Page 8 Colby Free Press Friday, July 7, 2006 Girlfriend’s past indiscretion TV LISTINGS gnaws at man in here and now sponsored by the DEAR ABBY: I am a 20-some- thing male who is madly in love with my girlfriend. That being said, COLBY FREE PRESS I do have one concern. She dated a Abigail Van Buren friend of mine for a short while prior to dating me. Their relationship was Dear Abby physically intimate, something I • have reserved for only our relation- SUNDAY JULY 9 ship. In short, I am having trouble fac- 6 AM 6:30 7 AM 7:30 8 AM 8:30 9 AM 9:30 10 AM 10:30 11 AM 11:30 ing my friend. — OFFENDED IN no matter what the situation is. He KLBY/ABC In Touch (CC) Good Morning This Week-George Hour of Power (CC) The Coral Ridge First United Can you advise me how to get CARTERVILLE, GA. never takes my part in any circum- H h America (CC) Stephanopoulos Hour (CC) Methodist Church KSNK/NBC Today (CC) Meet the Press Tennis: Wimbledon -- Men’s Final. From Wimbledon, England. (Live) (CC) over my discomfort at the physical DEAR OFFENDED: Some stance. He took the neighbors’ part L j (CC) nature of their relationship? She can, when they see their grand- after an argument that led to me call- KBSL/CBS Paid Messiah Lazy- Go CBS News Sunday Morning Face the Backyar- Dora the Paid Champ was never promiscuous. Her one child is happy in a stable mar- ing the police. He told the neighbors 1< NX Program Baptist Town Diego (CC) Nation digans Explorer Program Car K15CG Euro. Wealth- Jakers!- Big Big Ribert & Cyber- Arthur Maya & Fetch! Busi- Health To the “indiscretion” happens to be my riage; others are too firmly en- that I was wrong to do it. He has d Journal Track Winks World Robert’s chase (EI) Miguel With ness Sense Contrary good friend. trenched in their biases to change made me look like a fool to the ESPN SportsCenter (CC) SportsCenter (CC) Sports- Outside Sports SportsCenter (Live) (CC) Baseball — TRYING TO GET OVER IT their thinking. Remember, you whole neighborhood. O_ Center Lines Reportrs Tonight and she are from different gen- USA Paid Paid Paid Paid The Dead Zone The 4400 Gone PGA Tour Sunday Monk Mr. Monk and DEAR TRYING: You can over- He is always telling me what to P^ Program Program Program Program Panic (CC) (Part 2 of 2) (CC) (Live) (CC) the Actor (CC) come your discomfort by recog- erations, and although mixed do. I never get my way — it is al- TBS Movie: Fast Times at Ridgemont High Movie: Encino Man TT (1992, Comedy) Movie: In the Army Now TT (1994, nizing that today many people marriages are not uncommon ways his way or no way. I am think- P_ TTZ (1982, Comedy) Sean Penn. (CC) Sean Astin, Pauly Shore. (CC) Comedy) Pauly Shore, Andy Dick. (CC) these days, they were when your ing about leaving him, but I have WGN Chang- Paid Key of Paid Feed the Paid Paid Paid Hillbil- Hillbil- America’s Funniest come with a sexual past, and by Pa ing Program David Program Children Program Program Program lies lies Home Videos (CC) grandmother was growing up. nowhere to go. I have no job and no not allowing yourself to dwell on TNT (5:00) Movie: The 6th Day Movie: Salem’s Lot (2004, Horror) A writer encounters vampires in his Maine Movie: it. (If you do, it’ll be like pumping In your case, I wouldn’t count place to stay. We have a child to- QW TTZ (2000, Science Fiction) hometown. Rob Lowe, Andre Braugher. (CC) air into a balloon until it ex- on teaching Granny any new gether, so I have to provide for him, DSC Paid Paid Paid Paid Weather Extreme: Hurricane X (CC) Galveston Extreme tricks, because her mind appears too. Do you think I have grounds to QY Program Program Program Program Tornado (CC) Hurricane Engineering plodes.) A&E Murder, She Wrote Breakfast With the Arts (CC) Growing Growing Inked Inked Biography Johnny Your problem isn’t unusual. to be locked tighter than leave, or should I try to work things Q^ Killer Radio (CC) Up Gotti Up Gotti (CC) (CC) Depp (CC) Most people like to fantasize that Guantanamo Bay. But hold a out? — BEATEN DOWN IN CO- HIST Napoleon: Rule History’s Histo- Band of Brothers To Be Announced Movie: The Road Warrior TTTZ (1981, Q_ Europe Bus ryCTR (CC) Science Fiction) Mel Gibson. (CC) the partner they have chosen has good thought. LUMBUS, OHIO NICK Grown OddPar- Jimmy Jimmy Spon- Spon- OddPar- OddPar- The X’s Danny Danny Cats- no sexual history. If you’re wor- DEAR ABBY: I work in a small DEAR BEATEN DOWN: Rl Up ents Neutron Neutron geBob geBob ents ents (CC) Phantom Phantom cratch ried about “comparisons” — look office with four “girls.” A fifth girl, Make a list of your husband’s DISN JoJo’s Higgly- Ein- Ein- Mickey Mickey Doodle- Doodle- Charlie The Lilo & Emperor at it this way: YOU’VE got the whom I’ll call “Shirley,” takes her bank account numbers, Social R] Circus town steins steins Mouse Mouse bops bops & Lola Koala Stitch New FAM Digimon- Dragon NASCAR A.T.O.M. Get Ed Kong- Power Star- Power W.I.T.C.- Full Full girl. break with us. Over the past year, Security number, driver’s license R_ Digital Booster Racers (CC) Trashed Series Rangers Racers Rangers H. (CC) House House DEAR ABBY: I was shocked and we have all become friendly. number and his assets. Get a job HALL Naomi’s New Movie: Captains Courageous TTZ Naomi’s New Mass From Notre Columbo The Most SW Morning (N) (CC) (1996, Adventure) Robert Urich. Morning (CC) Dame Crucial Game hurt recently when my grandmother Shirley has a daughter I’ll call and start banking your wages in wrote me a letter about the level of “Toni.” Toni is pregnant, and your name only. Then offer your “disrespect” I supposedly “heaped Shirley is throwing her a shower. husband the option of marriage on her” during a recent visit. I am We are all invited, even though I am counseling. 37 years old, and while visiting her the only one who has met Toni, and If he refuses, point out that it SUNDAY JULY 9 after the funeral of a relative, I only once, briefly. Shirley ap- would be cheaper for him than proached us to ask if any of us are alimony. showed her some photographs of 12 PM 12:30 1 PM 1:30 2 PM 2:30 3 PM 3:30 4 PM 4:30 5 PM 5:30 me and my fiance. attending the shower, and when we If he still refuses, please con- KLBY/ABC Paid World Cup Soccer: Final -- Teams TBA. Berlin. (Live) PGA Golf: Cialis Western Open -- Final ABC Wld News My fiance is a tall, handsome, declined the invitation, she pro- sider some sessions with a coun- H h Program Round. From Lemont, Ill. (Live) News (CC) African-American man I met and ceeded to ask if we would all chip selor to figure out why you have KSNK/NBC (8:00) Tennis: Wimbledon -- Men’s Final. Golf: U.S. Senior Open -- Final Round. From Hutchinson, Kan. News NBC fell in love with two years ago. The in $10 for a gift from us. tolerated living with someone like L j From Wimbledon, England. (Live) (CC) (Live) (CC) News Does this take nerve or what? KBSL/CBS (11:30) Champ Car World Series Racing: Golf: HSBC Women’s World Match Play Cycling: Tour de CBS News “disrespect” she was alluding to in him for so long. 1< NX Molson Grand Prix of Toronto. (Live) (CC) Championship -- Final Round. (Live) (CC) France. (CC) News (CC) the letter was “because her grand- Any suggestions? And by the way, your husband K15CG On the McLaug- McLaug- Religion- Classic Gospel Healthy Doctors Sewing- Beads, Ances- Boom- daughter was involved with a black — MORTIFIED IN is required by law to support his d Record hlin hlin Ethics (CC) Body on Call Nancy Baubles tors (CC) ers!-Life LANSFORD, PA. child. An attorney can advise you ESPN World 2006 Hot Dog Billiards Billiards: 9-Ball Billiards: 9-Ball Best of the ESPY’s SportsCenter (Live) man.” O_ Cup Live Eating Contest Semifinals Finals Ashe Award (CC) DEAR MORTIFIED: It takes about whether you have Abby, I was raised to accept USA Movie: Loser TT (2000) A nerdy college Movie: Head Over Heels TZ (2001, Movie: Along Came Polly TT (2004, people for who they are, lovingly either “nerve” or total ignorance “grounds” to end the marriage. P^ student pines for a pretty classmate. (CC) Comedy) Monica Potter. (CC) Romance-Comedy) Ben Stiller. (CC) and with respect, regardless of color of the social graces. Unless you Editor’s note: Dear Abby is writ- TBS MLB Baseball: Cincinnati Reds at Atlanta Braves. Turner Field. Movie: Son-in-Law (1993) A coed brings Movie: Road Trip want to chip in for a group gift, I ten by Abigail Van Buren, also P_ (Live) (CC) her surf-minded pal home to the farm. (CC) TT (2000) (CC) or ethnicity. I do not want to be dis- WGN America’s Funniest MLB Baseball: Chicago Cubs at Milwaukee Brewers. Miller Park. HomeTeam Dallas America’s Funniest respectful of my grandmother or suggest you also decline that “in- known as Jeanne Phillips, and was Pa Home Videos (CC) (Live) (CC) (CC) Home Videos (CC) hurt her, but my fiance and I were vitation.” founded by her mother, Pauline TNT (11:30) Movie: Dreamcatcher TZ (2003, NASCAR NASCAR Racing: Nextel Cup -- USG Sheetrock 400. From Joliet, Ill. (Live) QW Horror) Morgan Freeman. (CC) Pre-Race (CC) married on April 15 and we are very DEAR ABBY: My husband Phillips. Write Dear Abby at DSC MythBusters Bullet MythBusters Quest for Captain Real Pirate: Capt. Walking With Walking With happy. My question is, can old doesn’t support anything I do any- www.DearAbby.com or P.O. Box QY Proof Water (CC) Exploding Toilet Kidd (CC) Henry Morgan Cavemen (CC) Cavemen (CC) grandmothers be taught new tricks? more. He thinks I am always wrong, 69440, Los Angeles, Calif. 90069. A&E (11:00) Biography Sell This Sell This Sell This Sell This Sell This Sell This Sell This Big Sell This Sell This Q^ Johnny Depp (CC) House! House! House! House! House! House! House! Spender House! House! HIST The Doomsday Decoding the Past Decoding the Past Decoding the Past Decoding the Past Decoding the Past Q_ Clock (CC) Predicting events. (CC) Burial cloth. (CC) Bible Mysteries (CC) (CC) NICK Nick- Nick- Nick- Nick- Nick- Nick- Movie: What a Girl Wants TZ (2003, Drake & Ned’s Turning nothing into something Rl toons TV toons TV toons TV toons TV toons TV toons TV Comedy) Amanda Bynes, Colin Firth. Josh School DISN Movie: Right on Track (2003) The Enders Zack & That’s- Lizzie Phil of Even Natural- Life With Zack & R] sisters enter the world of drag racing. (CC) Cody Raven McGuire Future Stevens Sadie Derek Cody TOPEKA (AP) — One man’s Smith, also of Topeka, was tearing more than 3,500 groups with more FAM Full Full Movie: Girls Just Want to Have Fun TT Movie: Uptown Girls (2003) A carefree Movie: While You trash really can be another’s trea- down a building and had a refrigera- than 2 million members. R_ House House (1985, Comedy) Sarah Jessica Parker. woman becomes a nanny to an uptight girl. Were Sleeping TTT HALL (11:00) Columbo Requiem for a Falling Movie: Matlock: The Billionaire TTZ Movie: Mystery Woman: Wild West sure. tor she didn’t need. “I have seen everything from old SW Columbo Star (1987, Mystery) Andy Griffith. (CC) Mystery (2006, Mystery) Kellie Martin. A Topeka group is proving it “I couldn’t take it to the dump, so doors and tires to fax machines through Freecycle, an online trad- I thought I’d try to give it to some- posted on the site,” Crouse said. ing club whose local membership is one who could use it,” Smith said. “Some people have even given growing fast. Smith posted the refrigerator on away cars.” “Our goal is to keep things out of Freecycle and Crouse claimed it. Smith said she has given away SUNDAY JULY 9 landfills that are still good and use- “Yeah, it was old, but it was one many items, such as satellite dishes, ful, plus, to help people out,” said of the kinds that will never die. It stoves and a love seat. “It helps us 6 PM 6:30 7 PM 7:30 8 PM 8:30 9 PM 9:30 10 PM 10:30 11 PM 11:30 Larry Crouse, who leads the local was built to last,” Crouse said. because we do not have to haul it off KLBY/ABC America’s Funniest Extreme Makeover: Desperate Grey’s Anatomy News KAKE Lawyer Sports group. “I have things I don’t use Crouse then bought a new printer. or pay to have it dumped,” she said H h Home Videos (CC) Home Edition (CC) Housewives (CC) (CC) (CC) Sports on Line Machine KSNK/NBC Dateline NBC (CC) Law & Order: Crossing Jordan News 24 Day 2: Midnight - Ebert & anymore but are still good and still He posted about his older printer, The Topeka group had 95 people L j Criminal Intent Code of Ethics (CC) 1:00AM (CC) Roeper useful. It’s also a good way to free and it was claimed by a woman who join in its first month after starting KBSL/CBS 60 Minutes (CC) Cold Case Honor Movie: Saving Milly (2005) Journalist News News Alias Second my inner pack rat.” recently had been given a computer May 15. It is averaging four new 1< NX (CC) Morton Kondracke cares for his ailing wife. (CC) Double (CC) K15CG Bill Moyers on Nature Sharks and Mystery! (N) (Part 1 Catherine the Great Globe Trekker Mystery! (Part 2 of Freecycle (www.freecycle.org) and needed a printer for her chil- members per day. d Faith & Reason (N) Rays: Killer Cousins of 2) (CC) (DVS) (Part 1 of 2) (CC) Tokyo City Guide 2) (CC) (DVS) is part of an online revolution that dren. The network is volunteer, Crouse ESPN Baseball Tonight MLB Baseball: St. Louis Cardinals at Houston Astros. Minute SportsCenter (Live) (CC) World emphasizes the idea of giving freely “It made me feel good that I could said, and the national organization O_ (Live) Maid Park. (Live) (CC) Cup Live USA Movie: 50 First Dates TT (2004, The 4400 Isabelle The Dead Zone Law & Order: SVU The 4400 Isabelle to others. It has caught on around give it to someone who could use is making a logo for Topeka’s Web P^ Romance-Comedy) Adam Sandler. (CC) seeks retribution. (N) Article of Faith (CC) seeks retribution. the world with millions of people it,” Crouse said. site. TBS (5:00) Movie: Road Movie: American Pie Presents: Band Movie: American Pie Presents: Band Movie: American coming together to offer things on Freecycle is a network of groups “One person’s trash is another P_ Trip TT (2000) (CC) Camp (2005, Comedy) Tad Hilgenbrinck. Camp (2005, Comedy) Tad Hilgenbrinck. Pie: Band Camp person’s treasure,” Crouse said. WGN Maximum 24 Day 4: 3:00PM- 24 Jack attempts to WGN Instant Sex and Becker Maximum the Internet — for free. that allows people to post items they Pa Exposure Pain Fest 4:00PM (CC) capture Navi. (CC) News Replay the City (CC) Exposure Pain Fest Here’s how it works. would like to give away or obtain. “This gives you an outlet to get rid TNT Movie: Gladiator TTT (2000, Historical Drama) A fugitive Movie: Gladiator TTT (2000, Historical Drama) A fugitive When Crouse moved to Topeka, The network started in May 2003 of things. It’s all about giving — QW general becomes a gladiator in ancient Rome. Russell Crowe. general becomes a gladiator in ancient Rome. Russell Crowe. he needed a refrigerator. Sandy in Tucson, Ariz. It has grown to anything you post is a gift.” DSC Tomb Builders: Egypt’s New Tomb Opening the Coffin: Sphinx Unmasked Building the Great Egypt’s New Tomb QY Valley of the Kings Revealed Egypt’s New Tomb (CC) Pyramid (CC) Revealed A&E Sell This Sell This Flip This House Meth in the City Intervention John CSI: Miami One Flip This House Q^ House! House! (CC) Use of meth. 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Beetle southern Illinois that traps had to be bugs begin eating, Nixon said. 6 PM 6:30 7 PM 7:30 8 PM 8:30 9 PM 9:30 10 PM 10:30 11 PM 11:30 activity reaches its peak by mid- modified so they didn’t have to be “Most of the damage is aesthetic,” KLBY/ABC News Enter- Wife Swap Supernanny Amaral How to Get the Guy News Nightline Jimmy Kimmel Live July, experts said. dumped more than twice a day, said he said. H h (CC) tainment Mayfield/Wasdin Family (CC) (N) (CC) (CC) (CC) Ed Burns; Flyleaf. KSNK/NBC News Wheel of Treasure Hunters Treasure Hunters Medium Too Close News The Tonight Show Late “They go after everything,” said Ron Hines, a crop scientist at the That’s little consolation to L j Fortune (CC) (N) (CC) to Call (CC) With Jay Leno (CC) Night Pontious, who operates a farm university’s Dixon Springs Agri- Pontious or to James Orr, who owns KBSL/CBS News Inside King of How I Two/Half How I CSI: Miami From News Late Show With Late about 15 miles southwest of cultural Center. 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