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xxx Contents The Jewish Day ............................................................................................................................... 6 A. What is a day? ..................................................................................................................... 6 B. Jewish Days As ‘Natural’ Days ........................................................................................... 7 C. When does a Jewish day start and end? ........................................................................... 8 D. The values we can learn from the Jewish day ................................................................... 9 Appendix: Additional Information About the Jewish Day ..................................................... 10 The Jewish Week .......................................................................................................................... 13 A. An Accompaniment to Shabbat ....................................................................................... 13 B. The Days of the Week are all Connected to Shabbat ...................................................... 14 C. The Days of the Week are all Connected to the First Week of Creation ........................ 17 D. The Structure of the Jewish Week .................................................................................... 18 E. Deeper Lessons About the Jewish Week ......................................................................... 18 F. Did You Know? ................................................................................................................. -
The Bar and Bat Mitzvah Services 12
TEMPLE BETH EMETH Table of Contents Contact Us 2 Welcome Letter 3 Bar and Bat Mitzvah Brit (Covenant) 4 What is a Bat or Bar Mitzvah? 6 The Brit (Covenant) Explained: TBE Commitment 7 The Brit (Covenant) Explained: Bat or Bar Mitzvah Commitment 10 The Bar and Bat Mitzvah Services 12 After Your Bat or Bar Mitzvah 14 Shabbat Weekend Honors, Opportunities, and Obligations 16 Bar or Bat Mitzvah Logistics 17 Glossary 21 Service- and Celebration-related Checklists 26 Appendix A: Hosting the Saturday Congregational Kiddush 30 Appendix B: Hosting a Private Celebration at TBE 31 Appendix C: Resources for Hosting a Bat or Bar Mitzvah Celebration at TBE 32 Appendix D: Mitzvah Project Opportunities for TBE Bat and Bar Mitzvah Students 34 Appendix E: Usher Instructions 36 Appendix F: Additional Resources 38 For any questions or concerns not addressed within this guide, please contact Cantor Hayut. 1 Contact Us Call the Temple’s phone number: (734) 665-4744 Fax: 734-665-9237 Website: http://www.templebethemeth.org Hours: Mon-Thurs: 9am - 5pm Fri: 9am - 3pm Staff Josh Whinston, Rabbi Ext: 212 [email protected] Regina S. Lambert-Hayut, Cantor Ext: 227 [email protected] Rabbi Daniel Alter, Director of Education Ext: 207 [email protected] Clergy Assistant Ext: 210 Melissa Sigmond, Executive Director Ext: 206 [email protected] Mike Wolf, Genesis Administrator Ext: 200 [email protected] www.genesisa2.org For any questions or concerns not addressed within this guide, please contact Cantor Hayut. 2 Dear Bar and/or Bat Mitzvah Family, Mazel tov as you begin this exciting journey! The celebration of a child becoming Bat or Bar Mitzvah is one of the highlights in the life cycle of a Jewish family. -
Hillel Torah Bar/Bat Mitzvah Booklet
In the Beginning .............................................................................................................. 2 Torah Learning and Chesed ............................................................................................. 3 Inviting Classmates .......................................................................................................... 3 Shabbat Celebrations ....................................................................................................... 4 Housing At Shul The Kiddush or Luncheon Shabbat Afternoon Activities Bar/Bat Mitzvah Parties ................................................................................................... 5 Guidelines for Attending a Classmate’s Simcha .............................................................. 6 In-School Celebrations .................................................................................................... 7 Gift Program ..................................................................................................................... 7 After Your Simcha ............................................................................................................ 8 Chesed Opportunities Appendix ...................................................................................... 9 Library Centerpieces ...................................................................................................... 15 בס"ד Mazel Tov on the upcoming Bar/Bat Mitzvah of your child! Planning for this simcha is a wonderfully exciting -
Midway Jewish Center Bar and Bat Mitzvah Guide Page 2
LET’S START PLANNING A—BAR/T MITZVAH BAT & BAR MITZVAH THE ULTIMATE MJC GUIDE FOR BAR/BAT MITZVAH Perry Raphael Rank Rabbi Joel Levenson Associate Rabbi Lisa Stein Director of Education Sandi Bettan Preschool Director Genea Moore Synagogue Administrator Michael Kohler President Howard Rosen Ritual Committee Chair Office Phone (516) 938-8390 Office Fax (516) 938-3906 E-Mail [email protected] Revised December, 2016 / Kislev, 5777 Midway Jewish Center Bar and Bat Mitzvah Guide Page 2 TABLE OF CONTENTS INTRODUCTION 3 WHAT IS BAR/T MITZVAH? 3 HOW MUCH OF THE SERVICE OUR CHILDREN WILL KNOW 4 WHY WE TEACH WHAT WE TEACH 4 RABBIS' ROLES 5 THE TUTORS' ROLES 5 TIMETABLE FOR THE BAR/T MITZVAH EXPERIENCE 7 HELPING OUR CHILDREN BECOME RESPONSIBLE JEWS 7 EDUCATIONAL AND RELIGIOUS REQUIREMENTS 8 THE DIRECTIONS / DECORUM CARD 9 BAR/T MITZVAH INVITATION DISPLAY POLICY 9 HONORS 10 KIDDUSH 10 SE'UDAH SHEL MITZVAH—A MEAL EMANATING FROM A MITZVAH 10 SYNAGOGUE DECORUM 10 A TZEDAKKAH OPPORTUNITY 11 SOME TERMS YOU OUGHT TO KNOW 12 AN ALIYAH: IT’S AN HONOR -- BUT WHAT DO I DO? 18 Midway Jewish Center Bar and Bat Mitzvah Guide Page 3 INTRODUCTION Is it hard to believe that your child will soon become a Bar or Bat Mitzvah? You might as well brace yourself now. That little boy or girl that just yesterday was strapped into a car seat is today getting all set for adolescence. Our children begin to go through some dramatic changes, physically and emotionally, at the age of thirteen. The rabbis were wise in choosing this age as the proper time for becoming Bar/t Mitzvah. -
Bar and Bat Mitzvah Temple Israel Sanctuary
Temple Israel Sanctuary The Ark, which is the central focus of the sanctuary, houses the Torah scrolls. Its doors MEMPHIS, TENNESSEE are carved with the Burning Bush. This represents a particularly moving moment in the early history of our people, when Moses accepted God’s mission and led the Jewish people out of Egypt to Sinai. The brilliantly hued tapestry within the Ark represents Bar and Bat Mitzvah the form of the Ark doors. The Hebrew letter Shin,which signifies the word Shaddai, meaning God, is sculpted into the center of the Ark doors. The term bar/bat mitzvah means son/daughter of mitzvah. According to Judaism, at the age of 13 an individual can now take on additional religious The Ten Commandment Tablets appear above the doors of the Ark. They represent the privileges and responsibilities. Mitzvot, literally commandments, are the fulfillment of God’s promise to Moses at the Burning Bush and are the guiding precept responsibilities of a Jew. Before reaching the age of bar or bat mitzvah, for the daily life of every Jew. The Eternal Light, symbolic of the Jew’s ongoing spirit, is children voluntarily perform mitzvot. Followingbar/bat mitzvah, mitzvot placed above the Tablets. From its form, a torch, we infer light permeating darkness, become obligatory. In this regard, the idea of fulfilling the commandments just as the Torah has illuminated the life of every Jew throughout the ages. suggests accepting responsibility as an adult. This is sacred and deserving of The stone mosaic wall on either side of the Ark symbolizes the wings of an angel. -
Bnai Mitzvah Handbook
Bnai Mitzvah Handbook Everything you need to know (logistics, tutoring, planning, requirements, & whom to contact with questions) for your child’s upcoming Bar/Bat Mitzvah Congregation Neveh Shalom 2900 SW Peaceful Lane Portland, Oregon 97239 503‐246‐8831 Updated Oct. 2018 http://nevehshalom.org/bar‐bat‐mitzvah/ Whoever teaches his children teaches not only his children, but also his children’s children, and so on to the end of generations. Talmud Kiddushin 10a ii CNS Bnai Mitzvah Process—Timeline Scheduling Bar/Bat Mitzvah: December of 4th/5th Grade or 6th Grade if just joined, receive scheduling request letter from Lisa Return letter by date provided Receive communications from Lisa/Cantor regarding date Receive letter confirming date by February Bnai Mitzvah meeting: Receive invitation in fall of 5th, 6th , and 7th grades from Mel October meeting with Fred, Clergy, Mel, parent‐led Q&A by class Receive manual with all information at meeting; manual also available on website Prior to each grade’s first Bar/Bat Mitzvah, Mel sends email to class reminding parents of inclusion policy and encouraging families to attend with their kids. *Also obligation to respond to RSVPs, and special notes for large classes. Tutoring: Receive communication from Cantor regarding tutoring 13 months prior to Bar/Bat Mitzvah. Cantor assigns tutor and provides family with Tutor contact info. Tutor connects with family and begins scheduling weekly meetings with student, provides binder with parsha/haftarah information. Tutor provides progress reports to family (and Cantor), schedules rehearsals for student in services, and decides, in consultation with family and Cantor, which parts of service student will lead. -
South Huntington Jewish Center
1 South Huntington Jewish Center A Guide To Bar/Bat Mitzvah 2 Table of Contents Message from the Rabbi 3 Message from the Hazzan 4 Messages from the Tutors 5-7 The Basic Requirements 8 Tallit and Tefillin 9 Learning the Bar/Bat Mitzvah Service 9-15 Lessons 15-16 Special Learning Situations 16 Participation In Service 16-17 The Weeks Before 17-19 The “Mitzvah” In Bar/Bat Mitzvah 19 Oneg Shabbat and Kiddush 20 Bimah Flowers 20 Parent Ushering 20 Financial Obligations 21 Shabbat Decorum 21-22 The Service 22-23 Post Bar/Bat Mitzvah 23 Glossary 24-25 To Assist You….Telephone Numbers 26-27 3 Message From The Rabbi YOUR CHILD’S BAR/BAT MITZVAH: A CELEBRATION AND AN OPPORTUNITY Mazal Tov! Your child’s Bar/Bat Mitzvah is fast approaching. We at the South Huntington Jewish Center are all anxiously anticipating your simhah and are here to assist you in any way that we can. Bar/Bat Mitzvah is indeed a simhah - a celebration, a joyous time. It is a time to reflect on the passage of time - fondly remembering birth and childhood, and, yes, even looking forward to the wedding day. All these emotions are strongly felt and articulated in the “Sheheheyanu” brakhah that we say on the Bar/Bat Mitzvah day. We thank God for “keeping us in life, for sustaining us and for enabling us to reach this happy moment”. Yet while Bar/Bat Mitzvah is a simhah, it is also an opportunity. It is an opportunity to “plug-in” to the Synagogue; an opportunity to get closer to the clergy and professional staff. -
The Bar/Bat Mitzvah Handbook
Congregation Beth Israel BAR/BAT MITZVAH GUIDE 2021-2022 301 East Jefferson Street Charlottesville, Virginia 22902 (434) 295-6382 www.cbicville.org 1 WELCOME Mazal Tov to you and your child for deciding to pursue a course of study that will lead to a public celebration of his/her becoming a Bar/Bat Mitzvah! This handbook will provide you with information about the process of preparing for becoming Bar/Bat Mitzvah at Congregation Beth Israel. “Bar/Bat Mitzvah” is a noun. It refers to a person who has become responsible for the mitzvot (the commandments or imperatives of Jewish life). When your child becomes a Bar or Bat Mitzvah, the Jewish community will begin to see her/him more as an adult and less as a child. S/he will be counted in a minyan, s/he will be eligible to be called for an aliyah, and s/he will begin to be expected to make thoughtful choices about the mitzvot of daily life. One of the important mitzvot about which s/he will make a choice, concerns continuing Jewish education in the post-Bar/Bat Mitzvah program including culminating with Confirmation and graduation in 12th grade. In our opinion, if a Bar or Bat Mitzvah celebration at the age of 13 marks the end-point of Jewish study, it is comparable to dropping out of school after completing elementary school. It is a tragic loss of opportunity to learn and continue to explore, on a more mature level, what it means to live a Jewish life. We certainly hope you will encourage your child to continue his/her Jewish education, not only in our post-Bar/Bat Mitzvah program, but also throughout life. -
TC Sisterhood to Hold Feb. 26 Program on Women of Reform
February 10-16, 2017 Published by the Jewish Federation of Greater Binghamton Volume XLVI, Number 6 BINGHAMTON, NEW YORK “Facing Fakery: Journalism’s Challenge” to be topic at Feb. 11 Beth David Shabbat luncheon By Paula Rubin “Jeff Platsky, the featured speaker, is no a B.A. in newspapers from Syracuse Uni- ing as president for the last six. He and his “Facing Fakery: Journalism’s Chal- stranger to journalism or Jewish values,” versity and an M.B.A. from Binghamton family reside in Binghamton, where both lenge” will be the topic at the Beth organizers noted. University. His journalism career started of his children graduated from Bingham- David Shabbat luncheon on February Platsky has been with Gannett Central in Northern Maine and later on offered ton University and are currently pursuing 11, following services at Beth David New York Newspapers for the past 36 him a chance to witness “The Miracle on careers in business. Synagogue, 39 Riverside Dr., Bing- years. He worked as a bureau reporter Ice” during the 1980 Winter Olympics in For more information about the lun- hamton. The entire community has been and currently as an investigative/content Lake Placid. cheons or how to sponsor all or part of any invited to services, the free luncheon editor. A native of Queens, he attended He has been on the Jewish Community luncheon for any reason, call Beth David and the talk. New York City public schools, received Center board for more than 10 years, serv- Synagogue at 772-1793. TC Sisterhood to hold Feb. 26 program on Women of Reform Judaism By Helene Philips Women of Reform Judaism, founded in Temple Concord Sisterhood is part of includes “creative, inspirational” Shabbat Temple Concord Sisterhood will present 1913, is the women’s affiliate of the Union the Northeast District of WRJ, one of eight services with traditional and new music, the program “Why Women of Reform Juda- of Reform Judaism, the central body of districts in North America, and includes Torah discussions and Shabbat workshops. -
Shabirthday Guide
Happy S H A B B I R T H D A Y וַיְ ִהי בַּי ּוֹם ַה ׁ ְּשלִי ׁ ִשי יוֹם ֻהלֶּ ֶדת ֶאת־ ּפַ ְרע ֹה וַיַּעַשׂ ִמ ׁ ְש ֶּתה לְכָל־עֲבָ ָדיו. And on the third day, his birthday, Pharaoh made a banquet for all his officials. - Genesis 40:20 The very first recorded mention of a birthday celebration in Western literature is right here in the Torah, the Hebrew Bible. But birthdays have been celebrated for thousands of years in Eastern cultures, particularly evident in the Chinese tradition of “longevity noodles” — the longer the noodle you can slurp, the longer your life will be. Now that’s a ritual we can get behind. Whether you’re celebrating a birth date, birth month, star sign, or Chinese zodiac, we hope this guide helps elevate the centerpiece of your Shabbat — the once-in-a-lifetime miracle that is you. O N E T A B L E . O R G | @ O N E T A B L E S H A B B A T Light Shabbat candles! Birthday candles! More light means more joy. The light you create tonight will welcome your weekend, and sparkle long into your new year. בָּרוּךְ ַא ָּתה יְיָ ֱאל ֵֹהינוּ ֶמלֶךְ ָהעוֹלָם ֲא ׁ ֶשר ִק ְדּ ׁ ָשנוּ בְּ ִמצְוֹ ָתיו וְצִוָּנוּ לְ ַה ְדלִיק נֵר ׁ ֶשל ׁ ַשבָּת. Baruch Atah Adonai Eloheinu Melech ha’olam asher kidshanu b’mitzvotav vitzivanu l’hadlik ner shel Shabbat. Blessed is the Oneness that makes us holy through commandments and commands us to kindle the light of Shabbat. -
This Week at the Lori Schottenstein Chabad Center
The Young Ladies' Mitzvah Club met March 10 for an afternoon of dancing, decorating, and matzah baking! Please wish a Happy Birthday to Rabbi Areyah Kaltmann! His Hebrew birthday is this Shabbat! Birthday wishes as well to our hard working office manager, Justin Fisher! Join us for a meaningful and elegant Seder night! Share a traditional Seder with us and enjoy a delicious four course meal. Taste the special Passover delicacies of Charoset & Marror and eat our special hand baked "Shmurah" Matzah. Monday, March 25, 7:15 pm. Tuesday, March 26, 7:15 pm. Led by Rabbi Levi and Aviva Andrusier Led by Rabbi Areyah and Esther Kaltmann at their home at The Lori Schottenstein Chabad Center 2929 E. Broad St. 6220 East Dublin Granville Rd. Columbus, OH 43209 New Albany OH 43054 TO RSVP and for more information, please call 614-939-0765 or email [email protected] Seder cost: $45 adults, $20 Children under 12 Space is limited. A project of the Lori Schottenstein Chabad Center. Online Passover Resources Chabadcolumbus.com/passover includes Passover Guide | History of Passover | Recipes Sell Chatmetz online (deadline MARCH 25 9:00 am) Order Matzah and much more! Candle Lighting Times Schedule of Services The Lori Schottenstein Chabad Center offers a full schedule of Shabbat and holiday services. Come and be inspired for the rest of the week! For more information, please call us at 614-939-0765. 5 Nissan, 5773 Saturday, March 16, 2013 Parsha Va'yikrah Shabbat Friday, March 15 Light Candles at 7:19 pm Morning Services: 9:30 a.m Shabbat Ends Saturday, March 16 at 8:19 pm Shabbat CKids - ages 5-12: 10:45 a.m. -
Jewish Wisconsin 5775-5776/2014-2015
A GUIDE TO Jewish Wisconsin 5775-5776/2014-2015 Your connection to Jewish Arts, Culture, Education, Camping and Religious Life Welcome from the Publisher Hannah Rosenthal Daniel Bader Welcome to A Guide to Jewish Wisconsin 5775-5776/ We also invite you to learn more about The Chronicle by 2014-2015, a publication of The Wisconsin Jewish visiting JewishChronicle.org. Visit MilwaukeeJewish.org Chronicle. The Guide is designed to help newcomers to learn more about the Milwaukee Jewish Federation, become acquainted with our state’s vibrant Jewish which publishes both the Guide and The Chronicle as community and to help current residents get the most free services to our community. out of what our community has to offer. If you are new to the Milwaukee area, please contact We invite you to explore the resources listed in this guide Shalom Milwaukee at the Milwaukee Jewish Federation and to get to know the people behind the organizations (414-390-5700). We are here to help you find a that make our community a rich and relevant place to meaningful Jewish experience in Wisconsin. be Jewish. We hope you will form strong connections, create new opportunities and find your place to thrive. Hannah Rosenthal Daniel Bader CEO/President Chair Connect with your Jewish Community online and in print. For your free subscription contact Tela Bissett at (414) 390-5720 or [email protected]. To advertise, contact Jane Dillon at (414) 390-5765 or [email protected]. JewishChronicle.org Welcome from the Publisher n 1 The Wisconsin Table of Contents WELCOME FROM THE PUBLISHER ................