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Ella’s Salon Studio R001668510 With this Ring ~ January 2012 3 elcome to the 2012 Echo Press wedding planner. This publication is meant to be a helpful reference guide for planning your Wwedding day and preparing for marriage. In addition to containing information on planning your wedding, financial planning and other aspects of preparing to get married, it also includes handy checklists for all the tasks that need to be done by the bride and groom before the wedding. It also contains information on many of the businesses that specialize in wedding-related services or products. We hope this wedding planning guide serves as a handy reference to help you plan your most important day!

index Countdown to your wedding day ...... 5 Services directory...... 19-21 Top wedding planning questions...... 6 Wedding party roles ...... 22 Who pays for what?...... 8 Plan the wedding of your dreams ...24 Wedding song alternatives ...... 10 Surviving wedding expenses...... 26 Before you tie the knot...... 12 Wedding video advantages...... 28 Money talks for newlyweds...... 15 Honeymoon saving strategies...... 30 Secrets to a happy marriage ...... 16 Planning forms, checklists ...... 31-38 Echo Press announcements ...... 17

Special Projects Editor: Tara Bitzan • Special Projects Reporter: Lowell Anderson Cover by: Kelsey Langager • Layout and design by Echo Press graphic department Publisher: Jody Hanson • Echo Press • www.echopress.com • (320)763-3133 Image Courtesy of Glimpse Photography A Publication of the Echo Press

R001667223 4 With this Ring ~ January 2012 Countdown to your wedding day o help you get a better understanding of how to plan a 2 to 3 months wedding and when you should be making certain deci- Finalize your guest list and mail out your invitations. If your guest list sions, here’s a time frame you can follow that should en- includes many people who are spread out geographically, mail the in- sure your wedding goes off as smoothly as possible. vitations as close to 12 weeks in advance as possible. This is also a T good time to finalize your menu choices for your guests, and find all your wedding accessories such as the ring pillow, candles, etc. Also, since it 10 to 12 months is tradition to provide gifts for those in the wedding party as well as the If you haven’t done it already, this is a good time to announce your parents of the bride and groom, this is a good time to decide on and engagement and introduce your respective families. Since most recep- purchase those gifts. Just to be safe, confirm that all groomsmen have tion halls and churches have busy wedding schedules, it is important ordered their tuxedos and finalize all transportation, both to and from to book both as early as possible, preferably the wedding and to the airport for your hon- at least a year in advance of your wedding eymoon. day. It’s also a good idea to start putting together a guest list around this time and ask your parents whom they’d like to invite as 1 to 2 months well. Also, since your budget will determine Schedule the first bridal-gown fitting. Also almost every aspect of your wedding, sitting finalize the readings you’d prefer during the down and determining what you can spend ceremony and mail them out to anyone who – and developing a savings plan – should be has agreed to do a reading. If your family first and foremost. prefers to host a small gathering for close family and friends after the wedding rehearsal, the night before the wedding, this 6 to 9 months is a good time to order any food or drinks This is the time to start booking some you might want to serve that night, or make services, such as a florist, caterer, a DJ or a restaurant reservation. band, and a photographer. However, some of the more experienced DJs, bands and photographers might have their schedules 3 to 4 weeks booked a year in advance, so this is some- Confirm your honeymoon arrangements thing you’ll want to consider doing shortly and see if your wedding rings are ready. This after you choose a wedding date. Also, this is also when you should get your marriage li- is a good time to inform any guests who will cense and check the guest list to see who be traveling significant distances of the date has and hasn’t sent an RSVP. For those who of your wedding. The earlier your guests can have yet to RSVP, you might want to contact book a flight, the less expensive that flight them so you can get a closer idea of what will be. This is also a good time to order the head count will be. You should also pre- gowns for both the bride and bridesmaids, pare and order your wedding program as some manufacturers require a few Image Courtesy of Glimpse Photography around this time. months to ship to bridal shops. You might want to ask someone such as your priest or rabbi to be the officiant of your wedding. And just as out-of-town guests will save travel dollars by 1 to 2 weeks booking flights early, you will likely save money, too, if you book your Get a final attendance count and submit it to the caterer as soon as honeymoon early. you know it, while also providing a final seating chart. Pick up the wedding gown and tuxedo. Make sure the wedding party picks up their attire. Also, finalize your vows and confirm all wedding-day details such 4 to 5 months as transportation, photo schedules, and addresses. And don’t forget to This is a good time to decide on a wedding invitation. Also, now is pack for your honeymoon. an ideal time to start hunting for a wedding cake by sampling a number of different bakeries and their cakes before ultimately making a decision. Just to be sure, confirm that all of the bridesmaids have or- The day before dered their gowns and start looking for tuxedos for the groom and the This is mainly when you rehearse for the ceremony and make any groomsmen. If you haven’t done so already, purchase your wedding final confirmations you might have to make. Also, make sure to get rings and talk to the people that you would like to have participate in some sleep so you’ll look good in all of your wedding-day photos. the wedding ceremony. (MS)

With this Ring ~ January 2012 5 You’re engaged! NOW WHAT? Top four wedding planning questions to answer

oliday season is engagement season. But after he pops ple as possible, start by considering in what season you would like to the question and she says “yes,” the reality of wedding be married. Would you prefer a spring ceremony? Or do you dream of a holiday wedding? By narrowing down the season, and selecting it well planning sets in. Here are the top four questions you in advance, you’ll be able to secure a date that will work for everyone. Hwill need to answer to make your wedding planning jour- ney a pleasant experience. Where do we want to get “After Valentine’s Day, the holidays are the most popular time of year for couples to become engaged,” said wedding planning expert Ray- married and have our reception? mond Miller of My Wedding Reception Ideas.com. “Many brides-to-be Will you have a destination wedding? Or do you want to keep it who get engaged over the holi- local? While wedding planning is usually most successful when done days will begin their planning ef- well in advance, if you’re interested in a destination wedding, planning forts in the first months of the far ahead is essential. Popular destinations book quickly in prime wed- new year. Knowing where to start ding seasons and you may find venues in the destination of your choice can be overwhelming.” are booked a year or more in advance. Brides should begin their What kind of venue do you want? Do you dream of a big church planning by answering these wedding? Or saying your “I do’s” in a beautiful natural setting? Perhaps basic questions, Miller advises. you want your reception to be in a grand hotel. Knowing the type of venue you desire will help you refine your options and choose a spe- What is cific location down the road. our budget? Who do we want to officiate? “Funding your wedding can Is it important to you to be married by your own church’s minister? be one of the most expensive Do you fantasize about being joined in marriage by a ship’s captain? undertakings you’ll tackle in Or does your mother have her heart set on seeing you married by the your life together as a couple,” rabbi who was there at your bat mitzvah? Just as popular venues book Miller says. “Many couples only spend more on buying a house or car, quickly, favorite officiants also have their dance cards fill fast for pop- or funding their children’s college educations.” Setting and sticking to ular wedding seasons. As soon as you know who you would like to of- a budget for your wedding is an essential step toward starting your mar- ficiate, approach him or her and find out about future availability. ried life on a sound financial footing. Determine where your funding will “Of course there are many, many things to consider when planning come from – if your parents can help or if you’ll be paying on your own a wedding,” Miller said. “But these points are the basics you must ad- – and decide how much you can spend without going into debt. dress, and everything else about your wedding will be planned around your answers to these questions. Once you’ve made these initial deci- What season works? sions, it will be easier to refine your options and decide exactly what will As soon as you announce you’re engaged, people will start asking make your wedding wonderful, memorable and perfect for you.” (ARA) what the wedding date will be. To make answering that question as sim-

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With this Ring ~ January 2012 7 Who pays for what? Traditionally, wedding-related expenses are paid for by the bride, the groom and their families as follows:

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With this Ring ~ January 2012 11 peak to anyone who has tant topics may find that stress or been married for years, arguments arise from miscommuni- cation or misunderstanding. and you will find that com- Taking time to sit down with your munication is the key to a fiancée or fiancé prior to planning S the wedding can help you learn even successful relationship. Before more about your compatibility and However, many couples enter marriage without really knowing their potential for a long-lasting marriage. you tie the knot... spouses, or how they feel about cer- Here are some of the questions you tain beliefs, hopes, aspirations, or can ask each other, which may spark even financial concerns. After the meaningful conversation. (Questions glow of the wedding is over, couples courtesy of WeddingPlanningWork- who haven’t discussed these impor- sheets.com) – (MS)

Finances/home: • Will we keep our money in joint or individual accounts? • What kinds of things will we talk about first before buying? • Who is going to be in charge of paying bills and other expenses? • How much time do we expect to spend with each other and when? • Where will we live? • How much will we be able to afford? • What if one of us had a career opportunity that required a move to a new city? • What if one of us, or both of us, got fired or laid-off? • How important is money to our relationship and marriage? • What type of material possessions are important to you (each other)? • What is your definition of financial security? • How much is enough for a “safety net” or “rainy day” fund? • How much of our income will we save or invest?

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wo out of three married couples consider money a major source of potential Tconflicts in their marriages, according to a survey conducted by the non-profit Consumer Credit Counseling Service. As newlyweds prepare to make exciting plans for their new life together, Loretta Abrams, senior vice president of consumer affairs, HSBC-North America, offers the following tips to help couples address the challenges of managing money together:

ing Thursday night out with your friends or buy- Develop a ing season tickets for your favorite team may Take advantage financial goal. still be in the cards but talk it through so you’re of tax-saving plans. Share your plans together. Create a list of clear about priorities. Create a budget that will If you’re planning to have children, look into short, medium and long-term goals and then let you maximize your income and track your some specific tax-saving accounts or the 529 compare notes (buying a house or a car, hav- actual cash flow to make sure you’re staying plans now. The cost of a higher education is ing children, moving to a new city or starting a within the boundaries you’ve set for yourself. steadily rising, so the prospect of paying for a business). For each goal, figure out how much Usually, it’s a month-to-month projection of the four-year college education is not an insignifi- money you need to get there and how long you amounts allocated to each expense item cant obligation. think it should take. based on your income. When you make a pur- If you have the option of saving for retire- chase or pay a bill, write it down and subtract ment through an employer-sponsored retire- it from the total you planned for that expense. ment plan, such as a 401(k), open an account Decide how to handle Sticking to a budget can be difficult and at immediately. You can defer a certain amount of times frustrating and there’s no guarantee your pretax salary into the account. In many the money. you’ll see huge savings in the short term, but Will the two of you maintain separate ac- cases, your employer will match a portion of these two suggestions may make the process your savings. In this way, you have the double counts and divide up household expenses, or easier: will you maintain separate discretionary ac- advantage of saving money on taxes now and • Go digital – Budgeting software packages building your retirement account for the future. counts with a combined household account? and online resources can help. Most programs Are you willing to merge all finances? Let your can perform basic budgeting tasks as well as individual money personalities dictate the right sophisticated transactions. Build emergency approach for you. If you share similar habits • Keep it simple – Most experts agree that and priorities, combining all finances may be the key to a successful budget is to keep it reserves. the perfect approach. However, if your habits simple and practical. Most of all, be realistic. Be prepared for unexpected events such as are vastly different, it may make sense to If you love going to the movies, don’t drop job loss or major household repairs with an maintain separate accounts. them completely. Instead, try to cut back on emergency account equal to three to six the number of times you go or start a new tra- months’ expenses. To build up this account, dition of movie nights at home. have between 2 and 10 percent of your pay- Create a budget. check automatically deposited into savings – Check your past spending history and cal- consider an online savings account, which of- culate your past debts. You have probably each fers a higher yield and is easy to manage. developed very different money styles. Spend- (NAPS)

With this Ring ~ January 2012 15 Secrets for a long, happy marriage

ome might say a long celebrity mar- trust are often at the basis of good marriages. riage is one that endures the duration There are many other secrets that marriage Sof the newly betrothed’s trip down the experts will offer to couples seeking the magic aisle. We’ve seen Britney Spears dissolve a formula. Whether you’re pondering marriage or marriage after 55 hours and Kim Kardashian have already tied the knot, consider the fol- call it quits after 72 days. It seems even lowing advice to make a marriage endure for money can’t buy matrimonial happiness. the long haul. But some couples have been together for • There’s no such thing as the perfect mar- 50, 60 years and say they’re still as much in riage. Some couples create an image of what love as they were the day they spoke their “I they think marriage is supposed to be, and dos.” What do they know that others do not? that image often goes “poof” once reality sets According to clinical psychologist and rela- in. Even soulmates are bound to frustrate or ir- tionship guru Dr. Phil McGraw, “We all need to ritate one another from time to time. be flexible and to compromise in marriage, but • Couples should express their frustrations. you’ve got to be true to your core traits and Bottling up frustrations can eat at a person characteristics, what I call your authentic self.” and eventually destroy a marriage. Talking Image Courtesy of Glimpse Photography Some couples enter a relationship project- about the things that are bothering you with Divorce can sometimes be the easy way out ing a persona they believe the other person your partner opens up a discussion and can when you think about the work that goes into wants – one that really isn’t what they’re all help you work through things. keeping a marriage working. Experts say that about. This could be a woman trying to fill the • Divorce should not be seen as a viable op- there are a few issues, like adultery, abuse and role of her husband’s nurturing mom or a guy tion. Couples who want to bail on the marriage drug/alcohol addiction, that may be reason- playing the protector to his wife. In reality, mar- at every turn could be directing their energy to- able catalysts for divorce. riage is more of a partnership, and truth and ward divorce as the only solution instead of • Make time for romance. It’s easily said but discovering ways to remove the cause of strife.

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With this Ring ~ January 2012 19 Wedding Services Directory FLORISTSFLORISTS GROOM’SGROOM’S INDOOR/INDOOR/ LIMOLIMO & BUBUSS FESTIVITIES DINNERS OUTDOOROUTDOOR SERVICE 3969 Co. Rd. 116 • Medina HERBY’S BAR & GRILL CEREMONIES ED’S SHUTTLE BUS SERVICE 763-682-4846 211 Main Ave. • Downtown Certifi ed by the State of MN festivitiesmn.com NORTHERN LIGHTS BALLROOM Carlos • 320-852-7170 & BANQUET CENTER INC. 320-760-9554 • 320-763-4400 PARKERS PRAIRIE FLORAL HOLIDAY INN OF ALEXANDRIA Milaca • 320-369-4622 & GREENHOUSE Hwy. 29 & I-94 • 320-763-6577 northernlightsbanquet.com MEN’S BRIDAL 110 W Lake St. • Parkers Prairie Winner of “The Knot” Best of RINGS 218-338-6217 SIXTH AVENUE WINE & ALE Weddings 2012 DIEKMAN’S JEWELRY 115 6th Ave. E • Alexandria THE PHOENIX EVENT CENTER 111 6th Ave. W • Alexandria GIFTS & GIFT 320-759-2277 3904 Co. Rd. 42 NE 320-762-0309 REGISTRIES sixthavenuewineandale.com Alexandria • 320-766-8336 DIEKMAN’S JEWELRY thephoenixeventcenter.com KARROW JEWELERS V.F.W. Alexandria 111 6th Ave. W • Alexandria Hwy. 27 E • Alexandria 628 Broadway • 320-763-3334 320-762-0309 320-763-9221 INVITATIONS Viking Plaza • 320-763-5833 KARROW JEWELERS GEYER WEDDING PAFFRATH DIAMOND Alexandria HAIR STYLISTS & PARTY STORE JEWELERS 628 Broadway • 320-763-3334 LINDA BOEDDEKER 217 McKay Ave. • Alexandria Viking Plaza • 320-763-5833 410 30th Ave. E • Willow Creek Salon LaBelle 320-762-2138 • Fax 320-762-5427 Alexandria • 320-762-8735 PAFFRATH DIAMOND 410 30th Ave. E. • Alexandria JEWELERS 320-759-5660 410 30th Ave. E • Willow Creek JEWELERS OUTDOOR HAIR PROFILES SALON DIEKMAN’S JEWELRY Alexandria • 320-762-8735 & DAY SPA WEDDING 111 6th Ave. W • Alexandria DECORATING 115 5th Ave. W. • Alexandria 320-762-0309 GOWNS & 320-763-3414 GEYER WEDDING DRESSES hairprofi lesdayspa.com/ KARROW JEWELERS & PARTY STORE JACKIE J’S BALLOONS, packages/bridal-packages Alexandria 217 McKay Ave. • Alexandria BRIDAL & FORMAL WEAR 628 Broadway • 320-763-3334 320-762-2138 • Fax 320-762-5427 Viking Plaza • 320-763-5833 520 Broadway • Alexandria HOTELS & 320-762-5163 MOTELS PAFFRATH DIAMOND PARTY SUPPLIES JEWELERS THE SPECIAL EVENT AMERICINN CENTRAL LAKES BOUTIQUE 4520 Hwy. 29 S • Alexandria 410 30th Ave. E • Willow Creek RESTAURANT SUPPLY Alexandria • 320-762-8735 2715 S. 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Rd. 42 NE 115 5th Ave. W. • Alexandria images-forever.com Alexandria • 320-766-8336 320-763-3414 hairprofi lesdayspa.com ZIERDEN WEDDING thephoenixeventcenter.com PHOTOGRAPHY SIXTH AVENUE 320-761-3371 WINE & ALE TABLE DÉCOR [email protected] 115 6th Ave. E • Alexandria CENTRAL LAKES 320-759-2277 RESTAURANT SUPPLY sixthavenuewineandale.com RECEPTIONS & 1228 N Nokomis • Alexandria DANCES V.F.W. 320-762-8435 Hwy. 27 E • Alexandria ARROWWOOD RESORT 320-763-9221 & CONFERENCE CENTER TANNING 2100 Arrowwood Ln. ALLURE TAN Alexandria • 320-762-1124 RECEPTION & 3211 Hwy. 29 S • Alexandria DANCE 320-762-4057 BROADWAY BALLROOM DECORATING 115 30th Ave E • Alexandria 320-763-6565 GEYER WEDDING TEETH & PARTY STORE WHITENING CARLOS CREEK WINERY 217 McKay Ave. • Alexandria ALLURE TAN Co Rd 34, Just N of Alexandria 320-762-2138 • Fax 320-762-5427 3211 Hwy. 29 S • Alexandria 320-846-5443 320-762-4057 carloscreekwinery.com SHOES VEILS & CORRAL SUPPERCLUB TENTS & HEADPIECES Nelson • 320-762-2416 JACKIE J’S BALLOONS, CANOPIES BRIDAL & FORMAL WEAR JACKIE J’S BALLOONS, EAGLES CLUB 520 Broadway •Alexandria GEYER WEDDING BRIDAL & FORMAL WEAR 526 N Nokomis • Alexandria 320-762-5163 & PARTY STORE 520 Broadway •Alexandria 320-763-3063 217 McKay Ave. • Alexandria 320-762-5163 THE SPECIAL EVENT 320-762-2138 • Fax 320-762-5427 FORADA SUPPER CLUB BOUTIQUE THE SPECIAL EVENT Forada • 320-763-4400 2715 S. Hwy. 29 • Midway Mall HPS RENTAL BOUTIQUE 320-762-0633 2715 S. 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With this Ring ~ January 2012 21 Roles of wedding party participants wedding can be a Best man wonderful and Perhaps the most well-known re- memorable experi- sponsibilities of the best man are ence for all of those organizing the bachelor party and involved. That’s why giving the toast at the reception. Ayou ask friends or relatives to But the best man, who is typically share in the event and serve in a brother or best friend of the your wedding party. groom, also has many other re- Your offer is a wonderful honor, sponsibilities. In addition to help- one that requires varying degrees ing the groom choose his tuxedo of responsibility depending on the and get dressed before the wed- role each person will be playing. ding, the best man also coordi- To help you decide who to ask nates the couple’s gift from the to be in your wedding party, here is groomsmen and takes care of the a list of titles and responsibilities newlyweds’ transportation to the for each participant’s role. airport after the reception or the Image Courtesy of Glimpse Photography next morning. The best man may Maid of honor also hold onto any payment that’s The maid of honor is a role typ- shopping trips for her wedding wedding and may also help in the due to the reception site or the ically filled by a sister or a very dress, while also planning the writing of invitations. The maid of donation for the house of worship, close friend. It is the equivalent of bridal shower, bachelorette party honor will also typically act as a and take care of any final finan- the groom’s best man. The maid and coordinating the bridal party witness to the wedding and dance cial details. He also holds the of honor’s role, therefore, is typi- gift for the bride. Also, the maid of with the best man at the recep- bride’s wedding ring during the cally very involved. Among her honor helps the bride get dressed tion. If the woman you’re asking is ceremony. many responsibilities, the maid of on her wedding day, holds the married, her title will be matron of honor accompanies the bride on groom’s wedding ring during the honor.

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With this Ring ~ January 2012 23 Realize the wedding of your dreams with PLANNING here are a few things about weddings that cannot be pre- Book a band or DJ dicted or controlled, such as what Mother Nature will do on Another vendor that tends to have a busy schedule will be the wed- the wedding day. However, there are many items that are well ding entertainer. Early booking ensures your date will be available. Cou- within the control of the bride and groom. Proper planning ples should talk about musical selections and the ways to engage the Tcan help ensure the wedding of their dreams. various generations attending the reception. One of the best ways to ease wedding-day nerves is for the couple to get organized and begin planning their event the moment the engagement period begins. The earlier preparation starts, the better the chance that vendors will be able to provide what’s needed, or that Choose a florist changes can be made when unforeseen events pop up. Flowers add an elegant touch to the wedding day. A florist will often By making a list of things to do, couples can allot time in their provide flowers for both the ceremony and the reception. Select a florist schedules for each task, and they can feel a sense of accomplishment who offers helpful, creative ideas about bouquets, corsages and cen- and relief each time an item is checked off the list. terpieces – and who will deliver in a timely manner. Decide on a date Select and order dresses Couples should select a date for their wedding soon after becoming en- Wedding and bridesmaid gowns can take several months to order and gaged. After all, it is the countdown to this day that will help organize be tailored. It can also take some trial and error finding a dress shop and determine planning schedules. that meets the needs of a bride and her attendants. So it’s best if this fun part of wedding planning is done early on. While there are no set rules for gown selection, it may help if the bride and her attendants all use the same shop so that styles will be complementary and service Reserve a ceremony location and alterations can be organized with minimal fuss. Traditional weddings take place in a house of worship. It’s best to meet with a pastor, rabbi or other officiant to see if the ceremony site will be available for the wedding. This person will also help guide couples Order invitations through any religious requirements needed prior to getting married With a bevy of styles of invitations, there will be many ideas to consider. there, as well as any rules and regulations for the ceremony site. Couples should leave ample time to look through sample books or do research on the Internet. They should decide on a style that best suits their wedding, based on its formality, the time of day and the wedding Book a reception site colors. After securing the ceremony location, couples will have peace of mind knowing they can now book the place where their party will take place. This may be a catering hall, hotel, cruise ship, or even someone’s back- Choose transportation yard. Sometimes the ceremony site is also the reception site, as is the Many couples forget to factor limousine or car rentals into their plans. case in many second weddings. Catering directors are typically on hand Whether it’s a limo, Rolls, horse-drawn carriage, or a party bus, the bride to talk about pricing and options. They will work closely with the cou- and groom should arrange for transportation for themselves and their ple to plan and execute the reception. attendants to and from the church and reception. Select a photographer Photographers tend to book very quickly, par- ticularly if they are well recommended. It pays Find formal wear to research and choose one early in the wed- Tuxedo rentals are quite popular for weddings. ding-planning process. Every photographer has If the wedding is taking place during a peak a different style. The couple should select one party season, such as prom time, it pays for who will not only be accommodating to their couples to reserve tuxes several months in wishes, but who will also suggest ideas that advance. All of the groomsmen should rent may not have been considered, such as artis- from the same shop to be uniform. tic black and white prints or photo journalism- type images. The photographer’s personality is With these decisions made, the bride- and very important. He or she will be spending the groom-to-be have only a few things left to do, entire day with the couple and should be lik- such as selecting wedding favors, addressing able and personable. Couples should also find invitations and purchasing thank-you gifts. out if the photographer they speak with at the (MS) studio will be the one shooting the wedding. Some companies have several photographers Image Courtesy of Glimpse Photography on hand.

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he average couple will spend between $20,000 and • Consider having automatic transfers or deposits into an account $30,000 on their wedding, a figure that does not include for forced savings. Many employers can deposit a portion of your pay- additional expenses such as an engagement ring or honey- check into a separate account. moon. For many, that is 50 percent more than they have ac- • Eliminate debt right away. It may seem counterproductive, but some- Ttually budgeted for the occasion. Underestimating wedding expenses times you have to spend money to save money. Instead of racking up can lead to financial distress even before the marriage has begun. high interest rate charges on credit card balances, pay down credit In the not-so-distant past, weddings were largely financed by the cards or other bills you have. Once you are in the clear, you can focus bride and her parents. Things are much different now. Most weddings more on saving for the wedding. now are paid for by the bride and groom with little contribution from • If need be, have a long engagement so that you have ample time family. Young couples just starting out in life may find that weddings to save. are more of a financial commitment than originally anticipated. Plan- ning for the expected – and unexpected – can help couples survive Setting a budget Many couples want a dream wedding but do not have the finances wedding expenses. to afford a platinum event. But that doesn’t mean they still can’t have Savings plan a lavish, beautiful wedding. Setting a budget means you can prioritize With most couples paying for the majority of the wedding themselves, what you want and what you will pass up. It also provides a savings it will be up to them to come up with the bulk of the wedding finances. goal and a firm deadline. Starting to save early is essential. Once you have set the date, begin • Shop around for the average rates of vendors in your area. Work on saving immediately. Even if the wedding won’t be a lavish affair, it will the big-ticket items first before focusing on the smaller details. Once you still have some expenses. have average prices, you’ll have something to base your budget on. • To save, consider curbing recreational spending. Cut dinners out, • Add up the average costs of all of the items on your wish list. If it trips to the movies or non-essential purchases. Place the money you seems out of range, start removing things you can do without. For ex- would’ve spent into a wedding account. ample, can you have a brunch reception instead of an evening sit-down

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The agreeagreement Kraus-Anderson has The Early Childhood ment Family Education’s an- turnturnout – even with the is ffor $1$1.8 8 millio million.n extensive experienexperience in ce in nual “Big Vehicle Day” an- rainrainy weather,” said Paul Ringdahl with school construction, suc- Day” ConnConnie Good, ECFE di- Ringdahl Architects cessfully completing took placece SaturdaySaturda at the Douglas Countyy at rectorector. “It’s fun for the spoke to the board about more than 275 pre- uglas County kids to get up close with kindergarten-12th grade Fairgrounds.nds. the contract, noting that, Aidan Halvorson, with help from Shawn Klingbiel, had a chance to all ththe vehicles.” “We got what we asked schools for numerous Betweenen 350 and 404000 Automatic INSIDE: see how the remote control device worked for a cement truck. people attended the The vehicles and attended th for,” and that it was a re- CONSTRUCTION e equipequipment were donated your bank account each month. Stop by the event, includingncluding mmoreore CLC streakFirm snapped is ranked for Card15th volleyball nationallyA3 team by tthe city, county, than 150 children. B2 They enjoyed getting WEDNESDAY I OCTOBER 13 I 2010 ECHO PRESS B1 njoyed getting VEHICLE A10 SportsSports Display requests encouraged Debits! Runestone in limelight ABOUT THE PRESENTERS Echo Press offi ce at 225 7th Ave. E., Alexandria By Celeste Beam THE PRESENTERS THE WINNER’SWINNER’S [email protected] LEARN MORE mentary footage. • Dr. Richardrd Nielsen has been researesearchingrch the Kensington CardsCard battle Tomorrow, Runestone for the past three decades here and abroad and has The Kensington Runestone is once or the CIRCLE past three decades here again in the limelight. For more information September 30, been collaborating with Professor Henrik Viking Speedway about the American the two will be with feature winners on The controversial stone is part of a Williams since meetingmeeting him in 2002. To further discussion in the North American Association for Runic inspecting the Saturday, October 9, 2010 his research on the KensingtonKensi Runestone, Lecture Tour, which began last week Studies (AARS), visit Runestone and Nielsen recently iinitiatednitiated a 33D imaging project in California and continues this week www.runicstudies.org. doing more in- of the stone using state of tthe art technology. topp tteams in or send your e-mail to terviews for the in Alexandria. Evaluation of the results is ongoing with Pro- Participating in the tour is Profes- [email protected]. documentary. fessor Williams. Nielson and sor Henrik Williams of Uppsala Uni- Nielsen • Professor Henrik Williams holds the profes- or call 320 763 3133 to sign up today. versity in Sweden and Dr. Richard Williams will give a presentation at Alexandria sorship in ScandinScandinavianavian LangLanguages at Uppsala Nielsen from Houston, Texas. Technical and Community College University. He is primarily a phphilologist, teaching Williams and Nielson will tour the on Thursday from 3:15 to 5:15 p.m. and doing research in RunoloRunology, Old Swedish Abrahamson LionsLion Invite Swenson town of Kensington along with the The event, which is free and open to and Old Icelandic, but he is aalso interested in MOD 4 STREET Kensington Runestone Park, Kens- the public, is part of the regularly names, both on perpersons and on places. He has Echo Press file photo sons and o Will Sieling’sSieling’sThe Kensington eeighth Runestonemeter will be mark,”ington NelsenHeritage said. Society and more scheduled Senior College. 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Processional ______Vows ______Recessional ______Opening Words______Ring Exchange ______Symbolic Rituals ______Giving Away Blessing ______Unity Candle ______Music Choices ______Readings ______Benediction ______Reception Music ______Prayers ______Closing Words ______Other ______

Plan Your Wedding Day Your Wedding Day Time Table

TIME TIME TIME • Getting Up • Receiving Line • Reception Meal

• Dressing • Formal Group Photos • Cake Cutting

• Leaving for • Leaving for • Bridal Dance the Ceremony the Reception & Dancing

• Photos Before • Bride & Groom • Cocktail Hour the Ceremony Change Clothes

• Arriving At • Bride & Groom • Parents & Guests Arrive the Reception Leave Reception • Wedding Ceremony • Toast By Best Man • Reception Ends Begins

With this Ring ~ January 2012 31 Bride’s Wedding Planner Checklist The details involved in wedding planning may seem overwhelming at times. Here is a helpful checklist to keep you on track: ❒ Reconfirm accommodations for out- 6 to 12 months before 2 months before of-town guests. ❒ Arrange to have possessions and ❒ Select a wedding date and time. ❒ Address invitations and announce- gifts moved to your new home. Give Make a preliminary budget. ments. They should be mailed four to a change-of-address card to the post ❒ Determine the type of wedding you six weeks before the wedding. office. want. ❒ Finalize all details with caterer, pho- ❒ Finish addressing announcements to ❒ Reserve your ceremony and recep- tographer, florist, reception hall man- be mailed on the wedding day. tion location. ager, musicians, etc. ❒ Determine who will officiate at the ❒ Order wedding cake, if not supplied ceremony. by caterer. 1 week before ❒ Hire a wedding consultant, if you plan ❒ Finalize ceremony details with to use one. officiant. ❒ ❒ ❒ Contact guests who have not re- Decide on your color scheme. Make rehearsal arrangements. sponded. ❒ Determine your wedding theme or ❒ Plan rehearsal dinner. ❒ ❒ Give the final count to the caterer style. Plan bridesmaids’ luncheon. and review details. ❒ Determine the size of the guest list. ❒ Make appointment with hairdresser. ❒ ❒ ❒ Go over final details with all profes- Start compiling names and addresses Arrange accommodations for out-of- sional services you have engaged. In- of guests. town attendants or guests. form them of any changes. ❒ Select bridal attendants. ❒ Finalize honeymoon plans. ❒ ❒ Give photographer the list of pictures Have fiance select attendants. you want. ❒ Plan reception. ❒ ❒ Give all musicians the lists of music Check catering facilities, if at a club 1 month before for the ceremony and reception. or hotel. ❒ Plan the seating arrangements. ❒ ❒ Have a final fitting for your gown and Select a caterer, if one is necessary. ❒ Arrange for someone to assist with ❒ bridal attendants’ dresses. Select a professional photographer. last-minute seating errands and to ❒ ❒ Have a formal bridal portrait done. Select a reliable, creative florist. help you dress. ❒ ❒ Complete all physical or dental ap- Select your dress and headpiece. ❒ Practice having your hair done to ❒ pointments. Announce your engagement in the make sure it comes out properly, and ❒ Get blood test and marriage license. newspaper. determine the time it will take. ❒ ❒ Make transportation arrangements Select bridesmaids’ dresses. ❒ Practice using your make-up in the ❒ for wedding day. Select engagement ring with fiance, if same type of lighting you will have on ❒ Purchase gifts for attendants. he has not already done so. the wedding date. ❒ Purchase gift for fiance, if gifts are ❒ Keep up with the writing of your being exchanged. 4 months before thank-you notes. ❒ Have the bridesmaids’ luncheon. ❒ Pack your suitcase for the honey- ❒ Make final arrangements for ❒ Purchase going away outfit. moon. ceremony (deposits should be paid, ❒ Keep a careful record of all gifts re- ❒ Make sure you have the marriage li- contracts signed). ceived (write thank-you notes imme- cense. ❒ Make sure all bridal attire is ordered. diately instead of letting them pile ❒ Make sure you have the wedding ❒ Have both mothers coordinate and up). rings, and they fit. select their dresses. ❒ Make sure you have all accessories, ❒ Make sure all wedding attire is picked ❒ Register at a bridal registry in the toasting goblets, ring pillow, garter, up and fits. towns of both families. candles, etc. ❒ Have a rehearsal with all participants, ❒ Order invitations and personal sta- ❒ Select a responsible person to han- reviewing their duties. tionery. dle guest book and determine its lo- ❒ Attend a rehearsal dinner party. Stay ❒ Complete the guest lists and compile cation. calm and enjoy yourself. them in order. ❒ Select the men’s wedding attire and reserve the right sizes. 2 weeks before ❒ Check requirements for blood test Congratulations! and marriage license in your state. ❒ Attend to business and legal details. ❒ Make appointment for physical exam Get necessary forms to change You’re ready (if your state requires one). names on Social Security card, ❒ Shop for wedding rings. driver’s license, insurance and med- for a wonderful ❒ Start planning the honeymoon. ical plans, bank accounts; make a ❒ Decide where you will live after the will. wedding day! wedding. ❒ Prepare wedding announcements to ❒ be sent to the newspaper. Begin shopping for trousseau. Source: The Beverly Clark Collection

32 With this Ring ~ January 2012 Groom’s Wedding Planner Checklist The bride is not the only one with planning to do! Here’s what the groom should do before the big day:

6 to 12 months before 4 months before 2 weeks before ❒ Purchase the bride’s engagement ❒ Shop with fiancee for wedding rings. ❒ Together with fiancee, gather neces- ring. ❒ Complete your guest list, including sary documents and get your mar- ❒ Discuss with fiancee the date and full names, addresses and ZIP codes riage license. type of wedding. with phone numbers. ❒ Arrange wedding day transportation. ❒ Start on your guest list. ❒ Check requirements for blood test ❒ Reconfirm accommodations for out- ❒ Choose best man and ushers. and marriage license in your state, or of-town guests. ❒ Start planning and making necessary the state in which you are being mar- ❒ If moving, give change of address arrangements for the honeymoon. ried. card to post office; arrange to have ❒ Discuss and plan, with fiancee, your ❒ Select and order men’s wedding at- utilities and phone service turned on new home together. If fiancee is tire with your fiancee. in new home. If not moving, finish moving in with you, start cleaning out ❒ Finalize all honeymoon plans and cleaning and reorganizing your home; closets, cupboards and drawers to send in deposits if required (don’t help your fiancee move her things. make room for your bride and delay — some resorts fill up fast in ❒ Have your hair cut. wedding gifts. popular months). 1 week before Don’t forget to 2 months before ❒ Discuss all final details with fiancee; honor the groomsmen ❒ Meet with officiant to finalize cere- offer to assist if needed. mony details. ❒ Pick up and try on wedding attire. eddings are all about the ❒ brides, or so it would seem. ❒ Assist parents with plans for the re- See that attendants get their wedding While all eyes are on the bride, hearsal dinner party. attire. W ❒ the groom sometimes goes unnoticed. ❒ Discuss the amount and the financial Pack clothes for honeymoon. One person who shouldn’t fail to no- arrangement for the flowers that are ❒ Reconfirm all honeymoon reserva- tice the groomsmen is the groom himself. the groom’s responsibility. tions. Groomsmen can and often do have sig- ❒ Arrange accommodations for out-of- ❒ If flying, make sure you have plane nificant responsibilities. A good groom town attendants. tickets. should recognize the efforts of his ❒ See to it that you and your attendants groomsmen and give gifts as an acknowl- are at the rehearsal and that they edgement of their efforts. Following are some gift ideas: know their duties. 1 month before ❒ Go over special seating or pew cards ❒ with ushers. Commemorate See that all attendants have been fit- ❒ ted and wedding attire has been or- Make sure luggage is in the car or the reception. dered. the hotel where you will stay your Men tend to focus on the celebratory ❒ first night. aspects of the day. Grooms can give a per- Purchase gifts for best man and ush- ❒ ers. Attend rehearsal dinner. Relax and sonalized gift as a means of commemorat- enjoy yourself. ing the day. ❒ Purchase wedding gifts for fiancee, if gifts are being exchanged. Back to the ❒ Pick up wedding rings. Make sure they fit. Congratulations! bachelor party. ❒ Take care of business and legal af- These days, weekend getaways are a You’re ready common theme to many bachelor parties. fairs (add bride’s name to insurance Consider gifts that evoke memories of that policies and medical plans, make a for a wonderful special weekend where you were the new will, add her name to joint check- guest of honor. ing account or joint charge cards). wedding day! ❒ If you have both agreed to a pre-nup- tial agreement, have it drawn up and Go the more signed. fanciful route. For grooms whose wedding will be an elegant affair, celebrate that elegance by giving each of your groomsmen an en- Source: The Beverly Clark Collection graved pocket watch. (MS)

With this Ring ~ January 2012 33 Wedding Budget Planner Wedding parties Ceremony Engagement party $ ______Location fee $ ______Bridesmaids’ lunch $ ______Officiant fee $ ______Rehearsal dinner $ ______Marriage license $ ______Out-of-town guests’ brunch $ ______Decorations $ ______Other $ ______Program printing $ ______TOTAL $ ______Aisle runner $ ______Correspondence Rings $ ______Pillow $ ______Stationery $ ______Other $ ______Invitations $ ______TOTAL $ ______Announcements $ ______Thank-you cards $ ______Music At-home cards $ ______Ceremony musicians $ ______Stamps $ ______Band/DJ $ ______Other $ ______Extra musicians $ ______TOTAL $ ______Other $ ______Bridal attire TOTAL $ ______Wedding dress $ ______Flowers Alterations $ ______Ceremony arrangements $ ______Headpiece and veil $ ______Bride’s bouquet $ ______Shoes $ ______Groom’s boutonniere $ ______Accessories $ ______Bridesmaids’ bouquets $ ______Jewelry $ ______Corsages and boutonnieres $ ______Dresses for other wedding parties $ ______Flower girl/ringbearer $ ______Undergarments $ ______Reception centerpieces $ ______Hair styling $ ______Other $ ______Manicure/pedicure $ ______TOTAL $ ______Cosmetics $ ______Skin care $ ______Photography/Videography Other $ ______Engagement portrait $ ______TOTAL $ ______Wedding and reception $ ______Groom’s attire Wedding album $ ______Parents’ albums $ ______Tuxedo $ ______Extra prints $ ______Shoes $ ______Videography $ ______Cuff links $ ______Other $ ______Hair styling $ ______TOTAL $ ______Other $ ______TOTAL $ ______

34 With this Ring ~ January 2012 Wedding Budget Planner

Transportation Honeymoon Limousines $ ____ Transportation $ ____ Buses/transport for guests $ ____ Accommodations $ ____ Parking $ ____ Food $ ____ Other $ ____ Clothing $ ____ TOTAL $ ____ Entertainment $ ____ Reception Other $ ____ TOTAL $ ____ Reception site fee $ ____ Decorations $ ____ Miscellaneous Hors d’ oeuvres $ ____ Wedding consultant $ ____ Main meal $ ____ Guest favors $ ____ Wedding cake $ ____ Birdseed or confetti packets $ ____ Groom’s cake $ ____ Guest book and pen $ ____ Other dessert $ ____ Misc. fees and tips $ ____ Cake top $ ____ Other $ ____ Cake knife $ ____ TOTAL $ ____ Wine $ ____ Champagne $ ____ Other beverage $ ____ Total Wedding Budget $ ______Toasting glasses $ ____ Place cards $ ____ Notes Monogrammed napkins $ ____

Rental of tableware, tents, ______furniture, etc. $ ____ Tips and fees to food servers, ______doormen, coat check, valet, etc. $ ____ Other $ ______TOTAL $ ______

Gifts ______Gifts to each other $ ____ Matron (maid) of honor $ ______Best man $ ____ Bridesmaids/groomsmen $ ______Parents $ ______Other $ ____ TOTAL $ ______

With this Ring ~ January 2012 35 Ceremony Planner

Date ______Time ______Address ______

Officiant(s) ______Contact ______Phone ______

Officiant(s) Phone# ______Fee ______

Location ______Rehearsal Date ______Time ______

Ceremony Music Selections: # of rows reserved ______# of people ______Pew 1 ______Pew 1 ______Pew 2 ______Pew 2 ______Pew 3 ______Pew 3 ______Pew 4 ______Pew 4 ______Photography Videography Photographer ______Videographer ______Address ______Address______Email ______Email ______Contact ______Phone ______Contact______Phone ______Number of Hours Booked______Number of Hours Booked ______Package Package Description ______Price ______Description ______Price ______Number of Photos to be taken ______Number of hours Total Taping______Date Previews Will Be Ready ______Date Finished Tape Will Be Ready______Additional Reprints Costs ______Cost of Additional Copies ______

Contacts & Important Phone Numbers FLOWERS Florist ______BRIDE’S ATTIRE Phone______Bridal Shop ______Address ______Consultant______Contact ______Fitting Date(s) ______Address ______CAKE Phone______Bakery ______PIck-Up Date______Phone______Address ______GROOM’S ATTIRE Contact ______Tuxedo Store______Consultant______STATIONERY Fitting Date(s) ______Printer/Stationer ______Address ______Contact ______Phone# ______Phone______Address ______PIck-Up Date______Order Date ______Date Ready ______#Ceremony Guests______#Reception Guests ______

36 With this Ring ~ January 2012 Reception Planner

Date ______Time______Location______Phone# ______Address______Food Service Time ______Contact ______Cost ______Deposit ______Cancellation Terms ______Does the facilty provide... Dinner/Reception Music Access for Decorating? ______Group/Band/DJ ______Dance Floor? ______Contact ______Security? ______Phone# ______Adequate Parking? ______Playing From ______to ______Setup? ______Cleanup? ______Need Early Set-up Time?______Servers? ______How Many? ______Cost ______Deposit ______Bartenders? ______How Many? ______Balance Due ______When? ______Tables & Chairs? ______Handicap Access? ______Valet Parking? ______Catering Planner Caterer ______Address______Phone# ______Service Date______Time______Contact ______Reception Location ______Price ______

Menu ______

Liquor & Beverages Cost Supplier______Contact ______Per Person______X # of Guests ______Address______=Total $ ______Phone# ______Pick-up/Deliver ______Does Cost Cover Open Bar from ______to ______All Necessary Equipment? ______Cash Bar from ______to ______China & Flatware? ______Champagne for Toast ______Wine(s) for Dinner ______Room Setup? ______Taxes & Gratuity? ______Other Beverages ______Cost ______Cake Cutting? ______

With this Ring ~ January 2012 37 Gift Registry

Store ______Store ______Address ______Address ______Phone#______Phone#______

Dinnerware Formal Informal Stemware Formal Informal Flatware Formal Informal Store ______Store ______Store ______Qty Qty Qty Qty Qty Qty Dinner Plates ______Water Goblets ______Teaspoons ______Salads/Dessert Plates ______Wine Goblets ______Salad Forks ______Bread & Butter Plates ______Champagnes/Flutes ______Place Forks ______Cups & Saucers ______Juice Glasses ______Place Knives ______Soup Bowls ______Low Tumblers ______Place/Soup Spoons ______Serving Bowls ______High Tumblers ______Iced Tea Spoons ______Platters ______Butter Spreaders ______Table Linen Store Qty Serving Tablespoons ______Serveware Runner ______Pierced Tablespoons ______& Giftware Store Qty Cloth ______Cold Metal Fork ______Salt & Pepper ______Napkins ______Butter Knife ______Gravy Boat ______Mats ______Sugar Spoon ______Platter ______Napkin Rings ______Gravy Ladle ______Bread Tray ______Cocktail Fork ______Serving Tray ______Casserole Spoon ______Vegetable Dish ______Cookware Store Qty Pastry Server ______Covered Casserole ______Sauce Pans ______Hostess Set ______Chafing Dish ______1 Qt. ______Serve Set ______Salad Bowl ______2 Qt. ______Storage Chest ______Ind. Salad Bowls ______3 Qt. ______Silver Keepers ______Salad Server ______4 Qt. ______Butter Dish ______Double Boiler ______Kitchenware Store Qty Relish Dish ______Skillets ______Measuring Cups/Spoons ______Chip n’ Dip ______Small ______Cutlery Set ______Sugar & Creamer ______Medium ______Cutting Board ______Coffee/Tea Set ______Large ______Nonstick Utensils ______Water Pitcher ______Dutch Oven ______Colanders ______Punch Bowl Set ______Roaster ______Rolling Pin ______Demitasse Cups ______Stock Pot ______Graters ______Cordial Set ______Pressure Cooker ______Garlic Press ______Candlesticks ______Tea Kettle ______Ice-Cream Scoop ______Place Plates ______Bowl Set ______Timer ______Coaster Set ______Wok ______Storage Containers ______Vase ______Baking Sheets ______Bowl ______Linens & Trivet ______Decor Store Qty Accessories Store Qty Appliances Store Qty Table Lamps ______Bath Towels ______Toaster ______Floor Lamps ______Hand Towels ______Mixer ______Clocks ______Washcloths ______Blender ______Picture Frames ______Hamper ______Food Processor ______Rugs ______Scale ______Coffee Maker ______Magazine Rack ______Shower Curtain ______Electric Skillet ______Mirrors ______Bath Mat/Rug ______Can Opener ______Artwork ______Soap Dispenser ______Slow Cooker ______Toothbrush Holder ______Popcorn Popper ______

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