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Role of Attitude Similarity and Proximity in Interpersonal Attraction Among Friends (C 310) International Journal of Innovation, Management and Technology, Vol. 1, No. 2, June 2010 ISSN: 2010-0248 Role of Attitude Similarity and Proximity in Interpersonal Attraction among Friends (C 310) Sumaya Batool1 Member, IACSIT and Najma Iqbal Malik2 Member, IACSIT 1 described a common belief that people with real similarity Abstract―A growing body of research explores that produce initial attraction. Perceived similarity helps rating relationships are the significant part of our lives. The study others as similar to ourselves in on-going relationship. Such examines important factors of attitude similarity and perception is either self-serving (friendship) or relationship- proximity working behind interpersonal attraction among serving (romantic relationship). same gender friends. The study was conducted on sample of Interpersonal attraction is associated with attitude 160 boy friends and girl friends (40 pairs in each) through purposive convenient sampling, from Punjab, Pakistan. similarity, backgrounds, values and beliefs [8]. We tend to Findings showed that friends with more similar attitudes and have more positive emotions towards a person when we high proximity scored on interpersonal attraction as compared come to know that he or she has the same attitude as ours [5]. to friends with less similar attitudes regardless of gender. Similarity is of great significance for us because we are These findings will give a new horizon for the researchers to always in need of others, conforming to our values and study friendship with a perspective of similarity and proximity. beliefs [29]. We illuminate our understanding of, and trim However, these findings suggest the need for a deeper and extensive study of all the factors pertaining to interpersonal down our uncertainty about social situations by weighing attraction, which might give us more astute understanding of our opinions against those of other people. Recognizing that our social relations. others agree with us fortifies our beliefs and heightens our self-esteem [3]. Index Terms—Attitude Similarity, Friendship, Interpersonal We often assume that we share attitudes with people who Attraction, Proximity attract us in other ways. A study cited in [3] conducted by Byrne and Blaylock revealed that marriage may partially based upon the illusion of similarity—that is, spouses tend I. INTRODUCTION to perceive more similarity in attitudes between themselves Satisfying relationships play significant role in and their partners than in fact exists. individuals' mental and physical well being. For the long, A grand study conducted at the University of Michigan social psychologists have been interested in how these by [21] measured the relationship of friendship with attitude relationships are established and maintained [1], [7], [9]. similarity. Initial similarity between roommates ended up in Attraction among different people is the basis of our social a good friendship than initial dissimilarity. Same study relationships which leads to friendships and romantic repeated on anew group yielded similar results. There might relationships. It is a force which draws people together and be many reasons behind similarity attraction linkage. resists their separation and it is related to how much we love, One reason that similarity breeds liking might be that hate, like or dislike someone. When making close people value their own choices and opinions and enjoy relationships including mate selection and life time being with others who conform their preferences, probably friendships, other person’s qualities and social situations enhancing their self-esteem during the process. But possibly determine our level of attraction or repulsion towards him or the major reason that similarity generates liking is merely a her. Interpersonal attraction is influenced by many factors, repeat of factors like, proximity and familiarity. Situational like physical attractiveness, attitude similarity, proximity, factors and social norms impact a lot in bringing those reciprocity etc. [28]. No matter the gender is same or people closer who share similarity. Not only in social different; these determinants will remain same for predicting groups, but a majority of religious groups also prefer interpersonal attraction across different cultures [13]. members of same religion for mate selection. Even in Our self perceptions are based on our close relationships cultural norms people of same race and age are considered and on our feelings of attractiveness and attraction towards appropriate for each other. For example, a couple of an older others. Apart from a person’s outlook, similar attitudes and woman and a younger man is still perceived as unsuitable. interests of a person make us feel more attracted towards Situational factors also play an important role. Most of the him. The notion of “birds of a feather flock together” points people select their mates at college or graduate school, out that similarity is a crucial determinant of interpersonal because they assume them to be similar in qualification level, attraction. Morry [17] in his attraction-similarity model general intelligence, ambitions, and probably in age and socioeconomic status. Moreover, tennis players will have 1 Manuscript was submitted on April 15, 2010. met on the tennis courts, political liberals at a pro-choice 1 Sumaya Batool is currently working at University of Sargodha, rally, and lesbians at a meeting of the Lesbian’s Union [21]. Pakistan as a lecturer, Department of Psychology, Phone; +92-332-7545260; e.mail: [email protected] Results from the bogus stranger experiments, the get- 2Najma Iqbal Malik is currently working at University of Sargodha, acquainted interaction studies, and studies examining Pakistan as a lecturer, Department of Psychology, Phone; +92-300-9600694; friendship choices in natural settings e.g., [17], four factors e.mail: [email protected] 142 International Journal of Innovation, Management and Technology, Vol. 1, No. 2, June 2010 ISSN: 2010-0248 have often been recognized as determinants of attraction: Attraction of each member of a pair toward the other proximity (which includes not only geographical distance, member was measured by McCroskey & McCain’s [14] but also interaction accessibility), similarity, physical Interpersonal Attraction Scale (I.A). The scale was consisted attractiveness of the other, and reciprocal liking. A of 30-items divided into three sub-scales. The response set widespread research has demonstrated that these factors lead was in “Yes” or “No” format. First ten items were devised to attraction [4], [9], [13]. Propinquity is a powerful medium to check Social Attraction (S.A), next ten (11-20) for of attraction. It is defined as the nearness or proximity in Physical Attraction (P.A) and last ten (21-30) for Task physical or psychological space which creates the Attraction (T.A). Five items were positively worded and opportunity to meet another person [11]. Propinquity assists five negatively worded in each sub-scale of Interpersonal initial relationships (i.e. friendships) and attraction creating Attraction Scale. For example item no. 1, 2, 6, 7 and 10 familiarity and repeated exposure [24]. were positively worded, while item no. 3, 4, 5, 8 and 9 were Although proximity effect a lot but still the impact of negatively worded in S.A subscale. In P.A subscale item no. similarity is greater. Despite all this, it is often suggested 11, 12, 13, 16 and 19 were positively worded, while item no. that the saying that opposites attract may still apply to 14, 15, 17, 18 and 20 were negatively worded. In T.A certain complementary personality traits [20]. To take the subscale item no. 23, 24, 27, 29 and 30 were positively most obvious example, one partner may be quite dominant worded, while item no. 21, 22, 25, 26 and 28 were and thus require someone who is relatively more submissive. negatively worded. A person with strong preferences may do best with someone Survey of Attitudes who is very flexible or even wishy-washy. But despite the The Survey of Attitudes consisted of 26 items derived plausibility of this complementarity hypothesis, there is not from Byrne’s [5] original 56-item Survey of Attitudes was much evidence for it [10]. In one study, marital adjustments used in this study. Each item was scored on a six-point scale among couples married for up to five years was found to without the neutral point. Culture specific issues were depend more on similarity than on complementarity [16]. discarded. [2] had already adapted this questionnaire and the Attempts to identify the pairs of personality traits that bring checked reliability was r = .89. She had used 27 items in her about complementarity have not been very successful [26]. study but one item was excluded from the present research When all is said and done it is similarity that wins the day owing to city cultural differences. As the present research [21]. required applying this questionnaire on pair of subjects who The research focused the following objectives: were friends so the reliability was measured again. 1) To find out the effects of attitude similarity on interpersonal attraction. C. Procedure 2) To check gender differences in effects of attitude The participants were asked to fill out the test booklets, similarity on interpersonal attraction. which were consisted of demographic data form, Attitude 3) To explore the relationship between proximity and Survey and Interpersonal Attraction Measurement Scale. As interpersonal attraction. the participants were divided in pairs of friends, each member of the pair was instructed to give his/her personal A. Hypotheses opinion on Survey of Attitudes and to give his/her opinion The following hypotheses have been formulated for the about his/her friend on Interpersonal Attraction Scale, after study: filling out demographic data form. The data were analyzed 1) The friends having similar attitudes will also possess qualitatively and by applying different statistical analyses. high interpersonal attraction. 2) Attitude similarity is as much important for the boys as for the girls in determining interpersonal attraction. 3) Friends having more proximity will have high III.
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