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VOL. 8, NO. 5 JANUARY 30, 2009 | 5 SHEVAT 5769 TRAVEL CAMPS SUMMER 2009 THE VALUE OF LIFE Fun close to home Let the countdown begin Saving babies in Israel Page 10 Page 11 Page 9

IN MY VIEW ReturnReturn toto CubaCuba RCA tones down The Jewish prayer service rebuke charities crisis Rabbi Lookstein defends himself against critics BY MICHAEL ORBACH accounts, not appropriate,” said Rabbi Herring, offering a direct criti- The Rabbinical Council of Amer- cism of Rabbi Lookstein, the longtime Where do we go from here? ica appears to have rabbi of Congregation backed away from its Kehilath Jeshurun in earlier rebuke of Rabbi Manhattan, and head Haskell Lookstein for of the RAMAZ School. BY AZRIEL GANZ participating in a The RCA’s position prayer service with is based on responsa t is clear to everyone associated with President Barack against interfaith dia- Jewish charities that revenues are Obama at the National logue by Rabbi Yosef already significantly down. Fewer peo- Cathedral on the Dov Soloveitchik zt”l. I ple are paying full tuition or shul mem- Reached by phone morning after the bership, and donations to other charities are inauguration. Monday evening, generally down in both number and size. “Rabbi Lookstein Rabbi Lookstein said There is also little doubt that the situation is did not represent the that he was “happy likely to get worse and will certainly not Rabbinical Council of not to discuss this improve for a very long time, perhaps years. America in attending [matter] publicly.” So, the obvious question is: what can that service and there- Rabbi Haskell Lookstein “If Rabbi Herring be done to address fore we have no com- said I did not repre- this reality? I think ment on the matter,” sent the RCA, he’s it is helpful to look said Rabbi Basil Herring, executive right and I did not represent the at this question director of the RCA, on Monday. RCA. I think I represented Orthodox from two perspec- ”Fewer people An RCA statement issued last Jewry,” Lookstein said, noting that he tives. First, what Wednesday and reported by JTA said, was invited to attend the service by a are paying full can the charitable PolaPola BradmanBradman ofof BrooklynBrooklyn “The long-standing policy of the Rab- member of the President’s staff. organizations and atat thethe JewishJewish CemeteryCemetery tuition or shul binical Council of America, in accor- In a letter to his RCA colleagues, Jewish leaders do in Havana last month, in Havana last month, dance with Jewish law, is that partici- Rabbi Lookstein defended his atten- to address the membership, visitingvisiting herher nativenative CubaCuba pation in a prayer service held in the dance at the prayer service, citing diminishing rev- withwith twotwo daughtersdaughters fromfrom sanctuary of a church is prohibited,” what he said were halachic and his- and donations enues and, second, thethe FiveFive Towns.Towns. StoryStory andand and “any member of the RCA who torical precedents. how should we, as to other photos,photos, pagespages 66 andand 7.7. attends such a service does so in con- Failure to attend would have donors, react? travention of this policy and should been an “insult from the Orthodox This essay will charities are not be perceived as representing the community,” he added. The event address the first organization in any capacity.” was not an interfaith dialogue, he generally question. I hope to “To go into a cathedral, in this said, but an invitation from the Presi- address the second down... There is case an Episcopalian cathedral in the dent who is, in Rabbi Lookstein’s in a future column. also little main sanctuary is certainly, by most See RCA, Page 6 Strategic Focus doubt that the Before imple- situation is menting any cost Checking on the cutting or other likely to get remedial measures, worse.“ it is important for every charitable state of the union organization to engage in a “chesh- Survey measures satisfaction in Orthodox marriages bon hanefesh,” sort of an internal soul searching. (This is something organizations BY MAYER FERTIG and the Rabbinical Council of Cali- should be doing all the time; the need to do fornia, where it was first offered. in difficult times is even more acute). Frank Buchweitz wishes every “Unfortunately now in the They should be asking themselves: engaged couple would become shidduch world people know all What is our mission? Do we have a strategic educated about marriage before about the caterer” and other plan for the next few years? How do we they march down the aisle, but aspects of planning a wedding, Photo by Stanley Weiss adjust it to account for current circum- mostly he settles for running pro- “but they don’t know about getting Eli Gerstner (back to camera) rehearsing his Yeshiva Boys Choir backstage before a stances (e.g., does our capital expansion grams to help already married cou- married,” he observed. “I would plan still work in this environment)? Are we ples stay that way. Buchweitz, the love to see pre-marital education recent HASC concert; some will perform in The Event as ‘Pirchei Boys Choir.’ sticking to our core mission and strategic Orthodox Union’s national director be a requirement.” plan or have we veered off course? What of community services and special Buchweitz has run marriage are we doing well and, conversely, what are projects, is running an anonymous retreats during three of the last Less is more for concert we not doing as well? Are our investment online poll of Orthodox married four summers. They draw an strategies sound? Are our governance poli- couples. “interesting turnout of people –– a cies sound? Are there things that others do The study, “hopefully, will pro- cross-section of the community, ‘Event’ minus the ‘big’ better than us? Are there opportunities for vide information on the state of the looking for information.” strategic alliances? If an organization does- union,” he said. “It will give some “When they’re calling up to Lipa, Pirchei choir tribute planned for March concert register for a marriage retreat, n’t think about these issues before acting, it good feedback on the direction to BY MICHAEL ORBACH up to be one of the bigger shows put is likely to make inconsistent, scattershot take” in planning future programs. right away they think you’re a psy- on in the Jewish music world. The decisions rather than thoughtful, strategic chologist and start telling you all The Aleinu Marriage Satisfac- The Big Event is back, albeit very popular Lipa Schmeltzer will ones, and, consequently squander its the problems of their life. I tell tion Survey takes less than 10 min- without its leading adjective. headline, with a reconstituted Pirchei utes to complete and will be avail- them that marriage retreats are for Boys Choir. Half of the available See VIEW, Page 5 “I’ll let people decide if it’s bigger able online until March 31 at people in good marriages, not mar- 5,600 hundred seats are sold, Mend- riages that are on the blink or or small,” said Sheya Mendlowitz, the www.ou.org/marriage_satisfaction. producer of The Event, a concert lowitz said. It’s a project of the Aleinu Family “This show is the most talked Azriel Ganz is general counsel for a finan- See STATE OF THE UNION, Page 6 planned for March 1 at the WaMu cial services trade association. He lives in Resource Center in Los Angeles Theater at Madison Square Garden. about event since last year’s event Woodmere. As it stands, The Event is gearing See CONCERT, Page 12

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nities are facing and retelling great challenges to transform our experiences, might inspire society and better their com- New perspective on immigrants other people to contribute and munities, these students will help as well.” be inspired to do the same.” College students on a unique mission to Israel The program also intend- Five student filmmakers ed to promote Jewish leader- from the Ma’ale School of Tele- focuses on a new topic; orga- to your own community.” BY YAFFI SPODEK ship. vision, Film, and the Arts in nizers believe the theme of “It’s important to remem- “One of our many goals is Jerusalem accompanied the integration into Israeli society ber that we are all Jews and Assimilation, a major Jew- to motivate those on the mis- American students to docu- is broad enough to revisit for that it is our job to help the Photo courtesy Yeshiva University ish concern in the Diaspora, sion to make a difference in ment their activities. Their years to come. Jewish communities that are Students on Project Connect trav- was also studied in Israel the Jewish community and the footage was to be edited into a “Our unique program struggling,” Slomovic added. recently by 35 college students world at large,” Rabbi Brander film to be screened at YU in eled to Israel to learn about immi- incorporates daily service pro- “Learning about the challenges on a one week mission with said. “We hope that after meet- February. grants and visited absorption cen- jects and sessions with public and issues that these commu- Yeshiva University’s Center for ing individuals who overcame ters such as the one pictured the Jewish Future. figures and immigration above. Project Connect, which experts that will help the stu- ended last week, aimed to dents explore the halachic and expose the students to cultural socio-economic absorption groups that have immigrated challenges faced by these com- to Israel since 1948. They visit- munities, as well as open their ed absorption centers, met eyes to the public policy with immigrants, and talked aspects of integration,” said with experts –– educators, Rabbi Kenneth Brander, dean politicians and social workers of the CJF. –– involved in the integration In an interview before the process. Participants learned trip Weg said he hoped to keep about immigrants’ historical those objectives in mind. and cultural heritage from “A goal that I hope to Israelis with roots in Ethiopia achieve ... is a simple sense of and the former Soviet Union. understanding,” he said. “We Yosef Weg, 21, from take so much for granted. Many Lawrence, is a senior and presi- of the Ethiopians are discrimi- dent of the Student Organiza- nated against daily and most live tion of Yeshiva. He was among in poverty. Thankfully, we don’t several local students on the know too much of what that is trip. like. The goal “was to see Other participants held whether or not these groups similar expectations. [Jews from Ethiopia and the “As an outsider, learning Former Soviet Union] main- about the issues and chal- tained their cultural identities,” lenges the Russian and Ethiopi- he explained. an communities are facing, I Weg volunteered after am hoping the experience will reading “The Israelis” by Donna give me insight on how to Rosenthal, which examines dif- improve and contribute to my ferent cultures in Israeli society. own Jewish community,” said “I had read the book and Etan Slomovic, 21, of now was my chance to experi- Cedarhurst. ence it first hand,” he said. He Slomovic, a sophomore at was assigned to study the YU, has prior experience doing Ethiopian community, which kiruv (outreach) work, and he had first encountered dur- viewed Project Connect as an ing a Shabbaton in Ramle opportunity for him to learn while studying in Israel after about a new segment of the Delivery high school. Jewish community. Project Connect, YU’s third After running a program in Available annual winter mission to Germany over Simchat Torah, Israel, was run in conjunction he said, “dealing with kiruv with the Charles and Lynn work and new experiences with Schusterman Family Founda- different Jewish communities tion. More than 150 students can have multiple positive from YU, Columbia, NYU, the effects on me. Each Jewish University of Maryland and community functions different- other schools applied to fill 35 ly. When you spend time with slots. different types of Jews in dif- ferent communities, you can Each year, the mission 258453 extract the positive and apply it 258452 4 The Jewish Star January 30, 2009 O PINION

MAYER FERTIG Publisher, Editor-in-Chief YAF F I S P ODE K A new twist on take no prisoners Assistant Editor hat didn't take long. About a week soldiers rather than allow anyone to be kid- MALKA EISENBERG, MICHAEL ORBACH Editorial Reporters after Israel ended its operation napped by Hamas. against Hamas terrorists in Gaza and "No matter what happens, no one will HELENE PARSONS AND RACHEL WEINBERG ry as purveyor of rose-tinted "peace plans," Account Executives T withdrew, a roadside bomb killed a be kidnapped," Yediot quoted a company included the so-called "roadmap," we're not RABBI AVI BILLET, AYALA COHEN, ALAN JAY GERBER, soldier Tuesday and wounded others. It's commander as telling troops before the getting our hopes up. RABBI YAKOV HOROWITZ, ADAM NEUSTADTER, SARI not clear if the explosive was planted fight. "We will not have a Gilad Shalit 2." NOSSBAUM, LISA SCHIFFMAN, RABBI AVI SHAFRAN, before or after the ceasefire took effect but, This week Mitchell began his first trip to Corporal Shalit, of course, is still being DAVID SEIDEMANN, MIRIAM L. WALLACH, CHANANYA as it turns out, the point is probably moot the region as a representative of the new held by Hamas three years after his kidnap- WEISSMAN since a Hamas leader quoted in the administration, "fully empowered," in the ping. For whatever reason known only to Contributors Jerusalem Post Tuesday said his group had President's words, to speak for Mr. Obama the government of Israel, he was not res- ALYSON GOODMAN not agreed to a ceasefire after all, but only and for Secretary of State Hillary Clinton. cued during a three-week period during Editorial Designer to a "lull" in the fighting. The President acknowledged, before which troops presumably might have had ■ Mitchell's departure, that his envoy "has a The Jewish Star is an independent community newspaper. All opinions expressed To dispute that seemingly revisionist opportunities to retrieve him. are solely those of The Jewish Star’s editorial staff or contributing writers. claim (Hey! They did so agree to a cease- very tough job" but that he would "engage Instead, Shalit remains as a bargaining ■ vigorously" in pursuit of real progress, as 2 Endo Blvd., Garden City, NY 11530 fire!) is to admit to not paying attention all chip against the Hamas demand that Israel (516) 569-4000 E-mail: [email protected] along to how Hamas, or other Arab leaders opposed to "photo ops." free hundreds of terrorists from its prisons. fax: (516) 569-4942 in the West Bank and Gaza, do business The President, the Secretary and Sena- It's hard to imagine a government feel- The Jewish Star is published weekly by the The Jewish Star LLC, 2 Endo every day. tor Mitchell would do well to note a chilling ing the need to issue a James Bond-like sui- Boulevard, Garden City, NY 11530. Postmaster send address changes to The A nice thing would be to learn that instruction given to Israeli troops before cide order to troops heading into action but Jewish Star, 2 Endo Boulevard, Garden City, NY 11530. Subscription rates: $36 George Mitchell, newly appointed as they went into Gaza last month. The news- apparently that's what occurred. The for 1 year, $60 for 2 years, $72 for 3 years within Nassau County. All other sub- Mideast envoy by President Obama, has paper Yediot Achronot reported that sol- administration, as well as Israel's critics, scriptions $54 per year. Newsstand price: $1 . Major Credit Cards accepted. diers were told to kill themselves or fellow Copyright © 2009 The Jewish Star LLC. All rights reserved. been paying attention. Given his past histo- would do well to consider why.

Letters ben Malka Pollard. him: “Wonderful, that’s how much Please write him letters –– Funding education Thank you you owe,” even though the price Israel has a deplorable record of Jonathan refers to them as his was more. On principle abandoning “foreigners” (non- “oxygen.” The letters can be from To the Editor: To the Editor: What a wonderful act of kindness Israelis) who help them in “classi- adults and children, from families Your Jan. 16 issue described a Although a month overdue, I that my child was shown that night. and school classes. plan to help fund Jewish education wanted to share a wonderful act of Think of how upset he would have To the Editor: fied” areas. I don’t know why peo- Please write in English only (‘Creative plan to help Jewish kindness that was done for my son. been had the cashier told him he did- In last week’s editorial (Obama ple do it any more. Pollard’s bitter- with no enclosures (tapes, gifts, schools weather bad economy’). My 10-year-old son came home n’t have enough money. I wanted to era same old news for Pollard; Jan. ness and disappointment are justi- etc). Please choose one day each While an interesting idea, volun- from school on the second night of write this letter to publicly thank 23, 2009), you wrote: “Whatever fied but he was his own worst week to write another letter. Ask tary contributions on the part of Chanukah and requested that we Judaica Plus for making our his failings, George Bush made enemy in his public statements. family and friends to do the same. consumers may not be enough. take him to the bookstore, saying Chanukah night special. My son was decisions on principle and without LEON SCHWARZBAUM North Woodmere Jonathan reads every letter, Perhaps retail businesses choosing that he needed a book for school. so proud to give us a gift and if it regard for what critics might say. although he may not respond. to participate in a fund to help Jew- He refused to take money from me. weren’t for that cashier’s kindness, he On our editorial page this week we Please send the letters to: ish education thrive could display a As I pulled up to Judaica Plus on would not have had the opportunity wish he had made one more deci- Jonathan Pollard, #09185-016, FCI window decal that indicates that a Central Ave. he told me that I to experience the joy of giving on sion like that before returning to Prayers for Pollard Butner, PO Box 1000/Clemson, portion of every sale would help should wait in the car. Since my Chanukah, instead of always getting. Texas. Instead, there’s a new Butner, North Carolina, 27509- support Jewish education? The spot was right in front and I could This wonderful cashier realized administration, but the same four To the Editor: 1000, USA. amount could be decided by busi- see into the store, I agreed. that my son was trying to surprise walls for Jonathan Pollard.” On behalf of Jonathan Pollard, If you wish to assist Jonathan to ness owners based on the size of I watched as he waited on line. us and helped him achieve his goal. George W. Bush had principles, thank you to everyone for your buy kosher food items from the their business, their profit margin, As he came out I asked to see his We truly need more people like this but so did Tomas de Torquemada. efforts on his behalf. Letters, faxes prison canteen, pay for phone calls, their own commitment to the purchase, he replied that he would in our town and in the world. Bush’s included lying to the public, and phone calls to the White please send contributions to: Young cause and their generosity. Their show it after we lit candles. Thank you, Judaica Plus. You now extreme partisanship, favoring the House were a powerful tool and an Israel Charities, attention the Pol- accountants could assist them in That night, to our surprise, my have a customer for life. oil industry and torturing unindict- important source of encourage- lard Fund, c/o NCYI, 111 John determining the percentage that son handed my wife and me a ed prisoners. ment. Prayers on his behalf were Street, Suite 450, NY, NY 10038. would best help them at tax time. wrapped gift. The books still had ARI SOLOMON I have followed Pollard’s case and are very special. Although Our efforts to obtain Jonathan’s price tags on them and I noticed Woodmere since he was turned away from the President Bush did not grant freedom will iy”H continue. Your PAM SINGER that they totaled quite a bit. When I Israeli embassy and arrested by the Jonathan clemency, our efforts assistance in future endeavors will Malverne asked how much he had spent, he FBI. Jonathan Pollard talked too must continue. be important. replied that the lady in the store much, instead of playing it cool Please keep davening for the RABBI PESACH LERNER had asked him how much he had. and letting his friends help him. health and freedom of Yehonosson Far Rockaway When he told her $40, she said to 258451 The Jewish Star January 30, 2009 5

FROM THE OTHER SIDE OF THE BENCH benchmarks. Here are some dream into reality, and apply less obvious ones but it immediately to our important ones. After lives. If his journey four or maybe eight inspires one of us to years as President, dream with more con- Breaking down barriers will Mr. Obama still fidence, to be better at recognize himself? home, in the office, in When my father was President of the United States, Those of you who have read my arti- After one or two terms, social settings or dare I four, a Jew in Germany could arguably, the most powerful cles over the last two years know where I will his children still be well say, inspires one of us to seek not walk the streets with person in the world today. stand politically. Not withstanding that, grounded? Will his wife still be who she is public office, then an element of success ease. Since Adam and Eve, anyone, me included, who does not rec- now? The person must create the moment has already been achieved. When I was four, a black the world has seen its share ognize the significance in the events of and not be swallowed by the moment. One final note. One final lesson; man in America couldn’t eat of historical events and his- Nov. 4, 2008 and Jan. 20, 2009 on a Another benchmark will be whom regardless of whether Mr. Obama suc- lunch at the same diner torical personalities. All too national level, and on a personal level, can Mr. Obama manage to inspire? I saw ceeds or falls short of his stated goals. Mr. counter as a white man. That often that moment in time, are tuned in to the wrong station. Were a very poignant interview today with an Bush and Mr. Obama saluted each other same black man could not or person in time, is frozen in one to disagree with every position African American teenager who pointed as they parted company. Such is expected vote for a commander in David Seidemann time and the great promise espoused by Barack Obama and the out that until this historic moment, the protocol. And then, in an unscripted chief but could be directed by of the moment does not bear Democrats, the national significance and only dream an inner city black youth had move, they embraced. I read Michelle the very same commander in fruit. One can only hope that the last to first finish of Barack Obama was to be a ball player. “Today,” he said, Obama’s lips as she hugged Mr. Bush and chief to fight and die in battle protecting when all the pomp, circumstance, and prove that there is no such thing as odds “today everything changes. Today I can said, “thank you so much, thank you so our country that treated him as a second pageantry is over, that an inauguration that cannot be overcome if one possess dream of contributing to America in a dif- much.” There was a palpable affection, class citizen. witnessed by over two million people live the inner strength to wage battle. ferent way. Today I can dream of being appreciation and respect between the I made my children watch the inau- and millions more around the globe on I feel safe in stating that the likeli- President.” 43rd and 44th. Such is not the norm guration of our nation’s 44th president television will truly inaugurate, usher in hood of any one reading this article I do not mean this in a pejorative, here, there, or anywhere when transition because the historic impact of Mr. better times. One can only pray that the becoming President of the United States, condescending or stereotypical way, but if takes place. In a sea of two million Obama’s election and inauguration might promise of today’s moment, becomes is not great. But I feel just as comfortable President Obama can inspire one person observers, there was only a smattering of be the most historically significant event tomorrow’s success. stating that each and every one of us in to move from dreaming about the basket- yelps or boos at the sight of or mention of they witness in their lifetime. I want them Mr. Obama is where he is today our own daily personal battles to achieve ball court to the Supreme Court, than Mr. Bush’s name. Those boos were to be able to say to their children one day because unlike most of us, he had the more, and contribute more, and be a bet- another benchmark has been achieved. immediately shouted down. that they witnessed a watershed event in inner strength to dream, and actively pur- ter person, can take note and inspiration President Obama’s ascension, mea- It seems as if yet another barrier has United States history. I confess to choking sue that dream. Most of us don’t even from the national and personal strides sured from where his ancestors began to been broken down; tolerance and respect up witnessing elderly African American dare to dream of loftier pursuits for fear associated with these moments in time. where he has finished speaks to America for the opposition. Now that’s a barrier men and women cry, yes, cry as the of not being able to handle the disap- Obama walked a path, and the Nation as a nation and to us as individuals. We as we could all afford to hurdle. events unfolded before them, ushering in pointment associated with the failure to turned a corner. Americans should take pride that we have an era, a heretofore unimaginable era, in ascertain them. And those of us who do There are a few “side shows” of note broken down another barrier. As individu- David Seidemann is a partner with the our nation’s history. dare to dream concede defeat too readily besides the expectations associated with a als, we should take note of Obama’s per- law firm of Seidemann & Mermelstein. A few years ago Mr. Obama lost a to obstacles that inevitably must be hur- new administration. The economy, yes. sonal journey, his personal self confi- He can be reached at (718) 692-1013 democratic state primary, and today, he is dled in transforming a dream into reality. World wars, yes; those will be the obvious dence, his personal work to transform a and at [email protected].

PARSHAT BO from G-d ends, and when Moshe wealth appropriate? It was Strategic Alliances continues talking on his own. But promised to Abraham in Bereshit IN MY VIEW Last week I was approached he certainly finishes his speech 15, so it is entirely in line with the by a meshulach (messenger col- Continued from Page One talking about how the Egyptians measure for measure penalties. lecting charity) purporting to rep- will bow to him begging him to But Moshe knows what it is resources. resent the interests of the Justified anger leave. like to almost lose a child (accord- besieged Jews of Sderot. The Why is Moshe angry? Is it ing to one opinion in the Talmud problem is, one week earlier, I and dramatic interpretation so Cost-Cutting BY RABBI AVI BILLET because of what the Egyptians and a number of commentaries was approached by another exciting. (Have you ever heard of Like all corporations in down say? Is it because of how they will on Shmot 4:24, Moshe’s son Eliez- meshulach who also represented a successful show closing up after times, charitable organizations The Torah is an amazing come to him? Is it because of er almost died before he was cir- the interests of the Jews of Sderot. the original star left, because the must make painful decisions book. You can read and reread what they are reduced to? Is it cumcised), and it is not some- Even assuming that they are both replacement could not find the about the use of their resources. over and over, and each time you because of Paroh’s stubbornness? thing he wishes on anyone –– not on the up and up, this example magic? This is because each actor Each organization must deter- find something new: a nuance, a What triggers his anger? even Paroh. highlights an issue that we all interprets the piece and plays the mine where and how it can cut tidbit, something to mull over, Does Moshe express the anger in I am reminded of the words seem to confront on a daily basis. role differently. What was magical costs. What programs can (or something to talk about with his words? Or does he feel the of Golda Meir, who said “”We can There are so many charities that for one may be an utter disaster must) be discontinued? Which friends. anger only after he finishes speak- forgive the Arabs for killing our seem to be doing the exact same for another.) jobs can be discontinued or com- My major in college was ing? children. We cannot forgive them things. There appears to be so Many commentaries suggest bined? Can they re-negotiate “speech and drama” and that side I like to think that Moshe for forcing us to kill their children. much overlap. Why is this neces- that Moshe did not leave right important contracts or find cheap- of me always wonders what is the was angry with Paroh, and only We will only have peace with the sary? Wouldn’t we be better off if away because G-d appeared to er vendor solutions? While these best way to read a spoken state- with Paroh, at this stage in the Arabs when they love their chil- organizations with similar core him before his departure and told steps are important for all compa- ment. In the aftermath of the plagues. The Egyptians had dren more than they hate us.” missions would get together and him the prophesy he received in nies, they are especially crucial for plague of darkness, after Moshe already indicated their readiness However diplomatic Moshe create economies of scale? Isn’t chapter 11, which he proceeded charitable organizations which insists that even the animals are to let the slaves leave (9:11, 9:30, and Paroh may have been at the this redundancy a waste of money to share with Paroh starting in are funded with our tzedakah dol- coming along, Paroh hardens his 10:7), and it was only Paroh who beginning of their conversation, that we cannot afford, especially verse 4. lars. heart. We have the following dia- kept hardening his heart (9:7, 12, Paroh’s continued refusal to let in times like these? “And Moshe said, ‘The Lord logue between Moshe and Paroh 35, 10:20, 27). the slaves leave, even at the face The problem of redundancy said ‘Around midnight I will go Transparency who says, “Leave me. Watch your- While G-d had promised that of utter destruction and in the In difficult times (and espe- is perhaps the hardest nut to out into Egypt and the first-borns self. Do not see my face again, for it would be a difficult time, and background of his people scream- cially after the Madoff scandal), crack, since the leaders of the of Egypt will die, from Paroh’s, on the day you see my face you Paroh would be a difficult man, ing “ENOUGH!” was too much for many donors will want to know many different organizations are who sits on his throne, until the will die.” Moshe says, “So you Moshe never considered the Moshe to bear. that their contributions are being often loath to give up their inde- first-born of the maid, as well as have spoken. I shall no longer see destruction that would be He became angry because he used wisely, and that a high per- pendence. This issue will only be all first-born animals. There will your face” (10:28-29). wrought upon the Egyptians. He saw what was coming and knew centage of an organization’s rev- addressed when community and be a great cry in Egypt, such as The commentaries under- wanted to take the Israelites out, that only the stubborn refusal of enues are being used to fulfill its other prominent leaders use their there never was and never will be stand Paroh as saying “You may and he wanted the Egyptians to his arch enemy to accept defeat core mission (rather than for clout to broker alliances between again. As for the children of Israel, no longer seek me out to talk to be punished in whatever manner and allow the Israelites to live in administrative expenses). To like organizations. not even a dog will bark, nor will me,” and Moshe saying, “I won’t G-d deemed appropriate. But peace was what kept both nations attract continuing donations, in The steps I’ve outlined men or animals [make a sound],’ come to you, but you may yet what is considered appropriate? from ending their differences with addition to ensuring that, in fact, should be standard operating pro- so you will know how G-d will come to me.” Is the destruction of the the minimal loss of life. they are using funds efficiently cedure for all charitable organiza- make His wonders in distinguish- What tone did each one have empire, the economy, the agricul- and prudently, it is important for tions during good times and bad. ing between the Egyptians and when speaking? Cool, calm, and ture, the infrastructure appropri- Avi Billet welcomes your com- charitable organizations to let However, during our current eco- the Israelites. And all your ser- collected? Angry? Impatient? ate? Absolutely. ments and thoughts at avbillet@ their donors know how careful nomic struggles, they may make vants will come down to me, and Snarling? Pleasant? Gentle? Is the taking away of Egypt’s gmail.com. they are with tzedakah money. the difference between survival they’ll bow to me saying ‘Go! You Authoritative? Warning? Peace- and failure. ful? and all the nation at your feet’ The possibilities are endless, after which I will go!’ And he exit- and they can change with each ed from Paroh with great anger.” For All Your SOMETHING word. This is what makes drama It is unclear when the quote ARIETY Lighting Needs Vconnection FOR EVERYONE HOPPING Designer STOP Additional Discount Fabrics 1 HOMER SHABBOS Discount With S The Recession Stops Here! 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I finally fulfilled my dream of visit- ing Cuba and my trip was an over- whelming success, far exceeding any- thing I had imagined. It is incredible that my mom agreed to come after I pleaded with her for so many years to travel there with me. She generously sponsored my sister and me for this Jewish humanitarian mission to Cuba. My well-traveled dad had always been dead-set against this voyage, and he viewed this trip as risky since we left Cuba as refugees in 1962 and because it is still a dictatorship. Traveling to Cuba as an American is restricted to precious few. While only very select categories of travelers are issued travel licenses by the U.S. Department of Treasury, tourist visits are forbidden. There are options to travel on a humanitarian or religious mission, or once in three years to visit immediate family. In these cases, a special visa application is required which is complicated and costly. Photo courtesy Miriam Abrahams U.S. citizens may not use credit With the El Morro fort in the background, Miriam Abraham (left) with mom Pola Bradman, of Brooklyn (center) and sister Sheila cards in Cuba, our cell phones don’t Feirstein of North Woodmere, at the Havana waterfront. work there and we are not permitted Photo courtesy Miriam Abrahams to bring back Cuban rum, cigars or cof- island just 90 miles off the coast of ideological differences. Although now I take much time to process, we had to Holocaust memorial in Havana, Cuba. fee. Some bold adventurers travel to Florida. My cousin Eduardo was still feel a strong connection to my uncle, act quickly. Cuba via another country and request living in Havana in 1999 when he growing up I sometimes barely remem- We started collecting donated but knowing how to live (survive). We their passport not be stamped by gained access to e-mail. He and I bered I had family in Havana. basics from friends, local doctors and converted U.S. dollars to CUCs — Cuban customs, so they won’t be began a flurry of correspondence as he The rediscovery of my long-lost dentists to bring to the struggling Jew- Cuban convertible money — at a 20 caught upon their return to the U.S. was planning his exit to Israel. We family in Havana and my aunt’s trip to ish community in Havana. Each group percent loss. This is a federal offense which could never had contact before. Cuba in 1997 piqued my fervor in pur- member was asked to bring at least There is no fresh paint to be found result in fines or a jail term. Having For the nearly five decades since suing travel there, so I quickly sought a one suitcase filled with Judaica items, there but walls everywhere are cov- been raised to be strictly law abiding, I my parents and I left Cuba, my father way. I spoke to June Safren in Califor- medicines, toiletries, clothes and bat- ered in political slogans, some against could never consider that option. had very sparse contact with his broth- nia, executive director of the non-profit teries to help the community which the Bush policies. Everyone is happy I have been fortunate to travel to er, Salomon, Eduardo’s father, and Cuba-America Jewish Mission. She was so recently hit by Hurricane Ike. that Obama is next and hopes for many interesting spots in the world, then only through a crackly phone line connected me to Miriam Saul, Director There is extreme poverty in Cuba change. including South Africa, Mexico, Cana- or by a letter delivered personally by a of Friends of Jewish Cuba in Atlanta as the populace survives by rations There were 15,000 Jews in Cuba da, Puerto Rico, New Zealand, Britain, rare traveler. My dad and his brother’s who told me there were a couple of bought in Cuban pesos. They live by before the revolution; 90 percent fled. and of course Israel. But I’ve never relationship had broken down due to spots left on her seven day Chanukah the quote “no es vivir pero saber como Now about 1,500 Jews remain. There returned to the mysterious, forbidden an impossible physical distance and mission. Since applications for visas vivir” — it isn’t simply living (in Cuba) See HAVANA, Page 7

Rabbo Lookstein wrote that RCA TONES DOWN PRAYER SERVICE REBUKE when he had the opportunity to speak with President Obama he Continued from Page One government of Israel once asked in the open way it did,” urged the President to remem- CHECKING ON THE STATE OF him to represent Israel “on a Jonathan Sarna, the Joseph H. ber the statement he made dur- words, “a man of incredible very important matter” that & Belle R. Braun Professor of ing a visit to Sderot during the THE UNION importance to the fate of our require him to attend a worship American Jewish History at campaign. holy community in the land of event in a church. He sought Brandeis University, told The “If somebody was sending Continued from Page One what kind of counseling Israel and here.” and received permission from Jewish Star. rockets into my house, where they do,” Buchweitz Rabbi Lookstein quoted the Rabbi Eliezer Yehuda Walden- “Future historians witness- my two daughters sleep at ready to fall apart.” explained. Shulchan Aruch, “in Yoreh Deah berg, known as the Tzitz Eliezer, ing the enormous economic night, I’m going to do every- Citing the commonly He hopes to learn how 178:2 that a person who needs who “told him directly that if it challenges facing the Orthodox thing in my power to stop that,” held notion that 50 percent many couples they see, “for to be close to the government was a matter of significant community in particular are then-Senator Obama told of marriages across the financial stress, a health may wear even the Torah-pro- importance to the Israeli gov- going to say that energy reporters in Sderot last July. country end in divorce, problem, a religious conflict, hibited garments of a gentile in ernment, then he should go expended on such foolishness is When asked if he recalled Buchweitz said, “That domestic violence [or] gen- order to represent the Jewish wearing his kipa and looking as shocking and perhaps a sign of his words the President, accord- means that 50 percent of the eral stress that may affect community well.” rabbinic as he could.” very deep maladies within the ing to Rabbi Lookstein, respond- people are still married.” marriage.” He also noted that in the Speaking in Rabbi Look- rabbinic community.” ed with a “clear assent.” And for those who are, Results from the West United Kingdom, chief rabbis stein’s defense, fellow RCA The episode also highlight- Rabbi Lookstein finished he said, “Within marriage Coast survey are encourag- are regularly summoned by the member Rabbi Yosef Blau, the ed a leadership problem inside his letter: “Maybe this will save itself, how many people are ing, said Dr. David Pelcovitz, monarch to Westminster Abbey, Mashgiach Ruchani at Yeshiva the Orthodox community, Sarna a life or two in the future and happily married? We don’t who analyzed the findings. seat of the Church of England. University’s Rabbi Isaac claimed. maybe it will not; but I felt this know the answer to that.” The suprisinging high Similarly, he said chief rabbis of Elchanan Theological Seminary, “I think what this under- was not an assignment I could “How many are together rate of satisfaction “made Israel have also appeared in agreed that Rabbi Lookstein had scores is that there was no heir –– or should –– turn down.” not because they’re in love me feel good for a couple of churches; Rabbi Shear-Yashuv a basis for his action. to Rabbi Soloveitchik; there is but because of utilitarian weeks,” he said. Cohen, chief rabbi of Haifa, “What he did certainly has no one in the American Jewish Link to Rabbi Lookstein’s letter reasons? Money? The kids? Lack of time was cited attended the funeral of the late precedents in England and community, or in the Modern to the RCA membership: Which is not a good state- as the main reason spouses Pope John Paul II several years Israel in dealing with heads of Orthodox community, whose http://www.vosizneias.com/26 ment on the state of mar- fight, but three quarters of ago. government,” Rabbi Blau said. stature is such that you turn to 285/2009/01/25/new-york- riage.” the 1500 respondents indi- He also mentioned the “I have a sense that this him and he makes a decision rabbi-lookstein-in-letter- Rabbis involved in cated that, given the chance experience of Rabbi Michael partly reflects internal battles and this is the last word,” Sarna defends-participating-interfaith- counseling are also being to do it again, they would Broyde, a member of the RCA- really within the RCA. It’s rather said. services-in-a-church/ surveyed. marry the same person. affiliated Beth Din of America, surprising that they allowed this In the concluding para- “We want to find out whom he said told him that the kind of battle to come forward graphs of his letter to the RCA THANKYOUThank You SALE ON PRINTING The children of i-Shine thank Helen and Abe Fuchs color QUALITY of New Star Caterers PRINTING a div. of Richner Communications, Inc For their friendship and ongoing commitment to our program. • 8 1/2 X 11 FLYERS • 50# Offset You make i-Shine wonderful, fun, and delicious! • 4 Color Process • 2 Sided Printing No setup charges if files are prepared in PDF format i-Shine • Bleeds add just $6 per M. • 60# coated 2 side stock, add just $15 per M. 10,000 i-Shine provides after-school structure to children living with illness or loss COLOR FLYERS in their families. 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Continued from Page Six leader’s wife conducts youth groups. Religious services take were many years of lost Jewish place Friday night and Saturday identity due to the incompati- morning using the Conservative bility of communism with reli- siddur in Spanish. gion. When the Pope visited in Adath Israel is the Ortho- 1998, religious observance was dox shul in Old Havana, located permitted again. The doors to by what were once the Jewish religious institutions re-opened neighborhoods of Picota and and the Jewish community Acosta with streets full of Jew- began to reestablish itself. ish businesses from diamonds Around 1,000 have made to clothing. Louis Russo leads Aliyah in recent years but oth- this community where services ers are rediscovering their roots are held twice a day using the and children are born, keeping orthodox siddur and a mechitza the population steady. Only and there is a mikvah. Although about 100 are Jews whose par- it is “Cuban style Orthodox,” ents and grandparents are all only those who are known to Jewish. The rest have intermar- have complete Jewish lineage ried; some spouses have con- are allowed to get an Aliyah verted through visiting rabbis. and are counted for the I was so excited to finally minyan. Everyone knows each see the many places that held other, so there is no question meaning for my mom in her 22 concerning background. Jacobo years growing up in Cuba and Verezniak is the chazzan and in my father’s 27 years there. shochet and the knife he uses Upon landing, everyone for shechita was donated from clapped; I’ve only ever seen this Canada. Kosher food is sent reg- on flights to Israel. ularly from Canada. We delivered donations to Centro Sefaradi, the the Patronato, the center for Sephardic synagogue, is made Jewish activity in Havana up mostly of older congregants before the revolution, where my since the younger people prefer Photo courtesy Miriam Abrahams parents were married in Patronato. The shul’s Torahs are The only Jewish family in Caibarien, Cuba Abraham (left) with Julio Eli, a musician; his wife and daughter Violeta (right). They live about six hours November 1959. Half of the from congregation Shevet from Havana. Violeta has visited Israel on a Birthright mission and participated in March of the Living. A son who made aliyah lives in Israel. building is now used as a state Achim, now in ruins, which was theater. The Patronato is led by founded in 1914. There are many social activities In Caibarien, we visited couldn’t survive without help sponsored by my parents for a rotating visiting seminary stu- All three shuls provide to attract people. Children are Julio Eli and his family. He is a from their outside family. We visit here in 2001. I have trea- dents from Argentina. The meals to those who attend. bussed to Sunday school class- charming saxophone player learned that many Jews were sured a black and white photo es. A pharmacy provides free who plays at nearby hotels. involved in the revolution. of my tio holding me as an medications for members who Julio’s home is filled with Some financed Fidel’s boat infant before we left the island. bring prescriptions and the Judaica. His son has already Granma which is on display at I have heard repeatedly the pharmacy is open to the general made Aliyah and his daughter the National museum. detailed descriptions by my par- public once a week to maintain has gone on Canadian Most importantly, we saw ents of the beautiful beaches good relations with the sur- Birthright and March of the Liv- the sites important to my mom and the close-knit community rounding community. Our pre- ing. Though the Israeli govern- and spent quality time with my they left behind. I tasted the scription and non prescription ment pays all costs of Aliyah, father’s brother in Havana. We salty Caribbean waters and vis- meds filled up the shelves. family members are unable to took the ferry to Regla where ited the decayed buildings of In the Jewish cemetery in visit due to lack of finances. my mom and aunt lived with the community. Although I Havana, my mom was directed Julio played Hatikva for us on my Abuelo Leon and Abuela remember nothing of my first to the tombstones of her uncle his saxophone. I promised his Rosita and saw my parent’s first 13 months in Havana, I have and two other family friends. wife to e-mail her son photos of apartment in Vedado where I now revived my connection to She paid the caretakers to our visit. (Cubans are allowed was born. We saw Universidad Cuba with new memories of maintain them. There is also a e-mail, but no attachments. de la Habana where my father these old landmarks. Holocaust memorial and a Internet is prohibited except for received his law degree and my Geniza there. specific jobs where it is highly mother studied philosophy until Miriam Bradman Abrahams is a We drove about five hours restricted.) the university was closed due to full time mom and community east of Havana to a Jewish com- We asked Julio if he resents the revolution. We visited my volunteer, Hadassah Nassau munity in the interior of the the Jews who left at the time of uncle’s home and met, for the Region One Book Chair, Jewish island. Santa Clara province has the revolution. He said that first time, his daughter and Book World reviewer and PTA about 35 members with 15 in events happened quickly and grandchildren who remained in book fair coordinator. She is the town of Santa Clara and a decisions were made fast. He Cuba. I had only met my uncle currently writing her father’s lone family about an hour away added that the Jews of Cuba and aunt once when they were memoir. in the town of Caibarien. Com- munity leader David Tacher spoke to us in a dilapidated house which will be recon- THE ZONE DIET  ATKINS  SOUTH BEACH  CALORIE CONTROL structed as a shul with money donated by visitors like us. He is only awaiting the permits from the Cuban government. David dreamt up this pro- ject and another to fix up the local Jewish cemetery and add Look Great for Pesach! a Holocaust memorial. He had the surrounding walls of the cemetery rebuilt and hired a Discover Kosher Diet Delivery local artist to create the memor- ial within, comprised of several stones imported from the ground of the Warsaw Ghetto osher Diet Delivery is the original Five Towns diet sensation that by the Holocaust Museum in makes it easy and enjoyable to lose weight, eat healthy and look and Washington DC. 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(the beautiful things and are both worth about $350. take Efrat-C.R.I.B’s number, but Committee for the Rescue of yotzai with the mitzvah.” Every woman is also she had no intention of calling; Israel’s Babies). “Now a baby Holocaust survivor Her- matched with one of more than she already had two kids. The was born because of a number schel Feigenbaum founded Efrat 3,000 volunteers for social sup- morning of her scheduled abor- on a refrigerator door.” in memory of the over 1.5 mil- port during the pregnancy. The parents of these quadruplets were helped by Just One Life in the tion, she thought, “maybe I Efrat, founded in Israel, and lion children who were mur- “Many become friends for life early stages of the pregnancy. They are posing with (from left) Jack shouldn’t do it,” and grabbed Just One Life (JOL), which orig- dered in the Holocaust. The and become religious through inated in America, are organiza- organization took shape under Efrat,” said Binn. 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SAVING LIVES, ONE BABY AT A TIME 258103 Continued from Page Nine where classes are given in at $1,800 for prenatal and post- women’s health, nutrition and natal care. Most of the funding Tokayer. “We don’t pay them home economics. comes from U.S. donations, but we get their services.” He “The goal is not just to some from Europe, the U.K. and noted the professional counsel- throw money at the problem,” Israel. ing and services provided by explained Tokayer, “but rather Both organizations point JOL, and that current adminis- to help the mother be empow- out that not one of the mothers trative costs of 30 percent are ered at life and to give the regrets having their babies, but PASSOVER fixed with all additional funding mother the skills she needs to most women regret having an going to services. manage her life better, to help abortion. CATERING BY GENADEEN 258106 JOL has helped save close the whole person, not just help “We are making a demo- 2009 the mother have the baby.” graphic difference,” emphasized ENTERTAINMENT BY BENNY AMAR to 12,000 children to date, MIAMI, FLORIDA assisting the mothers with indi- JOL’s client load is increas- Binn. “It’s a very good solution vidual counseling, a monthly ing by 10 percent each year with to the problems of assimilation •Luxurious Accommodations •Zero Entry Pool •Bar-B-Ques financial subsidy, support 1,300 cases in 2008. When and demography. If we were •Conducted and Private Seders •Tennis and Ping Pong •125 Foot Water Slide groups, information regarding there was the war in the north, fully funded we could save more •Famous SPA AT DORAL •Three Glatt Kosher Meals Daily •Basketball and Volleyball government entitlements, work- they saw a spike of cases in the babies and bring more Jews to •Supervised Children’s Program •Tea Room and Pool-side Snacks •Casino Night shops for mothers, and baby north; now they are seeing a inner aliyah.” Universal supplies when necessary. They spike in the south. •Scholar-in-Residence •Five Golf Courses have a mother and infant center JOL pegs the cost per baby •Blue Lagoon at Doral •Movies Kosher Tours (800)221-2791 (516)561-0651 Fax (516)561-3510 E-mail: [email protected] Visit our website at www.universalkoshertours.com Copyright Where What When Magazine OPINIONS AND ESSAYS If you have something to say or a thought to get across, we are interested in hearing about it. Opinion pieces and personal essays are welcome but should be no more than 750 words. Submissions must be typed and double-spaced and include the name, address and daytime phone number of the writer. Photographs are also encouraged. We reserve the right to edit submissions for style, content and space. Placement cannot be guaranteed; we will notify you in advance of publica- tion, should your piece be chosen. Submissions may be mailed to The Jewish Star, 2 Endo Blvd., Garden City, NY 11530; faxed to (516) 569-4942; or e-mailed to [email protected]

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Rabbi Reichman will offer an alternative for those want a Jan. 31 at 8:30 p.m., at the Hewlett East speak Friday night at 7:30 on “The Anato- unique summer experience but are not Rockaway Jewish Center. The Guest of my of Halakha: The Understanding of the inclined to stray far from home. Honor will be Esther David, and the Human body in Rabbinic Literature.” His For the last several years, HAFTR’s Hil- Young Leadership Awardee will be Tova Shabbat morning drasha will be on lel Day Camp has run a Teen Travel Camp Haironson. Couvert for dinner is $154 “When Fathers Become Mothers and for kids finishing grades five through eight. per couple. Raffle tickets are available. Mothers Have Udders: Medical Halakha Directed by Asher Ross, the eight week pro- For reservation or raffle purchases, e- for the 21st Century.” Seudah Shlishit will gram takes campers on trips for three days mail [email protected]. cover “New Frontiers in Organ Donation.” each week, alternating between one-day The shul is located at 150 Waukena Ave. excursions and overnight trips. For more information, call (516) 764-1099. Oceanside - The Friedberg JCC is host- “All ages travel together and the kids if it will be full.” Queens and West Hempstead. ing an event from the Parenting are close to one another,” said Rabbi A similar program, which is now “The camp has grown over the last few Resource Network, “Making Life with North Woodmere - The Young Israel of Steven Moskowitz, the head of Hillel Day entering its seventh summer, is Al years, but we like to keep it nice and cozy,” Young Children Run Smoother – Time North Woodmere is hosting Dr. Judah Camp and a teacher at HAFTR High Haderech Travel Camp, based in Kew Gar- Rabbi Merrill added. “The staff knows Management Tips” on Monday, Feb. 2, Goldberg and Shayna Goldberg, a Yoet- School. “One of the nice things about the dens Hills. Al Haderech, literally translated every camper, which gives it a very warm from 7-8:30 p.m. The lecture is free and zet Halacha, as Scholars-in-Residence on program is that the seventh and eighth as “on the road,” holds one session for boys feeling.” open to the community. For more infor- Shabbat Parshat Beshalach, Feb 6-7. Dr. graders kind of adopt the younger kids and in grades three through eight and a second Rabbi Merrill has accompanied his mation or to RSVP, call (516) 240-6018 or Goldberg will speak at Friday night at look to each other as brothers and sisters.” session for girls in grades four through campers on every trip and overnight since e-mail [email protected]. 8:00 p.m. on “Evolution and the Nature Local trips include baseball games and eight. the camp’s inception. During the year, he is of Faith.” Mrs. Goldberg will deliver a lec- Broadway shows, while overnights often “It’s the sleepaway feeling for the stay a rebbe at Hebrew Academy of Nassau have farther destinations such as Ohio and at home camper,” explained Rabbi Michael County, where he is also the coordinator of ture on “Inspirational Pragmatism: The Cedarhurst - The “Torah Lecture Series” Canada. In the past, campers have enjoyed Merrill, the camp’s director and co- student programs. His wife, Malkie Merrill, Role of a Yoetzet Halacha” following in memory of Shari Siman-Tov z”l will water parks, white water rafting, amuse- founder. “We have lots of amenities of works alongside him as Al Haderech’s co- Mussaf services. At 3:45, she will offer a continue on Wednesday, Feb. 4 at 8:00 ment parks and comedy shows, all while sleepaway camp and the campers get to go director. She focuses on programming to shiur exclusively to women on “Fre- p.m. at Congregation Shaare Emunah, traveling on comfortable coach busses. home almost every night...What also enhance the daily activities and also heads quently Asked Questions and How Their 539 Oakland Avenue (Corner Oakland When not traveling, campers partici- makes our camp special is that no one day the aquatics program. Answers Can Help Make Your Life Easi- Ave. & Peninsula Blvd.). Both men and pate in activities including sports, chinuch is the same. There is something unique The Friedberg JCC in Oceanside also er.” Following 4:45 Mincha, Dr. Goldberg women are invited. The shiur is spon- (Jewish education), nature, and arts and every single day.” has two versions of a traveling camp. The will discuss “Death and Life in the Mod- sored by Ner Sarah, a network of Torah crafts, all based at HAFTR’s lower school Al Haderech campers go on a trip Explorers Camp is for children entering ern Hospital: Can Contemporary and Chesed Projects in memory of on Washington Avenue in Lawrence. every single day of the summer, to a wide grades five and six; the Voyagers Camp is Bioethics and Traditional Judaism Find Shari Siman-Tov z”l. For more informa- The travel camp –– with 50 to 60 per- variety of places incorporating many activi- for those entering grades seven through 10. Common Ground?” The weekend is tion, go to www.nersarahproject.com. cent of the kids coming from HAFTR –– ties including rock climbing, paintball, The Explorers program divides its time being cosponsored by YINW and Nish- has grown in popularity over the last few laser tag, kayaking, fencing and bowling. between regular activities on the JCC mat's Miriam Glaubach Center. The YINW years and has begun to attract campers Campers also travel on two overnight campgrounds and day trips to sporting Cedarhurst - The JCC of the Greater is located at 634 Hungry Harbor Road. from Great Neck and elsewhere beyond the excursions. In past summers, they have vis- events, museums, amusement parks and Five Towns offers a Caregiver Support For information, contact YINW at (516) Five Towns, Rabbi Moskowitz observed. ited Dorney Park, Niagara Falls, the Police more. Explorers also go on three overnight Group the first Thursday of every 791-5099 or Nishmat at (212) 983-6975. “Last year, we were completely filled Museum, Lake Placid and Lake George. trips to different places, which in the past month, from 7:00-9:30 p.m., at the JCC, up; we had 45 kids on every trip, with This year’s itinerary will include trips to have included Boston, Philadelphia and 207 Grove Avenue, Cedarhurst. The next Cedarhurst - Tiger Schulmann’s will waiting lists for every single week,” he Ohio, Rhode Island and Massachusetts, to Busch Gardens. meeting is scheduled for Thursday, Feb. hold BullyProof, a free Bully Prevention said. “It’s more expensive if you come by enjoy hiking, amusement parks and raft- The Voyagers take day trips and sever- 5. For information, call (516) 569-6733. Workshop for children and parents on the week, but you can do that if you don’t ing. al extended overnight trips. Some of the want to register for the whole summer.” In addition to the trips, campers play local day trips have included Broadway Sunday, Feb. 8 from 1:15-3:45 p.m at 133 One bus is already filled for the com- sports every day, and can enjoy swimming shows, the Splish Splash water park, sport- West Hempstead Spruce Street in the Gourmet Glatt - The JCC of West ing summer, and there is also a waiting list, and other water activities several times ing events and sailing. Overnights have Shopping Center. The workshop, led by a Hempstead is starting a Bereavement both for campers and for young adults who each week. Transportation is provided been taken to Canada, Ohio and Virginia. black belt instructor, will focus on teach- Support Group for Widows/Widowers, for want to serve as counselors. from Long Island and Queens. What distinguishes the JCC travel eight weeks, beginning Thursday, Feb. 5 ing children the skills and confidence “We give precedence to our former The boys contingent of Al Haderech is camps from others is that participants can from 10:30- 11:30 a.m. The cost is $140. that they need to combat and discour- campers, who get first crack at the seats,” comprised of close to 70 campers, while attend for four, six or eight weeks, while The JCC is located at 711 Dogwood age bullying. For more information and Rabbi Moskowitz explained. “We are con- the girl’s section is smaller, with about 45 other programs are not as flexible and may Avenue in West Hempstead. For more to reserve a spot, call (516) 295-3446. sidering opening up a second bus but only campers. Most hail from the Five Towns, only run for one session. information, please contact Rachel DON’T BE LEFT OUT! Make sure your ad is seen by tens of thousands of readers who will enjoy these upcoming Special Issues of

SUMMER COUNTRY EARLY CAMP FRIENDSHIP DAY CAMP CHILDHOOD Bracha Arnan, B.A., Director Cheryl Stern, M.S., Director DAY CAMP Sharona Arbeit, M.S. Ed., Directors: Co-Director Melissa Wienerkur, B.A. Five to Ten Years Old Good Health Barbara Harrison, M.S. Five to Fourteen Years Old Call us for registration and Two to Five Years Old Call us for registration and Publishing February 13 fee information Call us for registration and fee information at 516-569-6733 x 218 fee information at 516-569-6733 x 204 at 516-239-1354 207 Grove Avenue, Cedarhurst, NY 11516 Deadline to Phone: 516-569-6733 * Fax: 516-569-6917 reserve space is www.fivetownsjcc.org Monday, February 9 at 10am 259335 For more information please contact your sales representative or our publisher, Mayer Fertig, at [email protected] or 516-632-5205 ext. 4 258634 The Jewish Star January 30, 2009 11 Counting down to summer What’s in store at sleepaway camps for 2009 BY YAFFI SPODEK shiny new bunkhouses, sports Camp Morasha campers and their parents, celebrities on campus or a Camp Morasha, located in where parents will be partici- unique summer theme, camp On the heels of winter Lake Como, PA, is gearing up pating from New York via tele- directors already have extensive break, The Jewish Star is look- for a fun-filled season. conference. There will also be plans underway to guarantee ing ahead to the summer to “Everything that we did last fresh twists added to enhance their campers the summer of a explore the fun that awaits summer was so traditional Morasha favorites lifetime. campers in 2009. Whether it’s successful that such as Color we’re doing it War and the all again,” said Olympics, Jeremy Joszef, Joszef said. Morasha’s pro- “I am really looking forward Katz explains that the girls- gram director. Camp Shoshanim “We’re continu- to another awe- Camp Shoshanim, a new only environment will be inte- some summer,” gral to each camper’s personal ing all of our program for girls entering he added. “There will also be an achievements and overall devel- exciting pro- Camp Seneca Lake grades three through nine, will The camp is expansion of our special needs opment. grams — pool Camp Seneca Lake, in open its doors for one session also excited to programs for younger campers “Camp Shoshanim gives parties, con- Honesdale, PA will mark its this summer. Led by Director announce that to be fully integrated into the you the opportunity to see who certs and our 36th year this summer by host- Esther Katz, Shoshanim is one its theme for camp,” said camp director Irv you are and learn who you are sleepover party ing two new post-season sports of the New Jersey Y camps, and 2009 will be Bader. “For the last 35 years, without being tested and in an arcade, programs, open to both Seneca the second Orthodox one after R.E.S.P.E.C.T. Seneca has had the best special judged,” she says. “It’s not and once again campers and outsiders. Camp Nesher, where Katz has — an acronym needs program, integrating kids important where you come we are having There will be one program served as head counselor. for Rebbeim, Elders, Self, Past, with CP and other conditions, so from, what clothes you wear, or our six day road trip, where for girls, incorporating volley- “We are offering a new Environment, Creator, Tefilah — that they can benefit from a what school you go to...It’s campers fly down to Florida and ball, tennis and basketball, with level of programming to explore with each week of the summer mainstream environment.” about learning and experiencing drive back up to camp through six instruction given by WNBA play- things the girls can do, and do dedicated to one of these ele- Infrastructure improve- things that you’re not going to states, which is pretty unique for a ers. The boys’ program will on a professional level,” ments. Campers will learn about ments for 2009 include a new be tested on, and exploring sleepaway camp.” focus solely on basketball, with explained Katz, an educator each aspect of the theme and will dining room, as well as a giant nature and the world around Morasha is planning to host clinics run by NBA coaches. who lives in West Hempstead. participate in related activities and water slide added to the pool. you. a new activity — a live, interac- “Camp is not school. Girls can tive game show between chesed projects. be everything they want to The camp is not targeting See COUNTING DOWN TO SUMMER, Page 12 be...We are going ratchet every- girls exclusively from the tri- thing up a level and give camp state area. So far close to 15 an element that has not been girls have registered, some from available until now.” as far as Detroit, and Katz is Due to its affiliation with aiming to have 100 girls for the the 92nd Street Y, Camp inaugural summer. Shoshanim will be able to host a The camp site is about a variety of experts in the fields of mile away from Camp Nesher, sports and science. in an existing location in Lake Former New York Yankee Como, PA, used to house elderly Ron Blomberg, Major League people. Amenities include car- Baseball’s first designated hitter, peted rooms, a heated swim- is scheduled to come and ming pool, and a ropes course, instruct the campers, as is Herb with activities such as boating, Brown, a former coach of the jet-skiing, ceramics and horse- Detroit Pistons. The camp also back riding available on the has a partnership with Maccabi premises. and is hoping to bring in tennis The season runs from June instructors from Israel. 29 through July 23, with a spe- In the nature department, cial tuition discount offered for different professors from the charter campers and their sib- Weizmann Institute of Science lings who attend the first sum- will join the camp to explore mer. For more information astronomy and stargaze with about Camp Shoshanim, visit the girls as part of Shoshanim’s their web site at www.camp- starry night program. shoshanim.org.

■ ■ ■ Camp Nesher Nesher, another New Jer- sey Y camp, is offering an exciting new program for campers aged 12 and over this sum- mer: the opportu- nity to earn a jet- skiing license. “Campers can take a practical learning course to earn a personal license to drive a jet ski,” explained Jeff Braverman, Nesher’s director. and a basketball clinic with NBA Other highlights of the coach Herb Brown. 259382 summer will include a baseball “We are happy to be able to clinic with past players Ron open and run a good camp this Blomberg and Elliot Maddox, summer,” said Braverman.

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Continued from Page Eleven that didn’t happen,” quipped Eli Gerstner, the producer and com- Camp Mesorah poser behind the Yeshiva Boys Camp Mesorah is entering Choir and the Chevra, and a its 20th summer with plans solo performer as well. underway for a merger with Last year’s concert dubbed Sportstar Academy and its direc- The Big Event was canceled tor, Joseph Stanksy. Stanksy will before Schmeltzer ever took the join the Mesorah team in Guil- stage, victim to a controversial Toomer to the camp, where he ties will be sports-related. All ford, NY as a principal owner, rabbinic ban enacted at the will teach campers different campers will be able to enjoy an bringing along his sports exper- behest of a single individual sports strategies and techniques. upgraded canteen. tise to ensure an innovative who, it is widely believed, mis- Toomer will be joined by other The camp is also excited to summer of fun. led prominent rabbis concerning athletes throughout the sum- welcome aboard a new boys “Our new owner is making the nature of the planned per- mer, including a player from the head counselor, Rabbi Yitzy his mark felt and there will be formance. New York Knicks. Klapper, who was previously on certain upgrades to the camp,” The Event in March will Mesorah campers, particu- staff in Mesorah’s Teen pro- said Mark Zomick, who heads feature a tribute by the compos- larly boys, can look forward to gram. Mesorah’s advertising and mar- er Abie Rotenberg to Rabbi Eli an enhanced and more focused “We are combining the best keting campaign. “One of the Teitelbaum z”l, Mendlowitz’s sports program, which will of Mesorah and Sportstar...and qualities of Sportstar is to invite mentor who passed away sud- include more instruction and there is a lot going on — pro- athletes up to camp for an denly last year. the option to participate in a gramming for in camp and out extended period of time.” Rabbi Teitelbaum enjoyed a two-week course where three or of camp activities so that kids Mesorah plans to welcome varied career. He was an ele- four of the week’s night activi- won’t be bored,” Zomick added. New York Giants receiver Amani mentary school educator, a camp director, a pioneer in fur- ■ ■ ■ thering Torah study through technology, and is considered one of the founding fathers of Camp Dora Golding Photo courtesy Dovid Teitelbaum modern-day Orthodox Jewish Camp Dora Golding is excit- Rabbi Eli Teitelbaum z”l, to be subject of musical tribute at The Event. ed to announce the addition of music. seven new air-conditioned He produced the first bunks with custom built in beds Pirchei Boys Choir recording in talk to their families, they’re live in Williamsburg but their and cubbies to their campus in the late 60s — it was one of the there to watch the show,” he hearts can be of Five Towns.” East Stroudsberg, PA. Campers first popular religious Jewish said. Mendlowitz also stressed In September, a Bnei Brak will also enjoy a new miniature acts, and was one of a number that he intends for the concert man, Efraim Luft, appointed golf course that is being built on of other Jewish music projects to be “meaningful” and “inspira- himself to head what he called the premises. he was involved with, including tional.” the Committee on Jewish Music, “Everything else is pretty the Camp Sdei Chemed choir, Mendlowitz is arguably the and promptly blacklisted Lipa much the same and the recipe part of his travel camp for boys biggest producer in Orthodox and a number of Jewish music seems to be working,” said Exec- in Israel. Before Torah study Jewish music. He introduced artists for what he called lead- utive Director Alex Gold. “We’re online was even a glimmer of an Avrohom Fried to the world, ing the “public astray and caus- sold out for the month of July idea he developed Dial-a-Daf producing his first LP, featuring ing a great negative influence and have a couple of spots left and related services, which “Keil Hahodaos” and “No Jew on the young generation.” He for August.” allowed thousands to study Will Be Left Behind.” He was also announced bans on the use At Camp Dina, Dora Gold- Torah over the telephone. The also the creator of the big-bud- of electric guitars, bass, and sax- ing’s girls’ counterpart in Ding- service was housed in his home get HASC concert series; he’s ophones in Jewish music. man’s Ferry, PA, campus existing one to give more room Two bunkhouses on the in Borough Park, in racks of produced 17 of those shows in Schmeltzer, who has faced improvements are being made for our campers,” Gold campus are also being extended, equipment lining his basement. the last 23 years. The concert is harsh censure in the charedi as well. explained. “We are remodeling “to allow the influx of campers” After last year’s concert was also setting the stage for a big- world, did not hold back. “A separate family dining our camper dining room, to be who want to attend the camp, canceled at a heavy financial ger model in Jewish music, with “Music is a matter of taste room is being built on to the insulated, with dropped ceilings Gold added. loss for both Mendlowitz and the cheapest seats going close to and not everybody has the same and air conditioning.” Schmeltzer, Rabbi Teitelbaum $50. Part of the proceeds of the taste,” he asserted. “We try to ■ ■ ■ reassured Mendlowitz that the event will go to Jerusalem Open bring people closer and that’s it. next concert would be bigger. House, a charity that operates So somebody doesn’t like our Camp Ma Na Vu where campers jump off a The camp is excited to con- Unfortunately, he didn’t live to soup kitchens in Israel. music –– if you don’t like it, Camp Ma Na Vu, in bungee onto a trampoline. tinue its popular Chevra pro- see if his prediction would be The current economic don’t buy it. But to make a state- Parksville, NY is planning to “Every year we come up gram for ninth graders, “which fulfilled; in Mendlowitz’s words, gloom has opened the extrava- ment that Beth Din Shamaim” build a brand new bunkhouse with something new,” said Ma includes special trips and The Event is his own way of gant show to criticism that it is the heavenly court, doesn’t for their senior campers this Na Vu’s director, Rabbi Shlomo intense learning, and is very “giving back” to Rabbi Teitel- inappropriate at this particular approve? summer. They also hope to Klein. “This summer, the older successful,” Rabbi Klein said. “It baum. time, which Lipa Schmeltzer, “Then tomorrow you bring expand upon last year’s innova- campers are going on a trip to looks like we’re going to have A revamped Pirchei Choir who answered his phone in up a child and he doesn’t under- tion, Euro bungee jumping, Niagara Falls.” another very successful season.” –– really a unit of Gerstner’s song, readily refuted. stand the differences between Yeshiva Boys’ Choir –– will offer “Now is really the time to listening to modern music and its own tribute to Rabbi Teitel- make a concert,” Schmeltzer missing z’man Kriyas Shema baum’s legacy; Mendlowitz explained. “This is the song I’m and keeping Shabbos. Because hopes it will signal a return to singing. In difficult times you you’re putting everything in the an older Jewish music sound. need to make people happy.” same bag. You have to know all “We’re hoping it’ll go more Schmeltzer, who took care the priorities.” retro,” he explained by phone to note that his new album, In light of last year’s diffi- aswim on a Friday morning, referring “Non-stop Lipa,” will be out by culties, Mendlowitz and compa- to the direction of Jewish music. the time this article appears, ny aren’t taking any chances. In a conversation during a break also railed against “extremists” They have secured rabbinic in a recording session he said, and said that in a more open approval for the concert from “It’s my belief that we should society concerts have become a four well-regarded New York program keep and preserve the flavor of necessity. rabbis. Jewish music that was influ- “We’re living in a goyish Meanwhile, there are big- enced by European taste from world where everything is ger plans on the horizon. hundreds of years ago.” reachable and doable,” “We hope for Moshiach,” headed The concert will also have Schmeltzer told The Jewish Mendlowitz concluded. “That separate seating, possibly a risky Star. “To make Judaism beauti- will be the biggest event and I move since the target audience ful is only by giving kids an out- believe the time is very, very is mainly families, but Mend- let. If not, they’ll wear the same near. Even if I don’t get to pro- lowitz professes to be confident. thing but by 19 and 20 they’ll duce that event, I’d like to be a by a fish. “They’re not there to sit and do what they want. They can part of it.” FIND A SUMMER CAMP The Hillel Day Camp swim program gets rave reviews every summer. Our campers have swim twice a day so they receive a full period of instruction and free swim. 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