thefeminist sirenmagazine of the asuo women’s center the siren spring 2010 editor-in-chief jennifer busby photo max barkley design jennifer busby words jennifer busby miranda burrows laura castleman megan kelly erin mcgladrey brandy ota publisher brandy ota office emu suite 3 university of oregon eugene, oregon 97402 email [email protected] phone 541.346.4095 fax 541.346.0620

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OFFICIAL BUSINESS The Siren is published and produced by the ASUO Women’s Center. We are the only student-led feminist publication on campus. It is our mission to cover contemporary feminist issues and act as an outlet for the creative and intellectual development of women. Our staff consists of an editorial board ofW omen’s Center staff who solicit contributions from volunteer writers and artists. cover photo / jennifer busby THE SIREN SPRING TWENTYTEN INSIDE THIS ISSUE

contributors 04 credit where credit is due editor’s letter 05 leaving winter behind our bodies, ourselves 06 us health care: progress or procrastination? momentum 07 sharing the story of our first orgasms news//response 08 pollution and acid burn recovery garden guide 10 learn what to plant this spring wonder women 12 showing the classical music world who’s boss recipe 14 throw a party your grandfather would be proud of art star 18 women of yore learn what vibrators are for poetry 20 ellisa hall: “small mouths” inside the wc 21 available resources allies 22 jackson katz speaks up do-it-yourself 24 fold and mail stationery reviews 25 tegan and sara, american genocide, and “bitches” feminist fun page 28 color a cunt across intersections 29 women of jazz

the siren 3 contributors erin mcgladrey Erin McGladrey is the owner of an extremely extensive hat collection, which only her true confidants are worthy of witnessing.T hese hats come in large part from her two grandmothers and her spinster great-aunt. No wonder they are given to her – she has a lovely face, perfect for framing with an elegant hat. She has a keen interest in women who never marry or partner. Not only is this true, but she has – gasp – never made a Jell-O mold. Erin works as the Office Coordinator at the Women’s Center.

MARIO BATTAGLIA Mario Battaglia is an ultimate frisbee fanatic (way more than is healthy) with lesser addictions to rock climbing, Sweet Life pies, and, of course, crosswords. His favorite place to go is and will always be the beach (in order to play frisbee - what else?!). He loves traveling, particularly due to his interest in archaeology, his major when he was an undergraduate at UO. He dreams of becoming an Indiana Jones-type person who works with indig- enous groups in cultural revitalization efforts. Since graduating the UO, Mario has been looking into graduate school and joining the Peace Corps.

BRANDY OTA Brandy Ota’s favorite place to be is her garden. Not only does she enjoy the actual act of gardening (weeding, planting, et cetera), but she also takes great joy in sleeping dreamily next to the red leaf cabbage. She also loves to hang out with her two wonderful kids, Circe and Melia, in said excellent garden. In this issue she brings us a snazzy planting guide, so haul your garden tools out and get ready to get dirty. Brandy Ota is the Director of the Women’s Center. WRITE IT DOWN YOU REPORT, WE DECIDE IF YOU’RE GOOD ENOUGH EMAIL SIRENWC AT GMAIL DOT COM

4 the siren editor’s letter Celebrating our collective strength

April lifts my spirits. Spring blossoms have given way to softly unfolding leaves. Trees that used to look like clusters of twigs are lush, transformed. Grass that was once soggy underfoot is supple and green. In these halting days of spring, sunshine washes grey from our memories. We can do anything. It is important, however, not to forget the struggles of fall and winter. The last months have been tumultuous ones. Despite the vandalism of the LGBTQA and weekly meetings of the Pacifica Forum, student activism is strong. Rather than being stumbling blocks, these events have galvanized a community of people who genuinely care about how students at this university feel. In my three years here, I have yet to feel such a strong sense of community and caring as I have in the past weeks. It is difficult to balance being a student with activism (amidst the myriad other pursuits many pursue), and I applaud those who have worked diligently to remove the Pacifica Forum from the EMU. As a journalist, I am a strong proponent of free, uncensored speech, but cases like these point to censorship rules more like those of Canada, where harm is also included in the equation. Does harboring a neo-nazi group on campus harm the student population? Yes, allies, we also have a responsibility to ask, “What’s best for you?” resoundingly. without the expectation of an answer. I pose that question to you While the hate speech of extremist groups is clearly intolerable, now. What changes would you like to see? How can I provide a words that have worked their way into common vernacular do daily magazine that better represents you? harm to all of us. Words like “guys” and “chicks” are pervasive and This issue is packed with tools to help you do-it-yourself this serve only to undermine gender equality. In the coming weeks, spring. Plant a garden, even if all you have is a cramped windowsill; challenge yourself to think about how our language carries bias. learn how to interrupt sexist violence; and tie on the apron of a Start conversations with those around you about the words we use. fifties homemaker. Fortunately, it’s easy to cut the strings and come What feels good to us? What doesn’t? back to the real world, where beef aspic isn’t a requisite party dish. It is easier to get behind a movement to oust holocaust deniers The Siren has undergone some significant changes since its last than it is to recognize the more subtle, more pervasive harms that printing. Let me know what you think of the content, as always, we inflict on each other daily. As a queer white woman, I am caged but comments on the new layout are encouraged as well. I aim by intersecting identities that both grant me privileges and oppress to represent the feminist community at the university; having a me. I’m working to develop a better understanding of my identity, magazine is a wonderful way to get our voices heard. At the same as I’m sure many of you are. time, I can’t do it alone. Despite my wonderful staff, your input I am privileged to work with the Sexual Wellness Advocacy Team; is vital. Send me an email at [email protected] or stop by the I have a safe space where I can discuss issues of racial, gender, and Women’s Center on Tuesdays at 3 p.m. for our Spring meetings. sexual identity; I have access to articles and speakers most students will never contact. Because of this privilege, I owe others patience and understanding. We do not all have access to the same level of education. At the same time, I’ll be the first to admit that I don’t have all the answers. I’m not perfect. My experiences this month at the Adolescent Sexuality Conference in Seaside, Ore. hit this point home. Instead of picking at the flaws of those who do not have access to the warm, educational environment of the Women’s Center; who have not read bell hooks and Judith Butler; who are still negotiating the legality of sex; and are still struggling with blossoming bodies and identity, I have a responsibility to mentor these youth. I have a responsibility to share my education without judging theirs. As feminists, we have a responsibility to reach into the communities around us and learn from them. We also have a responsibility to hear the visions that other communities see. As JENNIFER BUSBY, EDITOR-IN-CHIEF

the siren 5 our bodies, our health inching closer to coverage what works in the new health care bill and what doesn’t

WORDS BY laura castleman inally, it seems like the US Obama signed an executive Fhas caught up to the many People with pre-existing conditions are still four order clarifying that the Hyde other countries with health care years away from financial relief. Amendment (an amendment for all citizens. The health care that restricts federal funds from bill contains excellent changes. providing abortions except For example, it eliminates the total) towards abstinence-only room for unhappy heterosexual in cases of rape, incest, or in possibility for citizens with education. These programs marriages or for ‘psychologically cases where a woman’s life is pre-existing conditions to be teach that abstinence is the and physically harmful’ threatened by pregnancy) still denied coverage. It enables our only fail-proof way to avoid homosexual sex. Then again, stood. tax dollars to pay for the health pregnancy and STIs, and they what’s surprising about that? Though it has been argued care of those less fortunate than also teach that sexual intercourse Many parts of the bill, that this order was merely others. In the same way that tax out of wedlock is likely to cause including protection for those clarifying, this is not true: the dollars pay for the maintenance “harmful psychological and with pre-existing conditions, Hyde Amendment was attached of public roads, the public physical effects.” and the insurance exchange to an appropriations bill and school system, and forces There are plenty of excuses aspect of the bill (basically therefore would have needed intended to help us like police made for abstinence only sex a marketplace for people to to be reinstated every year. This and firefighters, tax dollars will education, but at the end of compare insurance company gave ample opportunity for it now provide doctor visits and the day, providing high school packages) will not go into effect to be overturned. But executive hospital services to all citizens of students with abstinence-only until 2014, despite President orders, like the one that the US. education is akin to infecting Obama’s wishes. Ideally, the President Obama just signed, Oddly enough, plenty of them with syphilis. A study councils in charge of working don’t have to be reinstated people who enjoy driving by the nonpartisan National out the details have plenty of each year and only can be around on government roads Campaign to Prevent Teen and time to ensure that there are rescinded by the president. This and sending their kids to public Unplanned Pregnancy shows no loopholes in the system executive order makes the Hyde schools take issue with federal that abstinence-only education before revealing it to the public. Amendment stronger and more health care. Health care services, does nothing to stop teens from Hopefully, this will mean difficult to defeat. Its signing like public infrastructure are having sex—all it does is fail to fewer flaws that opponents can provided necessary votes to pass essential to the success of this teach them ways to have safe(r) attack. However, it also means the health care bill, meaning nation. Many aspects of the new sex. that for those with pre-existing that women’s health and rights coverage are worth celebrating, Not only that, but abstinence- conditions (such as diabetes), have been traded for the bill’s but other aspects of the health only curriculum is blatantly they are still four years away passage. Despite the step toward care bill are disappointing. heteronormative: if you can’t from financial relief. health care for all people, it’s For example, the bill have sex until you’re married, To ensure passage of the bill, hard to be proud of a country contains $50 million per year and you can’t get married if the rights of women were traded that uses the rights of half its for five years ($250 million you’re gay, that leaves only in return for votes. President population as a trading tool. 6 the siren momentum IF THIS VAGINA COULD TALK

words by megan kellY photo by max barkley

t. Catherine’s University women’s college and a Catholic students addressed issues that sexuality. in St. Paul, Minnesota school. The school has an felt of utmost importance to In an effort to show the Sis a “women’s college at active Women’s Center and them. “A lot of people wrote unique nature of every heart.” Its mission statement Women’s Studies department, about the first time they got person’s story, Vasquez is is to be “committed to the and works to empower women their periods, or about losing working to illustrate each story education of women and the through education. However, it their virginity, or their first with a fitting piece of art, values this commitment implies: also uses its ties to its religious orgasm,” she said, “but I had a whether through illustration, collaboration, respect for diverse foundation to justify the really hard time deciding what photography, printmaking, or voices and perspectives, and banning of such works as the to write about… I wanted to do drawing. challenging conventional norms decade-old Vagina Monologues, something unique.” Readers are welcome to while adhering to the highest stating that it is incompatible As Savage and the other do so either by writing their academic standards.” with the school’s Catholic belief women at the St. Kate’s own monologue to create a The school administration’s system. Women’s Center struggled with personal version of the Vagina respect for diverse voices and The Vagina Monologues is how to tell their stories, UO’s Monologues or by writing a challenging of conventional added to every year to keep Priscilla Vasquez, a masters in submission for Vasquez’s project. norms has stretched so far as to up with current issues facing fine arts tudent, undertook a Those wishing to submit the allow their Women’s Center to women and their bodies. This similar project of her own. story of their orgasm can send write their own version of the year, unofficial additions are Vasquez is working on a it to [email protected]. Vagina Monologues, but only, popping up all around St. multimedia project telling the Submissions can be anonymous of course, after the University Kate’s campus to reflect the story of her own and others’ first and will not be shared without banned the performance of the experiences of its student body. orgasms. permission from the writer. official version of the play. Hannah Savage, a sophomore Her project revolves around Schools like St. Kate’s often at St. Kate’s this year, was one the idea of people having the struggle with a dual identity of the students participating in opportunity to tell the moment of balancing both being a the movement. She and other in which they discovered their the siren 7 news//response SURVIVORS HEAL THROUGH SONG, DANCE

WORDS BY MIRANDA BURROWS

ave you ever been as women first, she went on to inflicting acid burns go to jail visas. According to Karim, the punished for a crime that say, “they’re not crying--why for life, and serve the death US Embassy should extend visas Hyou did not commit? Even am I crying?” Karim sought penalty if the woman dies of on humanitarian grounds. something as little as being sent to help and learn from the her injuries. The rates have, Karim had the honor of into the corner for writing on women rather than mourn their hence, gone down. Except watching Fifth Note prepare the wall when in truth your victimization. for a minority of people, and perform at the tenth brother is the culprit? Most of the women were Bangladesh sees acid burning anniversary. They were “singing, In Bangladesh, dozens of adolescents at the time of the as a crime. Those who support dancing, putting flowers in their women are scarred with acid acid attacks. Right afterwards, capital punishment agree with hair” Karim reminisces, her face burns. A wronged suitor, angry there was ample help for their the death penalty. Those who lighting up as she talks about that a particular women does physical problems--some had support life imprisonment how excited the women were. not share his romantic passion, skin graft surgeries to help agree that the women’s attackers The girl whose father put acid will flick acid on her, aiming to ameliorate their injuries. It is should serve life in jail. in her mouth in her infancy maim and physically damage. unknown whether or not any Huq emphasized that despite is now a dancer, about 7 years A potential groom becomes psychological help was offered their disfigurement, people old. A picture of her shows furious that the intended to them. should be reminded that these her brimming with happiness, bride’s family cannot provide a These women are now part of women are not merely statistics. dancing, dressed up, doing dowry. Disputes over property a musical group called Ponchom They are mothers, daughters, what she knows best. A lot of sometimes end in this kind of Shur, or“Fifth Note;” once led sisters, and friends. When UO their songs were sad, and Karim violence. by Nasreen Huq, a late friend gets involved with helping reminded them to remember In one instance, a father, of Karim’s. Huq started Fifth these women, they must not laughter as well. furious ar his wife for producing Note ten years ago when she saw be treated as faceless victims, Whether or not the singing a girl, poured acid into the how the women first reacted, but as lively individuals with a is off-key, it is the laughter baby’s mouth. This misogynistic covering their scars and closing purpose in life. Acid survivors and human spirit that count. man sought to impair his themselves away from the marry, have children, get The lives of these women are daughter’s abilities and world. The scars are, rather, the jobs--live their lives. They just made rich by unifying and appearance. collective shame of society, and want a human connection, to expressing their emotions and What happens to the Huq sought to show them that know that people care about interests through Fifth Note. survivors of these attacks? so they could tell the rest of the them. Funds or other help with Huq’s wishes live on, and these Lamia Karim, a UO professor world. She told them to sing. giving these women access to women prove that, despite pain with a Ph.D from Rice in Some of the burns damaged higher education is something and adversity, there is hope. anthropology, was willing to the vocal chords. At first it was the ASUO Women’s Center, as We should keep them in mind share the tale of about twenty hard for them to relax and sing. director Brandy Ota explained, the next time we face problems acid survivors. These women have no musical is interested in. Funding within our own lives. It is not “When I first saw them, I training, so the beauty of their activities such as art classes, our job to pity these women; It would just cry,” says Karim, song is, in part, its imperfection. sports like yoga or meditation is our job to listen to their story, who hails from Bangladesh. Although Huq died about three would be greatly appreciated. respect the scars for what they However, when Karim saw the and a half years ago, the group Burned women seeking are, and help them go beyond way the women lived, seeing still uses her house to practice. reconstructive surgery in the the point in their lives that has themselves not as victims, but The men convicted of United States have been denied caused so much pain. 8 the siren news//response climate change reinforces inequality

WORDS BY MEGAN KELLY

s the Obama effects. However, for 1.5 billion to relegate the world’s 3.4 like the earthquake, particularly administration’s attempt to people, mostly women, who are billion women and girls to the female half of the Apass legislation decreasing living on less than one dollar a the role of victim,” Executive population that facilitates much pollution responsible for global day, the devastating impact is Director Thoraya Obaid said of the agricultural work. warming is losing support, the immediate. in a UNFPA press release in The earthquake may have long-term and international In addition to making up two November 2009. “Wouldn’t it taken the lives of upwards of repercussions are being thirds of the world’s poor adults, make more sense to have 3.4 200,000 said Haiti’s Interior overlooked by the American women are often the driving billion agents for change?” Minister, Paul Antoine Bien- people. force of agricultural production. The idea of women’s Aime in an interview with According to a newly released IN many places, they produce disadvantage being linked Reuters. Haiti, as the poorest UN study, global warming is 75-90 percent of total food to environmental conditions country in the western bringing about slow death for crops. They also have few is frequently discussed hemisphere, stands at risk of the world’s poorest nations and income-earning opportunities to in ecofeminist theory. falling even further on the cultures in ways that western turn to as agriculture becomes Ecofeminism highlights Human Development Index nations can’t fully grasp. a less dependable source of the overlap between Rating. Undoubtedly, its Climate change affects income and food. environmentalism and citizens will have an even lower the crops and animals that According to the UNFPA, feminism, and seeks to alleviate standard of living in light of people living in impoverished one major way to ensure success both using UNFPA’s approach the earthquake, and as the conditions depend upon for in the fight against global of improving conditions for country works to put itself back survival. warming is to promote the women worldwide. together, Haitian women may The United Nations health and education of women. Ecofeminism doesn’t only again find themselves to be the Population Fund (UNFPA), a One direct way that health address issues linked to global most negatively impacted group. group promoting the rights and education and education in warming, but also to other While foreign aid is pouring health of all people (especially general would positively impact environmental occurrences, such into the region from countries women), has found that the the fight against global warming as the January 12 earthquake in as far away as Russia, it is effects of climate change will fall is that increased education tends Haiti. As death tolls and damage important that women are disproportionately on the backs to lead to smaller, healthier from the recent earthquake not forgotten in the efforts of poor women. Though this families. This would, in the continue to roll in, will Haiti’s to reconstruct and hopefully group has contributed least to long run, slow the increase of women also struggle the most ultimately improve living detrimental levels of pollution greenhouse gas emissions. as people begin to rebuild their conditions in Haiti. that have caused global Educating the world’s poor lives? Outreach programs for Haiti change, they will experience women would help place them Eighty percent of Haiti’s are available around Eugene for the consequences that global in a position to work against population is impoverished, people interested in helping, warming is causing. global warming, rather than and over half lives in abject including an account set up For many in the west, global leaving them subject to its poverty. Two-thirds of by a Eugene principal to help warming is a vague concept; negative effects. Haitians are heavily dependent rebuild schools damaged in the it is something that people “With the possibility of a on agriculture. This makes earthquake. For information, understand must be stopped, climate catastrophe on the the entire nation incredibly visit www.outreach-international. but they cannot fully grasp its horizon, we cannot afford vulnerable to natural disasters org.

the siren 9 GROWING SEASON words by brandy ota images by e.d. bills and maggie baylis, from houseplants for the puple thumb, 1973 pring is in the air and a lush garden is just around the corner. Whether you are an experienced gardener or just beginning, container gardening is inexpensive and fun. Any space will do: an apartment patio, a windowsill, a Shanging basket, or a doorstep. Many vegetables, including pepper plants and mixed baby greens, can be grown year round. Simply move the container indoors during the colder months for a continual harvest. Basic ideas to keep in mind are light, soil mixture, sufficient water, and container sizes.

Light Vegetables need at least six Soil Composition Watering Containers hours of direct sunlight. Make Since you are bringing in soil Watering is crucial to the Just about anything will work sure your containers are not rather than amending (adding success of your plants, especially from an extra recycling bin crowded by shadows or hidden nutrients to existing soil), I with container gardens. Too to a shopping cart basket, a behind a stairwell. Choosing recommend starting with a good much water without sufficient discarded wooden drawer, your location before you plant organic planting soil. Planting drainage will create a soupy, a laundry basket, or a large will save you time, money and soil will contain the nutrients dead mess. Not enough water kitchen colander. The main energy; having to move your you want including fertilizers, during hot summer days will things to keep in mind are size containers once they are filled composted matter, and a solid fry any harvest you might have and good drainage. The larger and planted can be back- blend of clay, sand and silt—the been nurturing. Since your the container, the easier it will breaking work if your containers three components of soil. Over garden is in a contained space, be to keep your vegetables well are large. time, add a slow-releasing knowing when to water can be hydrated and happy. Keep in fertilizer to encourage continual the difference between having mind that you’ll want to have growth. Down to Earth’s All a crop or not. One of the best two gallons of container size for Natural Potting Soil is good to garden gadgets is a moisture every foot of plant height (i.e., start with. If you have a truck meter. For a hard-earned $15, a two foot high plant will need however, Nature’s Best Planting you can purchase one of these a four gallon pot.) Drainage Soil at Lane Forest Products is beauties at Down to Earth. is equally important when incredible and you can buy it choosing funky, inexpensive in bulk for a mere $22 per yard containers. I recommend Bring (more than enough for your Recycling, thrift stores, or gardening pleasure). even curb-side castaways you might come across while riding your bicycle around town on a leisurely weekend. Often, people will put broken dressers or container pots on the edge of the street for anyone to pick up and take home. 10 the siren quick guide to planting & pairing sowing season crop spACING (inches) pair with days to sprout days to harvest all year lettuce 6-9 n/a 5-10 55

Feb-April peas 2-6 n/a 7-14 65

March-July scallions 2-3 carrots, leeks, 21 60-75 swiss chard march-april spinach 4-6 strawberries 6-21 30

April kohlrabi 6-9 beets 5-17 60

April chives 2-3 basil, nastur- 18 75-90 tiums, chives

April (sow tomatoes 18-24 spinach 6-14 50-80 indoors)

April strawberries n/a n/a use transplants n/a

April-May pole beans 4-6 kohlrabi 5-10 60-75

April-July beets 2-6 tomatoes, nastur- 5-10 65 tiums, chives

May-July basil 1 tomatoes, basil, 7-14 45-70 chives

May nasturtiums n/a beets, chives 7-14 60

September- garlic 2-6 leeks 5-17 240 (when 3-4 leaves October remain on stem)

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the siren 11 wonder women speak softly and carry a big baton

WORDS BY LAURA CASTLEMAN IMAGE COURTESY OF baltimore SYMPHONY ORCHESTRA

ven today, in the year classical music, her current In many ways, the American reluctant to accept the baton of 2010, there is only one position and international classical music world is quite a woman? Efemale conductor of a regard are impressive. Sexism a few clicks behind the rest of Considering her incredible major American orchestra. in the classical music world the country in terms of taking achievement, it is not surprising Her name is Marin Alsop, is pervasive, as a reflection of even a few steps to end racism that she was born in a musical and she has been the director sexism in Western culture in and sexism, and is still a very family – playing music from an of the Baltimore Symphony general. male and white industry. Alsop early age and being immersed since September 2007. Not The Vienna Philharmonic, for builds on the achievements in the complicated culture only is she the only female example, is regularly regarded as of Clara Schumann, Fanny of classical music prepared conductor of a major American both racist and sexist. Despite Mendelssohn, and other female Alsop for her future. Alsop orchestra – she is also the this, it is still one of the most classical musicians. was born and raised in New first. Alsop has won numerous highly regarded orchestras – It is important to note that York City to Ruth and LaMar awards and conducted many clearly, their sexism and racism today there are many female Alsop. Ruth and LaMar both orchestras around the world, is not enough to turn off musicians – instrumentalists and played in the New York City including the Bournemouth concertgoers from paying high singers – in major orchestras, Ballet Orchestra, as cellist and Symphony in the U.K., which prices for tickets and recordings. bands, and choirs around the first violin, respectively. They she directed for six years prior to Most major orchestras use world. However, when one started her playing the piano her appointment in Baltimore, a screen in their auditions looks at conductors, one sees and violin as a toddler, and she and many festival orchestras, – in this way, the musician an entirely different picture. set her sights on becoming a such as the Cabrillo Festival auditioning is behind a screen so Conductors, of course, are very conductor when she first heard Orchestra. Early in her career, that the judges of the audition powerful within an orchestra. Leonard Bernstein at the age of she was mentored by Leonard cannot tell their gender or race, They are, in a sense, controlling nine at one of his famous Young Bernstein, one of America’s or any other visual detail about the body of musicians, at least People’s Concerts. At the young most beloved conductors and them as a person. However, the in a concert setting. Is it any age of twenty five, she started composers. In a historically Vienna Philharmonic has not wonder that orchestras – large her first group: String Fever, sexist culture of Western adopted this common practice. bodies of primarily men – are a ten-instrument ensemble

12 the siren uo women take on the classical boys’ club There are lots of women in excellent teaching positions all over the country, but the huge names are mostly men and many symphony players are men.

– becca Olason, Sophomore French Horn student

The classical music world is all about who you know. Any one of those players could be the one who gets you the gig that makes your career. So you have to be able to relate to this group that playing string swing music, Every year, one aspiring female She is clearly aware of the lack often feels more like a and just three years later she conductor wins the Fellowship, of equality in her field, and yet started an orchestra dedicated which allows her to study with powers against this to achieve men’s club than anything to exploring crossover and jazz Alsop and guest-conduct various her goals. Alsop serves as a else. music, the Concordia Orchestra. orchestras. Alsop generously role model to girls and women Her first appointment as a shares her rare success with who are similarly interested in – Cassie Lear, director of an orchestra was for other young women to help classical music. Though I don’t Sophomore the Eugene Symphony, which them get a true insider’s glance plan to pursue a career in music, Flute Student she directed from 1989 – 1996. into the professional conducting I am a choral singer and enjoy That orchestra led to today’s world. From a quick look at the attending classical concerts and If you know how to play Taki Concordia Conducting past several years of fellowships, listening to recordings. Having well, know the music, Fellowship. the women selected are a diverse a strong female figure in the On Alsop’s website, she writes group who are having success in world of classical music means a and act confidently, that she takes the responsibility their careers. lot to me, and I hope to one day people will respect you of creating opportunities for Alsop writes that when be able to attend one of Alsop’s as a musician. To have all women to follow her ground- confronted with rejection, concerts. On her website, she of these skills is a strug- breaking footsteps “very instead of interpreting it as writes, “Frequently women tell gle for anyone, regard- seriously.” She demonstrates based on her gender (even, me that they feel empowered those words in action by the she says, when that may be and can relate very directly less of gender. I think the founding of the Taki Concordia the case), she uses it as an with a woman conducting. And musical “glass ceiling” Conducting Fellowship. The opportunity to work harder: “I at the BSO’s opening gala a is one of the easier ones mission of this fellowship is personally feel that accepting female journalist told me that to break. I don’t feel held “to promote, present, and the role of powerless victim the woman seated next to her, back... encourage talented women can become a self-fulfilling dressed is a formal gown, stood conductors at the beginning prophecy and I am unwilling up and high-fived her at the end – Olason of their professional careers.” to even entertain that concept!” of the concert. Now that’s cool.”

the siren 13 recipe i don’t love you, but i will make you breakfast.

words by erin mcgladrey images - woman’s own book of casserole cookery, 1967; better homes and gardens salad book, 1958

y grandmother recently Educated women like my Women should seek “Is this all?” She was angry that moved into an adult grandmother suffered silently fulfillment in their role as wife it was. Mfoster care facility, what Betty Freidan titled and mother, since they were And there was another truth. leaving behind a house full of “unhappiness that has no name.” considered incapable of any The house was beautiful. The treasures epitomizing white, Between loads of laundry and outside pursuits be it in the Jell-O molds were delicious and middle-class domesticity: hats having her hair set she dared arena of the social, the religious, elaborate. She looked radiant mostly seen at church services to dream of an identity of her the political, the economical, in the photos. My grandmother on Easter Sunday, tiny spoons own. She yearned for more. She the artistic, or the scientific is an artist and her canvas had whose sole purpose is serving struck a deal, she would forsake structures. The kitchen was to to be her home. I tried on her salt, pressed linens, and aprons. her career aspirations and devote be the center of her life. custom-made black taffeta dress, The house is a museum to the herself entirely to the home, When he retired he decided the kind reserved for New Year’s feminine mystique, a diorama her family, and marriage until he did not want to work Eve parties and couldn’t pull the of creativity and intelligence her husband retired and then it anymore. There would be no zipper even half way up. Her funneled so narrowly into would be her turn. She would store. She would not have her waist and hips were so small. I the spotless home, quiet, well open an antique store and he turn. Denied the opportunity to did not fit in her dress or her groomed children, and perfect would assume the behind the develop an identity of her own, world. To me it is a fantasy of all dinner parties. There is beauty scenes work. She would develop she no longer suffered in silence. that is pretty and far away. and sadness, potential narrowed an identity of her own and Cracks started forming in the On my last trip to her home to roles and an idealized image he would be the one silently flawless complexion. She was I brought back some assorted of femininity. consumed by mundane tasks. no longer afraid to ask herself, CONTINUED ON PAGE 16 14 the siren Supper's extra specia l when you serve this hearty salad Chicken Salad in Raspberry Ring in a rosy ring full of watermelon balls! For fun , carry out the color scheme - pass pink lemonade (easy with froze n sta rs in "party pink" buff et concentrate ) ; decorate wit h pink daisies, napkins , m ats . Round out the meal with Bran Muffins (page 151), cream-cheese-stuffed celery, nuts - and pink ice cream .

the siren 15 silverware (I would later learn single women. Use “Ms.” to the difference between a lemon “Women don’t perspire, we simply denote women who have given fork, a dessert fork and a glisten.” You never know when you will up domestic aspirations for salad fork), linens, and gloves. careers or to attend college as Car full of costume jewelry, have to open the door for the mailman and they are likely to never marry; nondescript forks, and hat this will help your male guests boxes, I headed back to make a still be presentable. know where their time is better home for the things at my place. spent. I do love the beautiful and wearing your dress. Pick up an into your heels. They not only Mingle. Your job is to be perfection even though I know extra pair of panty hose just in add height but remind us to invisible. You know what your there is a falseness and a cost. case. highlight our assets (push out guest needs before he does. What better practice than Cook. Put on a vintage our bust and derrière). When faced with a direct throwing a cocktail party the cotton dress and apron. Pre- Food. Set out alcohol, mixers, question about your opinions cast of Mad Men would be clean your kitchen. Your kitchen ice, decanter, and varied size or interests kindly make a envious of? sink is the benchmark or your glassware for martinis, Tom self-deprecating comment The ideal origination of any tidiness and worthiness as a Collins, and Champagne before steering the conversation cocktail party is when your domestic goddess. Haul out cocktails. Create a beautiful back to a more knowledgeable husband announces it while you your vintage Betty Crocker and spread with the dips, mousses person aka man: “Well I look adoringly at him over a Better Homes and Gardens and hors d’oeuvres that you don’t know much about the perfectly roasted ham trimmed cookbooks now that your have effortlessly prepared. Don’t situation in Iraq, but I would with pineapple rings or beef counters are sanitary. Make sure forget the mixed nuts and like to be able to make Mrs. Wellington with creamed corn. to start the Jell-O molds early breath freshening pastel mints. Audrey’s pound cake.” Avoid Ideally your husband would enough so they will have time to Mood. Start playing your LP’s conversations about politics, announce that you were hosting set. If you are not adventurous to set the tone. Nat King Cole, religion, and sports. Instead, a cocktail party the following enough to try a salmon mouse Peggy Lee, Tony Bennett, Dean show interest by tilting your night, but without a husband with green olive and pimiento Martin, Ella Fitzgerald, and head and not speaking. As the to create a schedule you have eyes, it is fine to opt for easier Frank Sinatra. Music is purely night is winding down, put on some agency to set a timeline deviled eggs. Don’t forget the for background, not dancing. a pot of strong coffee. This will that works for you. A cocktail paprika. Screen for any “counter culture” help wake up your guests for party is an art that will require Clean. Change your apron, music like the Beatles that could their drive home. Remind your your best efforts, abilities, and break out a new pair of rubber disrupt. Your home is a place guests that it has truly been your thinking. gloves and freshen your lipstick of peace, joy and contentment. pleasure to be in their presence. Plan. Give yourself enough while the suds are forming in Begin to embody this. Be sure to send them home with time to find a fabulous dress or the bucket. Take a deep breath Finishing touches. Enliven a thoughtful parting gift. suit, plan a menu and test-cook to savor the Pine Sol aroma. your perfumes. Remember Reflect. Make sure to criticize it, clean the house, purchase Start scrubbing the floors, to spray and step into the yourself internally as much as favors, select your music, and windows, counters, and toilet. mist. Set out new tiny pink possible. You will know that review your dog-eared copy of They should shine. Remake soaps and fresh hand towels the evening is going well if you Amy Vanderbit’s Complete Book your bed with hotel corners (monogrammed preferred) have lost sensation in your feet of Etiquette. Be sure to send and press pillow covers, as your in the powder room. Set out from pouring cocktails and your pastel invitations via the guests will be leaving their coats period appropriate magazines: your cheeks hurt from smiling. US postal service (no you may on your bed. Remember to take Good Housekeeping, Vogue, Enjoy a cigarette and the silence not use evites or Facebook) it slowly; as my grandmother Ladies Home Journal, Time before cleaning the house. This with enough time for guests would say, “Women don’t Magazine, Ebony, and Life. is a great way to discover things to both RSVP and brush up perspire, we simply glisten.” Greet. Greet each guest as if about your guests (finding a on their sexism. Racism and You never know when you you were reuniting with a long lose button in your closet will homophobia will be invisible. will have to open the door lost friend. Kiss each person on confirm your suspicions that Shop. Purchase non- for the mailman and still be either cheek in a loose hug. Do Mrs. Davis and Mr. Stevenson perishable items at least a presentable. not press your body too close are having a tryst or fake pearl week in advance. Remember Dress. Now that your house since it may force your male earring under the couch lets to get plenty of green olives, is spick-and-span, it is time guests into thinking impure you know that Mr. Thomas did maraschino cherries, classic to take a little time to polish thoughts. Find something about not get that promotion so Mrs. liquor, and one pound of ice per yourself. Take a bath and shave each guest to compliment. Thomas is having to make do). guest. Find the perfect dress. your legs, as to not subject your Titles. Make sure to use Once your home is spotless, Remember to either have it guests to brushing against a titles so everyone will know freshen up, take your sleeping custom-made if your husband’s porcupine. Make sure to leave the women’s marital status. pill and put on a new negligee. business is doing well this year enough time to have your hair Use “Mr.” for all men since it It is good practice for surprising or drive a little further to shop set and your nails done in a is neutral, “Mrs.” for all those your future husband when he so that no one else will be tasteful neutral shade. Slip lucky women, and “Miss” for has sex with you as you sleep.

16 the siren recipe

snacko attack Words by jennifer busby ood from mid-century America is usually so gross Date Muffins Tomato Macaroni Cheese Snacko Fthat you’re obligated to take a bite, if only to see what 1¾ cups sifted enriched flour ½ lb. macaroni 1 8-ounce package corn-muffin all the fuss was about. Food 2 tablespoons sugar 1 tablespoon butter mix science made possible Jell-O 2½ teaspoons baking powder 1 tablespoon flour 1 cup coarsely chopped salted and Cool-Whip, essential ¾ teaspoon salt ½ cup milk peanuts components in the American 1 14-oz. can peeled tomatoes ½ cup grated Parmesan cheese food vocabulary. Next came the ⅔ cup coarsely cut pitted dates 1 level teaspoon dry mustard 1 teaspoon garlic salt rise of jellied salads, some with 1 cup cheese, grated 3 tablespoons butter, melted fruit suspended in them, others 1 well-beaten egg salt and pepper made from beef stock. ¾ cup milk Almost everything had at ⅓ cup salad oil or Prepare corn-muffin mix least a hint of bacon. Pans melted shortening Cook macaroni in boiling salted according to package directions; were greased with the grease water for 12 minutes, drain well. spread evenly in a well-greased from breakfast and chunks of Melt butter in pan, add flour 15½x10½x1-inch jelly-roll pan. pork found their way into such Sift together flour, sugar, baking and, stirring, cook for 1 minute. Sprinkle with peanuts, cheese, delicacies as corn pie. powder, and salt into mixing Add milk gradually, stirring all and garlic salt; drizzle butter My grandmother, a registered bowl; stir in chopped dates. the time. Drain liquid from over top. Bake in a moderate nurse, kept a can of solidified Make a well in the center. tomatoes and make up to ¼ over (375°) about 25 minutes or grease in the back of her fridge Combine egg, milk, and pint with water. Add to sauce till crisp and lightly browned. just for frying. salad oil; add all at once to dry gradually and, still stirring, Immediately cut in squares or We’ve culled some of our ingredients. Stir quickly only till cook gently for 1 minute. Stir break in pieces; cool slightly and favorite, less bizarre recipes from dry ingredients are moistened. in salt, pepper, mustard, and 6 remove from pan. cookbooks found in the dusty Drop batter from spoon into oz. of the cheese. Arrange a layer aisles of St. Vincent de Paul. greased muffin pans, filling ⅔ of tomato in the bottom of a Enjoy date muffins that actually full. Bake in a hot oven (400°) lightly buttered ovenproof dish. taste good, a twist on mac-and- about 25 minutes. Makes 1 Stir macaroni into sauce, cover cheese, and something called dozen. tomatoes with half the macaroni Snacko that involves salted Extra good with fruit or cheese, then remaining tomatoes peanuts and a box of muffin cheese salads. and macaroni cheese. Top with mix. Be wary of Jiffy mixes, grated cheese and brown in the though; that cute box hides a oven, 400°. Serves 4. whole lot of lard. Just like the good old days. the siren 17 VICTORIAN VIBRATIONS women take pleasure into their own hands in this historical comedy, proving that a sex scene in a hoop skirt and petticoats is still a sex scene

words by LAURA CASTLEMAN illustration by allie kaye

Shortly after the His wife, Mrs. Givings, is a connection between that and or if it was indeed a problem electric toaster was mother distraught at both her their sexualities. with her milk supply and not (as invented and just before the inability to produce enough Although the treatment is more likely) difficulty nursing, vacuum came into being, breast-milk for her new infant, is administered in an effort he shrugs this concern away and another electric innovation and at her husband’s casual to gloss over legitimate hires a wet nurse. When Mrs. made women’s lives easier: the dismissal of her. The other key concerns about relationships, Givings protests, her husband vibrator. characters are a patient of the motherhood, and self-worth, brushes off her concerns and Instead of being sold as a tool doctor’s (Mrs. Daldry), and the it does nothing to solve these tells her to think of their child. of sexual pleasure, the electric wet nurse that the doctor hires problems. He tells her that most women vibrator was peddled as a cure for his new baby (Elizabeth) For example, Mrs. Daldry would be grateful for another for “hysteria,” a pathologizing against his wife’s wishes. cries bitterly at the end of her woman to breast-feed their mental state of emotional excess The humor of the women’s first “treatment,” confessing to baby for them – demonstrating and loss of control believed by sexual naivete masks the larger the female assistant that she is that he sees breast-feeding patriarchal psychiatrists such as issue that during this time unable to conceive. one’s baby as an unpleasant Freud to be a feminine disorder, period, women’s concerns were The doctor comments, as chore that should be left to the that has since been stricken ignored. Instead of being treated she cries, that it is even more lower classes, rather than an from the official list of medical thoughtfully, they were seen clear to him at that moment interaction that has the potential afflictions. as objects to be placated with how much she suffers from this to help mother and baby bond, Sarah Ruhl’s play In The Next vibrators. illogical, unreasonable hysteria – and fulfill a young mother’s Room, or, the Vibrator Play, Neither doctor, his assistant, and that she will just need more desire to provide for her child may be comedic, but beneath nor his patients consider “therapy” to manage it. No independently. the funny moments the play that the feelings the women attention is paid to her very real The wet nurse, Elizabeth, is explores more complicated experience are sexual ones. concern of infertility. a woman of color working as a issues. They refer to their experiences Similarly, Mrs. Givings is maid in the Dawdry household. The play focuses on as “paroxysms.” The women upset over the fact that she isn’t She has recently lost her son the Givings. Dr. Givings are aware that they enjoy them producing enough breast-milk Henry, and is still producing administers vibration therapy and feel good – but they have for her baby. Instead of taking milk. She struggles with feeding to his patients, who are mostly also clearly never experienced this concern seriously, and another baby the milk intended women suffering from the then anything like them before or looking into whether or not for her little boy. common disease of “hysteria.” they would certainly make the Mrs. Givings’ diet was sufficient, She confronts Mrs. Givings 18 the siren art star

and says, “The more healthy Theatre. The audience was your baby got the more dead my “...Has that ever happened to you?” noticeably female, and even Henry became.” Her violation is more noticeable was that ignored in the play: Dr. Daldry the laughter we heard was could ask her to provide this “I do not know; the sensations are so consistently in female voices. task. Instead, he commands her contradictory. Does anything unite them?” The jokes being made about to feed his child, demonstrating men, vibrators, and the female an entitlement to her body “Many of them are...down below.” orgasm clearly made many and labor that is a result of his male audience members privilege. uncomfortable. Perhaps the Elizabeth is also the character “Oh, I see... Those sensations you’re jokes didn’t strike them as funny who sheds the most light in the at all. play – first in her observation describing, they’re not from having The lack of laughter from the that it is odd that Jesus Christ relations with your husbands? “ men seemed reflective of the is a man, given than women lack of awareness of the male are the ones in our world who characters in the play. As we give their bodies and blood to “Good heavens, no!” were laughing at the ignorance provide food for the furthering of the 19th century men of the human race, and then EXCERPT FROM “IN THE NEXT ROOM” presented in the play, we were in her gentle suggestion to a also laughing at the continuing confused Mrs. Givings and Mrs. and “treated” with vibration Givings is scolded for being ignorance of supposedly hip Daldry that the “paroxysms” therapy. These problems are selfish when she cries that she 21st century New York City they experience with the all related to motherhood – a cannot feed her own child. men who, even though they vibrator are in fact associated role seen as fit in this era for Elizabeth is ignored by the men. apparently felt comfortable with “relations with husbands” the women – yet the concerns The women, in the end, must attending a histori-comedy for some women. that come along with that role care for each other and take about the ridiculousness Throughout the play, these are brushed aside. Mrs. Daldry control of the situation as much of the vibrator-as-therapy serious issues – infertility, breast- is told she is hysterical and as their society allows them to. concept, remained evidently feeding, and infant mortality– ridiculous for being upset about I saw the Vibrator Play uncomfortable with female are ignored. They are trivialized her inability to conceive. Mrs. in New York City’s Lyceum sexuality. the siren 19 Small Mouths miserere mei

Her yawn a small cat’s yawn write the pink of her mouth opening, rolls tongue over ivory fiction. teeth before red cathedral doors, pursed good mornings greetings echo off pews, vaulted ceilings,

silence, 300 mouths sealed, then recite: take this, all of you, and eat

This, my body write which will be given up for you. Translucent wafer swims on the tongue poetry. dissolved into sleep swollen buds, chews on hair, utters the latin roots: phon, photo, phil, lustr,

her filmy retainer wrapped in a napkin on a grey tray’s corner,

secrets, passed behind hands get your brush against peach-soft lobes whisper, kissing feels strange, tongues slippery like eels, electric, word out. tastes stale grape juice in boys’mouths, mutters: thou desirest truth in the inward

parts: and in the hidden part thou shalt make me to know wisdom.

Accepts mouthfuls of skin in bare submit to classrooms, hot and warm as bread dough. On the bus home her salty lips contour sirenwc a prayer: Make me to hear joy And gladness; that the bones at gmail Which thou hast broken may rejoice. Murmurs between friends, dot com each mouth a tiny pink heart, “You wouldn’t believe the things a mouth can do, what it seeks in the dark.”

-Elissa Hall

20 the siren inside the wc

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the siren 21 allies

JACKSON KATZ: PARTNER IN CRIME PREVENTION He may look like another the power of men speaking women’s issue, take a deep is a man’s issue. Sexual academic in a velvet to men, however. Katz also breath and repeat after me: assault is a man’s issue. blazer, but Jackson Katz reiterated what many in this sexual assault is a man’s Sexual assault is a man’s is a valuable feminist ally. movement already know: issue. Sexual assault is a issue. Sexual assault is a When he spoke on Feb. this issue affects all of us. man’s issue. Sexual assault is man’s issue. Sexual assault is 3 in the EMU Ballroom, Every survivor of sexual a man’s issue. Sexual assault a man’s issue. Sexual assault Katz dismissed the idea assault has friends, family, is a man’s issue. Sexual is a man’s issue. Sexual that men should be and acquaintances. Their assault is a man’s issue. assault is a man’s issue. congratulated for being experiences reach all of Sexual assault is a man’s Sexual assault is a man’s involved in the prevention us. Their hurt is our hurt. issue. Sexual assault is a issue. Sexual assault is a of sexist violence. There is For those of you who still man’s issue. Sexual assault is man’s issue. Sexual assault is something to be said for think that sexual assault is a a man’s issue. Sexual assault a man’s issue.

22 the siren knock-knock who’s there? interrupting cow. interr-- --MOO

Ten things men can do to interrupt gender violence Approach gender violence when something you do or say and other public events. Raise and the root causes of gender as a MEN’S issue involving ends up hurting someone else. money for community-based violence. Educate yourself 1men of all ages and Try hard to understand how rape crisis centers and battered and others about how larger socioeconomic, racial and ethnic your own attitudes and actions women’s shelters. If you belong social forces affect the conflicts backgrounds. View men not might inadvertently perpetuate to a team or fraternity, or between individual men and only as perpetrators or possible sexism and violence, and work another student group, organize women. offenders, but as empowered toward changing them. a fundraiser. Don’t fund sexism. Refuse bystanders who can confront to purchase any magazine, abusive peers If you suspect that a woman Recognize and speak out 9rent any video, subscribe to close to you is being against homophobia and any Web site, or buy any music If a brother, friend, 4abused or has been sexually 7gay-bashing. Discrimination that portrays girls or women in classmate, or teammate is assaulted, gently ask if you can and violence against lesbians a sexually degrading or abusive 2abusing his female partner help. and gays are wrong in and of manner. Protest sexism in the -- or is disrespectful or abusive themselves. This abuse also media. to girls and women in general If you are emotionally, has direct links to sexism (eg. Mentor and teach young -- don’t look the other way. If psychologically, physically, the sexual orientation of men boys about how to be you feel comfortable doing so, 5or sexually abusive to who speak out against sexism is 10 men in ways that don’t try to talk to him about it. Urge women, or have been in the often questioned, a conscious or involve degrading or abusing him to seek help. Or if you past, seek professional help unconscious strategy intended girls and women. Volunteer don’t know what to do, consult NOW. to silence them. This is a key to work with gender violence a friend, a parent, a professor, or reason few men do so). prevention programs, including a counselor. DON’T REMAIN Be an ally to women who anti-sexist men’s programs. Lead SILENT. are working to end all Attend programs, take by example. forms of gender violence. courses, watch films, 6 courtesy of Jackson Katz, Have the courage to look Support the work of campus- and read articles and 8 1999. Reprint freely with inward. Question your own based women’s centers. Attend books about multicultural credit. .jacksonkatz.com 3attitudes. Don’t be defensive “Take Back the Night” rallies masculinities, gender inequality, the siren 23 do-it-yourself fold and words by make simple stationery that’s jennifer busby envelope and letter all in one. mailSTATIONERY store-bought the basics cards suck. bone-folder (vegan ones Handmade cards may be crooked, exist, just ask) but that makes them rad. scissors Construction is quick and easy-- glue Have you ever sent someone paper a half-finished letter? I didn’t think so. stamps check out anything your heart desires. M.E.C.C.A. my favorites 449 Willamette St stamps Eugene, OR 97401 stickers (541) 302-1810 found objects materials S.C.R.A.P. 2915 NE MLK Blvd. get it cheap Portland, OR 97212 Forget Michael’s and the Duck Store. (503) 294-0769 Scavenging for raw materials is less Look for: expensive and more rewarding than WAFA Collective buying a package of colored paper calendars www.wearefuckingawesome.org in a big-box store. PostSecret magazines newspapers instructions postsecret.blogspot.com old books Copy the template on page 30 Soviet propaganda onto heavy paper or card stock. Trace around it onto your cho- “Your mailbox is your sen paper. window to your heart! Cut along the lines you traced. Cut one for the outside of your inspiration Make sure you leave stationery and one for the in- find penpals find

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24 the siren REVIEWS

TEGAN AND SARA QUIN CHILL WITH MARGARET CHO sainthood (2009) conquest (2005) twins’ new album speaks clearly without cliche unearthing a mountain of genocidal evidence words by megan kelly words by laura castleman Tegan and Sara’s Sainthood is maturity is particularly apparent Andrea Smith’s brilliant work, as a movement for broader both melodic and metallic, a in “Night Watch,” a song in Conquest: Sexual Violence and reproductive rights. beautifully blended punk rock which they claim, “you separate American Indian Genocide, Conquest is factual and tinged album with engaging from my body / you need should be required reading convincing, but also terribly vocals. The beats are catchy and consistence from somebody,” for all inhabitants of the US. upsetting. Fortunately, Smith the lyrics captivatingly navigate showing a new level of self This brief book is a shocking, addresses the question of action the listener through the world awareness. powerful revelation of the near the end of her book, of lost love and want. At times, “Someday” is perhaps the horrors committed against when she discusses appropriate the songs are reminiscent of the most easily relatable song, Native women by the state and responses to gendered violence seventies, but still address life echoing hopes and fears of U.S. society. (after highlighting why more and love for women today with college students everywhere. Smith documents page common responses don’t more depth and emotion than “Might paint something I after page of atrocity with work as well as they should). most artists can bring to such wanna hang here someday, a confidence that can only She also provides a thorough well-tread topics. might write something I wanna come from a solid mountain resource guide at the end of the Sainthood, like Tegan and say to you someday, might of evidence. (What is truly book with references to other Sara’s previous efforts, relies do something I’d be proud of frightening is that there is organizations, ranging from vocally on the perfect harmonies someday, mark my words I such a mountain -- and that more expression-based groups that the two create together. might do something someday,” so many people are unaware of like Honor the Earth (www. Unlike past albums however, could certainly describe the it.) However, Smith’s work isn’t honorearth.org) to groups like it is the first time in their ten way most 20-somethings view impersonal or cold: she includes the Native American Rights year career that the sisters have their terrifyingly uncertain but personal testimonies and Fund, which provides legal written songs collaboratively. hopeful futures. handles them with sensitivity assistance to Native tribes, Clearly, their teamwork serves The album has a wide range and respect. Conquest swiftly, organizations and individuals the two well, as this album takes in sound, sometimes tuning into cleanly, and logically makes (www.narf.org). By providing them to an entirely new place Blondie for inspiration (“Hell”), connections and reveals them further opportunities for both musically and lyrically. and sometimes leaning closer to with utter transparency. exploration, this guide ensures Like past albums, Sainthood the Cure. While such variety is Smith challenges some of that the reader’s attention to the continues cataloguing the sisters’ not always well executed, Tegan the more established figures in issues doesn’t stop at the end relationship struggles. However, and Sara have proved themselves the feminist world, including of the book. Smith’s careful, Sainthood shows the sisters’ capable of carrying both a Planned Parenthood. She arrives thorough work is both an eye- ability to evolve as writers and playful, energetic beat and a supplied with information opening book that all in the musicians by being a little bit heavier edge with darker lyrics. and exits with a suggestion United States should read and a darker and far more adult in of a better image for a clinic, base on which future books and their perspectives. Their new arguing that we should reframe movements can build. the pro-choice movement the siren 25 reviews

gregory should learn to keep his hands to himself. gaslight (1944) ghost world (2001) some people just drive you crazy (trigger warning) touring a place as strange as it is familiar words by megan kelly words by laura castleman Paula, the protagonist in the own independence, she is Terry Zwigoff’s Ghost World Ghost World was so different 1940’s movie Gaslight, is the manipulated into forgiving (2001) is a bizarre look at post- from other movies that it was epitome of the stereotypical Gregory’s controlling behavior high school suburban life based a bit tough going down, but housewife. She is obedient to through his astonishment at her on the graphic novel of Daniel it created some of the most her husband Gregory, docile, anger. Clowes of the same name. Social realistic characters out there. soft spoken, and she fears for In essence, the aura of fear outcasts Becky and Enid spend The plot seems at once her own sanity. Gaslight follows and hypervigilance that is built a strange summer together after average and yet magical and the story of Paula and her up in Gaslight stems from the their high school graduation. unusual. The plot combined mysterious new husband who victimization and abuse of Paula Becky searches desperately with Scarlett Johannson and have moved into a house with at the hands of her husband, for an apartment while Enid Thora Birch’s incredible acting a dark history. After only a who intentionally isolates and pursues a relationship with made it more like a window into few short weeks living in the manipulates her. At times, an older, nerdy man named a one-step-over dimension than house that has haunted Paula Gregory is nothing short of a Seymour. Enid is also taking a movie. since finding her aunt murdered doting husband, yet his ability remedial art classes to earn her The message, if any, is life is there as a child, she starts to to smooth over any situation full high school degree. anything. Not in the sense of full question her own sanity and and place all blame on his wife Unlike your typical movie, of possibilities – just in the sense health as strange things begin to makes him the ultimate abuser. the plot never leads quite where of so many things that might happen around her. The lights In fact, the term “gaslighting” one expects, and the whole never have occurred to you. It in the house dim and brighten. has worked its way into thing feels more like looking is worth seeing, if just for the Paula hears noises in the house, everyday vernacular as a way to through a box of someone reminder that not all movies and she seems to be forgetting talk about psychological abuse else’s high school photos than a have to follow the same path. things. and intimidation. plot-driven story. Bob Balaban, The movie’s dark tone is only The movie is disturbingly as Enid’s father, is painfully intensified as the viewer sees accurate in its portrayal of realistic: though he is kind and released an album? Paula’s husband become more psychological, emotional, honestly tries, in his sad little heard of a fresh book? controlling, manipulating her and verbal abuse. It is a dark, way, to reach his daughter, he send your review behavior and her understanding twisting, and worthwhile is unable to bridge the gap requests and queries of her own reality. During journey into the psyche of a between them, which only to sirenwc at gmail the few instances in which woman who implicitly trusts the intensifies the almost stifling dot com. Paula attempts to exert her man she assumes loves her. loneliness in the film. 26 the siren The ASUO Women’s Center is i don’t need plastic in now my body to hiring for the 2010-2011 validate me school year as a woman. internship possibilities office assistants (work study only) -courtney love LGBTQQI coordinator diversity coordinator sexual violence prevention and bitch (1998) education coordinator reclaiming a word we’ve all been called public relations coordinator words by megan kelly event coordinator Elizabeth Wurtzel’s book compassion in unlikely places. visual design coordinator Bitch is both laugh out loud The book’s tone is sympathetic funny and deeply thought as it describes the story and provoking. She writes with trial of Amy Fisher. Fisher is humor and compassion about characterized not as someone the women throughout history who did something right, but who have refused to shut up as someone who did something or conform to social standards. understandable given her The bitches of history, according situation. to Wurtzel, are labeled as such Bitch tells us why we find the not because of any innate “bad girl” image so fascinating. meanness, but because of their We have been intrigued with complete disregard for what a the women who never quite fell woman should do. Readers are into line, she explains, from as taken on a tour of the bitches far back as Samson and Delilah. of pop culture, from Courtney The book offers a unique spin Love to Hillary Clinton, and on feminism, one that pulls walked through the media craze readers from one anecdote to surrounding the murder of the next with ease and shows Nicole Brown Simpson and the us why some women continue assault trial of Amy Fisher. to hold a grip on the public As a self-proclaimed and imagination. In some ways, heavily criticized bitch, Wurtzel according to Wurtzel, even the is in the position to unveil gentlest of us wish we could Pick up applications in Suite 3 of to readers the mindset of the break free and just be a bitch the EMU or visit http://uoregon. women she writes about. She is once in a while. sharp-witted, sarcastic and quick edu/~women/. Please submit to criticize men and women applications by April 30th. 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1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 2. Grass____s Feminism is an archivist website establishing a transnational community platform and living history archive, 12 13 14 15 16 www.grass____sfeminism.net/cms/ 3. Alternative to chocolate 17 18 19 4. Black ______, nickname given to 1947 LA murder victim Elizabeth Short, her story 20 21 gained awareness as a film and novel by the same name 22 23 24 25 26 5. Two higher than a Queen (backwards) 6. _____ M. Lowey, critic of the Stupak 27 28 29 30 31 amendment and member of House of Representatives 32 33 34 35 7. Interjection of amazement 8. Yoko ____, Japanese American avante-garde artist and musician. 36 37 38 39 40 9. Montessori School of Raleigh, (abbr.) 10. Britney Spears song, I’m Not a Girl, Not 41 42 43 ____ a Women 11. To the _____ degree, in math 44 45 46 47 48 14. Wahington’s (famous jazz singer) stereo sys. 49 50 51 52 15. Hydrothermal ____, creates land types such as hot springs and geysers (bkwds) 53 54 55 56 57 18. Romances through affections 19. Largely campus located org. promoting veganism and animal rights, also a Finnish 58 59 60 61 62 63 LGBT org. 24. Usual cost estimate for most birth control 64 65 66 25. Billie Holiday 1936 jazz song (bkwds) 26. _____ Coulter, conservative political 67 68 69 commentator and author (bkwds) 28. Major outdoor equipment and clothing store 29. Consent, for a pirate perhaps ACROSS 30. Global news agency with their HQ in U.S. 1. Grassroots political activist grp. cultura, y historia through political 31. Their Eyes Were Watching ______by Zora working for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and involvement to enact change, featured in Neale Hurston transgender equal rights Summer 2009 issue of The Siren 32. In law, an accomplice: one who aids and 4. Shelter for a wild animal, i.e. wolf or fox 42. With 12 across, the other vowels with ______7. Spelling alternative for females that the sometimes rule (jumbled) 33. _____brew: a beer at a small brewery avoids conforming to patriarchy 43. With 32 across, the time of day one 37. Freeware compression utility and file 12. With 42 across, ½ the vowels, (jumbled) should subvert the patriarchy format popular in Japan for PC games 13. Amino ____, protein building blocks 44. Grammy Hall of Fame jazz song 38. PC network for a small space i.e. office 16. Beginning, as in a cold condemning American racism sung most 39. ______Lady of Gaudalupe, Catholic icon 17. Buffalo Springfield song about unrest famously by Billie Holiday 40. Karen ____ and Fresh Jazz, performing among youth who have been subjected to 49. Graduate Student Organization, acronym songs like La Vie en Rose and Summertime police brutality 50. Fight for More—plan to raise awareness 41. Sodium salt and flavor additive (in short) 20. Seat lacking back and/or armrests about Parkinson’s-- started by pro 45. Gauze, in Spain 21. The Diary of a Young Girl, by _____ boxer Muhammad’s wife Lonnie _____ 46. Type of cut for diamonds characterized by a Frank 51. Test that evaluates students readiness for soft squarish shape often found on jewelry 22. Slang for a young butch that allows for graduate level work, acronym 47. “… if I could paint that flower in a huge greater variance in gender expressions 53. Non-profit org. providing community scale, you could not _____ its beauty” 23. Zhena’s Gypsy _____, (backwards) education, outreach, advocacy and artist Georgia O’Keeffe known for its herbal infusions aiding in support to survivors of sexual violence 48. Palm ____ 700w cell phone, from Verizon women’s health and wellbeing 55. Small, irregularly shaped candies 52. Bert’s roommate and very good pal 24. News chnnl. critiqued in The Siren’s 58. Prolific jazz vocalist and actress with hit 54. Type of vocalizations in jazz characterized Fall 2009 issue dealing with the horrific song Hey There and album Blue Rose by nonsense syllables and random sounds Richmond, CA gang rape 64. Roused from sleep 56. _____ Abby, popular advice column 27. American jazz singer nicknamed “Sailor” 65. “…it’s almost as light ______.” 57. Auld Lang ____ song often heard on New and “Sassy” sang hit songs like Make 66. Major LGBT rights activist and out actor Years Eve at midnight Yourself Comfortable and Shulie A Bop Sir ____ McKellan, played such popular 58. Jazz piano music with a syncopated melody 32. With 43 across, the time of day one movie roles as Magneto and Gandalf 59. Agrarian org. having a set purpose to should subvert the patriarchy 67. “Since the L-Word was on they were provide women access to land they would 34. A word meaning consent (jumbled) ______to the T.V. all afternoon” otherwise have been denied, featured in 35. 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