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Self-Love and Self-Conceit*
Self-Love and Self-Conceit* Owen Ware April 15, 2020 Introduction Kant holds a rather unflattering view of human nature in the Critique of Practi- cal Reason. All of us, he believes, are prone to ‘self-love’ (Eigenliebe), a tendency to satisfy our needs and inclinations, and to ‘self-conceit’ (Eigendünkel), a ten- dency to treat our happiness as a source of law (KpV 5:73.9-14). Surprisingly, however, Kant says little to explain why we are prone to self-conceit, and his few scattered remarks on the issue are quite puzzling. In one place he says that ‘if self-love makes itself lawgiving and the unconditional practical principle, it can be called self-conceit’ (KpV 5:74.18-19). Yet this is far from clear. Given the natural and innocent tendency we have to self-love, what would lead us to treat our happiness as a lawgiving principle? What, in short, would lead us to self-conceit in the first place? My discussion in this paper divides into six sections. In sections 1-2, I con- sider two possible ways of explaining the origin of self-conceit. One is to con- sider self-conceit in terms of how we compare ourselves with others; the other is to consider it in terms of how our sensible inclinations move us to act. Find- ing neither view satisfying, I then proceed to motivate an alternative account in sections 3-4. I argue that we find an illuminating parallel in Kant’s account of ‘transcendental illusion’ in the first Critique: the illusion we face in our search for systematic unity of knowledge. -
SELF-AFFIRMATION AS an ENVY-REDUCING INTERVENTION I
Running head: SELF-AFFIRMATION AS AN ENVY-REDUCING INTERVENTION i How do you solve a problem like my envy? Self-affirmation as a potential envy-reducing intervention by Darren Christopher Neufeld A Thesis submitted to the Faculty of Graduate Studies of The University of Manitoba in partial fulfillment of the requirements of the degree of DOCTOR OF PHILOSOPHY Department of Psychology University of Manitoba Winnipeg Copyright © 2017 by Darren Christopher Neufeld SELF-AFFIRMATION AS AN ENVY-REDUCING INTERVENTION ii Abstract Envy is a toxic emotion detrimental to one's health and wellbeing (Smith, Combs, & Thielke, 2008), yet few studies have suggested and none have evaluated possible envy-reducing strategies. Self-affirmation has been shown to reduce the impact of self-integrity threats and defensive processing (Cohen & Sherman, 2014), suggesting likely benefit when applied to envy. The present study (N = 209) examined whether completing a brief self-affirmation value essay (Cohen, Aronson, & Steele, 2000) attenuated student participants' self-reported envy feelings and potentially envy-motivated aggressive behaviour (non-cooperation) toward an ostensibly smarter and financially advantaged rival student in the laboratory, relative to a no-affirmation control condition. A one-month follow-up study (N = 169) investigated whether the self-affirmation intervention (vs. control) promoted durable effects in daily life, such as when recalling an intense past-month instance of envy. Potential mediators (self-construal, mood) were examined to illuminate mechanisms underlying self-affirmation effects. Prospective moderators (dispositional envy, self-compassion, vulnerable and grandiose narcissism, self-esteem, entitlement, and sex) were assessed to determine whether individuals most psychologically vulnerable to envy threat derived greater benefit from the intervention. -
A Confucian Defense of Shame: Morality, Self-Cultivation, and the Dangers of Shamelessness
religions Article Article Article A ConfucianA Confucian Defense Defense of Shame: of Shame: Morality, Morality, Self-Cultivation, Self-Cultivation, A Confucian Defense of Shame: Morality, Self-Cultivation, and theand Dangers the Dangers of Shamelessness of Shamelessness and the Dangers of Shamelessness Mark BerksonMark Berkson Mark Berkson Department of Religion,Department Hamline of Religion, University, Hamline St. Paul, University, MN 55104, St. USA;Paul, [email protected] 55104, USA; [email protected] Department of Religion, Hamline University, St. Paul, MN 55104, USA; [email protected] Abstract: ManyAbstract: philosophers Many and philosophers scholars in and the scholars West have in the a negative West have view a negative of shame. view In muchof shame. In much of Abstract: Many philosophers and scholars in the West have a negative view of shame.of post-classical In much ofpost-classical Western ethical Western thought, ethical shame thought, is compared shame is negativelycompared negatively with guilt, with as shame guilt, isas shame is asso- post-classical Western ethical thought, shame is compared negatively with guilt, asassociated shame is asso- withciated the “outer”, with the how “outer”, one appears how one before appears others before (and othe thusrs is (and merely thus a is matter merely of a “face”), matter of “face”), and ciated with the “outer”, how one appears before others (and thus is merely a matterand of “face”), guilt is and associatedguilt is associated with the “inner”with the realm “inner” of therealm conscience of the conscience and soul. and Anthropologists soul. Anthropologists and and philoso- guilt is associated with the “inner” realm of the conscience and soul. -
Narcissism and Subjective Arousal in Response to Sexual Aggression: the Mediating Role of Perceived Power
Article Narcissism and Subjective Arousal in Response to Sexual Aggression: The Mediating Role of Perceived Power Virgil Zeigler-Hill * and David Andrews Department of Psychology, Oakland University, Rochester, MI 48309, USA; [email protected] * Correspondence: [email protected] Abstract: The present research examined the associations that narcissistic personality features had with subjective arousal in response to sexually aggressive behaviors, as well as whether these associ- ations were mediated by the power that was believed to accompany these behaviors. Participants were 221 community members (115 women, 106 men) who completed a self-report instrument that captured narcissistic admiration (an agentic form of narcissism) and narcissistic rivalry (an antagonistic form of narcissism). In addition, participants were asked to rate how powerful they would expect to feel if they actually engaged in an array of sexually aggressive behaviors (e.g., “Tying up a person during sexual intercourse against her/his will”) as well as how sexually aroused they would be by each behavior. A multilevel mediation analysis revealed that both narcissistic admiration and narcissistic rivalry were positively associated with subjective arousal in response to sexual aggression and that these associations were mediated by the perceived power that was believed to accompany these sexually aggressive behaviors. These results suggest that perceptions of power may play an important role in the connections that narcissistic personality features have with subjective arousal in response to sexually aggressive behavior for both men and women. This discussion will focus on the implications of these results for understanding the connections between narcissism and sexual aggression in both men and women. -
Term Toxic Shame Being Mirrored by One
Donald Bradshaw Nathanson Coined the The compass of term toxic shame. shame Four universal Mark Epstein, Pema Chodron, Being behaviors to Kevin Griffin Karen Horney mirrored defend against Abiding difficult emotions to observe and learn . Four major by one shame. The Idea of PRACTICE and Right View being wise idea that when aempts of Gershen Kaufman non- or attuned. Led to Present with Self and Present with avoiding shame Find the entrances to shaming the neuro2c Others and Wise-Self you are bigger individual to governing scenes. person than or less than Whenever we are makes all come to others. Says, to soluon able to observe upon the learn from our our experience, we difference shame and "Just immediately detach love yourself." from it. Brene Brown Silvan Thomas Tony Webb Empathy opposite of Scheff/Helen Tomkins Virginia Satir The social aspects of shame; judge in Lewis Block Emotions the compass of Four coping areas most Disrupts bond are shame -- aggression, vulnerable to shame; motivators. stances: depression, isolation, Humiliated Placating, judging numbs-easier Affect and addiction. fury. Blame, Being than loss/grief; pre- Acknowledge theory: Alienation and Super- aggression broader frontal cortex off in shame then Scripts are shame. connection to begun as Reasonable, social results from Perfectionism. others soon as we Being Irrelevant avoiding shame. 'Good' shame as restored. are born. humility. Show deference to others. What does acknowledged shame look like? What is attunement? Shame-anger spirals. Governing Scenes Gershen -
Guilt, Shame, and Grief: an Empirical Study of Perinatal Bereavement
Guilt, Shame, and Grief: An Empirical Study of Perinatal Bereavement by Peter Barr 'Death in the sickroom', Edvard Munch 1893 A thesis submitted in fulfilment of the requirements for the degree of Doctor of Philosophy Centre for Behavioural Sciences Faculty of Medicine University of Sydney November, 2003 Preface All of the work described in this thesis was carried out personally by the author under the auspices of the Centre for Behavioural Sciences, Department of Medicine, Faculty of Medicine, University of Sydney. None of the work has been submitted previously for the purpose of obtaining any other degree. Peter Barr OAM, MB BS, FRACP ii The investigator cannot truthfully maintain his relationship with reality—a relationship without which all his work becomes a well-regulated game—if he does not again and again, whenever it is necessary, gaze beyond the limits into a sphere which is not his sphere of work, yet which he must contemplate with all his power of research in order to do justice to his own task. Buber, M. (1957). Guilt and guilt feelings. Psychiatry, 20, p. 114. iii Acknowledgements I am thankful to the Department of Obstetrics and Department of Neonatology of the following hospitals for giving me permission to approach parents bereaved by stillbirth or neonatal death: Royal Prince Alfred Hospital, Royal Hospital for Women, Royal North Shore Hospital and Westmead Hospital. I am most grateful to Associate Professor Susan Hayes and Dr Douglas Farnill for their insightful supervision and unstinting encouragement and support. Dr Andrew Martin and Dr Julie Pallant gave me sensible statistical advice. -
Subtypes, Dimensions, Levels, and Mental States in Narcissism and Narcissistic Personality Disorder
Subtypes, Dimensions, Levels, and Mental States in Narcissism and Narcissistic Personality Disorder Kenneth N. Levy Pennsylvania State University Various conceptualizations of subtypes, levels, and dimensions of narcissism and narcissistic person- ality disorder (NPD) are considered with a particular focus on overt grandiose presentations and covert vulnerable presentations. Evidence supporting this distinction and clinical vignettes to illustrate it are presented as well as their implications for clinical work with NPD patients. The research and clinical evidence points to the conclusion that these broad categorical subtypes are better conceptualized as dimensions on which individual patients vary on relative levels, thus suggesting that grandiose and vul- nerable presentations represent two sides of the same coin. A case example and clinical implications are provided and discussed. C 2012 Wiley Periodicals, Inc. J. Clin. Psychol: In Session 00:1–12, 2012. Keywords: narcissism; narcissistic personality disorder; grandiose subtype; vulnerable subtype Beginning with its inclusion in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual (DSM; 1968, 1980, 1994, 2000), narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) has been conceptualized predominately by its overt grandiose features. However, the definition of NPD articulated in the DSM-III and its successors, DSM-III-R and DSM-IV, has been criticized for failing to fully capture the intended clinical phenomena (Cooper & Ronningstam, 1992; Gabbard, 1989; Gunderson et al., 1991). These authors have noted that the DSM criteria have focused narrowly on aspects of the conceptual approaches of Kernberg and Millon, emphasizing the more overt form of narcissism. However, theoretical and empirical work is now converging to suggest that NPD is not a homogenous disorder and subtypes likely exist within this group. -
About Emotions There Are 8 Primary Emotions. You Are Born with These
About Emotions There are 8 primary emotions. You are born with these emotions wired into your brain. That wiring causes your body to react in certain ways and for you to have certain urges when the emotion arises. Here is a list of primary emotions: Eight Primary Emotions Anger: fury, outrage, wrath, irritability, hostility, resentment and violence. Sadness: grief, sorrow, gloom, melancholy, despair, loneliness, and depression. Fear: anxiety, apprehension, nervousness, dread, fright, and panic. Joy: enjoyment, happiness, relief, bliss, delight, pride, thrill, and ecstasy. Interest: acceptance, friendliness, trust, kindness, affection, love, and devotion. Surprise: shock, astonishment, amazement, astound, and wonder. Disgust: contempt, disdain, scorn, aversion, distaste, and revulsion. Shame: guilt, embarrassment, chagrin, remorse, regret, and contrition. All other emotions are made up by combining these basic 8 emotions. Sometimes we have secondary emotions, an emotional reaction to an emotion. We learn these. Some examples of these are: o Feeling shame when you get angry. o Feeling angry when you have a shame response (e.g., hurt feelings). o Feeling fear when you get angry (maybe you’ve been punished for anger). There are many more. These are NOT wired into our bodies and brains, but are learned from our families, our culture, and others. When you have a secondary emotion, the key is to figure out what the primary emotion, the feeling at the root of your reaction is, so that you can take an action that is most helpful. . -
Conceptual Challenge to Understand Envy: a Review
Journal of IMS Group Malik Journal of IMS Group Vol. 13, No. 1, January - June 2016, pp. 25-37 Conceptual Challenge to Understand Envy: A Review Sangeeta Malik Abstract Envy is a universal aspect of everyday life. We only reluctantly acknowledge the inhibiting and destructive aspects of this emotion in the workplace. The author has examined the conceptual challenges associated with studying envy. This conceptual paper attempts to clarify the concept of envy for business research from a situational perspective. Thereto, it integrates research on envy from various scientific disciplines i.e., from philosophy, anthropology, evolutionary and social psychology to political thought and introduces a novel, conceptually distinction in the four notions of envy, proper, benign envy, spite, and jealousy. Considering the power and ubiquity of envy, envy implies hostility, we generally view it as a dangerous emotion, capable of disrupting interpersonal relations and triggering hostility, Thereby, it lays the groundwork for further analysis of the phenomenon of envy in business research. Key words: Envy, Jealousy, Conceptualization. INTRODUCTION Envy is an unpleasant, often painful emotion characterizes by feelings of inferiority, hostility, and resentment produced by an awareness of another person or group of persons who enjoy a desired possession (object, social position, attribute, or quality of being; e.g. Parrott, 1991; Parrott & Smith, 1993). Envy, however, creates a drive in people to try and outdo their peers. Envy derives from a mix of emotional insecurity competitiveness, resentment and dissatisfaction with a situation. The resentment comes from a belief that others have something that we ourselves think we should have or are capable of attaining. -
Evaluation of the Evidence for the Trauma and Fantasy Models of Dissociation
Psychological Bulletin © 2012 American Psychological Association 2012, Vol. 138, No. 3, 550–588 0033-2909/12/$12.00 DOI: 10.1037/a0027447 Evaluation of the Evidence for the Trauma and Fantasy Models of Dissociation Constance J. Dalenberg Bethany L. Brand California School of Professional Psychology at Alliant Towson University International University, San Diego David H. Gleaves and Martin J. Dorahy Richard J. Loewenstein University of Canterbury Sheppard Pratt Health System, Baltimore, Maryland, and University of Maryland School of Medicine, Baltimore Etzel Carden˜a Paul A. Frewen Lund University University of Western Ontario Eve B. Carlson David Spiegel National Center for Posttraumatic Stress Disorder, Menlo Park, Stanford University School of Medicine and Veterans Administration Palo Alto Health Care System, Palo Alto, California The relationship between a reported history of trauma and dissociative symptoms has been explained in 2 conflicting ways. Pathological dissociation has been conceptualized as a response to antecedent traumatic stress and/or severe psychological adversity. Others have proposed that dissociation makes individuals prone to fantasy, thereby engendering confabulated memories of trauma. We examine data related to a series of 8 contrasting predictions based on the trauma model and the fantasy model of dissociation. In keeping with the trauma model, the relationship between trauma and dissociation was consistent and moderate in strength, and remained significant when objective measures of trauma were used. Dissociation was temporally related to trauma and trauma treatment, and was predictive of trauma history when fantasy proneness was controlled. Dissociation was not reliably associated with suggestibility, nor was there evidence for the fantasy model prediction of greater inaccuracy of recovered memory. -
RELIABILITY and VALIDITY of the DUTCH VERSION of the INTERPERSONAL REACTIVITY INDEX Kim DE CORTE
Psychologica Belgica 2007, 47-4, 235-260. MEASURING EMPATHIC TENDENCIES: RELIABILITY AND VALIDITY OF THE DUTCH VERSION OF THE INTERPERSONAL REACTIVITY INDEX Kim DE CORTE (1), Ann BUYSSE (2), Lesley L. VERHOFSTADT (2), Herbert ROEYERS (2), Koen PONNET (3), & Mark H. DAVIS (4) Ghent University Hospital (1), Ghent University (2), University of Antwerp (3), & Eckerd College, St. Petersburg, United States (4) The Interpersonal Reactivity Index (IRI; Davis, 1980) is a commonly used self-report instrument designed to assess empathic tendencies. The IRI con- sists of four separate subscales: Perspective Taking (PT), Fantasy (FS), Empathic Concern (EC), and Personal Distress (PD). The objective of this study was to examine the psychometric properties of a Dutch version of the IRI. The IRI was administered to a Dutch sample of 651 normal functioning adults. The factor structure of the IRI was examined by using confirmatory factor analysis (CFA). The results of the CFA revealed that there is room for improvement and modification of the original theoretical model. The validity of the IRI was tested using internal criteria (i.e., scale intercorrelations) and external criteria (i.e., correlations with subscales of the EQ-i (Bar-On, 1997), the NEO-FFI (Hoekstra, Ormel, & De Fruyt, 1996), Mach-IV (Van Kenhove, Vermeir, & Verniers, 2001), Rosenberg Self-esteem Scale (Rosenberg, 1965), and the WAIS-III (Wechsler, 2000)). Overall, the internal consistency, con- struct validity, and factor structure of scores from the Dutch version of the IRI suggest that it is a useful instrument to measure people’s self-reported empath- ic tendencies. Empathy is a central component of normal social functioning, providing a foundation for pro-social behaviour (Charbonneau & Nicol, 2002), main- taining social relationships (Noller & Ruzzene, 1991), and enhancing psy- chological well-being (Musick &Wilson, 2003). -
ICD-11 Diagnostic Guidelines Stress Disorders 2020 07 21
Pre-Publication Draft; not for citation or distribution 1 ICD-11 DIAGNOSTIC GUIDELINES Disorders Specifically Associated with Stress Note: This document contains a pre-publication version of the ICD-11 diagnostic guidelines for Disorders Specifically Associated with Stress. There may be further edits to these guidelines prior to their publication. Table of Contents DISORDERS SPECIFICALLY ASSOCIATED WITH STRESS ...................................... 2 6B40 Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder ............................................................................ 3 6B41 Complex Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder ............................................................. 8 6B42 Prolonged Grief Disorder .................................................................................... 12 6B43 Adjustment Disorder ........................................................................................... 15 6B44 Reactive Attachment Disorder ............................................................................ 17 6B45 Disinhibited Social Engagement Disorder .......................................................... 20 6B4Y Other Specified Disorders Specifically Associated with Stress ......................... 22 QE84 Acute Stress Reaction ......................................................................................... 23 © WHO Department of Mental Health and Substance Abuse 2020 Pre-Publication Draft; not for citation or distribution 2 DISORDERS SPECIFICALLY ASSOCIATED WITH STRESS Disorders Specifically Associated with Stress