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Letter from the Vicarage Church News & Local Events In May’s edition, I spoke of the empowering nature of forgiveness, but the counterpart to Bolton WI invite you to a talk on the Versatility of Herbs, courtesy of Helen’s that is the liberating nature of confession. St James tells us “confess your sins to one Herbs. This is an open meeting and will take place at Bolton another”, but admitting our mistakes is something we seem to find very difficult. We will Memorial Hall on Saturday 8th June at 7.15 pm all be able to point to someone we know who is stubborn, has an answer for everything, and who can never apologise. But how many of us would point to ourselves? Why do Thrimby coffee evening we find it so hard to admit we are wrong? For some, it may go very deep. If through 7.30pm on Wednesday 5th June 2019 at Low Hall, by kind invitation of childhood, or a long-standing relationship, we have been used to a culture of blame, the Liz McQuillen and Heather Gardener. All welcome. deflection of blame may have become a simple defence mechanism. If so, we are only going to learn new behaviours by discovering a different quality of relationship and Brownies meet during term time on Wednesdays in Morland Village Hall allowing that to become normal for us. For others, it may be part of a success- 6-7.30pm worshipping outcomes-driven society, where we are judged by our success and often that judgment can be quite superficial. The incentive is to cover up our failures, excuse JAM dates them or blame them on others. Covering up our mistakes is, though, deeply unhealthy. Bolton Wednesday 12th June “What a tangled web we weave, when first we practice to deceive”, wrote Walter Scott. Crosby Ravensworth Monday 24th June at 9.30 One deception must be maintained by another until we can no longer distinguish the Morland Monday Monday 17th June at 9.30 stands of truth from the deceits we have spun. And in the end, we are caught on our own web. Deception fools no-one. We can all point to those who cannot admit their Morland Home Group mistakes because they are easy to spot (and to see through). They are smaller people The June meetings for Morland Home Group are as follows. in our eyes, prickly and more difficult to forgive. Worst of all, deception does not even The first meeting will be on Tuesday at 2p.m. on 11th of June at 31, Jackson Croft, Mor- deceive ourselves. Not only does it erode our self-worth, but we can find it harder to land. The next meeting will be on Tuesday at 2p.m. on 25th of June at The Barn, Maulds Me- accept love because we feel we ought to have earned it by some kind of perfection that aburn. we can never attain. Self-justification quickly gets us into trouble, but ironically a quick All are welcome. For more details please ring 01931714455. admission and apology will win you friends and allies remarkably easily. Morland Mothers' Union This month we will be having an outing instead of our ‘The truth will set you free’ said Jesus. The truth, for each of us, is that we rarely get usual meeting. This will take place on Thursday 27th June when we will travel on the anything 100% right. We mess up fairly frequently, we are a bit of a mixed bag when it Fellrunner Bus, courtesy of our driver Mike Roulson, to Furness Abbey. We will call at comes to motives and sometimes the best we can manage is the lesser of two evils. Beetham Nursery for coffee , then on to Cafe Ambio at Backbarrow for lunch. In the We will never be as successful as we wish, so self-justification can only lead us to afternoon we drive the short distance to Furness Abbey where we shallhave a look anxiety and a lingering sense of failure. But one of the clearest implications of the death round and meet Janice Eadington, the new Diocesan president. There will be an op- and resurrection of Jesus is that we don’t have to justify ourselves. The only person portunity for tea in the nearby cafe, before travelling home. Please meet at Morland whose judgment of us truly matters, the person in whose hands our life and destiny is Village Hall at 9.15am. We will be home late afternoon. held, judges us to be forgiven because he took our sins upon himself and set us free from them. Rowan Williams says that the Cross of Jesus tells us that “we are relieved from the terrible burden of having to prove ourselves because God has already dealt Local parish and community websites with the dreaded consequences of our failure”. So we need not self-justify or blame Askham & Helton — www.askhamandhelton.co.uk others. We can acknowledge our faults freely and easily because they no longer have a Bolton — www.boltonvillage.org.uk hold on us and no longer define us. Confession opens us up to hope, because our destiny need not be determined by our past. If ‘to err is human’, to admit our mistakes is Brougham — www.broughamparishcouncil.com to confess a greater degree of humanity. Confession sets us free to be honest and free Cliburn — www.cliburnparish.org to receive the love of God (and of each other) simply for who we are, not because we’ve Clifton — www.cliftonpc.org.uk deceived anyone about our success or failure. Confession allows us to experience a Crosby Ravensworth — www.crosbyravensworthparish.org.uk different quality of relationship that becomes normal for us – a relationship which testifies that the truth about is us that, despite our failures, we are amazing, wonderful Great Strickland — www.greatstricklandparishcouncil.co.uk people, so loved and valued that God himself laid down his life for us. How could Morland — www.morlandparishcouncil.org anyone be more valuable than that? Confession truly is good for the soul. Stewart Please support our advertisers: i they cover a large part of the costii of printing this magazine . From our Registers Desperately Seeking Organists Shaun Pollock & Claire Stantion were married at St Peter, Askham on Saturday 4 th May. Across our group of parishes we are short of organists for regular or occasional ----- duties across our group of churches. We are able to offer help for any The funeral of William Airey took place at All Saints, Bolton on Monday 8 th keyboard players interested in learning the organ. April and his mortal remains were laid to rest in the Churchyard. If you would be able to play or are willing to learn, please get in touch with The mortal remains of Irene O’Conner were laid to rest in the Churchyard at David Jones: 01931 714338 St Lawrence, Crosby Ravensworth on Friday 12 th April. From Jenny Jones: Summer Weddings As many of you already know, my hearing has been gradually deserting me for a long time now.- almost 30 years in fact. The nature of the loss means that This Summer there will be a number of weddings across our parishes. You might there is no treatment and hearing aids are of only limited help. However, it is want to come & cheer on the happy couples, or just lock them in until the pay really only in the last 10 years that I have found it increasingly difficult to play for services, in terms of following the liturgy and being ready to come in on cue up!!! with responses etc., and at the end of 2018 I decided, with great sadness, that I Date Time Couple Venue could no longer continue. 15th 1.00 Alex Mullins & Stephanie Baxter Askham I have been a church organist for 53 years, the last 35 in our Benefice, and on June Palm Sunday, at Askham, I was presented with a very nice bottle of wine, a 29th 1.00 Ben Prince & Alice Lodge Askham card and an oblong package. Fortunately, I didn’t open these until I got home June or I should not have been able to maintain my composure. The package con- th tained a beautiful silver jewellery casket with an inscription engraved on the lid 5 July 12.30 Andrew Brass & Nina Secombe Crosby recording my 35 years as organist; the card said I would receive in the post Ravenswort £200 in gift vouchers - which I duly have. For the first time, since taking the h decision to give up, I was in tears. I am quite overwhelmed, and humbled, by 6th July 1.00 Phil Gough & Jo Holman Askham your generosity. The jewellery casket is exquisite and will be a much-treasured keepsake. The gift cards can be used in many different outlets and I shall have 27 th July 1.00 Matthew Kearon & Emily Warrilow Askham a wonderful time deciding what to buy. th 30 July 3.00 Andrew Dwyer & Jennifer McNamee Askham it has been a source of great joy & satisfaction to have contributed to the wor- ship - initially just in Morland, Gt. Strickland & Thrimby, but increasingly in the 31 st Aug 2.30 Bernard Vent & Jacqueline Ryce Askham other churches as our Benefice has expanded. It’s also been a privilege to have been part of so many people’s lives in playing for weddings, baptisms and funerals. I shall miss all of this very much but I am trying hard to “accept the Rector’s New E-mail address things I cannot change”, and I thank you all from the bottom of my heart, for your extremely generous gifts and for your fellowship, your love and your After a lot of difficulties with not receiving e-mails of late, I’ve changed my e-mail address to: support for so many years.