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08 Contents 07 FROM THE DESK OF THE EDITOR 40 FROM BANKRUPTCY TO BLOGGER 08 FEATURED FINDS 44 JOURNEY IN BIZ 10 GET OVER YOURSELF: TIPS FOR OVERCOMING & 50 THE ART OF OVERCOMING BECOMING AN ENTREPRENEUR 56 HOW FREAK BRAIN TRAUMA LED ME TO MY 12 THE 20-SOMETHING ENTREPRENEUR BUSINESS IDEA 16 7 WAYS TO KEEP YOUR BUSINESS MOMENTUM 58 STARTING OVER AFTER 40 GOING DURING A SLOW SEASON 62 OLYMPIAN TO ENTREPRENEUR 18 THE JOURNEY TO HAPPILY EVER AFTER 64 LIMITLESS CREATIVITY WITH MIXBOOK 22 COPING WITH THE LOWS OF ENTREPRENEURSHIP: FINDING COMFORT IN THE DISCOMFORT 78 BLOGALICIOUS 24 FROM WORKING MOM TO BIZ MOM 80 CREATE & CULTIVATE S.H.E. SUMMIT 26 SEO IS A JOURNEY, NOT A DESTINATION 86 88 CREATIVE WOMEN'S CO. 30 INTROVERT-PRENEUR 90 TOGETHER 32 THE BRANDING JOURNEY: USING VISUAL PERSPECTIVE TO FIND YOUR BRAND 94 BLOGGING FOR CREATIVE ENTREPRENEURS WORKSHOP 36 I BLAME THE GLITTER, AN EXCERPT FROM CHASING SLOW 98 BELONG RESOURCE GUIDE 38 HOW A COLLABORATIVE BLOG TURNED INTO A COLLABORATIVE FRIENDSHIP cover BELONG MAGAZINE / ISSUE EIGHT PHOTOGRAPHER: CALEB SPENCER Brooke Saxon-Spencer Alicia Heater 08 Founder + Editor Copy Editor Shirt: Evy's Tree Laura Kashner Caleb Spencer WWW.EVYSTREE.COM Flowers: BloomThat Publication Designer Contributing Editor *Take 10% OFF one order by entering the code BELONG10 at checkout at evystree.com. This code is good until 12/31/17. Rewards and discount codes cannot be applied in-conjunction to this offer. Please email [email protected] with any questions. BELONG-MAG.COM / ISSUE EIGHT 05 08 Our Mission Belong Magazine is designed to celebrate the art and community of blogging, progress, social media and entrepreneurship not perfection In all that we do, our mission is to inspire women to use their passions for a purpose FROM THE DESK OF THE EDITOR in creating and sharing authentic words, images, ideas and experiences virtually and off-line and to be life-giving and encouraging to others. My journey is not what I expected. I never wanted to work in healthcare, yet that is where It is our desire for women to know that they are enough, I began my professional career—right there alongside my dad and my brother, working for their voice matters, and that they have a place. the family business which I stated I would never do (never say never!). It was safe and secure, or They belong. YOU BELONG. so I thought. The day the family decided to sell the healthcare business was like getting the wind knocked out of me and not being able to catch my breath—in fact, I’m still not sure I’ve caught it. Two years prior, my husband, three kids and I had moved from the mid-west, away from my family and the business, to SoCal. I was able to bring my job with me which allowed us to pay our bills. We depended on that job. And then it was gone. Yes, I panicked, and anxiety and I quickly became well acquainted, but I didn’t let my fear drive me and my decisions—not all the time, at Brooke Saxon-Spencer least. I took some time while we were winding the family business down (and I was still being paid) founder + editor to reflect, read, write, pray and to just be still with this unknown future wide open before me. Come as You Are It was in these still moments that Belong was Andrea Logan White appeared to have the perfect Hollywood life. Beyond the red born. Of course, I had no idea what I was doing WWW.BELONG-MAG.COM carpet though, she struggled with the same lie that haunts so many of us: or how to start a magazine, but it was clear to @BELONGMAG “I HAVE TO be perfect to be accepted—by God, by others, by myself.” me that it was my next step. After talking with a few other women about the idea, I went for it. In her latest book, Perfectly Unfinished, Andrea tells her gripping journey of being I set a date for the Pilot to release and worked an anorexic teenager, a Playboy Mansion guest hanging out by the pool, a naive backwards from there. new Christian, a stressed-out mom, and a co-owner of her own company — and Today, nearly two years later, you are reading how all along, God was fulfilling his promise to complete his good work in her. ISSUE 08. ISSUE 08!!! This seems absolutely If you struggle with a self-condemning voice that tells you only perfection will do, unreal to me, and I feel absurdly blessed by the you’ll find grace and encouragement in the story Andrea is living out today. fact that you’re actually reading this. Perfectly Unfinished is an invitation to the wondrous mystery of God’s abundant There is so much more to my journey— love as the incompleteness of our lives brings us closer to him. thousands and thousands of little, individual steps—and what brought me to today. I share “Nothing fills the hungry heart like Infinite love and acceptance. Thank you Andrea for learning this snippet to encourage you to take one step at to love yourself, because in this discovery so many of your ‘sisters’ will learn to do the same.” a time—just the next step, friend. And then the –ROBIN GIVENS, Actress, Author next. And then the next. The path isn’t always clear, but you can take just the next step in your “Perfectly Unfinished is raw, real, and inspiring . With courage, strength and vulnerability, Andrea journey. Today. Don’t wait. Own your journey shares the struggles she endured and the freedom she discovered as a woman, wife and mother when she learned to fully surrender her life to the Lord. This book is encouraging and LIFE saving.” and make things happen. One step at a time. –ALEXA PENAVEGA, Actress AVAILABLE Everywhere Books Are Sold, September 26, 2017 #PerfectlyUnfinishedBook Correction White Quill Creative/@whitequillcreative was the photographer for the Covelle feature in ISSUE 07. PRE-ORDER TODAY and Receive FREE GIFTS! 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I am authentic and you something my Uncle Po told me when I was venting confident and quirky. I am not polished. I say things like, about how I felt like I couldn’t get it together. He said, “My mental illness sucks real bad.” Or, “Does anyone ever “Everyone is busy all the time. But at least you’re busy feel like they want to cut their legs off because the anxiety Becoming an doing something you love.” MAN. That hit me like a brick is just sitting there and you can’t do anything about it?” I wall. How lucky am I to be doing something I believe in so also say things like, “I love Beyonce more than any adult much? How lucky am I to be overwhelmed by the success should,” “I could eat an entire bag of family sized Doritos 3of something I am so unbelievably passionate about? SO. 6in one sitting” and, “other than my husband, pepperoni Be happy you are overwhelmed -- don’t let it scare you into pizza is my real soulmate.” Now, this may not be for Entrepreneur submission. Organize yourself. Organization will keep you everyone, but it is who I am. If I got up there and read off a sane and will keep your head above water. Let your passion ton of statistics and used medical terms to discuss mental take the wheel. You were born to do this. illness, it would come across as phony or disingenuous. The draw to Listen, Lucy wouldn’t be as strong as it was if I pretended to be someone I wasn’t. by Jordan Corcoran PRIORITIZE YOUR HEALTH AND PERSONAL LIFE. When you start your own business, and then again when you start to get some traction, people want to tell you LISTENLUCY.ORG / @LISTEN_LUCY When you start your own company, it is a 24 hours a how to act and what to do. My advice to you is to always day, 7 days a week job. You can always do one more thing, listen to what they have to say, but trust yourself. I know send one more email, reach out to one more person. The for sure that I am not the smartest person in the world list is never complete. When this happens, it is easy to put and that most of the stuff I do for Listen, Lucy leads to me your personal life and your health on the back burner.