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Straight Answers To Parents’ Most Frequently Asked Questions About Potty Training Their Kids
By
Johanne and Greg Cesar
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Are girls easier to potty train than boys?
Since I have three boys, it's easy for me to say boys are difficult!
But on a serious note, I worked in the child care field for many years, and I have trained both boys and girls – more than 300 in all.
It's hard to say who is harder to train. Boys and girls are probably just about even.
However, what I will say is that girls are usually more advanced than boys. So they can be trained earlier than boys. They also seem to learn faster than boys as well.
But in the end the frustrations, trials, and tribulations are identical. Girls will give you the same problems that a boy will give you. So if you do have a girl, I am sorry to tell you it is no easier.
Here is the way to look at it: children of a young age are only children. They are not girls or boys yet. They are just little young kids looking at the world with open eyes. It's later on in life when society starts to say you are a girl so do this, or you are a boy so do that. So if you have a boy, don't treat him like he's slow or behind.
The one disadvantage to potty training a boy is control. I’ll explain this when we get to that question.
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Are pull-ups or plastic training pants best?
Let me start by telling you about the day my kids turned 2. That was the day I started potty training them. And the very first rule was no diapers during the wake up hours.
That means that as long as their eyes are open, they are not allowed to wear a diaper. Only in very limited circumstances would I put a diaper on my son while potty training during the daytime.
Have you ever heard the saying "If it looks like duck, quacks like a duck, and walks like a duck, it must be a duck?" A duck is a duck no matter how you look at it. By the same token, a diaper is a diaper – no matter what fancy name you call it!
So whether it’s a diaper, a pull up, or plastic pants, it does two things.