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We Value Humility) Pastor Dave Lomas, Reality San Francisco Sermon Transcript from October 16th, 2016 God Is God and I’m Not (We Value Humility) Pastor Dave Lomas, Reality San Francisco We are in a series now on our vision statement. So, we're in a vision and values series that we started last week. Here's the vision of our church. If you are new to our church, if you've not been to Welcome to Reality or if you have been a part of this church but don't know it yet, here it is. Our vision statement, it's on our website and we communicate this all sorts of ways when we do events. It's like the grid that we see everything through as a church. Here it is. The first part of this has been our vision from the very beginning, since before the church was even started. This was the vision. Then, we added the second part of it just a couple years into the church. It's this: "We are a community following Jesus, seeking renewal in our city." A community following Jesus, seeking renewal in our city. I love that. I love the simplicity of it. I also think it's very profound as well. I hope that you would commit it to memory. A few years ago, we wanted to know what it would feel like in the culture of our church, in our lives, like felt experience or collective experience of what it would feel like to live into this vision. What would it be if that's the vision? We say that. We're a community following Jesus, seeking renewal in our city. What does that feel like? What is the culture that accomplishes this vision? So, we did a whole deep dive into what we discovered were our values. So, right now we're in a series on our values. It's a four-week series on the four values, our expressed values as a church. And they are this: Faith, humility, hospitality and rootedness. Faith, humility, hospitality and rootedness. What we believe it feels like to be a community following Jesus, seeking renewal in our city. That experience. How we know if we're actually doing those things as if we as a people are living into faith – as we talked about last week – as we're living into humility, as we're cultivating hospitality and rootedness. That's what we think the experience should be like to be a part of the mission or the vision of our church. So, these values shape the way that we see everything. If you're in a community group, these values are not new for you. You've gone through these in community group. For some of you, they are. So, what we're doing every week is we're stopping, we're taking one of these values and we're kind of extrapolating on it. What are we talking about when we talk about this value? What are we talking about when we talk about humility? That's today. What are we talking about when we talk about faith? That was last week. So, today, I want to talk about the value of humility. Now, to teach on humility is really a fool's errand, because who in the world wants to teach on humility? And I won't talk long, because humility is one of the shyest of virtues. When you start talking about humility, it goes away. Have you ever noticed that? Has anyone ever called you humble? Someone walks up to you, "Oh my gosh, you're so humble." You're like, "What? Oh, yeah. I was." And it's gone. Humility is gone. As soon as you start talking about humility, it's shy. It's like, "Oh, don't talk about me," and it leaves. So, this sermon won't be very long. I promise. But, let me read to you a text of where we're coming from, where we're launching from. John 1:19. It's about John the Baptist. And then we'll go to John 3:22. John 1:19: "Now this was John's testimony when the Jewish leaders in Jerusalem sent priests and Levites to ask him who he was. He did not fail to confess, but confessed freely, 'I am not the Messiah.' "They asked him, 'Then who are you? Are you Elijah?' "He said, 'I am not.' "'Are you the Prophet?' "He answered, 'No.' "They finally said, 'Who are you? Give us an answer to take back to those who sent us. What do you say about yourself?' "John replied in the words of Isaiah the Prophet, 'I am the voice of one in the wilderness, 'Make straight the way for the Lord.''" John 3:22-30: "After this, Jesus and his disciples went into the Judean countryside, where he spent some time with them, and baptized. Now John the Baptist was also baptizing at Aenon near Salim, because there was plenty of water, and people were coming to be baptized. (This was before John was put in prison.) An argument developed between some of John's disciples and a certain Jew over the matter of ceremonial washing. They came to John the Baptist and said to him, 'Rabbi, that man who was with you on the other side of the Jordan–the one you testified about–look, he is baptizing, and everyone is going to him' "To this John replied, 'A person can receive only what is given them from heaven. You yourselves can testify that I said, 'I am not the Messiah but am sent ahead of him.' The bride belongs to the bridegroom. The friend who attends the bridegroom waits and listens for him, and is full of joy when he hears the bridegroom's voice. That joy is mine, and it is now complete. He must become greater; I must become less.'" That is God's Word. Let's pray. Lord, I'm reminded of Your words in Matthew where You say that anyone who is weary and heavy laden to come to You and find rest and then You offer us Your yoke, Your teachings, and You say, "Take my yoke upon you." And You said, "Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for you are gentle and humble in heart." There is something about the way that we follow You, Lord, and the way that we take Your yoke upon us that we have to learn how to be lowly and humble, and we need help there, God. We all need help, especially the evangelical church today needs help with humility. So, teach us humility, God. Give us the strength to humble ourselves, to forget even the people around us and what people might think as we humble ourselves. Today, would you give me the wisdom to speak about this subject. I submit all of my capacities to You and I ask You, Lord, please lead me. And God, would You, together, teach us the Scriptures and teach us this value of humility as we embody it as a church community? I desperately want this church community to embody humility, Lord. Help us, God. Go before us. Give us Your Spirit. Lead us and teach us now. In Jesus' name, amen. Humility is the second most frequently taught virtue in the New Testament. Humility is the second most frequently taught virtue in the New Testament. Second only to love. Humility, alongside of love, is the soil in which all the other virtues grow. So, any virtue that you want to grow in, it has to grow in the soil of humility. Andrew Murray, in his classic book on humility, says, "Humility is the only soil in which virtue take root." If we are to grow up into Christ, if we are, as a community, to grow into maturity, if we are to tackle our weaknesses and our sins, if we are to grow into character and move towards character, to move towards Christ's likeness, it must grow in the soil of humility. Now, we talk a lot about love. Our culture talks a lot about love. And our culture receives and accepts the idea of love. So much so that love is a universally valued virtue today. Everyone values love today. And to be unloving, well that's the worst form of critique in our time. If you told anyone that they're being unloving towards any people group, that is a very bad form of critique. But, what about humility? Humility isn't something we talk about a lot in our culture, church culture or otherwise. Humility is mainly seen as weakness, mostly. If you're humble, then you're weak. And it's not a desired virtue in our world of status and accomplishments and politics. And when humility is talked about in our culture, it's typically talked about in the form of not being humble. We all know this as the "humble brag," if you know what a humble brag is. In confession, pastors are the worst at humble bragging. Like, the worst. Even when I'm even saying this, God save me from myself. This is what a humble brag is: it's a statement that initially sounds humble because it uses the word "humble." But, it's only used to brag about something that you're a part of. That's what a humble brag is. Let me give you an example. "I'm so humbled to be leading an amazing church that I'm a part of." Okay? It says the word "humble" in it.
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