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FEBRUARY 19, 2018 | ADAR 4, 5778 ESTABLISHED 1937 OTTAWAJEWISHBULLETIN.COM | $2 Hands-on Judaism brings ‘smiles, comfort’ Mitzvah Day unites all ages in effort to help Jewish Ottawa and whole city, Louise Rachlis reports. eople need some hope,” said Chris Johnson, a representa- tive from StreetSmarts, as he encouraged young Mitzvah ‘PDay volunteers to put a note in their Bracha Bag care packages. StreetSmarts is a Jewish Family PETER WAISER Mitzvah Day supports not just Jewish Ottawa, but the whole city. In recognition of the day’s significance, many special guests came out in Services’ outreach program that offers support. From left: Jewish Federation of Ottawa Campaign co-chair Aviva Ben-Choreen, vice-chair of the Federation Board, Michael Polowin, resources, referrals and basic supplies to Andrea Freedman, Federation president and CEO, Kitchissippi Ward Councillor Jeff Leiper, Yasir Naqvi, Attorney General of Ontario, and his son, Ottawa’s downtown homeless population. Rafi, Josh Engel of GGFL Chartered Professional Accountants ( the event’s lead sponsor), and Mayor Jim Watson. Along with socks, gloves, snacks and toothbrushes, the participants were asked to “put on the cards what you Mitzvah 2018 feel from the heart, and we’ll put your notes in” the Bracha Bags (bracha is the by the numbers Hebrew word for “blessing”). volunteers packed The snowy Sunday February 4 morn- 425 the SJCC ing, which began with a delicous break- fast provided by Creative Kosher Cater- people donated hair ing, brought out over 425 generous hearts 9 for wigs of all ages to the Soloway JCC. Another 100 were at three off-site locations: Shep- 74 inches of hair herd’s of Good Hope, Torah High and collected for wigs OTC’s Chabad Hebrew School. The partic- birthday kits made ipants ranged in age from the youngest, for kids in shelters three-year-old Galit Petel, getting his first 120 haircut for Hair Donation Ottawa (he was Care packages one of nine donating their hair to create assembled wigs for children suffering from medical 122 for the homeless hair loss), to retiree Flo Morgan, an annu- PETER WAISER al Mitzvah Day volunteer, who this year Hillel Lodge residents join Mitzvah Day participants in creating Purim masks. The event brings sandwiches prepared was helping make Havdallah candles. much joy to young and old as more than 425 volunteers turned the Soloway JCC and the Lodge 451 for area shelters See Mitzvah Day on page 2 into a hive of happy activity.

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Continued from page 1 ton Delgreco and Christopher Lord, who “We’re trying to appeal to all age shared a special post on social media groups, having activities for younger thanking the hair donors: “We appreci- children, older children and grownups,” ate you helping us change lives!” said Naomi Hirshberg Mitchell, who After the opening ceremonies, the co-chaired Mitzvah Day 2018 with her crowds of volunteers took over the SJCC husband, Jonathan Mitchell. with groups manning various Mitzvah Indeed, Mitzvah Day has a broad stations throughout the building. appeal. It attracts all ages, and also In one bustling classroom, piles of PETER WAISER reaches out to the wider community in cake mixes, candles, cards, and crowns Mitzvah Day chairs Jonathan Mitchell and Naomi Hirshberg Mitchell volunteered to take a lead its attempt to help not just Jewish Otta- were being bagged to create birthday with the event to help teach their children about tikkun olam, repairing the world. wa, but the whole city. celebration kits to be distributed to chil- In recognition of the day’s signifi- dren living in shelters. cance, Andrea Freedman, president and “When a child celebrates a birthday CEO of the Jewish Federation of Ottawa, in the shelter, a mom can make a cake welcomed many special participants. for their child,” said Nathalie Conners, Among the guests helping out with the a case manager with Chrysalis House, a first mitzvah – taking the ceremonial first-stage emergency shelter for women ponytail snip for the hair donation cer- and their dependents who are in violent emony – was Mayor and abusive situa- Jim Watson; Ottawa “You have brought smiles tions. “It’s pretty spe- West MP Anita Van- and comfort to many cial,” she said. One denbeld; Rebecca hundred and twenty Hubble from MPP in need.” birthday kits will be Lisa McLeod’s office; Mitzvah Day 2018 co-chair distributed to shelters Kitchissippi Ward Naomi Hirshberg Mitchell throughout the city. Councillor Jeff Leiper; In another Mitzvah Shlomit Sufa, Deputy Head of Mission, room, therapy kits were being assembled Embassy of Israel in Canada; and Yasir for Crossroads Children’s Centre. The PETER WAISER Naqvi, Attorney General of Ontario, and kits had pictograms to make it easier for Left: Ottawa West MP Anita Vandenbeld shows off the freshly snipped ponytail of Dara Lithwick his son, Rafi. The political guests were children to express a range of feelings, while her kids sit on her lap. Right: Mayor Jim Watson helps cut hair of a young donor for the hair donation ceremony. joined by Federation Campaign co-chair such as blue for bored, sick, tired or sad, They were among nine people who donated hair resulting in Hair Donations Ottawa Aviva Ben-Choreen, and vice-chair of to red for mad, mean, terrified and out collecting 74 inches to help create wigs for those suffering medically induced hair loss. the Federation Board, Michael Polowin, of control. as well as Josh Engel of GGFL Chartered At the challah mizvah room, loaves Professional Accountants, which was were being braided to either be donated sponsoring Mitzvah Day for the ninth to the Kosher Food Bank or participants students prepared meals to be distrib- involved, and a family day together, to consecutive year. were giving $5 to take their loaf home uted by Ten Yad of Ottawa, a grassroots, explain to the children why we’re doing A drum roll announced the big with the proceeds going the food bank. Ottawa-based volunteer organization this.” Indeed, he and Naomi, took on moment when the volunteers snipped The dough for the challahs was donated dedicated to undertaking acts of chesed. the task of Mitzvah Day chairs for this off the locks of hair donors Penelope by Rideau Bakery, which also donated all If all this wasn’t enough, ahead of very reason as they felt it was a wonder- Bornstein, 8; Galit Petel, 3; Noa Petel, the bread for the sandwich-making mitz- the big day, items were collected in the ful opportunity to model volunteering 5; Gila Shapiro, 4; Shayna Shapiro, 4; vah, where about 450 sandwiches were Soloway JCC lobby, including sporting and Jewish community involvement, as Miriam Tatham, 9, and adults Amanda made for the Ottawa Mission and the equipment for the Multi-Faith Housing well as the importance of tikkun olam, Klein, Dara Lithwick and Mitzvah Day Shepherd’s of Good Hope. Initiative, which helps people achieve “repairing the world.” Committee member Yael Pfeiffer. Across the parking lot, at Hillel greater stability and financial security Naomi summed up the day during the Hair Donations Ottawa, a charity that Lodge, preschoolers were doing Purim through safe, affordable and secure closing ceremony as she thanked all those raises funds to fight cancer, collected mask crafts with residents, and there rental housing. Games, books and toys involved, telling them: “You have brought 74 inches of hair to help create wigs for was a sing-a-long led by “Zaidy Joel” were collected for the Youville Centre, smiles and comfort to many in need.” people suffering medically induced hair and “Bubby Toby” (Joel and Toby which serves adolescent mothers and To help maintain the spirit of Mitz- loss. Yan) where families laughed, danced their children. Old electronic gadgets vah Day, she encouraged everyone to Helping fine tune the haircuts after and sang as delighted Lodge residents and used batteries were collected for keep up the volunteer momentum by the ceremony were volunteer profes- clapped along. electronic waste recycling. registering at the Volunteer Centre: sional stylists Eli Saikaly, Eli Cohen, Ken- Off-site at Torah High, high-school At the end of the morning, co-chair jewishottawa.com/volunteering. 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BY NICOLA HAMER FOR OTTAWA JEWISH COMMUNITY SCHOOL he new head of the Ottawa Jewish Community School (OJCS), Jon Mitzmacher, arrived this fall with many ideas to transform the Tschool into a centre for 21st century educational innovation. Some initiatives required extra money, so he shelved them while he got to know his new school. Then a $50,000 grant fell into his lap. Suddenly, the road to innovation got much smoother. Several months ago, Andrea Freedman, CEO of the Jewish Federation of Ottawa, told Mitzmacher an anonymous couple wanted to donate to Jewish life in Ottawa. “Jewish communal life,” says Freed- man, “means balancing social services with instilling values in the next generation. The donors wanted to invest in the commu- nity’s long-term strength.” They agreed to fund three of Mitzmacher’s proposals. Mitzmacher credits the donors for understanding that funding education does not always mean buying the latest technology. He believes the key to success is the “innovation cycle,” and that this capacity can be built into any organization.

“We can create the ability to be always JON MITZMACHER asking, ‘What new things make sense for Kynan Robinson of NoTosh works with Ottawa Jewish Community School teachers to develop the capacity for innovation. us?’ and ‘How can this work for us?’ ” Mitzmacher, whose previous accom- plishments include turning a small Jew- Finally, because 21st century tech- ish day school in Jacksonville, Florida, nological innovation also does require into an international leader in educa- technology, the third proposal doubled tion, says creating this capacity takes the number of iPads for classroom use. time and effort, rare commodities in a “Jewish day schools are uniquely busy school. qualified to lead the 21st-century learn- Mitzmacher was committed to tak- ing revolution by their very nature,” ing it slow before receiving this grant. says Mitzmacher. “They have commu- Now he has moved the process into nity connections, global connectedness, the fast lane by hiring two consultants languages, and the critical thinking built with whom he has worked previously: into Jewish text study. NoTosh and Silvia Rosenthal Tolisano. “OJCS has the potential to be a leader NoTosh consultants began visiting last in the learning revolution and, thanks month and will work with the school to this grant, we can take several giant until June to develop the capacity for a steps closer to realizing that potential.” successful innovation cycle. Having gone through the process before, Mitzmacher Federation report: OJCS President explains it is always different, “because Michael Polowin on the school’s every school is unique.” Further, “the promising future, page 6. goal isn’t a ‘thing’ we can point to and say, ‘There. We did it.’ It’s about creating Mailbag: Why you should send your a process to ensure continued innova- child to OJCS, a parent’s perspective, tion and long-term success.” page 8. As for the second initiative, says Mitzmacher, “there is growing evidence that reflective learners achieve greater Allan Taylor success than non-reflective learners. ■ GROUP PLANS “Essentially, this means that students ■ LIFE INSURANCE who have the opportunity to look back ■ DISABILITY INSURANCE at their learning, to assess their success- ■ PENSION and RRIFs es and failures, do better. I have experi- 613-244-9073 enced great success with giving students [email protected] the ability to ‘own’ their learning. But it’s a seismic shift in teaching, so once again you can’t just impose it. It takes www.taylorfinancial.ca work with all stakeholders.” February 19, 2018 4 OTTAWAJEWISHBULLETIN.COM

JEWISH DISABILITY AWARENESS & INCLUSION MONTH Let’s make Canada more accessible Federation joins delegation meeting with Parliamentarians to improve policies

BY ALLYSON GRANT delivery, these agency volunteers and professionals FOR THE JEWISH FEDERATION OF OTTAWA have an abundance of practical knowledge to share ewish values, such as chesed (loving-kindness) and about how public policy affects lives. tikkun olam (repairing the world), motivate all that That is why last week, Mark Palmer, Executive I do as Advocacy Advisor to the Jewish Federation Director of Tamir, and I joined a delegation, organized Jof Ottawa. One of the most rewarding aspects of my by the Centre for Israel and Jewish Affairs (CIJA) in job is advocating on behalf of local agencies like Tamir, partnership with Jewish Federations of Canada-UIA, which provides support for people with developmental and Jewish social services agencies from across the disabilities in a Jewish environment, precisely because country for meetings on Parliament Hill. The timing their work embodies our community’s commitment to was fitting since February has been designated Jewish these values. Disability Awareness and Inclusion Month. Within Canada’s wider Jewish community, there are In our meetings with federal Parliamentarians, we countless other non-profit agencies like Tamir work- proposed four concrete, constructive ideas that the ing to support Jewish and non-Jewish Canadians with government can implement to make Canada more disabilities. As experts at the forefront of social service inclusive and accessible for all. First, governments at all levels must dedicate fund- ing for Canadians with disabilities, especially those Show Israel You Care! living with developmental disabilities. Consider this: nine of 10 Canadians with developmental disabilities Volunteer as a civilian worker live below the poverty line, and as many as three of 10 for two or three weeks homeless Canadians have a developmental disability. on an Israeli army supply base Dedicated funding is essential to address this deeply troubling problem. While I’m encouraged that the recently announced national housing strategy includes 2,400 units for Cana- dians with developmental disabilities, all three levels of government should designate a set allocation of afford- able housing funds for people with disabilities. And as we stressed on Parliament Hill, governments should ensure that 5 per cent of all affordable housing funds are specifi-

cally directed to those with developmental disabilities. HOWARD SANDLER Second, there is a critical barrier in Canada’s immi- Meredith Caplan and City Counsellor Mathieu Fleury take a gration laws for persons with disabilities. Fortunately, turn on the catwalk as part of Tamir’s Stepping Out in Style, Citizenship and Immigration Minister Ahmed Hussen Ottawa’s first inclusive fashion show, held last fall. Tamir, one has pledged to revise the provision of the Immigration of Federation’s beneficiary agencies, provides support for people with developmental disabilities. Act that bars newcomers with disabilities from immi- grating to Canada because they pose an “excessive demand” on public services. This is clearly wrong, and eral jurisdiction. We understand the government will I urge members of the government to stay true to Min- introduce such legislation in 2018. This provides an ister Hussen’s commitment. opportunity for MPs of all stripes to collaborate in the Third, tax and other benefits offered to Canadians with creation of a more inclusive, accessible society. Free: accommodations, kosher meals, trips, events. disabilities are adversely affected if they earn any income. At their core, these four ideas are about compassion, a Cost: air fare, $100 registration, weekend expenses. Employment is a positive outcome, and persons with dis- value cherished by both the Jewish and broader Canadian [email protected] abilities should not be penalized for working. I encourage community. In an age when political discourse has become 514-735-0272 or [email protected] MPs to address this often-overlooked problem. less civil, emphasizing policies that advance our collective And fourth, I call for a comprehensive national values is an important contribution to tikkun olam. www.sarelcanada.org inclusion and accessibility law. As in other countries, Programs start approximately every 3 weeks. this type of legislation ensures high standards of Allyson Grant is the Advocacy Adviser for the Jewish inclusion are applied consistently in any area of fed- Federation of Ottawa

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JEWISH DISABILITY AWARENESS & INCLUSION MONTH People with disabilities must be brought ‘in from margins of Jewish community’ Blind visionary scholar confronts inclusivity challenges

BY OTTAWA JEWISH BULLETIN STAFF reading a prayer book in braille – are t is an intellectual and spiritual essential. But Tuchman underlines that challenge for any person to study for rabbinical clergy must also deal with the rabbinate. How much greater difficult texts and teachings. Her goal is this challenge will be for a woman to have Jews with disabilities adding to See the DIFFERENCE Iwho is fully blind, and must overcome all our understanding of spirituality and the added barriers, both religious community. physical and social? At the KBI Shabbat your contribution makes! As a rabbinical student dinner, Tuchman shared at the Conservative move- a set of texts from tradi- ment’s Jewish Theological tional sources that deal Seminary (JTS), Lauren with disability issues. We know that our donors give from the Tuchman has chosen to She showed how these confront these challenges are central to the Jew- heart with the sincere desire of making and to share her insights ish narrative, citing one as a widely respected dialogue between Moses a difference. “Follow Your Heart” allows educator. Earlier this and God in the Book of month, Tuchman was Exodus (Shemoth). Moses you to see that difference and visit the the scholar-in-residence As a public figure is commanded to return beneficiary agencies supported by the at Kehillat Beth Israel as and scholar, Laura Tuchman to Pharoah and demand part of a program for Jew- has challenged Jewish the freedom of the Israel- Annual Campaign, so you can witness ish Disability Awareness communities to consider ite slaves. But he refuses wider issue of disability. Month. (While this article on the grounds that his “What is a normal body, firsthand, the work being accomplished refers to her talk given on what is a normal mind?” speech is impaired: “I am Shabbat, the news gather- slow of speech and slow of because of your generosity. ing was undertaken after tongue,” Moses argues. Shabbat.) Tuchman stresses God’s response was “There has been much progress made that all people, whatever their abilities The morning will start with to remove physical barriers and enable or disabilities, are created through the better access,” she explained in a report unique divine power. God insists that breakfast at the Soloway JCC. published on the topic. “But we need to Moses goes forward on the mission to go further and think about access in a confront Pharoah, but Moses is also Then we will visit three other funded holistic sense. We need to move to inclu- given the assistance of his brother, sion of people with disabilities, to bring Aaron, to help in communicating. The agencies; Ottawa Jewish Community them in from the margins of the Jewish double significance of this dramatic community.” exchange shows the importance of School, Tamir and Hillel Lodge. Tuchman described her own expe- inclusion and accommodation, thus riences at JTS. She feels that by being ensuring that Moses will act effectively. present in a normal manner, working As a public figure and scholar, Tuch- You followed your heart and made a gift – with other rabbinical students, she man has challenged Jewish communities has demonstrated how managing with to consider wider issue of disability. now join us to see how you made a disability should be a routine aspect of “What is a normal body, what is a nor- community behaviour. mal mind?” she has asked. “How can we . This is part of what she calls chang- apply the lens of disability justice in a DIFFERENCE ing culture from inside out. Creating way that actually makes the world better physical access – getting into buildings, for all of us?” The tour is free and includes breakfast, but space is limited. Please register with Tuchman feels that by being present in a normal manner, working with other rabbinical students, Solange at [email protected] or she has demonstrated how managing with 613-798-4696 x236 disability should be a routine aspect of community behaviour. February 19, 2018 6 OTTAWAJEWISHBULLETIN.COM

Community school’s future looks bright

a lot of work ahead of us, but those of program to transform the Ganon pro- us down in the trenches are beginning gram into the OJCS JK, so that in three to feel that we are in a moment, and Morale among our staff is higher years, it will be entirely an OJCS school that things are just starting to go right. than it has been in a decade program. In the interim, we will work Whitney Houston had a song or more. Our wonderful teachers to bring the OJCS three-language cur- that included the lyrics “I want one riculum into Ganon. moment in time, when I’m more than are more engaged than ever, And finally, we have been collecting I thought I could be, when all of my and our students reap the benefit. information about our outcomes for dreams are a heartbeat away, and the students once they leave OJCS. Working FEDERATION FEDERATION REPORT answers are all up to me.” with parents and other schools, what MICHAEL POLOWIN, Let me give you a taste of what we Advisory Committee to put the “J” we are discovering is what we thought OTTAWA JEWISH are accomplishing at OJCS under the back in OJCS. all along – OJCS students are well pre- COMMUNITY SCHOOL leadership of the board and Jon Mitz- We continue our work with educa- pared for their futures when they leave macher. tion consultants Prizmah, to strength- our doors. We will be disseminating o you remember that feeling, Morale among our staff is higher en our board and its contribution this information in a variety of ways – back when you were in school, than it has been in a decade or more. to the life of the school. We are also stay tuned. To sum up, while we work and you had a bad case of the Our wonderful teachers are more enrolled in their matching program for to make our community school better “exam nerves”? I do. engaged than ever, and our students our fundraising development, which and better, what we are finding is that DParticularly back in law school, writing reap the benefit. will help us bring needed funds into it is already pretty great! my first law-school exam. But then you’d Recently, due to the generosity of the school to help us improve. Rabbi Lord Jonathan Sacks said: “If turn the paper over to read the questions donors and the work of both Jon and Early numbers suggest a great year you want to save the Jewish future, and think, “I can do this – this is going to Jewish Federation of Ottawa President of recruitment ahead, contributing to you have to build Jewish day schools be OK.” Andrea Freedman, we have obtained the momentum we are all feeling. – there is no other way.” Join us as we When I agreed to become the Pres- a $50,000 gift, which we will be using We have entered into a great part- work to build and better one of the ident of Ottawa Jewish Community with a group called NoTosh, to fur- nership with the SJCC to evolve its most important on-ramps to the Jew- School (OJCS), there were those who ther innovation at OJCS. Ganon Junior Kindergarten. Working ish super highway. thought it might be a difficult row to We are working with our local together for the benefit of the commu- Michael Polowin is the President of hoe. And don’t get me wrong, there is pulpit rabbis through our Rabbinical nity, we have embarked on a three-year Ottawa Jewish Community School.

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Early reflections hold up: Ottawa still truly vibrant Jewish community my best to fill Michael’s large shoes. to Mirabel airport), I stand firmly behind prouder of my Jewish heritage. The display The truth is, I don’t get nervous about the essence of the message of a 20-some- was both eye catching and informative. It many things. Adventure activities such thing-year-old student on how Ottawa is was a positive day for both Jews and non- as paragliding or shark cage diving are a wonderful Jewish community and lead- Jews alike, as many questions were asked, a piece of cake for me. Public speaking? ing a Jewish life is worth the effort. For and many Jews were eager to talk about Absolutely no issue. Same thing for your reading pleasure and in the inter- their heritage. By setting up such a display decision making, meeting with unhappy est of not exceeding my allotted words at the universities, the JSU exposed itself to

FROM THE THE FROM PUBLISHER people, and so on. However, writing this count, here is an annotated version: potential criticism or anti-Semitism, but is ANDREA FREEDMAN “From the Publisher” column is an entire- Last year I learned the meaning of a risk that is well worth taking…. ly different matter and so in the interest of Judaism, simply by living and working When I moved to Ottawa, I was quite ne of the luxuries I have as full disclosure, I will confess my anxiety. in Israel. The Jewish spirit is pervasive in unsure what to expect. After having lived publisher is relying on our In part, this stems from knowing Israel, from Eilat to Kiriat Shmona, from in Israel and having attended McGill Uni- excellent editor, Michael that the published word, particularly Tel Aviv to Jerusalem… versity, I was used to being in a Jewish Regenstreif. Each and every since the all editions of the Bulletin are Celebrating one’s Jewishness comes very atmosphere. However what Ottawa has Oedition, he does extraordinary work to digitized, is preserved for all time. What easily and naturally when in Israel. As my given me in terms of a Jewish identity is ensure that the Bulletin’s coverage is happens if new information causes you plane touched down at Mirabel airport, invaluable. What I have seen is a very balanced, thought provoking and of to cringe at what you once believed? many thoughts raced through my head. active, vibrant Jewish community, which interest to a wide array of readers. People do evolve as does what is polit- Who would I speak Hebrew with? What if in turn breeds a very active student body. Michael is currently taking a medical ically acceptable and what is less so. a course conflicted with a Jewish holiday? What makes the community so special, leave from the Bulletin to recover from Then again as Ecclesiastes wrote “there Most importantly, could I lead a full Jewish and specifically the JSU so much more heart surgery and we wish him a speedy is nothing new under the sun.” And so I life in Canada? To further complicate the impressive, is simply the fact that the Jew- and full recovery and look forward to was quite amused when I remembered issue, I was moving from Montreal to Otta- ish student population is not that large…. his return in April. discovering a column I wrote for the Bul- wa, a city which I knew very little about. Five years ago, after a long absence, I I am pleased to report that we have letin on January, 17, 1994, entitled “main- What I have discovered since moving to returned to the scene of my youth and hired a former Ottawa Citizen editor, Laura taining a Jewish identity” when I was a Ottawa is that while it is much more dif- am delighted to report that Ottawa con- Robin, a seasoned and extremely well-re- graduate student at Carleton University. ficult to be a Jew in Canada, the rewards tinues to be an exceptionally vibrant Jew- spected journalist, to serve as interim edi- While I like to think my writing style are worth the effort. Recently, the Jewish ish community and a wonderful place to tor during Michael’s absence. Also on an has evolved and matured over the years Student’s Union (JSU) held a Judaism live and to do Jewish. (A full version of the interim basis, I have agreed to take respon- and certainly I would change a few Day at both the University of Ottawa and article can be found at www.archive.org/ sibility for the editor’s column and will do things (and laugh fondly at the reference Carleton. Nothing could have made me details/ottawajewisharchives.)

Long-term care must become priority

with dementia, when the resident dies mented standing for years as a well-run money to fill their staffing needs. It four days later and the family is lied to for facility with top grades in the caregiv- reminds me of the budget-cutting days months until the video surfaced, you have er-to-resident ratio did not make Hillel I saw at the CBC, when the mantra to wonder how, what, where and why. Lodge much of a story. There is an from the bosses was “we are going to You have to ask every question there is important reality though: Hillel Lodge’s do more with less.” But that was about to ask. While the death was unusual, the ratio has fallen from the top to the mid- television. This is about people. altercation is more of a frequent occur- dle of the pack in the Ottawa area. One solution, if the resident or the rence than one would imagine. Shortage And even with its good record, Hillel family has the money, is to hire a com- of personnel means no guarantee of time- Lodge had a setback in 2014 when a res- panion to help the resident get through ly intervention when required. There is ident died from a fall while being put in the day. The underlying reality is that

IDEAS AND IDEAS IMPRESSIONS no law in Ontario regulating the number bed from an automated lift. Trying to be the publicly funded system often leaves JASON MOSCOVITZ of personal-care workers per resident. helpful, a caregiver made a mistake. severely challenged people alone most In another long-term care facility, a In every long-term care home, this of the day languishing in a hallway. udos to the CBC program camera catches a personal-care worker focused public scrutiny increases the need The long-term care system is crack- Marketplace for its investigation punching an elderly bed-ridden man for full disclosure. Then there are the ing when it should be preparing for into long-term care homes in in the face. Then there was the person- tight budgets, rising wages and increasing the tsunami of baby boomers soon to Ontario. It was shockingly al-care worker who removed a diaper demands, which collectively take a toll on come. The numbers are staggering. It Kdisturbing with an abundance of video and menacingly put the contents under all homes, even the good places such as is unthinkable to consider the horror evidence that would turn anyone’s stomach. the nose of the resident. Baycrest and Hillel Lodge. Managers oper- show around the corner. The headline tells the story of hap- The Marketplace investigation clearly ating long-term care homes were dealt It is only when you get older, as you less souls abused by caregivers in unfor- indicated these incidents were snapshots cards from the bottom of the deck. begin thinking about these things that givable ways. Before thinking abuse of a pattern of abusive acts directed at When the Ontario government you realize our federal Health Care Act and neglect would never happen in one residents – our most vulnerable and frail closed specialty hospitals for the makes no provision for long-term care. of the finest homes in Ontario, take a citizens and, for many of us, our loved mentally ill and developmentally chal- There are no standards, no rules, and breath and exhale slowly. ones. Those unfortunate people have lenged, the long-term care homes were no earmarked money. One of the worst examples cited in nowhere else to go because of the phys- often the only places these people could As for the province, bluntly put, the CBC investigation was the renowned ical or mental state they are in. Once in go. An already beleaguered system had Ontario is already strapped trying to Baycrest, which is a provincially funded long-term care, no one ever goes home. to unexpectedly take on a whole new put more money in big hospitals for long-term care home with deep roots in Where there is no hope, there is little joy. set of residents with their own special, people with futures. Toronto’s Jewish Community. While several homes in Ottawa were diverse and time-consuming needs. Today and tomorrow’s crisis be When the video shows an elderly resi- investigated by the CBC, our commu- The available dollars only go so far. damned – long-term care is not a govern- dent savagely beaten by another resident nity’s Hillel Lodge was not. Its docu- Managers simply don’t have enough ment priority. February 19, 2018 8 OTTAWAJEWISHBULLETIN.COM

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BY NORAH MOR “I was lucky to find good people who risked their Israeli Paralympic Gold Medalist shared powerful story with nternational Holocaust Remembrance Day which lives to save me and my family,” said Holocaust survi- Hillel students. From left, Dovi Chein (Hillel Ottawa), falls on the anniversary of the liberation of the vor Vera Gara at the ceremony. “They were ordinary, Anna Kos( JNF University ) Noam Gershony (guest speaker, Auschwitz-Birkenau death camp by the Soviet common people and they have to be honoured.” Israeli Paralympic Gold Medalist,Tennis) Lynda Taller- army on January 27, 1945 was marked locally with a “We see the current rise in anti-Semitism and xeno- Wakter, Dan Mader (Board Chair). Iceremony at Ottawa City Hall on January 26. phobia today and ask ‘where did it come from?’” said The ceremony was held the day before the anniver- Rebecca Gara, Vera’s granddaughter, during the ceremony. Israeli Paralympic Gold Medalist sary because it fell on a Saturday this year. “How do we confront these things?” she asked. tells Ottawa students: People have “We should take every possible opportunity to remem- Vera Gara said the answer is education and noted more power than they think…. ber the Holocaust and educate about she has been devoted to visiting One week after his Apache helicopter crashed during a mission it,” said event MC Daniel Stringer of “Today, with hate rising classrooms to help provide Holo- to the northern border of Israel, Noam Gershony woke up in a the Wallenberg Citation Initiative. caust education over the years. hospital bed. He could not speak as his broken jaw was wired. 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After his friends’ parents visited him, he commit- During the ceremony Watson Mayor Jim Watson. we have to stand up against it,” said ted to never being depressed. presented a proclamation from Stringer in reference to rising levels of Rehab does not restore you to your former self the City of Ottawa marking International Holocaust hatred in today’s world. “Rehab is a word a lot of people use; but you don’t get rehabili- Remembrance Day to the Centre of Holocaust Educa- “We’re passing the torch [for Holocaust education] tated to yourself,” he said. “Things have changed and you force tion and Scholarship (CHES) at Carleton University from survivors to the second and third generations,” yourself to focus on what you have versus on what you lost.” He which was accepted by CHES committee member he said. lost the basic ability to walk, run, jump. “Everything disappeared in one night.” Before the crash, Gershony skied, bungee-jumped, Annette Wildgoose, a child of a Holocaust survivor Kaddish was recited by Rabbi Eytan Kenter and all in wake-boarded. With the help of doctors and family support, he from Germany. attendance joined in the international campaign to cre- started to build up his upper-body strength and got back into CHES Director Mina Cohn said this was the first ate collective solidarity for Holocaust remembrance by sports. Then he discovered wheelchair tennis. It was a dream, time such a proclamation was made in Ottawa. being photographed holding signs reading, “We Remem- Gershony said. Within a short period of playing, he was invited “Mayor Watson also urged all citizens of Ottawa to ber.” The photos were shared globally on social media. to the US Open and then the Australian Open. commemorate this day to honour all victims of the The ceremony was co-sponsored by the Centre for Gold medal realized six years after the crash Nazis,” said Cohn. “With anti-Semitism on the rise, the Israel and Jewish Affairs, the Jewish Federation of Otta- In 2012, Gershony represented Israel at the London Paralympics. mayor’s proclamation is clearly very meaningful.” wa, CHES, the Embassy of Israel, and the Wallenberg He made it to the finals, beating the American to win the gold Citation Initiative. medal. Six years after the crash he feels lucky. “I spent 2 ½ years on a wheelchair. 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Just have personal insights they can share with us. as we expect our healthcare system to be there for us Can you attest to the importance of high-quality throughout our lives, so, too, must it support each of palliative care, perhaps having had a loved one who us – and our families – as we enter life’s final chapter. received such extraordinary end-of-life care? Or, do Palliative care is a policy issue that has the potential you have a family member who, despite seeking it, was to touch every family across the country. According to unable to access appropriate hospice or palliative care? CHRISTIAN NEWMAN ON UNSPLASH the Canadian Hospice Palliative Care Association, only It is an extraordinary act of chesed (kindness) to care for a We want to hear your stories – and government poli- 15-30 per cent of patients approaching the end of life person in their final days of life. Our healthcare system, in cymakers need to hear how these policies affect real have access to palliative care. 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ichael Aronson was appointed the new Chair of the Board of the Soloway Jewish Community Centre at Mthe Annual General Meeting and Awards evening, February 7 at the SJCC. Taking the reins from Sabina Wasser- lauf, Aronson has been a member of the Incoming Chair of the SJCC Board Michael board from 2006-2011, and was back on Aronson, is welcomed aboard by SJCC the slate in 2016. President and COO Barry Sohn, Immediate “It’s important to give back to the Past Chair Sabina Wasserlauf and SJCC community,” said Aronson. “The com- Capital Campaign Chair Bob Wener at last munity has changed over the years, and week’s AGM. it’s incumbent on the SJCC to continue to be a welcoming and inclusive hub for Jewish life in Ottawa by offering a range went to Israel with NCSY’s, The Jerusalem of programs and services for our diverse Journey, and in April she will embark on community.” the March of the Living (MOL). David Spring received the Ben Karp PHOTOS BY ALEX SARNIA Joshua Freedman is a Grade 12, hon- NCSY’s Rabbi Mark Rose presents Joshua Freedman and Neilah Shapiro with the Grossman- Volunteer Service award presented by our roll student, also at Sir Robert Bor- Klein Family Teen Leadership Award at the SJCC AGM on February 7. David Spring, who was the Ben Karp Family and the SJCC to an unable to attend, was awarded the Ben Karp Volunteer Award. den, who credits his time on MOL with individual who exemplifies continual strengthening his Jewish identity and volunteer service. his involvement in the community. Originally from Galt, a small south- Award. He was on the board of direc- Mitzvah Day participant, she takes part Joshua lends his time to Mitzvah Day ern Ontario town, Spring has spent his tors of Big Brothers, Social Planning in the community-wide challah bake and and the Federation telethon. He is a life giving back. He joined the Board of Council, and recently the Centre for with her family has chaired two Jewish member of his school’s Jewish Culture Agudath Israel where he served 10 years, Social Enterprise Development. Federation of Ottawa Annual Campaign Club and often accompanies his mother two as president, and co-chaired the Spring is a member of the Shalom telethons and volunteers as a canvasser. to Hillel Lodge to bring food and visit amalgamation committee that resulted Refugee Sponsorship Group, a volunteer She attended OTC’s Chabad Hebrew with the residents. in the creation of Kehillat Beth Israel. and supporter of Multifaith Housing School and following graduation, was Joshua spent three years at Torah Spring was a member of the SJCC Board Initiative; he’s been a driver for Jewish instrumental in starting a Torah High High and this coming summer marks for seven years and chair from 2007-9. Family Services and helper at the Otta- program for students in Grade 8. She his seventh summer at Camp B’nai On the broader community level, wa Kosher Food Bank. has been a regular participant at NCSY Brith of Ottawa where he celebrated his Spring has spent 20 years volunteering Neilah Shapiro and Joshua Freedman Shabbatons in addition to attending bar mitzvah. As a gift to his favourite weekly with St. Luke’s, serving meals to both took home the Grossman Klein morning services at OTC Shabbat din- summer spot he donated all the camp those living on the street, he has been a Teen Leadership Award for their out- ners, teen cooking programs and the mezuzot. Joshua volunteers his time member of the United Way Community standing dedication and service to the newly formed C Teen youth group. representing CBB at various communi- Impact Cabinet, chair of its Research Jewish Community. In summer 2016, Neilah went on a “Me ty events and will spend summer 2018 and Evaluation Task Group and in 2017 Neilah, a Grade 11 honour roll student to We” trip to Tanzania where she helped on the waterfront teaching campers was awarded a Community Builders at Sir Robert Borden High School is an avid refurbish a school. This past summer she how to canoe.

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because of arena renovations.” Do you have a daughter who plays soccer? In Ottawa, the popularity of soccer has “exploded,” said Blauer, who coach- Ottawa coach seeks team place July 23 to 28, followed by three for a girl to be able to compete. es with the West Ottawa Soccer Club. days of touring organized by the MIYG The first Ottawa participant for the At present, Canada is competing to play in Israel committee in Israel. team is Blauer’s own daughter, Abigail, against teams from Great Britain, the “Israel is very excited to have us born in 2002, who will be 16 at the time United States, South Africa, Brazil and BY LOUISE RACHLIS attend,” said Jay Blauer of Ottawa, 49, the of Games. Israel. All athletes and staff who are part he hunt is on for team members lead coach for the under 12 and under 15 “The fee is $4,850 which includes try- of Maccabi Canada’s MIYG delegation for girls soccer for the 2018 girls’ teams. “We’re reaching out to virtu- out, tournament, clothing package, round depart Toronto on July 22. Maccabi International Youth ally every soccer club in the country. I’m trip air fare to Tel Aviv, all food, transpor- Besides soccer, Blauer has also coached Games in Israel. finding most success is through word of tation, everything,” he said. “Often local hockey, basketball, track and cross coun- TThe Inaugural Maccabi International mouth from girls who already play with a communities will get behind an athlete or try. He feels the most important role of a Youth Games is a Junior Maccabiah that Canadian club. They tell their friends.” two and do some fundraising.” coach is “to inspire” and “to teach with takes place in Israel every four years. The son of Cathy and the late Marvin This year is special because it’s the the ability to celebrate mistakes.” The age group is athletes ages 14 to 16, Blauer, Blauer is the vice principal at Hunt- inaugural games for youth. For details, www.maccabicanada.com, born between 2002 and 2004. ley Centennial Public School in Ottawa. “They try to do a number of sports,” or email [email protected] or and The sporting competition will take At least one parent has to be Jewish, he said, “but hockey was cancelled click under the games.

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Sylvia Freeman was born in Nowy-Dwor, Poland in began the process of Sylvia’s move to the Lodge. As David says, “the Lodge has April 1923. Her relationship with the Lodge is always been her desired choice for long-term care as it’s a kosher and Jewish long-standing, dating back to when Sylvia volun- facility. I feel she’s in a safe, nurturing environment, with caring sta”. In teered at the original Lodge on Wurtemberg by November, 2016, Sylvia moved into the Bess and Moe Greenberg Hillel Lodge. hosting a Yiddish music and discussion group with Moving out of her home was not easy for Sylvia. But living at the Lodge has given the residents. The group was called “A Bissel Yiddish”. her family peace of mind. David says “We’re lucky she’s still mobile and can access The residents who spoke Yiddish and Russian loved the JCC from the Lodge for programming every Tuesday and eat the occasional it. When the Lodge moved to the JCC Campus, Sylvia meal at Babi’s restaurant with her family and friends”. Actually, Sylvia recently Sylvia Freeman continued to volunteer and read to residents. attended CIJA’s Community Advocacy Consultations at the SJCC – as a Bubby, she As with most of the residents at the Lodge, Sylvia has brought a lot of experience and common sense to the discussion. travelled a great distance and come a long way to get to Hillel Lodge. Sylvia Sylvia loves listening to “Musica Ebraica” and “A Touch of Klez” while they practice followed her father to Canada in 1937 with her mother and brother and they at the Lodge and helping during activities such as visits from students from the originally settled in Woodstock, NB. In 1944, Sylvia went to Montreal to stay with various Ottawa Jewish schools. cousins and friends. She got a job in the “schmata” business, and met Abe, her husband-to-be, on a blind date in 1946. They married in 1947 and moved to Sylvia feels “everybody’s very kind, the sta is caring. I help myself mostly but I do Fredericton, NB. They had three sons, and moved to Montreal in 1964 and nally get assistance from sta when needed”. settled in Ottawa in 1978. The family joined Machzikei Hadas Synagogue and to When we asked Bubby Sylvia if she would do anything dierent, she told us that this day, continue to attend services every Shabbat and High Holidays. Sylvia who she “never thought about the end of the game, that it won’t happen to her it will is active and independent is commonly referred to as “Bubby” amongst be someone else.” Sylvia was referring to the decision to move out of her home of congregants and friends! over 40 years and choose to live in a retirement residence and long-term care

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many times, I take it differently. I don’t BY BEN SALES think about myself. I think about how NEW YORK (JTA) – Eva Lavi’s earliest the kids are reacting.” memories are of the Holocaust. Lavi also feels a sense of urgency in She remembers how her mother telling her story because she thinks the made her hide outside in below-zero world hasn’t gotten better since she was weather, clutching a standing pipe, as liberated. There are groups that still seek Nazis searched her home in Poland. to annihilate Jews and other minorities, She remembers her father telling her to she says. swallow a spoonful of cyanide — better And she called the Polish bill that than death at the hands of the Nazis — would criminalize those who blame only to have her mother object at the Poland for the Holocaust a “disaster.” last minute. She remembers seeing her Yes, she says, Poles were killed, too, twin cousins shot to death as they ran at the Nazi death camps. But she adds up a hill at a labor camp. that the Poles were no angels, citing Lavi was two years old when Nazi Polish violence against Jews during Germany took over her hometown of and after the war. “I was in Auschwitz, PHOTO COURTESY OF THE ISRAELI MISSION TO THE UN Krakow in September 1939. Now 80, she Eva Lavi, who was two years old when the Nazis invaded Poland, addressed the United Nations and there were Polish prisoners,” she wants to make sure her stories aren’t following International Holocaust Remembrance Day on January 27. said. “But what they say, that the lost after she’s gone. Poles were all sweetness and light? “There was no childhood for children No. In any case, they didn’t really like my age,” she said in a speech to the and immortalized in Steven Spielberg’s who was there. It’s not a story,” she said. the Jews.” United Nations General Assembly fol- 1993 film. Lavi was put in a ghetto in “It’s the worst and cruelest thing that As the Holocaust survivor population lowing International Holocaust Remem- Poland with her family immediately happened in the world.” shrinks, Lavi feels one way to transmit brance Day on Jan. 27. “Regularly, we after the Nazi takeover, transferred to a Although Lavi now regularly returns the experience is movies. She’s grateful saw, heard and understood everything labour camp and then to Auschwitz. to Auschwitz, she says the experience for the research work that Spielberg did the Nazis were doing to us. At six years She now speaks to groups at Yad still isn’t easy. while making Schindler’s List. A scene old, children were cynical old people Vashem, the Israeli Holocaust authority, “Every time I go, I cry here and there featuring her as a child, she says, is trying to survive.” and travels to Poland every year with a because it’s a terrible thing. Every per- mostly accurate: Nazis separated her Lavi is the youngest survivor to have group of high school students as part of son that went there saw the ovens, the from her mother, but Schindler saved been on Schindler’s list, the Jews saved March of the Living. gas chambers. Everything was real. It’s her by telling the guards he needed her by German industrialist Oskar Schindler “It’s true testimony from someone very scary, but because I’ve gone so small fingers to operate machinery.

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early a quarter of a century ago, I came to ticity ensures we bend but do not break. Flexibility is Ottawa to serve as Rabbi of Temple Israel. maybe our strongest ally as our community faces the Upon arrival, I was offered an orientation of RABBI STEVEN H. GARTEN ongoing challenge of modernity. the community by the then-executive A VIEW FROM If only the lessons of the Chevra Kadisha were Ndirector of the Vaad Ha’ir. After a rather lengthy explan- transferable to the Beit Shemesh in Eretz Yisroel. ation about community agencies, the director said “The THE BLEACHERS After years of relative quiet, violence has broken out jewel of our community is the Chevra Kadisha.” It is, he again between Haredi (ultra-orthodox) residents and said, a fine example of men and women performing the non-Haredi residents, many of whom are religious mitzvot of Kebud Hametim, (honouring the dead), upon presenting us with the certificate of Taharah. Zionists. Israeli flags are routinely ripped from hous- ritually preparing the deceased for burial. The unwillingness of the Chevra Kadisha to broaden es and cars. Women, secular and religious, are spat He also indicated that the annual dinner honouring its definition of Jewish ritual practices created cognitive upon and threatened with stone throwing for dress- the volunteers was the high point of the communal diffidence between the small “in crowd: and the increas- ing “immodestly” or walking on the same sidewalks social calendar. ingly non-traditional Jewish population of Ottawa. as men. Some women have been seriously injured. It was not long before I discovered that there was As sometimes happens, unexpected tragedy is the Recently a 15-year-old Haredi youth threw stones at a a “bit” of hyperbole involved in this description. Yes, impetus for change. The vicious murder of a woman police car, simply because it was not Haredi. This situ- there were wonderful men and women volunteering who was the president of Canadian Hadassah; a for- ation has devolved into such antagonism and hostility their services to perform this important mitzvot. Yes, mer executive director of Agudath Israel synagogue that Haredim youth have “mobbed” religious Zionist they responded in quick fashion to the everyday and the and an active board member of Temple Israel forced youth movement gatherings. Authorities, controlled by unusual. But volunteer opportunities were limited to the Chevra Kadisha to realize that religious diversity Haredim, have declared it is not their responsibility to individuals who belonged to select synagogues and who was on its door step. Faced with an ultimatum that resolve religious conflicts. The situation required mem- were shomer mitzvot. It soon become apparent that unless they modified their rules a Taharah would be bers of the Knesset to make an inspection of the city. the Chevra Kadisha had also very clear and strict rules performed by the Chevra Kadisha of Montreal and that The member of the Knesset who chairs the committee concerning the conduct of a funeral and burial under the funeral would be conducted by the Reform, Con- on the status of women declared the level of verbal their auspices. Women were not allowed to be pall servative and Orthodox rabbis at Agudath and women and physical harassment toward non-Haredi woman bearers, instrumental music was disallowed at funerals, would be pall bearers, our Chevra Kadisha relented. as totally unacceptable. The chair is an Arab-Israeli and funerals were restricted to grave site or the Chevra A beautiful service was conducted the mourners were woman, Touma Sliman, from Nazareth. Kadisha building. There were other rules presented as comforted and the “temple” walls were breached. The preservation of traditional practices by a small Halachah, but certainly idiosyncratic to our community. Today it is possible to say that the Chevra Kadisha group over the wishes and desires of the majority does I knew of at least five other Jewish communities in respects religious diversity. Together with the Jewish not bode well for those wishing to declare Israel a Jew- North America where these rules were not imposed. In Memorial Gardens, the varieties of Jewish ritual prac- ish state. fact, my parents were prepared for burials by members tices are honoured. It is now the Jewel of our Jewish If “Jewish” is defined so narrowly that it excludes of the Chevra Kadisha of Lakewood, New Jersey, in a community. the majority, then perhaps they will decide that it is a non-Jewish funeral home. Their responsibility ended Diversity of practice strengthens who we are. Elas- title they do not need to pass on to the next generation. February 19, 2018 22 OTTAWAJEWISHBULLETIN.COM Exercise, diet offsets osteoarthritis, reduces pain, boosts function steoarthritis is a common chronic condition. the diet-and-exercise group also had less pain, better func- Ten per cent of Canadians age 15 and over tion, faster walking speed and better self-reported physical have osteoarthritis. The average age of GLORIA SCHWARTZ quality of life than those in the exercise-only group. Inde- diagnosis is 50. https://tinyurl.com/y74lqhsg pendent of group assignment, participants who lost 10 or OOsteoarthritis is more common in women than men. FOCUS ON more per cent of body weight had bigger improvements in Osteoarthritis “is caused by a breakdown of carti- FITNESS function, in inflammation and in pain, and bigger reduc- lage in joints causing bones to rub together resulting in tions in knee compressive force. pain, stiffness and eventual loss of use. There are some The findings suggest that intensive weight loss may forms of osteoarthritis that appear to be genetically more OA in modern times. Thinking of OA as a wear- have both anti-inflammatory and biomechanical ben- driven and others that are a result of injury, overuse or and-tear disease may be inaccurate; it may be due to efits. Combining an appropriate diet and exercise pro- advanced age” (Joint Health, February 2008, more sitting and less moving. Perhaps our overweight gram enables overweight and obese people to achieve https://tinyurl.com/y9ec9p6c). ancestors had less OA than overweight people after improvements in symptoms greater than with just diet Osteoarthritis (OA) is often viewed as a normal part the mid-20th century because they were more active. or just exercise. https://tinyurl.com/ya743kvc of ageing. OA is also linked to obesity because excess One of the study’s authors, David Felson of Boston What are the practical applications of these studies’ weight puts a heavier load on weight-bearing joints. University Medical School, says that “exercise makes findings to your day-to-day life? With the ageing popu- Surgery to replace hips and knees has become increas- the joints more strain-resistant and that the cartilage lation and the prevalence of OA on the rise, a healthy ingly common. According to the Canadian Institute for gets thicker and the muscles that support and protect lifestyle that includes staying physically active and eat- Health Information, approximately 50,000 hip replace- the joints get stronger.” The paper’s senior author Dan- ing well seems like a good preventative strategy. ments and 60,000 knee replacements were performed iel Lieberman of Harvard University states that “knee If you already have OA, exercise avoidance is the in Canada in 2013-2014. These figures are on the rise osteoarthritis is not a necessary consequence of old wrong approach; it’s a matter of finding the right exer- even when population growth and ageing are account- age. We should think of this as a partly preventable cise. According to the Arthritis Foundation, “exercise ed for. https://tinyurl.com/ycqsro2w disease.” https://tinyurl.com/y8jesf5u is considered the most effective non-drug treatment A Harvard study on osteoarthritis examined 2,000 What if you already have OA? Another study exam- for reducing pain and improving movement in osteoar- skeletons including medical school cadavers and ined the effects of weight loss via different strategies on thritis.” https://tinyurl.com/yanmwbyk ancient remains found by archeologists. After con- participants’ knee osteoarthritis. Overweight and obese Exercise maintains and improves your ability to move trolling for age and weight, the study found that knee adults age 55-plus with knee osteoarthritis were randomly and function and improves blood flow to the joints. Los- osteoarthritis has doubled in prevalence since the Sec- assigned to either a diet group, an exercise group, or a ing excess weight takes additional stress off the joints and ond World War; while 16 per cent of the more recent group that combined diet and exercise – 399 participants that, in turn, can salvage cartilage and reduce pain. Osteo- skeletons had knee OA, only eight per cent of the earli- completed the study. The participants in the diet-and-ex- arthritis-appropriate cardiorespiratory exercises include er skeletons did. What are we doing or not doing differ- ercise group and those in the diet-only group lost more swimming and using joint-friendly exercise machines such ently that is resulting in more OA than our ancestors? weight (a mean of roughly 10 per cent of body weight) as a stationary bicycle and an elliptical. Strength training, The researchers agree that age and obesity are two than those in the exercise-only group (roughly two per if done properly, builds strong muscles which support and major risk factors for OA. They also hypothesize that cent) and had greater measurable reductions in inflamma- protect affected joints. Exercise can also reduce the psy- the absence of physical activity may be what is causing tion than those in the exercise-only group. Participants in chological stress of living with a painful condition.

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