© ISTOCKPHOTO today’s technology APARENT’S GUIDE TO © 2018 FOCUS ON THE FAMILY | ALL RIGHTS RESERVED RIGHTS FAMILY |ALL THE ON © 2018 FOCUS 2018 today’s technology APARENT’S TO GUIDE introduction e That’s great advice on how to live—and how to act inour use oftechnology. Word, tells usto beattentive, be authentic and pursue unity with one another. support them indeveloping healthy technology habits. God,through His will capture our children’s attention. Asparents, we need to educate and the pitfallsoftoday’s most popular digital platforms and games. Technology technology your family uses. It willalso help you understand and navigate The goal of thisresource to is encourage you to stop and think about the cyberbullying and risky behaviors. enhancing our kids’ lives, technology can isolate them and open them upto create adirect—and sometimes dangerous—portal to our children. Instead of games and social media can become atime drain for our kids. They also But asparents, technology often makes our lives more difficult. Apps, video fingertips. More shortcuts to simplify daily routines. Technology was supposed to make life easier. More information at our technology that uniqueis it’s so intertwined inour lives that it’s unavoidable. society, much like the printing press, radio or TV. However, what makes verywhere Igo, Isee some kind oftechnology. It has transformed BY DANIEL HUERTA, HUERTA, BY DANIEL FOCUS ON THE FAMILY VICE PRESIDENT OF PARENTING &YOUTH PARENTING OF PRESIDENT FAMILY VICE THE ON FOCUS sources. recommended resources. 5: cyberbullying 4: media. 3: social games 2: video 1: introduction contents finding hiddenapps. the brain&technology. © 2018 FOCUS ON THE FAMILY THE ON © 2018 FOCUS . . . 13 17 22 21 6 2 1 9
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y son was 11 when he first asked, “Can I have a cellphone?” Then he m quickly added, “Most of the kids in my class have one.” boys and girls Statistics show the average age a child receives a smartphone is 10.1 I knew In recent years, the Pew my son was not yet ready for the onslaught of information and decisions Research Center has revealed that come with owning a mobile device—most kids aren’t. Convincing them that boys are much more likely of this fact can be a challenge, but it’s a challenge worth accepting. to talk with their friends while playing online video games than The online world seems to become more enticing every day. With more girls.3 They also found that girls immersive gaming and new social media outlets, it’s also more addictive. are more likely than boys to talk Fifty percent of teens surveyed by Common Sense Media in 2016 admitted with their friends through social to being addicted to their mobile devices.2 media channels or phone calls. A boy who feels inferior can As a counselor, I interact with parents who have questions about technology control a powerful figure in an use for their kids. Many wonder if it’s OK to give a toddler a child-friendly online world, while a girl who tablet, or to allow their school-age children to have their own mobile phone. feels insecure believes she can They ask if it’s wise to allow their middle schooler to have a computer in the find acceptance through social bedroom or sign up for social media accounts. media. Personal technology certainly adds complications to the important job of raising kids. That’s why it’s important to approach technology use with intentionality and sensible limits, two of Focus on the Family’s 7 Traits of Effective Parents.
A TOOL LIKE ANY OTHER? Technology by itself isn’t good or evil. It’s a tool, just like fire or a power saw. Today’s technology can enhance our lives or cause serious damage. In order to keep your children safe, it’s important for parents to recognize how mobile devices can affect a child’s brain. 72 It is obvious that tech companies want to sell as many devices as possible. After all, it’s business. Companies look for profits. They pay close attention 59 to what gets buyers to continue picking up their products and the features that entice users. They most likely ask: How can we make our product best entertain, inform and inspire our buyers? The result is that mobile devices are being increasingly engineered with an understanding of how human brains work—especially when it comes to dopamine.
Dopamine is a powerful neurotransmitter that helps us pay attention, be motivated and remember what we like or dislike. I believe it is no accident that tech companies design their products to increase the release of 72 dopamine into the reward and pleasure pathways of our brains. The user feels rewarded by the interaction with the phone or other technology and 59 4 wants to continue using it—to always be looking for that next spike.
God designed our brains to experience reward and pleasure. But without limits and intentionality, the release of dopamine can cause unhealthy dependencies or addiction. It’s sort of like having a wallet full of money. Source: Pew Research Center “Teens, Technology and Friendships”
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We may start the morning with lots of cash, but we spend it throughout the day. If we spend it too quickly or make poor decisions, there are the brain consequences. In the case of dopamine, these technology-triggered spikes could make us less attentive, motivated and emotionally stable. Other things and the mind There is a real difference can become boring and mundane. Regular life cannot compete with the between the brain and the “thrill” of social- and entertainment-related technology. mind. The brain is a physical Over time, people can get hooked on the stimuli that cause rushes of dopamine. organ that processes what And the flashy, glowing world available on every mobile device certainly comes in through our five creates enticing feelings of escape and excitement. Through widespread use senses and helps with of technology, our culture has been trained to behave differently than past maintaining our automatic generations: Attention spans are now much shorter than they once were, and bodily functions. Our minds many scan for information instead of reading it. are different. Our personalities, memories and decision-making are included in our minds. God said to love Him with all of our heart, soul and mind