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The Bar and Bat Mitzvah Services 12
TEMPLE BETH EMETH Table of Contents Contact Us 2 Welcome Letter 3 Bar and Bat Mitzvah Brit (Covenant) 4 What is a Bat or Bar Mitzvah? 6 The Brit (Covenant) Explained: TBE Commitment 7 The Brit (Covenant) Explained: Bat or Bar Mitzvah Commitment 10 The Bar and Bat Mitzvah Services 12 After Your Bat or Bar Mitzvah 14 Shabbat Weekend Honors, Opportunities, and Obligations 16 Bar or Bat Mitzvah Logistics 17 Glossary 21 Service- and Celebration-related Checklists 26 Appendix A: Hosting the Saturday Congregational Kiddush 30 Appendix B: Hosting a Private Celebration at TBE 31 Appendix C: Resources for Hosting a Bat or Bar Mitzvah Celebration at TBE 32 Appendix D: Mitzvah Project Opportunities for TBE Bat and Bar Mitzvah Students 34 Appendix E: Usher Instructions 36 Appendix F: Additional Resources 38 For any questions or concerns not addressed within this guide, please contact Cantor Hayut. 1 Contact Us Call the Temple’s phone number: (734) 665-4744 Fax: 734-665-9237 Website: http://www.templebethemeth.org Hours: Mon-Thurs: 9am - 5pm Fri: 9am - 3pm Staff Josh Whinston, Rabbi Ext: 212 [email protected] Regina S. Lambert-Hayut, Cantor Ext: 227 [email protected] Rabbi Daniel Alter, Director of Education Ext: 207 [email protected] Clergy Assistant Ext: 210 Melissa Sigmond, Executive Director Ext: 206 [email protected] Mike Wolf, Genesis Administrator Ext: 200 [email protected] www.genesisa2.org For any questions or concerns not addressed within this guide, please contact Cantor Hayut. 2 Dear Bar and/or Bat Mitzvah Family, Mazel tov as you begin this exciting journey! The celebration of a child becoming Bat or Bar Mitzvah is one of the highlights in the life cycle of a Jewish family. -
Jewish Subcultures Online: Outreach, Dating, and Marginalized Communities ______
JEWISH SUBCULTURES ONLINE: OUTREACH, DATING, AND MARGINALIZED COMMUNITIES ____________________________________ A Thesis Presented to the Faculty of California State University, Fullerton ____________________________________ In Partial Fulfillment of the Requirements for the Degree Master of Arts in American Studies ____________________________________ By Rachel Sara Schiff Thesis Committee Approval: Professor Leila Zenderland, Chair Professor Terri Snyder, Department of American Studies Professor Carrie Lane, Department of American Studies Spring, 2016 ABSTRACT This thesis explores how Jewish individuals use and create communities online to enrich their Jewish identity. The Internet provides Jews who do not fit within their brick and mortar communities an outlet that gives them voice, power, and sometimes anonymity. They use these websites to balance their Jewish identities and other personal identities that may or may not fit within their local Jewish community. This research was conducted through analyzing a broad range of websites. The first chapter, the introduction, describes the Jewish American population as a whole as well as the history of the Internet. The second chapter, entitled “The Black Hats of the Internet,” discusses how the Orthodox community has used the Internet to create a modern approach to outreach. It focuses in particular on the extensive web materials created by Chabad and Aish Hatorah, which offer surprisingly modern twists on traditional texts. The third chapter is about Jewish online dating. It uses JDate and other secular websites to analyze how Jewish singles are using the Internet. This chapter also suggests that the use of the Internet may have an impact on reducing interfaith marriage. The fourth chapter examines marginalized communities, focusing on the following: Jewrotica; the Jewish LGBT community including those who are “OLGBT” (Orthodox LGBT); Punk Jews; and feminist Jews. -
Shabbat Program Shabbat Program
SHABBAT PROGRAM SHABBAT PROGRAM March 1 and 2, 2019 / 25 Adar I 5779 Parashat Vayakhel - Shabbat Shekalim ו�יּ�בֹאוּ כָּל־אִישׁ אֲשׁ�ר־נְשׂ�אוֹ לִבּוֹ ו�כֹל אֲשׁ�ר נָדְבָה רוּחוֹ אֹתוֹ הֵבִיאוּ אֶת־תְּרוּמַת ה' לִמְלֶאכֶת אֹהֶל מוֹעֵד וּלְכָל־עֲבֹדָתוֹ וּלְבִגְדֵי הַקֹּדֶשׁ: "And everyone who excelled in ability and everyone whose spirit was moved came, bringing to the Eternal an offering for the work of the Tent of Meeting and for all its service and for the sacral vestments." (Exodus 35:21) 1 Welcome to CBST! ברוכים וברוכות הבאים לקהילת בית שמחת תורה! קהילת בית שמחת תורה מקיימת קשר רב שנים ועמוק עם ישראל, עם הבית הפתוח בירושלים לגאווה ולסובלנות ועם הקהילה הגאה בישראל. אנחנו מזמינים אתכם\ן לגלוּת יהדוּת ליבראלית גם בישראל! מצאו את המידע על קהילות רפורמיות המזמינות אתכם\ן לחגוג את סיפור החיים שלכן\ם בפלאיירים בכניסה. לפרטים נוספים ניתן לפנות לרב נועה סתת: [email protected] 2 MARCH 1, 2019 / 25 ADAR I 5779 PARASHAT VAYAKHEL - SHABBAT SHEKALIM הֲכָנַת הַלֵּב OPENING PRAYERS AND MEDITATIONS *Shabbes Zol Zayn Folk Song שבת זאל זיין 36 Abraham Wolf Binder (1895- 38 Candle Blessings *(1967 הַדְלָקַת נֵרוֹת שׁ�ל שׁ�בָּת *(Shalom Aleichem Israel Goldfarb (1879-1956 שׁ�לוֹם עֲלֵיכֶם 40 קַבָּלַת שׁ�בָּת KABBALAT SHABBAT / WELCOMING SHABBAT *(L’chu N’ran’nah (Psalm 95) Debbie Friedman (1951-2011 לְכוּ נְ�נְּנָה (תהלים צה) 52 *(Shiru Ladonai (Psalm 96) Shlomo Carlebach (1926-1994 שׁ�ֽירוּ לַה' (תהלים צו) 54 *Mizmor L’David (Psalm 29) Western Sephardic Melody מִזְמוֹר לְדָו�ד (תהלים כט) 62 *(L'chah Dodi (Shlomo Alkabetz) Kehillat Tsiyon (Jerusalem לְכָה -
Midway Jewish Center Bar and Bat Mitzvah Guide Page 2
LET’S START PLANNING A—BAR/T MITZVAH BAT & BAR MITZVAH THE ULTIMATE MJC GUIDE FOR BAR/BAT MITZVAH Perry Raphael Rank Rabbi Joel Levenson Associate Rabbi Lisa Stein Director of Education Sandi Bettan Preschool Director Genea Moore Synagogue Administrator Michael Kohler President Howard Rosen Ritual Committee Chair Office Phone (516) 938-8390 Office Fax (516) 938-3906 E-Mail [email protected] Revised December, 2016 / Kislev, 5777 Midway Jewish Center Bar and Bat Mitzvah Guide Page 2 TABLE OF CONTENTS INTRODUCTION 3 WHAT IS BAR/T MITZVAH? 3 HOW MUCH OF THE SERVICE OUR CHILDREN WILL KNOW 4 WHY WE TEACH WHAT WE TEACH 4 RABBIS' ROLES 5 THE TUTORS' ROLES 5 TIMETABLE FOR THE BAR/T MITZVAH EXPERIENCE 7 HELPING OUR CHILDREN BECOME RESPONSIBLE JEWS 7 EDUCATIONAL AND RELIGIOUS REQUIREMENTS 8 THE DIRECTIONS / DECORUM CARD 9 BAR/T MITZVAH INVITATION DISPLAY POLICY 9 HONORS 10 KIDDUSH 10 SE'UDAH SHEL MITZVAH—A MEAL EMANATING FROM A MITZVAH 10 SYNAGOGUE DECORUM 10 A TZEDAKKAH OPPORTUNITY 11 SOME TERMS YOU OUGHT TO KNOW 12 AN ALIYAH: IT’S AN HONOR -- BUT WHAT DO I DO? 18 Midway Jewish Center Bar and Bat Mitzvah Guide Page 3 INTRODUCTION Is it hard to believe that your child will soon become a Bar or Bat Mitzvah? You might as well brace yourself now. That little boy or girl that just yesterday was strapped into a car seat is today getting all set for adolescence. Our children begin to go through some dramatic changes, physically and emotionally, at the age of thirteen. The rabbis were wise in choosing this age as the proper time for becoming Bar/t Mitzvah. -
The Impact of Parental Divorce on Orthodox Jewish Marital Relationships
Walden University ScholarWorks Walden Dissertations and Doctoral Studies Walden Dissertations and Doctoral Studies Collection 2017 The mpI act of Parental Divorce on Orthodox Jewish Marital Relationships Eliyahu Melen Walden University Follow this and additional works at: https://scholarworks.waldenu.edu/dissertations Part of the Psychology Commons, Religion Commons, and the Sociology Commons This Dissertation is brought to you for free and open access by the Walden Dissertations and Doctoral Studies Collection at ScholarWorks. It has been accepted for inclusion in Walden Dissertations and Doctoral Studies by an authorized administrator of ScholarWorks. For more information, please contact [email protected]. Walden University College of Social and Behavioral Sciences This is to certify that the doctoral dissertation by Eliyahu Melen has been found to be complete and satisfactory in all respects, and that any and all revisions required by the review committee have been made. Review Committee Dr. Susana Verdinelli, Committee Chairperson, Psychology Faculty Dr. Elisha Galaif, Committee Member, Psychology Faculty Dr. Stephen Rice, University Reviewer, Psychology Faculty Chief Academic Officer Eric Riedel, Ph.D. Walden University 2017 Abstract The Impact of Parental Divorce on Orthodox Jewish Marital Relationships by Eliyahu Melen Dissertation Submitted in Partial Fulfillment of the Requirements for the Degree of Doctor of Philosophy Clinical Psychology Walden University March 2017 Abstract While there is ample research showing that adult children of divorced parents have more positive attitudes toward divorce and lower marital commitment, there has been no such research focused specifically on the Orthodox Jewish (OJ) population, which tends to view divorce more negatively. Prior to this study, it was thus unclear if the findings of existing research on marital competence applied to OJ children of divorce. -
Kol Shalom Bar/Bat Mitzvah Guidelines
Kol Shalom Bar/Bat Mitzvah Guidelines Introduction: Bar/Bat Mitzvah Ceremony in Perspective A Bar or Bat Mitzvah is a public acknowledgment that a boy or girl has become a responsible adult member of the Jewish community. It is an important step in the transition to adulthood and the acceptance of responsibility for one’s own actions. As a public expression, the ceremony takes place in the context of a normal worship service at which a portion from the Torah is read and a Haftarah is chanted. During the course of that service, the Bar or Bat Mitzvah is given the opportunity to demonstrate that he or she has acquired the requisite skills to fulfill the obligations of a Jewish adult. We must stress the fact that the ceremony is part of our regular Shabbat service and not a separate, private ceremony for the Bar/Bat Mitzvah family alone. That enables our entire worshipping community to celebrate the life cycle with family and friends. The Bar/Bat Mitzvah brings honor to him or herself by the manner in which he or she participates in the service. Since Kol Shalom is an egalitarian congregation, participation in the service is not dependent on the gender of the student nor is there any limit to the extent of that participation. The Bar/Bat Mitzvah at Kol Shalom is an event for the congregation as well as for the family. We all look forward to sharing the joy, as our children become young adults. Scheduling the Bar/Bat Mitzvah 1. Families must be members of Kol Shalom when the Bar/Bat Mitzvah is scheduled and must remain members through the time of the ceremony itself. -
Bar and Bat Mitzvah Temple Israel Sanctuary
Temple Israel Sanctuary The Ark, which is the central focus of the sanctuary, houses the Torah scrolls. Its doors MEMPHIS, TENNESSEE are carved with the Burning Bush. This represents a particularly moving moment in the early history of our people, when Moses accepted God’s mission and led the Jewish people out of Egypt to Sinai. The brilliantly hued tapestry within the Ark represents Bar and Bat Mitzvah the form of the Ark doors. The Hebrew letter Shin,which signifies the word Shaddai, meaning God, is sculpted into the center of the Ark doors. The term bar/bat mitzvah means son/daughter of mitzvah. According to Judaism, at the age of 13 an individual can now take on additional religious The Ten Commandment Tablets appear above the doors of the Ark. They represent the privileges and responsibilities. Mitzvot, literally commandments, are the fulfillment of God’s promise to Moses at the Burning Bush and are the guiding precept responsibilities of a Jew. Before reaching the age of bar or bat mitzvah, for the daily life of every Jew. The Eternal Light, symbolic of the Jew’s ongoing spirit, is children voluntarily perform mitzvot. Followingbar/bat mitzvah, mitzvot placed above the Tablets. From its form, a torch, we infer light permeating darkness, become obligatory. In this regard, the idea of fulfilling the commandments just as the Torah has illuminated the life of every Jew throughout the ages. suggests accepting responsibility as an adult. This is sacred and deserving of The stone mosaic wall on either side of the Ark symbolizes the wings of an angel. -
Position Paper on Forced Marriage Analysis of Arranged Marriage As Practiced in Jewish Communities
8th February 2021 Position Paper on Forced Marriage Analysis of Arranged Marriage as Practiced in Jewish Communities Forward The shidduch system of arranged marriage as practised in the Charedi (also known as Ultra-Orthodox) part of the Jewish community has worked for many people in a range of Charedi communities. It has brought joy, satisfaction and belonging to many Jewish couples and enriched their lives. This paper is written for people using the shidduch system of arranged marriage. This paper is also written for the Jewish community, including Jewish community organisations, and as well as those working in the wider VAWG sector. We seek to explain our concerns with some aspects of the shidduch system, and to demonstrate that elements of the shidduch system can create social pressure and coercion to marry, inhibiting a person’s capacity to consent to a marriage. We call on various agencies of the UK Government and other organisations to implement our recommendations. We explore how social pressures can fit with the term “Forced Marriage” as defined in UK legislation. We write as observant Jews, and we have undertaken this work to reduce the harms inflicted on individuals in our community. We are confident that our community has the confidence to consider our recommendations with nuanced reflection. Dozens of people have given freely of their time to help with the shaping and editing of this paper. Rabbis, academics, VAWG sector professionals, specialists in education, legal scholars, and advocates. We thank you all. We are indebted to those who have trusted us with their stories, without which this paper would have no soul. -
The Bar/Bat Mitzvah Handbook
Congregation Beth Israel BAR/BAT MITZVAH GUIDE 2021-2022 301 East Jefferson Street Charlottesville, Virginia 22902 (434) 295-6382 www.cbicville.org 1 WELCOME Mazal Tov to you and your child for deciding to pursue a course of study that will lead to a public celebration of his/her becoming a Bar/Bat Mitzvah! This handbook will provide you with information about the process of preparing for becoming Bar/Bat Mitzvah at Congregation Beth Israel. “Bar/Bat Mitzvah” is a noun. It refers to a person who has become responsible for the mitzvot (the commandments or imperatives of Jewish life). When your child becomes a Bar or Bat Mitzvah, the Jewish community will begin to see her/him more as an adult and less as a child. S/he will be counted in a minyan, s/he will be eligible to be called for an aliyah, and s/he will begin to be expected to make thoughtful choices about the mitzvot of daily life. One of the important mitzvot about which s/he will make a choice, concerns continuing Jewish education in the post-Bar/Bat Mitzvah program including culminating with Confirmation and graduation in 12th grade. In our opinion, if a Bar or Bat Mitzvah celebration at the age of 13 marks the end-point of Jewish study, it is comparable to dropping out of school after completing elementary school. It is a tragic loss of opportunity to learn and continue to explore, on a more mature level, what it means to live a Jewish life. We certainly hope you will encourage your child to continue his/her Jewish education, not only in our post-Bar/Bat Mitzvah program, but also throughout life. -
TC Sisterhood to Hold Feb. 26 Program on Women of Reform
February 10-16, 2017 Published by the Jewish Federation of Greater Binghamton Volume XLVI, Number 6 BINGHAMTON, NEW YORK “Facing Fakery: Journalism’s Challenge” to be topic at Feb. 11 Beth David Shabbat luncheon By Paula Rubin “Jeff Platsky, the featured speaker, is no a B.A. in newspapers from Syracuse Uni- ing as president for the last six. He and his “Facing Fakery: Journalism’s Chal- stranger to journalism or Jewish values,” versity and an M.B.A. from Binghamton family reside in Binghamton, where both lenge” will be the topic at the Beth organizers noted. University. His journalism career started of his children graduated from Bingham- David Shabbat luncheon on February Platsky has been with Gannett Central in Northern Maine and later on offered ton University and are currently pursuing 11, following services at Beth David New York Newspapers for the past 36 him a chance to witness “The Miracle on careers in business. Synagogue, 39 Riverside Dr., Bing- years. He worked as a bureau reporter Ice” during the 1980 Winter Olympics in For more information about the lun- hamton. The entire community has been and currently as an investigative/content Lake Placid. cheons or how to sponsor all or part of any invited to services, the free luncheon editor. A native of Queens, he attended He has been on the Jewish Community luncheon for any reason, call Beth David and the talk. New York City public schools, received Center board for more than 10 years, serv- Synagogue at 772-1793. TC Sisterhood to hold Feb. 26 program on Women of Reform Judaism By Helene Philips Women of Reform Judaism, founded in Temple Concord Sisterhood is part of includes “creative, inspirational” Shabbat Temple Concord Sisterhood will present 1913, is the women’s affiliate of the Union the Northeast District of WRJ, one of eight services with traditional and new music, the program “Why Women of Reform Juda- of Reform Judaism, the central body of districts in North America, and includes Torah discussions and Shabbat workshops. -
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Jewish Wisconsin 5775-5776/2014-2015
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