Introduction
Answering the quick-fire questions below will create a PDF of your limits. This is by no means an exhaustive list but a great tool to start the conversation with your partner (or prospective dom/sub) about your limits and interests.
It is important to review these limits regularly... you may find something you thought you'd enjoy becomes a hard limit and vice versa!
A hard limit is something you do not want to try under any circumstance. This can be for any reason.
A soft limit is something you do not think you want to do but would be willing to try with the right partner or scenario.
Your Results
Question Your Answer
Oral sex giving Yes
Oral sex receiving Yes
Vaginal sex (penetration) Yes
Anal sex (penetration) Yes
Double Penetration (oral and anal) Yes
Double penetration (anal and vaginal) Yes
Hand jobs giving Yes
Hand jobs receiving Yes
Massage (giving) Yes
Massage (receiving) Yes
Rimming giving (i.e licking the anal area) Yes
Rimming receiving (i.e licking the anal area) Yes
Facesitting Yes
Swallowing semen Yes
Spitting No
Blindfolds Yes
hand cuffs Yes
Plugs (i.e butt plug) Yes
Vibration on genitals Yes
nipple play Yes Question Your Answer spanking Yes
Paddling Yes
Flogging Yes
Wooden Paddles Yes
Strapping Yes
Caning Maybe faceslapping Maybe
Punishments Yes
Abrasion (i.e using an abrasive item like a brush to sensitize skin) Yes
Wax play (i.e the dripping of hot wax onto the skin) No
Electro stimulation No
Forced Orgasms Yes
Orgasm denial/control or edging Yes
Biting Yes
Hair Pulling Maybe
Arm binders Yes
Leg Binders Yes
Bondage (soft) Yes
Bondage (heavy) Maybe
Ropes Yes
Nipple clamps Maybe
Breast Bondage Yes
Breath play (soft) No
Breath play (hard) No
Choking No Question Your Answer
Pain (mild) Yes
Pain (strong) Yes
Strapons (penetrated by) Yes
Strapons (wearing) Yes
Strapons (sucking) Yes
Clothes pegs Yes
Cock worship Maybe
Pussy worship Maybe
Collars Yes
Examination (physical) Yes
Public exposure No
Fantasy Rape Yes
Following orders Yes
Foot Worship No
Forced dressing Maybe
Forced masturbation Maybe
Forced nudity (private) Yes
Forced nudity (public) No
Forced servitude Yes
Full head / isolation hood (i.e a mask covering the entire head) No
Gags (i.e gag in the mouth) Yes
Given to others (i.e to be used sexually) No
Watching partner with others No
Outdoor sex Yes
Group sex Yes Question Your Answer
Sex in public No
Humiliation (private) Maybe
Humiliation (public) No
Humiliation (verbal) No
Washing mouth out with soap No
Infantalism No
Ice Play (i.e using ice for sensations) Maybe
Kidnapping scenes No
Interrogation scenes Yes
Kneeling Yes
Standing in the corner No
Proscribed postures Yes
Begging Yes
Speech restrictions (when, what, who) Maybe
Bathroom restrictions No
Medical scenes Maybe
Mummification/saran wrapping (i.e the whole body wrapped) No
Pussy whipping Yes
Chastity devices No
Testicle weights No
Nipple weights No
Sensory deprivation Yes
Shaving (i.e body hair) Yes
Speculums (vaginal) Maybe
Speculums (anal) Maybe Question Your Answer
Religious Scenes No
Spreader bars Yes
Used as furniture Yes
Suspension (i.e being suspended with rope/other) Yes
Cages (i.e being locked inside) Yes
Straight Jackets No
Uniforms Yes
Recording Scenes (i.e video) No
Being photographed Yes
Voyuerism (i.e watching others) No
Tickling Yes
Whipping Yes
Swinging (i.e swapping partners) Maybe
Catheterization No
Figging (insertion of ginger rectally) No
Enemas No
Branding No
Brown Showers / Scat No
Golden Showers No
Chosen Food No
Chosen Clothing Maybe
Cutting No
Dilation (anal/vaginal) Maybe
Fire Play (i.e a candle flame or similar near the skin) No
Fisting (anal) Yes Question Your Answer
Fisting (vaginal) Maybe
Human Puppy Play Maybe
Injections No
Knife/edge play No
Piercing Maybe
Pony Play No
Tattoos Maybe
Ball stretching No
Castration fantasy No
Harems (i.e serving with others for one partner) Yes
Uretheal sounds (i.e metal rods in uretha) No
Cock and ball torture No
Cucking No