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October 2018 Tishrei - Cheshvan 5779 ADAT SHALOM SYNAGOGUE THE הקול ENDOWED IN MEMORY OF HARRY AND SH IRLEY NAC HMAN Vol. 75 No. 8 October 2018 Tishrei - Cheshvan 5779 SCHEDULE OF SERVICES Mornings: Sundays. 8:30 A.M. ADAT SHALOM Monday - Friday . 7:30 A.M. Shabbat . 9:00 A.M. Evenings (Minchah-Maariv): Sunday - Friday . 6:00 P.M. Saturdays: October 6 . 7:00 P.M. October 13. 6:45 P.M. October 20 . 6:30 P.M. October 27 . 6:15 P.M. SHABBAT TORAH PORTIONS October 6 October 13 Bereshit Noach October 20 October 27 Lech Lecha Vayera rate eleb CShabbat-Appel75la Oneg Shabbat Shabbat Torah Study with Rabbi Nevins Soulful Yoga with Rabbi Shere Tot Shabbat and Family Shabbat Learning Shabbat Kiddush Lunch Diamond Jubilee Concert 75th ANNIVERSARY “From the beginning , the concern of our Synagogue was Family - individual families and the greater family of the membership. Some fifty-two members formed the nucleus of the future’s potential and applied to the State of Michigan for a charter.” (Commemorative Journal, 50th Anniversary of Adat Shalom Synagogue) And 75 years later, Adat Shalom Synagogue is unique among Jewish congregations. We're a warm and friendly congregation with many young families. We take a contemporary look at our congregants' needs and priorities, place a strong emphasis in the continuity of clergy, and offer a wide range of programs for individuals and families of all ages. While staunchly committed to Israel and to our Jewish brothers and sisters everywhere, we remain focused on our more than 1000 member families throughout the metropolitan Detroit area. We are looking forward to the next 75 years with great optimism. Planning is underway to celebrate the past and prepare for the work that is to be done to ensure that future generations will continue to experience robust programming, extraordinary clergy and a financially secure Adat Shalom. Celebrate Friday evening, October 26, 8:00 p.m . Shabbat-Appella Oneg Shabbat Saturday morning, October 27, 9:00 a.m. Shabbat Services Please join us... followed by Kiddush Lunch We are kicking off the momentous occasion of Adat Shalom Synagogue’s Shabbat Torah Study 75th anniversary with a very special commemorative weekend. with Rabbi Nevins In honoring our past and looking forward to our future, you are invited to join us Friday evening, October 26 for a special Shabbat-Appella and Shabbat Yoga with Rabbi Shere Oneg Shabbat where we will recognize our synagogue past presidents Tot Shabbat & Family Shabbat Learning for their contribution to Adat Shalom. On Shabbat morning our Men’s Club and Sisterhood past presidents, our multitude of affiliates who all contribute so much to Adat Shalom, and the board members of Memorial Monday evening, Park will be acknowledged. October 29, 7:30 p.m. Shabbat will be a wonderful reunion to include clergy from previous years, old friends from your pre-school days at Adat Shalom, your Diamond Jubilee Concert confirmation class, clubs you participated in, classes you attended, and other programs. Morning services will be followed by a Kiddush lunch. We invite you to bring your family and be our guest. THE We look forward to seeing you. Call the synagogue office at (USPSV62O2-I46C0) E 248.851.5100 or email Alan Yost directly at [email protected] with published monthly except February and July by your planned attendance. ADAT SHALOM SYNAGOGUE 29901 Middlebelt Road Farmington Hills, Michigan 48334 Phone: 248-851-5100 l Fax: 248-851-3190 Periodicals Postage entered at the Farmington, Michigan Post Office Postmaster: Send address changes to: The VOICE, 29901 Middlebelt Rabbi Aaron Bergman Sanford Vieder, President Farmington Hills, Michigan 48334-2319 2 MESSAGES FROM THE PRESIDENT , FROM RABBI AARON BERGMAN SANFORD VIEDER BECOMING LEONARD BERNSTEIN IAMOND IN THE OUGH A D R 2018 is the centennial year of On October 8, 1943, Erev Yom Kippur, Leonard Bernstein's birth. It his hard to a handful of men comprising the original imagine American music without him. He founders of our congregation made the was so talented and influential that it is hard decision to move forward and create a new to imagine that he was just one person. synagogue. Over the next year, a nucleus of He was a great composer, writing classic 52 members applied for the official charter which was granted by musicals like West Side Story, and moving symphonies like his the State of Michigan, ultimately being named the Northwest Third, known as the Kaddish Symphony. Hebrew Congregation. On September 20, 1944, the first annual He was a great conductor, bringing energy and passion to other election of officers was held. Our first president, was Alexander musicians and even reviving the appreciation of another great Moss. In short order, the interest and enthusiasm of this new Jewish composer, Gustav Mahler. congregation grew rapidly, leading to the need for a new, larger He was a great teacher. His writings and television shows building to accommodate all the activities and families that were taught generations of young people to understand and love joining. In August of 1946, Rabbi Jacob E. Segal was approved classical and modern music, and even jazz. by the board of directors to become the first spiritual leader. Over He was a great friend, encouraging others to meet their the past 75 years, Adat Shalom has been fortunate to have some potential and to expand their musical and cultural knowledge. of the very best clerical leaders in the country. That tradition People much older and much younger were drawn to him, continues today with the leadership of Rabbi Bergman, Rabbi because his spirit was ageless. Shere and Hazzan Gross. We also recognize the many families Given all these talents, he almost did not become a musician that now have third and fourth generations as members at Adat at all. This is from an article from the New England Historical Shalom. Adat Shalom is certainly rich in history and now it’s time Society: to ensure it is rich in its future. Sam wanted his eldest son to join him in his increasingly As we embark upon the celebration of our Diamond successful hair product business. Anniversary, there is so much to be thankful for and a multitude of Lenny attended the prestigious Boston Latin School, where he wonderful stories to be shared from our remarkable history. There excelled academically. He graduated from Boston Latin in 1935 have been difficult financial times throughout our history, but I am and entered Harvard, where he majored in music. His father still happy to report that we are collectively in a very good place as we wanted him to join him in his hair products business. Lenny begin our 75th year. The executive committee and professional wanted music. leadership hope that all of you will join us for the beginning of our Continued on page 14 yearlong celebration, the weekend of October 26. It is our hope to create several memorable programs through the entire 75th anniversary year. Continued on page 15 FROM RABBI RACHEL SHERE SUKKAH WALLS OF SHELTER FROM HAZZAN DANIEL GROSS IAMOND UBILEE ONCERT The first day of October marks the end D J C of the holiday of Sukkot. Going out to live in a At the end of October, we will be sukkah , a dwelling that will be here today and celebrating Adat Shalom’s 75th anniversary. tomorrow but gone in a week is, our sages The weekend festivities will culminate on teach, a way to face the fragility and Monday, October 29, with a “Diamond Jubilee” impermanence of life. Sukkot forces us to embrace the reality that Concert (the diamond being the gemstone nothing in life is for certain; all that we have today could be gone associated with a 75th anniversary). Your invitation should already tomorrow. And yet, Sukkot is called Z’man Simchateinu , the time have arrived in the mail. The concert will feature, in addition to of our joy. At this time of year, we build a space that is naturally myself, 6 gems of the Cantors Assembly: open and welcoming to friends, family and strangers alike. There is a large segment in the Talmud about materials that can Jack Mendelson , Cantor Emeritus of Temple Israel Center in and cannot be used as sukkah walls. One of my favorite lines in White Plains, NY, a larger than life individual who has starred this section reads, “It is kosher to use a friend as one of the four on the bimah and screen, and who continues to be the most walls of your sukkah” (Shulchan Aruch, Orach Chaim, 630:12.) In influential cantor in my life; order to make sense of this, we must understand the purpose of Alberto Mizrahi of Anshe Emet Synagogue in Chicago, hailed the sukkah walls. According to the Talmud, the walls are there to as the “Jewish Pavarotti,” he has admirably represented the create a temporary shelter from the dangers of the outside world. Conservative cantorate internationally through both concerts As we see everyday in the headlines, the events of our world and recordings; unfold erratically and unpredictably. Yet this law about the sukkah David Propis of Congregation Shaarey Zedek, who has walls teaches an important truth. In a world filled with terror and recorded many wonderful albums, who always gives a thrilling tragedy, human beings are here to be each other’s shelter. We live performance, and who is the producer of the CA and are here to help one another respond to brokenness with bravery, USCJ’s series of CDs entitled “The Spirit Series”; and to loss with love. Long after we have taken down our sukkot, may the holiday’s poignant message find a permanent home in Continued on page 12 our hearts.
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