Time: 03-04-2012 20:26 User: cdye PubDate: 03-05-2012 Zone: KY Edition: 1 Page Name: D5 Color: CyanMagentaYellowBlack KY FEATURES | courier-journal.com/features THE COURIER-JOURNAL | MONDAY,MARCH 5, 2012 | D5 Familyfeud irks engaged couple DAILYCROSSWORD Across 50 Legislative 13 Crossed (out) 42 Oral health org. 1Long-necked period 18 U.S. motto word 47 With intense Dear Annie: My fiance and I Dear Annie: My lovely wife waders 52 Mex. ladies 23 Animals, feeling were best friends growing up, has told me Iamnot to comment 7Sgt. Friday’s 56 Samples abit of casually 48 Motel amenity and our families were close, as ANNIE’S to my stepdaughter about the employer 59 Univ.military org. 25 Most 49 “O Canada,” well. When we were 16, his par- MAILBOX raising of their children. So I 11 Blow away 61 Dada co-founder well-informed e.g. ents suddenly pulled “Paul” out Kathy Mitchell quietly sit back and say nothing. 14 __ pork: Chinese Jean 27 Dana’s“forbidden 51 Discount rack of school and told me never to Last night, the extended fam- dish with 62 Actress Gardner fragrance” abbr. Marcy Sugar pancakes call their house again. My moth- ily dined at alocal restaurant. I 63 Memorable 29 Grant wartime 53 Former Israeli er said Paul was no longer wel- sat across from the two young- 15 Fairy tale villain surprise attack foe leader Yitzhak come in our home and Iwas not est granddaughters, ages 6and 16 Betty Crocker site 31 Nickel or dime 54 “The San product 66 Deafening noise 32 “Famous” cookie Francisco Treat” to mention his family again. I 9. Both were playing games on suffix civil ceremony and then have a 17 Click-and-drag 67 Sprinter’spath guy never knew what happened. their iPhones the entire time. I tool 55 Shopper’s night out with friends. His sister 68 “Seinfeld” woman 33 Hawaiian goose Five years later,Paul and I attempted to converse with the 19 Impersonal indulgence found out and blew agasket, 69 Fruit drink ending 34 Descriptive wds. reconnected at college and older girl, but each time got a pronoun 56 “I did it!” saying I’ve done enough to “ruin” 70 Egg foo __ 35 Golfclub part began dating. Neither set of par- quick one-word reply. 20 Barnyard brayer 57 Raring to go their family and why can’tI 71 Name associated 36 “Je t’__”: French ents was happy about it. We’ve Is it too much to ask the 21 HalfanOrkan 58 Of sound leave them alone. with the start of “I love you” been together for seven years younger generation to learn mind We’d love to have awedding goodbye 17-, 39- or 63- and recently bought ahouse and some manners? Since Iamfor- 37 Shelley work where people behaved them- 22 Enjoyed, as a Across 60 Colombian city started aveterinary practice bidden to speak, please print lollipop 40 Philosopher selves, but that’snot in the cards. Jean- Jacques 64 __ Arbor, together.When we became this. 24 Filming locations Michigan Is it wrong to insist they tell us Down 41 “House” actor engaged, everyone in both fami- —California 65 Took flight what the feud is about, or should 26 More out of 1Actresses Watson Omar lies was nasty to us, including Dear California:Are the practice we get over it? We’re so tired of and Thompson SATURDAY’S SOLUTION our siblings. children rude? Yes, and their 28 Reunion attendee, this nonsense. 2Fairy tale Mother We’ve tried on multiple occa- parents ought to tell them to briefly —Not Romeo and Juliet 3Shake awake sions to get the families together, put their phones away at din- 30 Libyan or Dear Juliet:Wethink it’stime 4Superman’s but it’salways been adisaster. ner.However,itsounds as if Liberian, e.g. to get to the bottom of this. Since monogram Nobody will tell us why our fam- your wife believes such criti- 34 Tequila plant it is affecting your future with 5Afterwards ilies don’tget along. When we cism might interfere with the 37 Kimono sash Paul, you have aright to under- 6Forester ask, we get indignant and child- relationship. So please say 38 Hefty volume stand what is going on. You automaker ish answers like, “They know nothing. 39 Learner’spermit might also point out that when 7Legs-intertwined what they did” or “What differ- prerequisite, you and Paul marry,the families meditative ence does it make?” Kathy Mitchell and Marcy Sugar are long- often position will need to put past hurts aside time editors of the Ann Landers column. We are planning awedding, 43 Guitarist Hendrix 8Player’srep. and be civil, or it will be difficult Email questions to but at this point, we’re not invit- 44 Reveal, in verse 9Very productive to include them in your life. We [email protected], or write to: ing the relatives. We’re both fed Annie’sMailbox, P.O. Box 118190, 45 Thick, like fog 10 Naysayer hope they can clear the air and up and decided to hold asmall Chicago, IL 60611. 46 Step on the gas 11 Helter-skelter get past this. © Creators Syndicate 48 Jack of late-night 12 Rosé or Cabernet BRIDGE | Frank Stewart JUMBLE TV Come to Memphis! 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