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Harry Connick Jr is one of those quintessential crooners who 4 Your Say has his own definitive style and doesn’t fit neatly into a specific 5 ShopCall genre. I’m tempted to go not just because I love his cool jazzy 5 Shop Call numbers, but to find out what kind of crowd mix he would draw in the wonderful mix of nationalities we have here. 6 What’s Hot in Abu Dhabi

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Please recycle this magazine: locations include Spinneys, Al Mamoura Building and behind Riyada Clinic. YourSay shopcall Hi Ed, all consumer societies. Can ‘not having a car’ be the eco-car statement? Tricky stuff! Good luck, hope this helps. Just a quick comment about the ‘eco vote’ (page 11 volume 7). I may be mistaken but 100% degradable bags are possibly John Fuller worse than ‘normal’ bags because they degrade into tiny pieces of plastic (difficult to clean up); they are not organic. Therefore will not become a useful part of any natural cycle Dear Ed, (while paper can decompose to become part of the ‘food’ for I picked up your April issue last night for the first time. I have trees). It’s difficult to find real examples of ‘eco’ because it’s a comments about Abu Dhabi tempo’s On the Beaten Path. different concept - like in medicine, prevention is a different I was having a late night bite when reading the piece, and concept than cure. If we apply that concept, no plastic is all this talk about bad breath really put me off my meal. It’s better than ‘100% degradable’ or even an organic bag - it’s just simply not pleasant. I applaud the fact that Abu Dhabi Tempo way better not to make it. If the question is ‘what do we use?’ - is out there competing with other bigger publications. But exactly! What do we use?! when I pick up something to read, I don’t want to read about This could be the first step away from consumption and what other people hate. I don’t care. Especially if it’s half a Accessorize towards conservation by merely challenging ourselves. page on bad breath. I wish Abu Dhabi Tempo the best. Applying this level of thinking is the difficult challenge for Ameera with Vincci Vincci’s recently launched store in Abu Dhabi Mall is all that ladies seem to be talking about! Offering stylish shoes, bags and accessories that are high on the luxe and style, it seems Vincci has discovered its niche in attempt to break the previous Guinness World Record of accessorizing the trendy and fashion savvy female residents of our capital Raising the Bar 298 kg for the most plastic bottles collected for recycling city with their affordable, yet classy collection of shoes and handbags. They in eight hours, students from the Zayed University only produce a few pieces per design so if you like something, grab it quick! Tyre Safety: Last month the Department of Traffic and collected 394 kg of plastic waste. Their fabrics are durable and soft to touch, unlike some rexine nightmares Patrols at Abu Dhabi Police, held a three-day traffic Student Council President Mariam Omran Al Hallami we have seen in other stores lately. This only goes to show that being an campaign to ensure motorists were using safe tyres in said: “After the success of our attempt we are sending envied fashionista can be achieved within your financial budget sometimes. Abu Dhabi and Al Ain. First Lieutenant Hamdan Hassan the collected bottles for recycling and are currently You only need to choose wisely - in addition to waiting for bargain sales of Dhaiban, of Information and Public Relations Section at waiting for the announcement of our accomplishment course! the department, said the campaign was aimed at raising in breaking the previous record from the Guinness World awareness among motorists about dangers, ensuing Records committee”. from using worn out and invalid tyres. Aerospace Training 20 UAE Nationals: In the month of April, Mubadala Aerospace, a business unit of the Mubadala Development Company, has partnered with the Institute of Applied Technology (IAT) to provide UAE Nationals with specialist training programmes to develop them for a career in Abu Dhabi’s growing aerospace Nike industry. The first batch of students have commenced is in town their training at the Al-Ain International Aviation More than a hundred sq metres of Nike Academy (AAIAA). – some have called it a haven for sports “We are delighted to welcome our first group of students enthusiasts. Located in Abu Dhabi Mall, to a career in aerospace,” said Homaid Al Shemmari, this little piece of sports heaven is the first Executive Director of Mubadala Aerospace. “Through our Nike outlet in Abu Dhabi bringing the partnership with IAT, we are committed to developing a total number of Nike stores in UAE to 5. highly skilled UAE National workforce that will lead the Need new sportswear from their Air Max growth of a world class aerospace industry here in Abu collection? Now to know where to look Dhabi. It is one of the most exciting career opportunities for it. NikeiD is another concept by the in the UAE and we encourage all UAE Nationals to footwear giant which has caught the fancy consider a future in this field.” of the common outdoorsy man. You can choose your signature colours, design and Breaking World Records: You just can’t contain the The Young Archaeologist Program sparks curiosity in style online and in four weeks, voila! You will energy and imagination of young minds today. In an children as they are taught to use field tools. have your our very own customized pair of Nikes. Uber cool!

4 Tempo May 2010 www.abudhabitempo.com 5 What's MMA Weight Divisions Only You Bantamweight 125 to 135 lbs (56.7 to 61.2 kg) Featherweight inHot Abu Dhabi135 to 145 lbs (61.2 to 65.8 kg) Lightweight 145 to 155 lbs (65.8 to 70.3 kg) Harry! Welterweight Harry Connick Jr. live in concert: 16 May, ADNEC Abu Dhabi 155 to 170 lbs (70.3 to 77.1 kg) Born Joseph Harry Fowler Connick, Jr., Harry is a Grammy and Emmy winning performer Middleweight accustomed to wearing many hats. An accomplished actor, singer, theatre performer, 170 to 185 lbs (77.1 to 83.9 kg) Fighting Light Heavyweight composer, pianist and jazz musician, he can easily be mistaken for King Midas. As 185 to 205 lbs (83.9 to 93.0 kg) an artists who has earned more number-one albums than any other Championship Heavyweight in the history of US jazz, Harry Connick Jr. is also one of the 14 May, Abu Dhabi Hall, ADNEC 205 to 265 lbs (93.0 to 120.2 kg) top 60 best-selling male artists in the United States by the Recording Industry Association of America, with 16 million After witnessing the action-packed UFC event, Abu The official ADFC weigh-in will take place at certified albums. Well, with seven top-20 U.S. albums and Dhabi has got a taste of martial arts fights and guess Marina Mall on May 13. Don’t miss the chance what? We want more! Abu Dhabi Fighting Championship to see champion fighters like Jeff Monson, Johan ten number-one U.S. jazz albums, we reckon he should is the emirate’s very first open-weight Mixed Martial Arts Romming, Sergei Kharitonov, Przemylaw Mysiala, be! This jazz idol who has sold 25 million records Marcos Oliveira, Neil Wein, Marcio Cruz and Grand Prix. Think of it as a combination of lightening fast worldwide, is currently promoting his newest album speeds and deadly moves, which will be demonstrated Shamil Abdurahimov up-close! “Your Songs” which is a compilation of 14 classic by 8 renowned international super-star fighters. Clashing in the open-weight ‘Battle of the Champions’, this popular songs. The album is a collaboration with a televised event will decide which fighter deserves the record company producer, the multiple Grammy One Million Dirham grand prize. The championship will award winning music executive Clive Davis. Doors take place over three events, the first of which is on 14th open at 6:30 pm and the concert will begin at of this month. 8:30 pm. See you there! ADFC will also serve as a platform for 12 local fighters to exhibit their skills and talent and to propel them into the international spotlight through side-fights where they will be pitched against international fighters. This will test their discipline, skill, agility and most importantly, mental strength since Mixed Martial Arts is a hybrid sport Listen allowing the participation of all martial arts and hand- 14 May, to-hand combat styles such as Jiu Jitsu, Judo, Karate, Abu Dhabi Theatre Boxing, Kickboxing, Wrestling, Kung fu, Take Kwon Do, and Muay Thai. Check out some of the demo videos on their website www.abudhabifc.com Abu Dhabi Classics continues to entertain as this month will see - or Best of British Gala rather listen - to the music 15 May, Emirates Palace Auditorium of Evelyn Glennie, who is the first person in musical history to Abu Dhabi will be regaled by the music successfully create and sustain a full- of London’s BBC Concert Orchestra in a time career as a solo percussionist. Her traditional evening of stirring and beautiful irrepressible, contagious energy and classics from the British Isles – including Elgar’s famous Pomp and Circumstance enthusiasm make her one of the most March (“Land of Hope and Glory”) as well as colourful and innovative musicians “Rule, Britannia!” The evening will recreate the on the scene today. Abu Dhabi unique atmosphere of this thrilling BBC event you will be sorry if you miss this at London’s vast Royal Albert Hall which is event! This exciting concert is broadcast to millions of music lovers all over guaranteed to divert, entertain the world. and to teach us how to listen.

6 Tempo May 2010 www.abudhabitempo.com 7 making it was indeed a memorable one, which is why I portrait of Late Sheikh Zayed though is one piece I did fall keep telling people that I have left my heart in Abu Dhabi in love with. Normally, when I travel I carry my art materials ABU DHABI with his portrait. with me – brushes, canvas etc. They inspire me, keep me My rooted to my work, and anchor me to this world. When I T: How does it feel to be the preferred artist of many left I Abu Dhabi, I left them here so that one day I shall go “I left my heart in Abu Dhabi...” influential and elite personalities all around the world? back for them. U: I am touched by their regard for my work and I am also very honoured to meet people who have made their mark T: You have been involved with many humanitarian as creating your own artwork. It is a big step to leave a in the world. To tell you the truth though, I don’t feel that causes across the globe; tell us about why these causes secure line of work and more so because people are not they are so different than the people we meet everyday. are so close to your heart? aware of the changes they will need to make for it to work. Each person is unique in their own way, famous or not. U: I feel that if my paintings can assist a child in relieving Regardless, I gave it my all and even though my decision some of his pain or bring hope into someone’s life then was very spontaneous, it paid off. T: Which was the most difficult piece for you to it is a worthy cause to support. I have been involved with complete and why? many projects where we try to fulfill the dying wish of T: Were your family and friends supportive of your U: My parents passed away when I was very young. Losing terminally ill patients including kids with life-threatening choice to shift careers? them this early in life made it very emotional for me to diseases. If I can help make the transition better then U: Yes they all were very supportive of my choice and I paint a portrait of them. why not contribute? We have worked with MSF and have am lucky to be surrounded by such helpful people. There contributed to various causes in from Vienna to Lebanon. is a special someone I’d like to mention here. His name is T: Has someone ever asked you to re-do their portrait Richard. Infact I even mention him on each Certificate of and make them look better? T: What is your advice to striving artists? Authentication that is issued with my artwork because he U: This happens quite often I am afraid. For the collection, U: Do not be misled by circumstances. Be true to yourself. has been my constant companion and friend for 10 years pieces I can chose to paint subjects as I wish. However, You will receive opposition but be guided by God’s light. now. He, along with my brother, supports me in all that I the private orders are another story. I have to function as Do not give in to temptation and frustration. There is do. a make-up artist and cosmetic surgeon for some pieces. immense pleasure in art. Also, before this interview ends, T: Tell us a little about your trip to Abu Dhabi and the They are commissioned so I must paint them as people I would like to thank Salwa Zeidan for providing me the artwork you were commissioned to produce. How do wish. For instance, recently I had to paint a plump lady and opportunity to experience Abu Dhabi and connect with its Abu Dhabi has been home to numerous art festivals and you find this city? she was not satisfied when I painted her as she was. I had spirit. Thank you to all. symposiums over the past month. One artist who visited U: Abu Dhabi to me is a love story. I fell in love with it the to make her slimmer and she said she needed a Barbie the capital city recently is Una St. Tropez who specializes in moment I set eyes on it and as I experienced this city and doll face so I re-worked the portrait till she looked like a painting large-size portraits using a unique combination worked with its people, I was confirmed of my love for perfect doll. I feel it is important to paint people as they of an ultra modern and yet ancient wax technique. She has it! It is such a lovely combination of contrasts; hot days see themselves. I understand that it can be contrary to painted commissioned portraits of some the most influential and cold nights; natural beauty and man-made marvels. reality at times but I am just the means to making good personalities in the world including HSH Prince Albert of I love the natural grace of women and the ethnic pride art so I don’t interfere with their perceptions. Monaco, Princess Stephanie of Monaco, members of the in men. Overwhelmed as I was, I still needed to find Brunei Royal family, Gordon Ramsey and quite recently, Eva elements which I could work with to form art which would T: How long does it take for you to complete a life-size Longoria Parker of the Desperate Housewives fame. portray the city’s spirit. I am grateful to have worked with portrait? How big do your paintings usually go? Salwa Zeidan Gallery for if it weren’t for my visit to their U: The bigger the better if you ask me! I have completed Una’s zealous involvement with many high profile charitable premises, I would never have glanced upon the picture artwork which was 3.5 metres in length. Private portraits events has enabled her to raise over AED 400,000 for different of a man with such a radiant smile and kind eyes that I vary from all sizes, big and small. It usually takes me a humanitarian causes all across the globe. She took time out was captivated by it. The picture was that of H.H. Sheikh month to paint private portraits as I need the time to of her busy schedule and sat down with Tempo for a chat Nahyan Bin Mubarak Al Nahyan and I wished to paint get to know the person whose personality my painting about her greatest passion in life – art. him. Everyone spoke very highly of him. Later on I had will captured. For a collection, it can take longer for me the pleasure of meeting him in person. It is essential that to finish. Even a year because I am so involved with the Tempo: You majored in finance from Westminster I meet the people I paint because it is the sentiment that process of creation. Each collection houses a world inside University in 1997, what lead to you to choose a career I feel when I am with them which translates onto the it, my world. as an artist? canvas. That is how I find expression. I have to live it to tell Una St. Tropez: Actually it was a matter of listening to the story through my craft. T: Is it tough to part away with something like that, my heart and what I truly wanted to do in life. As with any something you’ve spent so much time and energy on? major decision, like studies; choosing careers; or deciding Of course there is another painting which I will always Which piece was, by far, the toughest to part away whether to launch a businesses venture or not - I believe it hold close to my heart. The one - as you might say - I with? is best to stay true to yourself and your desires. I only take was ‘commissioned’ to make. I don’t like using the word U: Making art is a divine process to me. It is tough to the path which is essential to maintaining the essence of ‘commissioned’. It detaches me from the spiritual aspect detach with it but I am happy to do it for a good cause. my being. And art is what I chose (smiles). of my work. Anyways, I was given the honour to paint You see, my artwork is my greatest joy and my greatest a portrait of the Late H.H. Sheikh Zayed Bin Sultan Al fury combined. I am in the habit of isolating myself when T: How did you make the initial transition from a Nahyan. While painting him, I saw leadership within I work, so I experience the heartbreak and the agony of secure 9 to 5 job to a striving artist who was trying to his features. His eyes were very communicative of the parting with something that had been associated with make her mark in the art world? determination and vision he had for UAE. I learnt about his my lonely world for so long. I never say that I love one U: I always connected to art even with when I was working life and his compassion for his people and I must confess particular piece of my work because it just makes it all the in finance. To me nothing was as fulfilling and rewarding that I am very attached to his portrait. The experience of more tougher to part with it when the time comes. The

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Jun Encarnacion Restaurant Stepping into this Filipino restaurant, you seriously don’t know what to expect. Their menu is rumored to have almost ‘everything’ on it. We decided it was time to pop in for a meal and see what the place has to offer. Welcoming ambiance; check. If you are not from Philippines you might find it difficult to decipher some dishes on their menu so we enlisted a server for the task. Since out team was feeling adventurous that evening, we decided to only go for dishes which sounded unconventional (read: unheard of to us or tough to pronounce). Right off the bat let us confess that this place is pretty affordable for the vast items (and sometimes out of season dishes) available on the menu. Anyways, continuing with our food-venture, we ordered the Tapsilog and Dasilog. Basically they turned out to be variations of garlic-fried rice and egg with either fish or beef served alongside nicely steamed rice. Their Adobo, which is essentially a beef stew, is also worth a mention. Not too thick; not too runny - just right! Another team member couldn’t resist ordering the Inihaw na Pusit. Apparently the ordering situation had escalated to a game now and we braced ourselves for the outcome. Thankfully a well grilled squid was served to us with fresh rice (you can choose between the rice, French fries or veggies as a side order). All in all, this restaurant and café is worth a visit if you are up for casual dining with friends. Location: End of Hamdan Street towards Tourist Club Area. 10 Tempo May 2010 people meter Making a People Meter is an offbeat way to learn more about our community and its people, who come from different Each of us can in his, or her, own way make a difference in our world. Sometimes this can be a simple gesture, and sometimes it backgrounds, cultures and walks of life. is a kind word. This page is dedicated to the hero that resides in each and every one of us, and to the sharing of great news that will make our planet a better place for us all. Meet YOUR

NEIGHBOUR Sounds of Arabia: The third season of “Sounds Channel 4’s Adam Ibrahim of Arabia” festival is to kick off in the capital on 6 Social Service May and continue till 16 May, presenting for the first time in Abu Dhabi, a number of regional singers Message Adam hails from Sudan and is living ‘the simple such as Syrian singers Wa’ad Bou Hasoun and Kinan life’ in Abu Dhabi… Al Adhama, in addition to Mustafaa Saeed from Egypt. “Care for them, don’t inflict The new singers will perform in the festival in a new initiative harm on them” “My name is Adam Ibrahim Adam Ali Soney. I was titled “Youth Talents of Arabia”. Since the festival will focus on the born in Bahri, a city in northern Khartoum, Sudan. musical traditions in the Arabian Gulf in particular, it will be a treat to We applaud the Arabic public Upon graduation from an Islamic university, I watch with family! service campaign on Channel began my hunt for a job in media sciences. I always 4 called ‘Rabuuhum, la Adnan Dhani Yassin Salah Elyan wanted to work for radio or television. Luckily Abu Dhabi Bag for Youth: “Youth of one world” is the slogan of the tuathebuhu’ which translates Pakistani Egyptian enough, I got an opportunity to work abroad after new Kalima initiative that includes the distribution of 1000 bags. Transportation Supervisor Univeristy Graduate Each of these contains ten books of distinguished children’s literature loosely into “Care for them, my first year of graduation. This is how I landed in from around the world, which have been translated into Arabic. This don’t inflict harm on them.” Abu Dhabi city! What first word comes to your mind when I say: initiative is aimed at secondary school pupils (from the sixth to the It shows a whimpering child ninth grade). The bags have recently been distributed to schools in Al who has been beaten up by “I am a very simple person. I am told I have a great Ain and Al Gharbia in Abu Dhabi, with the co-operation of the district her father. It then cuts to her Curly Fries Curly Fries sense of humor and I enjoy the company of old directors of these schools. Shell Ferrari friends as well as making new friends. In my free father receiving people at her Shell Bell funeral, and people shaming Book Read Book My father time, I go out to play some sports; read books and New Horizons for ADFF: With submissions now open for its newspapers; or go out for a walk to some soothing 2010 program, Abu Dhabi Film Festival has announced a new him instead of offering Storm Loud Storm Power sight in the city. That’s what I like about Abu Dhabi. competitive section for fiction and nonfiction feature films by their condolences. A brave There are many such places where you can just sit first- and second-time directors. To be called the Afaq Jadida (New campaign tackling a sensitive still and watch the entire city pass you by. Then of Horizons) Competition, this section will focus on the work of new topic. We all know child abuse 2) If you could interview one celebrity who would it be? course there is the high-end lifestyle with loads of talents from all over the Arab world shown side-by-side with that is an abhorrent crime--it luxuries - a fast-paced life for fast-paced multi- of their international counterparts. Films in the competition will vie for ADFF’s Black Pearl Awards for Best New Narrative Film, Best New shouldn’t be covered up in Adnan: I would love to Yassin: Miley Cyrus, national people. I admire the lack of lawlessness Narrative Film from the Arab World, Best New Documentary, Best New any society, and it shouldn’t be interview Johnny Depp. obviously because she is so in people; both expats and locals follow the rules. Documentary from the Arab World, each with a $100,000 cash prize. tolerated in any form. I wonder if he really is as interesting. colourful as the characters he This is something commendable. portrays on-screen. “If I were to change something about Abu Dhabi, 3) Why did the chicken cross the road? it would be to lower the high accommodation rents so that we expats can save money for our Tempo’s future and support our families better. Also, if the Hand Adnan: I guess he wanted Yassin: To catch up with Helping city were to become more ‘expat-friendly’ then we Vote! (aka ‘the Rahma brigade’) to see what it felt like the handsome rooster on will feel more comfortable here. Sometimes I feel because no one ever made the other side! because of the pressures of expat expenditures it back to tell him about it. people are more materialistic than friendly, i.e., Etihad Airways has announced Under the Patronage of Her Highness Sheikha Fatima Bint Mubarak, they look to making profit out of everything, even it will operate five return services Chairperson of UAE General Women’s Union and Chairperson of the 4) If you were Neil Armstrong and you landed on the a network of friends. per week to Baghdad, operated by moon, what would your first words be? two-class Airbus A320 aircraft, and Family Development Foundation, the Diplomatic group for spouses of Ambassadors in the UAE will hold a charity bazaar at the General Women’s “My dream is to become a professional reporter will expand its operation with two Union on 2nd May. The proceeds will help ease the suffering of Haiti Adnan: Is this place off the Yassin: OOH YEAH! in BBC. I believe one should do something additional A320 return services to victims and will contribute to worthy local charities like the Special Care real-estate market? Can I meaningful with their life and it should touch a second Iraq destination – Erbil – stay here forever? other’s lives in such a manner that it brings a Centre and Future Centre for Special Needs in Abu Dhabi. Tickets for a from June 1, subject to government raffle draw with exciting prizes will be available at the entrance of the positive change to it. My message to people in UAE and regulatory approvals, 5) What one thing do you do everyday to save the planet? venue. Men are welcome to join in the fun and festivity as the event will is that they should co-exist peacefully and always becoming the first airline in the UAE be grateful to the country which welcomed them feature stalls from various countries. A cultural experience and a good to fly to Iraq. cause - it’s worth a visit folks! Adnan: I often help kids Yassin: I sleep more, it’s in its heart to make a living and provide for their and elders cross roads since very energy efficient! family. May God bless you all and I wish you a safe I spend most of my time return home.” around moving vehicles Making a Difference is a celebration of good people and good deeds. Please share with us your ideas, activities and community and bus-stops. ‘public-good ‘ stories. Send them to [email protected]

12 Tempo May 2010 www.abudhabitempo.com 13 • • handyhelper Who’s the boss? Making Good Movie (part two) First Impressions Watch This time we will focus on how you can build So choose someone with a moral centre and professional a tangible relationship with your boss. All the pride; someone your boss will listen to and take seriously; We all know they are important. So let’s not beat Iron Man 2 and most importantly someone with tight lips. plotting and planning in the world cannot get about the bush saying there is always a second Releasing May 7: Okay everyone probably chance to make first impressions. There isn’t. Period. knows all the actors starring in this one. you into the good books of seniors at workplace Assert Yourself So get it right the first time. Don’t know how? Well, Guys and gals, the most awaited sequel Most of the time, it’s about standing up for yourself. We of the year is finally here. Robert Downey if you don’t analyze their personality and tailor we don’t call this section ‘handy helper’ for nothing. Jr. is billionaire inventor, Tony Stark and is your strategies accordingly. Granted they maybe don’t mean a re-enactment of last night’s WWE match known all around the world as the savior though! Just try not to over-react and lose your cool. of humanity, Iron Man, much to his delight! moody, unpredictable or just plain crazy, but Remain reasonable, calm and confident about your Tip #1 Smile your best ‘I-am-a-sane-person’ smile. Make Only now there is immense pressure from there is always a way to work around such issues. position. We know this is tough to do when someone sure you practice in front of a mirror if you are unsure the government, the press and the public to hand over his technology to the military. Read on, we’ve done some extensive research on is yelling profanities at you in a foreign language but of how your smile looks. It should be a warm, genuine While Tony tries to keep the government wacky bosses for this piece. maintain your poise. Politely explain to them your position smile, something that’s welcoming and immediately from getting their hands on the technology, on the matter and inquire exactly what it is about your makes the other party feel comfortable in your there is something far worse waiting to challenge him and threaten with the world. work or behaviour that has upset them. You statements presence. Think Julia Roberts, Oprah or even Sushmita Who cares really? We just want to see Robert like ‘I Think’ or ‘I Feel..’, never use aggressive statements like Sen! reprise a role which he plays really well. ‘ You don’t’ or ‘ You never’.

Tip #2 Don’t unleash the Spanish inquisition on Robin Hood Communicate someone you are meeting for the first time. Keep a lid Releasing May 14: Directed by Ridley Scott, For some people office work is equivalent to team work on intrusive, personal questions but do ask ones that starring Russell Crowe, Cate Blanchett, and they like constant input and supervision from seniors. Vanessa Redgrave, Eileen Atkins and Danny require a little more than a simple “yes” or “no” answer; Huston, the movie chronicles the life of While others feel more relaxed if they are left to work then listen attentively. an expert archer, previously interested in their own creative zone. So while both employees only in self-preservation, from his service may be extremely productive, a conflict can arise with Tip #3 Pay attention; not listening to what the other in King Richard’s army against the French. senior management due to difference in working styles. Upon Richard’s death, Robin travels to person is saying or making distracting movements may Nottingham, a town suffering from the Maybe your boss thinks you are more like the employee make the other person feel that you are not concerned corruption of a despotic sheriff and from the first example when you are really more like the about what they have to say. This will blow all your crippling taxation, where he assembles second one! Work with your HR department on the issue. a gang whose lethal mercenary skills Maybe the organization expects daily updates form your efforts right out of the water. Acknowledge that you are matched only by its appetite for life. supervisor which in turn causes him to track your work understand what they are saying by nodding your Together, they begin preying on the indulgent upper class to correct injustices Why make me suffer? with hawk-like precision. head in agreement. Body movements like this indicate under the sheriff. a listening stance. First of all, never ask them that! No one cares why it’s you, least of all your boss. Direct confrontation over a SOS Letters to Juliet If all else fails, report to super-senior-level management. Tip #4 People don’t like being cut off! Let the other workplace conflict never ends well. It only further enrages Releasing May 14: When a young American supervisors and senior management if you ask them for Be warned though, this is an open battle call to your boss. person do most of the talking, unless you want their (Amanda Seyfried) travels to the city of Blood will be shed, words will be exchanged and someone first impression of you to be that you are completely Verona, home of the star-crossed lover an explanation for their irrational behaviour towards you. So what do you? We suggest you observe a colleague will get fired. Even if the air clears without much damage, self-centred. Juliet Capulet of Romeo and Juliet fame, she joins a group of volunteers who respond to who is liked by the boss and we mean really observe your work relationship with the manager in question, will letters sent to Juliet seeking advice about them (read: not stalk them, just observe!). How do they act never be the same. So be absolutely sure the issue is worth Tip # 5 Practice icebreakers. Compliments can do the love. After answering one letter dated 1951, when they are around seniors? Do they treat upper level the trouble. trick at times. Do make them sound genuine and based she inspires its author (Vanessa Redgrave) to travel to Italy in search of her long-lost love management any differently than you do? on something you have learned about the person. and sets off a chain of events that will bring Saying that you love their fashion sense if they are a love into both their lives unlike anything they ever imagined. General Consensus dressed in very casual clothes sounds too desperate, Sometimes it’s not just you. Listen to what others have Time Management Tip # 9* like you are trying too hard to be a people pleaser. to say about the boss during office lunch breaks. Share Just Wright If you can, do some research before you have your ideas on how you can make it known to him or her that Releasing may 14: Under the direction of Regardless of the size of your business, there’s no need conversation to get some background information on Sanaa Hamri, Queen Latifah stars in and their behaviour is affecting everyone’s work. If it is a large for it to be a one-man show. Delegate tasks to fellow the person. produces this movie about Janice Wright, group of people who have worked in the company for a workers in accordance with their skills and working a physical therapist (Queen Latifah) who is substantial period of time, then maybe someone who is capacities. Division of labour at the workplace helps Tip #6 End the conversation on a positive note with a hired by an NBA basketball player to help close to the boss can be elected to speak to them about him rehab from an injury. As time goes on, share the load among colleagues whilst leaving you smile or handshake. Exchange business cards so that their behaviour privately. Perhaps someone who doesn’t the player begins falling in love with her. free to manage more pertinent tasks. they recognize your interest to meet them again. This The rest as the say is history but as the smart work directly under your boss but is at the same position movie-goer knows: it’s the journey towards way they too will look foward to speaking with you in as him in another department of the organization. This is *Part 9 of a 12 issue series

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18 Tempo May 2010 www.abudhabitempo.com 19 On Arablish By Rantan Rave Abu Dhabi, or Abu Thhabi, Dubai, or Debayy?? Eco-Baby Hospitals THING Last issue we talked about how you spell FUNNYIt happened UT LIFE the names of the emirates that make to me… ABO up the United Arab Emirates. This time You would think that my nom de plume ‘rant an rave’ would be let’s analyse pronunciation. How do “What if one day you had an important enough to indicate a possible curmudgeony personality. Yes, I do you pronounce Abu Dhabi? Most non- meeting with German delegates and you concur that I am more of a ranter than a raver (cause doggone it, Arabs pronounce it as Abu Daaabbi, but were dressed in your best work outfit, you there’s just so much more to gripe about these days). But after if you want to say it like an Arab it would step outside your building and suddenly the barrage (i.e. battery) of reader’s emails from my last issue’s sound like Abu Thabbi. Still, not too big a get showered with dirty water from building topic about my experience with the garlic-breathing passenger difference. The big digression comes in pronouncing ‘Dubai’. Dubai is written D-u- cleaners 50 feet above you? Do you go back next to me in a plane, I feel I may have got my comeuppance. It b-a-i because that’s possibly the best way to change or sue the cleaning company? I appears people tend to read Abu Dhabi Tempo around eating to write it in English, but it also results in always thought they were suppose to work time and many couldn’t keep their food down. (Read one such the way that most English words( that have in between morning and evening office reader letter in this issue). So in this issue of “On the Beaten Path” ‘u’ in that kind of letter construction) are hours when everyone is safely inside. Or pronounced. It would be Doobai or Dyubai I have resolved to find something to ‘rave’ about. maybe after work hours, I don’t know. They (the latter distinctly British English)—kind don’t put up caution signs or anything else [start rave] of like American ‘toona’ for tuna, and the British English ‘tyuna’. If you are an Arab which signals that they are dangling above Encouraging piece of news from Corniche Hospital is its speaker you would pronounce Dubai as our heads, sending down rains of mud and Debey—the last syllable rhyming with ‘bay’ decision to become an Eco-Baby Hospital. The hospital says it bird poo. Do companies expect us to keep rather than ‘bye’. will introduce ‘energy saving, eco-friendly materials and make looking up all the time or do they expect an effort on cutting down on waste’. Sharjah transfers perfectly into English—ie us to know what cleaning sounds like? I is pronounced in both languages exactly as wondered whom to complain about this. Is The hospital quoted research that indicates green healthcare it is written, but where it gets interesting is the Municipality responsible?” in its Arabic form. It is written with the ‘qaf’ facilities can improve patient outcomes, decrease lengths of stay not ‘jeem’ and yet it has two pronunciation Rasha Kayali for patients, and improve the health and overall performance variations in Arabic.—Sharqah, Shargah or of staff. (Hear, hear.) It says it will create an eco-team that will ‘Sharyyah’ (in local dialect). undertake a comprehensive review of energy use and waste Ajman also transfers well into English. The management and encourage the use of fewer and less-toxic only variation lies in Arabic, where Ajman “This has happened to me but not to the extent of ruining my dress. products. is sometimes pronounced “Ayymaan” in a I do relate to her because I have often had to walk some distance to local Emirati dialect, or “Agmaan” if you’re avoid the puddles these cleaning sessions leave behind. I guess the [Still in rave mode] all good stuff, to be sure but I do hope that an Egyptian. Over to best we can do is be careful ourselves.” Sadia Fahmy, Student this is not just Earth Day marketing talking. Is the commitment Umm Al Quwain is also pronounced exactly “I do think the municipality regulates working hours and the manner here to stay? How about, while they’re at it, perhaps look into the same in both languages, except for of cleaning, I mean the procedures and all. But I am not too sure that that universal eco dilemma of cloth versus commercial diapers? one Arabic pronunciation variation that is these companies pay much attention to any of it including worker And how about talking to the ‘captive’ audience of mothers not ‘Umm Al Qeewain.” Fujairah is also identical safety. I have seen the cables they use and some of them are flimsy just about how to nurse and get your body back in shape, but in both languages, except that again in local What would you have done if and likely to result in a larger accident than dirty clothes.” gently impart messages of eco responsibility? Maybe this way, Emirati dialect, it can be also pronounced as Concerned resident ‘Feyairah’. Ythis hadou happened to you? the babies born at Corniche may become our next generation “I don’t care really; I’ll just go back and change. It’s probably not the of eco-heroes. Ras Al Khaimah is often pronounced in worker’s fault that they are paid low wages and are made to do high English as Ras Al kayimaa, but if you were risk tasks. On top of that you expect them to keep looking down [end rave/ start rant] to say it like an Arab then the first syllable of Khaimah would rhyme with ‘ray’ rather from such heights to watch out for expensive suits?! My opinion is to Next issue: the problem with numbered seats in cinema than ‘die.’ talk to the supervisor standing in the shade.” Laura Daniel, Manager theatres, and the brainless twits who can’t read numbers! Have any linguistic nightmares to report? Send ‘em in at “It’s no one’s fault really. They are just doing their job and they don’t Send us your comments on [email protected] [email protected] mean to spray people. The lady should forgive and forget. Next time, just be careful!” Seema R. , Admin Officer

20 Tempo May 2010 www.abudhabitempo.com 21 CultureTalk some regions of India and Pakistan. Tribal Identity For men and women belonging to regions of Turkey, A Eastern Afghanistan and Northern Pakistan, embroidered clothes were (and still are in most parts) and important means of expressing tribal identity. In the Pashtun region Yank for example, the region a sheep herder comes from can in be identified by the pattern of silk embroidery on his clothes. In Kohistan, embroidered dresses make excessive SandLand use of metal pieces for adornment like coins, zippers and Keeping Traditions Alive jewellery. This may cause the dress to weigh up to five Unfolding the history of Islamic embroidery is like peeking kilos. On the other hand, the Lakai Uzbeks value their Second City into the origins of visual art forms across Northern Africa, warrior roots and expert horsemanship. So they stitch and Chicago is known as the “Second City” in the USA Middle East and Central Asia. Before canvases, oil painting, embroider elaborate horse decorations for their steeds. So because New York City seems to get the lion’s share and way before digital painting; there were a couple of items form an integral part of ceremonies. Their regional of attention. That being said, Chicago has its own nomadic Muslim women across these parts sitting in patterns feature abstract animal-style renditions. Double charms and unique identity. It has a completely different feel than the “Big Apple”. tribal circles - gossiping; and embroidering shirts, dresses, tailed scorpions in threatening poses and other dangerous talismanic coats, headdresses, capes for brides and bibs reptiles to name a few. The Emirate of Abu Dhabi also has a Second City, Al for their children. These women and their enduring art Dear Um Ayman, Ain. Literally “The Spring”, the city is located 160 KM form has survived over centuries and become what is now Sounds interesting? Then visit The Story of Islamic from Abu Dhabi and makes a good destination for a I am a 22 year old Arab girl and I am engaged to marry classified as Islamic Embroidery. Embroidery exhibition at Gallery One in Emirates Palace day trip and a change of scenery. my cousin. We are both graduating next year. I love to learn more about the impact of this varied art form to my uncle and aunt, and I am very fond of my cousin. Recently, a friend and I decided to explore Al Ain. The Means of Expression Muslim culture. The exhibition lasts till 28th July. Go ahead, He is romantic and funny. When we got engaged road there is smooth and fast. Roadside vistas went In the first half of the 20th century almost every young enrich your understanding of the culture which surrounds the condition my family (and I) laid down is that he from sand to lush greenery the closer we got to the girl in Moroccan tribes was initiated to this art. So you, there is so much more to explore in Abu Dhabi – the graduates from university, and the other is that he city. It reminded me of Central Florida. embroidering became a means of expression to these land of plenty. respects my desire to work after marriage. We discovered recently however that he has not been attending his First stop was the oasis near the City Center. This young members of society. A permanent workshop or public park is a maze of elevated alleyways winding Visitor Comments classes and when his family confronted him he told them ‘dar msallma’ was organized in every neighbourhood for that he has no intention of completing his studies. This through a forest of date palms as far as the eye can elder women to act as teachers, ‘ma’allema’, to young girls “I think the patterns are quite lovely. They are so finely has caused strain in my family’s relationship with my see. You can walk or drive through the park, but its and pass along the art to their next generation. Each town done. You have to strain your eyes to see the intricacy. And uncle’s family. My father has told me that if I wanted to more fun on foot. There are surprises along the way had a typical stitching pattern and these patterns where these were hand-made by seamstresses! A good cultural end this engagement that he’d respect my decision. I and you can get lost if not careful. named after their towns of origin. Meknes, Rabat and experience for a foreigner like me.” Jenny A. Bison don’t know what to do. Could you advise me Um Ayman? Next was Jebel Hafeet, an improbable giant rock Sale are some examples of such patterns which possess a N.G. rising high over the desert floor. The steep, winding distinct regional decorative style. Similarly, during festive “I have friends coming to town in October for F1, I wish road up provides motoring entertainment before occasions, like marriage, Central Asian women would they could run it longer so that I can take them to this Dear N.G., ending at a resort hotel at the top. The views are gather together to stitch hangings and bridal dresses. wonderful exhibition.” Jamie Morsalis dramatic at 1200 meters above the flat desert below! Each female member of skill would embroider one band I have come across such cases even within my own family. I fully respect your parents’ desire to safeguard It was a fun day and I recommend it. Thanks to my of cloth with a repetitive pattern and when they finished, “Good effort. It is nice to see our roots and ancestral your future-- a pre-nuptial agreement to ensure you personal navigator, Anna-Lou. Her eagle-eyes kept all bands would be stitched together to form hangings culture.” Samir K. Aziz retain the right to work is in my opinion a very wise move us on the beaten path and her voice was much more and other bridal accoutrements. This practice still exists in and I commend your determination to complete your pleasant than the “Crabby Carlia” from my GPS unit! own studies. (A degree in hand will help you achieve Randy Parker financial independence—with or without a husband). But I don’t know if coercing your betrothed to complete Randy has been a resident of Abu Dhabi since August, his education is the way to go. More importantly I see his 2008 and works in the travel industry. He has a blog at: ARO desire not to complete his studies as an indication of his http://expatuae.blogspot.com/ M UN character—that he may not be committed to hard work, O D Snapshot that he has seen a need to lie to his parents, that he may R shirks responsibility. Maybe there will be more of this in F T your future if you decide to marry him. 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