Think Like a Thief

Trish Mayer, Children’s Pastor New Covenant COG Good Teachers are Thieves

• When the teacher plays the role of a thief, they take ideas from… • Workshops • Trainings • Classes they attend • Events • Lessons observed from other teachers

• Teachers make a mental note of what they saw (or ask for a copy of the lesson, etc.) and alter it to make it their own. Where do I ‘hunt’ to expand my ‘toolbox’?

• Attend Children’s Ministry Trainings- (ex. FOCUS) • Meet with a School Teacher (ask about teaching methods, free websites, cool ideas, etc.) • Observe Teachers in the Classroom • Read Books, Children’s Magazines, Blogs • Social Media (scope out what other ministries are doing) • Look at Youtube for object lessons, or other cool ideas • Join or Create a Facebook Group for Children’s Pastors to Share Ideas • Call Other Children’s Pastors • Attend Another Church to Observe Children’s Church Procedures & Services The Reach Project Social Media Challenges for Kids

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Trish Mayer, Children’s Pastor New Covenant COG [email protected] Finding Life Application in Physical Education Games

Wednesday night church can be difficult sometimes for children. Many of them have been sitting in front of a teacher or computer for hours and their attention span is spent. Children have a natural need to get exercise and excerpt energy as a deviation from their day. To help with this, we often play games for the second half (about 20-30 minutes) of our Wednesday night services and sometimes Sunday mornings if adult services go longer than expected.

When we are at a curriculum transition we will sometimes take an entire Wednesday night and allow the kids to play a game or two. However, our goal is to fit something in that night that focuses on the spiritual aspect of life too. One thing we might do is take a physical education game from YouTube and try to think of ways we can take different aspects of the game and give it biblical life application. Below is a sample/template of this for you to use . The ultimate goal is to get your kids talking about that they experienced just after playing the game. Though questions and group discussion you will find that the children will bring up feelings they just experienced. It is here where you, as the group facilitator, can pull out how that feeling relates to their life and God.

Here is an outline of what to do…

1. Pick a game- Type in ‘PE Games’ in the youttube search bar and watch a few games. Choose something you feel the kids would like. A few to consider are Steal the Bacon, Capture the Flag, War Ball, Mini Riot, Dodgeball, etc. 2. Learn the rules of the game- You will need to be able to explain it effectively to the kids so take notes if you need to. 3. Decide who will officiate the game- You may need a whistle for some games so the kids know when it is time to stop. 4. Explain the game and the rules- At times you will need to model what you expect of them while you are explaining the game. Sometimes kids learn best with seeing what they should do (especially the younger ages). Remember it is also important to explain things they should not do before you begin to play (ex. running out of bounds, throwing balls at one another above chest (avoid other’s faces), etc.). It’s best to explain here where boarders/ lines/boundaries are located, etc. 5. Start with some play time- Let them play the game for about 15-20 minutes or to a certain score (ex. first team to ten points). Change teams, etc. When you sense they need a break stop the game. 6. Discussion time- Have the kids sit down on the ground, on a beach towel, or on a chair in your children’s department sanctuary for some discussion time. During this time we usually give the children a drink box and a snack. Once everyone is settled, we go through a series of questions. These questions are listed in the Lesson Sample Guide below. You can use these questions or make your own list to fit the direction you wish to go in your group discussion. Your goal is to relate an aspect of the game to their lives. During the game children will have positive experiences, humorous situations, and difficult challenges. You can often compare the experiences they face in the game to life situations (fear, anger, tripping and falling, etc.) You can take it a step further and give examples of people from the Bible and the experiences they had in their lives. Sometimes we don’t necessarily use a Bible figure in the life application discussion, but when it fits we do. Sometimes just focusing on a topic (ex. Fear) is enough. Be aware- sometimes these discussions may surprise you. For example- the discussion in the lesson sample below did not go as we anticipated. We thought it would possibly be a focus on fear. It ended up developing into a discussion on how we as Christians should have a determined, relentless, passionate pursuit of God. This was totally unexpected and was sincerely a super discussion with the kids! 7. Wrapping it up- When you are finished with the discussion wrap it up with a prayer. Then have the kids throw their trash, and either resume playing or transition to another game/ activity. Lesson Sample Guide:

Chosen Game: Steal the Bacon (Watch the rules to Steal the Bacon to better understand what is being explained below. Below are a few screen shots from the video we used.)

Grades: K-8, Team Focus Equipment Needed: Large and/or small cones, ‘bacon’ (a bandana, large sponge, or another soft item), a whistle for a large group

LESSON OBJECTIVE: Students will demonstrate an understanding of the rules of the game (in this case Steal the Bacon). They will also learn/express understanding of how some concepts of the game relate to real life and God’s Word.

1. Choose a Game- For this lesson we will use Steal the Bacon.

2. Choose the Life Application Focus- Think about the game as it is played, and how the children will play defense and offense. Consider the situations the children will experience in the game. With Steal the Bacon you might ask yourself things like…

• What emotions do you anticipate from them? • Will they feel before they have to play or while they play? • If they come against an ‘enemy’ in the game, how will that feel? • What things will they see and and experience? • What feelings will they have when they chase their opponent as the opponent takes off with ‘the bacon’? • What will they feel when they don’t catch the ‘bacon’ thief? • What will they feel being the one with the ‘bacon’ being chased? • Are there different thoughts and experiences because of the age of the kid? (Maybe you have a really tall kid going against a small one- You might even do this sort of thing on purpose to prove a point. What feeling might they have in this situation?)

To gain life application it is important to determine what aspects of the game might generate emotion/feelings for the kids. Usually in PE games fear, excitement, anger, aggression, stress, fighting, war, feelings of protection, and team work occur. You could also consider that there are physical boundaries such as zones/lines/obstacles/barriers in some games. Chose which aspect of the game you want to focus on that night. Be prepared that the discussion may not go exactly the way you think it will. Sometimes these kids will surprise you with what they think/feel. Also, sometimes things happen that you may not have anticipated that you can focus on. Two example are:

1. At times a child may get into a crazy situation (like pickle) and they ‘zig-zag’ their way out of it. You could focus on how God can really surprise us with some the crazy situations he directs us out of. 2. Maybe two kids collide like they are hitting a brick wall. You might mention that sometimes in our lives we have hard times where life hits us hard, makes us cry, puts us on our backs, but God is always there.

Sometimes these unpredictable situations happen and you may find the discussion moving toward what you did not anticipate. When this happens we usually let the kids express their feelings and do the best we can to relate it all to God. Most of the time these are the best conversations where you learn a lot about the child and they get to share their feelings with one another.

2. (Optional- but helps to bring home your point.) If you have picked the aspect of the game you want to focus on, then you have a second question to ask yourself. Who from the Bible may have experienced similar feelings and how/ why did they feel that way? How did they work through that challenge they faced? Some examples could be…

- Fear- David flees from Saul into a cave or from his son, Absalom - Fear- Jesus and the Disciples on the Sea of Galilee in the Storm - Protection- God’s Protection of Ester - Team work- Nehemiah and Rebuilding the Wall in Jerusalem - Leadership (perhaps one kid takes control of a situation)- Joshua setting an example, David and His Courage

And there are so many more…

3. Explain the Game

4. Play the Game

5. Questions & Free Responses from the Kids- (Magenta indicates children’s responses to our questions.)

Question List Can anyone explain the game to me? What are the goals during the game? Tell me more. (I went on for a little bit with this to make sure they really understood/let them talk. They talked about the chaos of the game if I called out more than one number, etc.) The children gave random answers about getting the bacon quickly back to their home base, about running fast, about chasing down someone who took what they wanted. They focused on how fun it was to compete against one another. What feeling did you have when you were standing waiting to hear your number called? Excitement. Anticipation. What are some of the feelings you had going to get the bacon? Determination/ I wanted to get that bacon! What about when you were not the first to get the bacon and had to chase down your opponent? How did that feel? All of them began to focus on the passion/determination of how to ‘get that bacon’ and NOT give up. I asked if they were fearful at all going against an opponent. They said, “no”! They wanted the bacon and they were “going to run as hard as I can” to get the bacon! So, you didn’t feel fear at all going against your opponent? All of them answered- “NO!” This is where I knew we were going in another direction for certain. I had thought we would be discussing something along the lines of fear because of the younger ones. Even my five and six year olds said they ‘wanted that bacon’. :) (I restated what they said.) So, you all are telling me that you felt a passion to get the bacon, no matter what? Yes, they all agreed. So that bacon was a great prize, huh? Yes. How is that great prize like God? God is important. We should seek after Him. He is important to us. I cannot live without God. Does this remind you of anyone from the Bible? Blank stares for a moment. Well, it reminds me of someone. Do you remember David? Do you remember when he was younger what he did when he was out with the sheep? Basically here I took more of the discussion and spoke about David. I spoke about how he played his harp to the Lord, wrote songs, had huge faith in God through some really tough circumstances- The main focus was on how his heart was pointed toward God and how we should strive to be like him in his relentless effort to follow and trust in God. So, how can our hearts be like Davids? How can we be relentless, determined to find God, and passionate about God? Samuel 13:14, Acts 13:22 Spend time reading Bible, sing praise and worship songs at home and here at church, trusting him when we feel worried, making him a priority when it is hard to with distractions, etc.

This discussion took a turn, but the leaders in there will tell you, it was a very good night. The kids enjoyed it. I encourage you to take any game and see what happens. You may never be fully prepared for what they say they felt. You can always point them back to the Lord.