April2002 Quaker Thought FRIENDS and Life OURNAL Today
Spirituality andOldAge
A Quaker Family in Afghanistan, 1949-51
((Render unto Caesar)): A Text for Tax Refusers An Among Friends independent magazine serving the Religious The Way Forward Society of Friends . M y own monthly meeting, Green Street, in Philadelphia, is not talkative during worship, and it is not uncommon for meeting to proceed in wholly Editorial uninterrupted silence-except for the happy noises when children enter Susan Corson-Finnerty (Publisher and Executive Editor}, Robert Dockhorn (Senior Editor), Lisa the room, about 45 minutes into our time together. That changed after the deeply Rand (Acting Assistant Editor), Judith Brown unsettling attacks of September 11 . In the following weeks we experienced an increase (Poetry Editor), Ellen Michaud (Book Review Editor), J. Brent Bill (Assistant Book Review Editor), both in the numbers attending and in the amount of vocal ministry. After a month or Joan Overman (Book Review Assistant}, Christine so, however, we resumed our normal pattern of collective, deep silence-listening to Rusch (Milestones Editor), Julie Gochenour, Robert Marks, Cameron McWhirter (News Editors), Kara the ministry of our creaking benches, the crackling of our fireplace, a few city noises, Newell (Columnist), Marjorie Schier (Copyeditor), and only an occasional but heartfelt offering of vocal ministry. Nara T. Alves (Intern} One would be mistaken, however, to assume that this has been a period of stasis Production Barbara Benton (Art Director), Alia Podolsky for us. I, for one, feel a new clarity. It's not that the sense of urgency is new; for a long (Assistant Art Director), Martin Kelley (Web time it has been apparent that we on this planet are in deep trouble on a number of Manager) fronts, from rising environmental chaos to widening economic disparities. But after Advertising, Circulation, Development Nagendran Gulendran (Advertising Manager), September 11, there is a heightened, gut-level sense of urgency everywhere, and in Nicole Hackel (Circulation Assistant), Pamela this new reality, the silence has been especially important for me. In it, I have felt Nelson (Development Assistant}, Kay Bacon, Ruth Peterson, Robert Sutton (Volunteers) reassurance that even in this crisis there is a calm, deliberate, and loving-in short, a Administration spiritual- way forward. Marianne De Lange (Office Manager), Tom McPeak The culture around us has focused on a retaliatory response to the new threats (Accounting Services), Tom Hartmann (Volunteer) Board of Trustees on "good" people winning out over "evil" people. In the face of this seductive Barbara Andrews, Lucinda Antrim, TylaAnn thought, it has been especially important for me to dwell on the simple message that Burger (Treasurer), Katharine Clark, Linda Coffin, John Darnell, William Deutsch, Maty Ann there is "that of God in every one." Or as Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn put it, somewhat Downey, Walter Evans, Marsha Green (Recording differently: the line between good and evil runs through the center of every human Clerk), Dan Hewin, Linda Lyman, Larty Miller, Julian O'Reilley, Ruth Peterson, David Runkel, heart. This is a vital truth. 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2 Apri/2002 FRIENDS jOURNAL April2002 FRIENDS Volume 48, No. 4 JOURNAL Features Departments
7 Light through the Cracks 2 Among Friends Mary Ann Downey Imperfections have a vital role to play in our spiritual Lives. 4 Forum 8 A Quaker Family in Afghanistan, 5 Viewpoint 1949-51 Our contributions are vital even at the end Os Cresson 23 Quaker Profiles Three letters reveal the richness ofAJKhan Life 50 years ago. Mickey Edgerton 14 "Render unto Caesar'': A Text for 24 Witness Tax Refusers Prayer ofredemption Cliff Marrs There are defects in the common interpretation that jesus 25 Reflection supported paying all taxes. Can a Brazilian change the world? 16 Why I am Leaving Quakers 28 Books Jack Powelson 35 News An economist explains what drew him to Quakers and why he now feels unwelcome. 38 Bulletin Board 1 7 Spirituality and Old Age 40 Milestones Edward Hoare Spiritual needs change as we age, and so do the 43 Classified responsibilities ofmeetings toward us. 46 Meetings 20 A Tribute to Millicent Carey Mcintosh Jane C. Kronick A Quaker president ofBarnard was the key influence in the lives ofmany women.
Poetry
19 Paean Earl Coleman
Cover photo by Theodore Hetzel, Wetherill (right) and Os Cresson bargain for toys in an A./Khan 1964 market, 1950
F RIENDS JoURNAL April 2002 3 Forum
or programs offered for patient referred to above, as one more Friend who End-of-life decisions must entenainment. For five years she lay there has weighed all the options and is be respected saying she was ready to die. Family and comfonable with the one she has chosen. friends visited her and she told them she had T he letter from Friends in retirement had a wonderful life and was ready to go. Doris H Darnell communities, headed "Healthcare at the Finally one family member in charge of her State College, Pa. End of Life" (F]Oct. 2001), touches on finances noticed she was billed for daily many points important to me. I applaud the doctor visits, and a nephew who was a signers for speaking out. doctor fl ew down to Florida to see her. She Let's take effective steps to In this area, I do not believe that Friends asked him why it was taking her so long to avoid further war must reach consensus. We need to address die. He asked to see all her medications, the inevitable in terms of our own went to her physician and asked about a Congress may be considering expansion convictions. I ask only that there be an cenain medication. The doctor said that of U.S. military aggression to Iraq and understanding of differences rather than without it she would die. Her nephew Somalia. I think of the scars our men and responses that attempt, out of deeply felt ordered it stopped and after five long years, women in uniform suffered from Gulf War beliefs, to convince others who differ, that she died. I believe her case was not an syndrome and during the failed Somali they are wrong. occupation of 1992-4; I hope that we don't It is easy for me to pinpoint the exact have to send them back there. time when I carne to realize that I wished Of course the U.S. government must passionately to be in charge of the end of work seriously to reduce weapons of mass my life. That was many years ago. It destruction and the training of terrorists followed the civilized decision on the part worldwide. Yet terrorism is committed by of an elderly couple, highly regarded in the individuals, not by entire nations. world of literature and academia, to choose Supponing the Rome Statute for an the time when they were ready to die. I International Criminal Court, so that such read their beautiful letter explaining their individuals could be indicted and fairly decision and published after their deaths, tried, would be cheaper and less bloody with great sympathy and understanding. than war. That was the road I wished to follow and I Iraqi civilians have already suffered a have not changed. decade of bombing, and harsh economic I am impressed by the fact that Friends exception, that doctors believe they are sanctions have led to the deaths of hundreds have always cared for the well-being ofaging required to keep patients alive if medication of thousands oflraqi children. Somalia has Friends, providing boarding homes for the or any devices are available and in some cases had no functioning government since 1991. elderly in most quarterly meetings. Many fear lawsuits if they don't. U.S.-Ied war in those areas would likely families either had a member living in one or My other observation has to do with increase humanitarian suffering and decrease serving on the corporation or the board. another friend who was told that he needed international stability. It would increase More recently Friends have been in the a cenain procedure or he would die. He had animosity between U.S. citizens and Muslim vanguard in establishing the ongoing had a long and distinguished career and he peoples worldwide. Friends Services for the Aging, Friends Life elected to die. But instead of accepting his We in the U.S. must answer hatred with Care at Home, and Quaker-directed decision as his way of dying with dignity, proactive solutions. Implementing Anicle VI continuing care retirement communities. several physicians visited him wanting to of the 1968 N uclear Non-Proliferation But to my knowledge there has been no insure that he knew what he was doing, as Treaty, which calls for a "treaty on general articulated position on a most imponant though he were a child making a wrong and complete disarmament under strict and point in any life: the right to make the decision. And in each case he had to justifY effective international control," should be decision as to when to die. what should have been a private end-of-life one of our top priorities. The U.S. military I would like to see that right taken for decision. On the plus side his family and should also de-al en our Trident nuclear granted. I would like to see the medical friends visited, sent CDs with favorite music submarines, which only threaten our profession understanding and cooperating as or videos of films he loved, and shonly neighbors and promote international a matter of course. I would also like to see before he died two weeks later, he said he insecurity. Legislation that provides the word "suicide" banished when had never known that dying could be such enforcement for the 1972 convention to individuals determine that they are ready to fun! ban biological weapons is an imponant die or when their advance directives speak That is the way I should like to die, next step. for them. This is not suicide; it is an making my own decision that the time has Senator Feinstein's "Security and Fair intelligent decision made to insure that no come, either on the spot (with or without a Enforcement in Arms Trafficking Act of medication nor life suppon devices are put medical crisis) or via advance directives that 2001" (S 1555), and the "Landmine into use to prolong life. spell out clearly that I want no assists to keep Elimination and Victim Assistance Act of I have two personal observations. One me going! And I hope that by then my 200 I" (S 497, HR 498) are vital steps relates to a dear friend who at the age of 90 decision is so commonplace that not an toward increasing international stability. could no longer care for herself and was eyebrow is raised. When considering the Foreign Operations gradually becoming weaker and weaker. She This is a controversial issue and I have no Appropriations Bill for FY02, we must was moved to a very attractive nursing home intention of entering into a controversy, but reduce U.S. military assistance in Colombia with all amenities. She was well cared for but I feel my decision is mine and I want to go and the Andean region, which numerous was beyond being interested in any activities on record, with the signers of the statement human-rights organizations have linked to
4 Apri/2002 FRIENDS joURNAL Viewpoint Our Contributions are Vital, even at the End he Viewpoint letter "Healthcare at than from many busy, productive people "in vidual circumstances, not offer simplistic the End of Life" (Fj Oct. 2001) their prime." I would not want those lives to solutions that ignore, or exacerbate, the T addressed several concerns on be shortened by one moment, even if a great larger problem. which many of us may agree, but I was effort on my part was required to support The second reason that people may shocked by the approach taken in one of them, and I know that most families feel perceive others as a burden is that we have the early paragraphs, and would like to the same way even in situations where many been taught, as a sociery, to base our own address these words directly. hardships and miseries are involved along with and others' intrinsic value on tangible "During postretirement we undergo the joys. qualities like income, appearance, pro an inexorable decline in our own enjoy I agree with the signers of this letter that ductivity, participation, etc., so that when ment ofexistence and in the pleasure that people in postretirement who feel that their such tangible things become less evident we give to others, and an increase in the lives are substantively over should be encour it can be easy to assume that life is not psychic and physical burdens we impose aged to seek a dearness process and explore all worth living and we have nothing to of on others.... "Whe n stated as a certainty, possibilities that may be available to them fer. This is not a belief that is based in any as it is here, this is dangerous nonsense. even including suicide-without a blanket deep consideration of the value of life Although a physical decline may be "in "reassurance" and dismissal of their concerns irself. We cannot know what our value is, exorable," this in no way requires that a on the part of well-meaning friends. But I ultimately; we can only live our lives as comparable decline in enjoyment and in think it is absolutely essential that we never, well and as fully as possible. At the same trinsic value is also "inexorable." We must under any circumstances, encourage people time, we do know in our hearts that the seriously question our society's idea that to think of themselves as a burden, especially simple presence of a loved person can be only the young and able-bodied have valu if this is based primarily on the fact that they more than enough value for the one who able contributions to make. I understand are no longer wage-earners. If a person per loves them, even if they are completely that the signers ofthis letter were speaking ceives one's own life as burdensome and ap disabled or aged, even if the financial and for their own experiences and probably proaches a decision that it is time to end it, personal struggles can be enormous. for cases where extreme ill health makes then that is something to consider deeply and We are all "burdens" to ourselves and living difficult in many ways, but they fully. But if any person is perceived as a bur each other at times, in large and small imply that certain conclusions should be den by others, for whatever reason, then we as ways-but please, Friends, when we are drawn from these experiences and diffi a society are the ones who need to consider thinking about what a human being is culties-such conclusions have frighten and change ourselves. "worth," let us "sink down to the Seed" in ing implications, are inapplicable in many Two factors may lead to the perception of ourselves and each other, perceiving that cases, and cannot be used as the basis for a person in postretirement as a burden. First, which makes us "worthwhile" at the deep decisions in our communities. the very real and horrible financial and per est level. Let us never tell anyone that "we The danger lies in the fact that by sonal pressures that are placed on family and should stop consuming the human and voicing our own possible concerns about friends when a person is ill or disabled for an physical resources that sustain our me "being a burden to others" we suggest extended period: these problems are huge and tabolism" at the point when we have that it is natural we should feel this way, can cause despair, but they must be addressed stopped being productive. When we are and that the honorable solution is to bow through social change, with the assumption ready to die, whether it is when the body out gracefully and die as soon as possible. that people in old age, just like those who do is ready or when we determine that we Others who may have many years ofhapp y not work for reasons of illness or disability, are have had enough, it should not be a prac and valuable life ahead of them may feel, of as much value as those who are working, tical matter that can be measured by our and are encouraged to feel, that they should young, able-bodied, and financially produc limited concepts ofwhat we have to "con spare others the "burden" of caring for tive. When society cannot meet these chal tribute." We must trust that even if the them physically or financially. lenges, it is a problem like any other terribly circumstances are difficult, while we are As someone who works with elderly troubling social problem. We would not at alive we are contributing something vi and terminally ill people, I see much de tempt to eliminate poverty, for example, by tal-perhaps in ways that we cannot be spair and drain on families, and much encouraging the poor to see themselves as aware of, and perhaps to others even more unhappiness in individuals, but I've also worthless, or to paraphrase Scrooge: "If they than to ourselves. seen many, many other individuals who, are dying of hunger, then let them do it and Kirsten Backstrom even in the extremity ofdementia or physi reduce the surplus population." In real and Portland, Oreg. cal illness, feel continued joy in their lives present situations where families are strug and bring great joy to others. Personally, I gling with such unsolved social problems, Kirsten Backstrom is a member of receive more spiritual, intellectual, and Friends communities need to come to their Multnomah (Oreg.) Meeting. emotional "resources" from these people support in complicated ways geared to indi- the arming of terrorist right-wing terrorist networks like bin Laden's ai-Qaida. worldwide for international law. Shouldn't paramilitaries there. Finally, HR 1594, the These are simple, effective steps that the we consider these steps before involving Foreign Military Training Responsibility U.S. can take right here at home to reduce ourselves in another bloody and costly war? Act, is a necessary tool providing the world's supply of weapons of mass Congressional oversight to ensure that U.S. destruction, to stop the arming and training Susanna Thomas military trainees worldwide do not spawn of terroristS, and to promote respect Warren, N.J.
FRIENDS }OURNAL Apri/2002 5 Let's press for measures that we have become respected for our impartial, obligations" under the WTO agreement on quiet diplomacy. Quaker House, which is Trade Related Aspects oflntellectual reduce violence just a few blocks from the United Nations, is Property Rights (''TRIPS"). Until the Doha used as a safe, comfortable place to bring Conference, the TRIPS agreement required Scott Simon's anicle in support of the people from the United Nations community all WTO members to respect patents on war against terrorism (Fj Dec. 200 1) does together for off-the-record meetings on medicines to treat HIV AIDS and other not consider ways to limit that violence. In I sensitive issues. pandemic diseases. This means they can now contrast, the November 15 statement of the We must continue to support and issue compulsory licenses for much cheaper U.S. Catholic bishops that approved the war strengthen these activities as we try to raise generic medicines without fear of being sued also urged the U.S. to end the sanctions awareness of the need for a global response in the by major pharmaceutical against Iraq, combat poverty worldwide, and wro to terrorism. The UN is fragile from lack of companies in developed countries that reduce the global arms trade. One might support and in danger of domination by a produce the more expensive, patented drugs. add: be willing to negotiate, feed the U.S. determined to use it to its own ends. What most Friends will not know is that refugees, etc. Yet it is still the only world body we have. this group of developing countries asked the Simon assesses the hijackers as psychotics, We as Friends can play an important role in Quaker United Nations Office in Geneva to much as President Bush dismisses them as raising awareness of the need for more help them prepare this proposal. It was evil. Even if both men are right, one must creative and enlightened global foreign QUNO that, over the last year, brought still consider how the U.S. can stop enraging policy in this country. The recognition of together international legal experts at people to the point that they join or fund the importance of the UN, its agencies, and Quaker House in Geneva who, together terrorists. its legal institutions is essential ifwe are to with the group of developing countries, Our high altitude, hit-or-miss bombing really minimize the threat of terrorism and drafted the proposal to the Ministerial has reportedly killed hundreds ofAfghan achieve a more peaceful and just world. Conference that resulted in this historic civilians. Sanctions have reportedly resulted decision being taken in Doha. in the deaths of hundreds of thousands of SciUa Wahrhaftig Iraqi civilians. The U.S. supports repressive Quaker United Nations Office, regimes in Egypt and Saudi Arabia, which Michael Royston New York, N.Y. Clerk, Geneva Monthly Meeting, contributed the most hijackers. Likewise the Geneva, Switzerland U.S. tilts heavily towards Israel, which represses Palestinians and has inflicted by far Validation ofAFSC the most casualties. Each of these U.S. Why can we not see practices favors the terrorists and tries the I am writing out of deep appreciation for coalition against them. It will be really ]. William Frost's informed and thoughtful ourselves? foolish if we martyr bin Laden. anicle, "AFSC and the Terrorist War" (Fj What is terrorism? Who is a terrorist? I suspect that many Quakers besides Jan.). When a suicide bomber brings explosion Simon support the war. But that makes it all It is the best brief account ofwhat and agony to a city street, the media are the more important for them to press for American Friends Service Committee is there. The world sees it on TV and is filled additional measures that reduce the current about, with appropriate suggestions about with horror and sympathy. When weapons violence and end it as soon as possible. "where we go from here." The anicle serves as a splendid introduction for anyone of massive destruction, sent from great Malcolm Bell unfamiliar with the unique conuibutions of distances, rain down on civilians, this is Weston, Vt. AFSC since it began in 1917. For that certainly one of the most devastating forms reason, I have distributed copies to both of terrorism, but few people are there to Friends and others as a thoughtful reminder record it. There are no TV pictures to bring Let's Support the UN of"what must be done" in these dark times. reality, response, and compassion. Land International validation for AFSC's work mines are an everlasting source of terror all We would like to follow up on J. is evident not only in its receiving the Nobel over the world, so easily spread, almost William Frost's article on "AFSC and the Prize for Peace in 1947, but more recently in impossibly dangerous to remove. Terrorist War" (F]Jan.) with thoughts for the United Nations Decade for the Culture Unlike most of the nations of the world, further Quaker tactics. of Peace and Nonviolence for the Children our nation has never been attacked and In our understanding of the history of of the World, 2001-2010. reduced to rubble by continuous bombing, Quaker response to war, we should not Michael True or experienced thousands dead with power, forget our work at the United Nations and Worcester, Mass. water, infrastructure, hospitals, schools, its precursor, the League ofNations. The farmlands, factories, all sources of income all UN was born as a response to World War demolished. Is this why our nation, really II. Quakers have had a continual presence QUNO helps prepare kindly of heart, seems so incredibly slow in there for the nearly 50 years of its existence really letting its right hand become deeply and, through its Geneva Office, since 1922 groundbreaking proposal aware of what its left hand is doing? in relation to the League ofNations. Friends will no doubt have been greatly The Quaker United Nations Office has heartened by the fact that the recent World Barbara C St. john worked steadily on issues of concern to Trade Organization Ministerial Conference Lexingron, Mass. Friends: world peace, development, and in Doha agreed to a declaration on patents elimination of nuclear and conventional and public health proposed by 57 arms, the environment, racism, and the developing countries that will allow them to prevention of deadly conflict. Over the years give priority to public health over their "legal
6 Apri/2002 FRIENDS jOURNAL "Ring the bells that still can ring. for worship have in common Forget your perfect offering. openings to the light, well de There's a crack, a crack in signed "cracks," beautifully ar everything ranged to turn our attention to That's how the light gets in. " the light. Their design reminds hese words from a song me ofour need, our dependence by Leonard Cohen are, on sunlight, especially in winter for me, the perfect an and times of spiritual darkness. T!swe r to days of darkness These wonderful creations also now and in the past. In times of offer the message that making a grief and joy, I often have the space for worship and directing urge to climb the nearest church our attention to the light and to steeple and ring a bell, some God's Light takes daily work in times without even knowing ex small steps by people dedicated actly why. Is it protest, a call to to working together over a life rally others, or simply a way of time and hundreds of years. saying, 'Tm still here, speaking The challenge on my spiri out in the only way I can?" And tual journey is planning ways to .::~ I'm giving up on the "perfect let the Light in and to pay atten- ~ offering," the exact right way to cion to the seed that G~d sows in ~ communicate and am getting my heart. I am becommg better ~ down to accepting my own at creating openings, framing ~ "cracks," flaws, and imperfec time and space for both the sun- "" tions. What a relief to know light and the Light. Morning i' that the Light, the healing light yoga, prayer, meditation alone ~ of God's love, will get through and with others, journal writing, ~ the cracks. It is the cracks, both and sitting in my garden reading d::; planned and unplanned, that great spiritual teachers are ways open me to God's light. that I build my days to capture This image ofa crack letting in light through the Light. Creating this space for open brought to mind a visit to Newgrange in ings in each day and planning my life Ireland, and my experience ofs tanding in around my spiritual journey is a series of a dark tomb. Like the Egyptian pyramids the Cracks small steps and a commitment for life. that they predate, N ewgrange is an engi At Coventry Cathedral in England, a neering marvel built in the Stone Age modern structure stands beside the re (3,000 B.C.E.) by a farming community experts believe that the grave may have mains of the old cathedral destroyed by on the banks of the River Boyne. Consid been the world's earliest observatory, but the bombing of World War II. A small ered one of the most spectacular prehis it is not clear why such efforts were made cross is mounted on stones and the burned toric tombs in Europe, it is constructed of to create this unique opening to the light ruins. Carved into the stone are the words, 250,000 tons of stone with 97 massive on the winter solstice. "Father forgive." Standing before such a outer boulders decorated and set in a circle As I stood with my husband, his par grave, such a monument burns into my enclosing a mound and underground ents, and a small group in this burial cham mind and heart how hard it is to utter burial chamber. The transportation and ber, a guide showed us how dark it was those words and how much harder it is to construction methods used cannot be fully without any light source throughout the say with sincerety, "I forgive those who explained by scientists today. Like most year, and then he demonstrated (with a have wounded me," or to seek forgiveness tombs it is completely dark, but carefully large flashlight) how the chamber is illu from God and the people I've hurt. Even constructed so that on the winter solstice, mined on the winter solstice. His demon without the devastation of war or terrorist the rays of the rising sun are channeled stration led me to wonder about my own attacks, my own anger, grief, and spiritual through a roof box. Briefly, on that one ability to turn to the Light, and to ques darkness break me. I struggle to accept all day, the light shines down a passageway tion what keeps me in spiritual darkness. these unplanned, ugly cracks, and I dis illuminating the burial chamber. Some How can I align myself with the Light cover that forgiveness opens me to new when I'm feeling despondent? How did light. God's love is always there, ready to Mary Ann Downey is director of Decision accept me, cracks and all. Wonderful new Bridges, a nonprofit organization that brings early Friends, standing or sitting in cells in people together to build consensus and bridge Lancaster prison, keep the faith when sun openings to the Light come when I pray, differences. She is a member ofAtlanta (Ga.) light was denied? "Forgive me, heal me." Leonard Cohen's Meeting and ofthe FRIENDS JouRNAL Board of Newgrange, Chartres, St. Paul's Cathe song plays again, "Forget your perfect of Trustees. dral, and other well known structures built fering .... That's how the Light gets in."O
FRIENDS jOURNAL April2002 7 n 1947 twoyoungQuakerswere saw this announcement in Friends lntel Afghanistan and the two years in neigh ooking for a way to make a prac ligencer. "The Ministry of Education of boring Iran. cal contribution to world peace. Afghanistan is hoping to secure 31 male During this time they met people in Like many of us today, they had teachers from the United States for posi many ways. Their home was open to been shaken by the wars around them. tions in the capital city of Kabul and at Osborne's students practically every after They were World Federalists and social Kandahar, center of Afghan history and noon. They had very close relations with a ists, supported the League ofNations and Pushru culture." It changed their lives few servants and met more Afghans while consumer cooperatives, studied Esperanto, and, to some degree, those of many others. walking on the streets of Kabul. During and were the first employees of the Ex Afghanistan was opening its borders, school vacations they took buses to distant periment in International Living-but one more turn of the wheel in its ages-old corners of the country. Rebecca wrote they wanted to do more. conflict over modernization. It wanted journals, letters, articles, and short stories, Then Rebecca and Osborne Cresson teachers. Osborne loved math and thought and Osborne took photographs to record he would be able to teach it. Rebecca was the culture around them. Os Cresson is a member ofMonteverde Meeting a skilled homemaker and craftsperson and Their experience shows us that we can in Costa Rica anda sojourning member ofMount she could teach elementary school and build peace by going to people who are Holly {NJ) Meeting. The letters are excerpts write about what she saw. Their daughter, different from us and living near them, .from the book, We Felt their Kindliness: An Wetherill (age eight), and son, Os (seven) committing our lives to the simple propo American Family's Afghan Odyssey, 1949- were excited about meeting people whose sition that goodwill toward others can 1951, edited by Os Cresson, to be published by Emerald Pademeum Press, summer 2002, for lives were very different from their own. carry us through any difficulty. Rebecca the purpose ofraisingfonds for American Friends Although the Cressons did not speak and Osborne opened their hearts to the Service Committee's Afghan reliefprograms. See any of the languages of Afghanistan, they Afghan people, and the Afghans responded
8 Apri/2002 FRIENDS jOURNAL since he was strong cheekbones, slanted eyes, enough to carry a small and scant beards of their skin. His. father was a forefathers. In contrast, water carrier before bazaar keepers and gov him and his grandfa ernment officials usually ther, too. Generations have narrow faces, aqui ago Saqao' s ancestors line features, and large lived in the far north round eyes. Class distinc Sa~@ central part of Af tion, defined by facial ap When the Afghan sun shines with ghanistan. The last pearance and added to noontime heat, the compound gate opens spreading fingers of poverty and the inertia of and a water carrier twists through with his the Himalaya Moun malnutrition, have kept bloated sheepskin on his back. Saqao is tains rose high and the northerners' descen very old, with long white tufts of sparse snow-covered between them and their dents at their lowly work. hair growing on his chin. His body is bent king, who lived in Kabul. During long Saqao comes down the path with his almost double under the weight of the years of isolation these people learned to empty water bag flapping. In the midday bag. He leans heavily on a stick, his Mon love their freedom, to grow strong and sun his turban is as white as his wispy golian features drawn in lines of strain. clever in order to survive the rigors of their beard. He stops under the window to With mouth hanging open and beads of existence. Eventually they became too bold salaam and smile, touching his forehead sweat running down the creases in his face and too independent. When they revolted and then his heart, folding his arms across he plods slowly toward the kitchen. against the king, an army was sent to sack his chest and bowing, once to sahib [the Saqao has been a water carrier ever their villages. master of the house], once to hawnum The northern rebels sahib [the mistress], and once to the chil were routed and defeated. dren. Malarial fever is not burning in his Many men were brought thin, muscle-knotted body today, so he to Kabul in captivity, does not ask for medicine. His smile some to be slaves, some spreads from wrinkle to wrinkle across the to do the most lowly tasks. breadth of his face. He turns and, with a Water carrying, road last low bow, shuffles out of the gate to making, and street clean come another day, as his son will come ing became their jobs. when old Saqao can no longer carry the § There is no law now to heavy water skin. E prevent these people from G entering other occupa 0 tions, but most of the 8l street cleaners, road mak ~ @ ers and water carriers still .....;' have the typical, flat Mon ~ golian faces, the broad [We set out to visit rhe northeastern J: part of the country accompanied by a 2!:, good friend, Ezmari, who was one of -: Page 8: New Year's Osborne's students.] It all started off in crowds gather by a ~ mosque at the edge of typical Afghan style. We carried our blan- (j Kabul; vendors bring ket roll, small suitcase, kosai [white felt u smoking samovars and coat], and bag of bread and toys down to ~ tea. Left: Os looks out the corner where the lorry was to pick us ~ over the vaOey near up. We waited and waited, and finally 0 Kabul The Hindu Kush Ezmari came to say that the truck we had ~ mountains and an expected to take us had been stopped by i abandonedpalace are the police; presumably to save gasoline, ~ in the distance. Top: which is very scarce these days. An army ~ Saqao, the water carrier lorry going for a load of rice would take us cs:; 9 on, but its cab would not accommodate narrow streets except for one stretch that us all and Ezmari, Osborne, and Os would is wide and tree-shaded and leads to the have to ride in back. When it arrived at hotel. A UN malaria unit had taken over twelve o'clock (we had expected to leave at the hotel, but a student from the French seven) the soldiers and passengers were school helped us get one room with three friendly, but the driver was peeved at hav beds in it. We slept almost all day while ing a woman thrust into his cab, and he Ezmari visited his cousin, who is the gov wouldn't even speak to the children. ernor of Khanabad. It was dark by the time we got to Zehr [The next day] the local doctor, a bright, i-Shibar (Under Shibar). From the few thoughtful, earnest man, entertained us teahouses that compose the village, the for lunch at a sumptuous meal ofdelicious road winds straight into heaven, or so it chilau [steamed rice, served with sauces], seemed as we drank tea and ate nawn [a various meat cakes and stews, baked cus whole-wheat bread in flat sheets] and the driver even pointed out spots of tard in a thin layer with chopped pistachio cheese. We could see the lights of several interest to me and was pleasant to the nuts on top, and bountiful fruit. Only a trucks that were climbing the road. It children. But I don't believe he thought few hours later we were invited to the truly seemed as though they were going he made much headway in correcting a governor's house for supper. It is two miles straight up into the sky, and when we did bad impression, for even Wetherill and &om town beside a little river, and the it ourselves, we could almost think we Os were cool to him and gave their atten table was set on a terrace under some trees. were too, for the road is quite steep; the tions to those who had been pleasant in There were two large Chinese porcelain double-S curves, one after another, on the beginning. vases offlo wers, tomatoes, cucumbers, and and on and on interminably. [The next day, having driven since 3 onions arranged artistically; thin, fi:ied, [Lacer, after a rest stop,] when we ar A.M.,] lunchtime was at 10 A.M. in a most plate-sized wafers with spinach and chives rived at the lorry it was securely locked, attractive little village. Along the entire between the paper-thin dough; broiled and the driver sitting at a chai hawna [tea lefi:-hand side ofthe road were chai hawnas. chicken; meat cakes; and a pastry made of house] across the way made no move to They had open porches spread with rugs, wheat flour, then dusted with sugar. The go. He sat drinking tea with his hat, coat, a stove and samovar in one corner, trees mulberries were so big and juicy they had and shoes off. Ezmari stewed and finally shading them, and a stream gurgling be to be eaten with forks. The nectarines and went to see him. Shortly they all carne to hind them. We crossed the stream and sat apricots were delicious, and I suppose the the truck, and such a change you never on beds placed under a mulberry tree. cucumbers, which they always serve with did see. Everyone bowed and scraped and T here were no forks in town, so for the fruit, were too, but somehow I didn't the driver even asked if we were comfort first time we really had to use our fingers want cucumber at that point. able and wanted Osborne and both chil and found we could catch on to the sys While we were having breakfast the dren to ride in front, which Osborne re tem quite easily-after Osborne discov next morning, the governor phoned that fused to do because the change carne about ered that he was trying to do it upside down. we would leave right after breakfast for when the driver discovered that Ezmari's The children paddled in the stream, and T aloqan, and from there we could decide father is his superior [in the army]! That we felt quite refreshed when we went on. what to do. It was ten o'clock when we is very typical ofthis country where wealth [Early on the third day] we could see heard a motor, and there was our lorry, a and position bring attention and favor. the trees of Khanabad at the base of a gaily painted wheezing affair with a crown From then on our trip was more comfort mountain, and before long we were there. oft urbaned humanity riding on top ofth e able. We didn't hit so many bumps, and There are two streets of bazaars, unpaved, cab. I got in front while Osborne, Ezmari, and the children ended up on top. One family stayed down below when a big load ofr eeds was picked up. They were walled up so that when they wanted to get off four miles from our destination, they had to break open their bundles and pass them out piecemeal. Un fortunately, the people could not do that, so they had to ride on to
On the Faizabad trip: Left: The travelers wait on their bus-with bicycles and a crib tied on- as the driver makes a repair. Above: Children make music in a home in Khanabad. Right: The family negotiates a trail on horseback.
10 Apri/2002 FRIENDS JouRNAL the end and walk back! nate to find space in a truck to begin our and 1 rooster! When they tried to fit us all [When no vehicles were available in return journey.] The Kokcha Valley as we in, there was a great to-do. They wanted Taloqan we resorted to horses.] Wetherill rode back toward Khanabad was the most to put the woman and sick baby next to rode the baggage horse without saddle or picturesque part of the trip, for the valley Os who sat on the end of our row. When stirrups and with an adult behind her. narrowed to a mere slit between rocky Osborne moved Os to his other side, plac Ezmari, Osborne, and I took turns riding crags in places and every bend brought a ing himself next to the woman, everyone with Wetherill, ~d part of the time the new, entrancing view. The road was no had a fit. Osborne explained the baby was two men who went along, walking a great highway, and we often had to get out to sick and they surprisingly acknowledged part of the way, would ride behind Os or walk up steep slopes or across rickety the justice of keeping Os away. The child someone else. [We were supposed to ride bridges. At one bridge we even unloaded was woefully thin and had pussy eyes. two hours to the next village,] but that the entire truck, down to the last bundle They moved the woman back to the cor village didn't materialize and it was six of bread. That evening we stopped beside ner where she had been and put the bird hours later, at eleven at night, before we a small village ofUzbeks with their round boy next to her with a folded blanket got to a stopping place. Our poor, unac bent-sapling and mat summer houses. A between them. At the height of all the customed muscles ached; Os groaned and gray-bearded patriarch let us sit on his 45- arranging, when every man in the bus was complained in his uninhibited way; and year-old Chinese rug-a handsome raising his voice, all the babies started to when I complimented Osborne for his item-and provided us with tea, eggs, cry and the three birds began to screech. patience, he said that he was just too tired fruit, and nawn that was coarser than the What a hubbub! even to lose patience! When we finally usual Kabul variety, but yeasty and good [Finally, on the home stretch:] By three wound through all the shadowy valleys just hot from baking stones. We all slept o'clock we got to Doab, where we stopped with the owners of the horses as our guides on the ground around the truck. for tea, apricots, and sleep for about an and arrived at the tree-shaded village of [Back in T aloqan we were lucky to find hour. It was here we wished Osborne a Kishim, we had to be practically poured a bus headed toward Kabul.] The busload happy birthday. It was light enough to see off the horses and our legs scarcely held us consisted of28 adults, 13 children, 3 birds, as we churned along toward Shibar Pass. I up. Our laughing so hard at our predica ment gave the natives a chance to laugh with us as well as at us, and it evidendy erased much of the memory of the dis comfort of the trip, for the next morning even Os was ready to go on. [For three days we rode up and down in the mountains.] Each day at about noon we stopped at a small serai, a walled enclosure for animals with mud platforms just inside the gate where men could stretch out to rest and a man would serve tea. We spent a night in one serai where the light was a small, flittering flame from a lamp like Aladdin's. We were beginning to feel as though we had the makings of horse men in us by the third day when we spotted Faizabad way down below us, across the broad Kokcha valley. The town is a beautiful spot at the curve of the river, with high hills all around and snowcapped mountains in the distance. After crossing the valley we had to thread along beside the river, the full length of the town to get to the only bridge that crosses the torrent into Faizabad. Then we had to go all the way back through town with staring crowds of friendly people all along the way until we carne to the governor's house high on the hill. The governor invited us to dinner and gave us a good picture ofhis area, even if Wetherill and Os did fall asleep before the meal was over! [Faizabad was a fascinating town, pro tected by the mountains and river just as Marco Polo described it. We were fortu-
FRIENDS ]OURNALApri/2002 they would make nice wives. A dull-witted sister brought ~ the tea tray. She, poor thing, 0 seemed to do most of the work a and was mercilessly teased ~ about her affiiction. Beautiful g Sister poured two small cups of @ tea with the usual ceremony of -. first rinsing cups and spoons ~ with the hot liquid. Wetherill J. and I were slightly embarrassed ~ about drinking alone while the : assembly watched us. We for- ~ • got to sip loudly, as it was po- 0 Kabul's main street is bisected lite to do. The women watched u by the Kabul Ri.ver; the White us and commented frankly in ~ Mosque is at the end. Pushtu about our appearance ~ Page 13: The Cresson family and each item of clothing. a poses on shipboard as they Everyone had gathered depart for Afghanistan. around us now, a typical fam- ~ ily group. There were Ahad' s ~ two stepmothers, their chil was so sleepy I could hardly hold my eyes terisrics. Some were pretry faces, some were dren, the sister of one of the stepmothers, open, bur I did enjoy the narrow gorge, plain; they all were friendly, curious and her little son and daughter, three ofAhad ' s rushing water, and high, steep, rocky cliffs excited for this was the first rime that these sisters, a small puck-faced niece, as well as that pressed so close. We had our last women had ever entertained Americans. a pudgy, moonfaced baby with a bracelet melon, tea, and nawn for breakfast at The beautiful sister sat opposite us with of blue beads strapped around her wrist Booloola, then even I slept, nodding over her white-dad legs folded. Her black hair and laced between her fat fingers. The the sleeping children most of the way to was brushed smoothly into a pompadour. four-month-old baby of Beautiful Sister Ghorband where we had lunch. Dark The length of it, hanging down her back, was wrapped in swaddling clothes. She ness was just falling when the bus stopped was covered by a white gauze scarf that had mascara lines drawn around her eyes to let us off at the corner where we had went over her head, then was thrown with long points at the corners. embarked on our trip 18 days before. loosely around her shoulders. Her dress Again Ahad came into the room, ac Some of the passengers got out to say was rich red sarin with a tight, square companying his two elderly aunts. I have goodbye. Everyone salaamed, shook hands, necked bodice attached to a full, knee some hesitation about calling them eld and we closed one more chapter of inter length skin. At the neckline and on the erly for when they asked my age and I told esting experience. pockets, gold beads were sewn in a pattern them "39" there was a funny expression of birds and flowers. A heavy gold neck on their faces! Maybe they, too, were 39. lace, small earrings, and thin bracelets or One ofthe aunts was sharp-featured, look 1:J1'xxer ix tk namented one of the loveliest girls I have ing worn with pain and illness. The other ever seen. aunt had a flat, Mongolian-type face with Close behind th e Beautiful One small twinkling eyes. She spoke Persian, Wolff.tX! ~JWferJ crouched two of her friends. T he first was the language of Kabul, so that we could "My stepmother wants you to come to a broad-faced girl with such a lively ex now converse-to the extent of my lim our house for dinner," Ahad told us one pression that one easily ignored the rough ired Persian vocabulary! mornmg. ness of her pockmarked skin. I became The dull sister brought in a water jug That evening, while Osborne and Os aware of the second girl when Ahad en and basin that she took to the first wife of lounged in the men's tea room with Ahad, tered the room. Immediately, the two Ahad's father, who tested the warmth of Wetherill and I sat on fl oor pads in the friends hurried to cover their heads and the water; then it was brought to us women's quarters behind the purdah wall hide their faces with a bright green woolen for hand washing. A small napkin was [the point beyond which no unrelated shawl. Each girl took a corner and peeped ready for drying. Os wandered in, so he man may pass]. We were surrounded by a laughingly at Wetherill and me with the washed his hands too. He was allowed in blur of faces to which we could not talk shawl held as protection against Ahad's both the men's room and that of the because we knew no Pushtu, the ancient glance. He was not beyond noticing them women since he was only eight, bur when language of Kandahar [where we were] though he wandered about pretending, at dinner arrived Os was taken back to eat and our hostesses knew no English. We first, that he didn't. with the men. smiled and waved our hands as expres "Those girls want to be married," Ahad A white cloth was laid on the floor in sively as possible. Ahad's beautiful sister finally remarked. I did not know whether front of us. Mounded plates of rice were smiled back, and gradually the blur of it was proper to ask if they wanted to put in the center. Half-moon sections of faces began to take on identifying charac- marry him so I merely stated that I thought thin, flat bread about 15 inches long were
12 Apri£2002 FRIENDS j OURNAL placed before each person. There were her thin, long-fingered little hands, bowls of soup: clear soup for us, soup grinning with a wide-mouthed grin with bread soaking in it for the finger whenever she could catch my eye. I eaters. Morsels ofstew were picked up didn't find out her identity; perhaps with bent pieces of bread; spinach was she was a cousin. ~ dealt with the same way; rice was eaten After dinner the women sat back to (3 with three fmgers of the right hand and stare and comment again. Wetherill a so were pomegranate seeds. Everyone and I admired the babies some more, ~ dipped right into the serving dishes though we were not allowed to cuddle ~ using no plates, though Wetherill and I them. There was horror in the beauti- @ were given small plates and forks. The ful sister's face when I asked to hold her ~ children crowded in around the cloth baby. Perhaps it was not proper for an { for their supper, the elders eating around infidel to ask to hold the healthy, con- ~ and over their heads. Our interest in tented little Mohammedan. ~ watching the finger-eating was slight Three of the women nursed their compared to the open-mouthed wonder other crouched against the legs of the first babies at frequent intervals; no wonder all of all the women as they watched our wife who stood behind her, with the the little ones are so far. The women in antics with our forks. I suppose it does end of the wife's shawl shielding the side quired about the number of my children, look ridiculously awkward! The eldest of the girl's face that was toward Ahad. unable to believe that rwo were all that I niece, about four years old I presume, Perversely, Ahad moved around to the had. They courteously offered me one of watched us using our forks and was soon other side so the girl drew the wife's skirt their babies and said they would pray that discovered with a large serving spoon, try across to hide the other side of her face I would have more of my own. ing to ape us. When she couldn't manage and squatted there laughing with us at her Once more we had tea, then Ahad to get anything into her mouth with it she predicament. came to tell us that Osborne and Os were tried pouring pomegranate seeds into her When everyone had eaten all she ready to leave. We shook hands with all tiny hand, with no greater success! wanted, the serving dishes were removed the friendly women, and though only the Parrway through the meal, Ahad ap and the leftover pieces of nawn and spilled one aunt understood our Persian thank peared to check on our progress. The rwo rice were rolled up in the cloth and, I you, I think the others sensed what we unmarried girls had separated and were believe, taken to the kitchen for the ser meant, just as we felt their kindliness sitting at opposite ends of the cloth. One vants to finish. One bright-faced little though we could not understand their snatched up the useful green shawl, the girl swept all the rice off the rug with words. 0
fghanistan is about the size of and land mines that about ten Afghans are already at work in Afghanistan. This Texas, and since it is at the killed in accidental explosions every day. includes AFSC; CARE; UNESCO; same latitude, the climate is And yet there is cause for optimism UNICEF; USAID; Help the Afghan asimilar except for the Hindu Kush moun Children, Inc.; Life for Relief and De even in this time of crisis. Afghans are a tains in the northern half of the coun most friendly and helpful people, when velopment; ACTED (Agence d'Aide try. The population of 26 million is circumstances allow it. In spite of their a Ia Cooperation Technique Et au somewhat larger than that of Texas, stern expressions, they like to laugh, and Development); and many others. but the Afghans are scattered in vil they dote on children, girls and boys alike. What can you do to help? It may be lages rather than concentrated in cit In general, the ethnic groups do not hate appropriate for a few people with spe ies. There are four main ethnic groups each other with the ferocity seen in some cial skills to go and, eventually, for and about ten smaller ones. Several other places in the world. They have a families to move there and carry on different languages are spoken. Three history of cooperating as well as fighting; their lives in close proximity with the million Afghans have died in the last for instance, during peacetime they often Afghans as Rebecca and Osborne and 23 years of war and one million have go to school together. Another hopeful their children did 50 years ago. The been maimed. The mortality and lit sign is that neighboring countries now see rest of us can support those who go. eracy rates are very poor, and there are it is in their interest to promote stability We can increase contact berween stu many widows and orphans. Around rather than chaos as in the past. dents in our rwo countries. We can the borders ofAfghanistan is the larg The world superpowers are becoming work to keep attention on this issue est group of refugees in the world: 3.6 involved in a positive way, and there is after the media frenzy turns elsewhere. million people waiting to return home. hope this will be maintained, although We can live so as to avoid the occasion Another million are displaced within accepting large amounts of aid without for all war, wherever it occurs. Af the country, partly because of a severe distorting the local culture will be a chal ghanistan offers a new and dramatic drought. There are so many bombs lenge. Dozens of aid organizations are opportunity to let our lives speak.
FRIENDS JouRNAL Apri/2002 13 o pay or not to pay-that is the religious and the political. There are, how dilemma. The issue ofwithholding Render ever, alternative interpretations. Tportions oftaxation is often fraught The two spheres have traditionally been with difficulty. For example, discussions represented as the secular (human and on the nonpayment of that proportion of political) realm of Caesar, and the sacred personal tax used for military purposes, or unto (divine and religious) realm of God. its diversion to peaceful purposes, tend to However, to see Jesus as endorsing such focus on the practical (legal) difficulties, a separation is to ascribe to him possibly and/or the ethical implications (such as a post-Augustine (the earthly city/city of involving employees in finance depart God), probably a post-Luther (two King ments who themselves do not oppose pay caesar doms doctrine), and certainly a post ing). There are a variety of opinions on Enlightenment mindset that he, as a first the matter, and with this in mind I would century Palestinian Jew, would not have like to contribute a biblical perspective. recognized. Jesus and his fellow Jews re Some who are inclined to reject diver garded God as the Creator, and the whole sion or nonpayment might do so on the universe as God's domain- including basis of the famous saying of Jesus politics-and would not have distin in response to the question about guished between the political and whether Jews should pay tax the religious. to the Roman emperor: It is important to note that "Render unto Caesar ...." Jesus was not asked to com The Jesus Seminar schol ment on the general issue ars accept that the say oftaxation, but on a spe ing is an authentic cific tax-the tributum one of Jesus: it is re capitis. This was the corded in three ofthe poll tax levied on ev four Gospels (Mark ery male between the 12:13-17; Matt. agesof14and65 and 22: 15-22; Luke 20: on every female be 20-26), with almost tween the ages of 12 an exact parallel in the and 65. It functioned Gospel of Thomas as a kind of rent that (1 00:2). Jesus' reply assumed that all land .!'! was ambiguous: this was belonged ultimc.tely to ~ probably determined by the Roman Empire. j the c~ntext-an a~empt . Jesus asked his ques ~ was bemg made by h1s Pharl tioners for a coin the tax was ~ see and Herodian opponents payable in (a Roman denarius), c. to trap him-so circumspection suggesting he did not have one. l was called for. However, his classic It could simply be that he did not ~ comment has tended to be interpreted have that particular coin on him on ~ by many to mean that Jesus advocated that particular day; however, there could payment. Moreover, the structure of the be more to it. His lack of a coin could be statement itself-"Render unto Caesar significant for two reasons: religious and ... and render unto God"-has been economic (and by extension political). The interpreted as reflecting two spheres of denarius he was given contained a profile influence, and a separation of the ofTiberius's head on which was a laurel A Text for wreath (the sign of his divinity); it was inscribed with the epigram Ti(berius) Cae Cliff Mam tutors in political theology at the sar DiviAug(usti) F(ilus) Augustus: "Em universities ofOxford, Cambridge, and London. Tax Refusers peror Tiberius august son of the august He is an associate tutor at the Woodbrooke Quaker Study Centre, Birmingham (UK), where he is God." The reverse depicted the emperor's also a 2002 Eva Koch Research fellow. He attends mother, Livia, sitting on the throne of the Bunhi!l Fields Meeting (Devonshire House and gods (symbolizing her divinity). The im Tottenham Monthly Meeting, London). ages and the epigram were an affront to © 2002 Ciif!Mam by Cliff Marrs every devout Jew as they were a violation
14 Apri/2002 FRIENDS JoURNAL of the Second Commandment that disal his fellow countryman, Judas, was cruci little room for maneuver. Unless they lowed graven images of"things on earth, fied for leading a tax revolt based on the wanted to court imprisonment and possi below the earth, or in heaven." (Exod. grounds that payment of tax to Caesar bly death, they had little alternative but to 20:4-6; Deut. 8:5) Jesus could have been was an offense against the First Com pay their taxes. Whatever his inspiration, making the point that possession of the mandment. Jesus may also have known the pragmatic Paul was basically counsel coin was evidence that the possessors of it the Maccabean saying from the second ing common sense. were idolators, contaminated by an alien century B.C.E., attributed to Mattathias, Whatever Paul's knowledge and un ideology. His lack of the coin could also father ofJudas the leader of the rebellion derstanding of]esus' saying, it has to be set signify that he rejected the Roman eco against the Syrians. In a similarly styled beside Luke, who definitely did know ofit nomic system, and by rejecting the system statement to that of]esus, Mattathias urged (Luke 20:20-26). Not only this, he is the considered himself not bound to pay the his sons, "Pay back the Gentiles as they only canonical source that reports on what tax-not indebted to Caesar. (Earlier in deserve, and keep the commandments of Jesus' hearers thought they heard. Accord his ministry, Jesus had expressly forbid God"-a deliberately ambiguous state ing to Luke 23:1- 2, one of the few specific den his disciples to carry any money [Luke ment, but dear enough to those in the charges brought against Jesus when he 10:4; compare Luke 22:36], which some know. Mattathias' statement could well was before Pilate was that he "opposes pay commentators suggest is a creation of have been the model for Jesus' reply, clear ment of taxes to Caesar." This indicates Luke's rather than a saying of Jesus.) In enough "for those who have ears to hear." that Jesus' position on the tributum capitis contrast, those who possessed the coin Another consideration: poll taxes fall was a factor in the political circus before participated in the system-used the heaviest on the poorest, and if]esus really the Roman prefect, and that his accusers emperor's money-and therefore had no had what in modern jargon is referred to had "ears to hear" and believed he followed choice; they were under Caesar's yoke, as a "preferential option for the poor," the example of his countryman Judas; the had to abide by the rules, and were bound would he promote a tax that burdens fact they tried to trap him in the first place to pay the tax. them further-and unfairly? When con suggests they suspected his true position. Michel Clevenot, in Materialist Ap templating this it is worth remembering Judas and Jesus shared the same fate. proaches to the Bible, writes: that when dealing with another poll tax, But even if Jesus was advocating pay Confronted with the coin symbolizing the the temple tribute, he argued that "the ment, given the charged atmosphere, is it Roman occupation and the power of the rul citizens are free [of it]," i.e., they are not reasonable to suppose he was trying to ing classes collaborating with the Romans ... bound to pay it. (Matt. 17:24-27- this is convey a definitive statement on the rela Jesus gives an answer that shows his adversar the only canonical report; some scholars tions between his followers and the state? ies are simply forgerting what "belongs to suggest it is a creation of the early Church This seems unlikely. We do not know if God." And what belongs to God if not rather than from the life of]esus.) Paul knew of the "render unto Caesar" Israel ... ? Thus the instruction "Pay Caesar It is sometimes suggested that Paul's saying, but even if he did-and his own what is due to Caesar and pay God what is injunction in Rom. 13:6-7 to pay taxes to statement in Rom. 13:6-7 was based on due to God" means reconquering from Cae Caesar, presupposes the saying of Jesus, it-that statement was addressed to an sar . . . what belongs to God. which Paul interpreted as advocating pay identifiable group of people in a specific The Jews were reminded in Leviticus ment. This may perhaps be so, but one time and place. As such, it is not a good 25:23 that Israel belonged to God: 'The also has to consider the people he was hermeneutical principle from which to land is mine and you are but aliens and addressing, and their situation. Whereas universalize or generalize. my tenants." As such they had no power Jesus spent most of his time in the Galilee This short study shows that the tradi or authority to hand the land, or its pro of Herod Antipas (which was not under tional conservative interpretation ofJesus' duce, over to anyone else. By taxing God's direct Roman rule, and where direct taxa saying is at odds with what his hearers people, Caesar was usurping God's sover tion to Caesar was not an issue), the situa thought he was advocating; however un eignty. As for "reconquering from Cae tion in Rome was very different and left comfortable, it is possible that Jesus urged sar," even after the Resurrection Jesus' nonpayment. Yet even if there was har disciples still looked for the political lib mony between original hearers and eration oflsrael (Acts 1:6). Poll taxes fall heaviest on modern interpreters, given Jesus' situa Robert Eisler, in his book, The Messiah tion when he made the statement, it is jesus and john the Baptist, argues: " 'Ren the poorest, and if Jesus questionable if any hard and fast conclu der unto Caesar the things that are Caesar's' really had what in modem sions can be drawn. While still faced with really means: Throw Caesar's ... money jargon is referred to as a legal and ethical complexities, these com down his throat.' ... Far from sanctioning ments might leave tax refusers with less of the payment of tribute to Caesar, Jesus is "preferential option for the a biblical hurdle to leap, and will hope wholly on the side of]udas of Galilee.... " poor," would he promote a fully give those who base objections to Jesus of Galilee would have known his them on the "render unto Caesar" say local history. He would have been well tax that burdens them ing--or even Paul's injunction-some aware that a generation earlier, in 6 C.E., further-and unfairly? food for thought. 0
FRIENDS JOURNALApri/2002 15 hen I joined Friends 58 years To me, the sacred triad of unpro not want to persuade anyone of my ago, I felt integrated into my grammed Quakerism is that of God in worldview, but I had hoped that Quakers, W meeting. Quakers enveloped every person, silent worship, and deci in whose good intentions and good heart I me and permeated me; I was at one with sions by sense of the meeting. All world have absolute faith, would be willing to them. But over the last 58 years, Quaker views can be accommodated within this listen to it. ism has changed, and so have I. I have sacred triad, as they were in the 1940s and With a few exceptions, Friends are not taken leave of my meeting, but I have not 1950s. But over the years, unprograrnrned eager to hear me. Ten Friends walked out resigned my membership. Quakers have narrowed their views. While ofa workshop I was conducting at Friends Back in 1943, as many Republicans sat the issues of the day are different from General Conference in 1999. Last April, I in the benches as Democrats, and meeting those of the 1940s, what is alarming is was queried on participating in a confer was a place for the spiritual enrichment of that we have lost the diversity of yore, and ence on Peace at State College, Pennsylva- persons ofal l political beliefs; even nia, but the committee could not soldiers in uniform carne to meet- reach unity on this invitation. I ing. If the spirit of the 1940s ex- Why lAm was told that my brand of eco- isted now, right-to-lifers might to nomics would not lead to peace. day sit next to pro-choicers, each My workshop proposal on "Pov being equally blessed in the eyes erty and Human Rights" was ofGod. With the spiritual under LEAVING turned down by Friends General girding of the meeting, different Conference 2002, as were all other political beliefs would be advo workshops on economics topics. cated in secular organizations. The exceptions include a work Many worldviews were found QUAKERS shop on globalization at Friends among Friends of the 1940s. A General Conference in 2001, worldview is a belief about how which was highly acclaimed by the world functions. Some ofthese by Jack Powelson participants, as well as my free, hold the U.S. as a cruel power, online newsletter, The Classical wanting to dominate. Others see Liberal Qftaker (to see it, visit http:/ us as the fount of liberty, hope for the we are more uniform politically than ever. clq.quaker .org), in which I have received underdog. Of the many worldviews of Few Republicans sit in the benches of my much support in Readers' Responses. people who sat in the benches in 1943, meeting; pro-lifers do not feel welcome. Several people whom I know have also some favored the New Deal, others were Friends tend to think alike on biodiversity been retreating from Quakerism, for much opposed; some would fight in World War in crops, succor for the poor, how the U.S. the same reason as I am. One of them II, others were pacifist; some thought and other governments function, what wrote as follows: World War III was coming, some did not. embassies do, whether to forgive debts, One always hates to give up something whether to boycott sweatshops, how mul Some wanted security in an uncertain that seems quite logical and compelling, in tinational corporations "think," how high world, others felt that security compro this case what seems to be a potentially very mised freedom. Some hated Roosevelt, the minimum or living wage should be, fruitful linking ofclassicallibetal thought with some loved him. and what to think of economic globaliza contemporary Quaker concerns. But there In the 1940s and 1950s, Friends were tion. We no longer invite speakers whose may be times and situations that simply do very active in discussions on how our spiri worldviews differ from our own. not work out, and it is my feeling that this is tuality related to world affairs. For several Whatever the worldview is, so go our the current reality. I am scaling back my summers I was on the faculty of AFSC policies. Since I have a different view Quaker activities because many of the things high school institutes of world affairs. At from the mainstream Quaker, I tend to that I care about passionately, and which I workcarnps, the evenings were spent in think many policy proposals of Quaker believe are consistent with Quaker insight, simply do not resonate with the majority of discussions, which continued atworkcarnp organizations would damage the very Friends. reunions. Weekends at Pendle Hill, George people for whom we wish to advocate: School, and Westtown School were de the poor and the disadvantaged. Yet I Where I will go next I do not know. I voted to the same purposes. In the years cannot explain why, because we no longer might find another church, or no church, immediately following World War II, communicate well. or I might return to my meeting. I do not AFSC organized a discussion program Imagine being in the Christian right, seek a church where everyone agrees with on former troop ships taking students to where you are always being asked if you my worldview any more than I want one Europe. I panicipated in that one, along have adopted Jesus as your personal sav where everyone disagrees with it. I plan to with Margaret Meade, Ken Galbraith, ior. If you don't go along with that, you visit many churches, to see if I can find and others. are very uncomfortable. If you try to say one whose spirituality is similar to Quak something different, you are immediately ers but which has not become so uniform jack Powelson, of Boulder (Colo.) Meeting, is put down. That's how uncomfortable I professor emeritus ofEconomics at University of in outlook. Colorado, and the author ofseveraL books, in am now among Quakers. In my devotion to the sacred triad cluding Facing Social Revolution; Dialogue with I have longed to share my lifetime of that of God in every person, silent wor Friends; Seeking Truth Together; and a Pendle experience and study with Quakers, the ship, and decisions by sense of the meet HiLL PamphLet, Holistic Economics. people who have meant most to me. I do ing-I am still Quaker. 0
16 April2002 FRIENDS joURNAL he spiritual aspects ofaging are wrapped of a battle rhan a smoorh transmon. For a up in rhe search rhat makes meaning out variety of reasons, many older people wrestle on T of life. There comes a time in later years in isolating darkness, reluctant to tell orhers when we have to say "enough" to what we have what rhey are going rhrough. They sense rhey been doing. We cannot afford to try to hang on are far from 'coming down where rhey ought to to the habits of an active life. Ifwe still try to do be.' Only dimly do rhey make out rhe unpre rhings in rhe old way we will become angry or dictable and distinct face of a God who will depressed. Like Prospera, at rhe end of The hopefully bless." Tempest, we have to accept rhat rhe time has It may also be a time when we find adapting come to lay down tools and face rhe choice of to change difficult, especially if we move into a eirher fighting our aging or ofaccepting it posi new environment where norhing is familiar. tively as a journey towards new light. The loss of contact wirh our friends may be As Helen Luke, rhe Jungian analyst, wrote most destructive and cause us to live in rhe past when she was in her 80s: "The moment of ("I am who I was") rarher rhan in rhe present, letting go, of daring to stand alone, stripped of where new rhings await discovery. power and prestige ... is rhe moment when a As we age, moments go slower, monrhs and man or woman becomes conscious of his abso years go fast, and rhe storehouse memory is lute need of'rhe orher' borh in rhis world and unlocked. Hidden · : beyond." come back but memo We no longer consider rhree-score years and ries may get mixed up ten as the end of life; but as we enter our mid- and, alrhough one re 70s we receive different messages from rhe body. members rhe event, For some people it is perhaps from rhe eyes, for rhe setting may not be .__, orhers rhe ears, or it is rhat our feet no longer quite as itwas. We take always come down quite where we intended. off rhe hidden armor Our luggage gets heavier. We become con rhat has shielded scious rhat we are less efficient or rhat short memory, and rhe · term memory gets worse, or we may find our visiting of our sins', selves fumbling as we try to pack up rhe grocer rejections, and blind ies, or we may lose confidence in ourselves. We nesses makes rhe skin · wish to avoid being a burden to orhers and, not sore. Aging becomes wanting to come out wirh an "organ recital" of a time for integrating aches and pains, we may rherefore be in danger our life, and we need of bottling rhings up. to treat ourselves "Bottling up" may include our deepest feel wirh compassion, ings. As Graham Keyes, an Anglican priest who for often those is studying rhe spiritual aspects of aging, has rhings for which written, "Growing into old age is often more we blame ourselves Spirituality and Old
by Edward Hoare
Edward Hoare is a member ofMid-Somerset Monthly Meeting in England. He is co-leader ofa Quaker group now compiling a handbook entitled Spiritualiry in Later Life: Towards a Listening Ministry.
FRJENDS JOURNAL Apri/2002 17 have been a cause of subsequent growth. of God stripped away. They are shifting We must be slow to judge the past from One ofthe most into a contemplative mode of knowing the viewpoint of today and need to accept important lessons we God. Although it is then helpful to be that we are no longer the person we were. heard, attempts at rescue are not appro Often regret is misplaced, coming from can learn is to turn priate, for it is a matter of staying in the imagining the past to be something other darkness and being found by God in it. than it was, and we must not forget to loneliness into solitude As we age, some of us may have to celebrate the moments that brought us discard the spiritual baggage loaded onto great happiness. and solitude into us when we were young and which we So old age can be a time of dropping contemplation. Silence have carried over the years, baggage such burdens, sometimes burdens ofbelief, that as teaching that real prayer requires a spe for all our lives we have thought that we and solitude call us to cific physical posture or set words. All that ought to carry. We may just be filled with is needed is to come as you are before doubt and cling to where we are; we may discover what remains God, either dialoguing in your present regress in the hope of rediscovering cer after the traditional situation or just being still. Metropolitan tainties, although that is unlikely to suc Anthony tells the story of how when he ceed; or it may be a time ofclearness when supports have fallen was a young priest a woman came to him we are open to new understanding and for advice on prayer. She said she had peace of mind. away. asked experienced clergy in vain and since If one loses touch with outsiders, ad he probably knew nothing he might by vanced age may bring a sense of loneli chance blunder out the answer. She had ness. One of the most imponant lessons always requires quietly sitting down. One been using the Jesus prayer. He said since we can learn is to turn loneliness into may well find the contemplative state sud she was talking all the time she prob solitude and solitude into contemplation. denly comes upon one. I recall a summer ably didn't give God the chance to an Silence and solitude call us to discover morning in 1985 walking in the garden at swer. He advised the woman to go to her what remains after the traditional sup Woodbrooke, the Quaker college in En room after breakfast each day and to take ports have fallen away. Contemplative gland, when, for no apparent reason, I was her knitting and knit before God, not prayer is something we can still do when filled with a feeling of incredible joy that saying a word. Later she came to him and our other capabilities have gone. It can stayed with me for 15 or 20 minutes. I said, "All of sudden I perceived that the continue to be a source ofstrength. wondered whether something fine had silence was a presence. At the hean of the happened to a member of my family in silence there was Him who is all stillness, quired contemplation is a prac Australia and whether in some way this all peace, all poise." ice ofletting go that can be done was being communicated to me, but there A or 15 or 20 minutes each morn turned out to be no reason for this gift. we approach the end oflife, we ing and evening. One way to begin is to Infused contemplation, as this is called, is may have wisdom that calls out practice contemplative meditation. Choose an altered form ofconsciousness that comes A o be shared but find only the a passage of Scripture or other inspira only by grace. wind to hear it, or we may have matters tional words and use the mind to consider The onset of age may be frightening that lie heavy on our hearts. Our need every aspect of the passage. With practice, because it seems that our autonomy and then is for a ministry of listening. the mind, having exhausted the train of independence are forsaking us against our When a Friend is unable to attend thought, will become still. It is then a will. We have no choice but to move from meeting, it is important that the person matter of staying in the stillness and action to passivity, from being in control who is incapacitated continues to know ?eing op.en to the possibility ofhearing an to being dependent, from taking initiative that she or he is pan of a worshipping mnervo1ce. to having to wait, from living to dying. community. This can be covered by a There are also other aids that may help We may find that the "dark night jour small group coming to the residence to one to scan on the way, such as focusing ney" has come upon us with no apparent hold a meeting for worship. Perhaps the attention on breathing or on a candle, cause, sometimes without warning, but best number of visitors is three or four, rubbing a stone between one's fingers, or sometimes following bereavement or ill not so many that they cannot be conve repeating a mantra. But nothing will guar ness. As Friend Sandra Cronk has written niently seated, and not so few as to inhibit antee coming into a state of being in the in Dark Night journey, the old ways in the possibility of spoken ministry. The Spirit, the place where we find the pearl of prayer no longer seem to work and there is person visited, particularly if he or she has great price. a sense of absence and loneliness. We been practicing contemplation, may well When at first one attempts contempla search for meaning but nothing works; provide ministry for the group; this is a tion, fear may come of what may arise in our sense ofs ecurity has gone. The Catho two-way process. the silent depths, and resistance or exhaus lic mystics called this condition "the dark Visitors and caregivers should also of tion may be shown by dropping off to night of the soul." Those who suffer from fer a ministry of listening one-to-one to sleep; so it is desirable, when one is learn the dark night are not people who have the incapacitated person. Visitors can feel ing contemplation, to have someone avail tended to ignore God in their lives, but very alone, they may think God very dis able to monitor the experience. those who have had a relationship with tant, and have little sense that they are But it is a mistake to think that it God and find their former understanding achieving anything for the one they are
18 Apri/2002 FRIENDS JOURNAL sitting with. Visitors and caregivers then acceptance, and suppon." need to be willing to be open and present The caregiver does not always solve a for the other, to avoid haste in communi problem or take away pain, does not per cation, and to seek for guidance in the suade, judge, or take responsibility for the words they speak. Help comes through other person's life, but reflects back what them, not of them. (I always remember one hears and helps the person to find the that the space around the bed is the only approach that best suits her or him. Dou space over which the person who is bed glas Steere wrote, "To 'listen' another's ridden has control; so I always ask permis soul into a condition of disclosure and sion to sit.) discovery may be the greatest service that The modern idea is that the one in any human being performs for another." need becomes the buyer of care and the But as caregivers, in our giving we also are professional is now a merchant of care, the gainers. but there is no need for a professional A quotation from Fulton Oursler is qualification to give care in a spiritual particularly applicable to those who offer context. However, there is need for prepa care: ration, prayer, and supervision. By going into each encounter with the assumption I look back and realize how many people that there are three parties present, the gave me help, understanding, courage, and they never knew it. They entered my life and third being the spirit ofGod, the caregiver became powers within me. All of us live spiri can, as the Catholic theologian Thomas tually by what others have given us, often Hart wrote in his book The Art ofChris unwittingly. We all owe to others much of the tian Listening, "properly regard him or genrleness and wisdom that we have made our herself as making God present to the other own and may well ask, "What will others owe person, in God's concern, compassion, to us?" 0
Paean
I had expected none of this largesse, this gifting of a prodigal like me with quantities of open-handed days, with wives and children, honors, peace, not least with now when ink runs hot and my arthritic fingers joyously attempt to keep the pace, find old agilities to get it down at least before the curtain closes and I've had the only say I'll get to have.
Let me get to it then: infuse these lines with waterfalls of joy that thunder gaily to the catchment down below and pour themselves into my vital stream of energy, which holds me steady as my legs grow weak, dear-sighted as my vision dims, head up as spinal cord degenerates, and bears me floating finally and painlessly to denouement, climactic ecstasy.
-Earl Coleman
Earl Coleman lives in Montville, New jersey.
FRIENDS JouRNAL Apri/2002 19 A Tribute to Millicent Carey Mcintosh
et us celebrate the life of an lies and wider social pressures for con important Quaker educator, formity. Through her own achieve L Millicent Carey Mcintosh, ments, she opened up options for who died on January 3, 2001, at the women well beyond the boundaries of age of 102. A niece of M. Carey Tho the college. mas, the early president of Bryn Mawr She was my president when I en College, she grew up in the Religious tered Barnard as a freshman in 1949. Society of Friends in Baltimore, the She was also my first close encounter daughter ofAnthony Morris and Mar with a Quaker woman. For me as for garet Carey. She graduated from Bryn many other students at Barnard, she Mawr School in Baltimore and went became one of the most important on to Bryn Mawr College where she influences in determining who I would earned a degree in English magna cum become in my adult life. laude. Between completing her under Perhaps her opening lecture to graduate degree and entering graduate freshmen that year can communicate school, she worked as a social worker most dramatically the kind of influ in Baltimore. Afrer earning her Ph.D. ence she exercised. I was young, just in English at Johns Hopkins Univer past my 17th birthday. I carne from an sity, she taught briefly at Bryn Mawr upstate farm and had grown up in a College before becoming the head of small, tight community where very the Brearley School in New York City. few people went on to college or even In 1947, Millicent Carey Mcintosh left home for anything. I remember became dean of Barnard College, the very clearly sitting in the Barnard gym women's undergraduate division ofCo nasium listening to Millicent Carey lumbia University in New York Ciry. Mcintosh give her welcoming talk to Through her extraordinary leadership, us. I no longer remember her exact the title of the senior officer of the by Jane C. Kronick words, but I can see her and I know college was changed to president and, exactly what she told us. We were, she as such, she led this college until her retire end of World War II, when sociery was said, among the brightest women in this ment in 1962. Barnard, like Bryn Mawr making room for returning veterans by country. We should know that we would and Radcliffe Colleges, had been founded deliberately removing women from the go on to make important contributions in toward the end of the 19th century to workplace and university classrooms. this world, some on the basis of our un provide women with the same opportuni Young women were being told by every dergraduate education alone, others with ties for education as were available to men available means to marry, raise children, doctorates in hand. We should not listen in such places as Yale, Harvard, Princeton, and be content with being housewives. to those who said that one had to choose and Columbia. The founding of Barnard The percentage of women graduating between a career and a family. All Barnard College was a direct response to the posi from college reached a 20th-century women will marry, she said, unless we tion taken by Columbia University that low. The numbers in Ph.D. programs make a definite decision not to, but there allowed women access to reading lists but would not again reach the numbers of the will be few who will so choose. Know that barred them from the classroom. 1920s until the 1970s. Medical schools we do not have to choose between a life of Millicent Carey Mcintosh carne to and law schools actively discriminated achievement and a home and family. Both Barnard at a particularly dismal period in agamst women. can and will be ours. Pay no attention the 20th-century history of women's As the head of one of the outstanding when others tell us what we should or higher education. It was soon after the institutions of higher education for should not do, but reach for our own women, Millicent Carey Mcintosh prob potencial, and in so doing be ofservice to jane C Kronick, a member ofHaverford (Pa.) ably did more for women, particularly for our communiry, for the world needs us. Meeting, graduated.from Barnard College ('53) and earned a Ph.D . .from Yale in Sociology. She women's opportunity, than any other In 1949 this was radical instruction is emeritus professor ofComparative Social Policy single person of her generation. Both di indeed. In that opening speech we heard at Bryn Mawr College. Among her publications, rectly and indirectly, she actively encour her own distinguishing characteristics she is co-author ofAssa ult on Equality: A Cri aged women to realize their potential irre directness, commitment to what one can tique of the Bell Curve. spective of the expectations of their fami- do and the importance of doing it well,
20 Apri/2002 FRJENDS j OURNAL DISCOVER QUAKER PHILADELPHIA Two-hour walking tours of William Penn's original city of brotherly love. For sale: emphasis on the importance of service to higher education? At Barnard, she delib paperweight created to honor Penn's work the community, pragmatism, disregard for erately chose faculty who were married and crafted in Olde City. Send a SASE for information to: QUAKER conventional norms, and an ability to fo women and productive scholars, often with TOURS, Box 1632, Media, PA 19063. cus quickly on critical questions. young children. She instituted a unique Millicent Carey Mcintosh was a plain system of class advisors, carefully chosen woman. Her clothes were simple, her hair to provide a mentor for each student. A was short, and she wore little make-up, if faculty member who was a distinguished any. Fashion seemed to attract her not at scholar, married, and usually with grown BENJAMIN all. Nor was she a pretentious woman or children, was released from classroom one who found any task beneath her. She teaching to become the advisor for a class. The Meetinghouse Mouse liked to tell us the story of the arrival of the She remained the class advisor for all four by Benjamin, as told to Clifford Pfeil, Barnard search team to interview her in years, and we became her class. My class with illustrations by John D. Gummere her home. They found her on her hands advisor wrote to me at least once every If you remember the Benjamin stories in and knees, scrubbing the floor in the foyer. year until she died, keeping in touch with past issues, you will be happy to share A friend of mine in college spent the my life and offering precious advice across them-now in book form- summer at a music camp near her sum the years. with your children, grandchildren, mer home. My friend knew one of her Throughout our curriculum the per and Friends! sons, . whom I believe was also at this sonal was intermixed with the scholarly. I Available for $6plus $2 camp. She was often invited to dinner remember the excitement when a history shipping and handling with them. She reported that ifyou visited professor returned from pregnancy leave ($3.50 for shipping and handling outside US., "Mrs. Mac," you would be put to work and told us in graphic detail the joy of Canada, and Mexico) alongside her either weeding or shelling natural childbirth, then a new option for ftom the FRIENDS peas for dinner. women. Mrs. Mac herself told us about JouRNAL office. At a rime when other women's colleges her five children, the oldest of whom was were turning out women who married our age, and by example demonstrated well, Barnard under Mrs. Mac directed that women could indeed have rich family women toward graduate school and pro lives as well as demanding careers. She also San Francisco fessional careers. It was a period prior to instituted a full-year, required freshman Friends School the discovery of the importance of career class called Healthy Living. The first se role models and mentors for women. mester was taught by the college physician seeks K-2 teachers for the 2002/03 school year. How did she single-handedly do so much and the second by Mrs. Mac. In her se SFFS is an independent Quaker K-8 school to reverse the dropout of women from mester she focused on the community- opening in fall 2002 with grades K-2. SFFS will combine a vigorous academic curriculum with traditional Quaker values of simplicity, toler Millicent Carey Mcintosh, breaking ground ance, mutual respect, service to others and a for Reid Hall at Barnard Colkge, 1960. commitment to diversity. Possible openings in clude 2 full-time kindergarten teachers, a com bined full-time 1st/2nd grade teacher, 3 full time teaching aides, a part-lime business man ager, and a part-time development director. This is an exciting opportunity to help found a Quaker school in a welcoming and dynamic community of independent schools. Teaching positions may also include a mix of other responsibilities teaching art, music, ath letics, nature, etc. Competitive salary and benefits. School year begins July 1. For further information, visit our website at www .sffriendsschool.org. To apply, please send cover letter, resume, statement of educational philosophy, and three references by March 1, 2002 to: Catherine Hunter, Head of School, San Francisco Friends School, P.O. Box 475776, San Francisco, CA 94147-5776
FRIENDS ]OURNALApri/2002 21 the one from which each of us came and the one in which each would live her life. The world and the community needed our energy. Service, she pointed out, was Olney Friends School not an optional choice but a necessity and our responsibility. World peace, recon struction, greater equality for all, and bet ter distribution of resources must be achieved and would not without the care and effort of all of us. Just as Millicent Carey Mcintosh A coeducational, opened Barnard to women, she opened it college preparatory, to minorities and lower-income students. boarding high school Only one-third of Barnard women lived in dormitories, and many of these, as I with deep Quaker roots was, were scholarship students. The re mainder came from all parts ofNew York City. One African American student walked to Barnard across Harlem and Morningside Heights because she did not have the fare for the subway. Others came from the Lower East Side and from Brook lyn. We sat in class with girls from virtu ally every ethnic group, including many Olney Friends School from foreign countries. It was at Barnard Barnesville, Ohio 43713 that I had the opportunity to form my Telephone: 740-425-3655 first close friendships with African Ameri Visit www.OlneyFriends.org cans and to be welcomed into their homes. Not only was "Mrs. Mac" shaping an important educational experience for sev eral generations of students, but she was affecting attitudes and programs nation ally. She was an outspoken public speaker. She was the first woman to occupy a l 22 Apri/2002 FRIENDS j OURNAL Quaker Profiles ofw ho I am, and often says, 'Hey, you did the Mickey best you could.' And I think, 'Yes, bur I wanted to do better.' I spent lots of years feeling like I needed to do image control. I'm Edgerton so amazed at how forgiving God is; I don't have to pretend that I'm better than I am. I know that I am God's beloved child, have by Kara Newell always been, and will always be. And it's not .~ because I'm good enough. It's just because I ~ uriel (Mickey) Wesner Edgerton is am. And at the same rime, that's true for § openly self-effacing. Punctuated by everybody else." ~ Mher distinctive giggle, she character She thinks ofherself"primarily as a Chris- ~ izes herself as a "blabbermouth," an "extro tian, in the Quaker mode, most interested in ~ vert," a person who finds it hard to love 'Kingdom'-in us getting to the place where ~ "people who aren't the way I want them to we can live in and by the principles oflove and ~ be." Mickey says she has "to be careful not to truth. We are very loving as a religious body, be seized" by her "insane orthodoxy!" me down here among liberal Quakers, con but I think we're so screwed up in terms of In describing her life, Mickey says, ''I'm an stantly sanding off the sharp edges of my how we relate to truthfulness. We've been aging, white, Midwestern, birthright (and also fundamentalism. With my judgmental or seduced by niceness and the heresy of piety, convinced) Quaker, a mother, and a practic thodoxy, I have a lot in common with the which is a kind of arrogance that religious ing grandrnom. I have been a nurse, a counse Taliban! When I read the New Testament, people are prone to. I want to help Quakerism lor, and a camp director. I went to Earlham who do I identify with? The Pharisees, stand live our the uniqueness and truthfulness of its School ofReligion; I didAJDS buddy work; I ing on the street corner, saying 'Oh, thank traditions. And I know God is going to pre did chaplaincy training." God I'm not as other people!' Yikes! My heart vail, with or without us! The real issue is: can Her parents and grandparents were Quak rends toward hardness, yet the Holy Spirit we know and do God's will? ers. A social activist in the '60s, Mickey "was continues to soften my heart." "I think about the squirrelly group that disappointed that my meeting was not being Mickey is active in Gwynedd (Pa.) Meet Jesus worked with! If Jesus really did say to as socially active as I felt it should be. I re ing and in Philadelphia Yearly Meeting. ''I'm Peter, 'You are what the church is going to be signed in a snit in 1972, and rejoined (for not currently doing a lot more explicit spiritual founded on, the rock,' the fat was in the fire very spiritual reasons) in the early '80s; my direction, including helping people in Quaker right away! But Peter is no better or worse meeting was so loving and so glad to have me leadership find a spiritual oversight group for than any of us. We are what Jesus has to work back. It was later, when I went to Earlham themselves-to encourage them, pray for and with. That helps to tincture my own despair. School of Religion (ESR), that I really became with them, hold them accountable, and listen We need to be humble without being hope a Quaker and reclaimed, in a slightly altered to their joys and sorrows. less-so spiritually arrogant that we think version, the Quakerism and Christianity I'd "My current work is being a pastoral coun we're the worst people who ever lived. I don't been brought up with. I'm very, very grateful selor in a hospice program, part of Holy Re know what's going to happen with.Quaker for that conviction of what being a Christian deemer Home H ealth agency in Northeast ism. Bur I know wonderful things are hap Quaker means." "Grateful" is a word that Philadelphia where I've been working for ten pening; there are Pentecostal flames, nor ev liberally peppers her conversation. years. It feels like this is what God was getting erywhere, bur lots of different 'wheres."' God is active and central in Mickey's life. me ready for, throughout my life, and that my She watches TV, goes to movies, and likes "Coming to ESR resulted from the first time I own spiritual and emotional work around to "knowabour popular culture. I want it ali really experienced the Holy Spirit taking hold end-of-life issues is being subsidized. I get to I want to do Kingdom, but I want very much of the back of my neck-a force interfering in use all those skills I developed while being a to be a part of this world-'speaking to that of my life in a way that my strong will could not bossy older sister to two brothers and two God in everyone.' I want notto be elitist." overcome. I realize now that the Spirit was sisters! They trained me well! My dad was a What does she designate as her greatest leading and guiding me through some very preacher, so I had a lot of work to do on accomplishment? "I managed not to ruin my treacherous shoals. My parents prayed for me those kids!" kids, who are both wonderful! My daughter every single day of my life, which I believe Regarding the nurturing of her own spiri lives near me, in Gwynedd Valley, and we are helped me to not shipwreck. I certainly had tual life, she says, "I meet with a spiritual so close, including spiritually, which hasn't numerous opportunities! director every other week, but I don't do the always been the case. My son is a fine young "Being a Quaker has taught me that God usual, boilerplate spiritual practices. I do nor man who lives in Missoula, Montana. I was loves each one of us, which helps me to enjoy journal regularly (I journal sometimes); I do very unhappy and not in great shape when and interact with many different people. If nor have quiet devotional rime every day. (I they were young. I know now that the hand of somebody sirting next to me on the plane do have 'loud' devotional rime occasionally!) I God was very active in their growing up co be says, 'Are you born again?' I can say, 'Yes, I pray a lor; often I feel explicitly in God's wonderful people." am, let me tell you about it and then I want to presence and never far from it. Three days a Mickey is confidently self-effacing, a gig hear about the way you are!' week, I drive 45 to 50 minutes to work each gler, and refreshingly irreverent. She knows "It's so ironic, and good, that God plunked way-I talk to God a lot during that time. God intimately and loves to cell you all about "I listen to the radio news and dialogue it. Mickey Edgerton's spiritual lifeblood flows Kara NewelL, a member of Reedwood Friends with God-'How can you stand us? How can from the varied veins of Quakerism. 0 Church in Portland, Oregon, lives in Lansdowne, you pur up with us?' Sometimes I think I have Pennsylvania. higher standards for my performance than ©2002 Kara NewelL God does! God seems much more accepting F RIENDS ]OVRNAL Apri/2002 23 . - Witness ··'''~ Prayer of Redemption ~ by Linda Chidsey The Friends Camp in Bucks County n the weeks and months since September with every thought, word, and deed. • TWO WEEK SESSIONS • 11 , I have spoken with a number ofFriends There's no way I could have written these june through August I who have felt led to visit the site of the words several months ago. Indeed, if I had Sleepover campJor boys &girls 8-13. World Trade Center so as to feel, come close read them from the pen of another, I don't to, and perhaps in some way "understand" believe I would have undersrood. And yet here Campers choose their own activities and live and play in a what happened there. they are, now. To be clear, I do not claim any friendly, diverse community. I took such a pilgrimage in mid-Ocrober, grandiose or overnight "success" in the mo accompanied by a Friend from 15th Street ment-to-moment practice of redemptive love. FOR INFORMATION call 610-84 7-5858 Meeting. We srood, along with several others, That, I imagine, would take at least a lifetime. 609 Geigel Hill Rd., Ottsville, PA 18942 gazing down Washington Street toward However, I can claim with heartfelt cer Ground Zero, weeping, and praying. The tainty that I've been given a new piece of [email protected] I www.camponas.org image of that tangled mass of destruction wisdom or insight, that is, one that is new to ACA Accredited Camp remained with me throughout the week, me. I pray that I may be faithful to what has haunting and troubling, beyond all words. been given. I humbly request Friends to up That weekend I attended a conference at hold me in my intent and my efforts, and Powell House with Alan Kolp on the Incarna tion. I took along Sandra Cronk's pamphlet, "Peace Be with You," an essay to which I've returned from time to time over the years. D ELAWARE VALLEY FRIENDS During the night I awoke with the words SCHOOL "redeemed and redeeming," hearing them in 19 E. Central Avenue, Paoli, PA 19301 the way that I understand early Friends spoke of Christ as "come and coming," the Church for ~tudt'llh "The accomplishments of adults begin as the dreams of children. Newtown Friends is a place where dreams begin." - NFS Mission Statement he Brazilian school sys tem requires a 17-year-old Pre-K to Grade 8 T student to decide on an occupation for the rest of one's For further information, life-at least the few fortunate ca11215-968-2225, or visit ones who will have the opportu nity to attend college. In this us at newtownfriends.org phase, many start a battle against themselves, trying to find out what is worth living their lives for. Par ents spend money on psychologists, and teach the continental United States), but still, in my ;Accttdl FRJENDS JOURNAL April 2002 25 troleum exploitation) and Embraer (one of the biggest aircraft manufacturers and exporters). The country also has an amaz ing diversity of flora and fauna, beaches and ports along its 4,600-mile coastline, rivers like the "river-sea" Amazon, canyons, mountains, and so on. "Brazil is the country of the future," as naive Brazilians say. I dream that one day Brazilians will have the chance to live this future. Is it just an other utopia? In some aspects I consider Brazil the world in miniature. Brazil was colonized and ex plored by Europeans, inhabited by natives, and has a strong influence ofAfricans brought as slaves, besides a large Asian migration. Like planet Earth, Brazil shelters all races-though all are mixed in a 3-million-square-mile melt ing pot, and it presents contrasts as shocking as between Europe and Africa. It shelters both Give Six Free Gifts Get wealthy and miserable people. To help improve this situation can be a lonely job. More than 70 percent ofBrazilians Six Free Months (112 million people) live below the poverty line ($100 per month), and they have to worry about surviving. Le~ than 20 percent he strength ofFRIENDS JOURNAL is in its readers, so we want to add some new ones! hoard 70 percent of all riches in the country, T and they are anxious to get richer. The middle Send us the names ofup to six individuals who are not currently subscribers,* class is squeezed in between the other classes but who you know would enjoy the J ouRNAL. and feels unable to contribute to social change. The only solution I see is through changing We'll send each of them three free issues (along with a gift card from the elite's selfish mentality, to see that you)-and we'll extend your own subscription by one month for each they have the means to act and raise their own friend, meeting member, or attender whose name you send to us (up to six quality of life by promoting the decrease of months). social and economic inequality. The elite fears *(and who have not been for two years) violence, but it doesn't see the cause. Agrarian reform, for example, has barely started and is 1. Name: ______5. Name: ______limping. The elite deludes itselfby thinking it has nothing to do with others' problems. On Address: ______Address:------a world scale, if one person has two pairs of shoes, another one somewhere in the world ______Zip ______Zip ___ _ has none; and the unshod one will bring and 2. Name: ______6. Name: ______increase violence unavoidably. The greater part of the world is in a calami Address: ______Addre~: ______tous situation, while in some spots everything is plentiful. One dies ofhunger, the other dies ______Zip ______Zip ___ _ of obesity. "Third World" countries borrow 3. Name: ______money from the International Monetary Fund and become slaves of interest payments. The Address: ______government sold Brazil's greatest companies Please extend my current to foreign or national private buyers to pay the ______Zip subscription: IMF bill, and now has already paid, in inter 4. Name: Name: ______est, the same amount of money as the total debt-money that should go to healthcare Address: Addre~: ------and education. This situation is not going to get any better unle~ both rich and poor are ______Zip Zip.___ _ aware of what is happening outside their homes. A country is exactly the same size as the whole universe for those who don't know FRIENDS m6 Arch Street, 2A, Philadelphia, PA 19107-2835 what is beyond its frontiers. Astronomers, Fax: (215 ) 568-1377 when studying the universe, are studying 10 JOURNAL E-mail: [email protected] FJ 04o2 or 15 percent of it, only the part that has light and can be seen. What people know is the 26 Apri/2002 fRIENDS j OURNAL extent of their universe. The starving people have to know that they deserve justice and happiness; and the wealthy people have to be aware of their power and stop acting in such an egoistic way. That is true in Brazil and in the world. I will go back home and persist with my . . . where each resident "change-the-world" dream, hoping I am not really isolated on a huge island. I am relieved enjoys a comfortable, to have met some people here in the U.S. who secure and caring see what is happening outside their country environment (and, many times, because of it), and fight for a just U.S. international policy. This summer ... where newcomers break I met some people who use their occu pations as teachers, therapists, journalists, or quickly feel at home and artists to make a difference, who share with long-time residents find me the same heavy bale--even though they new delights every day live on top of the world-the same God, the same "change-the-world" dream. And that makes me keep believing. It may sound weird that a young person A Quaker Sponsored Continuing Care Retirement Community like me has to make a great effort to "keep believing" in dreams. It's sad, I know. But, • Independent Living • Assisred Living • Skilled Nursing Care for most people on Earth, once one realizes what to expect from life, it is not easy to keep 6300 Greene Srreer, Philadelphia, PA 19144 G-:) on believing. In these past three months I 215-844-0700 saw many people around me facing the prob EQUAL HOUSING Visit our Internet site at: www.stapeley.org OPPORTUNITY lems of aging: where to live, what to do, medicines, doctors, loneliness, absence ofhope. I don't think these people realize how lucky they are not to be facing these problems until there is not much life left, after they have already enjoyed a plentiful and happy life. What can an Iraqi teenager, for example, ex pect from life? Or what can a Kenyan mother expect from her child's life? I shouldn't as TWO GREAT sume things about aging, though, since I am COED BOARDING only 20 and know nothing about getting old. I still have so much to learn and so much to give, and in "an immense mountain of poor Brazilians," I feel truly blessed to be born AND DAY SCHOOLS there and able to choose what it's worth living my life for. 0 ONE GREAT NEAR PHILADELPHIA, PENNSYLVANIA GEORGE SCHOOL WESTTOWN SCHOOL FRIENDS }OURNAL Apri/2002 27 FRIENDS CAMP Books South China. !\Iaine md ultimately within each of us. This second hIt Jl ://\I 11 \1 .l'ril·ndsnllll p.ur~ Yeshua: Seeing God through view dovetails with that of secular hummists the Eyes of His Child who believe that Jesus was simply ar1 ethical Ages 7-17 teacher, like Socrates md Confucius, md that Coed - Residential By Herb Dimock. Sterlinghouse Press, 2001. all we need to do is follow his teachings md 284 pages. $11.95/paperback. lead a good life. Hummism strips the life of I'm tempted to paraphrase James Joyce Jesus, md humm life in general, of mystery md call this novel, Portrait ofjesus as a Young md miracle. A unique camp program which includes in Quaker. Its author, Herb Dimock, is a con Dimock avoids both these pitfalls. His ternational campers, Quaker community Jiv vinced Friend with ar1 unusually varied career. novel shows what the humm side of Jesus ing, decision making, crafts, drama, sports, He earned a master's degree in Divinity from might have been as well as how a growing water activities, and other creative programs. Pacific School of Religion, taught humanities consciousness of the Divine Reality might at University of Puget Sound, pastored four have guided his life. Yeshua is so emotionally Susan Morris, Director churches in the State ofWashington for the gripping that it would make ar1 excellent PO Box 84, United Church of Christ, directed a skid row movie. (Dimock has written two stage plays East Vassalboro, ME 04935 ministry, md cofounded the Gold County based on biblical themes.) At the same rime, (207) 923-3975 Institute of Noetic Science (a movement the book is historically plausible md spiritu smorris @pivot.net founded by Dr. Edgar Mitchell, the astronaut ally enlightening. who lmded on the moon in 1971 md felt a Yeshuaopenswithin the real world of first sense of"universal connectedness"). century Israel, a country oppressed by the Dimock's fictional account ofYeshua (the Romms md wracked with revolution. When Hebrew name for Jesus), like James Joyce's an uprising of Zealots occurs at the city of Gree~~~ Portrait ofan Artist as a Young Man, is a novel Sepphoris, which the Romm legion violently about growing up. It explores the complex suppresses, the boy Yeshua must go with his psychological md social factors that could father to retrieve the body of his uncle, a "the small school that have shaped Jesus' childhood md helped him Zealot crucified by the Romans. In a horrifi makes big people" to realize his potential md mission as Israel's cally graphic scene Yes hua experiences first (wd humankind's) "Anointed One." hand the cruelty of Romm political oppres Scholar md critic Paul Fussell used to say sion, but he also experiences the kindness ofa that biography is really covert autobiography. Roman centurion, who is a friend ofhi s father This is certainly the case with those writing md allows Yeshua's uncle to be taken down about the life of Jesus. Nikos Kazantzakis's from the cross before sunset md buried ac controversial novel The Last Temptation of cording tO Jewish law. This act of kindness Christ (1955) portrayed Jesus as a hypersensi prevents Yeshua from hating all Romms, as tive neurotic at odds with society-which of mwy ofhis countrymen do, md helps him to course perfectly describes Kazantzakis him have ar1 enlightened view ofwhat the Messiah's self. In Normm Mailer's Gospel According to liberation movement could mearJ. Greene Street Friends School the Son (1997), Jesus sounds very much like Fictionalized incidents like these help cre 5511 Greene Street its author- a brooding, alienated existential ate a plausible picture of the factors that the Philadelphia, PA 19144 ist in revolt against a complacent establish author seems to feel may have shaped the • ment and despairing middle class. The Jesus boy Jesus psychologically md spiritually. He Pre-K through Grade 8 depicted by the scholars of the Jesus seminar is shown arguing with his rabbi (a staunch Founded in 1855 makes him seem like ar1 ironic, unconven devotee of Mosaic Law) md meeting a Sa tional scholar with radical tendencies. There maritan boy who becomes his closest friend Please call TODAY for a is some validity to all these portrayals; like the and makes him aware of life beyond his pro tour. 215-438-7545 Apostle Paul, Jesus was "all things to all vincial Jewish worldview. During his rime of people." But Dimock's Jesus seems more real spiritual seeking Yeshua visits Egypt, studies md authentic thm any other whose life I have in ar1 Essene community, md meditates with read, including the one in the Gospels. a Buddhist hermit. This book avoids what I think are two Along with the human side of Jesus, common misconceptions about Jesus. The Dimock shows a growing awareness of the first (common among fundamentalists md Divine Presence in the life of this fictionalized conservatives) stresses the divinity of]esus md Jesus. Through his intense questioning ofau places him on a pedestal far beyond our power thorities md Scriptures, md through his soli to emulate. Those who divinize Jesus tend to tary rimes of prayer, the young Yeshua finally denigrate our humm abilities wd make us comes to have a direct, intimate dialogue with dependent on divine grace, or some external his (md our) heavenly "Daddy" (or Abba). authority like the Bible or the Church, for our This inner voice of wisdom and love does not fulftllment (or "salvation"). The second mis give Yeshua the wswers he seeks all at once, conception (common among universalists md but helps him to grow spiritually md to real 14 Hooker Avenue, Northamr,ton, MA 01060 liberals) is that Jesus was "just a mm like us" ize his divine potential step by step, some (413) 529-9212 E·m;all: maryte [email protected] or "a great teacher." Such a view tends to deny times through questions, sometimes through or trivialize the Divine Spirit within Jesus, words of encouragement or challenge. 28 Apri/2002 FRIENDS JouRNAL This is a book that will challenge Friends of all branches of Quakerism to "see God through the eyes of His Child." I recommend it to anyone who wanes to know God and Jesus as a Friend. -Anthony Manousos AnthonyManousos, who attends Whitleaf Meet ing and Whittier First Friends Church (both in Whittier, California), is editor of Friends Bulletin. God the Trickster? Eleven Essays Edited by Ben Pink Dandelion. Quaker Books, 2001. 189 pages. $18/paperback. British editor Ben Pink Dandelion tried very hard to gee a group of Quaker writers co fie their experience into his concept of God as "trickster," a character found in many ab original cultures. Some turned him down, and apparently all who accepted spent time discerning with ocher Friends the rightness of their participation. Jane Orion Smith, a member of Victoria (B.C.) Meeting, currently sojourning in Toronto where she is stafffor Canadian Friends Service Committee, reminds us that "Along the road of cultural appropriation, aspects of [smudging rituals and sweat lodges] have been "You don't stop playing because Canadian Rockies. Hal trains revised to fit the (mostly white) culture that you're growing old. You grow regularly in Foulkeways' fitness and wishes a self-fulfilling Aboriginal experience old because you stop playing." aquatic center with his wife Fran that doesn't ask for any corrective behavior from us." She warns readers that " ...a true Satchel Paige and other residents. understanding of Trickster is beyond almost Live a little or live a lot-that's what Our residents head for the all of us, for s/he emerges from the center of mountains one season, grab a cultures and experiences not our own." Many life's all about at Foulkeways at of the authors echo this, and go on to reinter Gwynedd's Retirement racquet or croquet mallet the next. pret "trickster" to fit more closely their experi Community. Our residents enjoy Then they plunge into our year ence within Quakerism. the many activities offered in our round indoor aquatics program, The "trickster" tide and ostensible thesis community but also enjoy followed by many stimulating are a bit of a misnomer for the above reasons, cultural and intellectual programs. although the various contributors try valiantly achieving new heights and to tie their stories somehow into the "trick exploring new horizons. Like Each activity is designed to keep ster" concept. They mostly do so by stressing Foulkeways resident, Hal Kellogg, the mind as active as the body. paradox, the mystery of God, and our own 85, climbing to the top of the For more information about stubborn resistance to surrender to God's lov ing way. The twists and turns of life experi Foulkeways' affordable residential ence can be described with the metaphor of apartments, assisted living and God as tricksrer, but most of the authors have skilled nursing care, you're invited found that continued pondering of their ex to call Nancy B. Gold, Director of periences generally leads to a more profound Admissions at 215-643-2200. understanding, grounded in our own tradi tional cultural context. I wonder at the need for the editor to 1120 Meetinghouse Road • Gwynedd, PA 19436 declare that the authors are not rypical "Lib E-mail: [email protected] eral Quakers" because they believe in "a per sonal God interested in daily life, with an Visit our web site! www.foulkeways.org openness to self-discipline or denial, and hold Foulkeways • at Gwynedd does not discriminate on the basis of race1 color, IOUAlMOUSINO ing notions chat all is potentially of God and O I'POIIITUIOIITT religion, national origin, sex, handicap or familial status. from God." Without these core beliefs Quak- FRJENDS JOURNAL Apri/2002 29 GuideOne Insurance is America's leading insur er of religious institutions, and has been pro erism takes on some forms very different tecting Friends houses of worship and schools from how it began and flourished for 250 or 300 years. for more than 20 years. In fad, since 1979, God the Trickster? consists of an introduc GuideOne has been the Friends Insurance tion and 11 essays. The value of the book Group property and casualty insurer of choice. lies not in the thesis, but in those essays that To arrange for a FREE premium quotation, and reflect mature spiritual experience and wis dom. Those stories, shorn of their trickster to learn more about GuideOne Insurance, call analyses, demonstrate the faithfulness, the Gu•deOne·r." 1-877-448-4331 ext. 5429. "lovingkindness" of the One we worship. lnsur~nce Kirsten Backstrom, a hospice worker in Mulrnomah Meeting in Portland, Oregon, describes her experiment with pain that showed her its inner connection with great compassion. Michele Lise Tarter, assistant pro fessor of English at the College ofNew Jersey, is a member of Boulder (Colo.) Meeting. She tells a profoundly moving story of her encounter with a shaman in the Moab canyonlands who enabled her to be with her beloved stepfather as he died. Marti Matthews (counselor at Triton Community College and member of Northside Meeting in C hicago, Ill.) walks with death and suffer ing, led by God (she uses the image of a fox) along paths she would not have chosen, but thereby she is open to learning great gifts. Margery Post Abbott (Mulrnomah Meet ing) tells a less outwardly dramatic story, per haps, but a powerful one of difficult inner work. She models inner learning in dialogue with the story of Jonah-an example of our Quaker way ofspiritual growth grounded in study of Scripture. There are several other thoughtful, helpful contributions, in addition to these. The more intellectual (i.e. less personal) essays, or parts of essays, explore the W isdom Books of the Bible, Job, James Nayler, suffer ing, the fu.lse self, and several other issues of paradox in often helpful ways. Rather than borrowing from another culture something that ultimately does not fit our "gestalt" (as Patricia Loring refers to the completeness, the wholeness of our original theology and its concept of Gospel Order), most of the con tributors try to reformulate the syncretistic The Meeting School borrowing to fit Friends' understanding. Does borrowing the image of the trickster 56 Thomas Road, Rindge, NH 03461 help Friends to deepen our spiritual life? Does Organic Farm the evidence of these Friends' experiences in ~ rare breeds, active student involvement dicate that God is, in fact, a trickster? I am not convinced. The best of these authors had to / Caring Quaker Community do considerable translation to use the concept putting faith into practice in our daily lives at all: paradoxes, our own stubborn willful Progressive Secondary Education ness, misinterpreting leadings, always insist day/boarding, small classes, hands-on learning ing on rational explanations that, in the end, don't work. It isn't God who tricks. God is steadfast in God's loving kindness. Bur from our limited point of view, events can seem to play tricks on us. email:[email protected] (603) 899-3366 www.meetingschool.org Does it help to interpret these twists of events as God playing tricks? I don't think 30 Apri/2002 FRIENDS JouRNAL Residential and it deepens my understanding and love of Assisted Living God to interpret the Divine as capricious, mischievous, or deliberately causing pain since 1891 and suffering in order to get my attention although I believe that God uses all the mis fortunes that come upon us to be with us In addition to The Hickman's in our suffering, all the while inviting us "not too big, not too small" into closer relationship with God. size, Bill and Becky Mcilvain -Marty Grundy liked the retirement Marty Grundy is a member ofCleveland (Ohio) community's in-town location. Meeting, Lake Erie Yearly Meeting. "There are so many things The Silent Cry: Mysticism you can do within walking and Resistance distance. We're still driving now, but the day will come . ... " By Dorothee Soelle. Fortress Press, 2001. 325 pages. $20/paperback. For many years, German theologian and Quaker-Sponsored • Homelike • Affordable • Close to Town • Welcoming Diversity peace activist Dorothee Soelle has reflected on the intersection of spirituality and social jus 400 N. Walnut St., West Chester, PA 19380 tice. The Silent Cry represents her boldest 610-696-1536 attempt yet to refresh contemporary Chris e-mail: [email protected] tian theology with its mystical heritage, sadly a heritage often undervalued in Protestant www. thehickman.org circles. It is a timely book-not only for stu dents ofspirituality and theology, but also for any who seek to rekindle their spiritual fires to resist the violent, market-driven, and ego centered culture of our day. As she notes in her introduction, Soelle attempts both to "democratize" mysticism putting it within spiritual reach ofthe reader Enjoy gardening? Looking for a and tO reveal how a passionate "love for God" naturally leads the mystic to repudiate the fun service project? unholy values of an unjust society. Soelle is successful on both counts. As she considers themes in the mystical experi Join us for ences of nature, joy, suffering, eroticism, and community, the reader calls to mind his or Gardening with Friends her own spiritual experiences. Soelle then ex (a spring cleanup of Friends Hospital's historic gardens) plores the challenging psychological and spiri tual dynamics of the human quest for posses Saturday, Aprill3, 2002 sions, success, and security. In so doing, Soelle lO a.m. to 2 p.m. brings to life the prophetic witness in the 4641 Roosevelt Blvd. history of mysticism. Concise and revealing biographies abound, from St. Francis to Dor Philadelphia, PA othy Day; from Mechthild of Magdeburg to Leon Tolstoy. Catholics, Protestants, as well as seekers from other faith traditions like Thich (You don't need to have a green thumb! There are plenty offun Nhat Hanh, are highlighted. Of particular jobs for adults and children, like raking, mulching & planting.) interest to Quaker readers is the Friendly con tribution to this heritage, described in her chapter on "Community." The Silent Cry inspires the reader with its For more information or to sign hopeful vision-a vision that refuses to assign· up to volunteer, please call Christian mysticism a place only in the past. Soelle uncovers a host of compelling, creative fJ!~S 215-831-7803 testimonies to divine transformation. Yet be or email [email protected]. cause Soelle's penetrating voice is clear and direct, she is never weighted down by the FRIENDS ] OURNAL Apri/2002 31 book's substantial scholarship. It is a book to It's About Them. rekindle the mystical heart and encourage the social activist in each of us. 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Other essays derail the use of teachers to A Century ofQuaker Care for Older Adults promote a culture of war; how wives and girlfriends of COs suffered abusive accusa Simply put, Friends Home at Woodstown provides friendly and affordable tions and sometimes were fired from their care to older adults. Nestled in the heart of rural southern New Jersey, jobs for their sentiments against war as well as Friends Home has maintained a stable presence in the community for over the status of their men as COs; the practical 100 years. Some of our primary services include: • Private, homelike residential living CHAlLENGE TO • Independent apartment living • Health care facility with 24-hour services MARS • Patient and supportive staff • Attention to the individual's spiritual, social, and physical needs • Closeness to the community • Medicare and Medicaid Certificate Rated one ofthe best care homes in the US. For a tour or more information, contact our Admissions Office at 856-769-1500 Friends Home at Woodstown P.O. Box 457 • Friends Drive • Woodstown, NJ 08098 Christianity of the Friends Ambulance Ser vice; and many other issues. Challenge to Mars is an excellent survey of pacifist organizations of this period. The Friends Academy tension between action and idea emerges re Founded I 876 Located on scenic Long Island, peatedly. A consistent theme is that emphasiz ing peace at the level of action is usually • less than 30 miles from New York City. futile. However, peace at the level of ideas seemed to be inordinately effective. The Celebrating our 125th Anniversary Quaker Peace Testimony is a case in point. Quakers all around the world are credited with very effective peace work, disproportion ate to our numbers. Challenge to Mars is an excellent reference work for studies and reading in pacifist insti tutions. Equally important, however, are the references given in the copious notes at the end of each essay. These are a very strong incentive to further readings on peace work. Antony Kuzhuvanal's essay, "Gandhi's Satyagraha and its Roots in India's Past," Founded in 1876 by Gideon Frost for "the children of Friends and those closes the book by citing Gandhi on the con cept ofahimsa: "In irs negative form, it means similarly sentimented, " Friends Academy is a Quaker, coeducational, inde not injuring any living being, whether by pendent, college preparatory day school serving 750 students from age three body or mind. I may not, therefore, hurt the through the twelfth grade. The school awards significant financial assistance. person of any wrong-doer or bear any ill-will to him, and so cause him mental suffering.... Friends Academy • Duck Pond Road • Locust Valley, NY 11560 In its positive form, ahimsa means the largest love, the greatest charity. 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Send resume and three references by Apri/15, 2002 to: Those words oflsaac Penington open one of the daily meditations in John Morgan's Susan C:orson-Finn~:rry, Publish~:r and Ex~:cutive Editor. Awakening the Soul. Morgan, a Unitarian Universalist minister, edited this collection of himfl,-}oumal. 121(, Arch Str~:et, 2A, Philaddphia. Pi\ 1<)107 FRIENDS short (most are only two or three brief para Fax: (21S) s()X-Il77 • publisher_excc_cd(f/)fi-i~:ndsjournal.org JOURNAL graphs) devotionals- 34 April 2002 FRIENDS J OURNAL News A bill to bring back the military draft has 20, at Friends Center in Philadelphia, Pa. been introduced in Congress. HR 3598, The The main purpose of the conference was to Universal Military Training Act of 2001, was draw attention to the "Campaign of Con introduced on December 20, 2001. Authored science for the Iraqi People" that seeks to raise by Nick Smith, Republican ofMich igan, and awareness of the impact of sanctions on civil cosponsored by Curt Weldon, Republican of ians and to encourage Quakers to engage in a Pennsylvania, HR 3598 would establish that: nonviolent response to the U.S. bombing "It is the obligation of every male citizen of against Iraq. The conferees heard from the (609) 714-0100 the United States, and every other male per former coordinator of UN humanitarian ac callighrf@ aol.com son residing in the United States, who is tivities in Iraq, Denis Halliday; from Kathy • MARRIAGE CERTIFICATES • between the ages of 18 and 22 to receive basic Kelly, the founder of "Voices in the Wilder • INSCRIPTIONS • SCROLLS • military training and education as a member ness," a campaign to end the UN and U.S. of the armed forces." [Section 3{a)] The full economic embargo against Iraqis; and from . 22 New Freedom Rd., Medford, NJ 08055 text of the bill can be found via Nick Smith's four other speakers. During meetings for website: FRIENDS JOURNAL April 2002 35 thought such a meeting in their part of the as a cost-saving measure. FCL advocates cut country would be a good idea. No fum date ting public safety budgets equally with other has been set and the organizers welcome sug state budgets. "Favoring police and fire agen gestions. Write QLC c/o 1710 N. Talbott cies tends to shift the burdens of fiscal strin Street, Indianapolis, IN 46202, call (317) 926- gency onto agencies that build stronger 7657, ore-mail 36 Apri/2002 FRIENDS JoURNAL • Equal pr actices • Child ca re, not child l abor • Education • Equal oppor tunity To receive an Overall Morningstar Rating™ of****· a mutual fund must show exemplary past performance. 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For further information please contact: Woodbrooke, 1046 Bristol Road, Selly Oak, Birmingham, UK B29 6LJ Tel: +44 (0) 121 472 5171 • Email: [email protected] • Web: www.woodbrooke.org.uk FRIENDS ]OURNAL Apri/2002 37 Bulletin Board Upcoming Events •April 27-Friends Medical Society, at Medford Leas in Medford, N.J. For informa tion contact Deborah Vaughan at (2 15) 438- Scattergood Friends School, founded 6897 or For information, call roll-free at 1-888-737-4636, or e-mail Opportunities/Resources [email protected] • Be a part of urgent work on behalf of Middle 1951 Delra Avenue East peace! A small delegation of Quakers, Wesr Branch, Iowa 52358 sponsored by Christian Peacemaker Teams (CPT), will travel to the Middle East July 25 'IV 'IV VV. S C a t to August 6, 2002, to act as independent international observers, meet and work with Israeli and Palestinian Peace and Justice groups, hear the stories of Palestinians living under Israeli Occupation, and engage in public wit ness or nonviolent direct action on behalf of SPIRITUAL LIFE ENRICHMENT RETREATS lasting peace in the region. The delegation with Nancy Bieber july 7-12 will divide its time between Ramallah at the july 21-26 Ramallah Friends Schools and Hebron, where the permanent CPT presence is established, August 18 -23 with visits to Jerusalem and Bethlehem. Please Do you long for a quiet spiritual respond by June 1, 2002. For information center for your life? and applications, contact Bill and Genie Durland PENDLEHILL •A 21-page list of books and other resources A Ql'AKER CENTER FOR STl,'DY A.'IID CONTE.\IPI.ATION on racism recommended by participants at ext. 142 · (800) 742-3150 (US) the Quakers and Racism Conference at Pendle Hill, October 12-14, 2001, is available. The or (610) 566-4507 {worldwide} list includes books on racism, African-Ameri 338 Plush Mill Road· Wallingford, PA 19086 can history, and white privilege; Quaker re www. pendlehill. org · registrar@pendlehill. org lated books; videos; miscellaneous other sources, including the Internet; and work- 38 Apri/2002 FRIENDS JouRNAL shops and training. To receive a copy, e-mail Judy Van Hoy at •Martin Auer, Austrian author of children's books, has put together a collection of stories for children and young people, The Strange War: Stories for a Culture ofPeace. The book can be read online or downloaded for print ing. Available in English, Russian, Danish, and German, and partially in Serbian, Dutch, and Japanese. "I hope that peace edu cation workers all over the world will be able to use these stories in their work," says Auer. To access the stories visit •The Fellowship of Reconciliation (FOR) is accepting applications for volunteers to ac company the Peace Community of San Jose de Apanad6, in Colombia's northern region ofUraba. San Jose de Apanad6 is one ofso me 50 communities in Colombia that has taken an extraordinary and nonviolent stand against war by refusing to support any armed actor involved in Colombia's decades-long conflict. FOR now seeks eager, committed, and skilled volunteers ready to actively support this living example of nonviolent resistance. FOR covers living expenses, a small monthly stipend, and some health insurance. For more information or to apply, please contact Fellowship ofRec onciliation/Task Force on Latin America and the Caribbean, 2017 Mission Street #305, San Francisco, CA 94110; (415) 495-6334; schools. During the 13 years they lived in Illinois, the FWCC office. In 1988 the couple retired, first Deaths all six of their children were born. In 1949 the to Cotuit, and then, in 1990, to the f.um in Ayres---Aiict Hutchinson Ayrts, 94, on October family began spending vacations on Cape Cod, Vermont, transferring their memberships to 21. 2001, in St. Petersburg, Fla. Born in Plainfield, which Edith had loved as a child. When she and Plainfield (Vc.) Meeting. In 1999 Edith and Gor New Jersey, on January 15, 1907, to Edward and Gordon moved their family to the Cape Cod don moved to Kendal at Hanover. Edith is sur Sarah Conrow Hutchinson, Alice was a descen village of Cotuit in 1958, she became active in vived by her husband, Gordon M. Browne Jr.; her dent of pioneer Quakers on both sides of her village life, serving as president of the Cotuit N urs daughters Sarah Polito, Rebecca Lafferty, Deborah family. She graduated from Swarthmore College, ery School, as an election judge, and as a member Carpilio, and Elizabeth Klaus; her sons, Charles where she met John Ayres. The couple married in of several local committees. She joined Sandwich and Richard Browne; 14 grandchildren, and three a Quaker ceremony on August 31, 1929. Their Meeting and worshipped at South Yarmouth Pre great-grandchildren. marriage lasted 67 years until John's death in 1996. parative Meeting. At various times, she served as Alice was a homemaker, gardener, award-winning presiding clerk of both meetings, and as editor of Burton-Anthony Burton, 87, on October 15, artist, and feminist who wrote poetry and essays. the Sandwich Meeting Newsletter. Though not a 2001, at St. Mary Medical Center in Newtown, Her paintings adorn walls in homes around the political activist, she felt strongly that racial dis Pa. Born at Riverside Farm in Tulleyrown, Pa., on country and beyond. Alice supported numerous crimination and war were morally wrong. She was August 2, 1914, he was the son ofAnthony Russell causes dedicated to the protection of trees. Al one of the founders of the Cape Cod Branch of the Burton and Marian Stuckert Burton. The descen though stricken by Alzheimer's disease in her final NAACP and joined other branch members in dent of Burtons who helped build Pennsbury years, Alice continued to write and paint until the demonstrations aimed at lunch counter discrimi Manor for William Penn, Anthony attended a end of her life. Her last written words were a nation in Woolworth stores. She and Gordon two-room schoolhouse in Tullytown, graduated reminder to all that she did, indeed, mind the became military tax resisters in the early 1960s, from Bristol High School, and studied a year at Light: Alice is happy today. She is survived by her and she continued that witness throughout her George School. On June 19, 1937, he married five children, Robert, T oraya, Edward, Eugene, life. Her primary interest, however, was in family Ruth Priestman. After receiving his master's de and Alex Ayres; and six grandchildren. life, and she made her home a place of comfort, gree in Business Administration from Columbia humor, and love. She was an excellent cook and University, Anthony became a C.P A and was Browne--Edith Carlton Brownt, 79, on Novem painter. She shared with her children her love of employed by Price Waterhouse and Company, ber 19, 2001, at Kendal at Hanover, N.H., afrer a the sea, marshes, local birds, and flowers. In 1966, transferring to the Philadelphia office in 1947. He long and valiant srruggle with cancer. She was born as a retreat from summer crowds on Cape Cod, the joined with the late Robert Browse to form the February 12, 1922, in Portland, Maine, the only family acquired a small f.um in the hills ofPeacham, Burton and Browse C.PA. firm in Newtown and child of Charles E. and Georgia Sherry Carlton. Vt. When their children were grown, Edith and Doylestown, Pa., and Lambercville, N.J. An active She grew up in Cambridge, Mass., and attended Gordon spent two years in New York representing civic leader, Anthony served on many boards of Buckingham School and Radcliffe College. In Au Quakers at the United Nations. When Gordon directors and was instrumental in founding several gust 1945, she married Gordon M. Browne Jr., was appointed to work with Friends World Com organizations. He was the first president of the and the couple moved to the North Shore of mittee for Consultation, the couple moved to Phila Historic Fallsington, Inc., founded in 1953 to Chicago, where Gordon taught in independent delphia, and Edith became a full-time volunteer in preserve buildings in the village where W illiam ,_.ung l}'- Excelling /1t'\ IN A CHANGING WORLD 1?30 FRil·. NDS SFI FC:T 'When we're gone, our hearts wiU stiU belong" Age K through 6th Grade Pre-K to 12th grade Support our Campaign for a new Multi-purpose Building and Art Studio 17th & Benjamin Franklin Parkway Philadelphia, Pennsylvania I9103-1284 2150 rJutler Pike, Plymouth !rfeetlng p,q 191,62 • (610) 828·2288 215-561-5900 Open your child's ··111 >o \l'.Jr,, till· nnt gl'lll'l ,lllonlldl ,J,k: mind to the world ' What were you doing when the children of Iraq were dying?' " ABINGTON \/"" """ < , "11-""" \ l<~tfl/11,, I •rr. \ol>d l'n11 ,. 1'11~,. ltllll ""''' FRIENDS Friends, we are now in the 12th year ofour war against Iraq. It's a new kind of SCHOOL war, waged mainly by economic sanctions that were imposed August 6, 1990. A Quaker coeducational UNICEF and many other reliable sources report that those sanctions are killing day school grades thousands of children every month. Preschool through 12 What does our historic Peace Testimony call us to do now? For more information, call -Mary Arnett, Philadelphia, Pa.; Kay Camp, Haverford, Pa.; Frances Crowe, Northampton, Mass.; 215-886-4350 lngeborg Jack, Swarthmore, Pa.; Ruth Matson, Upper Darby, Pa.; Marjorie Schier, Levittown, Pa. 575 Washington Lane • Jenkintown, PA 19046 40 Apri/2002 FRIENDS j OURNAL Penn worshiped. Anthony served on the Board of as assistant director of the Oklahoma State Depart Couneoi-Paul Courteol, 90, on September 21, Directors of Historic Fallsingron for 48 years and ment of Public WelFare in 1944 ro join the Phila 2000. He was born January 27, 1910 in Granby, was active in several historical associations. He was delphia staff of American Friends Service Com Mo., one of 13 children of] ulian and Minnie May clerk of Fallsingron (Pa.) Meeting when the mittee. In 1949 she became a war-tax refuser in a N unn Couneol. Following rhe deaths ofhis mother Hicksites and Orthodox meetings merged. A trea case char eventually went ro rhe Supreme Court and four ofhis sisters when he was 13, he moved to surer of Bucks Quarterly Meeting for 20 years, (Cleveland, Cadwallader, and rheAFSC vs. U.SA). White Plains, N.Y.,to live with an older sister and Anthony arrended Makefield Meeting when he Lorraine continued throughout her life ro deduct brother-in-law. He graduated from George School, lived in Dolingron and later became a member of from her federal taxes chat portion chat would be where he met his future wife, Bernice Zimmerman, Wrightstown Meeting. A volunteer for Pennsbury used for war, and sent it to a worthy cause. At in 1929. In 1933 Paul graduated from LaFayette Manor and rhe Pennsbury Society, he was ap AFSC she served as one of a team of people who College in Easton, Pa., with a degree in Civil pointed to rhe corporate board for Pennswood pioneered community development programs in Engineering. He worked in Sr. Louis and Kansas Village, and in 1987 he and Ruth made their home health, education, and housing in rhe 1950s, and City before moving to Chicago in 1940. He joined there. He enjoyed hunting, tennis, dancing, bridge, was named director of Social and Technical Assis rhe engineering department of the Mercoid Cor theatre, reading mysteries, and joking. He is sur tance Programs. She laid rhe foundation for AFSC's poration, manufacturers of mercury and explo vived by his wife of 64 years, Ruth Priesrman ongoing Voluntary International Service Assign sion-proofcontrols, where he worked for 37 years. Burton; a daughter, Emily Reeves Burton Sipple; a ment (VISA) program for youth, and served with Paul was a member of rhe Lake Forest (Ill.) Meet son, Craig Burton, and his wife, Michele C. Bur her husband as a co-director of rhe first Quaker ing, where he served as clerk and treasurer. When ron; a grandson, Ryan Michael Burton; a sister, Youth Pilgrimage in England in 1959. Lorraine he retired in 1977, he and Bernie moved to Guyton, Marian Burton Frank and her husband Peter; a initiated Family planning programs here and abroad. Ga., and, in 1985, to Sacramento, Calif., where cousin, John J. Burton and his wife Jean Douglas At rhe age of50 she became a parent to pre-teenage they attended Davis Meeting. He was predeceased Burton, and several nephews and nieces. children, a daughter from China and a son from by a son and a daughter. H e is survived by his wife Korea. Lorraine was well into her 70s when she of 67 years, Bernice Courteol; daughters Ouida Cleveland-Lorraine Ketchum Cleveland, 91, on became actively involved with a California-based Couneol Parker and Mary Courteol Kasch; grand October 28, 2001, in Chandler Hall, Newtown, group, Beyond War, becoming irs contact for Penn daughters Julie Parker and Elizabeth Kasch Peter; Pa. Lorraine was born in Wyoming, Iowa, on sylvania and organizing orientation seminars in grandsons Dan Parker and David Kasch; sons-in November 9, 1909. As a child growing up in her area. Lorraine became a force in shaping rhe law Allen Parker and Dr. John Kasch; and a sister, Oklahoma, she believed chat rhe First World War Peace Center of Bucks County, Pa., which she Emily Hudson. was rhe last, rhe war to end all wars. In 1930, she helped to found in 1982. She is survived by her was startled to learn at a Methodist youth confer children, Rhoda Cleveland Spratt and Cha M. Kriebei-Wiliiam Burtt Kriebel, 83, on July l , ence of rhe looming possibility ofanother war, and Cleveland; her sister, Winifred Wright; her 2001, in Burlington, Mass. Born into a Quaker decided then to dedicate rhe whole of her life to grandchildren Natasha Lange, Bryan Spratt, family in Philadelphia on September 18, 1917, preventing war. With a B.A. from University of Jacqueline, Jennifer, and Samantha Cleveland; and Bill attended Friends Select, Westtown School, Oklahoma and a master's degree in Social Work her great-granddaughters Brianna and Sierra Lange. Haverford College, and rhe Wharton School of from Tulane University, Lorraine left her position Business at University of Pennsylvania. As a con- CANTICLE EARTH'S ECHO OFTIIEEARffi Sacred Encotmters With Nature The Words ofFrancis Robert M. 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From 1952 to 1954, Bill and his fust wife, the late Rebecca Over 300 Years of Quaker Education Taylor Kriebel, went to Austria as the head of mission in a job that made loans available to farm The William Penn Charter School is a Quaker college-preparatory school ers in need. Bill served AFSC in numerous capaci stressing high standards in academics, the arts, and athletics. Penn Charter ties, including clerk for the Middle Atlantic Re is committed to nurturing girls and boys of diverse backgrounds in an gion in the 1960s, and as a longtime member and atmosphere designed to stimulate each student to work to his or her clerk of the Personnel Committee in the 1970s. A fullest potential. Kindergarten through twelfth grade. large part of Bill's life centered around printing, and his interest in the graphic arts led him to his Earl J. Ball Ill, Head of School many years in the advertising department ofSmith, 3000 W. School House Lane, Philadelphia, PA 19144 Kline, and French Laboratories in Philadelphia, (215) 844-3460 • www.penncharter.com where he worked until his retirement in 1980. Bill then moved to Boston, where his second wife, Anne Kriebel, worked as the director of Beacon Hill Friends House. Over the years, Bill served both Philadelphia and New England yearly meet ings on numerous commirtees and as clerk of several monthly meetings. Bill is survived by his wife, Anne Kriebel; two stepdaughters, Kate and Quaker Basics at Pendle Hill Sheryl Bernhardt; his children with his late wife, Jonathan Kriebel, Nancy Kriebel Turner, and Gre gory Kriebel; his brother, Howard Kriebel; and seven grandchildren. June 14-16 Pickett-Raph Hall Pickm, 96, on November 28, CLERKING 2001, at Riddle Memorial Hospital, Media, Pa., of SERVING THE COMMUNITY WITH }oY AND complications resulting from a heart attack. He was born near Glen Elder, Kans., on August 20, CONFIDENCE 1905. He graduated from Penn College in Iowa in 1930, and followed the urgings of his uncle, with Arthur Larrabee Clarence Pickett, to come east. On September 1, 1934, he married Margaret Evans Way at Provi dence Meeting. Ralph received his doctorate in History from University ofpennsylvania in 1937. He taught history at Moravian College for Women July 19-21 in Bethlehem, Pa., and, from 1947 until he retired in 1972, at University of Bridgeport in Connecti INQUIRERS' WEEKEND cut. He lived in Fairfield, Conn., for more than 30 BASIC QUAKERISM years and was active in Wilton Meeting, Purchase Quarterly Meeting, and New York Yearly Meet with CheZ Avery and Kenneth Sutton ing. In 1980 he moved to Lima Estates in Lima, Pa., and was active in Providence Meeting in Me dia, Chester Quarterly Meeting, and Philadelphia Yearly Meeting. He wrote abstracts for the Peace Research Abstracts Journal and book reviews for FRIENDS j OURNAL. His wife, Margaret Way Pickett, PENDLEHILL died on February 10,1992. He is survived by a A QUAKEI! CENTER FOR S1UDY AND CON"ffi\IPJ.mON daughter, Margaret P. Roeske; a son, John E. Pickett; and five grandchildren. ext. 142 · (800) 742-3150 (US) or (610) 566-4507 338 Plush Mill Road ·Wallingford, PA 19086 Quinby- Virginia P. Quinby, 93, on October 29, 2001, at Fairview Commons in Great Barrington, www.pend.lehill.org · [email protected] Mass. Virginia was born July 7, 1908, in Grand Gorge, N.Y., the daughter of Charles and Helen Hobson Page. She was a graduate ofPotsdam State Teacher's College. Virginia and her late husband, Sidney Quinby, started Taghkanic Hudson Meet Reservations are required for display ads in FRIENDS JoURNAL ing, now Hudson (N.Y.) Monthly Meeting. For Display more than 25 years, Vuginia operated the Sidinia Ad June issue: Reserve space by AprilS. Farm Nursery School at her residence. She was a Ads must be received by April 11. longtime volunteer at Willowwood Nursing Home Deadlines in Great Barrington, Mass., which is now known July issue: Reserve space by May 13. FRIENDS as Fairview Commons. Virginia is survived by two Ads must be received by May 16. daughters, Rachel Perkins and Robin Rozines; one JOURNAL son, Christopher Quinby; 11 grandchildren; and Ad rate is $32 per column inch. 13 great-grandchildren. Call (215) 563-8629 now with your reservation or questions. Smiley-A. Keith Smiley, 91, on December 6, 200 1, in Goshen, N.Y. He was born to Albert and 42 Apri/2002 FRIENDS JouRNAL Mabel Smiley on May 13, 1910, at Mohonk Lake the largest member- and visitor-supported nature Award of Merit from Haverford College, and in near New Paltz, N.Y. He attended Mohonk Boys preserve in New York State, protecting over 6,400 1992, with the Quality of Life in the Hudson School and Haverford College. When he returned acres of semiwilderness in the Shawangunk Ridge. Valley Award, from Mid-Hudson Patterns for home from Haverford in 1932, he began a career In 1980 he founded Mohonk Consultations, which Progress. A proponent of the idea that problems of at Mohonk Mountain House, serving on the Smiley promotes a broader understanding of the need for environmental degradation are regional and global Brothers Inc. Board of Directors from 1969 to sustainable use of the Earth's resources. A lifelong in nature, he dedicated himself to facilitating com 1999, and as president of Mohonk Mountain Quaker, he was involved with New York Yearly munication and understanding among different House for ten years. He also began a lifetime Meeting and the Quaker United Nations Office. constituencies to find common ground for main commitment to preservation, ultimately protect A member of the Board of Managers of Oakwood taining the health of planet Earth. H e is survived ing thousands ofa cres of scenic landscape in Ulster School in Poughkeepsie, N.Y., he also worked by his wife of 61 years, Ruth Happel Smiley; a County, N.Y., as a nature preserve. In 1963 he and with Mid-Hudson Patterns for Progress, and he daughter, Sandra Smiley; a son, Albert Smiley; his brother Daniel were instrumental in fo unding published several essays on human interaction and three grandsons; and three great-grandchildren. the Mohonk Trust, now the Mohonk Preserve, the environment. In 1978 he was honored with an Quaker House, Managua, Nicaragua. Simple hospitality, Pendle Hill Spring Programs , Classified shared k~chen. Reservations: +505 (2) 66-3216 (Spanish) or April 5-7: Quaker Light, with Peter Bien +505 (2) 66-0984 (English). For general information, call Pro For Information call (215) 563-8629. April 7- 12: Women, Prophesying, and 17th Century Nica: (727) B21 -2428ore-mail: FRJENDS J OURNAL April2002 43 Travel to Tuscany and Provence Friends Memorial Church in Muncie, Indiana, seeks a full FCNL Lobbyist The Friends Committee on National Legislation (FCNL; Taste of Tuscany and Friends In France trip programs time, lead pastor to complete our ministry team. For a po offered each fall and spring. Learn about art, culture, and sition description, or to submit a resumE\, write the Search 44 Apri/2002 FRIENDS }OURNAL Pocono Manor. Beautiful, rustic mountain house suitable for Sidwell Friends School, a coed, pre-K- 12 11" gatherings, retreats, and reunions. Seven bedrooms. Three full Junior high boarding school for grades 7, 8, 9. Small f!i BJ Quaker day school located in Washington, D.C., baths. Beds for 15. Fully equipped. Deck with mountain view. academic classes, challenging outdoor experiences, com •~ .,., invites qualified applicants for staff and faculty munity service, consensus decision making, daily work ..,_,.,.... positions that may be applied for at any time. Hiking trails from back door. Weekends or by the week, May through October. Contact Jonathan Snipes: (215) 738-1856. projects in a small, caring, community environment. Arthur Members of the Society of Friends are particularly en Morgan School, 1901 Hannah Branch Road, Burnsville, couraged to apply. Sidwell Friends, students, and alumni NC 28714. (828) 675·4262. represent many cultural, racial, religious, and economic Retirement Living backgrounds. The school's vigorous academic curricu Stratford Friends School prov1des a strong academ1c pro lum is supplemented by numerous offerings in the arts Friends House, a Quaker-sponsored retirement commu gram in a warm, supportive, ungraded setting for children and athletics. A Chinese language and history program is nity in Santa Rosa, California, offers one- and two-bedroom ages 5 to 13 who learn differently. Small classes and an shared with other area schools on a consortium basis. garden apartments or more spacious three-bedroom, two enriched curriculum answer the needs of the whole child. An The curriculum includes community service requirements bath homes for independent living. Immediate occupancy at-risk program for five-year-olds is available. The school and opportunities for internships in Washington, D.C., may be available. An assisted-living home, a skilled nursing also offers an extended day program, tutoring, and summer and a student year abroad. Educational and extracurricu facility, and adult day care services are also available on school. Information: Stratford Friends School, 5 Llandillo lar activities are enriched by the school's presence in the campus. Friends House is situated one hour north of San Road, Havertown, PA 19083. (610) 446-3144. nation's capital. Send cover letter and resumes to Office Francisco with convenient access to the Pacific coast, red wood forests, cultural events, medical services, and shop The Quaker School at Horsham, a value-centered el of Personnel Services, Sidwell Friends School, 3825 ementary and middle school for students with teaming dif Wisconsin Avenue, NW, Washington, DC 20016. ping. Friends House, 684 Benicia Drive, Santa Rosa, CA 95409. (707) 538-0152. FRIENDS ]OURNALApri/2002 45 Friendly Financial Services. Let me help you prepare for UNITED STATES retirement or work out an estate plan. Socially responsible Meetings investments-my specialty. Call Joyce Moore, LUTCF, Joyce Alabama Moore Financial Services at (61 0) 966-6127 or e-mail 46 Apri/2002 FRIENDS j OURNAL SACRAMENTO-Meeting 10 a.m. 890-57th Street. Phone: (916) 457-3998. District of Columbia MOSCOW-Moscow-Pullman Meeting, Campus Christian Center, 822 Elm St., Moscow. Unprogrammed worship SAN OtEGO-Unprogrammed worship, First Days, WASHINGTON-Friends Meeting of Washington, 2111 11 :30 a.m. Sunday. Childcare. (509) 332-4323. 10:30 a.m. 3850 Westgate Place. (619) 687-5474. Florida Ave. NW (north of Dupont Circle Metro, near Conn. Ave.), (202) 463-3310. (www.quaker.org/fmw). SANDPOINT-Friends Meeting, unprogrammed worship at SAN FRANCISCO-Meeting for worship and First-day Unprogrammed meetings for worship are regularly held at: 1025 Alder St., 10 a.m. Sundays. For information call school, 11 a.m., Sundays. 65 9th Street. (415) 431-7440. MEETINGHOUSE-2111 Florida Ave. Worship at 9 a.m., Elizabeth Willey, 263-4788. SAN JOSE-Worship and First-day School 10 a.m. 10:30 a.m., and 6 p.m. Sundays, also 7 p.m. Discussion 11 :30 a.m. 1041 Morse St. (408) 246-0524. Wednesdays. First-day school at 10:50 a.m. Illinois SAN LUIS OBISPO-Two worship groups in area: (805) QUAKER HOUSE-2121 Decatur Pl., next to BLOOMINGTON-NORMAL-Unprogrammed worship and 239-9163, 528-1249, or 528-6487. meetinghouse. Worship at 10:30 a.m. with special First-day school10:30 a.m. in members' homes. (309) SANTA BARBARA-Antioch Univ., 801 Garden St., 10 welcome for Lesbians and Gays. 454-5463 or (309) 862-1908. a.m. children's program and childcare. P.O. Box 40120, FRIENDSHIP PREPARATIVE MEETING-at Sidwell CHICAG0-57th St., 5615 Woodlawn. Worship 10:30 a.m. Santa Barbara, CA 9314o-4012. Phone: (805) 965-o906. Friends Upper School, 3825 Wisconsin Ave. NW, Monthly meeting follows on third Sunday. Phone: SANTA CRUZ-Meeting 10:30 a.m., at Georgiana Bruce Kogod Arts Bldg. Worship at 11 a.m. First Days. 288-3066. Kirby School, 117 Union St., Santa Cruz. CAPITOL HILL WORSHIP GROUP-at William Penn CHICAGO-Chicago Monthly Meeting, 10749 S. Artesian SANTA MONICA-First-day school and meeting 10 a.m. House, 515 E. Capitol St. SE, at 7:30a.m. seven days a Ave. Worship 10 a.m. Phone: (312) 445-8949. 1440 Harvard St. Phone: 828-4069. week. CHICAGO-Northside (unprogrammed). Mailing address: SANTA ROSA-Redwood Forest Meeting. Worship 10 a.m. 1456 W. Leland, Chicago, ll60640. Worship 10:30 a.m. at 1647 Guerneville Rd. Phone: (707) 578-3327. Florida 4427 N. Clark, Chicago (Japanese American Service SEBASTOPOL-Apple Seed Friends. Unprogrammed CLEARWATER-clerk: Priscilla Blanshard, 8333 Seminole Committee). Phone: (312) 409-0862. worship 10 a.m. GarzoVOuffield Building, Libby Pari< Blvd. #439, Seminole, Fl 33772. (727) 786·6270. DECATUR-Worship and First-day school, 10 a.m. at (corner of Valentine and Pleasant Hill Rd.). Contact Ron DAYTONA-Ormond Beach-Halifax Friends Meeting for DOVE, 788 E. Clay. Phone: 877-0296 or 872-6415. Higgins (707) 887-1160. Worship, 2"" and 4~ First Days at 10:30 a.m. 87 Bosarvey DOWNERS GROVE·(West Suburban Chicago) Worship STOCKTON-Delta Meeting, Unprogrammed, 10:30 a.m. Dr., Ormond Beach. (386) 677-6094, or (386) 445-4788. and First-day school10:30 a.m. 5710 lomond Ave. 2nd First Day, AFSC Center, 445 West Weber. For DELAND-Worship and First-day school 4 p.m. Unitarian (3 blocks west of Belmont, 1 block south of Maple). Phone: information, call (209) 478-8423. Church, 820 N. Frankfort. Info: (904) 734-8914. 968-3861 or 852-5812. VISALIA-Worship 10:30 a.m. 17208 Ave. 296, Visalia. FT. LAUDERDALE-Meeting 11 a.m. Information line (954) EVANSTON-Worship 10 a.m. 1010 Greenleaf, 864-8511. (559) 734-8275. 566-5000. GALESBURG-Peoria-Galesburg Meeting. 10 a.m. in WHITTIER-Whitleaf Monthly Meeting, Administration FT. MYERS..Meeting at Calusa Nature Center, First Days homes. (309) 343-7097 for location. Building, comer Painter and Philadelphia. Worship at 10:30 a.m. Telephone: (941) 274-3313. LAKE FOREST-Worship 10:30 a.m. at meetinghouse. 9:30a.m. P.O. Box 122. Phone: 698-7538. FT. PIERCE-Stuart Area Worship Group, 10:30 a.m., Fall West Old Elm and Ridge Rds. Mail: Box 95, l ake Forest, Spring. (561) 460-8920 or 692-2209. 60045. Phone: (847) 234-8410. Colorado GAINESVILLE-Meeting and First-day school 11 a.m. McHENRY COUNTY-Worship 5 p.m. (815) 385·8512. BOULDER-Meeting for worship 8:30a.m. and 10 a.m. 1921 N.W. 2nd Ave. 462-3201. McNABB-Clear Creek Meeting. Unprogrammed worship Childcare available. First-day school10 a.m. Phone Mary JACKSONVILLE-Meeting for worship, First Days. For 11 a.m., First-day school10 a.m. Meetinghouse 2 miles Hey at (303) 442-3638. location and time phone (904) 768-3648 or 733-3573. south, 1 mile east of McNabb. Phone: (815) 882-2214. COLORADO SPRINGS..Meeting Sunday at 10 a.m. at KEY WEST-Meeting for worship, First Day, 10 a.m. 618 OAK PARK-Worship 10 a.m. (First-day school, childcare), Pikes Peak Justice and Peace Comission, 29 S. Institute Grinnell St. Garden in rear. Phone: Barbara Jacobson Oak Pari< Art league, 720 Chicago Ave., P.O . Box 3245, St., Colorado Springs, Colo. Tel: (719) 685-5548. (305) 296-2787. Oak Pari<, IL 60303-3245. (708) 386-6172-Katherine. Address: Colorado Springs Friends Meeting, P.O . Box LAKE WALES-Worship group, (863) 676-2199. ROCKFORD-Unprogrammed worship, First Days, 11 2514, Colorado Springs, CO 80901-2514. LAKE WORTH-Palm Beach Meeting, 823 North A St. a.m., 326 N. Avon St. (815) 964-7416 or965-7241. DENVER-Mountain View Friends Meeting, 2280 South 10:30 a.m. Phone: (561) 585-8060. URBANA-GHAMPAfGN-Meeting for worship 11 a.m., in Columbine St. Worship and adult discussion 9 a.m. MELBOURNE-9:30 a.m. (321) 777-1221 or 676-5077. Illinois Disciples Foundation Chapel, 610 E. Springfield, Worship and First-day school 10:30 a.m. Westside Call for location. Champaign. Phone: (217) 328-5853 or (217) 344-6510. worship at 363 S. Harlan, #200, Lakewood, 10 a.m. MIAMI-CORAL GABLES..Meeting 10 :30 a.m. 1185 Phone: (303) 777-3799 or 235-0731. Sunset Dr., 661·7374. Clerk: Gerry O'Sullivan, (786) 268- Indiana DURANGO-Unprogrammed worship, First-day school, 0556. BLOOMINGTON-Meeting for worship 1 0:30 a.m. Moores and adult discussion. 803 County Rd. 233. (970) 247-0538 ORLANDO-Meeting and First-day school 9:30a.m. Pike at Smith Road. (812) 336·5576. or (970) 247-5597. Please call for times. 316 E. Mar1 48 Apri/2002 FRIENDS JoURNAL Nevada SEAVILLE-Meeting for worship 11 a.m. (July/Aug. 10 PECONIC BAY E.M.-Southampton College and LAS VEGAS-Unprogrammed worship group. a.m.) Main Shore Rd., Rte. 9, Seaville. (609) 624-1165. Southold Call (702) 615-3673. SHREWSBURY-Meeting for worship and First-day school SHELTER ISLAND E. M.-10:30 a.m. May to October RENO-Unprogrammed worship. For information, call: 329- 10:30 a.m. Rte. 35 and Sycamore. Phone: (732) 741- WESTBURY M.M. 9400. 4138. Contact us at FRIENDS ] OURNAL Apri/2002 49 GREENSBORO-Friendship Meeting (unprogrammed), Oregon HUNTINGDON-Unprogrammed meeting for worship, 1103 New Garden Rd. Worship 10:30 a.m. Call: 10:30 a.m., for location/directions call (814) 669-4127. ASHLAND-South Mountain Friends Meeting. Each First (336) 294-2095 or 854-5155. INDIANA-Unprogrammed meeting for worship 10:30 a .m., Day at543 S. Mountain Ave. Business, adult ed., and first and third Sundays. (724) 349-3338. GREENSBORO-New Garden Friends Meeting. Meeting singing 9:30 a.m. Children's program and silent meeting for worship: unprogrammed 9 a.m.; semi-programmed 11 for worship 11 a.m. Hospitality and child care available KENDAL-Worship 10:30 a.m. Kendal Center, Library. U.S. a.m. First-day school 9:30a.m. John Young, clerl<; David during all activities. Bill Ashworth, clerl<, (541) 482-0814. Ate. 1, 3 '1._ mi. S of Chadds Ford, 1'/, mi. N of Longwood W. Bills, pastoral minister. 801 New Garden Road, 27410. BEND-Central Oregon Worship Group, unprogrammed Gardens. Alice Erll, clerl<. (336) 292-5487. worship. (541 ) 923-3631 or (541) 330-6011. KENNETT SQUARE-on Ate. 82, S of Ate. 1 at Sickles St. GREENVILLE-Unprogrammed worship and First-day First-day school 9:45a.m., worship 11 a.m. (610) 444- school. 355-7230 or 758-6789. 0. CORVALLI5-Meeting for worship 11 a.m. 3311 N.W. Polk Ave. Phone: 752-3569. 1012. Find us at Not a monastery, not an ashram, not a commune, not a graduate school or a theological seminary, but a spiritually-centered learning community where something of the Benedictine rhythm of work, worship and study interpenetrate each other . .. Douglas Steere A QUAKER CENTER FOR STUDY AND CONTEMPLATION Douglas & Dorothy Steere n 1929, Douglas and Dorothy Steere were a part of the Resident Program Scholarship Fund organizing committee and served on the site selection I committee for the "new school" that was to open in 1930 Through a generous endowment gift from the Douglas and as Pendle Hill. For over sixty years, they played a major role Dorothy Steere family trust, Pendle Hill has established the in shaping the vision and character of Pendle Hill. Douglas and Dorothy Steere Resident Program Scholarship Fund. Individuals may apply for a scholarship to worship, study, work, and Douglas, a Haverford College professor of philosophy, was a reside at Pendle Hill for an academic year or fo r one or two terms. prolific writer and lecturer and a world-renowned ecumeni cal religious leader. He gave numerous lectures, authored To receive a copy of the 2002-2003 Pendle Hill catalog, eight Pendle Hill pamphlets, and with Dorothy led many scholarship information, and application forms, please contact: retreats at Pendle Hill. He served on the Board of Pendle Hill Bobbi Kelly, Admissions Associate from its inception to 1982 and served as clerk of the Board Pendle Hill for twenty-two years. Douglas Steere died in 1995. 338 Plush Mill Road Wallingford, PA 19086 Dorothy played a leading role in reopening historic Radnor (800) 742-3150, Ext. 137 Meeting and reconciling the Hicksite and Orthodox [email protected] Philadelphia Yearly Meetings. With Douglas she traveled widely under the auspices of the Friends World Committee for Consultation and led workshops and retreats, especially for women, at Pendle Hill. Dorothy was active on Pendle As part of Pendle Hill's Campaign for a New Century, we Hill's Board and committees until 1991 and is currently an honor Douglas and Dorothy Steere. For information on how honorary member of the General Board. you can honor a special person by making an investment in Pendle Hill, please contact: If you would like to know more about Douglas and Dorothy Barbara Parsons Steere, you may order, Love at the Heart of Things: A Director of Development Biography ofDouglas Steere, by E. Glenn Hinson from the Pendle Hill Pendle Hill Bookstore (800)-742-3150, ext 2. Books and 338 Plush Mill Road pamphlets written by Douglas Steere are also available from Wallingford, PA 19086 the Pendle Hill bookstore. (800) 742-3150, ext. 132 or e-mail: [email protected] •~MOfl·A~lA;A ..odAt/o" ol ers give workshops and lectures to help stu home, I feel as ifl'm on an island, surrounded ?>u•au ;ACAd""U: ScJ.oo£g dents. Still, many fail. When I had to decide, by the illness of inequality and savage com psychologists and teachers asked me what I petitiveness, suffocated by people trying to would like to do, and "change the world" convince me that "every man for himself" is was the most honest answer I could give. the only way. Those around me, my friends, All of them carne to the same conclusion: I wish to live in a "First World" country (and I Friends Committee on should go to art school because I did not don't blame them for wishing a better quality National Legislation have my feet on the ground. Opposing all of life for themselves), and they escape at r--•Fc www.fcnl.org professional advice, I applied to study journal their first opportunity. Each day I feel more 1-800-630-1330 ism, hoping to help improve the society where ridiculously idealistic and alone, tempted to UNL 245 Second St., NE NATIO,Al L EG I SLATIO~ I live, the most economically unequal on give up. Washington, DC 20002 this planet. It is not easy to persist. Using the words of We seek a world free of war & the threat of war Now, three years after my decision, I am U.S. historian Marshall Eakin,"The middle interning at FRIENDS j oURNAL during my sum and upper classes form a minority of affiuent We seek a society with equity & justice for all mer vacation, and it has been an amazing life citizens atop an immense mountain of poor We seek a community where every perso11 's and professional experience among Friends in Brazilians." The eighth biggest economy in potential may be fulfilled Philadelphia. My internship is coming to an the world is crowded with miserable people. We seek an earth restored.... end, and I am getting ready to go back home. In large cities like Sao Paulo and Rio de Before I leave, however, I would like to share Janeiro, one can easily see entire families ran some thoughts. sacking garbage and feeding themselves from "Change the world" sounds ridiculous; and it daily. Or at stop signs, begging at the win it is. It is even more so when coming from a dows ofBMWs, asking for any kind of help. 2002 naive 17-year-old who lives in the "Third Brazil faces all the problems an "underdevel Consider World"-an unfortunate global cliche that oped" country can have: lack of basic health Adnllssion Office implies inferiority. Such utopian ideals will care, violence, drugs, illiteracy of over 15 per 5800 West Friendly Avenue Friends Center's always be inside the minds of the ones who cent, etc. This combination ofproblems makes Greensboro, NC 27410 summer residential wish to be like Jesus Christ and save human Brazilians vulnerable ro manipulation by poli 336-316-2100 program ity, like me. Brazil is huge (even bigger than ticians and by the media-Globo, the world's 1-800-992-7759 FAX 336-316-2954 at Guilford fourth largest network, after ABC, CBS and Nara T Alves, a journalism major at Methodist www.guilford.edu NBC, routinely entertains 70 percent of all Exploring University ofSao Paulo and a Geography major Brazilians with their TVs turned on. at University ofSao Paulo, served as an intern Brazil has a powerful economy with cor Quaker Education Carolina Quaker for FRIENDS j OURNAL from December 2001 porations like Petrobras (which holds the Since 1837 Crossroads through February 2002. world's highest technology on deep-water pe- 1 1/4 mi. S., then 1 mi. W. on discussion 11 a.m. 144 South Quaker Lane, West 5759, or Fern Mayo, cler1<, (941) 955-1974. 700 South. Contact: (765) 987-1240 or (765) 478-4218. Hartford. Phone: 232-3631. TALLAHASSEE-2001 S. Magnolia Dr., 32301 ; hymn . Phone (804) 624·1272 for information. SWARTHMORE-Meeting and First-day school tO a.m., EL PASO-Meeting at 10 a.m. Sunday. 2821 Idalia, RICHMOND-Worship 9 :30 and 11 a.m. 4500 Kensington forum 11 a.m. Whittier Place, college campus. El Paso, TX 79930. Please use the back door. Phone: Ave. (804) 358·6185. TOWANDA-Meeting for worship-unprogrammed. Sundays (915) 534-8203. Please leave a message. RICHMOND-Midlothian Meeting. Worship 11 a.m., at 10:30 a.m. At Barclay Friends School, off Ate. 6, North FORT WORTH-Unprogrammed meeting 11 a.m. Sundays children's First-day school11:15 a.m. (804) 598-1676. Towanda. Phone: (570) 265-9620. at Wesley Foundation, 2750 w. Lowden. First-day school ROANOKE-Worship 10:30 a.m. Usually at Hollins UPPER DUBLIN-Worship & First-day school 11 a.m. Sept. also at 11 a.m. (817) 531-2324 or 299-8247. Meditation Chapel. Info.: Waring, (540) 343-6769, or Fetter, (540) 982-1034. through June; 10 a.m., July & August. Ft. Washington Ave. GALVESTON-Worship, First Day 11 a.m.; 1501 Post & Meeting House Rd., near Ambler. (215) 653-0788. Office St. Andrew McPhaul, Clerk, (409) 744-4214. VIRGINIA BEACH-Meeting for worship 11 a.m. (based on VALLEY-1121 Old Eagle School Rd., Wayne. Worship silence). 1537laskin Rd., Virginia Beach, VA 23451. HILL COUNTRY-Unprogrammed meeting 11 a.m., (757) 461-5711 . and First-day school tO a.m., forum 11 :10 a.m. Close to discussion 10 a.m. Un~anan Fellowship Bldg., 213 Lorna Valley Forge, King of Prussia, Audubon, and Devon. (610) Vista, Kerrville, Tex. Catherine Matlock (830) 257-5673. WILLIAMSBURG-Unprogrammed meeting for worship 688-3564. 10 a.m. Sundays, childcare and First-day school, 104 w. HOUSTON-live Oak Meeting. Unprogrammed worship Kingswood Dr., (757) 253-7752. WELLSVILLE-Warrington Monthly Meeting, worship 11 8:30 and 10 a.m. Sunday and 7 p .m. Wednesday. First a.m. Ate. 74 east. Call (717) 432-4203. day school 11 :15 a.m. Childcare provided. 1318 W. 26th WINCHESTER-Hopewell Centre Meeting. 7 miles N from WEST CHESTER-First-day school10:30 a.m., worship St. (713) 862·6885. Winchester. Interstate 81 to Clearbrook Exit. Go west on 10:30. 425 N. High St. Caroline Helmuth, (61 0) 696-0491. Hopewell Rd. 0.7 miles. Tum left into Hopewell Centre LUBBOCK-Unprogrammed worship, Sunday morning at Driveway. Unprogrammed meeting for worship 10 a.m. WEST GROVE-Meeting for worship 10 a.m. 10:45. Lutheran Student Center, 2615 19th St. Please use First-day school11 a.m. Clerk: (540) 667-9114. E-mail: 153 E. Harmony Road, P.O. Box 7, 19390. back door. (806) 799·3307 or 791 ·4890.