Introduction

Answering the quick-fire questions below will create a PDF of your limits. This is by no means an exhaustive list but a great tool to start the conversation with your partner (or prospective dom/sub) about your limits and interests.

It is important to review these limits regularly... you may find something you thought you'd enjoy becomes a hard limit and vice versa!

A hard limit is something you do not want to try under any circumstance. This can be for any reason.

A soft limit is something you do not think you want to do but would be willing to try with the right partner or scenario.

Your Results

Question Your Answer

Oral sex giving Yes

Oral sex receiving Yes

Vaginal sex (penetration) Yes

Anal sex (penetration) Yes

Double Penetration (oral and anal) Yes

Double penetration (anal and vaginal) Yes

Hand jobs giving Yes

Hand jobs receiving Yes

Massage (giving) Yes

Massage (receiving) Yes

Rimming giving (i.e licking the anal area) Yes

Rimming receiving (i.e licking the anal area) Yes

Facesitting Yes

Swallowing semen Yes

Spitting No

Blindfolds Yes

hand cuffs Yes

Plugs (i.e butt plug) Yes

Vibration on genitals Yes

nipple Yes Question Your Answer spanking Yes

Paddling Yes

Flogging Yes

Wooden Paddles Yes

Strapping Yes

Caning Maybe faceslapping Maybe

Punishments Yes

Abrasion (i.e using an abrasive item like a brush to sensitize skin) Yes

Wax play (i.e the dripping of hot wax onto the skin) No

Electro stimulation No

Forced Orgasms Yes

Orgasm denial/control or Yes

Biting Yes

Hair Pulling Maybe

Arm binders Yes

Leg Binders Yes

Bondage (soft) Yes

Bondage (heavy) Maybe

Ropes Yes

Nipple clamps Maybe

Breast Bondage Yes

Breath play (soft) No

Breath play (hard) No

Choking No Question Your Answer

Pain (mild) Yes

Pain (strong) Yes

Strapons (penetrated by) Yes

Strapons (wearing) Yes

Strapons (sucking) Yes

Clothes pegs Yes

Cock worship Maybe

Pussy worship Maybe

Collars Yes

Examination (physical) Yes

Public exposure No

Fantasy Rape Yes

Following orders Yes

Foot Worship No

Forced dressing Maybe

Forced masturbation Maybe

Forced nudity (private) Yes

Forced nudity (public) No

Forced Yes

Full head / isolation hood (i.e a mask covering the entire head) No

Gags (i.e gag in the mouth) Yes

Given to others (i.e to be used sexually) No

Watching partner with others No

Outdoor sex Yes

Group sex Yes Question Your Answer

Sex in public No

Humiliation (private) Maybe

Humiliation (public) No

Humiliation (verbal) No

Washing mouth out with soap No

Infantalism No

Ice Play (i.e using ice for sensations) Maybe

Kidnapping scenes No

Interrogation scenes Yes

Kneeling Yes

Standing in the corner No

Proscribed postures Yes

Begging Yes

Speech restrictions (when, what, who) Maybe

Bathroom restrictions No

Medical scenes Maybe

Mummification/saran wrapping (i.e the whole body wrapped) No

Pussy whipping Yes

Chastity devices No

Testicle weights No

Nipple weights No

Sensory deprivation Yes

Shaving (i.e body hair) Yes

Speculums (vaginal) Maybe

Speculums (anal) Maybe Question Your Answer

Religious Scenes No

Spreader bars Yes

Used as furniture Yes

Suspension (i.e being suspended with rope/other) Yes

Cages (i.e being locked inside) Yes

Straight Jackets No

Uniforms Yes

Recording Scenes (i.e video) No

Being photographed Yes

Voyuerism (i.e watching others) No

Tickling Yes

Whipping Yes

Swinging (i.e swapping partners) Maybe

Catheterization No

Figging (insertion of ginger rectally) No

Enemas No

Branding No

Brown Showers / Scat No

Golden Showers No

Chosen Food No

Chosen Clothing Maybe

Cutting No

Dilation (anal/vaginal) Maybe

Fire Play (i.e a candle flame or similar near the skin) No

Fisting (anal) Yes Question Your Answer

Fisting (vaginal) Maybe

Human Puppy Play Maybe

Injections No

Knife/edge play No

Piercing Maybe

Pony Play No

Tattoos Maybe

Ball stretching No

Castration fantasy No

Harems (i.e serving with others for one partner) Yes

Uretheal sounds (i.e metal rods in uretha) No

Cock and ball torture No

Cucking No