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Goddess Archetype Questionnaire Inspired by the book Goddesses in Everywoman by Jean Shinoda Bolen, and based on the original questionnaire by Nancy of Goddess Power, this work has been updated by Rebecca Funk to reflect more positive expressions of each goddess archetype, less defined by patriarchy. A new set of questions to do with ‘Work’ has also been added. Goddess Rating Sheet 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. A. A. A. A. A. A. A. B. B. B. B. B. B. B. C. C. C. C. C. C. C. D. D. D. D. D. D. D. E. E. E. E. E. E. E. F. F. F. F. F. F. F. G. G. G. G. G. G. G. 8. 9. 10. 11. 12. 13. 14 A. A. A. A. A. A. A. B. B. B. B. B. B. B. C. C. C. C. C. C. C. D. D. D. D. D. D. D. E. E. E. E. E. E. E. F. F. F. F. F. F. F. G. G. G. G. G. G. G. Each category, from 1 to 14, has seven letters (A to G) beside a statement. As you read each statement, rate how true that statement is for you, currently. (At other times in life you may answer differently.) Write a rating number beside each letter in each section. Rating Range 3 = 90% or above (mostly always) 2 = 70 - 89% (most of the time) 1 = 50 - 69% (half the time) -1 = less than 50% -2 = doesn’t fit 1. {Style} A. I love dressing up – my style is quite feminine and sexy. I love jewellery, accessories and make- up that enhance my outfit. It’s important to me that I feel beautiful – I feel powerful and playful when I look good. B. I prefer casual clothes that are comfortable, earthy or facilitate my active lifestyle, rather than dressy, or stylishly tighter-fitting outfits. I dislike feeling too dressed up. C. I don’t have a clear sense of my personal style – I’m not always sure what I like. If I’m shopping with friends, my purchases are influenced by their opinions. D. I dress up enough for the school run, for my job during the day, or to head to the park, but I don’t feel the need to dress up at home. It’s more likely that I need plain clothes in which to cook or paint with the kids – my kids don’t care what I wear! E. I prefer simple clothing that is practical rather than fashionable. I’m not often interested in attracting attention to myself with my choice of attire. I appreciate uncomplicated clothes in neutral colours. F. I dress to suit the occasion. If I dress up, it’s my partner’s attention and opinion I’m most invested in. My wedding ring is a meaningful symbol, for me. G. I prefer asexual clothing, or clothes that facilitate me in my work: a tailored suit, a uniform. I’m not so interested in the latest fashion, but I’m aware of the power of impressions, and use clothes for my success. 2. {Body} A. I’m more connected to my thoughts & plans than having a strong awareness of my body. I exercise regularly because it makes sense to, and I appreciate the convenience of utilising a gym close to my work. B. I am often told I look younger than I am. My body isn’t in my consciousness as much as my inner thoughts, dreams and fantasies. I am susceptible to the opinions of others, in terms of body- image. C. I enjoy and seek out physical touch regularly, in my interactions with those I love. Facials and manicures are fun, and massage is part of my self-care routine. A great haircut works wonders! I work out to keep myself in good shape. Tigress yoga is my favourite! D. I am impacted how my partner feels about my body. I’ve been very nourished by their affirmation of my beauty. We enjoy exercising or playing a team sport together. E. The stories of my pregnancies, birthing and mothering are written on my body. I find the physical touch I receive from my children very safe, loving and nourishing. Sometimes I struggle to find the time to exercise – life is full attending to the needs of others! F. My body does well with regular exercise – physical fitness energises and restores me. I prefer some emotional independence, but appreciate physical touch as a gateway to instinctive pleasure. G. I tend to my body diligently, undertaking daily tasks, such as brushing my teeth or going for a run, with meditative focus. I appreciate feeling clear and healthy. I enjoy touch with my partner when it occurs; however, it’s not often what I’m longing for. 3. {Home} A. I am nourished by living close to nature, rather than immersed in an urban environment. I feel the need for green around me. I have plants in my home and aspire to a garden full of food. I also enjoy travelling, exploring the world with a gypsy heart. B. My home is often filled with the smell of cakes baking or meals cooking. I prefer a house that affords a lot of room for my family and my children’s friends to visit. My home is rarely tidy, but it’s well-lived in and I always aim to make people feel welcome. C. My home is somewhat eclectic, if I live alone – there’s not a clear style. If I live with others, I am happy to flow with what kind of décor they appreciate. Home for me is defined more by the interpersonal relationships, rather than the physical things in it. D. My home is a vibrant place, with a striking colour scheme, eccentric or beautiful art work, simple flower arrangements, textured fabrics or plush rugs. It’s not always tidy, but it makes a statement. E. I enjoy city living and my orderly life. Even better if my home is near bookstores and my job, as I tend to work long hours. I run an efficient household, juggling career, kids, husband, and/or pets as necessary – a bit of a ‘Superwoman.’ You might find my laptop and papers on the dining table as I’m frequently in the midst of my work. F. My homemaker self is strong; I can become peacefully absorbed in household tasks. A house in order equates to inner harmony. I appreciate fresh-cut flowers or a crackling fire setting a warm, calm tone in my home. G. Our home is the place where my partner and I come together, even if we have been busy in the external world. We enjoy hosting friends and neighbours, planning the food and sharing in the preparations. I love our newly-added parents retreat space. 4. {Food} A. I’m not highly motivated by food and eating – I often find it hard to think of what to eat, and sometimes feel life would be simpler if I didn’t have to. If someone offers me food, I’ll often say yes, because it’s helpful to not have to create it myself. B. My partner and I share the cooking, out of mutual respect and an egalitarian values-system. Or, I see my role providing meals for the family as facilitating my partner’s success and achievement of our shared goals. C. I’m more invested in the ambiance where I dine, although I do enjoy good food. I like the sensuality of it, the experience of the variety of smells in the air and tastes in my mouth. Exquisite food makes the present moment a delight! D. I prefer eating out - I don’t always have time for or interest in cooking for myself. I’d rather eat out with a friend and enjoy stimulating conversation with each other. Or, I plan meals for the week and shop in advance. E. I prefer organic foods to traditional store-bought foods underpinned by unsustainable industrial farming practices. I eat consciously as I value a healthy body. My body requires adequate protein to fuel my physical activities. F. Meal preparation is an important aspect of my sense of home-making and preparing healthy meals is part of providing soul nourishment for myself and my household. The smell of home- baked food enhances the feeling of peace in my home. G. I love having family & children at my home, and I am often to be found preparing nourishing food for everyone to enjoy. I like to have a meal in the freezer ready to use, or give away to someone in need. I appreciate my garden and all I can harvest from it. 5. {Childhood} A. I was an ‘easy’ child, quiet yet independent. I did not seek cues from others nor was I directed by the desire to please others. I often felt I was different from those around me. I was socially adaptable, but didn’t get caught up in social drama. B. I was an independent child, and didn’t always feel like I fitted in. I wasn’t particularly close to my parents. I was proficient at various sports and enjoyed any time I had outdoors, camping or bushwalking. I loved animals and cherished the pets I grew up with. C. I enjoyed playing ‘mums and dads’ with my friends. My father was somewhat distant, and my mother struggled to exert authority in her marriage. When I was a bit older, the idea of being “boyfriend and girlfriend” was titillating! D.