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Av 5778– Cheshvan 5779 | August–October 2018 Issue No. 108 the connection Taking One Step Toward Adulthood p. 7 also in this issue One Step Led To... president’s message, p.3 A Look at Liturgy: Teshuvah, Avinu Malkeinu learning & practice, p. 5 Tefillah, Believe in Each Other’s Promise rabbi bisno’s message, p. 11 Tzedakah p. 4 Check out our YouTube Channel: www.youtube.com/user/RodefShalomPgh Av 5778– Cheshvan 5779 | August–October 2018 Contents Issue No. 108 learning & practice 3 One Step Led To... president’s message caring We are a Reform Jewish congregation dedicated to melding the traditions of 4 Teshuvah, Tefillah, 11 Believe in Each our faith with contemporary life. Our Tzedakah congregation was chartered in 1856 and Other’s Promise rabbi henry is one of five synagogues on the National rabbi bisno Register of Historic Landmarks. We are a diverse congregation engaged in social 5 A Look at Liturgy: 12 Simchas & News issues, culture, and learning—made up Avinu Malkeinu member engagement of multigenerational, multicultural, and learning & practice interfaith families and individuals; our 13 Let’s All Join In doors are open to everyone. 6 Teshuvah Story for executive director Family Discussions j-jep Staff Phone Extensions 14 Welcome Baby! 412.621.6566 7 Taking One Step family center Sherry Bell x137 Toward Adulthood sustainability Martha Berg x131 touth group Rabbi Bisno x123 15 New Brotherhood President Rachel Cohen x183 8 Start a New Tradition brotherhoof Yael Eads x130 learning & practice 25 Years of Rosh Chodesh Kate Kim x111 Rabbi Henry x126 women of rodef shalom Dr. Jacob x125 9 Resources to Grow Your Kristin Karsh x120 Jewish Journey 16 Pursuer of Peace Marlena Keffer x112 lippman library development Amy Langham x117 Mimsie Leyton x127 10 Each Generation and 18 Contributions Liron Lipinsky x116 Michael McHugh x144 Its Truth Don Megahan x190 archives Hope Nearhood x122 Helena Nichols x132 Rabbi Aaron B. Bisno Barry D. Weisband Rodef Shalom Congregation is a member of the Frances F. & David R. Levin Murray Klein Union for Reform Judaism. Christine Ranasinghe x182 Senior Rabbinic Pulpit Executive Director Mayda Roth x140 Rabbi Sharyn H. Henry Miriam Leyton JoAnn Ruffing x110 Sidney & Shirley C. Rapport Dave Seskey x128 Walter Jacob, DHL Family Center Director Rabbi Emeritus/Senior Sam Siskind x179 Scholar Liron Lipinsky Barry Weisband x119 J-JEP Religious School Director Lauren Wolcott x124 Don Megahan Music Director & Organist The Gift Corner x115 The bulletin of Rodef Shalom Congregation, 4905 Fifth Avenue, Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania 15213, is published bimonthly, six times Lippman Library x180 annually. Periodical postage paid at Pittsburgh, Pa. Postmaster: Send address changes to: Hakesher, 4905 Fifth Ave, Pittsburgh, PA 15213. USPS 537–660 Rodef Shalom Congregation Our mission: The mission of Rodef Shalom Congregation is to build and sustain a vibrant Reform Jewish community. We guide and support our members in living full Jewish lives throughout the life cycle, based on Torah (study), avodah (worship), and gemilut hasadim (acts of loving kindness). We strive to be a national and international leader in Jewish thought and practice. learning & practice One Step Led To... Karen Brean, President [email protected] ∧ (412) 621–6566 n the days leading up to the Rodef Shalom Annual Meeting and my installation as President of the Board, I found myself wondering, “How did I get here?” I think the route to leadership for me started almost 20 years Iago, when our daughter, Molly, started religious school. Up until that time, my husband, Rich, and I had nomination to become a board member. I felt that it been members but not extremely engaged. As Molly was time to step up and help, so I agreed. was preparing to attend Religious School, she was hesitant. I happened to read in the bulletin that When I walked into that first meeting, I knew very few the Religious School needed substitute teachers. I of the women around the table. Within a few short suggested going on Sunday mornings with Molly and, months, I was taken under their wing. I found them while she went to her class, I’d go to whatever class smart, involved, accomplished, and warmer and more needed a substitute. I was curious about what the welcoming than I ever expected. Again, my circle got students were learning on Sundays and how they were bigger and the connections grew deeper. progressing with Hebrew studies during the week. Finally, a few years ago, I was approached by the One of the themes that emerged was that, in many Temple Board’s Nominating Committee to consider cases, their parents had never learned Hebrew and being nominated for the position of Executive Vice were eager to learn as well. I proposed a pilot program President. Again, I thought, “Time to step up.” But I to the Religious School Director—to try teaching also thought, “Wait a minute; I’m not a leader!” And parents and children together. then I started hearing from the Temple community —board members, our rabbis, congregants, staff Each year, as the families coalesced, I found myself members—who had become part of my growing circle becoming part of that extended family. Each year, my at Rodef and who told me they stood ready to help circle at Temple got bigger and my connections grew in any way they could. Suddenly those connections, deeper. I started to carve out my place in the Rodef made one at a time, created the support structure I community. needed to step into this leadership position. I was comfortable in that place when I received a call Gratefully, from a Sisterhood (now Women of Rodef Shalom) board member who asked me to consider accepting a Issue No. 108 Av 5778– Cheshvan 5779 | August–October 2018 HaK ESHEr the connection 3 Teshuvah, Tefillah, Tzedakah Rabbi Sharyn H. Henry [email protected] ∧ (412) 621–6566 x126 or many of us, the purpose of the High Holy Days is to examine the ways in which we are living our lives. That we pray for another year requires, I would suggest, a notion of how we will spend the year. We remind Fourselves that teshuvah (repentance), tefillah (prayer), and tzedakah (giving) are at the heart of our Jewish practice because each of these components can help us live with more purpose, more intention, more gratitude, and ultimately…more joy. In the spirit of “taking one step” toward incorporating these three practices into our daily lives, I offer these thoughts: Teshuvah can be understood as an essential Tefillahis about our relationship with God. It is element in our relationships with ourselves. Teshuvah easy to understand that we “talk” to God during prayer, means not only “repentance” but also “returning.” For but it is just as important to consider that listening some, this means a return to our Jewish roots—our can also be prayer. When we are quiet we just might faith, history, traditions, and values—establishing hear what’s in our hearts—what do we really want to a closer link to those who stood at Sinai so many do and be? Who needs to be forgiven? Where would generations ago. Teshuvah asks us: did we grow in the more compassion be most helpful? past year or did we stand still? Take one step: Make a list of ways to connect Take one step: Set aside 5 minutes a day for “prayer,” more deeply with Judaism and then choose ONE to with or without a prayer book. What arises for you? If explore this year. Hebrew? Text study? Jewish arts? you are more inclined toward the intellectual, what can A good history of the Jewish people? Shabbat candle you learn about the history of prayer? Or, challenge lighting? Shabbat morning services? Shabbat morning your usual approach and try the 5–minute idea! meditation? Havdalah? Throughout the year we will be looking for ways to share our steps with one another. It’s exciting to imagine just how much we can learn, just how much we can grow, and just how much we can explore—one step at a time. 4 rodefshalom.org A Look at Liturgy: Avinu Malkeinu Molly May Cantorial Soloist [email protected] (412) 621–6566 This petition prayer’s origin story is that Rabbi Eliezer, known for his party tricks such as moving a planted carob tree yards away, or making a river flow upstream, was praying for rain during a drought. He was unsuccessful. Suddenly Rabbi Akiva jumped up and started to pray: “Avinu Malkeinu, there is no other sovereign but you; Avinu Malkeinu, do with us for your name’s sake,” and the rain fell. The last line of the prayer, which we sing in lovely unison each year on the High Holy Days, states: “Our Father, Our King—pardon us, answer us, though we have no worthy deeds within us. Grant us justice and kindness, Tzedakah is about our relationship with and save us.” Are we saying that nothing is other people, the good we do for others. Rabbi Lord ever good enough, so we should wallow in Jonathan Sacks teaches a lesson about tzedakah imperfection? Or are we saying, we may be from the life of Sir Moses Montefiore, one of the great imperfect, but God is perfect, so God will be figures of Victorian Jewry. Montefiore was a wealthy compassionate for God’s sake, if not for ours? man who devoted much of his long life to serving the Jewish people in Britain and worldwide (he built the The dichotomy of this prayer is evident windmill in Jerusalem, and the area of which it is a throughout—God is a parent who will keep part—Yemin Moshe—is named after him).