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Register now and get double ICBCH NLP Certification at NLPCertificationBoard.com Ancient NLP Dr. Richard Nongard Class notes and complete full transcript. https://www.nlpcertificationboard.com Board Notes: What is NLP? Neuro-Linguistic Programming • Psychological method • Interpersonal guide • Systemizing Success • Understanding mind/body, thoughts/actions, and patterns/people MODELING EXCELLENCE ANCHORING Bandler & Grinder “The tendency of one element of an experience to revivify the whole experience.” Robert Diltz “Stimuli that will consistently recreate an experience” NINE HAND SEALS • Rin – Thunderbolt • To – Outer Lion Scripture that anchors resource states: • Psalm 23 • Matthew 6:28 • Psalm 139 • I Peter 5:7 It Works! by Roy H. Jarett 1.) List 2.) Think and dwell 3.) Keep it a secret Copyright 2020 Dr. Richard Nongard Page 1 of 12 NLPCertificationBoard.com Register now and get double ICBCH NLP Certification at NLPCertificationBoard.com Guiguzi Main Points Guizuzi: The Sage of Ghost Valley 1.) Open or closed, a door is still a door and opportunity can be found on either side of it. 2.) Reflect and respond to spoken word to know about others, create connection and maximize impact 3.) When utilizing the intent of others properly, you can enter and exit at your will; you can stay as close or as far as you wish. You can make them pursue you; you can make them miss you like a mother trapdoor spider. 4.) Connection can be created by mending or breaking. Sky and earth come together and apart, they start somewhere and end somewhere. Connection can be created by understanding the natural laws of mend and break. 5.) Agree or disagree: Captivating words are persuasive speech. To establish authority and manage business, one must investigate difference and similarity, differentiate a speech of truth from a lie, and tell the essence of a speech from an embellishment. 6.) Resist or reconcile: It is impossible to make plans and strategies loyal to both sides, which necessitates converting to one and resisting the other. 7.) Weighing: The assessment of capacity: Calculate the big and the small to strategize in accord to the capacity. 8.) Gauging: Subtly gauge the desires of others and measure their depth to probe them. What occurs internally in response will show external signs. 9.) Assessing: The mouth is a mechanism, by means of which one can shut down or open up feeling and ideas. Ears and eyes lend aids to the heart by means of which one can sense and discern treachery and malevolence. The three move in coordinate in response and move in harmony to strengthen the Dao. 10.) The principle of practice: When two parties who share the same aversion are close, both of them get hurt. When two parties who share the same aversion estrange each one other, one of them gets hurt. Therefore, people who benefit each other become close; people who cause losses to one another are estranged. This is what unites and divides people. 11.) All decision-makers begin with questions. Prudent use of questions brings about good fortune; improper utilization brings about adversity. 12.) Regions governed by the principles of stability, savior-faire, scrupulosity, and serenity enjoy prosperity without exception. TRANSCRIPT OF SEMINAR I'm really excited that you've decided to join me for this webinar series. We're going to be talking about ancient NLP. When I first posted this on social media, somebody said to me, "What? You're going to go all the way back to 1969?" Actually, we're going to go back 5,000 years in this webcast. Some people say to me, of course, "How is that possible?" After all, Richard Bandler and John Grinder articulated the ideas of neuro-linguistic programming in the late 1960s, in the early 1970s. King Solomon said something amazing, and that is that there is nothing new under the sun. Copyright 2020 Dr. Richard Nongard Page 2 of 12 NLPCertificationBoard.com Register now and get double ICBCH NLP Certification at NLPCertificationBoard.com We can see that even though it wasn't described as neuro-linguistic programming in earlier ancient literature, the techniques, the methods, the ideas behind neuro-linguistic programming are actually ideas that have endured the test of time. Sure, Bandler and Grinder's fantastic contribution of systemizing this and helping us to really understand the mechanisms of neuro-linguistic programming are important, but the great thing about not limiting ourselves to a modern era approach to neuro- linguistic programming is that we can create new patterns from a wide range of different resources, both eastern and western. For those I haven't had the chance to meet before, I'm Dr. Richard Nongard. I'm the president of the ICBCH. When this webinar is over, I hope you're so excited and so enthused by the endless possibilities to look both in the current era and in years gone by to find methods that can truly help produce change, that you'll join me for our ICBCH double certification program. The program is all online, and participants in that course earn both certification as an ICBCH professional NLP practitioner as well as an ICBCH certified life coach. I'm really looking forward to the content in today's webcast, because you're going to end this webcast with a new set of ideas, a new set of strategies that are going to help you in the work that you do, whether you're working in business, or sales or whether you're working in therapy or counseling, or whether you're working with individuals in your community, helping the community to become a better place and applying these principles in your own life as well. Let's get right into the material here. By the way, I will provide you with a PDF of the course notes, so you don't have to worry about not being able to read my handwriting on the board. In fact, you'll find it right below this video. It's a PDF you can open up and print out with the notes that I have on the board here. Let's start by talking about what is neuro-linguistic programming. Reality is if you ask this to just about anybody, you'll find a similar but different set of answers. I like to describe NLP which is neuro-linguistic programming as a psychological method. Now, I am licensed as a psychotherapist. I'm a licensed marriage and family therapist. I've been doing professional therapy now for 30 years, almost made myself older than I actually am. I have used neuro- linguistic programming as a strategy to help my clients achieve their highest level of potential. As a certified professional hypnotist, I've incorporated the techniques of neuro-linguistic programming into the hypnotherapy that I offer to help people create faster responses, more predictable outcomes, and to help them achieve success at really a faster level than maybe they even expected themselves. I view NLP as a psychological method. It deals with our emotions. It deals with our resource states. It deals with all of the aspects of how we go about thinking and how we can go about changing the automatic or the unconscious thought patterns. Neuro-linguistic programming is also a guide to interpersonal relationships. Would you like to be a more effective communicator? Would you like to be able to communicate more persuasively or with greater levels of influence? That's important if you have children. It's also important if you supervise employees. These communication and interpersonal guide skills that come from NLP have applications across relationships, both personal as well as professional. I'm very lucky that I was exposed to neuro-linguistic programming when I was just 18 years old. That was 37 years ago, maybe 38 years ago, because my birthday is this month. The reality is I've used the techniques and the strategies to build effective friendships, business relationships, and to navigate the difficulties of life in many different ways with the many different people I've encountered by being confident in my ability to use effective communication patterns to persuade, to influence, to bring people together and to create a sense of community. Neuro-linguistic programming is really the systemizing of success. What Richard Bandler and John Grinder did in the late 1960s, early 1970s is they said, "Hey, let's take a look at some therapists who are Copyright 2020 Dr. Richard Nongard Page 3 of 12 NLPCertificationBoard.com Register now and get double ICBCH NLP Certification at NLPCertificationBoard.com known for being highly effective at helping people make change." They picked three people to look at originally. There have been many other exemplars in NLP over the years, but originally, they looked at Fritz Perls, the creator of Gestalt therapy. What is it about his language, the way he works with individuals, the techniques that he's using, produces such profound change? They looked at Virginia Satir from the Family Therapy Institute of California, a renowned family therapist. In any family therapy training program today, they still teach and talk about the methods of Virginia Satir. Bandler and Grinder worked with her to try to distill the techniques that she was using in her therapy to help families come together and function at their greatest level of potential, went down to Phoenix, Arizona in the early 1970s, spent time with Milton Erickson. Milton Erickson was a medical doctor who was a renowned medical hypnotist, who's a psychiatrist, and he treated individuals in his medical approach with hypnotherapy. He's really considered the father of modern medical hypnotherapy.