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EducationDecember 2010 BROOKLYN SectionFREE Family www.webfamilyny.com Holidays with heart Spend less & savor more Childcare to fi t your budget Where to go in December? Check out our Going Places *Up to $10,000 is deductible from New York State taxable income for married couples filing jointly; single residents can deduct up to $5,000 annually. May be subject to recapture in certain circumstances— rollovers to another state’s plan or non-qualified withdrawals. **Earnings on non-qualified withdrawals may be subject to federal income tax and a 10% federal penalty tax, as well as state and local income taxes. Tax and other benefits are contingent on meeting other requirements and certain withdrawals are subject to federal, state and local taxes. Before you invest, consider whether your or the designated beneficiary’s home state offers any state tax or other benefits that are only available for investments in such state’s qualified tuition program. 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New York’s 529 College Savings Program Through all the homework, projects, and hours of practice, your child gives you her best. currently includes two separate 529 plans. The Direct Plan is sold directly by the Program. All this hard work will pay off when it’s time for college. Do your part to help pay for her You may also participate in the Advisor Plan, which is sold exclusively through financial education by opening a New York 529 College Savings Program Direct Plan. With as little advisors and has different investment options as $25, you, family and friends can open and contribute to an account for your child. and higher fees and expenses as well as financial advisor compensation. Contributions can qualify for a generous deduction from New York State taxable income.* Upromise is a registered service mark of Earnings grow tax deferred, and you pay no state or federal taxes on qualified withdrawals, Upromise, Inc. making a 529 plan one of the most tax-efficient ways to save.** Plus, a free rewards service For more information about from Upromise® can add to your account. It’s so easy—just visit ny529directplan.com, and New York’s 529 College Savings Program Direct Plan, obtain in about ten minutes, you’ve kept your promise. a Program Brochure and Tuition Savings Agreement at ny529directplan.com or by calling 1-800-608-8617. This includes investment objectives, risks, charges, expenses, and other information. You should read Visit ny529directplan.com and consider them carefully or call 1-800-608-8617 before investing. © 2010 State of New York BROOKLYN Family December 2010 FEATURES COLUMNS Letter from 4 Gifts for less 2 Newbie Dad Personalized presents will win children’s hearts BY BRIAN KANTZ the publisher BY BELINDA MOONEY 6 Good Sense Eating 8 Holidays with heart BY CHRISTINE M. PALUmbO, RD his year has been Spend less and savor more this holiday season an enormous tran- BY BY KATHY SENA 10 Lions and Tigers and Teens T sition year for BY MYRNA BETH HAskELL much of our city. High 12 Hollywood Rx for the holidays levels of unemployment, Classic movies to revive weary parents 14 Parents Helping Parents BY SHARON C. PETERS loss of property, property BY CHRISTINA KATZ values and investments have all contributed to a 16 Seasonal minefield 18 Growing Up Online state of unease and uncer- Tips for special needs families navigating the holidays BY CAROLYN JAbs tainty, and people have been revamping their BY REBEccA MCKEE, MSED, BCBA budgets and trying to figure out how to make 28 Our Relationships BY JOAN EmERSON, PhD their dollars stretch further. 20 Affordable child care is possible Continuing to provide for our children and Finding the best care for your child when you’re on 32 Family Health their welfare is every parent’s primary goal, a budget BY DR. PRAMOD NARULA, MD and we sacrifice elsewhere in our lives to make BY CANDI SPARks sure our children are given all they need to 36 Cinematters grow and prosper. 34 PS 3 to the rescue BY LAURA GRAY It’s been a rough year for the many schools When theatre troupe lost its space, school stepped in and businesses that provide education, care and 30 Twice the Advice services for our children. Budgets have been 40 To Facebook or not to Facebook? BY JACQUELINE AND KERRY DONELLI slashed and everyone is trying hard to hold on. Is it ethical for a teacher to ‘friend’ students? Looking ahead to 2011 we cross our fingers BY VERA BORUKHOV 56 It Figures and hope we will return to prosperity and a 42 Autism support BY CYNTHIA WASHAM better economic climate for everyone. Queens group helps families cope with the disorder Personally, I have much to be grateful for. I 60 New & Noteworthy BY MARY CARROLL WININGER have a super teenage daughter who is a dedi- The hottest new products cated student and a thoughtful human being. 44 Bugging out again I have a terrific staff with which to collaborate Greenpoint cartoonist dishes on his new kids book CALENDAR OF EVENTS on work I thoroughly enjoy. I have good health, BY CHUck O’DONNELL loving friends and relations, and an apprecia- 51 Going Places tion of a lot that life has to offer. All this I was 46 Learn the lingo Take the family out and find out what’s taught by my parents and I am trying to pass Tips for parents hoping to communicate with teens going on in your town on this same love of living to my next in line. BY JOANNA DELBUONO That’s what we, as parents, must do. And now, I must thank the wonderful peo- 48 Pee-wee in the ‘house’ SPECIAL SECTION ple I work with who make these magazines Paul Reubens’s TV show hits Broadway 20 Education Directory happen. I want to thank our writers — both BY LISA J. CURTIS staff and freelance — our design people and our distributors. I especially want to thank Tina, Cliff, Linda, On Man, Arthur, Irene, Yvonne, Leah, Vinnie, Nikki, Courtney, Joanna, STAff CONTACT INFORMATION Earl, Patti, Pat and Paul. PUblISHer: Clifford Luster ADVERTISING SALES Address The biggest thank you of all goes to my 718 260-2587 Family Publications New York/CNG partner in effort and intellect and my fondest PUblISHer/MANAGIng edItor: [email protected] or 1 MetroTech Center North collaborator, Sharon Noble. Without her, it Susan Weiss [email protected] 10th Floor Brooklyn, NY 11201 wouldn’t be fun and it wouldn’t be possible. EDItor: Vince DiMiceli CIrcULATIon Happy holidays to all of you. Happy New 718 260-8336 www.webfamilyny.com CreATIve DIrector: Leah Mitch [email protected] Year and thanks for reading! Art DIrector: On Man Tse EDItorIAL 718 260-4551 AdvertISIng SAles: [email protected] Sharon Noble, Linda Smith Brooklyn Family, Queens Family, Bronx/Riverdale Family and Staten Island SPECIAL ASSISTANT: Family are published monthly. Copyright©2010. No part of our contents may Susan Weiss-Voskidis, Publisher Tina Felicetti be reproduced without permission from the publisher. December 2010 • BROOKLYN FAMILY 1 PARENTING “An enchanting ride.” Sensing the holidays — The New York Times Traditions trigger memories for this father s a parent, I want to do every- Dolly Madison ice cream commer- thing I can to make sure that cial that accompanied “A Charlie A my two boys have a memo- Brown Christmas” was a sure sign rable childhood. Memorable in a that the holidays were here. “How good way, of course. Not in a my- the Grinch Stole Christmas,” “Ru- NEWBIE DAD dad-made-me-star-in-“Home dolph, the Red-Nosed Reindeer,” BRIAN KANTZ Alone”-then-squandered-all-of- and “Frosty the Snowman” en- my-earnings way. So, my wife dure to this day . and I take them to interesting places, encourage them to try Hearing different foods, and snap about Two words: Bing Crosby. No a bazillion photos to document album will ever top Bing’s “White our experiences together. Christmas” for direct association Still, for all of the “memorable” with the holidays. In my mind, I stuff that we do, I can’t help but won- can hear Bing singing, “I’m dream- der how much my kids will actually ing…” and my dad singing, “… of a remember. After all, they are only age of the early childhood memories …” and my grandfather singing, “… 6 and 3, and unless you’re Junie B. that do still exist revolve around the white Christmas …” Who doesn’t Jones, it’s kind of tough to write first- holidays and the senses. And I’m love to impersonate the bub-a-dub- grade memoirs with any great detail. making a concerted effort to pass bub sound of der Bingle? I’m 37 and those closets in my brain those memories on to my two sons.