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Need more information? www.bullying.co.uk www.kidshealth.org www.childline.org.uk www.kidscape.org.uk www.anti- bullyingalliance.org.uk www.nspcc.org.uk For www.stopbullying.gov students Leaflet created in 2014 by the Bedford Borough Youth Cabinet campaign group. For 87% of parents reported that more information please email [email protected] their child has been bullied in the past 12 months Scenario 1 (www.beatbullying.org statistic) Your Friend is being bullied at school. Do you…. A tell a teacher B stay with your friend C ignore the situation What is bullying? How can you see What can you do Verbal abuse signs of bullying? if your friend is Isolation being bullied? Cyber bullying Skipping school Being scared Threatening Tell a teacher / Physical abuse Being frightened Isolating themselves member of staff Tell your parents 69% of children in the UK Being upset or being Tell a person you trust report being bullied angry (www.beatbullying.org statistic) Stay with them and be 20% reported bullying others a good friend In Bedford Borough in (www.beatbullying.org statistic) 2012/13 there was a survey 85% have witnessed bullying (www.beatbullying.org statistic) carried out and 90% of 1 in 3 young people who people said it was wrong to experience bullying truant 82% have tried to stop the be threatened from school (www.beatbullying.org statistic) bullying they have seen (www.beatbullying.org statistic) 83% of people have been verbally abused C – You ignore your friend so they have B – You stayed with them and the bullying A – You told a teacher so the bullying has been bullied so much they have dropped out has died down but not stopped stopped and you are really good friends of school .

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