Brain Stim: Play Party Etiquette

Contributors: HarleyQuinn_1313, PissSwallower, Beyond_Bottom, AprilInABox, SirZooomm Rules in no particular order: 1. Go at your own pace and don’t be afraid to say no if you’re uncomfortable. 2. Ask questions about things you’re unsure of. 3. Talk to people and have fun. 4. Ask about ground rules before attending the party. 5. Don’t touch anyone or try to join their scene without prior . 6. Respect other scenes going on around you and keep side conversations at a low volume. 7. Save asking questions for not only after the scene, but after the aftercare. 8. If you get hit by the backstroke of someone’s flogger, you’re too close. 9. Don’t touch anyone’s toys without their explicit consent. 10. Friends/acquaintances included, reiterating, don’t touch anyone without their consent. 11. Be mindful of equipment use. Try to ensure you leave others time to as well. 12. Clean up your space when you’re done playing. 13. If you see a that is not your kink, don’t make disgusted faces at the players. 14. Be mindful of noise level if the social area and aftercare area are in close proximity. 15. Assume pictures and videos are not allowed until told otherwise. 16. Assume you need to be in vanilla clothing from the parking lot to the venue unless told otherwise.

See SirZooomm’s House Rules on the next page!

House Rules for When you Attend Our Parties by SirZooomm (FetLife link to this writing) 1. Each attendee and his guest must be 18 years of age or older. 2. Do not make assumptions. Negotiate all scenes. Do not assume that the presence of someone at this party means they are available. Do not involve yourself in a scene without an invitation. 3. Never touch anyone, their equipment, or belongings without permission. 4. No water sports scenes. We are not equipped to handle it. The bathrooms will be for non-scene use. 5. Privacy and discretion are to be respected. All information about party activities, attendees, etc. is to be considered confidential. Cameras and other types of recording devices are NOT allowed without the expressed written permission of the hosts and those being photographed 6. Please be mindful of excessive noise for the neighbors, especially as the party nears the end. Don’t make any loud noises, especially outside. Bring a gag and use it, or borrow one. Only quiet subs may be played with in the workshop. 7. Ample parking is available in the driveway or on the street. The usual courtesies apply: Don't block any driveways or park in another home's driveway. Treat everyone with equal respect -- Doms, Subs, Switches, and Staff alike. 8. Play sober. Do not bring alcohol or recreational drugs to the party. 9. Smoking will be at the discretion of the Board of Perverts. Smoking will be allowed in back yard or front porch. 10. Please be prepared with something to cover your more daring clothing -- or lack thereof -- when you go outside the party space. 11. No genital or anal penetration, oral sex or exchange of bodily fluids. 12. Solicitation for sexual services is not allowed. 13. Do not monopolize the equipment. 14. Please feel free to use our BDSM furniture and the gear attached to it, i.e., clips, supporting chains, restraints that may be present, etc. Do not use our other gear without specific permission from us - ask. We will show you the public toys that you may use. Look, don’t touch. 15. Please agree on safe words for scenes. "Red" will be a default safe word. 16. Respect scenes. Limit conversation and screaming in the play area. Don't crowd the playing areas. 17. Respect the playspace. Please clean up after your scene. Use a drop cloth when waxing. No scat or water sports. 18. Limit play to the playspace. Do not engage in play outside the 's line of vision. 19. Don't bring guns. 20. Dungeon Monitors have the final word on everything including the right to stop an unsafe or abusive scene. Check with the DM before any fireplay (waxing, cupping, flash paper, etc.), piercing, or bloodsports. 21. These rules are subject to change at any time.