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Contents

2. Super Bowl 11. New Member Shabbat 21. Sisterhood

. 4 Services Education Calendar 22. Environmental Committee 5. From the Pulpit: Rabbi Silverstein 12. Adult Education 23. B'nai Mitzvah 6. From the Pulpit: Rabbi Lucas 14. Development News 24. Tributes & Donations 8. Cantor's Notes 16. Social Worker: Resilience and Refuah 32. Yahrtzeit Donations . 9 CAI Men's Club Blood Drive 18. Night with the NJ Devils 10. Education Matters 19. Men's Club 34. Personals

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Monthly Schedule

Friday, January 3 Shabbat in PJs...... 5:30 pm Erev Shabbat Service...... 4:20 pm Saturday, January 18 Saturday, January 4 Shacharit...... 9:15 am Shacharit...... 9:15 am Mincha/Talmud Study/Maariv/Havdalah...... 4:30 pm Shabbat Meditation...... 9:30 am Friday, January 24 Mincha/Talmud Study/Maariv/Havdalah...... 4:15 pm Erev Shabbat Service ...... 4:45 pm Friday, January 10 Saturday, January 25 Erev Shabbat Service ...... 4:30 pm Shacharit ...... 9:15 am Religious School Shabbat Service and Dinner...... 6 pm Mincha/Talmud Study/Maariv/Havdalah...... 4:40 pm Saturday, January 11 Shacharit...... 9 am Friday, January 31 Erev Shabbat Service ...... 4:50 pm Bar Mitzvah — Yehonatan Ashkenazi...... am Superbowl Shabbat...... 6 pm Mincha/Talmud Study/Maariv/Havdalah ...... 4:25 pm Friday, January 17 Saturday, February 1 Shacharit ...... 9:15 am Erev Shabbat Service...... 4:35 pm Mincha/Talmud Study/Maariv/Havdalah...... 4:50 pm

Candle Lighting Times Daily Services

Friday, January 3...... 4:23 pm Mornings Shababt ends, Saturday, January 4...... 5:33 pm Monday & Thursday...... 6:45 am Tuesday, Wednesday, & Friday...... 7 am Friday, January 10...... 4:30 pm Sunday Talmud Study...... 8:15 am Shabbat ends, Saturday, January 11...... 5:40 pm Sunday Shacharit...... 9 am Friday, January 17...... 4:38 pm Evenings Shabbat ends, Saturday, January 18...... 5:48 pm Sunday-Thursday...... 7:30 pm Friday, January 24...... 4:46 pm Friday (see schedule) Shabbat ends, Saturday, January 25...... 5:56 pm Friday, January 31...... 4:55 pm Saturday Schedule Shabbat ends, Saturday, February 1...... 6:05 pm

Services begin ...... 9:15 am (When B'nei Mitzvah)...... 9 am Torah Study Group...... 9 am Shabbat Meditation (per monthly schedule)...... 9:30 am All program information is Torah Reading Chug (twice a month, ages 9-12)...... 10:15-11 am subject to change. Get up-to-date Torah for Tots (ages 0-4)...... 11 am information at agudath.org Shabbat Friends (twice a month, grades K-2)...... 11 am Jr Congo (grades 3-6)...... 11 am

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4 Congregation Agudath Israel of West Essex From the Pulpit

RABBI ALAN SILVERSTEIN

Abraham Joshua Heschel and Social Justice

Rabbi Abraham Joshua Heschel’s lives,” he declared, “could be yahrtzeit is in January. His memory saved by changing the attitudes inspires us to remember that of Christendom toward the Jewish promoting goodness must be a responsibility for the death of Jesus!” necessary outcome of God’s gift to Heschel’s 1963 Yom Kippur sermon us of human free will. ignited the grassroots movement on Heschel’s spiritual work, his sense of behalf of millions of Jews trapped in “radical amazement, wonder, awe,” the Soviet Union. Heschel fearlessly led him to an active sense of our defended the State of Israel against indebtedness to God. We are in debt its critics. Heschel courageously to God since it was God who brought protested against the Vietnam war us into this world, and God asks of and counseled Jewish conscientious us something in return. objectors.

Why? After all, “God needs Heschel forcefully engaged in humankind.” Why? Because God is Heschel, left, presenting the Judaism and the Civil Rights movement. In intensely caring, suffering when any World Peace Award to Martin Luther King, Jr., 1963, he accepted an invitation human beings are suffering. God December 7, 1965 to address the seminal National feels tormented by the suffering of Conference on Religion and Race the poor, the hungry, the helpless, and the hopeless. convened in Washington by the National Conference of Christians and Jews. Heschel’s address applied the biblical But God expects to have a partner in effecting a remedy. Exodus story to modern times: Pharaoh — in the form God wants us to fulfill our responsibility to battle evil. of racism — is still not ready to capitulate, he said. The Heschel taught that the very essence of being human is to Exodus began 3,000 years ago, but we are still stranded in take “moral responsibility.” For Heschel, just as a pious Jew the desert. Indeed, it was easier for the Israelites to cross must make a “leap of faith,” so, too, must we take a leap the Red Sea, he said, than for men and women of color to into social justice activity. enter many American institutions, colleges, universities, Heschel’s social activism was prompted by his painful and neighborhoods. experiences during the Holocaust. Heschel witnessed At that Civil Rights conference, the keynote speakers — first-hand that people stood on the sidelines and did not Rabbi Heschel and Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. — called out intervene against evil. In 1971, Heschel told a young against the sin of racism. They came to see each other University of Pennsylvania student press reporter — future as kindred moral spirits, friends, and partners. Months JTS chancellor Arnold Eisen — “It is a ‘hillul Hashem,’ a later, they shared the podium at the convention of the profaning of God’s name, when people are silent in the face Conservative movement’s organization, United Synagogue. of evil deeds.” Heschel introduced King as a moral gift to American society In Heschel’s phrasing, the Torah demands “moral and presented him with the Solomon Schechter Award. mysticism,” acts of goodness, of kindness, of self- Dr. King in turn praised Heschel for his moral clarity, which transcendence. In the process, we discover parts of our he likened to that of the prophets of old — calling him better selves. We become a shutaf, a partner with God in “my Rabbi” and “Father Abraham.” Tikkun Olam, in repairing brokenness in our world. In the spring of 1968, only 10 days before he was How did this manifest itself in Heschel’s life? In the early assassinated, at the Rabbinical Assembly convention and 1960s, Heschel was invited to Rome to participate in the celebration of Heschel’s 60th birthday, Dr. King was greeted deliberations of Vatican II, liberalizing Roman Catholicism’s by a thousand Conservative rabbis singing “We Shall view toward the Jews. Heschel felt obligated to travel to Overcome” in Hebrew. Heschel told the RA that Dr. King’s Rome even though it meant he had to remain there for presence was “a sign that God had not forsaken the USA. Rosh Hashanah. Heschel insisted that pikuach nefesh, God has sent him to us. His mission is sacred…. I call upon saving lives, takes precedence above all else. “How many (continued on page 7)

www.agudath.org | JANUARY 2020 5 From the Pulpit

RABBI ARI LUCAS

One Woman’s Journey to Becoming a Rabbi

BY MARGE WISE, CAI RABBINIC INTERN

In the year and a half since Marge Wise joined our In addition to being a behind-the-scenes quasi-clergy community, I have enjoyed getting to know her and learning person, I held many portfolios, including being president for from her as a community member and future colleague. 12 years. People said I kept the doors of the shul open. But You may have met her through her teaching and preaching I didn’t do it alone. I worked with and learned from a great at CAI, but in case you haven’t, she’s shared a little about many people. My unspoken pledge to my husband was to try herself here. I hope you’ll take the opportunity to support to keep the torch — of his life’s work of educating the young her in her rabbinic journey. — Rabbi Ari Lucas and being there for the congregation — burning bright.

From the beginning, I established relationships. I didn’t view It took me a long time to officially embark it as an obligation; for me it was a calling. When Joe became on my rabbinic journey, but I’m grateful that rabbi emeritus in the late 1980s, I went to work as an I finally acted on a yearning that was in my assistant teacher at SAR Academy in the Bronx, continuing heart for decades. to serve the congregation in many volunteer capacities.

My active love affair with Judaism began From 1989 to 2000, I owned a Judaica store with my mother. when I was about 16. USY marked the It provided a supportive work atmosphere as I faced the beginning of my formal attachment to and love for Judaism. challenges of my husband’s worsening illness and of his death A new chapter had formed in my synagogue, and I loved the in 1996, and, three years later, of my mother’s passing. people, the activities, the programs — everything about it. From 2000, I’ve served three synagogues as executive I soon became chapter president, then youth leader, director. then youth director of my synagogue in Queens. Torah Leadership Seminar, sponsored by the Orthodox Regarding my journey to rabbinical school: JTS voting to movement’s NCSY, was also a big factor in my Jewish ordain women, in 1984, had a huge impact on me — but the development. Both USY and TLS were incredible learning time wasn’t right. In 2008, at the urging of a friend who was experiences and a great entry into the beauty of Shabbat, then admissions director, I took a course at the Academy kashrut, mitzvot, and living a full Jewish life. of the Jewish Religion in Yonkers, which was to become my rabbinical school. Then, at the relentless prodding(!) of I went from USY to youth leader/director, all the while other friends, I applied in 2014 as a matriculating student. learning more about Judaism and improving my Hebrew. I’m in my fourth year as a student. I love the learning and growing, and I hope to complete the program for ordination Then, in 1970, I married a rabbi. I “poured myself” into the in 2021. I want to teach, perhaps be an assistant rabbi synagogue; I loved every minute of it, especially teaching and perform life-cycle events, using my training in pastoral adults and kids. A highlight was the first adult bat mitzvah counseling that affords me beautiful connections with class I taught in the ’70s and early ’80s, followed by more people’s neshamot. I want to be there for people in their adult b’nei mitzvah classes and adult education classes, in times of great joy and of profound sadness. I want to make Bible, Hebrew, Jewish philosophy and history, and more. I a difference in people’s lives. I want to bring people closer to love to teach! God, Torah, the treasure that is Judaism. My passion was — and is — doing keruv, reaching out to Fifteen months ago, I moved from the home where I lived anyone willing to be reached out to! To share my love for for decades. I’m happy to be in this wonderful community the traditions of our people, for the beauty of our heritage, and this special and wonderful shul, with wonderful clergy is my life’s work. Mah yafa yerushateinu — How beautiful is and a wonderful kehillah. I’ve made friendships that I our inheritance. cherish. Thank you all for welcoming me so warmly. I hope In the early ’80s, when my husband developed a form of I can give back — both professionally and as a congregant dementia, I took on many responsibilities in the shul. He — for many years to come. was keenly perceptive; he knew he was slipping, but didn’t With gratitude and in friendship, know the extent to which the illness would change his life and the lives of his family, who watched its devastation. Marge Wise

6 Congregation Agudath Israel of West Essex CALDWELL HADASSAH STUDY GROUP ADULT ED TRIP

“Profiles of Israel: TO THE The North” National

Please join Caldwell Chapter of Hadassah for a Museum of video-based presentation about the north of Israel, exploring the terrain, resources, ethnic groups, and American special attractions of this region. No prior knowledge or preparation is needed. Future presentations in the Jewish “Profiles of Israel” series will be “The East” on March History 17 and “The West” on June 2. Sponsored by MARK YOUR CALENDARS AND BOOK YOUR SITTERS! Tuesdays, Jan. 14,7:45 pm Caldwell Chapter in the CAI Adult Lounge of Hadassah, led by Diane Light refreshments will be TRIVIA NIGHT Reidenberg served. All are welcome IS COMING! to attend, free of charge. Questions or RSVP: Diane TO EXPLORE A NEW, SPECIAL EXHIBITION, Reidenberg, Study Group JANUARY 25 AT Chair, at 973-568-2372, or Notorious RBG CONGREGATION AGUDATH ISRAEL [email protected]. THE LIFE AND TIMES OF RUTH BADER GINSBURG DOORS OPEN AT 8:15 PM Sunday, Jan. 5, 2020 TRIVIA BEGINS PROMPTLY AT 9 PM 8 am — approximately 3:30 pm Open to parents of ECC and Elementary school-aged children The first-ever museum retrospective of the Supreme $36 per person, includes snacks, Court Justice-turned-pop-culture-icon, makes desserts, and drinks (beer and wine) its east coast debut at the National Museum of American Jewish History through January 12, 2020. Register early, space is limited. Based on the New York Times best-selling book https://www.agudath.org/ of the same name by Shana Knizhnik and Irin event/trivianight2020 Carmon, the visually rich and entertaining exhibition explores RBG’s legacy through archival photographs and documents, historical artifacts, contemporary art, media stations, and gallery interactives.

Travel to Philadelphia: Bus, subsidized by the Doris R. Werk College Youth Fund, will leave Rabbi Alan Silverstein (continued from page 5) promptly at 8 am from CAI. Cost: $25 per person; first come, first served every Jew to hearken to his voice, to share his vision, to Registration will open soon. follow his way…. His presence is the hope of America.” Open to our Religious School and GOA families Several days after attending the Rev. King’s funeral along (11 years and older), CAI teens, and Adult Ed. Bring a with two younger Jewish activists, the young men turned bag lunch, snack will be provided. Special viewing of to their mentor, Rabbi Heschel, and asked, “What do we RBG documentary will take place on the bus ride. do now?” Heschel responded: “You must teach the next generation, so that they will remake the world.” Learn about the exhibit at www.nmajh.org. Rabbi Alan Silverstein

www.agudath.org | JANUARY 2020 7 Cantor's Notes

CANTOR JOEL CAPLAN

Important News from Israel: Not Rockets. Not Politics. It’s Jazz Flutes!

On Sunday, Jan. 12, 10:45-11:30 am, come to a free concert with “4 Flute Flight,” the high school jazz ensemble from the Thelma Yellin School of Arts in Givatayim, Israel.

The school was founded 45 years ago in memory of Israeli cellist Thelma Bentwich Yellin, who immigrated to Israel in the 1920s from England. It was her dream to establish a high school that would nurture the special talents of artistically gifted students.

It is a national school drawing students from all over the country. Students are offered a rich and challenging academic program with courses in six majors: dance (ballet and modern dance), classical music, jazz, drama, film, and visual arts. All the students matriculate at the end of the 12th grade and are qualified for entrance into all universities, both in Israel and abroad. Bringing the “sounds of modern flute to new heights,” The 4 Flute Flight ensemble 4 Flute Flight is “one of the freshest world-jazz combos was established in 2009 and performing worldwide today.” combines four unique flute voices with an energetic, acoustic rhythm section. It offers a “one- Register for 4 Flute Flight on agudath.org/events. of-a-kind musical mix,” a fusion of Brazilian music and jazz, See you there! Middle Eastern and ’70s fusion hits. The ensemble recorded their debut album, “Touch the Sky,” in 2011. Cantor Joel Caplan

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SUSAN WERK, EDUCATION DIRECTOR

20 Shabbat activities for 2020

In celebration of our calendar change to 2020, I present 20 restful and beneficial ways to engage in Shabbat observance.

1. Unplug and enjoy real face 7. Read a book — one you 14. Research some Shabbat time with loved ones. haven’t read in a long time, customs from other cultures or something new. and try out one or two. 2. Dress up or dress down — whatever suits your mood. 8. Schmooze. 15. Reflect on the week you’ve had. 3. Take long walks (weather 9. Take off your watch, permitting) to appreciate ignore the clocks, enjoy 16. Mix spices in preparation the outdoors; while you’re unpressured time. for Havdalah. out there, hug a tree! 10. Have guests to your home 17. Say the blessings for what 4. Take a nice long nap. for lunch or dinner. you do and eat.

5. Connect your body and 11. Share family history 18. Cultivate an “attitude of spirit with some Shabbat through photos and letters. gratitude.” yoga. 12. Read a magazine or 19. Spend some quality time 6. Find a favorite family recipe, newspaper to learn with God. make it before Shabbat, and something new. while you eat it on Shabbat, 20. C ome to synagogue and Play a (low-tech) board remember the person who 13. enjoy the welcoming warmth game with family members. first made it. of our CAI community.

Two who marched together Rabbi Heschel grew up in a loving family in Poland in a time Abraham Joshua Heschel’s yahrtzeit this year is in January and place that became increasingly unwelcome to Jews. He (see Rabbi Silverstein’s message, page 5), and Martin Luther found a new home in America, where he was a rabbi like King Day is Jan. 20, so “As Good As Anybody: Martin Luther his father, spreading a message of peace and acceptance. King, Jr., and Abraham Joshua Heschel’s Amazing March King put out a call for others to join him in his pursuit of civil toward Freedom” is an ideal book to read during this month. rights for all; Heschel did not hesitate to answer the call.

The Rev. King grew up in a loving “As Good as Anybody” is the story of how these two men, family in the American South, at a both of whom had painful personal experiences with time when many of this country’s discrimination and persecution, formed a remarkable doors were closed to African- friendship and marched together to advance their quest for Americans. He became a Baptist social justice and equal rights for all. minister like his father and preached and waged a nonviolent battle to Enjoy the month, open those doors and further the Susan Werk righteousness of his cause. Education Director

10 Congregation Agudath Israel of West Essex New Member Shabbat! Please join us as we honor our newest members on Saturday, Jan. 4, with a group aliyah. Plan to stay for our congregational Kiddush Luncheon after services where we will have the chance to mingle with our new families as well.

Education Calendar

Wednesday, Jan. 15: EARLY CHILDHOOD CENTER ELEMENTARY SCHOOL TEEN WEEKLY PROGRAM, 6 PM Wednesday, Jan. 1: (GRADES 3-5) Wednesday, Jan. 15: ECC CLOSED Wednesday, Jan. 1: TEEN MONTHLY PROGRAM, 6 PM Sunday, Jan. 12: RELIGIOUS SCHOOL CLOSED Sunday, Jan. 19: AL GALGALIM, 10 AM Sunday, Jan. 5: MINDFUL FUN, 8:30 AM Monday, Jan. 13: SUNDAY MORNING WITH RABBI LUCAS, Sunday, Jan. 19: PUSHCART PLAYERS, 9:30 AM 9:15 AM MITZVAH FAIR, 9:30 AM Friday, Jan. 17: Friday, Jan. 10: Wednesday, Jan. 22: SHABBAT IN PAJAMAS & SWEATS, 5:30 PM RELIGIOUS SCHOOL SHABBAT DINNER, 6 PM TEEN WEEKLY PROGRAM, 6 PM Monday, Jan. 20: Sunday, Jan. 12: Sunday, Jan. 26: ECC CLOSED MINDFUL FUN, 8:30 AM MINDFUL FUN, 8:30 AM Sunday, Jan. 19: MINDFUL FUN, 8:30 AM Wednesday, Jan. 29: PRIMARY (K-2) TEEN WEEKLY PROGRAM, 6 PM Sunday, Jan. 19: Sunday, Jan. 5: MITZVAH FAIR, 9:30 AM SUNDAY MORNING WITH RABBI LUCAS, Sunday, Jan. 26: 9:15 AM TEENS (GRADES 9-12) MINDFUL FUN, 8:30 AM Wednesday, Jan. 8: Friday, Jan. 10: RELIGIOUS SCHOOL SHABBAT DINNER, 6 PM TEEN WEEKLY PROGRAM, 6 PM Tuesday, Jan. 14: Saturday, Jan. 11: MIDDLE SCHOOL (GRADES 6-8) COMMUNITY FOODBANK TRIP, 4 PM BREATHE IN A BLESSING, 11 AM Wednesday, Jan. 1: Wednesday, Jan. 15: Sunday, Jan. 12: RELIGIOUS SCHOOL CLOSED TEEN WEEKLY PROGRAM, 6 PM MONTHLY RELIGIOUS SCHOOL EVENT, 9:30 Sunday, Jan. 5: AM SUNDAY MORNING WITH RABBI LUCAS, Wednesday, Jan. 15: Friday, Jan. 17: 9:15 AM TEEN MONTHLY PROGRAM, 6 PM SHABBAT IN PAJAMAS & SWEATS, 5:30 PM Wednesday, Jan. 8: Sunday, Jan. 19: Saturday, Jan. 18: TEEN WEEKLY PROGRAM, 6 PM MITZVAH FAIR, 9:30 AM SHABBAT WITH FRIENDS, 11 AM Sunday, Jan. 12: Wednesday, Jan. 22: Sunday, Jan. 19: MINDFUL FUN, 8:30 AM TEEN WEEKLY PROGRAM, 6 PM MITZVAH FAIR, 9:30 AM Sunday, Jan. 12: Wednesday, Jan. 29: Saturday, Jan. 25: KADIMA EVENT, 12:30 PM TEEN WEEKLY PROGRAM, 6 PM SHABBAT WITH FRIENDS, 11 AM Tuesday, Jan. 14: COMMUNITY FOODBANK TRIP, 4 PM

All program information is subject to change. Get up-to-date information at agudath.org.

www.agudath.org | JANUARY 2020 11 Adult Education 2020

MONDAYS THURSDAYS

¢ WITH RABBI MICHAEL JAY ¢ WITH RABBI SILVERSTEIN RELATIONSHIPS AND FAMILY DYNAMICS IN THE BIBLE CONTEMPORARY JEWISH THINKERS, MUSICIANS, AND ARTISTS Mondays...... 10-11:30 am Thursdays...... 9:30 am Jan. 6, 13, 27; Feb. 3, 10, 24; March 2, 9, 16, 23, 30; April 6, 20, 27; Jan. 9, 16, 23, 30; Feb. 6, 13, 20; March 5, 12, 19, 26; April 2, May 4, 11, 18 23, 30; May 14, 21 Fee per class: $240, $120 for members Fee: $240, free for members Our forefathers and foremothers were not just holy people. They were real people living real lives. This course will look at ¢ WITH SUSAN WERK the relationships and family dynamics of our biblical families. JEWISH COMEDY AND POP CULTURE: Were the family units strong?... loving?... dysfunctional? Can we learn about ourselves by looking at them? We will read Thursdays ...... 10:30-11:45 am the Torah stories most of us are probably familiar and view Jan. 9, 16, 23, 30; Feb. 6, 13, 20; March 5, 12, 19, 26; April 2, our biblical heroes (even our G-d) in human terms. 23, 30; May 14, 21 Fee: $240, free for members An examination of Jewish topics revealed in contemporary TUESDAYS Israeli and American TV and film productions, with traditional Jewish text supporting our conversations. ¢ WITH NANCY CAPLAN CONVERSATIONAL HEBREW ADVANCED BEGINNER TO INTERMEDIATE LEVEL FRIDAYS Tuesdays...... 9:15-10:15 am ¢ WITH RABBI RICHARD HAMMERMAN TEXT AND COFFEE: TORAH TEXT THROUGH MANY LENSES SIGHING AND SOARING IN THE PSALMS: PART 3 Tuesdays...... 10:30-11:40 am Most Fridays through May 2020...... 7:45 am Beginning with the book of Bamidbar, an exploration of Torah text with an eye toward how it can be interpreted by Check agudath.org/events for dates. Held in the Conference different, sometimes conflicting, approaches: from ancient Room in Toby Shapiro Library Learning and Conference Center. to modern, from Jewish to other religions. ¢ WITH MAX KLEINMAN WHERE AND WHEN: JEWISH LAWS AND CUSTOMS — WHY DO WE DO WHAT WE DO? MONTHLY CURRENT EVENT DISCUSSION Tuesdays...... 12:30-1:30 pm Fridays...... 11:30 am SECOND SEMESTER*: Tuesdays, Jan. 7, 14, 21, 28; Feb. 4, 11, Jan. 10; Mar. 27; Apr. 24; May 15; June 26 25; Mar. 3, 17, 24, 31; Apr. 21, 28; May 5, 12 Held in the Conference Room in Toby Shapiro Library Fee per class: $240, $120 for members Learning and Conference Center. *If you have not yet paid for the second semester, please re-register! ROSH CHODESH WOMEN’S GROUP

In the monthly Rosh Chodesh Women’s WEDNESDAYS Group, participants learn, share, and grow in a safe, loving environment. No ¢ WITH RABBI SILVERSTEIN prior knowledge of Hebrew or Torah needed, just the desire to learn and share with others. Led SELECTED ISSUES ON THE HOLOCAUST by Susan Werk, the group meets at 8 pm in private homes Wednesdays...... 11 am (unless otherwise noted). Jan. 8, 15, 22; Feb. 12, 19; March 4, 11, 18, 25; April 1, 22, 29; SHEVAT: Monday, Jan. 27 (Host: Cindy Goldstein); May 6, 13, 20 Adar: Wednesday, Feb. 26; Nisan, Women’s Seder at CAI: Fee: $240, free for members Wednesday, March 25, 7:45 pm; Iyar: Thursday, May 14 (At CAI with special guest Jordan Katz); Sivan: Tuesday, May 26

12 Congregation Agudath Israel of West Essex Adult Education (continued)

TUESDAY MATINEE AT CAI: JEWISH FILM SERIES CAI SCHOLARLY ADULT JEWISH LEARNING COMMITTEE

“BLAZING SADDLES”: SHABBATON: RUTGERS UNIVERSITY PROFESSOR Tuesday, Jan. 14...... 1 pm GARY RENDSBURG WILL DELIVER THREE LECTURES ON HIS NEW BOOK:“HOW THE BIBLE IS WRITTEN” In this 1974 satirical take on Westerns, directed by Mel Brooks, crafty railroad worker Bart Friday, Jan. 24...... after services (Cleavon Little) becomes the first black sheriff Dinner 5:30 pm ($20/person, registration required); of Rock Ridge, a frontier town about to be Lecture 7 pm destroyed in order to make way for a new railroad. Initially, Saturday, Jan. 25...... after kiddush, 1 pm the people of Rock Ridge harbor a racial bias toward their Lunch ’n’ Learn (registration appreciated) new leader. However, they warm to him after realizing that Sunday, Jan. 26...... 10:30 am Bart and his perpetually drunk gunfighter friend (Gene Lecture (registration appreciated) Wilder) are the only defense against a wave of thugs sent to Lectures are free, open to all (congregants and non-congregants). rid the town of its population. Sponsored by the CAI Scholarly Adult Jewish Learning Committee “THE PAWNBROKER”: Contact: Phil Kruger at [email protected]. Tuesday, Jan. 28...... 1 pm Based on the novel by Edward Lewis Wallant, this BOOK CLUB drama focuses on former professor Sol Nazerman (Rod Steiger), the survivor of a German concentration camp who now runs a pawn shop in East Harlem. AUTHOR SARAH HURWITZ: “HERE ALL ALONG: Having witnessed his family's death at the hands of the Nazis, FINDING MEANING, SPIRITUALITY, AND A he is embittered toward humanity and pushes away anyone DEEPER CONNECTION TO LIFE — IN JUDAISM” around him, including his young Puerto Rican employee, Jesus Thursday, Feb. 6,...... 12:30 pm (Jaime Sanchez). As Nazerman contends with his internal Discussion led by Rabbi Silverstein conflicts, the harsh realities of the city affect his life as well. 1 pm Screening of film followed by congregant-led discussion MOVIE SCREENING

WISE AGING DOCUMENTARY FILM: “SUSTAINABLE NATION” ORIENTATION FOR A NEW COHORT Wednesday, Feb. 5...... 7:45 pm For a full description the film, visit agudath. Tuesday, Jan. 7...... 1:30-3:30 pm org/events or see the CAI Adult Ed brochure. Wise Aging is designed to meet the social, emotional, and spiritual needs of Jewish Sponsored by Adult Ed, the CAI Environmental Committee, and JNF. seekers ages 60-80. Natalie Peck and Debby Miller are trained facilitators who guide this group (limited to 12 people), a national program they have CAI TRIP TO ISRAEL brought to CAI. Participants should be genuinely looking for Congregation Agudath Israel's a transformative experience to bring new meaning in their FAMILY ISRAEL ADVENTURE LED BY Exploring Israel: Food, Art and Social Justice Led by Susan Werk lives and willing to try new practices in that quest. RABBI ARI LUCAS AND SUSAN WERK: AUG. 16-28,October 2020 27–November 7, 2019 View and download itinerary and application at www.israeltour.com/adultai

Wise Aging members engage in reflective work to reach new Your senses will be filled with the life, smells,DISCOUNTED PRICEsounds FOR CHECK PAYMENT andFULL PRICE FOR CREDIT CARD PAYMENT Land Only Package – $3895 Land Only Package – $4050 per person in a double room per person in a double room Land and Air Package – *$5375 Land and Air Package – *$5579 per person in a double room per person in a double room textures of modern Israel, along with an appreciationSingle Room Supplement – $1255 ofSingle Room Supplement – $1295 understandings about their lives, selves, values, and Jewish *Air security and fuel surcharge are subject to change Round trip air: EWR – Tel Aviv – Return Added to the costs above are tips for Guide, Driver, Restaurants, and Porterage – $190 *Air price is subject to change as are fuel and security surcharges our connections to our Jewish roots and biblical**Tour price is based on 20 participants; history. price will increase with less participants and be reduced at 25 or more participants practices. Learning modes include text study, contemplative #Israel is trending #Food #Wine #Art and Social Justice Join Congregation Agudath Adult Israel trip: Tour Old Jaffa, Israeli Art Wing at the Tel Aviv Art Museum, Architectural walking tour Tel Aviv's “White City”, Nachalat Binyamin, Carmel Market, Bohemian Sheinkin Street, graffiti tour of the hip Soho of Israel, Tasting tour of the colorful Levinsky Market. Meet Rabbi Elisha Wolfin, Ein Hod Artists Colony studios and galleries led by a local artist, Druze Arranged by ITC Tours LLC. Contact tour hospitalitymanager at Nora's Kitchen, Tulip Winery in Kfar Tikva,Yafa Maimonides Heritage Center,at Tour of Devorat Hatavor, a silk and and honey listening, mindfulness meditation, exercises, reflection, and farm on Moshav Shadmot Devorah, Hameiri 100 year old Cheese factory, Tour mystical Tzfat's, Tripolitani (Libyan Jewish) culinary experience, Bio-Bee on Kibbutz Sde Eliahu, View Old City of Jerusalem and Temple Mount from Mt. Scopus, Archaeological story of the Western Wall, Russel's Bakery, an artisan, Tasting tour of Machane Yehuda Market, Hebrew Music Museum, Yad Vashem Campus focusing on Holocaust art. Engage in hands on Zedekiah Project, Bilingual Arab-Jewish Hand in Hand School, Wine tasting tour in the Judean Lowlands (Shfelah), First timers options, Traditional Kurdish lunch and Wine tasting and discussion with vintner Shuki journaling. The group will meet regularly to learn, share [email protected] or 973-535-2575. ViewYashuv at the Agur Winery,itinerary Visit Yad Lakashish, Curator tour in the Israelat Museum, Israeli Kabbalat Shabbat in Jerusalem. Your senses will be filled with the life, smells, sounds and textures of modern Israel, along with an appreciation of our connections to our Jewish roots and biblical history. Your experience will be a exciting fantastic, fun-filled spiritual adventure! Come join us! experiences, and acquire skills for making changes that will www.israeltour.com/cai/rlucas/swerk. For additional information please call Susan Werk at 973-226-3600 or email [email protected] or Yafa at [email protected] · ITC Tours LLC at 800-247-7235.

“One does not travel to Jerusalem, one returns.” lead to a deeper sense of well-being. Contact Rabbi Ari Lucas or Susan Werk at 973-226-3600, Contact Susan Werk at [email protected] or 973-226-3600; or email Rabbi Lucas at [email protected] or Susan at visit jewishspirituality.org for more information. [email protected].

All program information is subject to change. Get up-to-date information at agudath.org

www.agudath.org | JANUARY 2020 13 Development News

MICHAEL E. BRESSMAN, DEVELOPMENT DIRECTOR

Emphasizing the Good in Goodbye A special farewell to a special community.

Over the last three years, equals the worthiness of I’ve learned a few things this synagogue. Join with about Congregation I care deeply — as I know you do, too — the clergy, professionals, Agudath Israel. After “about growing CAI’s capacity to thrive. and lay leaders in pursuing serving alongside the continued communal clergy, professional staff, It is a sacred shared responsibility excellence. Here are a few and lay leadership, I to sustain and build on the many traits ideas to help you along the can conclusively say the way: following: that have made it a model community. 1. Continue to define 1. The entire spectrum ” CAI as being greater of Conservative than the sum of its Jewish life is alive and well at CAI. parts. Your approach to success must always incorporate 2. This diverse array of experiences is strengthened the many facets of synagogue life that coalesce to dramatically by charitable giving. form this special community. These include spirituality, education, lifecycle events, bodily and emotional well- 3. There’s always leftover dessert somewhere in being, friendship, service to others, and more. the building. 2. Reaffirm your commitment to supporting the As a Development Director, I couldn’t have asked for synagogue charitably. Your generosity helps maintain more. CAI’s remarkable level of activity across such CAI’s exceptional capacity for blending tradition and a broad portfolio of Jewish opportunities made for an modernity, and for achieving renown without sacrificing inspiring message about the value of philanthropy. (The warmth. free cookies were just an added bonus.) 3. Make the CAI campus your second home. Daven That’s why making the decision to leave CAI was so hard. in the welcoming environs of minyanim and Shabbat When I arrived three years ago, this community wasted morning services. Volunteer in the Main Office; the staff no time before starting to burrow its way deep into my can always use an extra pair of hands. Check out the soul. Those first few weeks were filled with visitors who library and get lost in a book. Visit the Sisterhood Gift came to the office offering friendly greetings, warm Shop and expand your collection of Judaic heirlooms. smiles, and — in some cases — donations to the Annual Deepen your Jewish knowledge by taking classes in the Fund that were intended to help me get started on the Adult Education program. Or just stop by to say hello. right foot. It was then that my own personal affinity for If you do visit CAI, be sure to greet the amazing individuals CAI began to form, slowly at first, working its way into my who work there. Get to know them as both people and pores, then racing through my veins. professionals. Bring coffee when you drop by and they’ll Even as I take the next step on my professional pathway — happily supply the snacks. There’s always a tray of brownies an exciting move into a more senior nonprofit role — I will somewhere in the building waiting to welcome you home. do so in awe of CAI’s amazing vitality, inspiring leadership, Sincerely, and kind heart.

I care deeply — as I know you do, too — about growing CAI’s capacity to thrive. It is a sacred shared responsibility to sustain and build on the many traits that have made it a model community. I urge you, as a stakeholder yourself, Michael E. Bressman to take on this imperative with energy and enthusiasm that Director of Development

14 Congregation Agudath Israel of West Essex MEMBER ENGAGEMENT FREEMEMBERSHIP CONCERT!

APPRECIATION LUNCH WITH DEBBIE AND SUSAN! Knit and crochet for a cause! Be a friend and invite a friend! Thursday, Jan. 9, 11:30 am – 1:30 pm Drop in anytime! Thank you for helping to spread the word about our special community at Congregation Agudath Israel Open to all skill levels. We work together to create and all that we have to offer. goods to donate to organizations that serve people 4 Flute Flight in need. We also accept donations of items you’ve Keep telling your friends, family, and neighbors about already made. If you have hooks, needles, or leftover your positive experiencesSunday, Jan.here. 12, YOU 10:45-11:30 are our most am yarn, please bring them along. successful advertising. This high school jazz ensemble from the Thelma RSVP: Debbie Lurie, [email protected], or YellinA warm School welcome of Arts to in our Givatayim, newest Israelfamilies combines as Caryn Snerson, [email protected]. four unique flute voices with an energetic, acoustic rhythmof September section. 3: It offers a “one-of-a-kind musical mix,”Darron a and fusion Meredith of Brazilian Collins with music Lennox and and jazz, Julian Middle Congregation Agudath Israel | 20 Academy Rd., Eastern and ’70s fusion hits. Bringing the “sounds Caldwell, NJ 07006 | 973-226-3600 | www.agudath.org Meridith Egyes with Lennox and Sabrina of modern flute to new heights,” 4 Flute Flight is Barry and Cheryl Grummer ECC “oneCOMMUNITY of the freshest world-jazz combos performing worldwideJon Gordon andtoday.” Jordana Horn with Zev, Rami, Gabriella, Orli, Aliza, and Yael RegisterLiam Krausz at agudath.org/events.and Lauren Rabner Bryan Niederman with Asher MarcECC and FAMILY Noaa Stoler PROGRAM with Neve and Reece KOSHER COOKING CLASS ECC FAMILY PROGRAM KOSHER COOKING CLASS JeffWelcomingECC and FAMILY Lauri Wactlar PROGRAM with Claire KOSHER COOKING CLASS ForNew information, Babies contact Membership and Cooking Community Relations Coordinator Debbie Lurie at Cooking 973-226-3600,on Shavuot ext. 118, or [email protected]. 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SUSIE FISHBEIN! 6 pm: Services with Susan Werk and Cantor Caplan AND AUTHOR OF THE KOSHER BY DESIGN Sundays, per schedule, 10 am JoinFriday, us Jan.for Shavuot 17, 5:30 services pm: Child-friendly for our annual dinner Spring Monday, Sept. 9, 11 am (please arrive by 10:45 am) Adult Lounge and Conference Rooms. Monday, Sept. 9, 11 am (please arrive by 10:45 am) Social Youth Group led by Adrienne Himmelberger tradition of welcoming new babies to our community. The KitchenCOOKBOOK at Bed Bath SERIES, & Beyond, SUSIE FISHBEIN! Adult6 pm:No LoungeServicescost for theand with dinner. Conference Susan Werk Rooms. and Cantor Caplan The Kitchen at Bed Bath & Beyond, Join our Al Galgalim “Training Wheels” program AllNo ofcost our for families the dinner. with babies (or grandbabies) born 180 Route 10 West, East Hanover RSVP required for planning purposes. Monday, Sept. 9, 11 am (please arrive by 10:45 am) designed for families with Preschool age children. 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All art food facility will be willserved be madeand eaten completely on premises. kosher Theprior www.agudath.org | JANUARY 2020 15 $70 per person. Due to limited space, Please RSVP to Debbie Lurie at 973-226-3600, tobrand-new, the start ofstate-of-the this cooking art class. facility this programwill be is made only open completely to kosher prior ext. 118 or [email protected] Presented CAI members.$70to the per start Register person. of this early Due cooking at to limited class. space, agudath.org/events by Caldwell this program is only open to Hadassah $70 per person. Due to limited space, CAI members. Register early at Presented this program is only open to by Caldwell Congregation Agudath Israel | 20 Academy Rd., agudath.org/events Presented Caldwell, NJ 07006 | 973-226-3600 | www.agudath.org CAI members. Register early at Hadassah Congregationagudath.org/events Agudath Israel | 20 Academy Rd., by Caldwell Caldwell, NJ 07006 | 973-226-3600 | www.agudath.org Hadassah

ANDREA MALMUD, LCSW, JFS ZELLER FAMILY CAI SOCIAL WORKER

Beat the Winter Blues: Shedding Light on Seasonal Sadness

I wish I could take credit for the included the brachah for geshem, awesome alliteration in the title of rain. After I stopped blushing, I this article, but it comes from the heard someone say, kindly “We can website of the National Institutes always use rain.” Actually, it was of Health, where you may find already raining outside, a lot, but I a comprehensive article about was so grateful for their kind words. winter woes at newsinhealth.nih. So let’s do some thought gov/2013/01/beat-winter-blues. substitution. Here we go: What Oy, the Darkness are some nice thoughts we can have when it rains or snows or it’s dark, cold, icy, etc. Hot As I write, the sky is gray, the days are short, our circadian chocolate comes to mind, warm lamplight during the late rhythms have gone meshugah, and our body’s melatonin is afternoon, brisk refreshing feelings in our bodies when in shorter supply. Some of us leave our homes in the dark we step outside, our children and grandchildren in cute and return in the dark. We may feel less inclined (a lot less snowsuits and hats — oy, those cute hats. inclined) to go out for our morning run, or go out altogether. Let’s keep it going. For additional ideas about taking care Everything may seem irritating. We may find ourselves of ourselves, and for differentiating between the blues and saying things that we would not even think in the summer: depression, I encourage you to give a look at the article “Do the kids really need a bedtime story?” “I already mentioned above from NIH. pressed 1, 2, and 5, and I can’t stand it that I still can’t get a live person” (well that might be irritating year round). For additional support/consultation about possible “Why did you/didn’t you ______?!?” (regarding minor depression, give a call to Jewish Family Service or to me. infringements on our sense of peace, traffic). Stay cozy, my friends. The easiest thing to restore our sense of peace might be B’shalom, to “hibernate until spring” but that is impractical for most of us. So I’m going to repeat what has been written many Andrea times before: Let’s try to rethink this. Andrea Malmud LCSW Let’s consider the blessings of winter. I was recently helping JFS/CAI Zeller Family Social Work Consultant to lead the Musaf service at my shul, and I mistakenly [email protected]

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16 Congregation Agudath Israel of West Essex WELLNESS ADVERTISEMENT SUPPORT Music is Good for BeginShabbat ZELLER FAMILY thein StillnessSoul — and Health — JEWISH FAMILY SERVICE at Any Age OF METROWEST As babies, we fell asleep to lullabies. As young children, many of us enjoyed banging on drums and participating in singalongs. Social Worker at CAI ShabbatWhen we got older, Meditation we danced to popular tunes and turned up the volume in the car radio when a favorite song came Questions about aging loved withon. During Karen one’s Frank, retirement RN, Congregational years, there areNurse many reasons to ones, financial pressures, Partnership continue enjoying music. concerns about children? Contact of the Zeller Saturday,From piano Jan. concerts 4, 9:30 to drum am circles, listening to and Andrea Malmud for guidance, Family, Jewish participating in musical activities have been shown to be quite information, referrals, and Family Service Shabbatbeneficial is to the older time adults. for quieting,There is research stepping that backsupports from support. There is no fee, and of MetroWest, the hectic workday world, and entering a time of music’s positive effect on mental and physical health, and its all conversations ware strictly and the Jewish peacefulness and communion with nature and spirit. confidential. value to older people in particular. How many of us can relate Federation to that feeling of well-being as we hum along to a beautiful Begin your Shabbat with meditation. You will feel Andrea Malmud of Greater atune, sense or thatof peace, relaxed tranquility, feeling when and we hearawareness a ballad? that MetroWest NJ will enhance your Shabbat experience. Sessions are 973-226-3600, ext. 143 Listening to music affects our moods, triggers memories, and [email protected] usuallygets us talking held the to each first other. Shabbat It has alsoof each been shownmonth. to reduce pain and recovery time from injury, increase relaxation and lower heart rate, and allow for a better night’s sleep. Music provides motivation when exercising, and dancing to music is Congregation Agudath Israel | 20 Academy Rd., greatCongregation for increasing Agudathmobility. TakingIsrael music | 20 Academylessons at Rd.,an older Caldwell, NJ 07006 | 973-226-3600 | www.agudath.org ageCaldwell, also helps NJ 07006keep minds | 973-226-3600 sharper as well | www.agudath.org(as does a great game of “Name that Tune”). Music helps relieve stress and may sharpen cognition. It’s a big factor in the success of the Music & Memory® program (which has been implemented in the Memory Care Suite at Lester JEWISH SINGLES Senior Living). The American Music Therapy Association cites Elegant studies pointing to music activities providing comfort and relief Independent and Assisted Living to seniors with dementia. is Waiting for you... At the JCHC, our communities offer residents many ways to enjoy You’ll find all the the joys of music, including: warmth of home with hotel-style amenities, • Seminars on jazz greats and classical music luxurious surroundings • Live performances by musicians and singers and delicious glatt kosher* dining. • Musical holiday celebrations *Prepared under the supervision of Vaad • Pr esentations on famous composers and different music NewHaRabonim Jersey of Metrowest Jewish NJ. Singles 45+ genres “WHEREWe also FRIENDSHIPSoffer supportive, BEGIN” individualized dementia care • Drum circles, Kids’ Cookies n’ Concerts performances by in our intimate Memory Care Suite, which is accredited by Comfort Matters®, a nationwide leader in person- area students, and dances Food,directed dementia Fun, care. & Mingle • A ttendance at organization-hosted symphony concerts (New Jersey Symphony Orchestra) GroupTry OurVersion Flexible of Trivia Short-Term with Prizes Respite Stays With elegant surroundings and supportive services for seniors. All of these programs, which are often interactive, are always Sunday, Jan. 19, 2:30 pm at CAI Come join us for a tour with lunch. well attended. They are living proof that music is uplifting for AdmissionFor $10.more RSVPinformation required contact David Rozen everyone in the room—at any age. If you’re an older adult 973-929-2725 or [email protected] looking into a senior living community as your next step along For information and RSVP, contact Sue Grossbard at life’s journey, we encourage you to ask about music programs 903-905 Route 10 East, Whippany, NJ offered. They provide excellent opportunities to socialize as [email protected] or 973-226-3600, • 973-929-2725 ext. 145. you enjoy music with fellow residents, and perhaps discover a All Faiths and Beliefs Welcome new interest or skill in that drumming circle! Owned and managed by the Jewish Community Housing Corporation of Metropolitan NJ

www.agudath.org | JANUARY 2020 17 Open to all congregants and their children

SEND CHECK TO: David Moses, 43 Brian Road, West Caldwell, NJ 07006, or pay at www.paypal.me/caimensclub. QUESTIONS? Contact David Moses at [email protected] or 973-600-6783.

18 Congregation Agudath Israel of West Essex Men's Club

JONATHAN MEHL, PRESIDENT

Men’s Club Is on a Roll

The second annual Men’s Club Ping- and prizes. Please sign up at PayPal.me/ Pong Tournament was awesome, with CAIMensClub. 55 people playing ping-pong and corn The next big event will be the annual hole and enjoying falafel, pizza, sushi, hockey game on Tuesday evening, and spirits. A special thank you to Ofer Feb. 4, when the NJ Devils play the Steinberg and Jared Root for organizing this event. Congratulations to Matthew Montreal Canadiens at the Prudential Atlas for winning the tournament. Center in Newark. This event is open to all CAI members and their families. Men’s Club is strongly committed to Meet at the center at 7 pm. The cost is giving back to CAI and to the entire $40 per person. Please pay at PayPal. community. The annual blood drive me/CAIMensClub or mail a check, will be held on Sunday, Jan 5, 9 am- payable to CAI Men’s Club, to David 1 pm. Please consider giving blood. Matthew Atlas (left) and Ofer Steinberg Moses, 43 Brian Rd., West Caldwell, NJ You may make an appointment using 07006. For more information, contact the following link: donor.cbsblood.org/ David at [email protected] or 973-600-6783. donor/schedules/drive_schedule/49338 We invite you to join us at our great Men’s Club events, to The monthly Men’s Club meeting will be held Tuesday, Jan 7, participate in and help lead activities. For more information, at 7:45 pm. All are welcome. contact president Jonathan Mehl at 201-403-4506 or The revitalized poker tournament will take place on Sunday, [email protected] or vice-president Ari Berman at 646- Jan. 12 at 7 pm. The cost is $20. There will be food, drinks, 369-4610 or [email protected].

WELLNESS SUPPORT

BeginShabbat ZELLER FAMILY in Stillness JEWISH FAMILY SERVICE OF METROWEST

Shabbat Meditation Social Worker at CAI Questions about aging loved with Karen Frank, RN, Congregational Nurse ones, financial pressures, Partnership concerns about children? Contact of the Zeller Saturday, Jan. 4, 9:30 am Andrea Malmud for guidance, Family, Jewish information, referrals, and Family Service Shabbat is the time for quieting, stepping back from support. There is no fee, and of MetroWest, the hectic workday world, and entering a time of all conversations ware strictly and the Jewish peacefulness and communion with nature and spirit. confidential. Federation Begin your Shabbat with meditation. You will feel Andrea Malmud of Greater a sense of peace, tranquility, and awareness that MetroWest NJ will enhance your Shabbat experience. Sessions are 973-226-3600, ext. 143 [email protected] usually held the first Shabbat of each month. Stay in the loop. Follow us on social media.

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New Jersey Jewish Singles 45+ “WHERE FRIENDSHIPS BEGIN” Food, Fun, & Mingle Group Version of Trivia with Prizes Sunday, Jan. 19, 2:30 pm at CAI Admission $10. RSVP required

For information and RSVP, contact Sue Grossbard at [email protected] or 973-226-3600, ext. 145. 20 Congregation Agudath Israel of West Essex Sisterhood

CINDY GOLDSTEIN, PRESIDENT

Make Sisterhood Part of Your Social Network

I’ve seen a bunch of posts on Facebook lately about women wonderfully inspiring and beautiful Sisterhood Shabbat on and our health. The most recent, “Women Should Go Out Nov. 16. Thank you to the 40 women who participated in With Friends Twice a Week for Better Health,” refers to a the service and to the Tov M’od choir, whose members are study led by a psychologist at the University of Oxford, so talented. which reported that women’s overall health and well-being The speaker, Dr. Rachel Rosenthal, a professor of Talmud are improved when they get together with friends twice a at the Jewish Theological Seminary, taught that we cannot week and “do things.” These “things” include any activity in control what happens to us, but we have two choices: “We which women have the opportunity to socialize and laugh can hide, afraid, and claim that we cannot be masters of together. Having a strong social network seems to increase our own fate, or we can raise our hands, without knowing one’s happiness, have a significant impact on physical and if what will follow will be good or bad, but knowing that our emotional health, and may decrease anxiety, bolster the lives will be richer for stepping forward into the unknown.” immune system, and accelerate recovery times. Rabbi Lucas also shared that while he was in the seminary, So — why not make Sisterhood part of your social network? he received a scholarship from Torah Fund, which is a We aren’t suggesting twice a week or even twice a month. project of Women’s League for Conservative Judaism — the Just look over our schedule and come to an event or two — umbrella organization for all the Sisterhood chapters. movie night is coming up on Tuesday, Jan. 7. Come watch the film, have a laugh and a munch. Our annual Mah-Jongg We hope to hear from you. If you are interested in Torah Madness is scheduled for March 29. We are working on Fund, please contact Sharon Hammerman or Cindy other programs, including ax throwing, chocolate making, Schechter. If you want to find out about and/or help and a paid-up membership dinner. Or suggest an event and organize programs, please contact me or any member of consider offering to help run it. the Sisterhood board, which includes Rachel Greenfeld, Donna Franklin, Denise Glatter, and Sasha Koff. Again, many thanks to Sharon Hammerman and Judy Levenstein for their hard work in putting together a Cindy Goldstein

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www.agudath.org | JANUARY 2020 21 Environmental Committee

Tu B’Shevat Is Coming

Tu B’Shevat (the 15th of Besides planting trees, the Shevat), the Jewish New Year of celebration of Tu B’Shevat includes the Trees, is on Feb. 9-10 this taking part in a seder devised in year. It’s my favorite holiday; the 1600s by the kabalists. At this I love the song “Hashkediah festive meal, the fruits of Israel — Porachat,” which includes the chiefly the Seven Species — are lines: “The almond tree is given symbolic meanings; olives, blooming, and the golden sun nuts, figs, dates, raisins, carob, is shining; birds atop each roof barley, wheat, pomegranates, and announce the arrival of the of course wine are among the fare festival. Tu B’Shevat has arrived, you will find at a Tu B’Shevat seder. the Festival of Trees. The land is Almond trees can be grown in crying out; the time of planting

KEN ASHER ARBIT KEN ASHER our area. Why not plant one this has arrived. Each person shall Olive tree in Israel year in honor of Tu B’Shvat! The take a tree; we’ll stride out with trees are small, with fragrant spades.” blossoms that are attractive to bees and provide an excellent Almond trees will not be blooming in Essex County on Tu food source for pollen carriers in early spring. The nuts are B’Shevat, but when I hear the song, I feel the warmth nutritious and taste great. Plant a tree in early spring, and in of the sun, see and smell the fragrant flowers, and am a couple of years you will be harvesting almonds! transported momentarily to the Land of Israel, where the Join us for a Tu B’Shevat seder at CAI on Sunday, Feb. 9, at almond trees are the first to bloom each year. 6 pm; we will participate in some kabalistic traditions, sing Tu B’Shevat is related to agrarian practices mentioned songs, drink wine, eat traditional foods, and learn about trees. in the Mishnah. In the last century, the day became On Wednesday, Feb. 5, we will screen “Sustainable Nation, associated with the JNF and Jews worldwide planting trees Caring for a Water-Starved World.” This new documentary in Israel and people planting by hand in Eretz Yisrael. In shows how solutions developed in Israel regarding the recent years, Tu B’Shevat has become connected with intersection of food, energy, and water help alleviate life- sustainability and environmental awareness, since trees threatening poverty, illness, and lack of opportunity. have a positive impact on many critical environmental issues, including climate change and species extinction. Debbie Arbit

Members of the Environmental Committee were involved in planning the Nov. 13 community Green Fair sponsored by the West Essex Ministerial Association and hosted by the Caldwell Library. Many area congregations had tables, and many community members stopped by the CAI table to learn about the programs we offer, our Hazon Seal of Sustainability, and the actions we are taking to support environmental sustainability. Janet Markman’s award-winning photographs of butterflies and birds were on display for all to see. The opportunity to network with members of other congregations who share our concerns about the environment was wonderful. We discussed the From left: Harriet Sepinwall, Randi Brokman, Janet Markman, Bob Markman possibility of collaborating on future programs.

22 Congregation Agudath Israel of West Essex B'nei Mitzvah

MAZEL TOV! Our B'nei Mitzvah from September 2019 through January 2020

SEPT. 7, 2019 SEPT. 7, 2019 SEPT. 14, 2019 SEPT. 21, 2019 SEPT. 21, 2019 Chloe Zucker Molly Wolf Dylan Fishman Aiden Jonah Haase Evan Krichman Daughter of Daughter of Lori Son of Robin and Son of Judy Rosenberg Son of Michelle and Sharon Zucker and Keith Wolf Nathan Fishman and Randy Haase Drew Krichman

OCT. 12, 2019 OCT. 19, 2019 OCT. 26, 2019 OCT. 26, 2019 NOV. 2, 2019 Jackson Pope Miles Ornstein Ashley and Justin Projansky Hayley Ebner Jordan Orland Son of Stephen and Son of Charles and Daughter and Son of Daughter of Ian and Son of Jodi Orland and Fara Pope Shari Ornstein Robert and Robyn Projansky Bonnie Ebner Jeffrey Orland

NOV. 2, 2019 NOV. 9, 2019 NOV. 16, 2019 NOV. 23, 2019 NOV. 23, 2019 Dylan Michelle Bornstein Ella Hermans Sophia Rosen Jordana Goldstein Corey Rapkin Daughter of Lauren Daughter of Suzanne and Daughter of Julie and Daughter of Cindy and Neil Son of Erin and and Jeffrey Kohlberg Stuart Hermans Brett Rosen Goldstein Jonathan Rapkin and Harris Bornstein

NOT PICTURED

OCT. 12, 2019 Emily Carpenter Daughter of Jolie and Evan Carpenter

NOV. 23, 2019 NOV. 30, 2019 JAN. 11, 2020 OCT. 20, 2019 Skyler Brown Brooke Kupferberg Yehonatan Ashkenazi Emily Dyme Son of Lori and Phil Brown Daughter of Michielle and Son of Yaron Ashkenazi Daughter of Rachel and Joshua Dyme Jason Kupferberg and Ariella Rosansky

www.agudath.org | JANUARY 2020 23 Tributes & Donations

THROUGH NOVEMBER 15, 2019

We gratefully acknowledge all who generously support In memory of Arthur Mankin’s wife, and Teddi Congregation Agudath Israel’s many programs by Dolph’s mother, Barbara Mankin remembering and honoring friends and loved ones. Judy Levenstein and Phil Kruger Donations can be made on our website, www.agudath. In memory of Arthur Bocian’s brother, Neal Bocian org, or by sending a check to the synagogue office. If you Harvey and Jeanette Hershkowitz would like to send out a tribute card or have any questions, please contact Allison Robinson, member services assistant, THE CAI - SUSAN WERK’S SPECIAL FUND at 973-226-3600, ext. 110, or [email protected]. Marlene Sackheim In honor of the wedding of Abby Meth Kanter and Randy MEMORIAL PLAQUES Kanter’s daughter, Miriam, and Steve Kanaplue IN MEMORY OF: Friends at NJJN Manny Eijadi, from his sister, Mahin Mikail, and niece, In honor of Miles Ornstein’s Bar Mitzvah Valantina Hedvat Stu, Alison, Eli, and Noah Rosenthal Rhoda Stern, from her husband, Merrill Stern In memory of Alison Frost’s brother, Robert Bluh Eli Hochman, from his daughter and son-in-law, Lisa Hochman and Alison, Lee, Maxx, Lexi, and Carlye Frost Marc Rudoltz Ellen Spector, from her daughter and son-in-law, Michielle and In memory of Tal Wolf’s grandfather, and Sara, Jonathan, Jason Kupferberg and Noam Wolf’s great-grandfather, Shimon Wenger The Kitchner Family THE ANNUAL FUND In honor of the marriage of Lynda and Craig THE CAI TRIBUTE FUND Brown’s son, Corey, and Joanna Naomi and Sam Adelberg Joan Bronspiegel and Stuart Dickman In honor of Gayle and Larry Wieseneck Benjamin Lehrhoff THE BARRY ROZMAN TECHNOLOGY FUND In honor of his Aliyah In honor of the birth of Margie Rozman’s Martin Aronoff granddaughter, Lola Olivia Nigra In honor of Christine Goldberg Joan Bronspiegel and Stuart Dickman Rebecca Glass and Derek Fields Margie Rozman In honor of Derek Fields’ birthday In memory of Jill White Melissa and Jonathan Kitchner Margie, Aliza and Tom, Dani and Manuela, and Avi Rozman Marge Wise Joan Bronspiegel and Stuart Dickman THE CAI SCHOLARLY ADULT JEWISH LEARNING FUND Ari and Rebecca Berman In honor of Harriet Sepinwall In honor of Derek Fields’ birthday Ann and Seth Leeb Iris Bashi In memory of Beatrice Taubenfeld’s husband, Isaac Taubenfeld’s brother, Lois Gebeloff’s brother-in- Judy Salomon law, Amy Burke and Judith Gould’s uncle, and Emma In memory of Susan and Steven Eisen’s Burke’s great-uncle, Nathan “Nat” Taubenfeld grandson, Ronen Eliezer Labovitz Phyllis and Barry Bochner Judy Levenstein and Phil Kruger In memory of Susan and Steven Eisen’s grandson, Ronen Eliezer Labovitz Alice Mikulak Tribute Cards In memory of Cantor Caplan’s father, Dr. Richard Caplan Custom-printed tribute cards can be sent out from our Phyllis and Barry Bochner office. Donations can be in any denomination above In memory of David Saginaw’s mother, Sally Saginaw $10. We also offer the option of purchasing a packet Phyllis and Barry Bochner of five cards for $40, which you can send out yourself. In memory of Sherri Rosen’s father, Robert Goldsmith, Member services assistant Allison Robinson can assist and Allen Rosen’s father, Murray Rosen you. Please contact her at [email protected], 973-226-3600, ext. 110. Elaine and Stuart Berger Mady and David Koenig

24 Congregation Agudath Israel of West Essex Irma and Peter Berman SHABBATON ISRAEL WALKATHON Blanche and Irwin Lerner In memory of Jeanette Feinstein Larry and Michele Raiken RUTGERS UNIVERSITY In memory of Regina Katsova PROFESSOR Katya and Daniel Levine In memory of Ronna Sherman’s father, Leo Shearer Gary Marianne and Larry Shulman Lois and Stuart Shulruff Rendsburg In memory of Michael Liebert’s mother, Jacqueline Liebert PRESENTING THREE Hyman Fisher LECTURES ON Irving and Dahlia Peyser HIS NEW BOOK: In memory of Arthur Bocian’s brother, Neal Bocian 18TH ANNUAL Stuart and Debbie Rabner “How the Bible is Written” Anita and Ed Finkel Israel Walkathon at CAI! In memory of Lois Jacobs’ mother, Selma Fishman Friday, Jan. 24, (after services): Dinner 5:30 pm Sunday, October 27, 2019 Lois and Stuart Shulruff ($20/person, registration required); Lecture 7 pm Registration 10 am, Walk 10:30 am – noon, THE CANTOR’S DISCRETIONARY FUND Saturday, Jan. 25, (after kiddush): Lunch ’n’ Learn “Kiddush” following In honor of Cantor Caplan 1 pm (registration appreciated) Marge Wise WALK STARTS AND ENDS AT CAI Sunday, Jan. 26, 10:30 am: Lecture DOGS AND STROLLERS WELCOME!! In honor of Evan Krichman’s Bar Mitzvah Sponsored (registration appreciated) Drew and Michelle Krichman by the CAI Young children’s walk: From 10:30 till noon there In honor of Ashrey Choir Lectures are free and open to all Scholarly will be supervised activities available, including a Marji and Norman Feinstein short walk around the block or building, for young (congregants and non-congregants). Adult Jewish In honor of Dylan Bornstein’s Bat Mitzvah children who don’t plan to walk (or stroll). Register at agudath.org/events. Learning Richard and Jill Lichtig Contact: Phil Kruger at Committee Helaine and Richard French Find updates and donate online at agudath.org. [email protected] In memory of Alison Frost’s brother, Robert Bluh Alison, Lee, Maxx, Lexi, and Carlye Frost In memory of Cantor Caplan’s father, Dr. Richard Caplan Congregation Agudath Israel | 20 Academy Rd., Marcia Schoppig Caldwell, NJ 07006 | 973-226-3600 | www.agudath.org Lucille Zonis Renee and Joel Caplan Sharon, Chuck, Michael, and Sam Diamond THE ECC EDUCATIONAL ENHANCEMENT FUND Roxanne Cinnamon In honor of the birth of Alla Tolpin’s granddaughter, Sara Elizabeth Glenn and Laura Sacks Beth and Stuart Sackman In memory of Robert Weinstein’s mother, and Harvey In honor of Emily Carpenter’s Bat Mitzvah Zeller and Lori Etkin’s aunt, Renee Weinstein Carol and Marc Berman and Family Robert and Julia Weinstein In honor of Emily Dyme’s Bat Mitzvah In memory of Pia Gutierrez’s father, Alberto Gutierrez The Castro-Halper Family Pia Gutierrez In memory of Susan and Steven Eisen’s In memory of Shimshon Miller grandson, Ronen Eliezer Labovitz Rabbi Clifford and Debby Miller Alix Rubin and David Grossman In memory of Geula Zamist’s mother-in-law, Beatrice Zamist THE CHEVRA KADISHA FUND Michelle and Carl Schaerf In honor of Derek Fields’ birthday Erica and Gregory Filosa Hope and Paul Aronoff Lori and Hal Wolfson In memory of Derek Fields’ mother, Barbara Fields Jill and George Rakotci Alexis Gruber, Matt Fischer, and Family Gerry Resnick, and Tim, Elle, and Maya Pedergnana Anita and Ed Finkel THE DORIS R. WERK COLLEGE YOUTH FUND Kevin, Jackie, Julia, and Ethan Haney In honor of Sophia Rosen’s Bat Mitzvah Irma and Peter Berman Congregation Agudath Israel | 20 Academy Rd., Congregation Agudath Israel | 20 Academy Rd., Ann, Seth, and Mora Leeb Debby and Jim Schenkel Caldwell, NJ 07006 | 973-226-3600 | www.agudath.org Caldwell, NJ 07006 | 973-226-3600 | www.agudath.org

www.agudath.org | JANUARY 2020 25 Congregation Agudath Israel | 20 Academy Rd., Caldwell, NJ 07006 | 973-226-3600 | www.agudath.org Tributes & Donations (continued) THE FERTEL FAMILY FUND In honor of the Caldwell United Methodist Church Bonnie and Richard Fertel and Family Liza and Liad Amir WELLNESS SUPPORT In memory of Arthur Bocian’s brother, Neal Bocian The Farkas Family The Holzberg Family Bonnie and Richard Fertel Carol and Marc Berman THE GENERATION TO GENERATION FUND BeginShabbat Danielle and Scott ZELLERWormser FAMILY In honor of the marriage of Lynda and Craig Lauren and SamuelJEWISH Kestenbaum FAMILY SERVICE in Stillness Brown’s son, Corey, and Joanna Beth and Stuart SackmanOF METROWEST Rachel, Keith, Ella, Hayden, and Brody Schultz Ann and Seth Leeb Robin Beckerman In honor of the birth of Sue and Donald SocialLeigh and Daniel Worker Lampert at CAI Weinberger’s granddaughter, Hallel Shabbat Meditation Deena, Idan, Eliana, and Max Keren Elliot and Susan Stupak QuestionsFelice and Artabout Nichols aging loved In honor of the engagement of Amy and Alexander with Karen Frank, RN, Congregational Nurse ones,Debbie, financial Scott, Eliana, pressures, and Talia Rosen Partnership Glickman’s daughter, Sammy, to Danny concernsMarlene Sheldon about children? Contact of the Zeller Susie, Howard, Jolie, Zach, and Max Bruch Saturday, Jan. 4, 9:30 am AndreaAlison, Stu,Malmud Eli, and for Noah guidance, Rosenthal Family, Jewish In honor of Robert Max’s third Bar Mitzvah information,The CAI Board referrals, of Trustees and Family Service Hilary and Howard Rabner Shabbat is the time for quieting, stepping back from Dawn Lee support. There is no fee, and of MetroWest, In memory of Allen Rosen’s father, Murray Rosen, and the hectic workday world, and entering a time of Jessica Pablo all conversations ware strictly and the Jewish Sherri Rosen’s father, Robert Goldsmith peacefulness and communion with nature and spirit. Sally Fineman confidential. Sue and Seth Udasin Marcy and Marshall Pollack Federation Begin your Shabbat with meditation. You will feel Lynda and Craig Brown AndreaThe ECC Malmud Board of Greater a sense of peace, tranquility, and awareness that In memory of Susan and Steven Eisen’s MetroWest NJ will enhance your Shabbat experience. Sessions are 973-226-3600,In memory of Tal Wolf’s ext. grandfather, 143 and Sara, Jonathan, grandson, Ronen Eliezer Labovitz [email protected] Noam Wolf’s great-grandfather, Shimon Wenger usually held the first Shabbat of each month. Joan Bronspiegel and Stuart Dickman Kevin, Jackie, Julia, and Ethan Haney Liza and Liad Amir THE GEORGE & MOLLY KAPLAN CARING FUND Beth and Stuart Sackman Congregation Agudath Israel | 20 Academy Rd., In honor of Maida and David Richlin’s new home Congregation Agudath Israel | 20 Academy Rd., Art and Felice Nichols Caldwell, NJ 07006 | 973-226-3600 | www.agudath.org Barbara Sebiri Caldwell, NJ 07006 | 973-226-3600 | www.agudath.org Marlene Sheldon In memory of Stan Siegel Naomi and Gerry Eisenberger In memory of John Youderian’s mother, Frances Youderian Arlene and Mel Berkowitz JEWISH SINGLES In memory of Robert Weinstein’s mother, and Harvey Zeller and Lori Etkin’s aunt, Renee Weinstein Arlene and Mel Berkowitz

THE JEREMY SAVITZ MUSIC EDUCATION FUND In memory of Ed Finkel’s mother, Dorothy Bayard Finkel Alexis Gruber, Matt Fischer, and Family

THE JERRY SEPINWALL JEWISH ENVIRONMENTAL FUND In honor of Harriet Sepinwall New Jersey Jewish Singles 45+ Nogah and Bruce Revesz Freda and Andy Attinson “WHERE FRIENDSHIPS BEGIN” The Wieseneck/Shapiro Family Karen and Ted Eisenberg Food, Fun, & Mingle Gail and Max Kleinman Margie Rozman and Family Group Version of Trivia with Prizes Sunday, Jan. 19, 2:30 pm at CAI THE KIDDUSH SPONSORS Admission $10. RSVP required The CAI Sisterhood In honor of the B’nei Mitzvah of Justin and Ashley For information and RSVP, contact Sue Grossbard at Robyn and Robert Projansky In honor of Jordan’s Bar Mitzvah [email protected] or 973-226-3600, ext. 145. The Orland Family

26 Congregation Agudath Israel of West Essex THE KIDDUSH CONTRIBUTORS In memory of Norma Moglen and celebrating the In honor of Josh Goldberg on his 16th wedding of his granddaughter, Melissa, to Nick birthday and Bar Mitzvah anniversary Sol Moglen Christine and Jeff Goldberg In memory of Ira’s parents, Marion and Charles In honor of the 18th year of the Israel Walk Cohen and his grandmother, Gussie Kantor In honor of their leaving for Israel on Golda Greta and Ira Cohen Och Academy’s Na’ale trip In memory of Marsha’s father, Louis Nathanson The families of Sophie Fischer, Sara Feinseth and Alec Stein Michael and Marsha Messer In honor of Jordan Orland’s Bar Mitzvah In memory of her uncle, Paul Skolnick Richard Tancer and Margaret Karcnik Dana Ben-Avi and family In honor of Joseph Werk’s third year of being a Caldwell resident In memory of Nogah’s brother, David Bar-Illan Susan Werk Bruce and Nogah Revesz In honor of her husband Steve’s birthday and in In memory of Carol and Arthur’s father, Edward Franklin memory of Steve’s father, Lester Alberts Carol Morman, Arthur and Donna Franklin Edna Alberts In memory of Nancy’s mother, Eleanor Gorodetzer In honor of the Aufruf of Sean Vader and Andie Lowenstein Nancy Caplan and Cantor Joel Caplan The Vader and Lowenstein families In memory of Debra’s mother, Toby Knopf, and In honor of his wonderful wife, Harriet Sepinwall, being named a Seth’s father, Harry Weisleder CAI Mitzvah Hero for her contribution to Holocaust education Debra and Seth Weisleder Jeffrey Rosenberg In memory of her loving husband, Herman Savitz In honor of Sophia’s Bat Mitzvah Renee Savitz Julie and Brett Rosen In memory of Richard’s mother, Ruth Tancer, grandfather, In honor of Skyler’s reading Torah this Shabbat Morris Greenblatt, and uncle, Arnold Greenblatt and his Bar Mitzvah next week Richard Tancer and Margaret Karcnik Lori and Philip Brown THE KIDDUSH FUND In honor of his amazing achievement, bike riding 350 miles over 5 days in the HAZON Israel Ride In memory of Robert Weinstein’s mother, and Harvey Zeller and Lori Etkin’s aunt, Renee Weinstein Stu Schneck’s U.S. Cheerleaders In memory of Kelly’s mother, Sybil Shack, and to Annette and Joseph Fine wish their grandson Austin, a speedy recovery Kelly and Jerry Lustig Kelly and Jerry Lustig THE MARA GODFREY FAMILY ENGAGEMENT FUND In memory of Diane’s father, Dr. Stanley Lipson In honor of Emily Dyme’s Bat Mitzvah Diane and David Reidenberg Ann, Seth, and Mora Leeb

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www.agudath.org | JANUARY 2020 27 Tributes & Donations (continued) Gila and Bruce Kriegel Christine, Jeff, and Josh Goldberg Diane and Alan Gerberg In memory of David Reinstein Jolie Singer Glenn Godfrey Marsha and Michael Messer In memory of Susan and Steven Eisen’s THE MARTHA & SOL ROGOFF CHILDREN’S ACTIVITY FUND grandson, Ronen Eliezer Labovitz In memory of Geula Zamist’s mother-in-law, Beatrice Zamist Stuart and Deborah Rabner Ted and Karen Eisenberg In memory of Alexis Gruber’s grandmother, Hilda Manello Christine, Jeff, and Josh Goldberg THE MORTGAGE FUND In honor of the marriage of Esther and Harry Kartus’ son THE PERL FAMILY ISRAEL EXPERIENCE FUND Jean Stoloff In honor of the marriage of Hope and Paul In honor of the Bar Mitzvah of Rabbi Alan Aronoff’s son, Toren, and Ella Tesler and Rita Silverstein’s grandson, Ezra Alexis Gruber, Matt Fischer, and Family Jean Stoloff In memory of Michael Liebert’s mother, Jacqueline Liebert THE PRAYER BOOK FUND Jean Stoloff In memory of Ronna Sherman’s father, Leo Shearer In memory of Susan and Steven Eisen’s Judy and Adam Schlesinger grandson, Ronen Eliezer Labovitz RABBI LUCAS’ DISCRETIONARY FUND Jean Stoloff In memory of Beatrice Taubenfeld’s husband, Isaac In honor of Rabbi Lucas Taubenfeld’s brother, Lois Gebeloff’s brother-in- Helen and Ron Maxman law, Amy Burke and Judith Gould’s uncle, and Emma Marge Wise Burke’s great-uncle, Nathan “Nat” Taubenfeld In honor of Derek Fields’ birthday Jean Stoloff Marc Rudoltz and Lisa Hochman In honor of the baby naming of Kira Agnes Sobel THE NAT AND BEA TAUBENFELD FUND Melissa and Eric Sobel In memory of Beatrice Taubenfeld’s husband, Isaac In honor of Marge Wise Taubenfeld’s brother, Lois Gebeloff’s brother-in- law, Amy Burke and Judith Gould’s uncle, and Emma Chaverah: Helaine and Michael Mund, Renee and Joel Reiser, Burke’s great-uncle, Nathan “Nat” Taubenfeld Judy Fabricant and Rabbi David Saltzman, Bonnie and Sheldon Cytron, Seena and Arthur Pajonk, and Susan and Rubin Bedell Evan and Mindy Blum In memory of Beatrice Taubenfeld’s husband, Isaac Stuart and Deborah Rabner Taubenfeld’s brother, Lois Gebeloff’s brother-in- Sheila Nathanson and Family law, Amy Burke and Judith Gould’s uncle, and Emma Alice Mikulak Burke’s great-uncle, Nathan “Nat” Taubenfeld Lynn Kaden Carol Lintz Richmond Carol Cathey In memory of Susan and Steven Eisen’s Eric Stone grandson, Ronen Eliezer Labovitz Barbara and Michael Erlichman Carol Lintz Richmond Alexis Gruber, Matt Fischer, and Family Blanche and Irwin Lerner In memory of Alison Frost’s brother, Robert Bluh Lucille Zonis Alison, Lee, Maxx, Lexi, and Carlye Frost Alison and Stuart Rosenthal In memory of Alfred Selnick Alix Rubin and David Grossman Joan and Myron Freling Dean Konner Ron and Evelyn Lang RABBI SILVERSTEIN’S DISCRETIONARY FUND Merrill Stern Marty Schenker In honor of Rabbi Silverstein Marge Wise Need Help with Your Mitzvah Project? In honor of Burt Henry If you are working on a project and would like to David and Lois Dranikoff publicize it to gain support from the congregation, In honor of Harriet Sepinwall email a description of your project (in 50-75 Norman and Marjorie Feinstein words), and the type of support you need, to In memory of Alison Frost’s brother, Robert Bluh [email protected]. Alison, Lee, Maxx, Lexi, and Carlye Frost

28 Congregation Agudath Israel of West Essex In memory of Jean Thomas ED DEPARTMENT AND ADULT EDUCATION Phyllis Novick CAI ENVIRONMENTAL COMMITTEE In memory of Fulton William (Rusty) Sandler Stephen Sandler, DDS In memory of Arthur Bocian’s brother, Neal Bocian COMING WELLNESS SUPPORT The Rozman Family IN SPRING!

THE REISER CHILDREN’S CHOIR FUND In memory of Cantor Caplan’s father, Dr. Richard Caplan BeginShabbat ZELLERJewish FAMILY Artist Alexis Gruber, Matt Fischer, and Family in Stillness JEWISH FAMILY SERVICE In memory of David Sumka’s father, Malvin Sumka OF METROWESTSeries by Alexis Gruber, Matt Fischer, and Family Margie Samuels THE ROSLYN HOFFER EDUCATION FUND Social Worker at CAI In memory of Ronna Sherman’s father, Leo Shearer Shabbat Meditation This series of four classes will introduce four Karen and Jeremy Glaser Intergenerational Questionsprominent aboutJewish aging artists loved in the fine arts world: with Karen Frank, RN, Congregational Nurse ones,Marc Chagal,financial Amadeo pressures, Mondigliano, WassilyPartnership SISTERHOOD Tu B’Shevat Seder concernsKandinks, about and Yaacov children? Agam. Contact Each weekof wethe Zeller In honor of Judy Levenstein Saturday, Jan. 4, 9:30 am Andreawill cover Malmud the life, for style, guidance, and paintings ofFamily, one of Jewish these artists and their importance in the world Barbara Levenstein and Larry Silva Sunday, Feb. 9, 6-7:30 pm information, referrals, and Family Service of art. During the class, students will do their ShabbatAdults $15, is the Children time for 5-12 quieting, $10, under stepping 5 free back from support. There is no fee, and of MetroWest, THE SYDNEY GROSS TEEN MITZVAH FUND the hectic workday world, and entering a time of own art projects in that artist’s style. Classes all conversations ware strictly and the Jewish In honor of the engagement of Daren and Wepeacefulness will participate and incommunion some Kabbalistic with nature and spirit. confidential.may include watercolors, acrylic paints, oil Jane Silverstein’s daughter, Jen traditions, sing, drink some wine, eat pastels and collage. No previous experienceFederation Begin your Shabbat with meditation. You will feel traditional foods like nuts and fruits from the Andreawith drawing Malmud or painting is necessary. of Greater Alison and Lee Frost a sense of peace, tranquility, and awareness that seven species, and learn about trees, forests, MetroWest NJ In honor of Jacob Karpen’s engagement will enhance your Shabbat experience. Sessions are 973-226-3600,Fee: Series $40 for ext. CAI 143 members, and planting. Environmental-friendly dinner. Alison and Lee Frost usually held the first Shabbat of each month. [email protected]$80 for non-members In honor of Sydney’s engagement Register at agudath.org/events. Alison and Lee Frost Registration will open in February. In honor of Nikki and KJ’s marriage Congregation Agudath Israel | 20 Academy Rd., Congregation Agudath Israel | 20 Academy Rd., The Frost Family Caldwell, NJ 07006 | 973-226-3600 | www.agudath.org Caldwell, NJ 07006 | 973-226-3600 | www.agudath.org In memory of Allen Rosen’s father, Murray Rosen, and Sherri Rosen’s father, Robert Goldsmith Lori Duckstein Alison and Lee Frost In memory of Howard Goldstein’s stepmom JEWISH SINGLES Alison, Lee, Maxx, Lexi, and Carlye Frost THE TEEN BUDDY PROGRAM In memory of Shari and Glenn Gray’s father Steven and Elisa Sandler Alison and Lee Frost THE TOBY SHAPIRO FUND In memory of Mitch Broder’s mother, Rita Broder In honor of Gayle Wieseneck Alison and Lee Frost Marni and Bill Cohen In memory of David Bierman’s father Alison, Lee, Maxx, Lexi, and Carlye Frost THE YAHRZEIT FUND In memory of Ellen Golden’s mother, Trudy In memory of Irving Ritch Alison, Lee, Maxx, Lexi, and Carlye Frost Scott Ritch New Jersey Jewish Singles 45+ “WHERE FRIENDSHIPS BEGIN”

Is Your Contribution Missing? Food, Fun, & Mingle Sometimes we receive contributions after deadline. Sometimes there is a clerical error. Please let us know if you Group Version of Trivia with Prizes are looking for a listing that is absent. We will make sure it appears the following month. And we apologize for Sunday, Jan. 19, 2:30 pm at CAI any oversights. you. Please contact her at [email protected], 973-226-3600, ext. 110. Admission $10. RSVP required

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AS OF NOVEMBER 27, 2019

Betty Aron from Miriam Block Mara Godfrey from Roberta Mulkowsky Gloria Bauer from Harvey Hershkowitz Jack Goldberg from Elaine Blank Norma Bernstein from Ruth Percely Martin Goldberg from Jeff Goldberg Stanley Block from Matthew Block Louis Golden from Bert Golden Irving Brookman from Selma Brookman Selma Hirsch Gordon from Nina Wasserman MaryAnn Budd from Eileen Fishman Eleanor Gorodetzer from Cantor Joel Caplan and Nancy Caplan Gerald W. Burg from Howard and Anne Burg Lola M. Gottfried from Margie Rozman Meyer Burgstein from Diane Sklar Seymour Graifman from Jill Cash Adele Chalfin from Marjorie and Norman Feinstein Herbert Grossman from Robin Mangino and Family Morris Chiaet from Steve Chiaet Alberto Gutierrez from Pia Gutierrez Harry Cohen from Leonard Cohen Pauline Gutterman from Margie Samuels Morris Cohen from Robin Goldman Jerome Haberman from Jess Haberman Sybil Cohen from Jack Rosenkranz Helen Heller from Karen Sandler Zelda Cohen from Robin Goldman David Hershkowitz from Harvey Hershkowitz Leah Cytron from Bonnie and Sheldon Cytron Jules Horn from Matthew Horn Max David Cytron from Bonnie and Sheldon Cytron Jules Horn from Maida Richlin Edgar Daniel from Robert Daniel Harry I. Jacobs from Judi Jacobs Sol Danoff from David Danoff Sadye Silversteen Jacobs from Judi Jacobs Dr. Harold Darwin from Felice and Art Nichols Scott Harris Kaplan from Marc, Ellen and Wendi Kaplan Judy Davis from Mindy Blum Joan Konner Kass from Elizabeth D. Kass Emily Duffy from Steve Sandler Joan Konner Kass from Mayer Kass Dina Elmowitz from Marvin Elmowitz Hyman Kaufman from Larry and Collene Stout Lester Etkin from Lori and Mickey Etkin Joel Kaufman from Larry and Collene Stout Maurice Feinberg from Arnold Feinberg Sarah Kaufman from Larry and Collene Stout Herman Feinblum from Hillary and Robert Prince Benjamin Krell from Bert Golden Mickey Fried from Paula Saginaw Morris H. Kruger from Ann Leeb Mara Godfrey from Glenn Godfrey Beverly Levin from Suzanne Jacobs

Rabbi Silverstein, Rabbi Lucas, and Cantor Caplan would like to reach out to our community members in need. Please call Debbie Lurie, ext. 118, or Meryl Natter, ext. 115, if a loved one or friend is ill and/or hospitalized.

32 Congregation Agudath Israel of West Essex Burton Lewis from Steven Lewis Leonard Rubin from Denise Rubin Glatter

Morris Light from Zena L. Lisa Sidney Shapiro from Roy Shapiro and Gayle Wieseneck

Sol Lourie from Gwen Lourie Evelyn Schreck from Bonnie and Sheldon Cytron

Leon Majzner from Israel and Linda Majzner Avram Shlizerman from Jeff and Jane Veksler

Joseph Mankin from Arthur Mankin Elsie Shupack from Ivy Brown Louis S. Milefsky from Ruth Percely Shirley Silver from Barbara Erlichman Shimshon Miller from Rabbi Clifford and Dr. Deborah Miller Abe Spiegel from Esta Edelman Arthur M. Percely from Ruth Percely Barbara Luchans Stein from Leslie and Lee Lloyd Claire Pomerantz from Bonnie and Sheldon Cytron Esther Stern from Merrill Stern George Pomerantz from Bonnie and Sheldon Cytron Sarah Stout from Larry and Collene Stout Martin Prince from Mitchel Prince Zoe Stout from Larry and Collene Stout William Rachelson from Margie Samuels Arthur Taylor from Eric Edelstein Abraham Rauchberg from Dr. and Mrs. Joel Rauchberg Jean Thomas from Phyllis Novick Irving Ritch from Scott Ritch Emanuel Rosenbluth from Hillary and Robert Prince Helen Tiersten from Bonnie and Sheldon Cytron Saul Rosenkranz from Jack Rosenkranz Joseph Veksler from Jeff and Jane Veksler Sarah Rosenthal from Irene Blumberg Bernard Weinberger from Donald Weinberger Bernice Rozman from Margie Rozman Szyja Werk from Joseph Werk

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Serving the Congregation over Decades

Anita Finkel 973-845-2626

973.810.0110 Keith Marlowe hwcg.com/south-orange 973-533-9114 Rabbi Richard Hammerman Local Professional Staff and 973-287-3455 Arthur Franklin Anita Finkel Licensed Caregivers for all of 973-228-2033 973-845-2626 Your Home Care Needs Mel Berkowitz Keith Marlowe 973-226-8623 973-533-9114 • Hourly or live-in care in your home or residence Steven Eisen Rabbi Richard • Long term care or post rehab 973-602-9091 Hammerman assistance 973-287-3455 • All caregivers are state-certified & background checked [email protected]

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www.agudath.org | JANUARY 2020 33 Personals

THROUGH DECEMBER 9, 2019

MAZEL TOV TO:

Amy Borg Glickman and Alex Glickman on the engagement Abby and Randy Kanter on the marriage of their daughter, of their daughter, Sammy, to Daniel Frankel Miriam, to Steven Kanaplue Marvin Glickman on the engagement of his granddaughter, Ben and Cari Roth on the birth of their daughter, and Loren Sammy, to Daniel Frankel and Mark Roth’s granddaughter, Annie Teagan Roth Jane and Daren Silverstein on the engagement of their Wendy and Scott Newman on the birth of their daughter, Jen granddaughter, Emilia Blair Susie and Howard Bruch on the engagement of their Dana Ben-Avi on the birth of her son, Perry Nathaniel Ben-Avi daughter, Jolie, to Zach Marx Lindsay and Ellie Skurkovich on the birth of their daughter, Ken and Marilyn Drossman on the engagement of their Gail and David Black’s granddaughter, and Stephanie daughter, Tracy, to Jonathan Friedland Black and Allison Perner’s niece, Sofie Yael

SINCERE CONDOLENCES TO THE FAMILIES OF:

Renee Weinstein, mother of Robert Weinstein, and aunt of Neal Bocian, brother of Arthur Bocian Harvey Zeller and Lori Etkin Richard (Ricky) Weisman, father of David Weisman, and Leah Janus grandfather of Hannah and Rachael Weisman Isaac “Ike” Taubenfeld, husband of Sylvia Taubenfeld, father Evelyn Kornberg, mother of Geoff Kornberg, and grandmother of Amy Burke, grandfather of Emma Burke, and brother-in- of Julia and Griffin Kornberg law of Bea Taubenfeld Minerva “Mimi” Ledner, grandmother of Marlon Weinberg, and Robert Goldsmith, father of Sherri Rosen great-grandmother of Jolie and Haddie Weinberg Beatrice Zamist, mother-in-law of Geula Zamist Elaine Hirschhorn, mother of Melissa Randall, and grandmother of Adam and Alli Randall Leo Shearer, father of Ronna Sherman Miriam Kleinman, mother of Max Kleinman, and grandmother Shimon Wenger, grandfather of Tal Wolf, and great- of Howard Kleinman grandfather of Jonathan, Sara, and Noam Sally Magid, grandmother of Marcy Pofsky, and great- Jacqueline Liebert, mother of Michael Liebert grandmother of Jillian and Max Pofsky Selma Fishman, mother of Lois Jacobs

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34 Congregation Agudath Israel of West Essex Why pre-plan a funeral? The Jewish Memorial Chapel will provide you with timely information and very good advice Pre-planning allows families the time needed to make important decisions regarding funeral options without the emotional stress related to the loss. The Jewish Memorial Chapel’s experienced funeral directors will lead you through the pre-arrangement process and be attentive to your every need. They will answer all your questions and never pressure you into making uncomfortable decisions. We uphold the highest standards of Jewish law pertaining to funerals. The Jewish Memorial Chapel is a Shomer Shabbos facility and has a state-of-the-art chapel in Clifton that is near local cemeteries. We also make other state and world-wide arrangements. Please call us for more information at 973-779-3048. Ask for our free color brochure.

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36 Congregation Agudath Israel of West Essex Do you know someone experiencing memory loss?

The Littman Memory Center provides a stimulating and supportive environment for adults with mild-moderate cognitive impairment. Our day program is uniquely designed to enhance the mental, physical and social well being of all participants*. *An intake meeting is required for all new participants.

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To learn more contact Bonnie Schechter, Director [email protected] or 973.530.3491. jccmetrowest.org/memory-center

JCC MetroWest 760 Northfield Ave West Orange, NJ 07052

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38 Congregation Agudath Israel of West Essex • MEMBER OF CONGREGATION AGUDATH ISRAEL • Congregation Agudath Israel NON-PROFIT ORG. U.S. POSTAGE 20 Academy Road PAID Caldwell, New Jersey 07006-5426 CALDWELL, NJ Address Service Requested PERMIT NO. 9

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Gayle Wieseneck Shani Drogin Jordan Shumofsky David Sumka Alison Rosenthal David Moses Matt Fischer Debbie Rosen Victor Nhaisi President Senior Vice President Vice President Vice President Vice President Treasurer Financial Executive Secretary Counselor

CONGREGATION AGUDATH ISRAEL 973-226-3600

RABBI ALAN SILVERSTEIN EXT. 111

RABBI ARI LUCAS EXT. 125

CANTOR JOEL CAPLAN EXT. 116

EDUCATION DIRECTOR, SUSAN WERK EXT. 122

SYNAGOGUE ADMINISTRATION DIRECTOR, MERYL NATTER EXT. 115

EARLY CHILDHOOD CENTER DIRECTOR, GEULA ZAMIST EXT. 121

MEMBERSHIP COORDINATOR, DEBBIE LURIE EXT. 118

DEVELOPMENT DIRECTOR, MICHAEL E. BRESSMAN EXT. 113

OPERATIONS MANAGER, DANA BEN-AVI EXT. 117

COMMUNICATIONS AND MARKETING MANAGER, ELLEN OXILD EXT. 112

MEMBER SERVICES ASSISTANT, ALLISON ROBINSON EXT. 110

BOOKKEEPER, ROSALIE FELBERBAUM EXT. 114

ASSISTANT TO THE CANTOR, DORIT ELI EXT. 126

DEVELOPMENT AND ADMINISTRATIVE ASSISTANT, MELISSA STEB EXT. 134

ADMINISTRATIVE COORDINATOR OF EDUCATION, LORI WEINBERG EXT. 124

ADMINISTRATIVE ASSISTANT FOR ECC, JESSICA PABLO EXT. 120

ADMINISTRATIVE ASSISTANT FOR RELIGIOUS SCHOOL, JACELYN GLUSKA EXT. 123

USY ADVISOR, JACELYN GLUSKA EXT. 123

CONGREGATION NURSE, KAREN FRANK EXT. 141

JFS ZELLER FAMILY CAI SOCIAL WORKER, ANDREA MALMUD EXT. 143