension and series coming out of Israel. His most bring them as close as they used to be. notable film, “Love Inventory,” won the His siblings, for their part, couldn’t Best Documentary Award in 2000 at the L-r: Gala committee members Peter Gray, Jeannie Kasindorf, Rebecca Isenstein, Jeff Goldblum understand why anyone should want Jerusalem International Film Festival and and Carla Bick with JCC President Rich Vogel. to dig into the past instead of enjoying from the Israeli Film Academy. life in the present. His documentaries are known for their The journey eventually leads the deep, thorough investigations, revealing Fishers into the dark depths of the tun- new aspects of life in Israel and the Jewish Standing Ovation at David nels of the Austrian Gusen concentra- Diaspora. “Six Million and One” is his tion camp where their father endured most recent feature documentary. force labor during the Holocaust. The Tickets are $10 and can be purchased Harris Lecture film watches the siblings seek meaning online at www.ajc.org/westchester/six- David Harris, the executive director leading advocates and most eloquent in their personal and family histories, million or at the State Cinema. For more of AJC, spoke to about 300 people at spokesmen for the Jewish people and for and discuss family, survival and indi- information, contact Nancy Schiffman: Temple Beth El, Stamford, in March. Israel’s political and diplomatic stand- vidualism as they try to understand [email protected] or 203-487- His topic was “Hope vs Fear: The chang- ing and his speech was insightful and their father’s past and the events that 0941 or Vicki Kline at [email protected] or ing global landscape.” The event was thought-provoking.” haunted him. 914-948-5585. co-sponsored by AJC Westchester and Those who missed the lecture can Temple Beth El. view the entire video, recorded by Sha- Rabbi Joshua Hammerman said, lom TV, on the AJC website at www.ajc. “David Harris is regarded as one of the org/westchester/global.

L-r: David Harris; Stephne and Kerrin Behrend, AJC CT Committee members; and Rabbi Joshua Hammerman. (Photos by Bernie Weiss)

The 300 members of the audience at Temple Beth El gave David Harris a standing ovation after he spoke. ÊVisit www.ujf.org, facebook.com/stamfordFederation, or tweet UJF at ujfstamford 6 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ maY 2014 bits and pieces By Sandy Golove MAZEL TOV TO: New Around Town To submit informa- Rae-ann Allen, who has been named to Carmel Names Rae-ann Allen to Head PALS Program tion to Bits and Pieces, head Carmel Academy’s PALS program By Julie Lapin call 321-1373, ext. for children with learning disabilities. Carmel Academy has named veteran educator and admin- Joshua Fogel Gail Berman 107, or e-mail me at , son of istrator Rae-ann Allen to head its Providing Alternative Learn- and David Fogel [email protected]. , on his graduation ing Strategies program, the school’s program for children MAZEL TOV TO NEW from the University of South California with learning disabilities. Allen will take the helm on July 1 as FAMILIES: with a master’s degree in astronautical director of educational resources. Megan and Adam engineering. Currently the head of the lower school at Wooster School in Alan and Bach-Yen Garner Altshuler on the birth on the mar- Danbury, CT, Allen is also an advisor to The Prospect School Natalie Garner, of a son, Judah Sol; grandparents are riage of their daughter, at Wooster, a program for children with verbal learning dis- Jon Gordon Serita and Michael Altshuler. to . abilities. She brings to Carmel Academy more than 30 years Jewish Senior Services Rebecca and Ari Ashkenas on the birth (formerly the of experience in education and administration. Jewish Home in Fairfield) has been of a son; grandparents are Barbara and “The search committee was impressed with Rae-ann’s strong Rae-ann Allen Ron Ashkenas. named one of the Best Nursing Homes educational leadership skills, innovative vision for special Tamar and Chalom Bendayan on the in the U.S. News and World Report Best education and passion for excellence in teaching,” said Carmel Academy Head of birth of a son; grandparents are Rica Nursing Homes Rankings for 2014. School Nora Anderson. Jean and Brian Kriftcher and Ari Lieberman; great-grandmother for being Prior to PALS, there were no other day schools in the region offering such a pro- is Yospa Lieberman. honored at the JCC Annual Spring gram for Jewish students with learning disabilities – an issue for parents who wished Eve and Daniel Block on the birth of Gala. to have their children receive a Jewish day school education. “Carmel Academy’s Ilyse and Dean Schuckman Elaine a son, Samuel Isaiah; grandparents are and PALS program is such a wonderful model for other schools – it is unique in its vision and Mike Camhi David M. and Andrea Cohen. on the engagement of and definitely ahead of its peer schools in providing support and personalization,” Rachel Schuckman Allison and Yuri Feldman on the birth their children, to Allen said. “Bobbie (Powers) has built a very strong program and now it is up to Jay Camhi of a daughter; grandparents are Irina . me to take it to new heights.” Joan and Bennett Schwartz and Arkady Feldman and Jane and Phil on the Allen lives in Norwalk with her husband, Scott Allen, who is the executive di- Matthew Slaine Molstre. marriage of their son, , rector of Congregation Emanu-El of Westchester in Rye, NY. The Allens attend Michele Zatzkis Ellen and Ari Fischel on the birth of a to . Temple Beth El in Stamford. Together, they have five sons between them and three daughter, Lauren Danielle; grandparents MAZEL TOV TO B’NAI MITZVAH: grandchildren. are Flossy and Sam Fischel. Joshua Gordon, son of Michelle and Nicole and Mike Marino on the birth Howland Gordon of a son, William James; grandparents Sarah Hanna, daughter of Kayla and are Kathy and Jeff Paseltiner. Leon Hanna Allison and Jonathan Ostroff on the Jayce Schwartz, son of Allison and An Evening with JFS birth of twin daughters, Rebecca Lily and Daniel Schwartz Jewish Family Service honored four of financial assistance in order to remain Eliza Faye; grandparents are Barbara and Micaela Thau, daughter of Danielle volunteers with its Mitzvah Awards and in their homes, keep their cars and feed Norman Ostroff. and Steven Thau the Young Leadership Award who have their families, and have nowhere else to CONDOLENCES TO: contributed to a broad range of organiza- turn. The JFS Evening Auction included UJF Tribute Cards are a Danielle Alexander on the loss of her tions and institutions in the community. an opportunity for attendees to contrib- wonderful way to connect with grandfather, Robert (Bob) Pollyea. About 250 people turned out to salute Ed ute to this service, and monies were raised Andrea Cohen on the loss of her father, Smith, Edith Samers, Alison Wachstein to help cover the agency costs for this your family and friends and mark Paul Oster. and Adam Batkin, and partake in the JFS coming year. For additional information any occasion while supporting the Paula Epstein on the loss of her Live and Silent Auction at Temple Beth or to contribute, contact JFS CEO Matt husband, and Ellen Bromley and Julie El on March 30. Greenberg at 203-921-4161. extraordinary work of UJF. Epstein on the loss of their father, Sidney Every year, JFS distributes more than Jewish Family Service is a recipient agency of To send a tribute, Epstein. $15,000 in emergency funds to people United Jewish Federation of Greater Stamford, Janice Gaines on the loss of her in the community who are in dire need New Canaan and Darien. go to www.ujf.org. mother, Lillian Cooper Gaines. Shira Green on the loss of her sister, Ruth Bymel. Sadae Kadish on the loss of her father, candle Masato Koga. Mark Kobliner and Karen Weinger on lighting times the loss of their mother, Estelle Berk. Marsha Levy on the loss of her hus- April 18...... 7:19 pm band; Steven, Michael and Robert Levy April 20...... 7:21 pm on the loss of their father; and Merril April 21...... after 8:22 pm Landas and Howard Levy on the loss of April 25...... 7:26 pm their brother, Gary Levy. Mitchell Nadel on the loss of his May 2...... 7:34 pm wife, and Kyle, Brandon, Anya and May 9...... 7:41 pm Eliana on the loss of their mother, May 16...... 7:48 pm Beth Bennett. May 23...... 7:54 pm Henry Rascoff on the loss of his father, Dr. Joel Rascoff. May 30...... 8 pm Jerry Rose on the loss of his sister, June 3...... 8:03 pm Lorraine Weisberger. June 4...... after 9:04 pm Gary Schulman on the loss of his June 6...... 8:05 pm mother, Marilyn Schulman. L-r: Alison Wachstein, Mitzvah Award honoree; David Martin, mayor of Stamford; Edith Paul Storfer on the loss of his step- Samers and Ed Smith, Mitzvah Award honorees; Adam Batkin, Young Leadership Award June 13...... 8:09 pm mother, Muriel Silberstein-Storfe. recipient; and Matt Greenberg, CEO of Jewish Family Service. (Photo by Aviva Maller) June 20...... 8:11 pm Reading Partners Hold March Brainstorming Workshop

Your ad will make news! For information on advertising, please contact Bonnie Rozen at (800)779-7896, ext. 244 or At a Reading Partners workshop in March, [email protected] Marci Marcus, Springdale School instructional support teacher, spoke about Common Core standards. She added that families should Reading Partners from different schools brainstormed ideas and strategies together. In addition read to children in their native tongue to aid to reading, playing word games, making vocabulary index cards, using a white board and with language development. taking exercise “breaks” were suggested enhancements for volunteer skill sets. maY 2014 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 7 TribeFest 2014 Jewish Federations of North America Young Leadership Conference Imagine a place where young lead- significantly changed over the years. in relatively short time (com- val attendees, saying, “one- ers from across North America gather It hypothesizes that, in the not-so-dis- pared with our ancient ances- quarter of Jewish marriages to be inspired, to be informed and to tant-future, Jewish Americans will be tors, at least) arrived in New every year are because of be encouraged to meet the challenges comprised of many secular Jews who Orleans, LA, for the most re- JDate. The children of Jewish facing their communities – that is will have a diminishing Jewish identity. cent gathering of young adult couples are choosing to be TribeFest. TribeFest is a conference for I reflect back to standing in the “main Jews known as TribeFest, an among the chosen.” Jews, ages 22-45, organized by Jewish stage” ballroom looking around and almost annual event produced Doug Ulman, the CEO Federations of North America. This seeing a sea of young faces singing by the Jewish Federations of of Livestrong, encapsulated was the third TribeFest, which brought their hearts out during “Hatikvah.” North America. the message of the festival approximately 1,200 young adults This demographic between the ages Through speakers, break- when he said, “Philanthropy representing 83 communities to New of 22-45 took time off from work, paid out sessions, receptions and used to be something for Orleans, including the local delegation convention and travel expenses, and social programming, the Na- David Klein people with money or time. of six Stamford participants. dedicated their weekend all for the tional Young Leadership of It’s really about millions of “The energy in the room for the goal of meeting fellow Jews with hopes JFNA provided a chance to see Ameri- people who have an opportunity to be mainstages and Mashups was pal- to make bonds and connections in can Jewish life in a snapshot. Over the a part of a community that will survive pable,” said Devra Jaffe-Berkowitz, a order to make a better community. We course of three days, I had the pleasure and thrive.” member of the National Young Lead- are trying to defy this Pew report. of listening to individuals in the tech Throughout the festival, the Jewish ership Cabinet. Meeting other Jews in my demo- start-up sector speak about their various community of New Orleans played host One component of TribeFest is graphic with the passion to lead, the products and tools and how to engage to more than 1,200 participants in classic the service project; more than 500 passion to raise funds for the local Jewish entrepreneurs. I participated in NOLA style. Following a parade through participants chose to spend part of and global community and the pas- a discussion on how to approach the the streets, complete with police escort the conference giving back to the sion to strengthen our individual Jew- Israel/Palestine conflict without be- and marching band, a social affair on the host community. ish identities is truly inspiring. Take coming utterly exhausted and quitting Steamboat Natchez provided the perfect “TribeFest was a unique opportunity Detroit’s Young Leadership Division, before even beginning. I heard from setting to take in the unique flavors of to connect and collaborate with young “NextGen.” Sixty-Four representatives various organizations that often overlap our host city. The next morning, Jews Jewish professionals from around from Detroit, including professionals or compete for “NextGen Jews” and how from around the continent dispersed North America. The events included and volunteers, attended this year’s one community in Detroit has found into the NOLA community for a day of a number of inspirational speakers, TribeFest. As described by the director collaboration between organizations service, reading to children through with the sessions offering insightful of Detroit’s YLD, “Detroit was a broken not to cannibalize each other’s pro- a local charter school organization, and relevant discussions covering city, as was our YLD program.” Proudly, gramming or members, but strengthen or sorting and packing food at a food a multitude of topics affecting our they stated in 2013 they had 1,000 YLD them. Sessions were overwhelmed with bank, or making arts and crafts with generation. We are very grateful to participants attend their “Latke Vodka” eager participants, exchanging ideas on senior citizens at a senior center, just United Jewish Federation of Greater program and subsequently raised ap- topics that ran the gamut from “Global to name a few. Stamford for helping subsidize the cost proximately $300,000. Jewish Comedy” and “A Meme-orable Ultimately, TribeFest aims to connect of attending the events,” said Loren New Orleans rolled out their YLD Lesson in Israel Advocacy” to “Faith its participants with what makes being Steinfeldt, who attended TribeFest program two years ago under the and Feminism: The Power of Jewish Jewish so special: our commitment to with the Stamford delegation. Below name “J-NOLA.” This program now Women” and “Unpacking the Jewish community – not only our own indi- two local participants share their ex- has 1,900 people on its listserve with Privilege Backpack.” vidual Jewish communities, but to the perience at TribeFest. about 200-450 attendees at their vary- Keynote speakers such as actor greater community of human existence Joshua Malina (of “The West Wing” and By Robin Weber ing events ranging from community as well. It can be easy to take those com- Let’s set the scene: More than 1,200 service around New Orleans to happy “Scandal” fame) spoke to large crowds munities and connections for granted Jews between the ages of 22-45 flock- hours to social actions events. These about their personal journeys through and so, from time to time, it’s useful ing from all over North America to are the stories that are inspiring. These life and modern Judaism. According to take a moment and engage formally New Orleans; More than 1,200 Jews are the stories that invigorated me to to Malina, “Judaism is all about com- with these ideas. To that end, TribeF- between the ages of 22-45 celebrating come back to Stamford with what I munity. Let’s value each other as the est provides the workshops, forums Purim and shaking groggers in unison learned and help to make a difference tribe we make up together.” and fun to reaffirm what we all know during the megillah reading; More in our community. Greg Liberman, CEO of JDate, to be true: It’s good to be a member than 1,200 Jews between the ages of For all those in the demographic used statistics to enlighten the festi- of the Tribe! 22-45 singing “Hatikvah” at the opening of 22-45, I strongly encourage you to ceremony. This all boils down to one attend the next TribeFest. Whether thing – TribeFest 2014. you are a professional, current lay This year’s convention for Young Lead- leader or to-be lay leader, TribeFest is ership Division of the Jewish Federations an environment which helps to foster of North America was influential and a growing Jewish identity, build rela- inspirational. One-thousand-two-hun- tionships between professionals and dred Jews gathered together to discuss lay leaders alike, and allow participants commonalities and differences, to learn to return inspired by new knowledge about leadership and collaboration, and and stories acquired during their time to learn how to engage more people in at TribeFest. our community with the intent to re- By David Klein turn to our respective cities, help build If only Moses and the Jews had dune community and make a difference in buggies as they left Egypt, maybe they Jewish life. wouldn’t have taken so long in the desert The most recent Pew report, com- getting to the promised land. menting on the Jewish American I, too, recently made a long journey, community, sent shock waves across but thankfully, I had four wheels and a this country. Findings suggested that GPS. Rather than wandering and search- the identity of a Jewish American has ing, I simply steered my car south and

Danielle Alexander and Robin Weber pose for a picture with Joshua Malina (center), TribeFest presenter and actor from “The West Wing” and “Scandal” after the megillah reading at TribeFest in New Orleans. ÊVisit www.ujf.org, facebook.com/stamfordFederation, or tweet UJF at ujfstamford 8 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ maY 2014 World ORT Representatives Come to Purim in the Stamford Palace at Chabad Chabad House Stamford celebrated Purim 5774 with Discuss ORT’s Impact on World Jewry two Purim parties – Purim in the Palace at night and Purim in the Palace Family Extravaganza during the By Sharon Franklin day – and delivered almost 700 shalach manot packages On March 26, members of the local Jewish commu- to people all over Stamford. nity gathered at the home of Elissa and Philip Klap- per to hear about the work that World ORT does for Jews globally. ORT, an acronym for the organization’s original Russian name, Obshestvo Remeslennogo Zemledelcheskogo Truda (the Society for Trades and Agricultural Labor), was founded in St. Petersburg, Russia, in 1880. The discussion was led by ORT leaders Jim Lodge, whose focus is on the organization’s rela- tionships with various Federations, and Lauren Azoulai, director of foundation and corporate development. World ORT is the largest Jewish education and training non-government organization in the world, and provides the skills and knowledge to empower students to become contributing members of society. L-r: Dan Benjamin, UJF CEO Jim Cohen and Fred Focusing on the idea of tikkun olam, or repairing the Springer. world, World ORT takes responsibility for reaching out to individuals and communities, and is represented in teacher training. more than 100 countries in five continents worldwide. Through its efforts, World ORT hopes to not only Its main areas of operation are in Israel, the former provide a Jewish and secular education, but to instill Soviet Union, Latin America, North America, Africa, a love of Jewish identity and ritual for a lifetime. Many Tova Saul and Elayne Dener enjoyed Purim in the Palace Asia and the Pacific. In addition to providing schools who come out of World ORT’s program give back by festivities at Chabad House Stamford. that give students an opportunity to receive a quality becoming supporters of the very organization that education, ORT provides other services, such as vo- helped them help themselves. cational and technical education and training, skills development, ICT, health and nutrition, mother and child care, agriculture and rural development, and

L-r: World ORT representative Lauren Azoulai, Stamford Teddie Sklar took a break from listening to the megillah at resident and parlor meeting host Elissa Klapper, and Jim Chabad House Stamford. L-r: Barbara Muller and and World ORT’s Lauren Azoulai Lodge, also with World ORT, discussed the educational chatted about the success stories in schools created and run services the organization provides for Jews in Israel and by World ORT. around the world. The Friendship Circle Celebrates its “Bat Mitzvah” By Amy Gettler and special-needs teens. The event will include a video Marking 12 years of service, the Friendship Circle in- presentation, a “Teen Roll Call” and more. vites the entire community to its “Mitzvah Celebration”’ The Friendship Circle aims to provide children on Sunday, June 1, at 7 pm, at the Stamford Hilton. The and teenagers with special needs and their families evening will recognize the mitzvah of friendship that with many of the social and recreational opportunities 350 teen volunteers provide to 100 friends with special that are currently available to the general community. needs in the community. The event will be chaired by These experiences are considered essential building Trevor and Michelle Caplan, Dr. Sam and Amy Gettler, blocks for an individual to acquire confidence and self- and Stewart and Jamie Kesmodel. esteem, and to ultimately lead a productive, normative The theme of this year’s event will be “Celebrating adult lifestyle. 12 Bat Mitzvah Years and Rejoicing as We Enter Our Malya Shmotkin and her team craft a roster of Bar Mitzvah Year.” It will emphasize the Friendship more than 20 social and educational programs Circle’s involvement in bar/bat mitzvahs of both typical for special-needs children and teens, but it is the friendship provided by the teen volunteers that is said to be “the heart and soul” of the Friendship Circle. The volunteering opportunities can inspire teens by providing them with purpose, and a sense of connection to and responsibility for the greater Jewish community. Raph, Lori, Sarah and Ilana Gilbert dressed up for Purim in our home and yours See “Circle” on page 17 fun, enjoying Purim In The Palace Family Extravaganza. Jewish Senior Services is the new name for the full range of quality care provided by The Jewish Home. J Do you LOVE to read? Providing senior care throughout Southern Connecticut: J Do you LOVE to be around children? • Long Term Care • Rehabilitation J Are you looking for a WAY to contribute? • Home Care Join our corps of 140 volunteers as a READING PARTNER! • Hospice • Day Services Please contact: Marlyn Agatstein, Director of Reading Partners • Advocacy & Education at [email protected] or 203-321-1373 x115 • Long Term Care Protection United Jewish Federation of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and Darien B77 TB7G7

175 Jefferson Street, Fairfi eld CT • 203-365-6400 www.jseniors.org maY 2014 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 9 Chai Society’s Awesome 80’s Prom On March 22, members of Chai Society enjoyed Carmel Academy, Greenwich. The event was chaired Leadership Division of the UJF, who have committed an evening out as they mingled and danced the night by Lisa and Jeff Manheim, and Haley Levine offered a minimum gift of $180 to the Annual Community away at the Awesome 80’s Prom, which was held at her talents as decorating chair. Campaign. Attendees of Chai Society are members of the Young

Decoration Chair Hayley Levine and Shira Nerenberg enjoyed Raphael Gilbert presented his wife, Lori, with a rose corsage, Omer and Rebecca Neumeier got into the ‘80s spirit. (Photo an evening out at the prom. (Photo by Sharon Franklin) which was part of the evening’s fund-raising efforts. (Photo by Lee Peskin) by Lee Peskin)

Josh Levine and Jeff Manheim dressed the part in festive ‘80s Young Leadership Division President Amanda Shapiro and Amy Gettler and Julie Rosenberg (Photo by Lee Peskin) attire. (Photo by Lee Peskin) UJF CEO Jim Cohen (Photo by Sharon Franklin)

What is so valuable about the Carmel experience is the model it offers for day schools to embrace excellence in the classroom as a non-negotiable expectation…

–Jewish Learning by Design: The Case of Carmel Academy, Dr. Jack Wertheimer and Rabbi Josh Elkin L-r: Levi and Jessica Dulitz, Emily Wirgin, Laura and Seth Tobin, and Lisa Manheim mingle as they enjoyed music from the ‘80s. (Photo by Lee Peskin)

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FILE : Carmel_NJV 04.03.14 LAYOUT: Copy SIZE : 5.125” x 7.875” CLIEN T: Carmel Academy PUBS: New Jewish Voice PAGE #: 1 REV #: 0 DATE : April 2014 10 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ maY 2014 UJF Young Leadership Mission to Cuba By Amanda Shapiro country. Prior to the Revolution in 1959, up to 15,000 and the International Museum. The trip ended at the Twenty-two members of the Young Leadership Di- Jews lived in Cuba, having come from Spain, Turkey, Tropicana Night Club (open since 1939), where every- vision of Greater Stamford have just returned from a Syria, Eastern Europe, Germany and Russia. one celebrated the mission’s success with live music, mission trip to Havana, Cuba (March 5-9). Highlights of the trip included visiting the newest cabaret dancers and Cuban cigars. Led by Federation CEO James A. Cohen and Vice Holocaust exhibit guided by William Miller, World “The Cuban people and Jewish community’s warmth President Rebekah Raz, and guided by Jewish Cuba ORT’s* representative in Cuba; a Kabbalah Shabbat and strong commitment to family have left us all want- Connection, attendees brought needed pharmaceu- service and dinner with the Jewish community; and ing to go back for more and has inspired us to continue tical supplies, medicine, goods and clothing to the visiting, on Cuba’s National Women’s Day, the Joshua the tradition of tikkun olam,” said Raz. Jewish Community Center and visited Havana’s three White Community Center outside Havana. Those who Young Leadership members said they looked forward synagogues – Patronato/Beth Shalom, Centro Sefardi attended were able to see first-hand the impact JDC to another mission in the near future. and Adath Israel. (the American Jewish Joint Distribution Committee) * World ORT was founded in Tsarist Russia in 1880. The At each of the synagogues, they met with leaders and ORT have made to improve the lives of both the name “ORT” was coined from the acronym of the Russian and presented monetary donations to help sustain Jewish and non-Jewish Cuban people on a daily basis words Obshestvo Remeslenofo zemledelcheskofo Truda, meaning the vibrant Cuban Jewish community that goes back since 1925. The Society for Trades and Agricultural Labor. to 1492. Currently, there are only 1,500 Jews (800 in Cultural highlights included visiting the home of Amanda Shapiro is the president of YLD. Havana) and eight active synagogues throughout the artist Jose Fuster (the Gaudi of Cuba) and a walking tour of Havana Veija, old city Havana (a UNESCO World Heritage site). YLD members also visited the Museum of the Revolution, the Belles Artes Museum

Amanda Shapiro, YLD president, and Stephanie Bilenker, Rebekah Raz, UJF vice president, and Jim Cohen, UJF CEO, UJF Campaign chair, at the home of artist Jose Fuster, Cuba’s pointed out the JDC sign at the Patronato/Beth Shalom Gaudi. synagogue. William Miller, the World ORT representative in Cuba, presented the Cuba Holocaust Memorial to the group.

An example of the vehicles that people drive in Cuba. Currently, The restocked shelves of the pharmacy at the Sefardic Beth Shalom, one of three synagogues operating in it is believed that there are 60,000 classic cars on Cuban Center. Havana. roads today.

Women on the trip were presented with flowers in celebration of International Women’s Day. Inside the pharmacy at the Sefardic Center (Centro Hebreo Sefaradi de Cuba). Mission The group posed outside the Joshua White Community Center, where donations of medicines participants restocked the pharmacy after Shabbat services at the synagogue. and art supplies were delivered to the community center. Cuba and Cocktails Evening On March 19, Women’s Philanthropy members attended the event “Cuba and Cocktails” at the home of Heather Dynner. Besides sipping tropical cocktails, guests had the opportunity to hear about the experi- ences of women who traveled on the recent UJF mis- sion to Cuba. During breakout sessions, they informed the women about the Jewish presence in Cuba, their visits to schools and synagogues, the impact of UJF dollars at work and the Cuban Jews they met. The women spoke about the lasting effect the mission had on them and how they had the opportunity to help those in need by bringing Deidre Goldberg, Elise Klein, Amanda Shapiro and Amy Janet Welkovich, Melissa Bildner, Dinah Miller Marlowe and supplies and medicines and contributing to a local Grabine had the opportunity to hear about the experiences of Alix Field Eben enjoyed an evening out for cocktails and a Jewish girl’s bat mitzvah. women who went on the recent mission to Cuba. recap on the Cuba Mission. maY 2014 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 11 12 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ maY 2014 What About Us? Standing Up: A Funny (Not Temple Beth El Forming New Chavurot Always) Life By Steve Lander 2, at 6:30 pm, with a wine and cheese With the successful launching of the reception followed by the temple’s Comedian Marion Grodin’s Memoir at TBE new Temple Beth El Young Couples Kabbalat Shabbat musical service. An After what was called “a the network sitcoms “It’s a Liv- group, people started asking “What oneg (reception) will follow services. hugely successful stand-up ing” and “Princesses,” was put about 60+ singles?” “What about empty This is an opportunity for 60-plus comedy appearance” at Com- under contract to Twentieth nesters?” “What about Interfaith fami- Jewish singles to meet others in the edy Night last December, Century Fox and later went lies?” “What about LBGT” “What about community and participate in activi- Marion Grodin will return to on to sell six screenplays. Just Birthright Israel Alumni?” ties planned throughout the year. The Temple Beth El, Stamford, on as she was about to embark Rabbi Joshua Hammerman and group will also host a light dinner on Thursday, May 29, at 7:30 pm, on her seventh screenplay, it Temple Beth El are answering, “Yes, Thursday, May 29, prior to the program to talk about her book “Stand- dawned on her that her father we’re here to bring people together. featuring the comedian, Marion Gro- ing Up: A Memoir of A Funny had not lovingly nicknamed Getting small groups together who are din, talking about her book “Standing (not always) Life. her “Mouth” for nothing. She at similar places on their life’s (and Up: A memoir of a funny (not always) The title “Standing Up” ref- decided it was time to start say- Jewish) journey is precisely what it’s all life.” Grodin, successful screenwriter, erences both her long and well- ing all these funny things she about.” So far, the following chavurot comedian and daughter of comedy ac- established comedy career, and Marion Grodin was writing for other people (friendship groups) have already or are tor Charles Grodin, describes how her her life, where she has stood to say. So, for the last 15 years, being launched: Young couples with no sense of humor got her through all the up to many obstacles that could have Grodin has been called one of the hottest children, families with young children, awkward, challenging and trying mo- easily overwhelmed others. “To see her comics in the country. She is a favorite empty nesters, 60 Plus Jewish singles and ments of her life, including childhood act is to know how honest she is about at New York City’s top clubs, where she Elders. And Temple Beth El is willing to crushes, divorce and weight gain. For herself and all she’s gone through,” said regularly headlines. launch even more. information on the group, contact Lois Steve Lander. “When it comes to comedy, Called one of the country’s top em- The chavurah for “Young Couples with Hofshi at [email protected] or Marion Grodin can pretty much do it all. cees, Grodin’s ability to improvise has No Children” kicked off with a wine and Sari Pearson at [email protected]. When it comes to life… well, she’s still allowed her to master the art of talking cheese followed by Kabbalat Shabbat The “Beth El Families” chavurah caters working on paying her parking tickets, with the audience. Her trademark is her services at TBE. The group has already to couples with young children. Program- and trying not to eat cake.” affectionately edgy style; always as self-re- run a number of social events and is ming includes Tot Shabbat once a month, Grodin knows first-hand that laughter vealing as she is probing of the audience. building in numbers. Young couples each with a special theme, and all types is “truly the best medicine,” having sur- “The result is a hilariously personal review throughout the Jewish community are of programming with and without young vived breast cancer, divorce and various of her book,” said Lander. welcome to join. To learn more about the children. The next Tot Shabbat program, addictions – including an inappropriate Grodin has also been seen on NBC’s group, contact the co-chairs, Matt Miller “Spring Planting and Renewal,” will be relationship with Haagen Dazs – as well “Late Night with Conan O’Brien” and and Jamie Morvitz at mattmiller585@ held on Friday, May 2, at 5:30 pm. The as the pressure of being Charles Grodin’s ABC’s “The View.” In addition, she gmail.com. children will plant seedlings and the daughter. Her dream is to be able to worked as the Charles Grodin show’s Now forming is an “Empty Nesters” service will integrate learning about integrate her diverse life experiences, comedy producer, making regular ap- chavurah for both recent or long time planting and renewal. genuine concern for people, and unstop- pearances on the MSNBC show. She also empty nesters. The group is looking For further information on Beth El pable ability to make everything funny, all hosted her own radio show for CBS, over to have interested people join the Families, contact Dana Horowitz at dana- in a forum that is both entertaining and a two-year period. committee to plan future activities for [email protected] or Lisa Manheim helpful to other people. The program is free, but reservations the group. Those interested should at [email protected]. Grodin started out as a staff writer for are requested by going to www.tbe.org. contact, Sue Shapiro at sbshapiro@ Beth Elders, another chavurah, was hotmail.com or Carl Shapiro at csha- formed several years ago and does pro- “The Shabbat Experience” [email protected] or call 203-353- gramming around holiday themes. For Temple Sinai will be host a Friday night service called “The Shabbat Experience,” 0657. information on the programming serving on June 27. Beth Styles and the New World Chorus will join with Rabbi Jay TelRav, The “60 Plus Jewish Singles” chavurah the senior community, contact Steven Cantor Morgovsky, members of the Temple Sinai Choir and other guests in making is planned to launch on Friday, May Lander at [email protected]. to create an evening of music, spirituality and learning. “This special service will take us on a soulful journey, as we become present to the magnificence of creation and all we have contributed throughout the week,” CAS free mezuzah campaign says Styles. “With profound prayer, meditation, inspiring music, mystical thought Those interested in having a mezuzah for their home, or who know a neighbor and readings, we begin to experience a deep feeling of accomplishment, love and or a friend who lacks a mezuzah, now have the opportunity to receive one. Congre- connection with ourselves, our community and the Divine.” gation Agudath Sholom is offering a free mezuzah and home visit to post it at the In addition to the Jewish community, “The Shabbat Experience” is open to entrance to all Jewish homes in Fairfield County. For more information, contact everyone. People of all backgrounds and faiths are invited to attend. For more Rabbi Daniel Cohen at [email protected]. information and to let the synagogue know who will be attending, visit newworld- chorus.com. Temple Sinai is located at 458 Lakeside Dr., Stamford. Bat Mitzvah Club and BMC Beyond The Chabad House Stamford’s Bat Mitzvah Club (BMC and BMC Beyond) is geared to girls of bat mitzvah age and beyond (sixth-eighth grade) to get together and discuss, explore and understand topics related to emergent Jewish woman- hood and Jewish identity and pride, and to develop leadership skills, under the guidance of the BMC leaders. The Bat Mitzvah Club meets six times a year, with a few extra gatherings, such as a 26-hour Shabbaton sleepover, shalach manot packing, a movie night and more. The club is made up of girls with varied Jewish backgrounds and educations, including girls from public schools, Jewish day schools and private schools, who all come together to enjoy each others’ company over dinners, arts and crafts, lessons and learning. This year’s BMC will culminate with a Mother-Daughter Tea to be held at Chabad Stamford on Sunday, June 8. A highlight of the event will be a challah baking class with Leah Shemtov, allowing the girls and their mothers a “hands on” approach to the women’s mitzvah of challah baking. The event, although geared toward current BMC and Beyond group members, is also open to members of the public who would like to learn more about BMC and its curriculum for their daughters who are coming of bat mitzvah age. For more information, contact [email protected].

The Young Leadership Division and Jewish Twenties and Thirties present Dodgeball tournament Wednesday, July 16th at the JCC 7:00pm – Dark For more information, please email [email protected] maY 2014 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 13 family central For May & June 2014 Members and non members are warmly invited to all events listed. FOR THE WHOLE FAMILY KIDS GRADES Pre-K - 8 JCC CHABAD • BREAKFAST WITH ELMO. Sunday, May 4, 10 – 11 am. Ages 1 - 8 with parent or • P.O.G.S. (Parsha & Other Great Stuff) Grades K - 2. caregiver. $12 per person / $9 JCC members if register before Apr 26. Thereaf- u Weekly science & cooking club. Wednesdays, 4 - 5 pm. $10 p/ session. ter $14/$11. u Open House Wednesday, May 28, 4 – 5 pm, for pre-K to Grade 1 who are • FUN AND SINGING WITH NATASHA AND STEVE. Wednesday, May 21, 5:30 – eligible next year to try out P.O.G.S. Free. 6:30 pm. Ages 1 - 8 with parent or caregiver. JCC Family Place “sing along, sup • Chai Five Mitzvah Club. Grades 3 – 6. Get involved in community needs and along” evening with Pizza. Concert tailored to young children. $12 per person / projects. Wednesday, May 14, 5:30 - 7 pm. Fee: $20 p/session includes dinner. $9 JCC members if register before May 13. Thereafter $14/$11. • Bat Mitzvah Clubs & BMC Beyond. Sunday, May 4, 6 - 7:30 pm for girls in • KIDS TRIATHLON. Sunday, Jun 15, 8:00 am. Ages 4 to 14. Children given the grades 6 – 8 whether your Bat Mitvah is coming up or you have already opportunity to be fit and active, build friendships, reach their potential and have celebrated. $20 p/session. fun. For more info, visit stamfordjcc.org or contact Mo Concepcion: (203) 487- u Sunday, June 8, 6 – 7:30 pm. Mother-Daughter Tea and Challah Bake 0971 or [email protected] Class. Final class.

CHABAD TEMPLE BETH EL • LAG B’OMER FAMILY CELEBRATION Sunday, May 18, 12 noon. Fun, music, • Adat (Community) Shabbat. Drop off program for grades K - 2. Sights and games and hot dogs, hamburgers plus roasted marshmallows. sounds of Shabbat with Darice Bailer. Prayers plus fun engaging songs, stories, • SHAVUOT DAIRY BUFFET & ICE CREAM PARTY Wednesday June 4, 11 am & and dancing. Saturday, May 17, 11 am. Free. 6 pm. Celebrate Shavuot as we read the 10 commandments, followed by ice TEMPLE SINAI cream party & dairy buffet. Free. • Shevet Achim (Guys getting together). Sunday, May 18, 12:20 – 2:20 pm. For • LOAVES OF LOVE FAMILY CHALLAH BAKE Thursday, June 19, 9:30 am-12:30 boys Grade 7. Addresses confidence, greed, materialism, body image and pm. Kids welcome. From kneading dough to peeling vegetables, cooking healthy relationships. With Rabbi Jay TelRav. Free. baking and packing it up, this is your time to give to those who need it most by baking Challah and making chicken soup for the “Shabbat 2 Go” packages. TEENS GRADES 8+ KULANU Classes meet Wednesdays 7 - 9 pm at JCC. Fun diverse opportunities to connect YOUNG KIDS WITH PARENT/CAREGIVER to Judaism. Fee: $36 /month. Contact [email protected] or (203) 321-1373 x104 TEMPLE BETH EL. SPEAK UP FOR ISRAEL Tot Kabbalat Shabbat – Spring Planting and Renewal. Age 5 & under. Older Grades 11-12. For info, contact JCC Israeli Shaliach (203) 487-0961. JCC and UJF siblings welcome. Music, stories and song led by Cantor George Mordecai and program. Meets monthly Sundays, 5 – 7 pm. At the JCC. Rabbi Joshua Hammerman. Light Shabbat dinner for kids. Friday May 2, KURIANSKY TEEN TZEDAKAH CORPS 5:30 pm. Free. Grade 10. Learn about philanthropy and how to make grants to non-profits. CHABAD Sundays. Contact [email protected] or (203) 321-1373 x104 • Tiny Treasures. Birth to 30 months. Warm Jewish atmosphere. Connect with FRIENDSHIP CIRCLE. For volunteers in Grades 9-12 other moms. Fee: $15 per class. First class free. Wednesdays, 9:15 - 10:15 am. • At Home: Every week, pairs of teen volunteers visit special needs children in And celebrate Shabbat on Fridays, 10 - 10:45 am with “Got Shabbat?” their homes offering friendship and unconditional support. • Tiny Treasures Shabbat Lunch. For all families with kids birth to 30 months. • Children’s / Teen Circle: 15 Sundays through the year. Work with special needs Bring mom, dad and big brothers & sisters. Enjoy Shabbat lunch together and children on activities like art, music, cooking and sports. meet other young families. Saturday, May 3, 1 – 2:30 pm. At the Shemtov Home, At Chabad. For info, contact Malya Shmotkin (203) 329-0015 #414, Malya@ 10 Brandt Road. friendshipct.com TEMPLE SINAI BBYO Tot Shabbat. Saturday May 10, 9 am & Friday June 13, 5 pm. Birth to age 7. Grades 8-12. Meets every 2nd Monday 7-9 pm at the JCC. Opportunities for Dancing, singing, crafts, praying and playing. With Rabbi TelRav and Cantor leadership, athletic, social and community service. Morgovsky. Learn about Shabbat and holidays. Free. JEWISH STUDENT CONNECTION BI-CULTURAL DAY SCHOOL Grades 9-12. Meets Tuesdays at 2 pm at Stamford High in room 925 & Mommy, Daddy, Music and Me. For toddlers. With Jonathan Cahr and Rachel Thursdays at 2:05 pm at Westhill High in Mrs. Tobias’ room. Bahar. Wednesdays, May 7 & 21, June 11. 1:30pm – 2:10 pm. Music, movement, nursery rhymes, Jewish songs and story telling. Free. TEMPLE SINAI Rosh Chodesh for Girls. Grades 6-12. Led by Erica Santiago. Sunday, May 18, JCC 12:20 - 2:20pm. Builds self-esteem, leadership skills and Jewish identity. Free. • BABIES AND BABBLE. New weekly playgroup. Wednesdays thru May 28, 12:30 – 1:30 pm. Birth – 2 years. For more info, contact Galit: (203) 487-0974 or [email protected] or Dana: (646) 246-6446. Babiesandbabble@yahoo. CHILDREN WITH SPECIAL NEEDS com. One-time fee: $25/$18 JCC members. • MOVIN’ AND GROOVIN’ Tuesdays, April 29 – Jun 17, 10:30 – 11:15 am. 12 – 30 Friendship Circle: Teen friends and social and Judaic programs for children with months. Children swing, spin, jump, stretch, leap, roll and climb with rhythm, special needs. Contact Malya Shmotkin (203) 329-0015 #414 or music and song. $184 for 8 sessions/$152 JCC members. [email protected] • MUSIC TOGETHER Birth – 5 years. Nurtures children’s natural enthusiasm for JCC music and movement. Call Music Together (203) 256-1656. • Jump Start: Therapeutic classes for ages 2 - 4. Language, social and motor • SWIM LESSONS 6 – 36 months. Sunday or Tuesday or Thursday mornings skills encouraged. Safe, fun, accepting environment. Contact Sue McGraw through 6/19. Times based on age. Children learn correct swimming move- (203) 487-0966. ments, increase muscle strength and coordination. Swim diaper with bathing • R&R (Relax & Recreate) Social group for grades 6-8. Fun, structured, safe suit required. For more info, Daniel Servelli: (203) 487-0990 or dservelli@stam- environment. Build social skills and relationships. Contact Dinushka De Silva at fordjcc.org. Fees based on # sessions. (203) 487-0946 or [email protected].

To RSVP or for more information on these events and groups, contact…. Agudath Sholom: 301 Strawberry Hill Ave, Stamford • (203) 358-2200 • www.agudathsholom.org BBYO: BBYO Regional Office (203) 389-2127 • CVR@bbyo.org • www.cvrbbyo.net Chabad: 770 High Ridge Road, Stamford • (203) 3-CHABAD #418 • [email protected] • www.chabadhousestamford.org Friendship Circle: 770 High Ridge Road, Stamford • Malya Shmotkin • (203) 329-0015 #414 • [email protected] • www.friendshipct.com JCC: Jewish Community Center, 1035 Newfield Ave, Stamford • (203) 322-7900 • www.stamfordjcc.org JFS: Jewish Family Service, (203) 921-4161 • 733 Summer Street, Suite 602, Stamford • www.ctjfs.org • Claire Friendlander (203) 921-4161#109 • [email protected] Jewish Student Connection – Rebecca Shapiro • [email protected] • (914) 481-5505. Kulanu: Danielle Alexander (203) 321-1373 #104 • [email protected] • www.KulanuStamford.org Temple Beth El: 350 Roxbury Road, Stamford • (203) 322-6901 • www.tbe.org Temple Sinai: 458 Lakeside Drive, Stamford • (203) 322-1649 • www.templesinaistamford.org • Melissa Cohavi • [email protected] 14 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ maY 2014 What’s On for Adults May & June 2014 Members and Non-members are all warmly invited to all events listed. See contact info below for more info, to confirm programs and to register. YOM HASHOAH OPEN EVENTS YOM HASHOAH SEDER WOMEN’S PHILANTHROPY (UJF) SPRING DINNER. Community Commemoration Sunday, Apr. 27, 7 pm. At Temple Sinai. Parking is With Dr Ruth (Westheimer) Thursday May 15, 6:30 pm. Fee $100 p/person/ $118 limited but additional transportation provided from the JCC to Temple Sinai will be after 5/1. Teenagers ages16-19 $50. At Temple Beth El. See article page 1. provided beginning at 6:15 pm. BICULTURAL DAY SCHOOL CELEBRATION DINNER FILM: SIX MILLION AND ONE PLUS FILMMAKER TALK Sunday, May 18, 5 pm. At Stamford Hilton. Honoring Walter Suchatowitz and Monday, Apr. 28, 7 pm. State Cinema, Hope Street, Stamford. Filmaker David Fisher Jacqueline Herman. Outstanding teacher awards to Felicia Carriero and Frank Cronson. will talk about the making of the film after the screening. See article. JCC • NEW YORK BOTANICAL GARDEN. Tuesday, May 20. Depart JCC at 9:30 a.m. Pri- YOM HA’ATZMAUT/TZAHAL SHALOM vate tour including new exhibit “Groundbreakers: Great American Gardens & The JCC Women Who Designed Them”. Bring or buy lunch. Limited capacity. Reservations • COMMUNITY YOM HA’ATZMAUT CELEBRATION. Tuesday, May 6, 5:30 pm. At the required by April 28. Fees: $60 per person/$50 JCC members. JCC. Celebrate Israel’s 66th birthday with the officers of the IDF (Israel Defense Forces). • EXPLORE WOODLANDS CEMETERY. Monday, June 9, 11:15 am. Renee Kahn, Experience Israel: the land, culture, food, people and music. Town Hall Meeting at nationally known preservation consultant and author, leads a cemetery tour and 7:30 pm where the officers share stories and talk about Israel. Fee: $5 per person. shares stories of its past. Meet at the entrance, 66 Woodland Place at 11:15 am. • COCKTAILS & COMEDY. To benefit JCC Tzahal Shalom. Saturday, May 10, 9 pm. Lunch on your own. Free. Reservations required by June 2. Contact Connie Free- At the JCC. 18 years and older. Drinks, dairy dessert buffet and lots of laughs as man at 203-487-0983 or [email protected]. Israeli comic MODI takes the stage. Toast visiting IDF officers. For info, contact JEWISH HIGH SCHOOL OF CONNECTICUT (JHSC) Nancy Schiffman: (203) 487-0941 or [email protected]. • SPRING GALA. Sunday, May 18, 5:30 pm. Featuring guest speaker Anita Diamant, • MEET ACTIVE DUTY IDF OFFICERS face-to-face for meaningful conversations author of “The Red Tent”. At the Rolling Hills Country Club in Wilton. Honoring during their stay. Sunday, May 4 – Sunday, May 11. All are welcome to attend Jo-Ann Price and her parents, Leo and Libby Nevas. Event Tickets: $180. For info, parlor meetings and events. Visit stamfordjcc.org for schedule and information. contact 203-907-0055 or [email protected]. CHABAD • AN EVENING OF WINE, CHEESE & ART. Thursday May 8, 7:30 pm. Artist, GOLF & TENNIS Devorah Raichman, will give insight into her art inspired by Hebrew letters, words JCC GOLF & TENNIS OUTING. At Rockrimmon Country Club. Monday, June 2. To and passages. At Chabad. Fee: $18 per person / $25 at the door. benefit the JCC JumpStart program for children with special needs. Includes a day of TEMPLE BETH EL golf and tennis, lunch, cocktail hour and awards party. For player / sponsorship info, • ANNUAL CANTOR’S CONCERT. With Cantor Mordecai and visiting musicians. contact Shannon Jacobs at (203) 487-0965 or [email protected]. Sunday, June 8, 7:30 pm. JEWISH SENIOR SERVICES (JEWISH HOME). Golf & Tennis Invitational. Monday, TEMPLE SINAI. June 23. At Rockrimmon Country Club, Stamford. For more info, call Dayna (203) • THE SHABBAT EXPERIENCE. Friday, June 27. Open to the multi-faith community. 365-6409 or [email protected]. Welcome Shabbat with profound prayer and music. New World Chorus, Cantor Morgovsky, the Kolot Sinai and other special guests. Music produced by Beth Styles. SINGLES & YOUNG PROFESSIONALS TEMPLE BETH EL - 60 PLUS JEWISH SINGLES. FOR WOMEN • WINE AND CHEESE Reception Friday, May 2, 6:30 pm. for 60 plus Jewish JEWISH SENIOR SERVICES (JEWISH HOME). Singles followed by a musical Kabbalat Shabbat service. • Spring Luncheon & Boutique: Women’s Auxiliary. Monday, May 5, at the CHABAD - 20s AND 30s Waterview in Monroe, CT. With guest entertainer, mentalist and magician, • LOAVES OF LOVE COOKING MARATHON PLUS DINNER. Sunday, May 4, 3:30 – Oz Pearlman. Cost: $118-$250. For more info, contact Dayna Hayden: 5:30 pm. From kneading dough to peeling vegetables, to cooking & baking and pack- (203)365-6409 or [email protected]. ing it all up, this is your time to give to those who need it most; by baking Challah CHABAD and making chicken soup for the ‘Shabbat 2 Go’ packages. At Chabad. No charge. • WOMEN’S SHABBAT. Friday, May 16. Candle lighting & Oneg 7 pm. Dinner 7:45 • BBQ. Usher in the summer and warm weather with a BBQ! Sunday, June 15, 5 pm. Warm our spirit and rejuvenate the soul with singing, stories and sharing. At pm. At Chabad. Fee: $12 per person. Chabad. Fee: Before 4/30 $45 / JWC member $36, Thereafter $54/$45. • JWC GARDEN PARTY. Monday, June 9. An evening to hang out with friends, sip a drink and discover what the summer can hold in store for you in personal growth FOR MEN and commitment. At the home of Meredith Cohen. Fee; $15 /JWC members free. CHABAD • PARENTING CLUB FOR MOMS. Join other moms to discuss, debate and gain • Men’s End of the Year BBQ. Schmooze, relax and hang with the guys! Thursday, insight. Based on the book “Raising Your Kids Without Raising Your Voice” by Sarah June 19, 8 pm At the Shemtov’s Deck, 10 Brandt Road. Fee: $36/$25 early bird. Chana Radcliffe. Thursdays, May 22 & June 26, 9:30 am in the Chabad Conference Room OR 8 pm at Rotating Homes. Fee: $10 per class or $50 for the session SENIORS JCC MOTHER’S DAY LUNCHEON. Thursday, May 8, 11:30 am – 1 pm. At the JCC. Live entertainment. Free to seniors. Reservations required by May 2. Contact Con- ADULT VOLUNTEER OPPORTUNITIES nie Freeman at 203-487-0983 or [email protected]. UJF’S READING PARTNERS. JCC FATHER’S DAY LUNCHEON. Thursday, June 12, 11:30 am – 1 pm. At the JCC. Read one-on-one with Stamford public school children. One hour a week, Live entertainment. Reservations required by June 6. $3 suggested donation. Con- mornings or afternoons. 11 elementary schools and 2 community centers. tact Connie Freeman 203-487-0983 or [email protected]. Training, literacy focused workshops and support network provided. Contact JCC SOCIAL SENIOR PROGRAMS - Tuesdays, Thursdays and Fridays at the JCC Marlyn Agatstein (203) 321-1373 x 115 or [email protected]. • Tuesdays & Thursdays: Chair Exercise: 10:15 – 11 am. Senior Life Enhancement JCC KOSHER LUNCH PROGRAM FOR SENIORS. Classes: 11 – 11:45 am. Topics cover local to international events, health and well- Help set up and serve lunch on Tuesdays, Thursdays and Fridays. Contact ness, Jewish history, unique personal stories etc. Connie: (203) 487-0983 or [email protected]. • Fridays: Morning Movie: 10 am though Apr 11. Israel Discussion with Matan JFS DRIVERS NEEDED. Samovsky: 11:30 am. Deliver food from Kosher Food Pantry to individuals. Contact Rebekah Kanef- • Kosher Lunch each day, 12 - 1 pm. Birthday luncheon: Apr. 29, May 27 & June 24. sky: (203) 921-4161 or [email protected] • Thursdays: Fun and Games, 1 - 3 pm. Mah Jongg, Scrabble, Bridge, Pokeno etc. All welcome. Reservation required for lunch and transportation. Free except sug- JHS (JEWISH HISTORICAL SOCIETY) gested donation for lunch ($3) and transportation ($1 each way). For info: Connie • Harry Rosenbaum Judaica Library. At the JCC. Cover 2 hour slot (or more) (203) 487-0983 or [email protected] once a week. Training provided. Call (203) 487-0957. JCC RETIRED MEN’S CLUB • Help protect the pieces of our Jewish history: Help Jewish organizations Meets Mondays at the JCC. 10 – 11 am: fellowship, humor, and vibrant discussions retain their history and documents/info about early settlers. Call (203) 359-2196. (members only) 11 am - 1 pm: speaker and kosher lunch (community welcome). HADASSAH TEA@2. Bridge game after lunch. Reserve lunch (soup & sandwich) 2 days before, $3 Every other Tuesday, 2 - 3 pm. Volunteers bake desserts, ‘schlep’ and set up suggested donation. Fee: $50 p/ year (members free). For info: Connie (203) 487- and/or serve tea to patients, family and staff. Family lounge, Oncology floor, 0983 or [email protected] Stamford Hospital. For info, contact Connie: [email protected]

FOR MORE INFORMATION / ADDRESSES: UJF Jewish Education & Engagement Program: (203)321-1373 • www.ujf.org Agudath Sholom: 301 Strawberry Hill Ave, Stamford (203)358-2200 • www.agudathsholom.org Chabad: 770 High Ridge Road, Stamford • (203)3-CHABAD #418 • [email protected] • www.chabadhousestamford.org JCC: Jewish Community Center, 1035 Newfield Ave, Stamford • (203)322-7900 • www.stamfordjcc.org JFS: Jewish Family Service: (203)921-4161 • Stamford office: 733 Summer St., Suite 602 • Westport office: 431 Post Road East, Suite 11 • www.ctjfs.org Jewish Historical Society: (203)321-1373 #150 • [email protected] • www.stamfordhistory.org/jhslfc.htm Temple Beth El: 350 Roxbury Road, Stamford • (203)322-6901 • www.tbe.org Temple Sinai: 458 Lakeside Drive, Stamford • (203)322-1649 • www.templesinaistamford.org maY 2014 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 15 “Wonder of Wonders” A Cultural History of “Fiddler on the Roof” By Camille A. Kramer She explains the importance of Solomon teaches at Co- the essential foundations of Jewish heri- Alisa Solomon, author, teacher and the character Tevye, the milk- lumbia University Graduate tage and life today and over centuries,” award-winning drama critic, will discuss man, created by Yiddish writer School of Journalism, where said Eva Weller, president of the Jewish her book, “Wonder of Wonders: A Cul- Sholem Aleichem, to the Jewish she directs the Arts and Cul- Historical Society of Fairfield County, tural History of Fiddler on the Roof,” world as well as to society at ture concentration in the M.A. “and we are delighted to co-sponsor on Sunday, May 18, as part of the Jewish large. Tevye is followed from program. She was a theater with the New Canaan Library and Elm Historical Society of Fairfield County’s his debut on the Yiddish stage, critic and general reporter Street Books an esteemed author who will May Featured Program. It will be held to his becoming a symbol of for the Village Voice, as well as share insights about what has become a at the New Canaan Library, 151 Main oppression, to the stages of a contributor to The New York remarkable icon for all.” St., New Canaan, starting at 4:30 pm, Broadway and ultimately to a Times, The Nation, Tablet, The Optional registration can be made with refreshments at 4 pm, and is free Hollywood film. Forward, Howlround.com, kill- online at https://jhsfcmayfeaturedpro- and open to the public. The program, “Fiddler on the Roof” is ingthebuddha.com, American gram.eventbrite.com. Click on “sign up co-sponsored by the New Canaan Library considered a universal modern Alisa Solomon Theater, TDR – The Drama with e-mail.” For further information, and Elm Street Books in New Canaan, story of conflicts, traditions Review and other publications. contact Marcie Schoenfeld at 203-359- is a feature of the library’s Authors on both being lost and held onto, the “gen- Her first book, “Re-Dressing the Canon: 9148, or e-mail [email protected] Stage series. eration gap” before such a term was even Essays on Theater and Gender,” won the or check JHSFC’s website, http://jhsfc- Solomon traces the history of the coined, and the sense of being inwardly George Jean Nathan Award for Dramatic ct.org/programs.html. Broadway musical, “Fiddler on the Roof,” uprooted. “Wonder of Wonders: A Cul- Criticism. Her numerous credits include The Jewish Historical Society of Fairfield which has now passed into the realm of tural History of Fiddler on the Roof” the editing of several books. County is a beneficiary agency of United Jewish cultural landmark as it has entertained celebrates a show about tradition that is “We all remember and can relate to the Federation of Greater Stamford, New Canaan audiences worldwide for the last 50 years. now considered a tradition itself. song, ‘Tradition,’ which captures one of and Darien. ADULT EDUCATION May & June 2014 Members and non members are warmly invited to all events listed. See contact info below for more info, to confirm programs and to register. JEWISH HISTORICAL SOCIETY TEMPLE BETH EL • WONDER OF WONDERS: A Cultural History of Fiddler On The Roof. Sunday, COMEDIAN MARION GRODIN. Thursday, May 29, 7:30 pm. Stand- up come- May 18, 4 pm. At New Canaan Library. Speaker: Author Alisa Solomon traces dian presents a review of her book: “Standing Up: A Memoir of a Funny (not the history of the Broadway musical. A universal modern story of conflicts and always) Life.” Free. See article. traditions. SACRED ENCOUNTERS • A CHILD OF CHRISTIAN BLOOD: Murder And Conspiracy In Tsarist Russia: Tuesdays, 7:30 pm. Kabalistic study using “The Lost Princess” by Rabbi Nach- The Beilis Blood Libel. Sunday, June 1, 5 pm. At Darien Library, 1441 Post Rd. man of Breslov. With Cantor George Mordecai. Free. For info, (203) 322-6901 x Speaker & Auther: Edmund Levin. 303 or [email protected]. For more info: [email protected] Free. BOOK TALKS • Wednesday, May 21, 2 pm. “The Story Teller” by Jody Picoulit. Against the JEWISH SENIOR SERVICES background of the Holocaust, the author weaves the character’s stories around SEINFELD AND AGING: What Popular Culture Can Teach Us About Caring for the powerful issues of forgiveness, love, justice and redemption. Presenter: Older Adults. Wednesday, May 28, 7:30 pm at The Jewish Home 175 Jefferson Sondra Melzer At Harry Bennett Branch Library, Vine Road, Stamford. Free. For Street, Fairfield. With Mark Lachs, MD, MPH • Clinical Director, Cornell Center info: Marcie (203) 359-9148. for Aging Research and Clinical Care • Professor of Medicine & Co-Chief, Geriat- rics and Gerontology, Weill Cornell Medical College • Director of Geriatrics, New York-Presbyterian Healthcare System. For more info/rsvp, UCONN JUDAIC STUDIES contact Kim Gintoli (203)365-6463 or [email protected] THE AFTERLIFE OF A BIBLICAL FIGURE: King Saul In Hebraic And English Literary Traditions. With Dr. Nehama Aschkenasy. Final lecture of spring series. JCC Thursday, May 1, noon - 1:30 pm. In the MPR (Room 108). Cost: $15 p/person, including lunch. SPOTLIGHT ON ISRAEL. Lunch And Learn with Matan Samovsky, Israeli Shaliach. Thursdays, 12–1 pm AGUDATH SHOLOM at the JCC. May 22: Politics in Israel: The Right, The Left, Political Parties & the Last Election. With short videos and time for Q&A. Bring your lunch – dairy DVAR YOM B’YOMO desert provided. Free. To register or for info: (203) 487-0961 or msamovsky@ With Rabbi Walk. Mondays, 12:20 pm at Bicultural Day School. An in-depth stamfordjcc.org. look at one topical issue each week, either from the weekly portion or upcom- ing Jewish holiday. PARSHA PERSPECTIVES AND PARADIGMS HADASSAH Tuesdays, 12:20 – 1 pm at Bi-Cultural Day School with Rabbi Daniel Cohen. BOOK CLUB Glean relevant life messages from the weekly torah portion. Free. Wednesdays, 7 pm. For location and more info, contact rhonda.greif@gmail. com or (203) 829-9341 TASTE OF TORAH • Apr. 30, “Lady at the O.K. Corral: Josephone Marcus Earp” by Ann Kirschner. Fridays, 8:15 - 8:45 am with Rabbi Daniel Cohen. Unlock a fresh perspective • June 11, “A Guide for the Perplexed” by Dara Horn and fascinating idea from the Torah. Understand the Torah as a guide for life • July 23, “Jacobs Folly” by Rebecca Miller. through the prism of classic commentators.

TEMPLE SINAI CHABAD BEGINNERS’ TORAH STUDY LUNCH & LEARN With Melissa Cohavi. Every Friday, noon - 1 pm. Basic discussions about the Kabbalistic insights on different topics that pertain to our lives today. Every Torah, its laws, its stories, and the ancient people. Bring your lunch. Free. Wednesday, 11:30 am-12:45 pm. $5 per class includes lunch

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Fourth-grader Ruthie Price, who studied Steve Jobs, talked technology at the Fourth Grade Living History Avi Gordon dressed as Mark Twain explained answers Presentation. questions from Dr. Mark Rosovsky. Ori Divon as John Glenn speaks with Shani Soloff.

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JCC CARING FOR SENIORS Additional listings on ADULTS WHATS ON page under SENIORS. JCC Support for Blind and Visually Impaired Adults. Thursday May 8 & June 12, 1 – 2:30 pm. At the JCC. Guest speaker on topics relevant to vision loss. Reservations required. For info, contact Connie Cirillo Freeman: [email protected] or (203) 487-0983. FOR MORE INFORMATION, CONTACT: JFS: Jewish Family Service: 203-921-4161; Stamford office: 733 Summer Street, Suite 602; Westport office: 431 Post Road East, Suite 11. www.ctjfs.org JCC: Jewish Community Center 1035 Newfield Ave, Stamford (203) 322-7900 www.stamfordjcc.org maY 2014 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 17 Carmel Students Win Kulanu at Chelsea Piers National Art Contest Awards By Julie Lapin Three of Carmel Academy’s eighth- grade students have been honored in RAVSAK’s 2014 Judaic Art Contest. Car- mel’s students were chosen from among more than 400 students representing 20 Jewish day schools across North America. RAVSAK, a network organization of Jew- ish community day schools, sponsored the contest to encourage students to use creativity and passion for text study to interpret curriculum and create original works of photography, sculpture and vi- Artwork created by Stamford resident and sual art. The student entries were judged Carmel Academy eighth-grader Luiz “Duda” by professional Jewish artists. Voldman. He was one of three students at Carmel Academy eighth-graders Sam Carmel Academy honored in a North American Levy and Isabele Cohen were given hon- Judaic Art contest. orable mention in the Middle School Vi- sual Arts category, and Stamford resident students were chosen to be featured in Luiz “Duda” Voldman received the Staff RAVSAK’s magazine, HaYidon. Jenna Plotzky and Marisa Kurz took a swing Pick honor in the same category. All three See “Awards” on page 18 in the batting cages.

Carmel Raises Funds for Pets Teens from Kulanu took a break at Chelsea Piers on March 19, hitting at balls in the Continued from page 8 batting cages, climbing the rock wall and Circle Alive jumping on the trampoline. Above: Keren Once every two years, more than Rubin climbed the rock wall. 1,000 people come to show their sup- port for inclusion and acceptance in the Stamford community, and to celebrate the teens who make this a reality for so Continued from page 16 Life many families. One of the Friendship Price discovered many things about Jobs Circle’s goals is to make the Jewish value that she did not know previously and of “Love your neighbor like yourself” was excited to learn that he made her come to life. Those interested in attend- favorite device, the iPad mini: “This is ing are asked to visit www.FriendshipCT. such a fun project and I got to research com/Evening for more information and someone in a really fun way.” to make reservations. Bi-Cultural Day School is a recipient Friendship Circle is a recipient agency of agency of United Jewish Federation of Greater United Jewish Federation of Greater Stamford, Stamford, New Canaan and Darien. New Canaan and Darien.

Carmel Academy’s student and staff raised more than $1,100 for Pets Alive Westchester, an animal shelter in Elmsford, NY, which recently lost its building due to severe structural 10th Annual damage. Pets Alive Westchester has formed a bond with one of Carmel Academy’s PALS special education classes, which has volunteered at the shelter over the course of the year. The students Rabbi Alex Goldman dedicated their annual student vs. teacher basketball game at the Pep Rally by hosting a “Pet Rally” – collecting pledge donations based on total points scored during the game. Memorial Essay Contest JHSC Students Excel in for Teens United Jewish Federation of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and Darien and the Rabbi Alex Goldman Scholarship Committee are pleased to announce the 10th Annual National Science Competition Rabbi Alex Goldman Memorial Essay Contest for Jewish 10th-12th grade students. The Jewish High School of Connecti- creation, function and operation. In e Rabbi Alex Goldman Scholarship Fund was established to strengthen cut has announced that, for the second addition, they projected their chosen the Jewish identity of our teens by providing opportunities to enhance time in three years, a JHSC team made technology 20 years into the future the top 10 percent in the Toshiba Ex- and prepared an in-depth report that their skills in Judaic studies or writing on Jewish topics. ploraVision competition, winning the conveyed their vision of how it might e Rabbi Goldman Memorial Essay Contest is a tribute to Rabbi Goldman who team an honorable mention. develop. The JHSC team’s submission was a historian and avid writer, authoring over 20 books all with Jewish themes. By placing in the top 10 percent out was the “Graphilter,” which uses reverse of 5,000 entries, the JHSC team is only osmosis through a graphene filter to If you wish to participate in the contest, please write an essay based on your experience one of four teams in Connecticut to purify water supplies. participating in one or more Jewish teen organizations in the Greater Stamford area reach this level of distinction and places Dr. Paul Castle, principal and faculty and its aŠect on your Jewish identity by completing the following prompt: the students as the highest ranked ninth coach, extended his congratulations grade team in the state. to the students on the team “for their I never thought I would… In the Toshiba sponsored competi- commitment to the project over many First prize $1,000 tion, teams researched and selected an months, their resilience, their teamwork Second prize $500 emerging technology, and explored its and their well-deserved success.” ird prize $250

e winning essays will be announced at United Jewish Federation’s Town Hall Meeting on June 18th. All entries must be received no later than 9:00 pm, ursday, May 22. ey can be emailed to Danielle Alexander at [email protected], or hand delivered or mailed to United Jewish Federation, 1035 New‰eld Avenue, Suite 200, Stamford, CT 06905. Essay submissions must be: 1. 500-750 words 2. Double spaced using Times New Roman 12 point font 3. A cover page should include your name, grade, address, phone number and email 4. Please do not put your name on the individual pages of the essay

Don’t miss out on this wonderful opportunity! For more information, contact Danielle at 203-321-1373, x104 or [email protected]

L-r: The winning team included freshmen Alexandra Frenzel of Milford, Jacques Ben-Avie of New Haven, Katya Labowe-Stoll of New Haven and Rafi Brodie of Trumbull. The school also recognized 11th-grader and 2012 team captain Eva Gerber of Woodbridge for mentoring this year’s team. ÊVisit www.ujf.org, facebook.com/stamfordFederation, or tweet UJF at ujfstamford 18 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ maY 2014 voices and views Parents: Read “The Purim Superhero” to Your Children By Jerry Silverman positive feelings about being Jewish.” tioned why didn’t they just automatically every Jew deserves a welcome place in our Jewish Federations of North America Through PJ Library, books that focus on send it to all. I applaud the HGF for being community. We encourage PJ Library to encourages parents to read a diversity of books families with adopted children, disabled sensitive, realizing we have a community continue sending children books that about our diverse community to their children. children (and kids with disabled family that is diverse and offering a choice. The reflect the Jewish community’s wonderful The decision to embrace, through kids’ books, members), interracial and intermarried response has been overwhelming. In less diversity. We recognize that not every family the richness and diversity of Jewish life is a families, Jews of color, secular and Orthodox than two days, PJ Library had exhausted will choose to read every Jewish book to gift. (Via keshetline.org.) families, and, in this case, LGBT Jews, young its stock of 2,000 books. They quickly a child, but each family should be able to Nate couldn’t decide what he wanted children are exposed to the multifaceted ordered thousands more. make the decision on its own. But those to be for Purim – follow his heart and world that is today’s Jewish community. A very few in our community were alien- families who do choose to read all the books dress as an alien or succumb to peer pres- Books such as Elizabeth Kushner’s ated by the choice of this book and have will be giving their children a tremendous sure and wear a superhero costume? It “The Purim Superhero” reflect life that dropped their subscriptions altogether, gift – a gift that allows them to see the rich- was a tough decision for a little boy, but so many of us already see in our com- even though they had the option of sim- ness and diversity of Jewish life. he got some help from his two dads. munities, our children’s schools, our ply not selecting the book. That’s their This article is reprinted with permission “The Purim Superhero” is one of PJ synagogues and Jewish camps and some- choice, of course, but that’s also unfor- from Jewish Federations of North America Library’s book selections for March. For times in our own families. Few among us tunate. Those few families that canceled (JFNA). Jerry Silverman is president and CEO nine years, and in partnerships with various can say that we don’t know a child with entire subscriptions are missing out on a of the Jewish Federation of North America. donors and Jewish Federations, PJ Library two moms or two dads. wonderful gift for their children – a gift For more information on PJ Library or to see has been sending free monthly book selec- PJ Library predicted, though, that this that demonstrates that not all families are a copy of this book, contact Danielle Alexander, tions to Jewish children up to age 8. particular book might raise questions, so the same – and one that is so much bigger UJF director of community engagement and Created by the Harold Grinspoon it made the selection available only by than this single great book. outreach at [email protected] or 203-321- Foundation, it’s a tremendous program request as an additional book. Some ques- At Jewish Federations, we believe that 1373, ext. 104. that not only encourages reading, but does so in a Jewish context. Each month, 130,000 books are sent to families in North America, and the program has expanded young voices to Israel and additional countries as well. Many Federations have PJ Library gather- My NCSY Mission to New Orleans ings to connect and engage families. As “The Purim Superhero” demon- Kindling a Spark for a Brighter Future strates, children receiving those books By Eliana Koehler the people of New Orleans. not dwell on the past. They picture to- learn about more than Jewish holidays At the end of February, Even when all seemed lost, morrow and then sketch that image into and traditions. They learn about Jewish NCSY (the international there were those who were reality. Hearing and reading the stories life, and their families find an entry to youth movement of the Or- ready to push beyond the that happen is not enough to inspire Jewish communal life. Indeed, a study thodox Union) took 20 girls wreckage and move on to a the next generation of Jewish leaders. of 20,000 American Jewish families par- from Ma’ayanot Yeshiva High new day. They left the past You need to do something; you need ticipating in the project found that 58 School for Girls in Teaneck, in the past and focused on to take action. Meeting Jackie sparked percent said the program has influenced NJ, and nine girls from lo- improving the future. Over something in me that day. Maybe it was their decisions to “build upon or add a cal public schools to New Shabbat, Jackie Pressner confidence, or just being more aware; Jewish tradition to their home life” and 62 Orleans in the hope that Gothard, former president whatever it was, I know I want to make a percent said it “increased their families’ together they would build an of Orthodox Union mem- difference because there is no one tell- experience. I cannot speak ber synagogue Congrega- ing me that I can’t. I may prevent myself The New Jewish Voice for all 29 of us, but I can speak tion Beth Israel and a New from success, but there are always others for myself and can confirm Eliana Koehler Orleans resident, shared supporting me and rooting for me. I can “The New Jewish Voice” (USPS #428) is published monthly by the United Jewish Federation of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and that this was more than just her story with us. knock down the walls that I may have Darien Inc., 1035 Newfield Ave., Stamford, CT 06905-2521. a trip; it changed me. Jackie was the first woman president formed, keeping me from achieving my www.ujf.org for updates and donations Rabbi Ethan Katz, director of New of Congregation Beth Israel and was in goals. As Theodore Herzl once said, “If Jersey NCSY and veteran leader of many office during Hurricane Katrina. Dur- you will it, it is no dream.” Shoshana Dweck...... President James A. Cohen...... Chief Executive Officer disaster relief trips, explained from the ing the hurricane, the shul flooded with I may have changed physically, gotten beginning what this mission to New nearly 10 feet of water, destroying the a little sunburned, but my heart, my con- Advisory Committee Orleans was all about. After arriving, we building and all its contents, including fidence in my abilities to succeed, that Meryl Gordon...... Chair Stephne Behrend, Caryn Halbrecht, Meryl Japha, would spend five days doing community seven Torah scrolls. While many con- was the true transformation. Everyone is Nancy Schulman...... Members service and building leadership skills. We gregants left town and did not return, capable of greatness. All we need is a little would then return home as leaders, with Jackie powered through. With passion, spark that we can kindle into a flame, Reporter Group Staff new friendships and a feeling of content- lighting a candle to a brighter future. Rabbi Rachel Esserman...... Executive Editor hard work and help from other Jews Diana Sochor...... Layout Editor ment about how we spent our time. both locally and nationally, Jackie helped The mission, that was my spark. Michael Nassberg...... Assistant Editor Hurricane Katrina struck nearly nine build a new synagogue, holding a warm Eliana Koehler is a 10th-grader at Jenn DePersis...... Production Coordinator years ago, washing away the people positive attitude that never ceased dur- Ma’ayanot Yeshiva High School for Girls. Alaina Cardarelli...... Graphic Artist and homes of New Orleans in its path. ing the process. For a teen community service project, check Bonnie Rozen...... Advertising Representative Although the physical destruction was From Jackie, I learned a new idea out the jserve ad on page 19. For information Gregory Senger...... Bookkeeper alarming, what shocked me even more about leadership. A leader identifies the on the annual Goldman essay contest, see the Opinions were the values brought out among issues that lie before him or her, but does ad on page 17. The views expressed in editorials and opinion pieces are those of each author and not necessarily the views of the United Jewish Federation. Awards Continued from page 17 Letters The theme of the contest, which is watercolors, markers, colored pencils, invested significant time and energy into The New Jewish Voice welcomes letters on subjects of open to middle and high school stu- Cray-Pas and assorted papers for collage, applying what they have learned in their interest to the Jewish community. All letters must be dents, was “Creating Together: Fear to create their own interpretations, said text study to their artworks. The results signed and include a phone number. The editor may withhold the name upon request. and Splendor.” Carmel’s eighth grade Carmel’s art teachers. were stellar,” said Lisa Inberg, RAVSAK’s students reviewed several texts from “Carmel Academy’s students did a student programs coordinator. Kashruth Exodus addressing the building of the superb job at both crafting their artistic Carmel Academy is a recipient agency of We are not responsible for the Kashruth of any advertiser’s product or establishment. Mishkan and the making of the Golden statements and producing their artworks. United Jewish Federation of Greater Stamford, Calf. They then discussed the positive It is clear that both teachers and students New Canaan and Darien. Deadline and negative effects of group dynamics, Regular deadline is the last Wednesday of the month said Carmel Academy art teachers Lori for the next issue; i.e., the last Wednesday in July for the September issue. Amer and Audrey Reich. “When we learned of the program, How to reach the editor: we knew it would be perfect for our Mail: Sandy Golove eighth-graders,” said Reich. “During a 1035 Newfield Avenue - Suite 200 brainstorming session, the students came Stamford, CT 06905-2521 up with a list of words that described the E-mail: [email protected] emotions, images and concepts that arose Fax: (203) 322-3277 from our discussions. Their responses Phone: (203) 321-1373, ext. 107 were imaginative and insightful, and at Send article submissions via e-mail to times provocative. These triggered the Sandy Golove at [email protected] powerful artworks that emerged. We are marked “Stamford Voice” in the subject line. so proud of the level of thought and craft Expect an acknowledgement; the students devoted to this project.” please re-send if you do not receive one. Prior to embarking on their artistic in- How to reach terpretations, the students viewed slides the advertising Representative: of historic and modern interpretations of Phone: 1-800-779-7896, ext. 244 Moshe and the Golden Calf by artists such Subscription Information: as Nicolas Poussin, Jacopo Tintoretto, Three Carmel Academy eighth-grade students were selected among 400 entries to be honored Phone: (203) 321-1373 ext. 107 Marc Chagall and Emil Nolde. Then they by RAVSAK in the organization’s annual North American Judaic Art Contest. L-r: Luiz used materials of their choice, including “Duda” Voldman, Isabele Cohen and Sam Levy. maY 2014 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 19 Making the Exciting Transition to Middle School By Dora Salm Herman also explained that students are encouraged in Talmud,” to activities like Jewish cooking and baking, In an evening that was both social and informational, to develop their own leadership skills and to increase photography, chorus, woodworking, student newspaper, current fifth graders and their families gathered in their personal “voice” as they take an increased level sewing and Israeli dancing. In addition, middle schoolers the Bi-Cultural Café on March 26 to hear about the of ownership of their own learning. are encouraged to become part of the student council. program and world of middle school. As a seasoned middle school voice, sixth-grader Sarah Middle school also includes an emphasis on project Principal and Head of School Jackie Herman em- Broder provided the younger members of the group with assignments and increased class work. As an example, phasized how the Bi-Cultural program, which blends a detailed account of all the new changes that will affect Adrianne Robinson, director of secular studies, ex- both secular and Judaic studies, as well as experiences the students’ daily lives, including working on group and plained that the current sixth grade class read more to encourage personal growth and development, em- individual class projects and selecting elective courses. than 530 books as part of a grade-wide reading project. braces families as well as students. “Middle school is an Many electives are offered as part of the Judaic studies To incorporate technology into the reading process, the exciting time, and our school is ever-evolving and adapt- curriculum, which is headed up by Director of Jewish students tracked and rated their book selections online. ing to meet the needs of our families,” explained Her- Studies Michal Smart. Elective course offerings range All middle school students carry their own laptops, as man to the assembled fifth-graders and their parents. from topical courses such as Jewish history and “Topics technology and digital learning are integrated into each class throughout the curriculum. Robinson explained that the use of lockers is a popular and time-honored Oasis Continued from page 1 tradition of the moving up from elementary to middle Gurion University of the Negev and its Blaustein Institutes but Nbarey persisted. He smiles quietly at the fruits of school, and that many students are excited to begin for Desert Research with his colleague Josh Arnow. During his labor, at land cultivated, planted and prepared to that tradition. Three sixth-grade students, Douglas that visit, he witnessed breakthrough technologies and hold the soon-to-be physical structures that will open Herman, Rina Marlowe and Kate Rich, were on hand world-class research that related to living in arid zones. project Wadi Attir. “I saw the influence it could have to demonstrate how to best organize a locker. Simultaneously, he was exposed to the harsh circumstances on the children. They see Wadi Attir and they know Students can also participate in the school’s after-school of the ever-increasing Bedouin community, which was that if they have a plan, if they work hard, then they sports teams and clubs. Coach Joe Nealon of Bi-Cultural’s suffering from being a nomadic people living in a land of can make their dreams happen,” said Nbarey. physical education department explained that the full Western and urban sprawl. The conditions, said Ben-Eli, “First the idea was just a raindrop,” Alnabari said. “Now sports line-up includes basketball, fencing, baseball, yoga, were untenable. it is raining.” Alnabari said the team, which consists of wrestling, floor hockey, tennis, Ultimate Frisbee and skate- “It did not seem right that full citizens in a country 12 staff and as many as 50 or 60 contract workers, should boarding. “Our sports teams just keeping growing and like Israel would live in desperate circumstances when complete the building phase by the end of 2014. After growing,” he said, adding that BCDS will begin offering there were such incredible technologies being devel- that, the ecosystem will truly come alive and could reach a girls’ softball team as well as a field hockey, soccer and oped nearby,” Ben-Eli said. as many as 70,000 Bedouin in some capacity. ski team beginning with the next academic year. The an- Ben-Eli met Dr. Mohammed Alnabari, mayor of Hura, “Everyone thought this was a complete pipe dream. nouncement was greeted with cheers from the group. a Bedouin town of 15,000 people. Forward-thinking Most people said it would take 10 years to get through The evening closed with the distribution of a BCDS and originally a chemist by profession, Alnabari im- the bureaucracy. It took us half that time... Ben-Eli, laptop bag and sponge “Go Bobcat” logo sports hand mediately bought into Ben-Eli’s vision of developing Dr. Alnabari and the Bedouin community have put in for each upcoming sixth grade student. a model project that would showcase the integration blood, sweat and tears, and we’ve still got a lot of work Bi-Cultural Day School is a recipient agency of United Jewish of many development issues in one microcosm. The ahead of us,” said Arnow. Federation of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and Darien. philanthropic support of Arnow and his father, Robert, allowed Ben-Eli to get started. The Arnow family, which funds the Robert H. Arnow Center for Bedouin Studies and Development, has continued to support the project; the government of Israel has heavily invested in the project, too, as has the Jewish National Fund and other foundations and private donors. The total cost of actually implementing the project is an estimated $6 million. The building process has not been without obstacles, said Alnabari, noting that only now, seven years later, are all of Wadi Attir’s permits secured and the land prepared for building. He said the bureaucracy was challenging on all fronts. There are issues of mistrust between the Bedouin communities and the Israeli government, and there are deep tribal divides among the Negev’s 200,000 Bedouin people. “This is very politically and culturally sensitive,” said Arnow. “The climate in the Negev is extremely tense. But this project is one of its brightest spots.” Why? Nothing like the developing Wadi Attir exists in the world, according to Ben-Eli. While there are “fabulous sustainable projects around the world,” he said, those initiatives tend to focus on one aspect of sustainability. Wadi Attir is systemic and holistic in that it will bring together the Sustainability Lab’s five principles of sus- tainability related to the material domain, the economic domain, the social domain, the spiritual domain, and the domain of life. Additionally, the village is aimed at building an economic future for the Bedouin. At Wadi Attir, infrastructure is being built to leverage Bedouin traditional values, experience and aspirations. In the farm, Bedouin workers will grow a mixed herd of goats and sheep organically for the production of a range of dairy products, including Bedouin cheeses that don’t require refrigeration. Another area will harness Bedouin medicinal wisdom, by cultivating medicinal plants and herbs and developing a line of health prod- ucts for sale on the mainstream market. Wadi Attir will reintroduce nutritious, indigenous vegetables and create a hub for eco-tourism, and Ben-Eli also hopes it will offer a graduate level certificate program. Most of the Bedouins could not handle the paperwork to market their products in Israel to people outside their immediate area, to obtain health certificates and, potentially, even kosher certifications. Through Wadi Attir, said Alna- bari, all of this will be possible. Additionally, Wadi Attir will serve as a model for Israel-Bedouin collaboration. “It is good for the people,” said Alnabari. “It makes them feel good as citizens. It makes them proud to be part of Israel.” On a recent Tuesday in March, Wadi Attir Director Yunis Nbarey unlocked the gate to the village. The land spreads for 400 dunams (99 acres). Nbarey became in- volved as a volunteer when the project was in its infancy. He said that at that stage he clocked dozens of hours to rally the community and move the initiative forward. He doesn’t have a high school degree, and before this he had never served in a leadership role. Nbarey said his family became frustrated with the time he was spending working on Wadi Attir in its infancy, ÊVisit www.ujf.org, facebook.com/stamfordFederation, or tweet UJF at ujfstamford 20 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ maY 2014