Kink Conscious Certification with the International Institute of Clinical Sexology

Thank you for your interest in obtaining your Kink Conscious Certification as a stand alone Certification OR as your speciality Certification in your PHD program.

Your Instructor, Francesca Gentille, is Certified Clinical Sexologist who is a renowned international expert and presenter in Therapeutic BDSM, Sacred Kink, and Tantric BDSM. Curriculum Vitae.

REGISTRATION: When you pay and register with the main office for the Kink Conscious Certification this includes the 5 Days in San Francisco. See below for what is included in your tuition and what is not with regards to the 5 days. The remainder of the program will be via webinar.

There are 5 Days in San Francisco, which will ignite the 6 month program. The 5 days are intellectually, and emotionally stimulating and may be experienced as intense.

In order to become an even more effective clinician for your clients in the topic of BDSM/Kink you will be invited to question old or limiting cultural beliefs that you may have currently. The objective is to utilize education, inquiry, watching demonstrations, exercises and Field Trips to expand your knowledge, wisdom and informed compassion for your clients/students.

You do not need to be kinky (or into BDSM) to take this Certification. You do not need to try anything of Kink nor BDSM physically. You are invited to “try on” new ways of perceiving, analyzing or assessing your own, your clients and society’s view of Kink, and BDSM. The purpose of this is to deepen your compassion, empathy, and knowledge where by you can expertly advise your clients should they choose to explore BDSM, and to support them in releasing shame.

There are times this may feel exciting for you, or uncomfortable for you. All your feelings are fine. In this course we practice owning our own feelings, harvesting their messages, and working with our triggers as signs that there is something from our past inspiring healing in the present. We practice making requests as well as inviting collaboration to grow at our growth edges.

THE 5 DAYS IN SAN FRANCISCO AREA IS LIKE A SAR: The days are long (although there will be breaks). Please DO NOT think of this as a vacation. It is a 5 Day Intensive similar to the AASECT SAR. *

*A Sexual Attitude Reassessment, sometimes Sexual Attitude Restructuring (SAR), seminar is a process-oriented, structured group experience to promote participants' awareness of their attitudes and values related to sexuality, and to assist them in understanding how these attitudes and values affect them professionally and personally. Since the primary purpose of a SAR is the examination of attitudes and values, it is not a traditional academic experience designed to disseminate cognitive information, nor is it psychotherapy directed toward the resolution of personal problems. MORE INFO HERE

If you are wanting to site see in San Francisco, shop, take additional classes, go out to more parties, or relax we recommend arriving 1 to 2 days early and/or remaining 1 to 2 days (or more) after. If you are visiting the area with a partner, they are welcome to attend the Field Trips (Munch/Meet Up, Kinky Bar/Club, BDSM Center/Dungeon).

You (and your partner) are welcome to stay at these events or “play” at them AFTER the first hour to 90 minutes of tour, and educational research.

HOURS OF THE 5 DAY IN PERSON TRAINING: In general, the hours will be approximately 10am to 5pm (with an hour lunch break) and then an extended dinner break (usually 2 to 4 hours. When we close the classroom at 5pm, you will have open time until we meet up again for the evening Field Trip. Depending on the event it will begin around 7pm, 8pm, or 9pm).

The evening Field Trips formally occur the first 90 minutes at the event. After that the Instructor will leave the premises. You will be on your own. You too can choose to leave at that time. Or you can choose to stay and participate more in the event. That is your choice and not required by the Program.

Of the 5 nights in the San Francisco are, 3 of them will include Field Trips.

FIELD TRIPS: The intention of the Field Trips is: ● To ask questions from your own clinical curiosity on behalf of your clients/students. For example: ○ How do people identify? ○ When/how did they know they were kinky? ○ What are they “into?” What is that? Why is that? ● To become aware of any biases or judgmentalism (especially due to lack of knowledge or enculturation) that could be in the way of holding unconditional positive regard for your clients. ● To increase knowledge (and experience if you choose) around what is commonly available at events, and BDSM community functions for your clients interested in Kink/BDSM.

If possible, we recommend taking Monday after the training off for a day of integration and self care. If for what ever reason you are not able to do so, please be tender and careful with your energy throughout the 5 days and afterwards.

The specific hours of the 5 Days, including Field Trips and in class hours, will be finalized within 30 days of the Training. It will remain very close to what has been outlined in this document.

STAYING LATER AT AN EVENT: Students are often choosing to stay at the events until Midnight or 1pm at the late evening events. On those nights, we begin the class a bit later in the next morning. You are not required to stay after the teacher leaves.

WHAT IS OPTONAL & WHAT IS REQUIRED: A foundational philosophy that has BDSM be safe, is CONSCIOUS CONSENT. It is important that you look within yourself to find what you consent to do and what you do not consent to do.

The videos, films, articles, questions, exercises, and Field Trips may be stirring. If you are committed to being a certified expert in this field of sexuality, we recommend growing at the edge of your comfort zone; neither pushing yourself so far that you break, nor holding back so much that you are not fulfilling your goals in becoming Kink Conscious.

However, do not engage where you feel for any reason that there is a strong NO within you. Speak with Instructor Francesca, or Dr Carol to assess if the Training is right for you and/or if there are ways to substitute certain Field Trips, exercises or experiences for others. There will often be some way to work it out.

CLASSES VIA WEBINAR: The remaining classes for the Certification are via Webinar. The Courses via webinar are 6 hours. 9am to 3pm Pacific Standard Time. There are two 15 minute breaks and a 30 minute meal break in each 6 hour webinar.

MANAGING YOUR WELL BEING: As this Certification is designed to stir up unconscious enculturated shaming and programming around sex, sensation, play, pain, and more, you may have feelings arise. We recommend that you have a plan for your Self Care during and after the 5 days in San Francisco as well as in the entire certification process. This may include bringing nourishing foods with you, and/or getting massages, and/or taking bubble baths, and/or having a person who you can call to help you process (Examples: Partner. Therapist. Mentor. Trusted friend. Etc)

ADDITIONAL COSTS: Your tuition covers all articles, resources and media put into the Google Drive for your Course. It includes all teaching hours including any guest speakers during the 5 days or in the webinars.

The cost of the three Field Trips are not included in your tuition: ● The Munch/Meet Up is free. However you may choose to buy food or drink. ● The Night Club is $15. However you may choose to purchase alcohol after the instructor leaves approximately 90 minutes into the trip. ● The Dungeon Party is $25 to $30 (depending on the Party).

Lodging, food, airfaire, rides to and from the classroom, and/or Field Trips are not included in your tuition. The San Francisco Bay Area has a good Uber/Lyft system, a good subway system (called BART), and it would be easy to rent a car.

As San Francisco has many delightful “Leather and Kink Shops,” time permitting you may wish to purchase toys, and fetish clothing. This is not a requirement for the course.

WELCOME & PREP LETTER: Here is the Welcome Letter Overview with what to wear, where to stay, which airports to fly in to, what to expect, what to read, etc etc. PLEASE READ ALL OF IT!

Once you are registered into The Training, you will be put on a list for the coming year’s student body. Approximately 60 to 75 days prior to The Training you will receive a “Finalized Welcome Letter” with the exact dates & themes for parties. If for some reason you need it sooner than 60 days, please let the office staff know.

One of the very best ways to prepare for The Certification Training is to begin to gather questions you may have from your clients, students, or from your own curiosity. Make a list of those questions. Email them to the Instructor 60 to 75 days prior to the Training at [email protected]

● Analysis and Assessment of BDSM in Culture: February 19 - 20, 2020 (San Francisco) This course is foundational for clinicians to assess their own positive and negative bias toward Kink. It is designed to give clinicians an introduction of the various types kink and BDSM that they will encounter in their medical or therapeutic practice. It will present the modern history of BDSM in a cultural context.

● History & Science of BDSM: February 21 - 22,2019(San Francisco) This course is designed to give clinicians an overview of the ancient and cross cultural history of BDSM. Overview of the neurobiology of love and lust. Introduction of the intersectionality of sex positive culture, Tantra and BDSM. Clinical strategies on supporting the client to release shame.

● Sociological Framework of Kink Communities: February 23, 2020 (San Francisco) This course will provide a classification and description of BDSM terms, communities, safety standards, and relationships. Topics include, but are not limited to, Safer BDSM sensation play and relationship dynamics, contracts, boundaries, negotiation techniques; resources for a client new to BDSM.

● Treatment of Sexual Differentiation within Couples: March 18, 2020 This course will focus on how to work with client couples when there is a discrepancy in sexual desire or sexual style. Application to ethics, pathology, interventions, resources and case studies will be included.

● Gender, Sexual Attraction & Relationship Design: April 15, 2020 This course will discuss gender identity versus sexual attraction, as well as variations in the spectrum from monogamy to non-monogamy. This course will focus on how to work with clients participating in D/s relationships.

● Review of Research on Kink/BDSM: May 13, 2020 This course will focus on presenting the current research in the United States on Kink/BDSM, compiled from the fields of psychology, sociology, and other disciplines.

● Contemporary Analysis of BDSM in Media: June 10, 2020 This course will explore and evaluate BDSM/Kink in contemporary culture. Comparisons of cultural perspectives from various world views will be examined. A focus on filmography and social media will be included. ● Intersectionality Between Kink/BDSM and Trauma: July 15, 2020 This course will examine the range of healthy and normal sexual vibrancy as it compares with trauma and abuse. Laws, ethics, Interventions and in-depth case studies will be included.